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Yeah sure if you look at it that way, but it's all a matter of perspective and logistics. One can easily counter argue this by saying that most sperm don't even make it to the egg, but at the same time only one egg is fertilized among all the eggs that are made but slowly are lost over age.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 03:45 PM
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The threat of homelessness.
/r/MensRights13/06/25 03:59 AM
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Basically anything that would destroy the reputation and credibility of women is circlejerk. Goes as far as the Bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:44 AM
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The answer is going back full stop.b
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:37 AM
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but the thing with these pua are, people from their church, work, school, and neighborhood all shunned them, so thats why they have to cold approach. but the real question they should be asking is, why were they shunned by their peers to begin with Did they? Or they just couldn't find partners in these areas? Why were they shunned? Because women and society rejected them? They didn't fit in? Wrong race, wrong personality, wrong hobbies, wrong city, wrong environment, wrong country, wrong looks, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:34 AM
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I guarantee most men in relationships did not cold approach to get into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:27 AM
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And I still maintain there are men who stayed inside instead of going out to social events and opportunities without any such "shunning" being a pre-requisite. If you never put yourself out there, you can't say you were shunned I know it's hard to believe but men give up after they try. I know shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:26 AM
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Manospherians tend to overinflate this approach because they lack the social skills to have the kinds of social networking that lead to warmer approaches, so going around cold-calling women is their primary resort when it should be one of the last Have to be places to socialize in the first place, which don't actually exist in 2025. Those places are dying or dead and replace by online. Of course you blame social skills but a woman's idea of communicating is having men initiate, read their minds,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:24 AM
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I mean you can make this caricature all you want but after 35 you're a geriatric pregnancy and effectively dead in the water. Sorry not sorry. Truth is it is still at least way more likely a man can get a relationship, than a woman will be able or willing to have children or settle down, since they are all broken by the feminist propaganda. Enjoy being happy alone and arguing on reddit with low life men meanwhile lmao. Clock is ticking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:18 AM
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He's also probably white.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:12 AM
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Yeah it doesn't matter. Knowing this changes nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:11 AM
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you can get a cute young gf, while having no real job or money and being pretty average looking from just being goofy and funny (i've seen so many of these couples in HS and Uni. To get a cute 20 y/o gf at 35 you have to be career maxed, money maxed, gym maxxed, social and decently attractive. Both are just as unlikely so it doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:09 AM
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Too bad. Women peak by nature by 35 then and men still at least have a chance past 35. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:08 AM
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Too late buddy. We don't live in normal times. Women wait till 30 to consider settling down and having children despite having sex, men can't get any relationship or sex because women only sleep with the top men. Give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:05 AM
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That's what happens when you give women nothing but freedom and men duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:01 AM
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As it should be. It's a danger to society if we aren't having children, , raising families and living alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:59 AM
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Yeah he will say this but won't critique promiscuous women and obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:58 AM
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Female selectivity is important for our species to mate select healthy offspring and not weak genes. Naturalistic fallacy at its finest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:57 AM
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We would be better off without it and it's dead wrong. What good is it doing for society that women have all these freedoms at the expense of their personal freedom? Are women even better off or happier now? Do you want a world where boys and girls are becoming fathers and mothers with children or a world where everybody is only in it for themselves, single, and hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:41 AM
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It's true. Going to other countries levels the playing field tremendously assuming you were born in America. Even if you aren't ugly it still can be difficult and isolating in America or any western co in entry. The tables can turn for an "incel" overnight just by going to a different country where women don't have all these privileges and advantages over you. Plus you can be exotic or appealing but only if you are physically attractive enough. If you are not it's either prostitution or being us…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:36 AM
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Dark triad is real. Don't deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:31 AM
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It's true. Women prefer the bad boy, jock, and criminal over the nice guy or good guy This is dating 101. Bad boy =meaner and more more misogynistic. There is also overlap with being physically attractive or physically stronger showing "dominance" In the bad boy archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:31 AM
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The men who struggle here, do not have sex and the reasons for that are mostly not because of their misogyny. Autism, social isolation, low confidence, niceguy-behavior, etc. come to mind. Number one reason is looks, all that other stuff about personality is irrelevant without looks first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:26 AM
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Because being nice and treating women with respect gets you nowhere. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:25 AM
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Like you said "Misogyny" that people think incels have isn't because they are actually inherently misogynists. If incels were actually the misogynists that women proclaim them to be in the first place they would have a better chance of being a type of relationship or sex because women are attracted to evil and bad men. They probably wouldn't be in the position at all in all likelihood. That's why criminals get love letters and lovers in prison. An incel has a better chance of getting a girlfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:24 AM
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Men who are willing to push against boundaries are higher dominance, which also means they are more likely to abuse and assault. So in other words men that abuse and assault are more attractive to women. And makes them wet if I'm following this correctlyz according to your logic. Not exactly a good precedent to set here. Imagine your father hearing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:17 AM
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You are missing that the misogynistic men here are too passive and neurotic, which makes pussy dry. Misogynistic men who can seduce women will have a lot of casual sex regardless because they are not hampered by any supposed resistances. Except you don't get causal sex just because you are not passive in western society. That requires looks. This is exactly how you get a sexual harassment charge with this attitude. "Supposed resistances" isn't the line you want to cross when it's clear that wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:15 AM
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It just "warps" you into the dark truth about life, but only if you're willing to look into the abyss. Others call it you being a victim, some call it a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:02 AM
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They’ve rejected themselves to courting even giving woman a chance to make a decision. Women reject men first, then men receive the message with their hearts broken and shattered into pieces. That's usually how it goes. I asked men in a daily discussion post if they don’t date why. Most of them were along the lines of being passive and not trying for one reason or another. Yes that's what happens when you are discouraged and morale is low. You go on dating apps and your self esteem gets destroye…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:56 AM
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That's a long way of saying that neurotic and passive men are worse than misogynistic men. Good to know that decent good fairing men are perceived worse than human scum. Don't even get me started with career criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:48 AM
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In other words do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:47 AM
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So does the opposite way around lol. You can't just sit back do nothing and expect the man to notice you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:46 AM
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Life is full of rejection and that’s a good thing. Brandnewsentence /r on display here. Sometimes they’ve deduced wrongly, so many average men on here they aren’t good enough, it doesn’t help that social media makes it seem like top tier men don’t face any rejection. No we haven't. It's not worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:45 AM
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Or if they could find relationships, it was with low quality men. Basically hobosexuals, abusers, men who were insanely clingy or extremely avoidant, man children, etc. Basically walking red flags. They are just as many "low quality women" as men but nobody holds them accountable and blames them. It's Funny how "low quality men" can't get relationships and sex but women have no issues getting those. I can list the same shit in reverse for a female version like promiscuity and being a "gold digge…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:43 AM
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The complaint wasn’t that they couldn’t get dates. It’s that they couldn’t find relationships. Just men looking for sex or situationships. Couldn't find relationships in this context is like saying I went to the grocery store or refrigerator and I couldn't find something to eat. And we all know these places were filled to the brim, but yet here you're the one that's spoiled. know most women don’t say this. But I haven’t been asked on a date by any of the men I’ve matched with. I’ve had some DM m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:24 AM
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Yes she is. She's a woman therefore she is entitled to a man's money, protection, initiation, affirmation, peacocking, time, care, affection, effort all at the cost of merely existing. How dare you, you misogynist. A woman's duty is giving you the honor to accommodate her with her essence at your expense. Man up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:57 PM
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Or here's an idea you can socialize with me and make things easier to socialize with people. Takes two to tango. Has it ever occurred to you that some people are "asocial", because people don't treat them correctly? I don't owe you anything. Isn't that what you people like you say? Nobody is literally "demanding" anything but everything boils down to entitlement with you clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:53 PM
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You can either get over it and work through your discomfort or die alone. This is hilarious coming from a woman lmao. We all know women don't do shit to get into relationships hell even jobs for that matter but I digress. You ain't fooling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:48 PM
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If there's a reason they don't want someone in their life, it usually has to do with the person being seen as a negative in some way. The reason is them and their selfish individualistic reasons. People only care about themselves. If you don't like me that's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:45 PM
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The stigma with living with your parents is high for men and the stigma or consequences of hosting a party at your parents house is too great to bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:43 PM
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Men are quite often better in real life than they are on paper. If women aren’t choosing you online, go out and show them the parts of your personality that don’t come across in a dating app You're naive but I get it. If I was female I would say foolish stuff like this too, since everything is handed to me on a silver platter. You think it's simple, when it is actually is complex. You don't just go out. First off there has to be a place to go out. In the United States and westernized countries, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:40 PM
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Bold of you to assume there is hope and we don't live in a social dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:25 PM
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Friends don't exist. Everyone is using each other until they became useless to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:24 PM
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Doesn't reflect well on you since you spend on time on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:23 PM
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The power of female privilege on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:22 PM
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To be fair, truly average women (overweight ones) aren’t exactly flooded with genuine date offers either. *To be fair, truly average women aren't exactly looking for genuine date offers either. Fixed it for you. You are welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:31 PM
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Once messaging starts, that woman will basically receive back radio silence or harassment that sounds similar to insults from a Call of Duty lobby. Prove it. You expect me to believe extremely unattractive women are gonna get the same noise from extremely unattractive men too that have nobody? Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:28 PM
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You don't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:49 PM
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Naturalistic fallacy. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:48 PM
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Desperate for a bad boy and handsome guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:47 PM
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Yeah I'm pretty sure this demographic prefers criminals and bad boys just like the rest of women. They would abuse the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:44 PM
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Well it's practically impossible otherwise to measure it because women are that privileged. You would have to force the conditions like in a Noah Vincent experimental way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:41 PM
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It means the vast majority of them are full of shit when it comes to dating or sex and have no legitimate concept of being single or genuinely lonely nor alone entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:39 PM
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Don't care. If you cant be successful in easy mode that just means you're a shitty person. At least when men fail they know they have it a hundred times harder than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:34 PM
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. I couldn’t be happier if men decided to embrace being single a little more. It would also be better for their mental health. Except the men are actually single and women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:33 PM
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If they haven't it's their choice. Any one of them could date or have sex if they put in effort and weren't so choosy. What dudes? The dudes that are part of the 63% that are single? You have no leg to stand on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:31 PM
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Yeah it's pathetic and useless male bashing. If you do the opposite you just get banned or it won't make it on the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:28 PM
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I'm a woman who is into hookups. First of all i want to say that men have some rainbow image about what it means. Usually those men suck, and finding a guy that i would like to fuck twice is an issue. Sounds like you had a rough life. I'm truly sorry that you have so many options
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:26 PM
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Show me your tinder and dms and I'll show you mine then we can assess again whether or not you know what the word "single" means
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:25 PM
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If you have sex without marriage that's exactly what we call "hoes" lmao. You don't realize you signaled your own low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:11 PM
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Facts. Virgin women rather have a promiscuous men, just like how a women would rather have someone who loves with their wife than their mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:09 PM
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That’s why they complain so much that all women now are super slutty sluts, meanwhile those virgin/inexperienced women have been staying far away from these guys from the get go lmao. It’s all they choose to see Except virgin women don't want virgin men, otherwise virgin men wouldn't be virgin single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:08 PM
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Why you playing semantics. You know exactly what he means by virgin women. Nobody is playing these gymnastics when they say virgin men, only derision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:03 PM
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Meanwhile women lament that all their options are swamp water and refuse to settle down with the "nice guy". Be honest men are way more willing to settle down than women if given the choice. That's why men make all the rules like infidelity laws that instill morality. If it was up to women they would make society promiscuous, polygamous, but only for the top men. Not to mention some barbie feminist fantasy land when most men don't exist, do all the work but still worship them, while every girl i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:56 PM
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Men under 25 wanting long term relationships more than women is a huge generalization. Plenty of young women want serious, healthy relationships too. Saying most women under 25 just want to be “fucktoys” for men out of their league is not only insulting, it’s reductionist bullshit. Are you gonna back up it too lol? Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:53 PM
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There are a LOT of young women who never have any interest in casual hookups at any point in life, while most men at least want to try to play the field when they’re young. Do you have any statistics to support this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:52 PM
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If the roles were reversed and average men could be the fuck toy for sexy seductive women then men would do the same thing. Questionable at best. I would wager more men would be willing to have one monogamous partner than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:51 PM
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If women don't need men to "survive" then men don't need women either at all. It's a tragedy that ai female robots haven't been invented yet for men, let alone criminalizing prostitution in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:48 PM
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Plenty of broke, ugly guys have girlfriends. But they've developed a sense of humor and can make a girl laugh. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:20 PM
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Funny you say that when the success rate of arranged marriages is like 96% and the success rate of marriages for love is like 50/50 at best lmao. Building your foundation of a long term relationship on the feeling of happiness is a foolish foundation to stand on. It's been possible for thousands of years until the last couple hundreds of years. I'm sorry to tell yeah but people had to make sacrifices for the sake of survival, community, tradition, children , and family. Happiness meant fuck all.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:10 PM
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Strangest thing about red/black pilled men: they admittedly select and pursue women based on sexual attraction to her appearance, yet pretend women are superficial if they reject men based on a lack of sexual attraction to him. Yeah it's so weird until your realize the most basic principle or red pilled and black pilled content, is that most women only like a small certain men for sex and most men like most women sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:05 PM
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So you agree women are boring and annoying? Who wants to communicate with women as a man , besides sex when they act like big children most of the time spending their time on social media being "narcissistic" and frivolous. Do women have anything sophisticated to say or contribute to society? Seriously what's the point? I don't give a fuck what you think or say as a woman. I couldn't care less about your problems or who you are. There is zero reason for any men to talk to women as a friend besid…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:22 PM
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not that men don’t know what attracts women, it’s that what attracts women is an unrefined man that will topple society, and good, smart men, want to force themselves to become a piece of shit just to reproduce. That reminds me of this video https://fb.watch/A2K10n3tBl/ 😂. This exactly how it goes in the red pill when you get past the red pill rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:44 PM
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If you think the only thing men are referring to is TV shows and media when they say society is lying to you. You're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:36 PM
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A lot of 90s and 00s media did push the narrative of the geeky male protagonist with 'a heart of gold' ending up with the love interest. Plus It also pushed primarily that geeks or nerds didn't get girls, virgins and single which is true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:35 PM
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So being a bully, criminal, douchebag, handsome, jock. Everything we already know but yet you somehow deny. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:33 PM
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Or "dropping out of society".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:40 PM
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Generalizations exist for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:00 AM
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Funny how men have to comply with tradition and women don't thanks enlarge to foolish men who thought it would be a good idea to give women personal freedom at the expense of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:05 AM
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. So we grind, thanklessly, and often without success. Speak for yourself. You only grind when there is a reward to be had otherwise you're indentured. Non virgin promiscuous women aren't a reward, it's a consolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:24 PM
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Imagine being a competent father and having a daughter then being like hey dear you go do you, go sleep with whoever you want, pick men to date based on whatever you like knowing their are bad or incompatible men in the world, and discover your sexuality! I won't protect you you're a big girl now. Oh and don't worry about getting pregnant either or disgracing the family name that doesn't matter personal freedom is all that matters! 🤣in what world does this make sense but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:16 PM
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Exists to destroy more like it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:08 PM
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Only proves that women don't have morals when it comes to mate selection or in general. Which is exactly why the Bible and other religions probably didn't have nice things to say about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:06 PM
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Did you really just generalize all men based on your anecdote of men you know ? I think you're the one who needs to check their delusion first before looking at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:03 PM
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So many guys on here seem shocked or resentful that being nice doesn’t automatically get you a girlfriend. Nice strawman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:00 PM
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Why stop there. How many of you people don't moralize the homeless, poor, socially awkward and other rejects? Have you? People have always moralized others and judge others for being different or worse so no it will never end. You people told me I'm unworthy and rejected me. I'm the bad guy despite criminals and murderers getting multiple women while I'm shot down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:57 PM
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The men that are protecting women unfortunately like you aren't the same ones that want to protect men that need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:14 AM
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Men want to get laid very badly, to the point they are committing suicide and rape. They aren't. Why don’t they do what women really, really like, according to men Because shockingly most men aren't bad people. I know right?! It's not mens fault that women attraction is strictly I Immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:02 AM
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Whole lot of damaged women then aren't they for me to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:57 AM
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'Those who are not angry at the things they should be angry at are thought to be fools, and so are those who are not angry in the right way, at the right time, or with the right persons," Aristotle. Envy is very useful. It lets me identify who and what has taken away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:49 AM
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I think the hard pill to swallow for a lot of guys is that they see for some guys it isn’t hard What's to swallow here? Life is unfair and unequal therefore I should be content with my circumstances, have gratitude and let people get what they want at my expense? I don't give a shit if that's life. Actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:47 AM
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We’ve also had positive experiences too. Their ain't no we here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:41 AM
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Don't play games you can't win. You don't have to play the casino to know you shouldn't gamble at the casino.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:39 AM
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Well, men don’t really have any other choice but to talk with women— unless they want to opt out of romance altogether What do you think is going on now? It's not even about opting out sometimes it's just Men have been discarded. Men don't have no choice, women do. Trying doesn't mean anything is going to happen. You're just gonna keep failing and failing. Even if you do get into a relationship something will go wrong as usual or it won't be one worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:36 AM
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No and they never will. Which is why women feel entitled to being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:31 AM
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No it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:13 AM
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I’ve been rejected more times than I can count and it doesn’t get easier. Such is life. Stop trying to act like you know what chronic unrequited rejection is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:05 AM
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You guys never have data to prove that “nice guys never get the girl.” Nobody said never.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:01 AM
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though being bad doesn’t as well. Wrong. You have to be painfully obtuse to ignore the bad boys trope, bullies having more sexual partners, dark triad, prisoners, etc. Being bad is good for attracting a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:56 AM
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Being a good person is the worst version of yourself in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:53 AM
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Cause women have options. Men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:51 AM
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When apps are first released they join them and over time they leave because it all it does is highlight how unwanted most men are. Fixed it to be more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:42 AM
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The creation of dating itself was already a damaging experiment that led us to this point. Same with the industrial revolution but I digress. Oh well personal freedom triumphs all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:37 AM
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No. Among those 15% you have to filter the ones that are attractive to them. So white, money, muscles, etc. Also exclude whoever is taken, not on the apps, or not in the same age bracket or whatever. Point is it's even less than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:33 AM
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A scam would imply that they are deceiving/lying to you or stealing from you. They are pretty up front about everything they do. Being greedy is one of those things, and that is typical business behaviors Be careful with all that boot licking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:29 AM
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I’m inclined to think that a lot of dudes dating struggles are in their heads Textbook gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:26 AM
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It's honestly irrelevant. They would have to be the .01 percent of women in the first place, if they exist at all to be genuinely undesirable. Don't get me wrong they can feel undesirable but that's not the same thing as being truly undesirable. Women can feel hunger too but that doesn't mean you know what starvation feels. Women feel hungry even if their is good food in the fridge because it's not as tasty as the five star dinner she had once. Women will say their is nothing to eat even if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:24 AM
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Sounds like you had a rough life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:02 AM
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*All women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:54 AM
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Does it involve me getting a Latina girlfriend? If so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:08 AM
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Doesn't give you the right to murder. Men can get literally raped and still forced to pay child support but nobody bats an eye. Kill a child and you should go to jail for life. Remember nobody owes you anything, don't be entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:04 AM
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I think a lot of men care if women can get abortions. Don't birth a baby into a bad situation. No one asked to be born and it's only through the will of others that it happens. If the parents are poor or just don't want the baby, I believe it's better that they aren't brought into this already shitty world made even shittier by being born in a bad circumstance. Couldn't care less. Women shouldn't be having sex then in the first place unless they are prepared to have a child, it's just that simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:55 AM
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Most people do care about getting access to abortions. Do they? Or are men just virtual signaling for the left? Unless by people you mean women. I don't think anyone actually cares about anything , it's just a popular topic. People are inherently selfish. Most dudes don't care if random dudes can get laid Funny isn't it how issues aren't issues to people unless it affects them. They draw the line right when it only impacts them all else be damned. Simply because it's beneficial for both sexes Wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:46 AM
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Straight men are already never going to have sex in their lives so that's a moot point. As for women I mean don't do the crime and have shame. You're not entitled to sex. If you're not prepared to have children you shouldn't be having sex, that's just irresponsible, let alone raise the child as a single mother. There is more to life than sex,and women should understand that and take a vow to celibacy. Learn from the 4b movement and decenter sex from hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:33 AM
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Pretty sure women especially latinas are withholding sex from me. 🤨 Not to mention love, children, affirmation, attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:26 AM
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We just can’t do anything about it if nobody wants to have sex with certain men. Why yes if only monogamy, prostitution, and arranged marriages didn't exist for thousands of years that let men have sex, wives and children without letting women's hypergamous nature run wild. "We" surely can't do anything. Their is no we. The people in power don't want things to go that way,that's why nothing is going to be done or outlawed until shit hits the fan and population collapse is imminent or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:19 AM
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If abortion is a luxury then every basic right you have is a luxury Well yes didn't you hear? Nobody owes you anything. You sound really entitled here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:03 AM
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Key word here is husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:01 AM
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It's not because men by in large refuse to hold women accountable for their bad choices in men and sex. Men love to treat women like they are infallible for some reason. If I was in charge this would be first degree murder and you're all going to jail. I think we all know deep down that's just some loophole but it is in fact murder. It's quite simple really here is my just amendment; If I'm not able to get sex with Latinas and you are able to abort and have sex , then women should not have freed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:00 AM
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That goes both ways you do know that right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:33 AM
2

So you rather murder the baby and avoid responsibility for your actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:31 AM
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Well to be clear no one is owed abortion so I'm not sure why you sound so entitled. Doesn't really make sense for women to get freedom of consequences with sex, welfare, and abortion but many men can't have a wife, sex or a concubine, while also having to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:26 AM
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You sound kinda sexist there. Like a misandrist no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:17 AM
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Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:16 AM
4

really easy to say what you or another person would/should do in a situation they've never been in before. Everything women have ever said about men when it comes to dating in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:15 AM
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You're forgetting a key component. Work. People work and come home isolated, people don't talk to their neighbors, and your friends are most likely reduced to text messages most of the time. Back in the day you would grow up with people you knew and only would socialize with those people. It was basically impossible to be lonely because you had to rely on one another to survive.
/r/MensRights21/05/25 04:38 AM
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Women are only attracted to looks, money and status. Don't have looks to have sex? You need money. Don't have money you need status, which will usually get you money anyways but I digress. .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:33 AM
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Plenty of Plumbers, Firemen, Cops, Contractors, Construction workers, Chefs, Warehouse workers, Car Salesmen, etc. still get into relationships even with women with degrees Source? And what percentage has the fair skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:25 AM
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You know we are there when the government has to start thinking about population collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:18 AM
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Ask Japan. Bachelor's tax coming soon TM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:16 AM
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My depression has gone down even more by buying a nice new pair of running shoes and adding outdoor cardiovascular activity to my indoor gym activity. Studies have found that physical activity is more successful at treating anxiety and depression than therapy and medication = Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:04 PM
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Exactly. Well said, best comment here so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:59 PM
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It's extreme for liberals not to conservatives. Saying men should be happy alone and decenter women is pretty extreme for most people in the real world with common sense, but that's a common rhetoric here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:52 PM
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You get what you fucking deserve
/r/MensRights20/05/25 12:23 AM
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Yeah it must be so hard having all those privileges 😢. Oh the humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:38 AM
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You mean the world before dating was created and morals existed? Yeah I agree too bad we don't have the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:58 AM
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Cold approaching is not their only route. If it’s causing so much stress and strife, don’t do it. Find another way to meet people. Hey genius there is no other practical way to meet people. Get that through your thick fucking skull.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:51 AM
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You're a waste of space
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:49 AM
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Women have already pretty much decentered most men. They decentered men because women are click away from getting their needs met online. They have no real struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:40 AM
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Easy to decenter when you have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:39 AM
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It’s also important to call out flawed studies and bad stats where they exist. For example, we shouldn’t blindly believe an extremely flawed Pew survey, which found that 63% of men and 34% of women in the 18-29 age group are single. It's only flawed and blind when it doesn't fit your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:33 AM
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Probably because women like you don't understand anything or what rejection entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:13 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:09 AM
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Not sure thats a wild take. When you're free of consequences of birth and pregnancy and have men pay for you. How exactly isn't that a privilege unless you're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:58 AM
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It's pretty dumb. We can't control anything, women have all the leverage, advantage, and sexual access unless we go overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:43 AM
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Because of women and the men who support women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:33 AM
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"incels" are a western phenomenon. If you take it literally then yes but their would be no growing movement and declining birthrate because the expectations were clear and cut. Reasonable. You can say the same thing for women or unwed too in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:42 PM
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You saying those men are achieving dating with 0 efforts, is really actually diminishing the actual work and effort that these guys are putting in. Look up videos of how couples meet. Very rarely will you ever a man said I had to go through trials and tribulations to get a girl. It just magically happens meanwhile I have to fight tooth and nail for a woman has all the options in the world for doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:27 PM
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Exactly. Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:23 PM
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Get really good at something, like find something you're passionate about that has nothing to do with dating. This will take years. LOL c'mon now. It's all about looks money and status
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:18 PM
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Surplus? Nice misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:16 PM
2

Cool do you want a cookie? What does your anecdote contribute to the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:13 PM
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I can confidently say fair number of those guys would be successful in approaching in real life Naive.its still difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:08 PM
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The title should of been "most men won't succeed". All women have to do is be themselves and they get handed the world from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:04 PM
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Of course, you'll need to have said charisma/other positive qualities in the first place. Lol meanwhile all the women has to do is sit and wait. So while you're being a dancing monkey you're just praying that you're gonna get lucky because let's be honest the odds are still low you're going to approach random women and get her interested
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:45 PM
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Women are pretty much worshipped in 2025. Must be nice being able to have all the advantages in the world and be loved unlike me. People like me actually have to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:03 AM
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women were always roughly half the population, and necessary for humans to survive. no matter how male-dominated a society is, at some points, the gyno has to be central no? It means society and men caters to women. Gives them undue privileges and rights at the expense of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:01 AM
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It's not common. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:00 AM
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No one is gonna stand up for a group of guys who are mad about not getting pussy Not sure if you unironically hated too. If this was the only issue men would only be clamoring for legalizing prostitution but this is one of the easiest misconceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:58 AM
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Women will also get rid of most men heritage the way we are going.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:47 AM
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There are aspects of life we should attempt to improve equal access to for everyone You say we like to make the rules, when we really don't. I don't care if you voted either you know what I mean. God given rights too are just privileges in reality unless we can enforce them. If I was in charge we would have never gotten to the industrial revolution, sexual revolution, or feminism and this whole "incel" phenomenon wouldn't even exist as a result. I would have a wife, sex and probably a kid but in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:36 AM
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Only? No. Girls will just use things like Instagram Snapchat and tik tok to date men. It makes no tangible difference if all dating apps were banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:25 AM
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Now you're starting to get it. Life is nothing but a journey to the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:24 AM
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Do you really think women would settle for men if they can magically provide but still earn just as much money as them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:10 AM
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The alternative is the shit show we have currently. Nobody is looking for an alternative to the duties of men. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:09 AM
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I would actually go a different way. Cultural, Societal, and Economic Constraints have allowed men to be not contribute as much to the home Not allowed forced via feminism and allowing women to surpass average men. And campaigning against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:07 AM
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Wanting to prevent collapse is a shit reason to bring children into the world. What could possibly be a better reason than the survival of the species lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:05 AM
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It does if you want your society to continue for much longer.i mean we will all be dead for the most part till it actually takes effect. Japan is coming up real soon though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:04 AM
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People sometimes forget we live in society, and we depend on each other. Their is no we. Their is me and everyone else most people don't even notice I exist. They don't care about me and I sure as hell don't care about them . It's not a problem unless it affects you then it's a problem. That's been the message on the Internet in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:02 AM
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The factor is women and whoever men are supporting or defending them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:01 AM
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It's quite simple actually because women don't live in the same "reality" that men do. Anyone of you can get legitimate attention on dating apps right this instance no matter how much you lament on end how much men are worthless, while most men cannot get a single match or like for years on end. None of you will ever know what it's like to be genuinely chronically rejected or sexless without choice from the opposite gender only to be mocked by the likes of you. You basically live in la la land. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:20 AM
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lol this people are too myopic and stuck on the Internet to not see the error in their ways. They can be selfish and Individualistic as much as they want as long as people continue to do their part in maintaining society or their lifestyle, since they want their cake and eat it too. Nothing is a problem anymore now unless it affects you. A society without civic duty is decadence and there are consequences. People always try to shoehorn the conversation to like its only some luxury for personal f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:14 AM
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. Problematic beliefs and behavior should be discouraged. So like feminism and women's mating behavior? Oops oh wait not that one, that goes against the status quo. Back to our programming, yes only the mens beliefs and behavior should be discouraged indeed. Men are bad and evil women are good sis. Maybe a bit more of a culture or social shift around that struggle would help those guys not fall into a hopeless mindset. It's all downhill here from here, society is doomed. Honestly just give up to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:54 AM
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Your response is appropriate for men who advocate heavy handed legal and social "solutions" to their dating woes. No it's not because dating is a systemic issue not an individual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:20 PM
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Less loneliness doesn't mean men and women are forming healthy relationships or even having sex so it's a moot point. Social media and technology just amplified what was already happening so it's not even the big problem. We were gonna get here eventually, because this is exactly what happens when you liberate women, promote individualism, sexual freedom, destroy the nuclear family, put propaganda in education, demonize men in the media and have economic inequality rising rapidly that largely af…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:11 PM
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The vast majority of people are in relationships. That's increasingly becoming uncommon in western civilization and is rising. Do you really think a generation raised on tik tok and social media are going to vastly date each other. This isnt the good point you think it is. Most people have a a job too, doesn't mean people aren't increasingly in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:48 PM
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Women being less picky 😂. In what world. You give women an inch they will take a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:56 AM
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I think the turn off happened the moment you decided to be friends with the guy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:52 AM
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This wouldn't be an issue if men are taught or not conditioned to be "simps" and "nice guys" by treating women like they are princesses. This is also why the concept of "dating" shouldn't exist in the first place as It just gives all the power to most women and takes away it from most men. It's a tragic misstep in society, along with the industrial revolution imo. No matter what I do or most men do women simply have far more control or power in dating or sexuality the way things are set up. In t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:50 AM
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It's funny because I bet most men who are "friends" with women actually want to date them or would if given the chance, but instead settle to orbit around her thinking they have a chance. And I put friends on a quotation because they don't exist. What kind of foolish man would genuinely want to be friends with a woman? For what? If you're a man you like hobbies and things that revolve around the male experience which women don't provide. At best the woman will be an "acquaintance" just to pass t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:24 AM
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How many % of men are so unattractive to women, that they are unable to ever find a relationship? This is such a fringe niche. Nobody body people in the the echo chambers you talk about, even concern themselves with "who owes whom a relationship". We all have enough things to deal with in our own lives to be concerned about if it's justified to be upset for some fringe minority of men (and women). Chatgpt says: Sexual Inactivity Among Young Men: Between 2016 and 2018, approximately 30.9% of U.S.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:51 AM
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Much higher bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:47 AM
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Lots of people in the comments talking about how you can’t tell someone what to be attracted to. Tell it to the guy who never worked for Victoria’s Secret yet is treated as though he is the mastermind behind unfair female beauty standards. It's always funny how people think they can't be persuaded and manipulated when it comes to this. It happens literally every day and everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:45 AM
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Blaming phones or social media doesn’t erase the fact that many men talk themselves out of trying before even saying hello. Probably because being rejected over and over again isn't desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:43 AM
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Half of men never even approach women, they’re rejecting themselves before anyone else does. It's always funny when women approach this topic knowing damn well they never had to do any of this and have no idea what that actually entails. Well one did which was Norah Vincent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:42 AM
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Pikachu shocked face
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:40 AM
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think two things that shoot men down from gaining sympathy This isn't even about wanting sympathy this is about equality. Women have unequal advantage and privilege across the board. I truly wonder if people would be more inclined to advocate and sympathise with men if their points were not laced with insults and contempt for several other groups and if the solutions that were being made sounded less threatening Except that men and women alike mock these men first. They used to call them virgins…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:36 AM
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which starts the conversation: "how do we fix this issue?", that very quickly and very often ends up in "how do we force women to "retrain" what they're attracted to or date men they're not attracted to so men won't be without romantic relationships". Nice strawman. Point out actual examples of this. Force teach, control, discourage, and encouraging are all different things. If we followed the Bible to the tee and all were converted to Christianity we could easily fix the issue but nobody wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:22 AM
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Assuming the breads and circuses don't suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:09 AM
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Typical of normies. They can't handle the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:04 AM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ Care to rationalize this away too genius or are youre gonna keep being a condescending prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:59 PM
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Yeah it's really shocking men are asocial when they were rejected by society, people and women. Blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:28 PM
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Lol "maybe if you see them again". It's comical you live around people in 2025 and you don't know them or anyone that lives inside and when you leave wherever you go people go their separate ways. . But I guess we can just blame social skills and act like that's the big problem. Industrial revolution and its consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:22 PM
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"Fine" lol. Irrelevant. You don't have a choice regardless, most people are shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:16 PM
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I find it weird you spend so much time here and claim you have a girlfriend or a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:14 PM
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You had me at women thinking they are entitled
/r/MensRights02/05/25 06:42 AM
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Have a sister like that. Past 35 single and it's the typically trajectory more women statistically will be facing by 2030. They will be singing their tune about being happily single and enjoying their peace but deep down we all know many will be unhappy and depressed. Wish I could see it for myself what they are like when they are truly alone and the chips are down. So I can bask in it, lust for their agony and savor their pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:43 AM
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Yes but at least they can get commitment. Any ppd women user here that waste their time arguing can easily fuck right off and date a man in similar looks at the very least. Given they target invisible men. People like me at least have nothing to lose when we post here or when I bitch. I have more than enough reason and animosity within to stay here like a maniac. No you cannot always have a man you desire in status, creed or whatever nonsense but you can have a man especially if you approach men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:38 AM
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This country has rugged individualism for men, and socialism for women. That's dating in a nutshell too. I don't think it's a reasonable expectation to expect men to ask out multiple women, chase women, get rejected over and over again and force themselves to socialize when they have all the advantages and put in zero effort to get into a relationship but here we are . And for what? You're not getting a woman of character, or honor, nor nobility. You get a woman that is free from her duty as a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:19 AM
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Women have no concept of what alone is be honest. Their is always someone waiting to support you, or give you affirmation or at least give you attention. And you don't have to put in any effort to obtain it. Men genuinely have no one when no one wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:08 AM
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Counterpoint: Thats not happening in western countries ages 30 and down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:06 AM
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But it still isn't that hopeless I feel like anyone single and that old is probably dead set on finding a forever partner. It's pretty hopeless. Women have all the advantages and men have all the disadvantages
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:04 AM
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Sure you did. Let me guess you're white and extroverted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:01 AM
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Interesting how it's not slavery when we expect men to pay for women, defend women, and fight wars. We call it masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:59 AM
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Women lament men's social skills but think men should read their stupid little signals and read your fucking mind with telepathy. Hilarious. 😂 I've had women approach me twice very clearly in high school with intent and I fucked those up because I was asocial. Ive had a few woman try to initiate conversations I shut them down. I blame myself 100% for being "shy" for those situations but not when women are throwing hints at me. Fuck that shit. Men lack "confidence" or are hesitant for a reason an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:16 AM
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Except that woman want equality and don't adhere to their gender rules. So miss me with that fucking bullshit and get a grip. Understandable is men being tired of a raw fucking deal were women have all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:55 AM
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Pathetic and entitled behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:51 AM
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I’ve yet to see anyone get slapped with a harassment charge simply for asking a woman out. Almost like your anecdotal evidence doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:46 AM
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Yeah long term long after we are dead and it doesn't matter. Meanwhile we pay the price with our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:44 AM
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One gender isn't following their gender roles care to guess? 💅🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:43 AM
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You guys always come up with this dumb take it's hilarious. Most women would not be happy without male attention or sex that's what you pea brains can't comprehend because you've never suffered all alone. Especially like me. And you always come to the same dumb assertion that society can't fix or aid mens problems while campaigning for assistance from society lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:36 AM
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By people you mean women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:53 AM
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That will never work until women change their shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:17 AM
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There is nothing moral about choosing what you like in a partner. That's a slippery slope. A choice implies you can pick from right and wrong. You also are conveniently ignoring the impact this society and technology has on sex and relationships which is interfering with it. Not to mention birth control and women avoiding their "natural role". It's just too reductive to leave it to that. Criminals having more children is caused by poverty, not criminal status That's bullshit. Criminals have more…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:01 AM
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Nice survivorship bias. Why don't you play the lottery too and gamble? Or run from the cops since you like to take risk ? You always fail if you don't try right? People don't even have that opportunity you had in the first place. All this just to justify injustice and inequality that men face in dating and even economically. Yeah I'm sure the only reason people are poor too is because they just make excuses. Got nothing to do with the fact that half the wealth goes to one percent, inflation,job …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:41 AM
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Yeah it is if she don't like you back. Simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:25 PM
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Besides that something being natural not meaning it's a good thing. Okay but then ask yourself why is social anxiety so common amongst men. Only means that men are only supposed to "initiate" in closed knit tribes. Less likely to have that when you're basically forced to interact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:25 PM
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