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Id rather be delusional and not know that have it understood. Knowing about it and realizing that its next to impossible to reach is depressing That's honestly the real original Matrix Red Pill or Blue pill question, would "you" rather live in the fantasy, fabricated world of the matrix or know the truth. I'd rather be told a harsh reality and decide from there, but I don't think either option is necissarily wrong for anyone to choose for themselves. Its subjective for people in the middle range…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:39 AM
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Because it's not about being that rare exception. "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" can be thrown around like a meme, but also have some truth to it. What I find beautiful, I've had friends laugh at me for, at the same time I laugh at them for what they find beautiful. Even if someone looks in the mirror and thinks they're ugly, chances are there is someone out htere who thinks you're beautiful or handsome, and that it's more important to find that perosn, than to be concerned about those o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:20 AM
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At least for me, I get frustrated when I don't understand. Even if the results aren't in my favor, understanding things and being able to say "Ah I get it" is relieving, because I don't have to spend time thinking about it anymore. It's a waste of time to try to solve a problem that can't be fixed, it's a waste of life living it angry. In this case sure, it's another thing that can't be changed, but it also lessens the importance of those other things. How people look in the face is subjective, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:05 AM
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I don't disagree with that at all, I fully believe in most of things discussed here and that for most cases, those things do matter. What I'm saying is, those things matter when a person's face is average or lower, which is most people, which correlates with the majority of data on people. I'm saying that, if someone doesn't have an attractive face, that height, that success, that weight, that weight, has to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:57 AM
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It's not about being that exception, it's that even if its one out of one billion, if it exists, it means there is something fundamental to the decision making framework of the person making the exception that was strong enough to make it. Understanding that deeper level of why people do things makes a whole lot more things make sense, and makes life less negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:52 AM
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Which is the importance of my point, if two people both happen to view each other as their personal, subjective 8+, then they'll put aside those other things they might care about for other people. Face definitely is subjective, I've certainly argued with friends over it, but the point is for me, I'll look past those things if she's beautiful to me, and the same goes in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:50 AM
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I'll agree it's a "pointless" thing to mention insofar as there's nothing anyone can do about it, such is the luck or unluck of birth. But I believe it's worth acknowleding when broad claims of behavior are made when there are exceptions, which can provide insight into underlying decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:43 AM
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To that I'd just say, then those women dating those ugly guys are also, ugly. I'm saying people who are facially attractive are the ones accused of having "high standards", because I'm saying when it comes to "in your league" or "out of your league" has less to do with those other things and more with the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:39 AM
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Take: All complaints for men and women in dating are secondary to Face Attractiveness. Height, fitness, weight, personality, money, status. My personal opinion, the vast majority of people's face's are unnattractive, and that's why both men and women cope and focus on these other things to "elevate" themselves and make up for it. Short guy complaining he's short? Coping for being ugly. Poor guy coping? Ugly. Fat chick coping? Ugly. Mean and insane chick? Ugly. Women will date short guys that hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:34 AM
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Proportions definitely make or break a person's look man or woman. Being in the middle height wise your answer is more the kind of information I was wondering, cuz yeah a 5'0" woman is still gonna be shorter than the short guy, if not by much and so it might matter less to her. So in general I'm wondering what it is in a vague experiential sense about men being taller than women that I think both men and women prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:02 AM
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Can you elaborate on what it is about tallness you find attractive? If he did have a small dick do those reasons matter more in the long run?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:50 AM
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Certainly, I think based on how vocal a lot of men are about size, it matters way more to them. I could see women not caring much, but for the guys themselves, the confidence and self-image issues they feel would negatively affect their personality and behavior all around, to the point even if not directly, their dick size is affecting their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:41 AM
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No idea, that's why of the two superficial preferences that get thrown around a lot, that plenty of women say height doesn't matter and size doesn't matter, if they did, which matters more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:21 AM
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It definitely could be that dick size doesn't matter that much to women, which a lot of them claim, but the effects it has on a guys ego, confidence, self-image and all that for him go a much longer way. Like you said, could be that even if she's more physically attracted to the tall guy, he'd have underlying issues that just wouldn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:19 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/k33sq2yz14td1.png?width=1773&format=png&auto=webp&s=78d86a703fc7a7f9271ffe71fb35708a4237d080 Going off these studies I think its fairly on the low end of the distribution, the middle of those lines looks to me 4%, and 5'4" is the 4th percentile for height as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:13 AM
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I'm curious about women's perspective on it, from what I assume women that like tall men like the feeling of them towering over them and all around phsyically "bigger", for sexual and nonsexual reasons. And it's not hard to imagine why they'd prefer a bigger dick over a very small one if they're gonna be having sex a lot. So really what I'm interested in learning is how many women care more about that physical dynamic about height to how many only feel satisfied with guys with big dicks. Like I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:55 AM
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Fair point, goldilocks liked the middle for a reason, not too much or too little of one thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:41 AM
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That's why I'm wondering what matters more in the long run, cuz on social media you've got the two stereotypes of women, the ones that only want super tall guys, or guys with huge dicks. So if they had to choose, would they prefer feeling physically small next to their guy, or him having a big dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:25 AM
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Tall guy, 6' 2" but small dick, 4" or Short guy, 5' 4" but bigger dick, 7" in a long-term relationship? Probably the two things guys get insecure about the most, curious about men and women's perspective on it. Going off what's usually talked about, a tall guy is probably the pick at first glance without knowing him, so the question is assuming both guys had the same personality she liked, equally good facial attractiveness, which extreme is more preferable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:12 AM
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neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:00 PM
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valid counterpoint. I think it depends on the degree of kink we're talking then. I use rope with my partners but I consider that tame compared to some more extreme stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:13 PM
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fulfilling, feeling whole. problems just don't seem like problems when it's there. things that would otherwise stress me out are insignificant compared to going home and knowing someone wants me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:11 PM
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charisma can make "weird" physical features "quirky" instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:05 PM
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probably more ugly people. my guess attractive people are enough to turn someone on by their appearance alone, but ugly people need that extra fetish and kink shit to make it exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:04 PM
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That's fair, not talking about you but I suppose for many people it's hard to take someone at their word that that's the case and trust they aren't just waiting for another opportunity to make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:51 PM
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It's different from any other disagreement or conflict because it fundamentally changes the nature of the relationship. If I see someone as a friend and only a friend, I expect that's how they see me too. If they suddenly say they have or could have romantic feelings for me, I'll never see them the same way, and that can't be resolved through talking it out, it's far more than "trivial".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:47 PM
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Sure it can be flattering that someone sees you as having the qualities that'd make a good partner, and in a way that can be seen as a compliment. The problem with it though is about those intentions. If say I get hired for a job to work a register and I agreed to a contract saying that's my only job, and down the line I get told to mop the floors and take out the trash, something I didn't sign up for, I can be justifiably blindsided. Agreeing to be someone's friends comes with a set of expectat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:40 PM
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I believe men and women can be friends. I also believe men and women can't be friends with people they would want to date. I can gossip and chat about my dating life with the women I'm friends with and they can do the same because we're on the same page we're not each other's type. I fully believe being friends first is bad advice in more cases than the few exceptions it's not. Succeed or fail, if you find yourself interested ask soon after getting know someone. Becoming friends makes it clear t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:12 PM
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