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Yes thanks !
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/21 05:58 PM
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Okay, thanks ! :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 10:57 AM
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You can PM me if you're more confortable that way, I'm just looking to chat with people from my country about being RP in this very country :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 10:54 AM
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Can you tell me what country you're from ? I agree with what you say, it's sad...
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 10:44 AM
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Thank you a lot !
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 09:36 AM
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Oh that's nice for you that conservative relationships are normalized ! But it sucks that the economic problems prevent young people from starting their family :( ...
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 09:29 AM
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Oh thank you a lot ! I hope that I'll find my mentor too ! :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/20 03:35 PM
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Thank you for the advice !
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/20 04:35 AM
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Thank you for your feedback, I relate. I've reopened Twitter and Instagram but I don't dare to post, I'm so afraid of both judgement and ignorance
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 05:10 PM
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Thank you for your answer
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 03:39 PM
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Oh I'm sorry to hear that, I hope it goes well for you ❤
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 07:37 PM
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Is it PCOS ?
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 07:30 PM
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Thanks for your story ! We don't have exactly the same but I feel you being afraid of putting yourself on the internet. We have to get over ourselves!
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/20 06:05 AM
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Oh, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/20 06:02 AM
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Thank you for your answer !
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 06:59 PM
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I'm happy that some people relate ❤ Why don't you have it and do you plan on getting back ?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 06:56 PM
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Thank you for your answer, you're right that it can be practical
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 06:29 PM
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Thank you for defending me
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 06:28 PM
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Wow thank you a lot for your kind answer ! Yes I try to be as genuine as possible after years of putting on a facade that wasn't myself. Thank you for the advice, I have to be less anxious about social media indeed. Can I ask you how do you work to be less self focused ? I'm in a moment of pain so for sure Im self focused but I wish I could be less
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 06:27 PM
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What do you mean ? I'm mature to realize that social media is important to socialize ?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 04:46 PM
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You're right, thank you for the advice
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 03:22 PM
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Thank you for your answer, I've figured out that Iwanted to post stories first as I'm too afraid to post pictures and not getting likes. My "goal" would be to have some decent social media to give to my future connexions And thanks for the Link !
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 03:20 PM
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Thank you a lot for it. I agree with you in the sense that I I wouldn't mind if my friends were that vulnerable with me, but still I don't feel ready to be that vulnerable myself. But thank you a lot !
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 03:16 PM
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You're right, and I'm here thinking almost everdyday to what people from high school will think if I go back on social media, smh... I have to do whatever I want
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 03:12 PM
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I know that you're right but applying such good advice is still difficult, but thank you a lot
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 06:08 AM
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I hope that you're right but I can't accept it. I don't know what I should do, I know how I'll use Twitter again but not Instagram, what do you advice ? Liking people's picture for a couple of days/weeks and then posting my own ?
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 05:54 AM
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Indeed I lack of self-confidence and lately I've realized how disagreeable I was in high school. And as i have'nt seen all those people since high school they probably have a bad memory of me : I'm very afraid of getting 5 likes on my first pic. Is it ridicoulous ? Yes I know, but even if I dont like it either it matters so much nowadays. So i'm anxious of not having social media but im anxious of getting back too Social anxiety : I'm definitely intimidated by people but not to the extent of not…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 05:47 AM
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Thank you for your answer
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 07:26 PM
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Wow, thank you a lot for your answer, and of course I read it ! I didn't expect such help, your advice is very good and I'll do my best to follow it. Just one thing : I dont know if I will have the courage to tell my friends how lonely I feel. They probably already know that I'm quite lonely, and lets face it loneliness is not a desirable character threat, I would be afraid of loosing my friends
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 07:23 PM
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That you for your kind answer, however I'm not sure that if I never post anything my situation with staying in touch with others and remembering them that I exist will be helpful (I'm super envious that your probably didnt have to deal with all this social media thing at my age by the way)
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 07:15 PM
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I know that idealistically you're right but in fact people judge, even unconsciously so if they find out that I'm not on social media they righfully assume that I don't have a rich social life, which is an awful first impression that not only mean people that I don't want to be friend with can get ... And I'm not "picky" with friends as I feel unable to connect with others, but I hope that you're right that I will find my group
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 07:11 PM
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Yes, it will help me get used to social media again and I like meme culture. Yes I need to have more connections than my 2 friends to make Snapchat useful, which is why I do not consider getting it again. And so many people dont have it and post stories on instagram anyways. But Instagram is a must nowadays so I have to get the courage to get there again after Twitter. I know that I need to make connections irl to make social media except Twitter useful but easier said that done, and at this pos…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 07:07 PM
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Thank you for your answer. It is reassuring and honest as you don't sugar coat the fact that indeed having social media is important at my age. I wish I could post nature pictures but I leave in a very ugly city and spend 1 week in the nature a year ... So only artsy or monument pictures could do it for me, but still I'm so afraid and ashamed, I can't help it. Everything is not other people's fault, I see how my bad behaviour could have affected my relationships in high school but what makes me …
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 06:50 PM
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Well actually I regret it, and it has been 5 years for me, I don't think that we are in the same situation but thank you. I have no ideas on how to meet new people IRL except in school
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 06:43 PM
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Thank you for your answer
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 01:35 PM
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Thank you for your explanation !
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 07:53 PM
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Thank you !
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 03:05 PM
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You're right, I unsubbed a while ago yet I'm still influenced by its extremism
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 04:39 AM
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Haha it often happens. Are you in a relationship now ? I hope that it works for you !
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 04:38 AM
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I don't think that we are liberal to the point of being the most liberal one, I think it would rather be Sweden if I had to pick one, but we are far more liberal than many American folks active on redpill spaces for sure. No of course it is not tolerable. I'm indeed mixed black and white but without any cultural or religious obligations, why did you think that ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 07:05 PM
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Thank you for the ideas !
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 05:54 PM
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That's good advice thank you, I have to find those 3 little things that would be doable every day
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 05:45 PM
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Do you have some other tip in addition to meditation that might help me to be present in the moment ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 05:38 PM
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Sure but most of men, even marriage material ones, are not red pilled so asking TRP wouldn't mean a lot, and I still believe that most of them would be suspicious. France
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 04:44 PM
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Thank you for your answer. I think that women "riding the CC" in their 20s are an exception, but I get what you mean. I wish you were right but I fear that in my country older virgin women still might get judged
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:40 PM
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I love the way you present things, it is beautiful
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:35 PM
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I know but easier said than done, of course I want to get rid of my stress. I exercice, diet, do my skincare. I do not do yoga though, but I try to self improve
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:30 PM
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I'm kind of afraid to enjoy it as I know it won't last... and at the very same time I'm already projecting my older self regretting that I didn't enjoy the beauty of my youth... I'm so messed up I know
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:29 PM
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Thank you a lot for your kind and reassuring comment
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:24 PM
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Thank you, I'm aware of the fact that we always should transform our worries into productive changes but it's easier said than done... I do exercise and care for my diet, I do not meditate though. "Worry without action" you're right, I try to change little by little. You mean a youtube Channel ? I don't know what to talk about as I don't feel ready to share my struggles publically
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:15 PM
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Thank you for your answer. For some reason I came to a huge realization reading it : my unexperience is causing 90% of my fear of aging, espacially the fact that I already feel old. The reason for that is as I'm a virgin I don't imagine myself in a relationship with somebody older than me, and as some guys my age date younger girls, I feel like an old woman with men of my age bracket condidering dating younger girls, which was almost never the case 3 years ago for example (16/17 yo girls could d…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 03:05 PM
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Thank you, you're right, I struggle to enjoy present time, I have to work on it
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 02:55 PM
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Thank you a lot
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 02:53 PM
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Thank you a lot for taking time to write such an answer, it helps !
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 02:50 PM
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What kind of good fiction do you recommand ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 02:48 PM
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Thank you for your answer, it's really encouraging
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 09:06 PM
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Thank you. I don't consume this content anymore but it has influenced my view of the world and of myself on a deeper level
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 08:59 PM
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Well, I used to agree with that but don't you think that staying in a relationship for too long without a proposal is not very reasonable ?
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 05:15 PM
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Thank you for your answer. I agree that I "have time" but now that I've discovered red pill theories I know that I would be mad waisting my best years for a man who won't marry me, which is likely in my culture
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 05:00 PM
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Thank you for your answer. I agree with you but in my country having standards such as waiting to get married before having sex or cohabitating is just unrealistic. You mentionned "if everyone is an established adult" : do you think that dating before being one, or dating a younger man who is not one yet, is a waist of time ?
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 04:50 PM
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I'm 19, but I'm not dating so I'm just asking theoretically
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 04:39 PM
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Where do you live ? I might help us understand your problem
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 05:32 PM
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If you have big bones and weight 55kg for 1m70 you can't look fat. If we can see your big bones nobody can think that you are fat because nobody associate presence of bones and fatness, on the contrary, it is associated which being of healty weight if not underweight. Your self-perception just seems incorrect
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 05:30 PM
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It is fine to do 50/50 financially if the couple does 50/50 for the chores It is fine if one partner does 100% of the chores as long as the other provides 100% financially Both are fair but for different type of people : "modern" v. "traditionnal" couple But if a woman is doing most of or all the chores, whereas her husband doesn't provide, the man is scamming the woman. And if a woman asks her husband to do chores regurlarly whereas she doesn't provide, the woman is scamming the man.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 05:21 PM
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In my opinion for men when it comes to looks and faking it always goes this way : "Real" beauty, little artificial > "fake"beauty > Real bad looks > artificial bad looks So if you think that it will make you look better and you like it,you a have no reason to worry
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 06:07 PM
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You are right, most of women are friends with women who are and often look like themselves. Groups of female friends are often groups of look-alikes when it comes to style and hobbies. No particular advice, stop overthiking, be friendly and that's it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 02:02 PM
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It depends : YES if we were childfree : no children, so no sacrifice for my career. Therefore I would be able to work 100% on it and to create my own patrimony as well as my husband would, so no reason for him to share his with me in case of divorce : it would have been my responsability to do as well as him in terms of income during the marriage. NO if we have children : if we do I would necessarily have to sacrifice a little bit of my professional life : even if I go back to work the day after…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:56 AM
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Why should young women not date young men ? Most of us are attracted to guys our age or slightly older, there's no reason why we should sacrifice ourselves and marry a man that doesn't attract us just because most of men decide that they are mature enough to marry only once they are in their 30s or even in their 40s ...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:13 PM
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antagonize The goal by reacting like that is not to antagonize them but to show them that I'm not open to anything. But the reaction is also done by instincts, so I don't think twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:38 AM
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We don't know you to answer why it happens specifically to you but personally I (19F) am often afraid of men who approach me on the streets, as simple as that. When I was a teenager the majority of men over 40 who approached me were creeps, and now I'm still afraid of men on the streets espacially if the street is empty, if the man is significatly taller or if he sounds agressive with a deep voice. Not necessarily their fault, but I can't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:22 PM
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