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Men's Rights NewsSockSage/r/MensRights15/05/14 08:26 PM
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SockSage/r/MensRights01/03/14 01:55 AM
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Men need to learn to accept the personal consequences of their actions. And yes, reading body language is an important social skill that I expect people to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 01:30 AM
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Depends on my mood. Really a great and mature way to meet people. You missed the part where I didn't want anyone to talk to me in the first place. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:12 PM
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No it definitely is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 07:03 PM
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Yeah. That's kinda the point. Your comment is literally "HAHAHA women are fucking weaker and the target of sexualized violence fucking pussy ass bitch." It's really sad that you buy into toxic masculinity such that you believe not being eager to engage in physical violence something to be ashamed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 07:02 PM
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You're not entitled to shit, certainly not my politeness. Don't want to feel bad? Take some personal responsibility for making yourself vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 07:01 PM
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Men need to accept that being ignored and insulted is a perfectly valid response to unwanted sexual attention and should learn to deal with bruised egos without resorting to aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:31 PM
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women aren't designed for sharing Yes because women are PEOPLE and not OBJECTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:29 PM
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The implication being that men used her for sex and not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:29 PM
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You're a straight man. You have no authority on whether or not male bodies are sexually attractive. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:25 PM
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Women are just going to have to deal with being hit on, even by men they're not attracted to. Sure. And you're going to have to suck it up and deal with your damaged aching ego when I look at you, laugh in your fuckboy face, and proceed to ignore you entirely. Try to hit on me all you want but you sure as shit ain't entitled to my attention. Men who try to hit on women have to deal with the fact that they are owed nothing and must not get violent when their feelings are hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 09:03 PM
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I disagree with characterizing antifa as "authoritarian" when so many of them self-identify as anarchists, and disagree with the assertion that they "hate the nonaggression principle." They justify punching nazis by claiming "the nazi ideology leads to the violent oppression of minorities and this punch is preemptively defending them" (ie in order to stop future gross violations of the nonaggression principle we must be violent now). The logic is obviously flawed but that is their justification.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:34 PM
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Punch Nazis in what context?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 08:20 PM
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Being a pathetic niceguy isn't the same as being sexually submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:34 AM
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I've been played by a satirical genius. I was about to screenshot this shit and put it on r/badwomensanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:33 AM
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Rape wouldn't exist if people didn't rape people! I don't know what rape and male submissives have to do with each other though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 04:31 AM
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women are not sexually responsive to weak and submissive men Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 08:19 PM
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Must be why some men don't take birth control seriously. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:17 AM
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I don't claim to know what it's like to be a straight male.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:15 AM
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Straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 03:58 PM
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There is no "blue pill," the entire "BP" ideology is "look at these man-children chucklefucks". Only "TRP" claims to have any "dating philosophy" behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:01 AM
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Or if she fishes his used condom out of the trash to then impregnate herself. Spermjacking is the leading cause of male oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 12:18 AM
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Spermjacking is pure paranoia and doesn't really exist. Manspreading is inconsequential and a "micro aggression".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:55 PM
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Those are risks you accept when you have sex. Why do men expect their actions to have no consequences? Take some personal responsibility for your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:53 PM
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I'm not talking about anything other than consensual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:51 PM
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They're not victims of any crime. Try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:50 PM
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Lmao. No, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:48 PM
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Hahahahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 06:20 AM
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She could have gotten the boring nerd like me. FTFY Why are single mothers bad? That's the implication you don't defend, and assume we all believe. Sure, I decided to have a child outside of the confines of a monogamous relationship and I take full responsibility for that choice. Now what? Why does this upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:42 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA. Religion is dumb and sexist but I will defend your right to not be discriminated against based on your beliefs. Brown Muslim people are facing that and white Christians are not. This is why "liberal feminists" "defend" brown Muslims but not Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:38 AM
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Why would you type this up? It's not an argument worth refuting. If someone told you "Blacks are like toddlers" you would not write up a wall of text to defend them, because the assertion is so absurd to being with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:36 AM
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If you are the type of man who could believe TRP, I will smell the doucheness radiating off you from a mile away. No point in pretending you're not who you are - insecure, misogynistic, and entirely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:34 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:33 AM
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Most people dislike interacting with most other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:32 AM
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No. There is no such thing as an "Alpha".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:32 AM
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spermjacking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:31 AM
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Straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:31 AM
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Men have the choice to engage in sex and use birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:30 AM
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Sounds like you're advocating for a robust social safety net ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:28 AM
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It sounds like "this guy" (who totally isn't you) has invented a detailed fictional character that he wants to play the supporting-girlfriend role in the story of his life (and not a real person with goals or dreams or a life outside of him and his hobbies). Notice how it says so little about personality and character traits in comparison to the heavy emphasis on tiny details (like which specific types of characters she plays in videos games, because she can't emasculate you)!! These aren't even…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:26 AM
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I'm terribly kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 06:42 PM
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I'm commenting in a thread about obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:52 PM
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hardly abnormal in today's world Because we are in the midst of an unprecedented obesity epidemic. The average weight of the modern American in physically abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:08 PM
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Neither did I?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:37 PM
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If everyone is banging BBWs then everyone is a fat fetishist. Regardless of "carrying it well" they are still physically abnormal, unhealthy, and have behavioural issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:35 PM
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If they're clinically obese and you think they're hot, you have a fat fetish. Even if you think they're "not that fat" or "carry it well". If you are sexually attracted to obese individuals then you are a fat fetishist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:28 PM
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I'm a woman, boy. But you're right, I'm totally clueless about what all of the straight men who hit on me are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:27 PM
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Being obese is detrimental to health and most people are psychologically repulsed by the obese. There is a difference between a fit woman with muscle and a 23 BMI and a skinny woman with low body fat, no muscle, and a BMI of 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:22 PM
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I goddamn hope so. If I didn't we'd have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:18 PM
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If you have 30% body fat you are obese, full stop. Doesn't matter where it's distributed or how much muscle you have. You're obese. O-mfing-bese. Women naturally have body fat, yes. Having boobs does not in any way justify obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:18 PM
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Phat is still fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 02:11 PM
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explain what you wrote "Which part?" wow u can't even explain urself leftist beta cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:54 AM
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Be specific and use your manners, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:48 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:37 AM
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You have no idea how women's minds work. Stop writing fan fiction about how women think and actually talk to some and respect their testimony as legitimate. I promise you they know vastly more about themselves than you know about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:52 AM
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White supremacy says that brown skin is inferior. Also, Indian culture is generally considered backwards and misogynistic in the west. If you're North American by birth and just brown, then this doesn't apply but if you're an immigrant then it's a strike against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:51 AM
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All of them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:45 AM
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Not at all. It takes more weight for the 5'8 women to be classified as obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:14 AM
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You're a fat fetishist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:13 AM
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Sure, if you have a fat BBW fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:11 AM
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Only if you're a fat fetishist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:10 AM
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There is no field in which men are paid more for having a penis You're right, they're paid more for being men.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 05:57 PM
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My whole life. I see it working like clockwork with little to no exceptions. Confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 05:10 PM
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I'm not claiming it's real, just defining a term that already exists.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 03:26 PM
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Yeah. In America, any black blood makes you black.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 03:25 PM
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D-d-d-d DNA paternity testing! Ooohhh yeah!
/r/MensRights21/03/17 03:25 PM
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K
/r/MensRights21/03/17 06:07 AM
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The name of what you're looking for is "class disparity," not "gender disparity".
/r/MensRights21/03/17 04:13 AM
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Did you even read the comment? Or has the rabies taken over your eyeballs already? Goddamn. Lock this one in the shed, boys. Use them steel chains.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 03:05 AM
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I'll go as soon as I finish peeing on you and you lick the floor clean! Be a good boy and do it quickly!
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:55 AM
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You tasted my pee? How was it? Edit: apparently if it's sweet I might have diabetes!
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:34 AM
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clearly you lack empathy Clearly you wanna rage and froth at me. Keep raging. Froth harder. Woof woof, tiger. The only thing I've implied is that it's lunacy to call homeless people "pampered". Apparently thinking homeless people are far from pampered by society has you spazzing in the corner. (I agree with your cause, baby girl. You can calm down when you're ready.)
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:28 AM
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I took a screenshot of Donald Trump personally upvoting my comment. You lose, baby girl.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:26 AM
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Homelessness is a very serious issue. You're having a little spaz over a straw man you invented.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:25 AM
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women shouldn't have birth control You missed the part where I advocated for vasectomy. It's a shame that there aren't better birth control options for men yet. But you're basically agreeing with me that women's reproductive rights are important! So yay. like credit cards I said bank credit. You know, like mortgages and auto loans? Like small business loans? You know...things that are terribly consequential to one's ability to live an independant life. If it weren't for modern feminism, I wouldn…
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:23 AM
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Nope I win. I'll accept you licking my boot and cleaning your shit up off the floor while I mock you as a concession, piglet.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:14 AM
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Wow someone's triggered.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:11 AM
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Obama was the first black president and it was a historic presidency because for all of history America has oppressed it's black population. You're really bad at this game.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:11 AM
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Men to this day can't decide for themselves if they want to be parents if a women names them as the father. Yes you can. Don't have sex. Abstinence is 100% successful. Better yet get your tubes tied. Women in the Arab world... "Children in Africa face famine so you can't complain that you're too poor to afford anything other than rice and beans here in the USA." "you're complaining about an inequality that no longer exists" To refute your claim that Patriarchy has never oppressed women. You admi…
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:10 AM
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lie to the idea that the West was ever so oppressive of women. Women in America couldn't get credit in their own name until the 70's. Fact.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 12:03 AM
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Second class citizens who have held 100% of all US presidencies? Try a little harder if you wanna play a convincing victim.
/r/MensRights20/03/17 11:58 PM
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...he said, commenting on a post complaining about how men are not the center of attention.
/r/MensRights20/03/17 11:57 PM
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"Homeless women are pampered." You heard it here first, folks.
/r/MensRights20/03/17 11:54 PM
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The glass floor is a term used to describe how men in various profession have a pay floor that they can't sink below. "Even the newest men on our team get paid more than experienced women due to the glass floor."
/r/MensRights20/03/17 11:53 PM
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There's lots of talk on here about what actions lower SMV for women but not for men. Can you think of any examples?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 08:23 PM
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There's actually subreddits specifically for female game, they're just super small. OP was dumb comparing a women's general interest sub to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 08:16 PM
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Rephrase then. What lowers a persons value over time?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 08:07 PM
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TRIGGERED
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:45 PM
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And the husband also sells himself to his wife forever. What does she get when she finds out she paid full price for used product? Let's take this metaphor farther. What are the husband and wife "paying" for each other? How does a person become "used" over time?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 07:44 PM
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Boy I was already done with you two posts ago. You're a misogynist and have so weak of an understanding of how people work it's going to hinder your ability to form relationships and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:41 PM
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Intelligence goes with you. Emotional intimacy doesn't. Some bits of what she gives all her men stay with them. Nope. That's not how people work. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:36 PM
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Explain how you believe that happens. "Emotional intimacy" is a capacity. Like intelligence. You're essentially saying "one's intelligence depletes at it is spread around from challenge to challenge in a serial fashion."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 07:29 PM
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Luck is more important than you realize.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 07:25 PM
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Sex is a service. A whore isn't selling herself to a John forever. This doesn't make sense.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 07:25 PM
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Women don't date like men do. Why on earth would they spend hours online analyzing how to get a dude? They have sexual options, and their urges aren't the same such that it's a pressing need to find a partner in the same way it is for men. This whole post unravels when you realize that game to get high smv dates is a thing that only men do.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 07:18 PM
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When she marries her beta bucks, she gives less of herself to him. Because there's less of her to give. She already gave most of her emotional intimacy to the men who came before him. That's not how it works.jpg Emotional intimacy doesn't deplete over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 04:12 PM
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All of this is pseudoscience and misogobabble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 04:12 PM
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fucking hot guys she likes fucking, she gives those hot guys her best. Then I marry a hot man I like fucking. Amazing sex until end of relationship. Win.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 04:11 PM
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K. Maybe you should realize that most women don't give a flying fuck about what you're into. You really think this shit matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 05:50 PM
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These things are unrelated, arguing as though they are the same required the implicit assumption that the "fruits of your labour" are as fundamental to your being and as wholly owned by you as your physical body. The shit you "make" doesn't have the same rights or protections as the shit you "actually are".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:15 AM
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Prove the pattern beyond "This is how I think things are."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 01:24 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 12:33 AM
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More intelligent women tend to end up wanting to utilize their intelligence, see it as a waste to not do so, find being valued for their beauty and mothering ability to almost be condescending, as often they do not respect beauty and the effort required, finding it to be shallow and beneath someone with such intelligence. Baseless assertions. What is this based on? Why can't a woman love that she's gorgeous and want to be intellectually challenged? Maybe it's a scary thought for you to acknowled…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 12:25 AM
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Childcare can be so expensive that it makes sense for a mom to be a full-time caregiver. If childcare costs negate the wages you earn, it makes sense to forgo both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:33 PM
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Replace women with men, also true. You can fuck daily and still be shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:31 PM
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You're right. No one is entitled to, or owns natural resources or the products of your labour - not even you! Hashtag fullblowncommunism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:32 AM
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Collective ownership of capital is not at odds with bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 07:43 PM
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There's a difference between resource allocation and bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:46 PM
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Oh no you misunderstood me. Smoking a cigarette once increases your risk of cancer, consuming any quantity of alcohol does, and a BMI of 25.1 only makes you "overweight" (not obese) but is still linked with worse health outcomes, as is failing to consistently engage in vigorous physical activity. It's not just obese smokers. The fast majority of Americans deserve nothing in terms of healthcare (according to you), likely including yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 04:07 AM
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You know there is increased risk of cancer when you choose to have a BMI above 25. Choose to smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol, even just once? Also increasing your risk of cancer. Choose not to engage in daily strenuous physical activity? Choosing to increase your risk of cardiovascular disease. NO HEALTHCARE FOR THE MAJORITY OF AMERICANS! It's only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:04 AM
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Socialism seems to think that just because you went and got cancer means that we should foot the bill!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 01:01 AM
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How do we reconcile FORCED structural inequality under capitalism that divorces the labourer from the wealth they create? You're stealing from the worker to give to the boss, forcibly redistributing wealth upwards. Capitalism isn't "natural"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:59 AM
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What? You better be advocating that we rid of all modern medicine too! Natural selection! Or else you're irrationally trying to punish women for having sexual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:58 AM
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SEX IS NOT A BASIC HUMAN RIGHT YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO OTHER PEOPLE'S BODIES ACCESS TO MEDICAL CARE IS IRRELEVANT TO SEX
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 12:57 AM
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Ehhhh. Any advantage we have in access to casual sex is offset by the TERRIBLE QUALITY of literally all of it. Catalogues full of nothing is still nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 12:19 AM
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I never consciously "make a guy wait." I have sex whenever I feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 12:13 AM
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That analogy is terrible because shitty sex that doesn't get you off and, in fact, bores you and makes you uncomfortable cannot be said to be "water". It's more like "All I have is fucking pig feed to eat. Those men over them seem to be obsessively, irrationally interested in consuming this disgusting slop, but I'm aware that this is not safe or nutritious to eat and am going to complain until I get something edible."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 05:12 AM
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I'm the kind of person where notifications on my phone annoy me. I can't keep a million conversations and friendships alive because it's work for me to do that. If I know that a guy is "decent but mediocre" in that I'm not really excited about hanging out with them again, I just block their number after I decide I'm done with them. I don't feel bad because I don't get any notifications from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:07 PM
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Dude. Sometimes I'm horny. I ghost most of the guys I fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 09:00 AM
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Or a woman has a one night stand because a dude who is good enough happens to be around when she's horny. It's all chance and feelings, and you can't game that system.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:56 AM
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Because I prefer choosing people based on personality AND sexual attraction? K.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 01:36 AM
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The only reason marriage is necessary is if there are issues obtaining permanent residency for a spouse who is of a different nationality than you. It's archaic as a cultural and religious tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:34 PM
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Women are people, not a collection of body parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:32 PM
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Protip from a straight girl: most men SUCK at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 12:11 PM
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They can. Y'all are below average or have unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 03:24 PM
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I feel empowered by all the fuckboys who want my pussy that I make work for it. And then I ghost them when they annoy me. Sexless emotional intimacy? How about emotionless weaponization of the Thirst of The Fuckboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 03:09 PM
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Girls don't seem to be sexually attracted to me All women are asexual in nature Have you ever thought to, like, talk to an actual women before you hamster up some bullshit explanation for your lack of sexual achievement? You can call me asexual, but I'm just going to laugh in your ignorant face. Women are real people. If you want to understand them, try listening to them. I hope you're just an inexperienced teenager and not some thirty year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 03:00 PM
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So girls smile at you and start talking to you about their lives (which how normal people initiate friendly contact)... and you respond by thinking "these sluts are begging for my attention" and "they can't actually interested in me because my body is disgusting"? AND THEN you explain your lack of success with women away by saying that they only want Chads? This is self-sabotage. TRP is hurting you. women hit the wall at 22 HAHAHHAHAHAHA Oh my god. The wall just keeps getting younger... if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 01:18 AM
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I enjoy being a bit violent. Care to elaborate? In what circumstances? How much is "a bit"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 12:33 AM
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women are naturally emotionally abusive the moment you give them a chance to be So let me get this straight. All women are inherently emotionally abusive in all circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 12:31 AM
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Your reply is just giving me more evidence of how deep the terp hole is. You've invented a narrative to explain away the world, nothing I'm going to say will make you question it. And that's why I'm not disputing you. You're so wrong that you're incapable of being reasoned with. At the end of the day you're the one who has to live in a world full of hatred and resentment and dissatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 12:28 AM
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You're pretty far into the Terp hole so I don't really have much to dispute with you. I hope that one day you wake up and start seeing women as honest-to-goodness people instead of some second class of being. It'll make the world seem a lot less terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 12:17 AM
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why do you feel my worldview is unhealthy? Hmm, lemme see: I'm a manchild and I deeply enjoy being one. These girls are reaching the wall and are looking to find a beta bux asap. Women only love chads. I am not a chad, therefore no woman alive can ever fall in love with me. If I don't have chad looks what could I possibly give to a girl? You sound like you resent women a lot. "Nah". They won't put out until they are in a relationship with me. Yet, they spent their teens and 20s fucking guys with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 12:09 AM
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and keep my shit under control Well if you didn't you wouldn't fall into the category of "non-violent" guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 11:54 PM
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Your worldview is so unhealthy. You sound very unhappy and like you resent women a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 11:50 PM
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I don't think non-violent men should have to struggle because the majority of violence comes from other men. The most you can do is be aware of the reality and be a voice of reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 11:46 PM
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The fact that the majority of violence is perpetrated by men doesn't mean that the majority of men are violent. Most men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 11:23 PM
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Letting women wanting you define your self worth is unhealthy, and a self-fulfilling prophecy. You think "I am unlikeable and unattractive," it makes you feel insecure and depressed, and then women pick up on that and are less likely to be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:50 PM
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I actually know that consent is very nuisanced. If you have skill at reading body language then consent can be given clearly and non-verbally through very subtle cues. The issue with that is that I have seen first hand men sexually pressuring women who are clearly uncomfortable and giving cues that they don't want something, but who are too submissive and non-assertive to be able to speak up and establish clear boundaries. That's why in chaotic situations like the one in this story, it's importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:49 PM
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Oh, yeah sometimes I edit things for clarity and I felt like that was off-topic. I give myself lots of orgasms, but usually it takes a while and you have to hit exactly the right spot, and no partner has ever accomplished that. shrug I don't know what the statistics are but I'm sure achieving orgasm is easier for some woman than for others. Hell, I've made a woman cum before so I know it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:43 PM
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But sexual contact isn't the same as food. You can die a healthy virgin. Sure it might bother you a lot to not have sexual opportunity, but being sexually dissatisfied is not the same as having your basic needs for sustenance unmet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:38 PM
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Because two attractive females in a sexual context is sexually arousing? There is nothing wrong with being turned on by hot lesbians. Hell, I'm turned the fuck on by them too. But I'd respect their space and boundaries and not make them feel like I see them as my personal show. The (admittedly) off-topic comment I made was about the cultural norm of seeing attractive lesbian women as a sexual opportunity for men to get in on. It's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:36 PM
1

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:33 PM
1

"Two girls are kissing! So hot! cheers loudly" Except they're there for themselves, not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:20 PM
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No one is entitled to another person's body, and no one is entitled to sexual contact. The only thing everyone is entitled to is agency over their own bodies and the ability to choose what happens to it. You sound like you belong over at r/Incels. Next you'll be telling me that because sex is a 'basic human right" the government should be responsible for providing you with sex slaves, lest your right to sexual contact be violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:19 PM
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Making yourself vulnerable to a crime doesn't mean you deserve to have crimes perpetrated against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:16 PM
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You don't know anything about what I'm expecting from a partner. I'll let you in on a personal secret: it's not physical. I don't want a man who can satisfy me based on "hitting the right spot" or "being rough enough"; it's more about nuisanced psychological dynamics of dominance and submission. And I can assure you a partner can't become someone they aren't through "communication," they either are the type of person I'm attracted to and are capable of satisfying me...or they aren't. Most aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:15 PM
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You can go fuck yourself. Don't need your permission to masturbate, though I assure you I'm taken care of. totalitarian state I'm all about freedom. Y'all Americans need to practice some more of what you preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:10 PM
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This is why femme lesbians are fetishized. Sometimes it's not about your thirsty dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 09:08 PM
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Apparently men are incapable of seeing women as people, and can only pedestalize or denigrate them. Have more faith in men. Your assertion of this false dichotomy is unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:43 PM
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No one deserves to be assaulted or robbed. You don't deserve to be robbed in that situation. Please stop with the lack of respect for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:31 PM
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What? Choosing to have sex with attractive people and turning others down is AS BAD as denying people basic rights? You really think being turned down by girls is as bad of an affront as being denied the opportunity to get an education, earn money, own property? What a sad fucking victim complex you've got going on over their. "WAHHH, women won't sleep with me and it violates my human rights!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:30 PM
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Translation: Women who have a lot of sex deserve to be raped! You're a horrible person and a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:26 PM
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Just because they're willing to try doesn't mean they're capable of being successful. If anything a mediocre dude trying incredibly hard and failing to get me off is WORSE of an experience than letting him think he did a good job and ghosting, because I would feel bad knowing his ego is being negatively affected by my dissatisfaction. Lower your damn standards. Translation: Sleep with guys like me! And the answer to that is a solid no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:25 PM
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Then you're shitty. Incredibly shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:21 PM
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So women are victims here. Your saying men are responsible for a women's sexual consent, not her saying anything. No. Every person involved in sexual activity is responsible for receiving active consent from their partners before engaging with them. It has nothing to do with gender. In this scenario, she has to say "yes" before it's ok for them to engage in any sexual contact with her. They are responsible for getting her consent before starting (they gave their consent to her by whipping their …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:43 AM
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They caught less than 100 seconds of the whole event on video.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:29 AM
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So "physical force" is not the same thing as having sex with someone without their consent. You can gently rape someone. The police didn't say that there was clear evidence of her consent, which is the only thing that would exonerate them of her accusations. Just that they didn't physically force her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:27 AM
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Honest question: where would you want to go in the world that you believe offers you better sexual opportunity than the US?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 08:13 AM
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I think the reasons women get away with being more sexually explicit than men are twofold. 1) The normal context of sexualization is of men sexualizing women's bodies. Because the reverse doesn't happen as often or with the same intensity we aren't as sensitive to it. Thus a man saying "damn nice titties" is more of a big deal in a feminist culture than a woman saying "damn nice pecs." 2) It's a lot harder for people to imagine women in the role of the aggressor. It's way easier for people to ac…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 08:10 AM
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That's perfectly valid. "I was only interested in sexual experiences with these people, and people I did not want involved forced themselves into the situation."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 08:01 AM
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CONSENT NEVER LOSES MEANING. What the fuck. It might encourage opportunistic guys to try and get in on the fun, but if they had any sense to put the women above their thirsty dick, they would pause before "jumping in" and make sure they're allowed to do so. These guys didn't do that. The burden to achieve consent is on the guys who got involved. You can't just start fucking someone and say "she didn't say no so it's not rape." That's not how consent works. A lack of a clear no is not the same th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:59 AM
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It sounds like a case of sexually opportunistic men taking advantage of the situation and pushing the woman beyond her boundaries without achieving her consent. That's rape. YES; you need consent at every step of the way in order for it to not be rape. I could theoretically take a line of 50+ cocks in a row, and if at 51 I try to stop and am forced to continue, then guess what? Rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:54 AM
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But TRP is all about self improvement, didn't you get the memo? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:48 AM
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Because relationships are about real connection with people, and she has an emotional/romantic connection to you? Because you have unique things to offer her? Because you make her feel loved, cared for, happy, complete? But given you subscribe to the TRP ideology, you believe that women are incapable of real emotional investment in a relationship and are all hypergamous sluts. This pessimistic outlook that blames women for your lack of fulfilling relationships is never going to get you anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 07:48 AM
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I think there is a fundamental difference in the risk/reward aspect of sex for women and men at play here. For you, "mediocre" sex is still something you're driven to pursue, because, well, you're a dude and it's sex. As they say "sex is like pizza, even when it's bad, it's still pretty good." Sex for a woman has serious biological consequences attached to it which makes saying "sure why not" risky business. And then, "average" sex almost always includes a male orgasm and male satisfaction. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 11:44 PM
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Because you can't empathize with me or don't understand what I'm saying. They're NOT suitors: they're all people I have no interest in vying for my sexual attention. The point is that finding a partner worth my time is still a huge challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 08:53 PM
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Yeah, a lot of guys here want to go back to a time when women had no choice but marry men they weren't attracted to because they'd need to make ends meet. WHEN WOMEN HAVE ECONOMIC FREEDOM AND SEXUAL AGENCY, THEY CHOOSE NOT TO FUCK ME. DOWN WITH WOMEN'S RIGHTS! MY DICK OVER YOUR HUMANITY!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:48 PM
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Access to sex is easier. That doesn't make navigating the sexual marketplace any easier. My problems are just different from yours. You have to work to get an opportunity to have sex at all. I have to navigate a constant barrage of horny cock-zombies wailing "you're so prreeeeettttyyyyyyyy" in order to lead my life (even in non-sexual contexts... I get hit on on the bus, on campus, at Starbucks). And if I do decide that I want sex, I still have the MONUMENTAL task sorting through the hoarde to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:46 PM
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accepting this position of privilege. SUCH a privilege to have annoying guys hitting on me in public all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:42 PM
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Putting too much pressure/emphasis on the "first relationship/time." It's not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:36 PM
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If a girl fucked a chad and then wants to date me its quite clear she isn't attracted to me. I'm not a 10/10 guy. What can she possibly see in me that makes her pussy wet? Well, that's self-hatred and lack of confidence if I've ever seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:31 PM
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The TRP guys aren't getting easy access to the kind of women they believe they deserve, and that turns into the narrative "Regular guys can't get regular girls these days."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 05:30 PM
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That's...not how abortion works. They don't use a pill to induce abortion if the pregnancy has gone on long enough that there is anything that resembles a "human fetus," they use mechanical abortion techniques at that stage.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:35 PM
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If by "isolated incidents" you mean three times per hour for just me, personally. Also, context is key. I live in a big city and it mostly happens during Friday and Saturday nights when the streets contain drunk rowdy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 03:51 PM
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Ok, so my personal experiences have all been a detailed hallucination? You're not a gorgeous young woman so how on earth would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 03:02 PM
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When your "valid sexual strategy" makes a vast number of the people you attempt to use it on feel threatened and uncomfortable, maybe you should put empathy over your dick and re-evaluate whether it's a good strategy to use, even if it is "valid".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 05:17 AM
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Really? Cuz the one week I spent in England I had more creeps harass me than I have all year at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 05:16 AM
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So your girlfriend is a fox who is hunting you? This analogy makes no sense. She's not trying to kill you bro.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 07:17 PM
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And the statistical average size is also small.
/r/askTRP30/11/16 06:50 PM
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If no one disagreed escorting would'nt be outlawed in America and purchasing "sexual services" wouldn't be outlawed in Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 02:44 PM
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Oh yeah. The only kind of sex work that should be criminalizes is that in which human trafficking is involved. And I mean, we already have laws for that anyways!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 02:00 PM
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Neither do I, nor do I fault the cute twenty-something who makes more per hour than some of the highest paid professionals out there doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 01:57 PM
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That's because you're not a 40-60 year old executive/doctor/lawyer with more money than you know how to handle, less time for yourself than you'd like, and extremely low prospects of fucking young women organically. $400-$500 for an adorable 21 year old to give you a GFE and then fuck off when you want her gone is worth is to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 01:35 PM
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Wow, didn't know you liked SSBBWs. Did you ask her how her diabetic ulcers are healing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 08:54 AM
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There is just a thing as objectively physically attractive, there is no such thing as the universal ideal. Some women like fat guys. Some guys loves SSBBWs. Some people have amputee fetishes. Some guys love tall girls with big muscles. Some girls love thin wiry men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/16 08:53 AM
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You sound like an angry incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 04:01 AM
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women are pretty much wired to want the same sort of man No they don't. This is as accurate as saying "men all want the same type of woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 04:00 AM
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You 'not mating' and getting broken up with isn't an systemic problem... And people choosing to end relationships also isn't a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 01:37 AM
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They all put up a good front, look innocent, talk about their volunteer work, how they're advancing in their career and pursuing more education, fitness, can cook, etc. Then, you throw alcohol at them and some weed, and they'll tell you about their 30+ partner count, laugh about how they play their orbiter and tell you they're into BDSM and want you to do a line of Coke off their ass. Sounds about right! ;)
/r/askTRP22/11/16 01:25 AM
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You're not old.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 01:18 AM
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Look: it's great that you can read people, I don't care about your dating skills. My whole point is that it is important to focus on the fact that each person you are forming a relationship is an individual person and not just a gender or a race, etc. And the fact that I'm advocating that you respect individuality and personhood means that I don't care to be pedestalized. But you think I want to feel special?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 11:32 PM
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If you are interacting with a woman for the purpose of fucking her, have getting your dick wet 100% your focus, then she's going to pick up on that, and then the sexual pressure she feels you putting on her makes her feel used. I get that your goal might actually be to get your dick wet, but if a girl picks up on that then she'll feel defensive and at best will just passively give in and let you do your thing. The only advice I have is to realize that girls can be horny and want to fuck and be d…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 11:27 PM
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Good for you! Have a sticker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:42 PM
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I'm not saying "women are magical complex creatures". I'm saying people are people and it's more valuable to learn how to read and interact with individuals than it is to learn some "rules" of the system and see everyone as the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:35 PM
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Don't tell a tall girl that lie, though. I'm 6ft shows up and is taller than you
/r/askTRP21/11/16 09:32 PM
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It scares them because you're being scary. Dominating a woman successfully requires making them feel safe enough to actively submit to you, instead of passively letting you have your way. It sounds like you've mistaken domineering behaviour for dominant behaviour.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 09:29 PM
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"evolutionary programming kicks in" I know it's appealing to be able to explain away complex human behaviours using evo psych, but it's pseudoscience to suggest that this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 09:27 PM
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Because being emotionally intelligent leads to loneliness and because it and success with women are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:38 PM
2

More like autocorrect or predictive typing getting ahead of my fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:37 PM
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If you actually believe this it's because of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:36 PM
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"Hold women accountable" for what? For the fact that men want sex more than women do? I think the third option is to stop trying to understand the sexual marketplace as some organized system and start seeing the women and men in your life as real, individual, nuisanced, flesh and blood people, leave your expectations and assumptions at the door, and form honest relationships with people. responsibility of romance entirely on me and having to be this macho, emotionless, stoic man who has to "hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:01 PM
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Just higher taxes so that the state can take care of the issue? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 06:18 PM
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Exactly. I don't disagree with you. I'm saying "not having a baby" is often equally as impossible as "affording a baby" which leaves people in really bad situations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 05:57 PM
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Men don't have a higher average IQ, they skew both higher and lower on the bell curve. The "average" IQ for men and women is the same, but if you randomly pull any one man and women from a population, it is more likely that the woman will be close to the average and the man will be lower or higher than the average. Please understand the "true" facts before you come here asserting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 05:29 PM
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$400 dollars is 55+ hours of work at your federal minimum wage. For poor women that is potentially the difference between making rent and becoming homeless. For a road trip, you need gas and a working car, and time away from your job to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 05:24 PM
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And I'll say again, your opinions about how many people is the right number have no bearing on the choice that any individual woman makes for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 01:21 AM
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Ok, but your definition of acceptable casual dating really doesn't matter here. If it's not LTR, then as many dudes as a girls wants that aren't serious is still "casually dating".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:57 PM
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If you hold onto the belief that being short is holding you back then it will affect your self confidence and will. Self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 09:04 PM
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Hormone replacement therapy? Apparently testosterone is what causes this. If you start taking estrogen, you'll grow tits but at least you won't want to fuck everything in sight.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 09:02 PM
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By far the blue pill dudes. Sexy feminist Doms who are literally drowning in kinky pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:44 PM
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You literally just described casually dating. And you think it's horrible! HAHAHAHAHA. Oh no! A 22 year old who has had sex with 50 people!! Thank you for proving that my original comment was right on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 07:26 PM
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No she doesn't Right, because she doesn't exist. The "typical woman" he described is not a real thing. The whole point of my last comment was that his translation of my translation is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 06:17 PM
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Because girls totally do that, like, all the time! And actually none of that is bad. Isn't she just spinning plates and having one night stands? The bitch knows her SMV and doesn't have a problem with oneitis, clearly. Ya'll should take a message or two from the imaginary sluts whose behaviours who vilify but then also want to emulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 06:03 PM
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They are not and your anecdotes are incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 05:57 PM
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In my life? Less than one. How do you define sex though? Because IMO PIV does not define sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 05:55 PM
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Yep! They want to be able to point at a hot woman and go "one daub i will have more SMV than you!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 05:52 PM
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"Riding the carousel and settling for beta bux" is TRP speak for "casually dating in your younger years and then settling into a serious relationship when you find someone suitable." Any way they can demonize women for doing normal things, they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 05:51 PM
1

Someone likes MILFs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 05:47 PM
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Yes because women have 100 percent control over their reproduction! Birth control never fails and abortions are super easy and painless and are handed out like candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 05:46 PM
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When I think a man is vaguely attractive I'm probably not going to be motivated to break the ice. Unless circumstances allow for me to easily chat someone up then I'm probably not going to engage them at all, even if he's fucking gorgeous (gorgeous here is not a purely physical thing, a fit/hot guy who is clearly an idiot or an asshole is not a sexually attractive person to me). The fact that I don't try to "close" with hot guys doesn't mean I don't want to fuck them. Unlike most RP guys I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 02:10 PM
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Yes, you and your hypergamy. You are a slut who will go back to riding the cock carousel the moment your man breaks frame. (This is TRP ideology for you).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:46 PM
2

Yeah. In a lot of places in America/the world, puritan sexual culture prevails and the environment is very different. It's shameful to learn about sex, sinful to think about it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:32 PM
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Not at all. Most people also have two arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:31 PM
1

No, if I'm your guy then aren't you my little lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:24 PM
1

So, my little lady, you're a fat advocate who wants the benefits of being fit with none of the work that goes into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:14 PM
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Good, glad you're honest. It means you're a slut, though. I personally don't think "sluttiness" is shameful, so if you do associate the term with shame you should probably unpack why that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:13 PM
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I'm not coming up to him and asserting "feminist theory is correct!" He is coming to this community and asking "can you give me resources?" There's no burden of proof on me because I'm not asserting anything. I'm telling him that there are better resources that should answer his question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:11 PM
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You are female. AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:09 PM
1

Fat Acceptance advocates want the impossible. Fat will never be considered beautiful. The most they can hope for is that is be considered normal (already happening because most people are overweight).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:07 PM
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As in I can consult a physician for the appropriate prescription and obtain it without spending anything other than my time. (I live in a country with socialized healthcare and I think the American system is absurd).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 06:06 PM
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You know, if only there was easy access to birth control, comprehensive sex Ed, and abortions as a last resort!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:16 PM
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You are a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:16 PM
1

You sound like a "slut" and a liar. How about: respect the people who date enough to give them relastic expectations about your behaviour, don't compromise on a relationship with expectations of monogamy that you don't intent to live up to? Or is being an adult too difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:15 PM
1

Why not teach people how to take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:14 PM
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How about less overweight men? Men are overweight and obese at the same rate as women. Also, females enjoying sex and being sexually empowered ruins relationships? How is that the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:13 PM
1

What about polyamory? Are people who prefer that lifestyle wrong in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:11 PM
1

If you actually wanted an answer, the whole internet is your oyster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:10 PM
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If you're important enough to me that I care to share facts about my life then I tell the truth. If you're being a nosy asshole or I don't care to tell you then I keep my mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 05:08 PM
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Ok, don't look at the attractive people who catch your attention, literally look at EVERYONE, EVERY SINGLE PERSON as you walk down a busy public street. The fat old ladies, the homeless people, the faces in the crowd that normally just fade into the background. Keep tally of the number of sexually attractive people vs the total number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 04:59 PM
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People do what makes them happy and no one's preferences are considered invalid because they differ from the norm. Gay? Asexual? Polyamorous? Good for you, you do you, IDC. Edit: in other words, FREEDOM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 04:55 PM
1

If you have to ask you're doing it wrong. You can't fake dominance and be insecure about it.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 03:03 PM
1

So, I can assume you're a straight guy, and that it's hard for you to see men in the same way a straight women would. I can assure you there are lots of hot guys out there. They're a minority of guys, but the, if you actually look around at every single person on the street you'll realize that the majority of people are actually just ugly, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 02:28 PM
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I just had my coffee, I'm feeling pretty great. Unlike most RPers I know that not all women are terrible people and I've had success keeping the good ones around.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 02:13 PM
2

You shouldn't be insecure about this. If any woman in your life is worth your time then they will have empathy for your experiences and care about helping you.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:27 AM
2

Criticizing toxic masculinity isn't "encouraging them to be passive" or less masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 10:26 PM
2

That's you, reacting to your wallet being stolen, not her in this circumstance. Maybe she is fearful/less aggressive etc.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:20 PM
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Not everyone is jumpy and confrontational. Sometimes things happen before you realize they are happening.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:05 PM
3

Hence ONS
/r/askTRP16/11/16 01:01 PM
7

I treat them like garbage The only women who like me have issues Well duh. The only people who will put up with your hateful treatment are ones with no self esteem and self respect who don't know what a healthy relationship looks like. If you think women are garbage then what is the point of fostering relationships with them? Hire hookers or have ONS.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 10:51 AM
2

Listing stand-alone laws don't give you any cultural context for what normal behaviour is in a society. Biotruths over systemic cultural biases. Sure.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 08:14 AM
1

However for the most part young women married early or died as spinster beggars and prostitutes. This is because women were not legally people allowed to work or own property in the traditional sense. Unless you had a "person" whose household you were attached to (father or husband, because a women is not a person), then the only options for you are begging or prostitution (or eventually shitty manual labour jobs post industrial revolution).
/r/askTRP16/11/16 02:16 AM
1

and/or getting railed by multiple dudes Isn't that spinning plates?
/r/askTRP16/11/16 02:15 AM
1

Because the welfare state exists solely for use by women.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 02:14 AM
5

Under this logic no women are ever single. This is patently untrue.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 07:29 AM
2

I'm not exactly in the feminist media business myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 09:14 PM
17

What is it about the basics of human happiness – you know, feeling attractive, feeling loved, having guys chase after us – that’s just not in the cards for us? Nope, not for us. How is that fair? It's perfectly fair. No one is entitled to love or sexual attention (this is a feminist idea). It's anti-feminist to believe yourself to be entitled to anyone's sexual attention! These fat chicks ruin their bodies with their food addiction, and would rather co-opt feminism to give their grievances false…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 07:27 PM
2

Women are housewives and babymakers. DUH.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 07:23 PM
1

This is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 09:29 AM
26

That's disingenuous. Female daily birth control is essentially hormone replacement therapy which can wreak havoc on the body in a lot of ways. I know for a fact that hormonal BC increases the risk of blood clots (this shit can fucking kill you), and ecoptic pregnancy (will probably need to be aborted or can also kill you), saying it "just makes them have bigger boobs and be more moody" is ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:57 PM
1

It think the last part has to do with the fact that an witnessing an undesirable male liking someone requires perceiving him as a sexual being which triggers the disgust reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 08:58 PM
3

Penetrating a man is gay. Taking penetration from a hot girl with a dildo is not gay. The fucking end. Homosexuality is only about the gender of the person you are playing with. The only issue you should have is that America hates gay people and thinks homosexual behaviour is degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 04:06 PM
1

In the western world, babies come after career stability, for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 04:05 PM
1

As a woman, sex is a very risky thing. If I get pregnant with your baby, I'm throwing a huge amount of resources and potentially my life into making the baby. If you are showing serious signs of being an undesirable mate who will produce shitty offspring, everything in me will be repulsed by the thought of sexual relations with you. Now that doesn't mean I assume anything about your value as a non-sexual person. But if you come at me with your sexual frustration on a platter, the I'm forced to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 04:03 PM
3

Dale Spencer did an experiment on what happens when men enter what is designated as a wom*n’s feminist space as research for her PhD thesis.[1] She writes: “Present at the discussion, which was a workshop on sexism and education in London, were thirty-two women and five men. Apart from the fact that the tape revealed that the men talked for over 50 per cent of the time, it also revealed that what the men wanted to talk about – and the way in which they wanted to talk – was given precedence."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 03:59 PM
3

I'm turned on by physically and intellectually attractive people. Just one without the other warrants no attraction. Male model who is a dumbass? No thanks. Smart as fuck guy who is gross looking? No thanks. Decently attractive dude with a good head on his shoulders? Yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 11:48 PM
3

Yes absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 02:03 PM
3

1) It's work. You have to be the sexual fantasy of some old dude you don't like and spend your time with him. Time is valuable. 2) There are fewer men who are serious about spending on sugar babies than you think. It's a serious job just to look for them. 3) Even if you do find one, it's hard to find a guy with realistic expectations. You want to fuck me 5x a week without condoms and do anal and forbid me from dating anyone else? For how many thousands? Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 02:03 PM
9

Attractive woman here. You seem to think men just throw money at us... I'm sure I could get a free meal off of OkCupid if I cared enough to make that happen (I'm not homeless so I don’t). But you write like you believe that being model-gorgeous just means that men fall over themselves to hand you money...??? I wish. Then I wouldn't have to spend so much time and money studying to further my career! Also, when men do give me things (food, attention, whatever) it's about as honest as the salespers…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 01:58 PM
1

Being forced to take dick in order to survive because society literally doesn't think you're a person, so you can't own property or get any education or work is DEFINITELY worse than working a hard job. Women didn't even have that privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 01:48 AM
2

what? Are you trying to be funny...?
/r/MensRights30/09/14 02:53 AM
8

-Hahahahahahaha young women masturbate less. Hahahahahahaha we put emphasis on the emotional aspect. -I get off to some "nasty" porn and have solo sessions that last HOURS. I'm a horny freak, not a delicate flower. -I haven't "explored my body"? Really? Then what was I doing when I had a mirror down there? -My friends and I literally shared vibrators. Washed of course. So you totally know that we never talk about getting off to each other. -"They haven't met me" Yes, because your penis is litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 03:42 PM
7

Instead, they hate 'wimpy' (I don't agree with that dehumanizing term) men And yet it wasn't feminists who coined the term "mangina"
/r/MensRights10/07/14 04:54 PM
1

2xc because women tend to be feminist. SRS... duh.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 08:06 PM
2

Wrong, that's just sex research. Sorry. What? lol you're mistaken, because.... I said the #1 fantasy is rape. Fantasy roleplay =! RAPE. GET THIS INTO YOUR HEAD. You're a rapist in waiting, if you haven't already violated some poor woman.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 03:08 PM
1

They use female a lot more than male, which is weird. Also, this doesn't really show that they get equal press time because you can't get anything of the context of each instance of the words. For example "This man loves female elephants" has both gendered phrases, but is clearly about a man.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 02:21 PM
18

Ah, good ol' Murica. Move to Canada to avoid selective service?
/r/MensRights09/05/14 12:15 AM
1

You need to understand the context of thw practise in order to have hopes of eliminating it.
/r/MensRights08/05/14 01:16 PM
0

Women don't want to be raped, even by models. Even by the sexiest men in the world. why? Because as soon as THEY START TO RAPE YOU the'rw no longer attractive models, but FUCKING RAPISTS. god, you are filth, aren't you?
/r/MensRights08/05/14 01:15 PM
-4

Men don't have that parts that are illegal to mutilate. Black people have all of the parts white people have, just in a different colour. False equivalence.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 03:27 PM
6

I promise you women don't want to be raped by anyone, ever. It's not rape if they've agreed to act out a fantasy. No one want's to be violated. Being raped IS NOT a compliment.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 03:20 PM
2

I really want you to realise that this women, though "feminist" would be looked down upon but other feminists.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 03:18 PM
1

I'm saying that a lot of women like to be powerless and controlled in the bedroom. There's a reason a book as badly written as 50 Shades did so well. There's a difference, however, between acting out a fantasy with a trusted partner and being brutally assaulted.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 03:10 PM
0

Fringe, crazy "feminist", blatant outrage porn.... Yawn.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 02:56 PM
2

Do you understand bdsm and submissives at all? And why a rape fantasy makes sense in that context?
/r/MensRights07/05/14 02:56 PM
2

Nope, no consequences, ever. .../s
/r/MensRights07/05/14 02:27 PM
6

Why don't we just all agree that violence isn't fucking funny? Against men and women.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 02:19 PM
-4

Why not just introduce a new law for MGM? It's not discriminatory, men just don't have labia and clits.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 02:18 PM
-7

THANK YOU. They have really different cultural circumstances surrounding the practises and affect victims differently.
/r/MensRights07/05/14 02:17 PM
1

Men are shamed for acting out of line as to what society demands of them I agree with you up until that point.
/r/MensRights01/05/14 04:48 PM
1

Yep. Epiphany, remember? :)
/r/MensRights29/04/14 11:17 PM
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Trends can't tell you what every person in a group will be like.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 03:50 PM
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Huh. Could it be, just maybe, that feminists are all different people with different sex lives? God, I've had an epiphany!
/r/MensRights29/04/14 03:45 PM
-1

Maybe you're the problem.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 03:26 PM
1

/s?
/r/MensRights29/04/14 02:58 PM
1

I'd argue that it goes beyond clothing.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 02:40 PM
3

Our brains are adaptable, and when it comes to things like culture and society, the software does more than the hardware.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/14 02:40 PM
1

I admit that we live in a heavily gendered world, nothing more (within that statement).
/r/MensRights29/04/14 02:39 PM
7

Except that this isn't the middle ages, and we already have enough babies...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 01:42 PM
8

TRP and their biotruths. Also, women are more valuable from who's perspective? It seems that you're using the male perspective as default.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 01:13 PM
0

So "masculine" is ok for both parties, but men are shamed for "femininity"?
/r/MensRights28/04/14 01:02 PM
1

I smell transphobia.
/r/MensRights27/04/14 10:24 PM
0

You're disregarding the fact that women's fashion is very different from men's fashion, and that clothes that are considered normal for girls to wear would be percieved very odd on a male, and vice versa.
/r/MensRights27/04/14 10:20 PM
1

I'd hesitate to say that men and women experience parenthood in the exact same way. Certainly there are plenty of psychological similarities, but there's no denying that women experience biological/hormonal changes during pregnancy/childbirth that men don't.
/r/MensRights27/04/14 10:15 PM
0

Whew I agree conpletely.
/r/MensRights26/04/14 07:31 PM
0

This doesn't belong here.
/r/MensRights26/04/14 07:13 PM
3

Honestly can't tell if /s or not.
/r/MensRights26/04/14 07:13 PM
0

So some random women has a shitty opinion. That has nothing to do with Men's Rights.
/r/MensRights31/03/14 02:53 PM
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Considering how terrible TRP is, I'm glad this place is slowly improving.
/r/MensRights31/03/14 01:53 PM
-1

Totally agree. People are looking for different things at different times in their life. Why are you condemning them for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/14 09:06 AM
-1

Or...perhaps people and their tastes in partners change as they age?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/14 08:39 AM
1

So...a woman having fun in her youth and settling down when she finds a suitable partner and is at a time in her life where she can afford to have a family...that's "dehumanizing"? Because that sounds pretty fucking human to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/14 08:13 AM
6

And how often does that sort of scenario occur? It's interesting to hear about this from the perspective of the detective.
/r/MensRights30/03/14 12:35 AM
8

And how can you tell when a complaint is one of "these"? What sets off your bullshit detectors?
/r/MensRights30/03/14 12:06 AM
-8

lol bro, so fuckin jks
/r/MensRights30/03/14 12:01 AM
3

Where did I say that an accuser is a victim? I'm worried about your apparent lack of reading comprehension skills.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 11:46 PM
-6

Lol, you're so funny.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 11:45 PM
6

What do you mean you've investigated them?
/r/MensRights29/03/14 11:41 PM
-1

Hahaha you should check out the reception my comment received.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 11:38 PM
2

I sincerely want false accusers to get retribution, but I acknowledge that you can't persecute them without unintentionally persecuting the already disadvantaged and shaken rape victims. You're so intent on hating me, and frankly, it's amusing. Though it seems as though your rage is preventing you from rationally assessing my position.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 11:34 PM
1

For you to deny male victims the justice they deserve What are you talking about? I want justice for every male rape victim.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 11:24 PM
2

I never mentioned punishment, that doesn't mean I don't think it shouldn't happen. I just recognize that you can't put penalties in place for false accusers without adversely affecting legitimate male victims, which is an unfortunate reality. The solution to this problem isn't as simple as we'd all like for it to be.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 11:13 PM
9

I literally just stated that false rape accusations are horrible and should be prevented. I'm also concerned, however, about the ability for victims of traumatic sexual assaults to be able to prosecute their female agressors. I don't understand how you're finding misandry in that.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 10:51 PM
13

misandric piece of shit You clearly intend to participate in a legitimate discussion. If you cared about male victims of rape, you wouldn't want to make it harder for them to come forward. You're the one who is misandric.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 10:33 PM
4

Regardless of how often or infrequently it happens, it's horrible and should be prevented. But exaggerating the problem is dishonest, unhelpful, and makes people look like they're actively trying to invent and evoke outrage. And downvotes don't bother me. I'm fine if people disagree.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 09:15 PM
10

Because the use of the word "epidemic" in this context is ridiculous. Is it a problem? Yes. An epidemic?! Fuck no. Women don't just go around accusing people of rape like it's nothing.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 08:20 PM
-43

/s ...? I really hope you're being sarcastic.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 07:08 PM
3

Coming forward about rape is hard enough already, for male and female victims. I don't know what planet you live on.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 08:48 AM
20

It's not relevant.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 08:46 AM
2

Someone is paranoid.
/r/MensRights28/03/14 08:52 AM
0

Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/14 07:39 PM
1

Because no woman wants to be politically involved!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/14 08:23 AM
5

I think it has to do with this idea that men are always after sex, always chasing pussy, etc. Because of this idea that you, as a man, would want sex always, its hard for people to recognize the importance of consent from BOTH parties.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 05:08 AM
6

Women and men are more similar than they are different, and there is more difference within groups than there is between them. Human behaviours are intricate and complex, and attempting to explain them using genetics alone will set you up for failure. While some gender specific behavioural predispositions can be related to biological sex, it has been demonstrated that cultural influences can be so great that they overpower genetics. GNEEZY: It’s not that men and women are not born differently. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/14 06:42 AM
1

Your use of pseudo-science to justify your prejudice is hilarious. And kinda saddening.
/r/MensRights06/03/14 06:32 AM
2

So you're seriously trying to make a comparison between trickle-down economics and the way that Feminism affects men? -_-
/r/MensRights06/03/14 06:25 AM
0

I'm not trying to argue whether one is worse than the other. I'm pointing out that they're anatomically different procedures.
/r/MensRights04/03/14 02:17 PM
-3

I see them as different, but wrong in both cases (unless medically necessary). FGM removes the clitoris (the equivalent of the head of the penis), and in some instances removes the labia majora and sews together much of the vulva. I don't mean to trivialize MGM, just point out that they're very different anatomically.
/r/MensRights04/03/14 03:33 AM
0

Feminism isn't just for white middle class women. It's fighting for the rights of women all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/14 08:12 PM
2

The lack of downvotes has lead me to believe I need to make a necessary clarification of my point. The jokes in the article ARE sexist jokes.
/r/MensRights02/03/14 11:40 PM
1

cough cough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 07:18 PM
3

What makes you think it's a male/female difference? And not a this situation/that situation difference?
/r/MensRights02/03/14 06:58 PM
-3

Because heterosexual people are incapable of having mature and honest discussions. Okay. Your anecdote, while an excellent story, is useless when it comes to talking about rape on a widespread level.
/r/MensRights02/03/14 06:58 PM
2

But who they target doesn't matter, right?
/r/MensRights02/03/14 06:55 PM
2

This has nothing to do with Men's Rights.
/r/MensRights02/03/14 06:53 PM
0

And that hasn't made you think twice about things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 07:07 AM
0

People discuss Feminism all the time without comparing it to anything. Because of the way it's used in this one comment, a movement that has persisted for decades is suddenly invalid? You're desperate to use anything you can to discredit Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 06:43 AM
1

Your red pill goggles must make driving difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 06:27 AM
2

Making comparisons is useful when you're trying to get people to understand something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 06:22 AM
2

Except that feminism is generally accepted as a legitimate movement in academia... Making fun of hateful, horrible people is an excellent way of dealing with something that would be otherwise horrific. Some people deserve to be called out on their bullshit, TBP just does it with humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 06:06 AM
2

Can we avoid generalizing entire genders? SOME women are not willing to put in the work, SOME are. SOME men work incredibly hard and deserve all of their success, SOME don't put the work in and don't advance as far. Sweeping statements don't advance discussions.
/r/MensRights02/03/14 03:57 AM
8

Sexual jokes =! Sexist jokes.
/r/MensRights02/03/14 03:41 AM
0

Yes, people use "they" in a singular, gender-neutral way. People also use "he" in a singular, gender neutral way.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 07:18 AM
-1

It would have been, but he/him/his is still used to represent humanity, with she/her/hers being the special case. And nope, not at all. What's so terrible about it?
/r/MensRights01/03/14 05:29 AM
1

You're a man who has just been raped. You're shaken by the experience and terrified that no one will believe that it's happened to you - after all, "men don't get raped". You know that if you try to prosecute your rapist and she is determined not guilty ("women can't rape men!") YOU will end up facing a sentence, regardless of the fact that the truth is on your side. In a culture that barely appreciates that male rape is even possible, why would punishing men who don't succeed at prosecuting the…
/r/MensRights01/03/14 04:34 AM
1

...you didn't read the article you posted... sigh I understand that annoyance - of course there are paedophiles of both genders. What I'd like to point out is that because English doesn't really have an accepted gender neutral pronoun, masculine pronouns are often used as the "neutral", which seems to be the case in this circumstance. The article itself is nothing to be outraged at (unless you're a paedophile apologist).
/r/MensRights01/03/14 01:07 AM
3

TumblrInAction is scraping the bottom of the barrel when it comes to "feminists". SJWs aren't worth getting worked up about; only other SJWs take them seriously.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 12:43 AM
-7

That is not negotiable and is unquestionably morally correct. Except that it isn't. If we want there to be more support for male (and female) victims of sexual assault and rape, making it more dangerous to speak up about what's happened to them in a culture where people are already unlikely to believe them is a BAD IDEA, hands down.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 12:38 AM
1

I'm still not sure what your issue with this article is.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 12:33 AM
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