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If I break your arm, and then I break an item that you made with that same arm, would you say it's conceptually the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 01:07 AM
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Dude, maybe the women you go out with are just not into you...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:52 PM
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It actually is conceptually different. Your body is directly connected to you. Your money is a step removed from the labor your body put in. Most people would be upset to have money stolen from them, yes, but most people would agree that being raped or assaulted is far more traumatic. I can't believe I'm arguing with you about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:40 PM
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Giving away use of your body is very different from giving away $20 for a dinner date. Men can be raped too, and those that acknowledge that will agree with me here. You're not making a fair comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:33 PM
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I'm not sure what comparison you're trying to draw here. Withdrawing sexual consent is very different from breaking off a relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:29 PM
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I think the difference is when you decide to cut it off. Do you dump her literally right after sex, or do you give it another proper date or two to decide? Do you give her solid ground to think you're dumping her because you're incompatible, or can she reasonably assume you got your nut and lost interest because of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:34 PM
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This is called the 7 year itch and women are susceptible to it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:06 AM
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Women who say these are naive and don't know when to call it quits with a man who's just stringing her along. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:07 PM
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Lmao. When that happens you tell the waitstaff to split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 06:18 AM
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That's fine. It's not in touch with my reality. Go to those other lands, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:10 PM
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I mean, you're free to try this on every woman you get a date with until you find one who doesn't ghost you afterward, I guess. But I would. This is so out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:01 PM
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If there truly were men in the past who were only able to get married due to their income, then I feel sorry for them. Why would anyone envy that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 10:00 PM
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Oh, so now you're saying the 2 matches guys get are always low quality. Is that really the case or are you stretching your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:17 PM
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People tend to be happier with fewer choices, actually: https://www.google.com/amp/s/brainworldmagazine.com/cant-decide-increase-choices-decreases-happiness/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:41 AM
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Tinder could solve it by only allowing 10 right swipes per day I agree with this, but then something also needs to be done about the fact that the app skews male 7:1 or some crazy high ratio like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:39 AM
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Many of the men you're competing with are these guys a good portion of men that will systematically swipe right on everyvone and conversation with them will fizzle out very quickly. It's not as cutthroat of a competition as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:20 AM
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It is just as bad. It's a different burden. Did you even read what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:07 AM
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Lol if you got 200 matches, you would not settle for just "not butt ugly" either. I also didn't say Women get 200 matches and don’t find anything I said they have a tough time finding a true match, because they have to sort through and vet everyone. Versus men need to keep swiping and be patient. They're different burdens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:44 PM
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Yup. There's app matches and then there's true matches. Men and women both have a tough time finding true matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:57 PM
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You know at some point in history we invented Viagra, but looking forward maybe it wouldn't be such a bad idea to invent a libido suppressor for men. Especially since birth control essentially functions as one for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:05 PM
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Fascinating, thank you for your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:06 PM
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Good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:36 PM
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Ok so here's the hypothetical. You sign away your reproductive rights. You go out, have tons of sex, eventually meet a special woman and you fall in love. She wants children. You can't have any. What do? Break up? Or....stay with her and raise her kid that she got from a sperm bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:35 PM
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Getting a wife will not be easy if most women you meet want biological children. Would you marry someone who has children from a sperm bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:22 PM
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Lots of women do want children at some point, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:21 PM
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Assume you don't get the option. Would you willingly take yourself out of the gene pool in exchange for easy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:20 PM
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I mean...you also earned your money (probably).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 02:23 PM
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Ok, now it's important that we make a distinction here: which is the need, sex or ejaculation? The existence of gay men tells me there is nothing inherently special about a pussy. I'm inclined to believe it's the latter, and that this "sex is a need" mantra I keep hearing is bullcrap. You all can just masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:51 AM
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Last I checked PPD was majority male
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:40 AM
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I guess I meant "happy enough to stop shitposting on PPD", hah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 04:06 AM
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What is "romantic attachment"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 10:03 PM
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I'm a young woman and I think older men should stay the fuck in their lane. They have nothing to offer me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 02:38 PM
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I want to know how long each of his serious relationships were and how/why they ended, if he went through a promiscuous "phase" how come he is out of it and trying to date me now? I would also ask him what he learned from each of his relationships, and what he learned from his hookup phase. If I find out later that he lied in any of his answers it'd be an automatic dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:52 AM
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I don't see you clarifying what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:48 AM
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"I really like you, but I'm not ready for a relationship right now." "Let's just hang out and see where it goes." "Oh, I work crazy hours so I can only hang out with you at night." Men give women lame excuses too. The only productive response (for either gender) is to read between the lines and then politely excuse yourself. I've had plenty of dates go nowhere. I have been ghosted. And honestly if I were a dude and couldn't offer to pay for someone else's coffee without bitching and complaining …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:31 AM
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I agree with the others, this isn't much of a thought experiment but I'll bite. if it was incumbent on you to charm, impress or otherwise get the attention of a man you were interested in how would you do it? Give him a quick, sincere compliment and ask, "Would you like to go out for coffee sometime?" If you were to expected to lead sexual encounter with a passive partner how would you do it? With a passive partner my primary concern would be making sure I understand what his cues are for consen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:03 PM
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I think you're pretty. Love your eyebrows especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:18 PM
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It's worth noting that I just parroted what you said back at me with the genders reversed. You came at me first with the ridiculous accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 07:37 PM
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People who don't meet anyone's standards are faced with the same problem as people who can't find anybody who meets their standards: they're SOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:13 PM
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Men don't give a shit about women. They just wanna fuck. Why are you so personally offended? Edit: also it's well known that men especially don't give a fuck about women who "help" them reach the finish line. They get a big head and upgrade to a woman they couldn't get before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:58 PM
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What difference would it make if I did give a shit about late bloomers? Seriously. Please enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:32 PM
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It's a Big Deal in the sense that I'm expecting my life partner to be the only source of it. It's not a Big Deal in the sense that I'm willing to "try out" people until I find one I like...I treat it the same as first dates, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:44 PM
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I said ideally, my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:40 PM
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No, not always. But often enough that age gaps are a reliable indicator for an imbalanced relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:29 PM
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Depends why he's struggling. Honestly I'd refer him to a strong, positive male role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:39 PM
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Someone who's been alive longer, has become more stuck in their ways, has had more time to develop themselves and their self worth and self confidence...yes. General life experience includes dating experience, but you're obtuse if you're saying a 40yo virgin is "equal" to a 20yo person who's had a few relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:37 PM
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The power imbalance in an age gap relationship comes from life experience. Not dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:07 PM
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Do you not understand what rape means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:58 PM
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Are you arguing that those "worldly" should go out of their way to mentor people who are "behind the curve"? Because those two groups likely aren't going to interact with each other well organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:47 AM
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Mm, not true. Young men who date much older women also tend to get roped into patterns of being abused within the relationship. Simply because they're too young and insecure to know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:43 AM
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Yeah that's cool, but you didn't really answer the question. You say it's much harder for an inexperienced man to land an experienced woman...ok that's fair. But let's assume he does. Does the women then, within the relationship, have an unfair advantage? Can she get away with behaviors that benefit her at expense of the man, because the man simply doesn't know any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:41 AM
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Ideally you see your partner as your equal...not someone you "feel sympathy for". The late bloomers are best off finding other late bloomers, if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:29 AM
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I don't see how women could leverage sexual experience to their benefit, at the expense of the virgin male. Furthermore, I don't see why a sexually experienced woman would be more attracted to a virgin man...if anything it's usually the opposite. The power dynamic just isn't there. Or am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:28 AM
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I haven't seen any women claim they want virgins when their n-count is high. I don't see woman crying that men "hit the wall" once they've had too many sex partners. I don't see men asking for relationship advice where his more experienced lady partner is taking advantage of his inexperience by...??? making him do unwanted sex acts? I guess she could dead bedroom him. But I don't advocate for men to stay in such relationships either. If a relationship isn't serving you, you're always free to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:46 AM
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quality shitpost
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:48 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:47 PM
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My dad cheated on my mom, who was a virgin when she met him. I have zero faith in men's loyalty to begin with. All this fearmongering of "men won't want you if you're a slut!" is just that. Fearmongering. Apparently men won't want you if you're a virgin either. My partner knows my n-count, knows it is much higher than his, and he is still with me and treats me very well. Will he commit to me later down the road? Not really my concern. We are strong now and that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:35 PM
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Dark Mediterranean types or Asians, can't you read
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:20 PM
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Someone who meshes well with my personality, values, lifestyle. Someone who invests in the relationship equally or greater than the amount I do. Edit: I can't be any more specific than that. The reason (smart) young women look for Mr. Right Now is because people are still changing in their 20s. You cannot know who will be a good life partner in their 20s. They could be a very different person at 28 compared to 25. If I don't change, and my current partner doesn't change, could I see us being tog…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 05:47 PM
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Here's another way to look at it: you say your nana has a much easier time being old since all her progeny takes care of her. But that came with a cost too: she most likely sacrificed the majority of her own youth taking care of her kids. So when deciding whether or not to have kids, it's also important to consider which you would rather invest in. Your youth or your old age. I'm young and I'm coming up on a world ravaged by climate change, and to be quite honest, I think everyone regardless of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:53 PM
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You have to foster healthy, loving, family orientated relationships with them. All of which require time, energy, money, stability etc. Which not all women are fortunate to have. Your sister may not have ended up in a home with no visitors had she chosen to bond with other childless women, or developed other close social ties. Family isn't the only path to fulfillment, and to promote such a message is dangerous. I'm sorry for being so argumentative. I just don't want young women to read this and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:18 PM
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I'm hesitant to promote this "all women should have children" idea because the truth is your grandmother was lucky to have children and grandchildren who got to grow up and care enough to make time for her. Not all women who want children have the resources to care for them, and having a man around isn't a guarantee for a better outcome. Women who have children when their "nest" is inadequate may end up worse off, not better. All I'm saying is while your grandmother's situation is ideal, it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:48 PM
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That's for women to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:52 PM
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You can be the best wife in the world, and in the end your man can still cheat on you, use you or abandon you on your deathbed. It is best for a woman to maintain close female friendships for long term survival and wellbeing, and only keep men around as long as they add positive value to the woman's life. You can't change a man. Look at his actions not his words. Your pussy is interchangeable with someone else's. Make sure you view dick the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 02:18 PM
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