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Thanks. It really started because I met a self-described involuntary celibate person at my college. I related the story in another new comment in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:17 AM
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I'm not sure what it's like to date irl as a guy, so I can't agree or disagree for the first part.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:14 AM
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I met a guy in college last year who claimed he was involuntary celibate because he was Asian, 5'6, and autistic. At first, I was repulsed because he used that word to describe himself, but then I watched a video that I will not link here. It was very well-researched and talked about the difficulty that Asian guys face in dating, and had no bullshit and cut straight to the point. Since people don't often tell the unfiltered truth about things, I tried to disprove the video but could not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:13 AM
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I agree with the very last part of your sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:02 AM
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lmaooooo I get this all the time. This is an alt where I post things that aren't "safe" to post in more public spaces. Apparently if you write certain negative things you see, you're not a girl, so I'm sure my period will stop next month.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:01 AM
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I have done some research about this topic, and it was talked about in several Asian studies classes I had in college. I wish that people could have an honest conversation about this topic without getting shut down, but I guess talking about certain types of racism is deemed to be societally okay while talking about other types isn't. It was interesting to see the reactions that I get vs the ones my brother gets when we were in school and met friends socially. I wish I could elaborate but I'd ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:28 AM
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Rule 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:13 AM
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I guess he's lean and has a 6 pack. Not sure about "overcompensating," but it doesn't look like he has balloons under his skin or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:08 AM
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Of course it's a fake name. I'm still processing their worldview and trying to compare it to the relatively laissez-faire approach taken by the parents of most of my white friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:40 PM
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I can agree with the last paragraph, my brother complained the other day because he had diarrhea that "felt like he was being stabbed," in his own words. An hour later, he was fine. It was interesting to see how big of a deal he made about abdominal pain. So the dynamic in the house was very controlling. My parents used corporal punishment extensively when we were kids and demanded that we do well in school. They demanded that I get As, but I didn't have to take any advanced placement classes if…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:18 PM
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I'm 21, he's 27. I'm kind of shut-in also. Maybe that'll change soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:32 PM
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He's 5 years older than I am, 27 now. I have had a steady boyfriend since high school. The dynamic in some traditional Asian households is very weird, but what's weirder imo is the contrast between the culture in the house and the culture in school. I could make many posts about this, but I'll just say that it left my brother and I fairly disillusioned at first, then we became nihilistic in some ways because we could see lots of different kinds of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:48 PM
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He's a virgin despite having a 6 pack and a good STEM career. He told me he couldn't afford to think about it for too long and to never to tell his friends this because they saw him as a buff, successful, and confident guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:38 PM
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My bad. This is the right one; look at page 815. https://endchan.net/.media/eb65fa5ed20a05cf52415a3a64de598e-applicationpdf.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:49 AM
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https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/faculty-research/publications/political-ideology-racial-preferences-online-dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:06 PM
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Missed the point, and then used an ad hominem. Self-improvement for oneself is good if you're doing it for yourself. If you're doing it for women, it is simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:03 PM
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"All of these examples are reflective of various studies that have been carried out and reposted ad nauseam, but to little avail in wider society."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:19 PM
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It really might be "most." 95% of women of any race besides Asian or Indian will reject an Asian or Indian man for his race. 40% of Asian women will reject an Asian man for his race. At least for Asian men, that is "most women."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:18 PM
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Apparently, you can see that they are mediocre, so what makes them mediocre from what you've seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:54 AM
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I have a boyfriend but have observed other people closely. 40% of adult men are virgins as of 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:53 AM
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What makes them mediocre?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:41 AM
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From what I understand by talking to my male friends, it largely depends on their race. My white male friends mostly had at least two girlfriends in high school, a few hookups here and there, and at least one girlfriend in college. My Asian male friends are mostly virgins despite being skinnier, wealthier, and being of higher status families. In fact, they are "redpilled" in those regards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:37 AM
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There's a huge difference between the results a 5'6 and a 5'10 man will get. At 5'6, about 80% of women will reject him just for his height. At 5'10, about 10% of women will reject him just for his height. Let's split the difference and assume 5'8. At that point, it probably depends on race, all else being equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:33 AM
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It seems like a lot of men are desperate these days, and a good portion of the ones who aren't desperate are putting in work for pussy that may or may not manifest in their lives. In my opinion, that is idolization of pussy that isn't even mediocre; it just simply doesn't exist in one's life as far as one knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:13 AM
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Let's start from the top. Why wouldn't you give a fuck about what people do just because they're women? You were the one who compared it to a game, not me. Especially when you implied that lifting and "putting in the work" is what's required for men to fuck. This proves my point, that women don't have to do much while men have to lift and put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:10 AM
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I don't know if that's the "ideal life," but it sounds like a pretty good life to me even though I'm a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:26 AM
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And women don't generally have to play games to get the same results that your average man will after playing games, which is exactly my point. I don't see a point in lifting for a partner because I'm a girl. Lifting actually makes me less attractive in some ways. But I've started for health reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:25 AM
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You would not say simping is putting in time, effort, attention, affection, etc. into another hypothetical person who may or may not return it because you don't even know them yet? If you spend hours and hours getting in shape and picking clothes to attract a partner instead of doing other things that you really want to do, I would consider that a form of simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:55 AM
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But he did. https://looksmax.org/threads/itsover-is-slaying-in-colombia-now.364724/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:52 PM
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Apparently he does, he talked in one interview about how he would spend days swiping only to receive nothing while his white friends "killed it" on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:57 AM
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Here are some double standards to chew on. Consider an 8/10 Asian guy, a 4/10 white guy, and an average girl. Let's say that the 8/10 Asian guy is confident in himself and is constantly on his "purpose" and "grindset." Let's further say that the 4/10 white guy embodies all of the stereotypical "incel" traits. He hates women, has no aspirations besides being a NEET and using women for sex, and fantasizes about getting a woman pregnant, committing for 6 months, and then ghosting her for another wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:32 AM
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My Asian male friends have told me that there is no point in being confident as an Asian male as it will get you scorned by American society, which is majority white. According to them, Asians are just supposed to be obedient wageslaves. If they fight for raises, get into debates with coworkers, etc., it will reflect poorly on them and they may be indirectly punished. If this post is true, they may be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:04 AM
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I'm a 4'11 Asian girl with no job, no degree (still in college), a pudgy face with giant chipmunk cheeks, and A cup breasts. Not exactly your stereotypical "Stacy." My brother is 5'8, ripped with a 6 pack, defined and striking face, and has a STEM job and a great career. I once did a tinder experiment and got 500 matches in a day (I have a boyfriend, this was just an experiment. My brother struggles to get two or three matches a week. I found this video. Despite the "incel" content, it is extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:58 AM
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