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That’s fine. Studies show that married men are happier and perform better in their careers while married women suffer and are unhappier overall vs when they’re single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:19 AM
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That’s how it is in nature. No need to complain “In nature, males and females usually differ in reproductive fitness optima.[3] Males generally prefer to maximize their number of offspring, and therefore their number of mates; females, on the other hand, tend to care more for their offspring and have fewer mates.[4] Because of this, there are generally more males available to mate at a given time, making females a limited resource” This is seen in mammals, birds, insects
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:11 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:08 PM
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I Agree. I hate how society teaches girls that being masculine is better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:06 AM
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I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:05 AM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:05 AM
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Did I? I answered the question of the post. I’m in a relationship, I didn’t say it from experience just things I’ve heard. Some people chose to take it personal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:58 PM
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So this is a man issue? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:45 PM
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Lol no? People should try to date whoever they want. If that’s their standard for who they want to date. I know girls that want a man that takes them traveling around the world, retired them, buys them houses and cars and more. Some guys want 3 polyamorous girlfriends who are extremely hot and worship him. Is anyone wrong? No. Will they easily find someone? Maybe not maybe yes. Everyone should want whatever, if they want to settle for less that’s fine, if they don’t and would rather be single th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:44 PM
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Don’t know don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:32 PM
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Maybe, idk. I’m saying people should date who they want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:31 PM
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People on reddit are always naked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:31 PM
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Well, I’m saying what women mean by it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:31 PM
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I don’t know, I don’t have casual sex. And I consider myself attractive. I wouldn’t think so. It’s okay for anyone to set their standards as high as they want and be confident. If the get a partner or not is irrelevant. Have whatever standards you want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:53 PM
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That’s the case for insecure men who think you’re too good for them and you will leave so they sabotage. Weak men are the worst dating partners
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:50 PM
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I’ve heard the opposite. A lot of girls don’t like dating guys “below them” because it boost their ego. “Oh if I can get a hot girl like what I can get a hotter girl” and they can start to treat the girl shitty. This is the case for very very insecure men with big egos
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:49 PM
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Well yea. That’s what dad bod is lol. No woman means chubby when they say dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:40 PM
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r/dadbod
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:39 PM
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Dad bod with strong arms >
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:56 PM
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I can confirm dildos are inferior, cold and not soft
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:11 PM
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Yes money in itself is not what women need. But status and feeling provided for like I said. if we needed bananas or rocks instead of currency men will bring them to women, and they would compete for it, and woman will choose a partner based if he can provide those rocks for her offspring Money is just what our society needs to survive. So that’s what they need
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:49 PM
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First paragraph. Not social constructor want someone with status or money. In other species all females want the most powerful strong male. Women need stability and protection and to be provided for. but I’m tired of people not listening to what I’m saying lmao so I’m done and won’t go deep into it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:38 PM
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Fucking crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:35 PM
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Females in all species are pickier than males. They get to choose who to reproduce with. There’s always a higher demand for female species. This is true across a lot of species. Passing on your genes (aka impregnating a woman) is valuable because it continues the survival of who “you” are. This goes back to the article I sent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:21 AM
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Men like power, feeling strong and in control. It boost their egos and makes them feel bigger than they are. They tend to be more violent and aggressive. They were the hunters and they used to prey on easy weak targets. This is why unhealthy men that have no discipline and purely fall to their animalistic instincts are violent and rape. Women care more about stability, being establish and feeling safe. Men that are older can provide that at better than a younger man can. There is the journey to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:18 AM
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Sometimes yea. Depends on the person. Most attractive women will want a man that is more close to looks. Similar to how an attractive guy will not go for an ugly girl. If I’m seeing a face every day it might as well be kind of nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:12 AM
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It affects attraction yes, but it’s not the best judgement for a long term partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:08 AM
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Okay? Males have Lower standards since the demand for females is usually higher in most animal species. That’s why women tend to control who reproduces and are picky with the competition. We’ve been knowing this https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_coercion_among_animals Genetics of course, since those are the genes that will affect a woman’s of spring. This affects what our bodies respond to in attraction, usually higher testosterone (at least during ovulation). And most women like me who don…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:06 AM
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It’s very much biology. Pretty much anything that led to our survival of our species has to do with biology. Younger women can have babies, older women can’t. Therefore you know to mate with younger women. That’s why the attraction happens. Similar to how you have instincts that make you afraid of the dark or instincts from seeing food that looks like it could poison you. As a life form on earth, if you get to live and reproduce you have helped with survival of your species. Brains will usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:04 AM
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Marketers know to market to women obsessively since there’s more money in it than marketing to men. Then they push it as much as they can because everything is money driven. They play with women’s emotions by knowing their weaknesses. The value of women in society is placed on youth and beauty, how do we make money ? Sell a bunch of products that promise women it will make them young and pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:00 AM
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Because our brains see youth= health, health=beauty . Also men love to feel in control and like the smarter, stronger, wiser person. Nothing better to do that than a young girl who doesn’t know any better. It helps with their egos
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:58 AM
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Maybe that’s where I’ve seen it. It’s a pretty good quote
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:56 AM
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If he’s a provider then sure. But I love a pretty lavish lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:55 AM
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Women don’t care for that tho, they care for protection and stability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:53 AM
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I’ve seen it a few times haha. But yes all rights to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:13 AM
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Definitely! :) I think it’s cool to recognize that both men and women have their own super powers. Like women right after they give birth releasing hormones so that they are synched to their baby, and can even make Breast milk with the nutrients the baby needs at the time. Nature is very fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:16 AM
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Yea I’m not saying money is on the priority of every women’s lists ( not everyone at least especially with the “independent woman” push ) but it is a need women have. Even if he doesn’t provide money, they want to be with someone that makes them feel secure PHYSICALLY not just emotionally, protected, provided for and everything else I said Again, physiological need. Women are physically weaker and we give birth which makes us extremely vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:12 AM
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Sure I agree. We are more exposed to more people with money which have the resources to look max.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:57 AM
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Not actually. It’s just what our monkey brains initially see as more attractive since it places focus on the womb area aka thoughts of birthing and fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:56 AM
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I made a comment about objectification. I disagree with the double standard. Men are more visual creatures, they have always been (for survival reasons) Men value looks a lot. For reasons I mentioned in other comments. Women do care about looks but value other things more than looks. Both are fine. Let’s just let everyone like what’s they like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:54 AM
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I’m never a hypocrite. I understand men objectify women because of testosterone (extra horny lol) and their actual need to reproduce with as many women as possible since that increases the spread / survival of their seed (even if they don’t want babies I mention this as a subconscious need which in result makes them hornier) This article is pretty interesting: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_coercion_among_animals Also men are more visual creatures and process visual information quicker(n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:50 AM
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No, if you think about it it pushes humanity forward. Same way that female deers only mating with the reinvest male with the biggest antlers (I’m just using this as an example) will over time create bigger deer with bigger antlers. “if women only fucked men who do handstands, every motherfucker would be walking on their hands tomorrow” I heard someone say one that if it wasn’t for women, men would be content with men living in a cave with a fireplace and a tv. Women control who reproduces (somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:45 AM
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That’s definitely it. Who men actually have sex doesn’t mean that it’s their most ideal partner to have sex with if they got to choose and there was no consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:40 AM
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No. It’s still a fundamental physiological need for women. Women can be stable in their career and be able to take care of themselves but doesn’t mean that they don’t desire to have a partner that makes them feel protected, provided and cared for. As the physically weaker sex (but still extremely important and powerful sex) women have an unconscious need to want to be protected and provided for. It’s evolution. That’s how our brains developed for thousands of years, and a hundred years of social…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:38 AM
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Society has always placed a greater importance in women’s looks. At least for the last 200 years. Look at Victorian fashion/beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:26 AM
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No. Because it’s embedded in our brains that younger people are stronger, more fertile and able to give birth. Thats how it has worked since the begging and for thousands of years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:48 PM
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Yes. But why do you think our brain has these preferences anyway? All species are motivated to breed, aka “fuck” because survival is just living and reproducing. Similar to how other animals are attracted to other animals by the color of their feathers or how big their horns are of whatever. They definitely don’t think of it that far. What we consider to look good, even preferring young women over older women, and being horny about it is definitely you’re brain saying “yes I want to breed that” …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:44 PM
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I care if a man is respected and has connections too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:40 PM
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Yes but High status usually means a man having more money and therefore being able to provide for a woman and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:12 PM
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I would say it’s different. Guys can get away with having wrinkles, acne scars, large pores, bushier eyebrows, larger noses, less symmetrical faces and still be attractive. The standards for women are higher. Usually a typical beautiful woman has smooth skin, nice eyebrows, symmetrical faces, smaller noses, thin faces etc which is usually why women spend more time/ money into their faces to be considered more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:10 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:24 PM
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Right, people do. But making the assumption that all women are attracted to thinner youthful looking guys is silly. Also just because you admire someone (I have a big crush in hardy styles) doesn’t necessarily mean you would date anyone that looks like them, they look up to them like gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:24 PM
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True, I’m saying body is more important than face, like a tall gif guy with an uglier face would do better than a overweight short guy with a nicer face. Also my overall point was that the standards for an attractive male face is lower than a woman’s. Especially if he has a beard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:20 PM
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Yes but I’m saying that the standards of what makes a guys face attractive is way lower than a woman’s, especially if he has facial hair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:17 PM
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Hot women, yes. What men find attractive in women has to do with what our brains see as signs of breed ability. Young, healthy, wide hips, ass, titties etc. small or big doesn’t matter and can depend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:27 PM
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Dude I’m in college and 21. I know a lot of girls between 18-25 and have a younger sister and knows her friends. Yes they’re popular but that’s not what most girls want lmao. You are the one that probably saw this on tik tok or Reddit and see it as a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:05 PM
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Bro people attracted to Kpop stars are usually teenagers/kids or from Asian countries where the men typically have that. That’s not a good stat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:34 PM
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Hell yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:32 PM
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It’s true. But I don’t think it’s a bad thing. Just like men have the instinct to go after women that look fertile, women always prefer men that can give them stability and protection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:30 PM
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Not true. I would say a mans body is way more important than his face. Men look more handsome when they’re a bit rugged and imperfect over perfectly symmetrical faces (which in my experience makes them look slightly feminine)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:29 PM
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This is very accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:28 PM
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That’s lame from their part. My man is just turning 40, but he’s very fit and attractive gets mistaken for 28 all the time. So it’s not like I’m with some ugly old dude for money. He takes care of me extremely well. And I do enjoy ddlg but it has nothing to do with my past. I was having some jealousy problems with polyamory, like everyone does, but we’ve talked about it since and he’s stopped seeing people. Not that I have to explain myself, you know nothing about my life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:33 AM
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My relationship is far from typical so I’m used to people talking shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:37 AM
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A lot of women are against it because of what porn promotes. Also sexual discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:41 AM
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My man and I are in a bdsm open relationship. It’s different. I’m speaking for people seeking monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:40 AM
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Lol even desperate insecure women would care less for that man. There’s plenty on men out in the world begging for women’s attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:52 AM
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A man that targets young insecure women from troubled backgrounds until they leave once they realize he’s a Pos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:34 AM
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Eyes, stubble/beard, smile, strong jawline, masculine nose??? I know that’s weird but it makes a difference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:09 AM
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I disagree, a woman’s value is heavy placed on her looks. More than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:08 PM
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No one is obviated to keep talking to someone if they lost interest or found someone better to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:55 PM
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Obviously I was exaggerating. But even swiping on a few accounts they still send a lot of messages. Doing multiple conversations at once is tiring and time consuming
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:33 PM
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Not always. My aunt didn’t have money and was a single mother and she married the VP of a company and he made her a stay at home wife and spoils tf out of her and treats her like a queen. She knew her worth. It’s just that society makes them think they’re less valuable but there’s a lot of men out there that love and respect single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:20 PM
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I only hear about these problems on the internet, never from guys I know in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:05 PM
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Yes. So many guys say they’re entrepreneurs these days bc they think they’ll become millionaires or drop shipping and selling courses. In reality they don’t know what their audience is or have any substance behind what they sell, they just want to make millions without putting in effort or work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:38 PM
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This is why. I’ve made a tinder and had hundreds of messages. It’s pretty impossible to talk with everyone and keep track of conversations/really get to know people. That’s definitely why it’s easy to ghost to instead talk to the guys who are engaging and meet our expectations better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:44 PM
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This is why I think 50/50 in bills is not fair in relationships. I will gladly clean an entire home and take care of everything, cook and childcare but the man better be providing. Otherwise it’s unfair for women: most of the time in modern society they are expected to work full time jobs and still do a majority of childcare and house keeping. And also all the child bearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:56 PM
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I’m 21, I want masculine men. Girls attracted to “boyish skinny” boys are usually under 18, since they are young girls like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:29 PM
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As a young woman who knows girls in their 20s and also teenagers bc of my younger sister. I’ll tell you that the ones that like these eboy skinny guys are usually teenagers, that’s why these guys are famous on tik tok which is a platform mainly used by teenagers. I was also into very skinny skater looking boys until I got older, and now I prefer a more “manly” man, aka bigger arms, hands, defined jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:59 PM
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I was making the point that I preferred a smaller size over the biggest one. But also had a better experience with my bf overall bc he’s good in bed and prioritizes my pleasure. That’s the most important thing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:09 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:06 AM
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I was a virgin with my boyfriend and I was alright, it did feel uncomfortable and hurt a little bit at first tho. But did it the first time we tried did not take a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:05 AM
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No dude, he was like ridiculously big probably a deformity. He was attractive and very tall, but he actually confessed to me that girls were all down to sleep with him until he got naked. Then A lot backed out. He couldn’t fit all inside me more like half. Me and my boyfriend have measured his own dick for fun, and yea this dude was like at least 3 inches bigger than him. I probably was exaggerating with the 11 tho realistically more like 9.5-10
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:02 AM
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I would prefer a guy with an average dick that lasted longer over a guy with a huge dick that lasted seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:04 AM
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I slept with a guy who was 11 inches and it hurt when he fucked me hard, yea it was kinda cool but not for daily use. I would always feel full after and be kinda sore the next day. If I had that everyday I would be sore all the time which in uncomfortable. My partner is 6.5-7 inches and I feel like that’s perfect. It goes in deep and feels good but it’s not too big. That’s the only people I’ve slept with tho so I have no idea what anything else would feel like. I had a 5 inch dildo and I felt li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:02 AM
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This is why young girls need to be taught their value, giving it up for free to assholes who don’t even care about them then being told by society that’s “empowerment” :/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:04 AM
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Probably under 5’7
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:53 AM
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I feel sorry for your wife. You don’t even understand what she went though. That’s why I wouldn’t marry/ have children with men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:27 PM
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No bro. Like I said watch videos of childbirth, and talk to women. You clearly don’t. “5 pounds of weight” you have no idea what you’re talking about. And yes I do actually, I’m given all those things and I don’t even have children. That’s what men provide when men care about you and your future. Why am I going to ruin my body, physical health, mental health, have long term side effects, all to give a man his children.Then expected to work full time while still taking care of everything at home …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:20 PM
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LMAOO I can’t believe that you said childbirth is risk free and easier than ever. You have clearly never watched a video of a woman giving birth or talked to a woman that has children about the side effects she had / and continues to deal with. I hope no woman ever has your children. I personally only date people that understand the risks and sacrifice that is childbirth, if a man wants me to have his children I need a house to my name, a car, and to be a SAHM (at least for their first 10 years)…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:46 AM
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But looks are the last thing I care about. I’ve dated other people. The only reason I said that was bc of the comment I replied to “if you care about security date a guy that is less physically attractive” I was making the point that it’s not always necessary, since they’re men that are attractive AND provide security/protection. But you don’t need to be attractive to provide that of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:43 AM
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I personally do that. Looks are some of the last things I care about when looking for a partner (to some extent of course) A lot of women think this also, we can’t make assumptions about everyone. However my current partner is extremely attractive, fit and provides the best security/protection. There’s men like that out there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:05 PM
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I’m extremely picky with men, and I still have a lot of choices. I don’t think most men can say that. Of course some can, but most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:21 PM
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As a woman 10000% Women have to deal with a lot more, which is why a lot of us seek for security/protection from men also, especially if we want a family with them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:18 PM
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Yea I wrote a comment about how realistically a girl will only setup a guy if she knows him well enough to know he’s emotionally mature, has his life together and is an actual nice guy. Otherwise it’s not worth it to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:54 PM
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You forgot an important detail. Girls will only set up guys with a girl if they see that he is a good guy who will treat her nicely, has his life together and is overall healthy emotionally. Girls will not recommend guys who they know are a player, toxic, abusive with a shitty job and porn/video game addictions. I mean unless the rate exception that the guy is incredibly hot and the friend is only looking for a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:51 PM
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She would be considered a millennial, I’m saying it’s more common amongst gen z. I also like bondage but that still not as common, unless it’s restriction like handcuffs in which case yes it’s also common. But I think those have always been
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:00 AM
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Mmm I’m 21, I would say 1000% that spanking and chocking is more common with my generation. It’s considered pretty vanilla
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:05 AM
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I’m 21F and my boyfriend is 40M, we’ve been together for years and live to together. He has the looks, money, personality, charm and treats me better than anyone. I’m very happy and we plan to be together forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:33 PM
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Survival of the fittest. Women are picky(or at least should be) and want competent men to bring/raise good humans that will help the world. Men that don’t fit that don’t get to reproduce. At least that’s how it should be, women need to raise their standards. I’ve learned women do have power over society, only reproduce with proper competent men and things would be Better. In theory anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:11 PM
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I was responding to a man that was saying me. Have it hard. I responded by saying women have it hard too so men can do their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:06 AM
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I think both are needed, everyone can get different moods
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:24 AM
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I think most women enjoy spanking + chocking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:23 AM
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My man is my dom, he is sweet and tender when I want it and rough when I want. A good man is both, just doing either one is not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:22 AM
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I’m with my boyfriend and I love him and would never leave him. I have gotten dms from djs and other men offering to fly me out and buy me things and a guy actually bought me a ticket/sent me money without me even asking him. I have 0 interests for those men. Here’s the thing, money means nothing if a man treats you like shit and doesn’t respect you. Yes women care about having the best mate possible (part of women’s survival instincts and what makes us feel secure in relationships and to feel s…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 01:54 AM
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I think so too, never said one is worse than the other. But definitely tired of the whole “boohoo women have it so easy, men lives hard” story
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:40 AM
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Fr, the kind of men that want to replace women with sex dolls bc they don’t “complain” and are available 24/7 are not men we want in society anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:20 AM
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That’s pretty sad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:14 AM
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Women are seen as objects by society and their entire value is placed on their looks like you just mentioned. They also have to deal with pregnancy and the pains that come with it. I think men can handle their end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:09 AM
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Same reason why a dildo doesn’t replace a talking, breathing man lol. I’m not a man but I figure it’s way different to actually place your dick inside someone who is warm,wet, and that can enjoy what you’re doing and moan, then sleep in your arms after. I feel like cold silicone can’t replace that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:04 AM
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This is so funny to me as a woman that’s horny 24/7 and has sex every day. But then again my partner is amazing at it, I can see women loosing interested after their man puts 0 effort and only cares about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:19 PM
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This is so funny to me as a woman that’s horny 24/7 and has sex every day. But then again my partner is amazing at it, I can see women loosing interested after their man puts 0 effort and only cares about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:19 PM
1

This is not everyone’s experience I’m speaking of my own. Also the grass is always greener
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:08 PM
1

This is not everyone’s experience I’m speaking of my own. Also the grass is always greener
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:04 PM
1

This is not everyone’s experience I’m speaking of my own. Also the grass is always greener
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:04 PM
1

This is not everyone’s experience I’m speaking of my own. Also the grass is always greener
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:04 PM
0

This is not everyone’s experience I’m speaking of my own. Also the grass is always greener
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:03 PM
3

I’m 21 dating a 40 year old man. It rocks in every way, in the happiest I’ve ever been
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:45 AM
1

It’s true, it’s bc he has BDE and he’s confident, you’re welcome to dm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:44 AM
2

An older experienced man or woman haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:11 AM
1

This is true, my bf spent all of his 20s traveling and going to clubs and trying to pick up on girls. In that time he learned learned how to eat out/fuck really good and during a gang bang a dude taught him how to finger girls in an insane way I have never felt before. Anyway, he’s so confident now and still gets a lot of girls. A lot tell him he pleases them like no guy ever has before. And they always come back. I’m like yup this is what I have every night. This is what girls call big dick ene…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:08 AM
0

I think you’re forgetting the fact that just because there’s guys out there wanting to be “sugar daddies” aka fly you out or buy you clothes(not even cash most of the time) in exchange for sex means women are interested. I’ve had men buy me plane tickets or send me money to get my nails done etc. but most of the time it’s to please them and they’re desperate for you to come see them. A lot just care about fucking you and will fly you out the next day then ghost you. It’s not a desirable experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:24 PM
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Yea but you want her to be homeless (most woman in her right mind would date a homeless man) and stupid. That doesn’t give you the best options. Any girl that’s more beautiful or smart would do way better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:41 PM
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I saw that, his “trying” for a relationship is swiping right on everyone on dating apps and approaching 6 girls when he goes to the club. That’s the last place most women look for something genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:38 PM
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Perfect, just as long as you’re not picky about looks, drugs/alcohol and don’t care if your girl has any long term ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:34 PM
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Right, a woman saying go do it doesn’t mean they agree with it or would accept you if you met in person especially as a potential partner. Most just pity you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:33 PM
4

Bro those are stereotypes. And women have to deal with a lot of BS from men too, women get cheated on and abused to, a lot of the times way worse than how women hurt men. you seem to forget that in your pity replies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:31 PM
1

As they should
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:28 PM
1

“Be homeless and find genuine love” lmaoooo with a girl that’s stupid and doesn’t care about her future maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:23 PM
2

Women are equally interested in dating and causal stuff, 100%. And not with men over 28 either. I’m in college and know so many girls in early 20s dating guys their age or older and having FWB, relationships, casual sex. it’s out there and it’s available, good women too that are beautiful and smart and kind. If you’re not finding that and see it as an impossible journey I would self reflect on why women don’t want to date/fuck you instead hating the market. Me and my partner are non monogamous a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:22 PM
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These responses are so sad lmao I guess men don’t want to know what being loved is like. If you think a relationship is just sex go ahead, you won’t know what it’s like for someone to care for you, love you, cook for you, but you little gifts that made them think of you, tell you how amazing you are and how much they desire you and more. But I see OP has all these negative thoughts about that anyway. If you want to be afraid of real love your whole life and only see it as transactional go ahead,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:12 PM
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Some women being all for it doesn’t mean must of us are, most wouldn’t take a guy who pays for sex seriously or want to date him long term
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:09 PM
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Sometimes I put on porn. Sometimes I fantasize about my man who is my daddy, I imagine him telling him I’m a good for girl for touching
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:04 AM
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Don’t be cringe about it and too straight forward like the guys on tinder who’s first message is “wanna fuck?”. There’s guys that are just interesting to talk to, they’re funny, confident and there’s no expectation on their part that anything will Happen. It’s like if it does cool, if not cool. There’s playful flirting and teasing but they never come off as too cocky or “chad bro”. Also these guys are normally attractive, even if they’re not stereotypical model looking guys the way they carry th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:43 PM
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I don’t think it’s as hard as men here make it out to be. have guy friends that very in height , size , careers etc. and a lot of them have very good luck with women. They’re charming, caring, confident and that makes them hot. I see a lot of guys complain here and make so many assumptions about women that I feel like they don’t actually talk to women or know many of them. It’s obvious. I think if you’re a respectful man, have ambition/goals, are independent, confident and know how to treat wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:57 PM
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I agree! I think masculine men have to be fatherly and that makes them very attractive. They protect, teach, guide, provide naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:38 PM
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I would define masculinity as: provider towards those he loves, protector of himself and those he loves, competitive in life/workplace/sports, takes accountability for his actions and behavior, likes to lead and take charge, and some others that I can’t think of rn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:36 PM
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No because I only let guys who actually care about me and who I really like to sleep with me, and it takes time to judge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:06 AM
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Not true. All the men I date have paid for me 100% (dates and bills) and want to even if I make my own money. Everyone is different
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:24 PM
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Well I didn’t mean that big of an age gap lol but yea I guess it’s not for everyone. I’m in an age gap relationship bc it’s my preference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:41 PM
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As a woman this is what I think when I go one here and see a bunch of guys playing victim. Maybe it is you bro and not her “standards”. I wonder how many of them actually know women or have talked to a few and generalized. Some of the things they talk about I have never even heard a woman show interest in
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:19 PM
1

I think young men should focus on self improvement, health/fitness and career. Maybe talk to a few girls for experience but nothing serious to distract you. Women prefer older/more established men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:01 PM
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My boyfriend, we’re non monogamous but I don’t have the need to sleep with anyone else. He’s just the right size, can go on for just the right time, can make me cum, and he’s very good good with his hands/mouth. I can also be open about any fantasy and he always wants to try. I def think about it every day .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:51 PM
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He just jokes around nothing bad. but yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:35 PM
2

My partner takes photos of me and is like “you look so good here you should post it!” he’s not insecure in our relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:55 PM
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I agree, I’m keeping memories of myself and getting compliments from friends. I’ll look back on them and remember the good times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:52 PM
1

My boyfriend leaves me for 2 minutes and by the time he comes back they’re usually be a guy or two surrounding me, he LOVES to mess with them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:49 PM
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He does think the first thing tho…it’s not like people don’t know what ass/titties look like. It’s just a body like everyone else. In response to the post, no, women don’t do it in malicious intent to get “sexual attention” unless of course she’s an influencer and that’s part of her brand or she’s single. We’re just trying to show our friends, we don’t have this overly analytical options of our own bodies. Being in a bathing suit is as normal as a guy taking pictures at the beach in shorts to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:43 PM
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I used to think I desired casual sex as a younger woman but after having sex with someone that I love and that knows my whole body, what I like and what makes me feel good, made me realize I didn’t. I think with women casual sex is not very worth it unless it’s someone that she finds very attractive and knows how to make her feel good, otherwise if it’s a stranger most of the time there’s little a woman get get in return. Of course that varies but yea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:07 AM
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I don’t see it as attention, we went to vacation somewhere tropical recently and I posted pictures of me there in a swim suit. My man loves the photos and wanted me to share them too. I think a part of it too is that I don’t think “I’m sexy and I want people to see” it’s like “these are my vacation photos, of course I’ll be in a thong bikini bc im at the beach but it’s not a big deal”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:39 PM
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I’m not saying he does have a shit personality, but that maybe the people could have been right or wrong. I know short guys who pull a lot of girls just bc they’re funny/charming
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:16 PM
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Maybe it is. We’re not the best judges of our own personality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:34 AM
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I don’t know who you’re speaking about but this doesn’t apply to women in my circle, I’ve never been with a man that acts like this. it’s super unattractive and not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:32 AM
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I agree, I’m just saying why some women look for that. If someone is not thinking about marriage my opinion doesn’t apply to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:53 PM
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That’s true, if I was currently dating for marriage I would ignore any dude looking for a hookup or “something casual/not trying to rush things”. They have to be sure about marriage and see it in the near future. There’s a lot of girls who get into relationships with dudes that don’t know what they want or are just messing around and hope that they change their minds and propose eventually…then 10 years go by and they’re in the same spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:39 PM
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Exactly, yet there’s women that have been dating a guy for over 5-10 years and still waiting/hoping for him to propose. It’s sad but they have to realize if It’s that long he clearly doesn’t care much about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:38 PM
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I think the solution to this is that women need to be more clear about their intentions and more strict to enforce them. I’ve seen so many women waste their youth to LTR that don’t work out and leave them single at 30. Sorry, my time is valuable, if you don’t plan to marry me and show your commitment I’m moving on to something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:51 PM
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I’m 21 and I plan be with a high value man I want to marry by 25. I would probably marry a man 30+. The answer is simple for me, when I’m 25 my brain will be fully developed, I’ll be at a good fertile age, and I’ll be at my peak in beauty and youth Therefore I’ll be able to find the best man that fits my high standards. I’ve been told I’m very attractive now 5’4 125 pounds, I like to workout and cook/clean well, and I’m working on starting a business because I want to work from home and have a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:47 PM
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Women date men that make more than them because if they want to start a family, a woman having children sets her back in her career/she’ll have to take time off etc and will need dad to take care of her while she takes care of kids. I don’t see a problem with it. This Doesn’t mean women want to be paid unfairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:18 PM
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That’s way below low value
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:33 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:32 AM
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But also, making minimum wage past being a college student is kind of low value
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:32 AM
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I think what women consider low value varies by her standards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:28 AM
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God that would be an absolute horrible “average”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:28 AM
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Narcissistic, lazy, negative about life, doesn’t put any effort into relationship after time goes by, doesn’t put effort towards special events, never buys you any gifts without you asking, has no protective/provider tendencies towards you, wants you to pay bills/cook/clean & do all chores, watches porn more than they have sex with you, doesn’t put effort into hygiene/appearance, doesn’t care about their health, never compliments you or makes you feel special, is irresponsible with money, doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:26 AM
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getting an offer from a dude to fly you out is kind of eh and I would say most girls ignore those because a lot are from creeps who just want to fly you out one day, fuck, then fly you out the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:45 PM
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Be confident(can go further than looks), body type largely depends on the girl but most girls don’t care for six packs, passionate about hobbies/career, nice but not in the “overly friendly” be a littleee bit cocky and sarcastic too(in a playful way), be someone that makes her feel confident and good about herself, be supportive of her emotions and show your soft side sometimes, be emotionally mature, responsible,be dominant and lead (this can make some women sexually attracted to you before you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:02 AM
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Because women enjoy having platonic male friends. If he admits he wants to fuck you that kind of tells his intentions and the only reason he became friends with you. It ruins the vibe sometimes not always thi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:53 PM
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You don’t owe anyone friendship but here’s my POV. There’s been guys who get close to me, we get to know each other over time in a completely friendly matter, they’re always friendly and nice to me platonically, I help them with stuff and they help me, he tells me what girls he’s into and I talk about boys, etc etc. we’re friends and we have a good friendship. Then out of no where you get a “nudes?” Or “want to fuck” text at 2 am. Like wow dude why did you pretend to want to be a friend for that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:12 PM
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Yes a nice personality = treating her nicely
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 02:48 PM
2

Mmm height more than face I would say. I’ve had my friends date some questionable looking guys but they had amazing personalities and treated them like queens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:30 AM
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I think being successful + having an amazing personality would get you anyone tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:02 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:18 PM
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Tbh I would say Mexican women. I will like to say I’m Mexican myself but I prefer taller men. A lot of my family, extended fam, and family friends that are Mexican date shorter men. I think it’s because Mexican women and men tend to be shorter(obviously not everyone my brother is 6ft). Just speaking from experience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:16 AM
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I’m 21F and regularly get cat called and have men offer to help me or pay for my stuff in public. I wouldn’t trade it but also I know I only get this because I’m young and conventionally attractive. You assume all women get this treatment but I promise you it’s only feminine presenting, “nice”, within a range of body types, younger women who do. I know once I’m past my young stage I will get less male attention and special treatment. My proof? The most attention I got ever in my life was when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:10 AM
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TikTok and Instagram , I don’t know a lot of people who use Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:07 AM
1

I’m a young woman (21) in a non monogamous relationship, I’m here mostly for the drama lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:15 PM
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But im non monogamous since I met my partner at 19. He’s 39
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:12 PM
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Right. But it’s literally the minimum qualification for me, approaching me is the first green flag. After conversations, him planning, taking me on dates, driving me, spoiling me, showing me he cares with actions and no words then we’re talking. You’re acting like I would any man that just talks to me lol. The way he approaches me and what he says matters too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:43 PM
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We should be equal and have the same rights and opportunities of course. But I wish more young people would agree more that we are not completely equal. There’s a strong fight right now to prove that men and women have no differences physically and mentally, example the fight to have trans women (born biologically male) to compete in female sports. Because it doesn’t matter since men and women are and should be equal. This is not true, during evolution both sexes developed differently and played…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:15 PM
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Also I never said “if a man doesn’t pursue me he is not Masculine enough” what I did say is that I personally want an assertive and masculine man who takes control and is confident to come up to me, if he doesn’t do that we are very likely not a good match for each other. Which is completely fine, I get plenty of attention from men and I’m in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:16 PM
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Yes. It sounds like you would best fitted with a masculine woman who likes to spoil, take control, dominate and baby her men. Then you would get to experience that too. The best part of this world is that there’s something out there for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:13 PM
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Well I would want the man I’m with to find me very attractive and is interested in pursuing me. Why would I want a boyfriend/husband who is only sort of attracted to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 04:40 PM
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Idk why this would be such a turn off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:56 PM
2

And it shouldn’t be that way? If you can’t pay for a date what makes you think you can afford a girlfriend/wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:55 PM
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Thank you, this is what (most feminine) women find attractive. A man that is confident, charming and assertive. Why would we want the guy in the corner who’s even too afraid to say hi? What does that say about him and how he would behave in the relationship? No thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:52 PM
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As a woman, I don’t approach men first and I don’t plan to. I give hints that I’m interested but overall it’s his job to pursue me. Simply because I’m a feminine woman and I want a dominant masculine man. I’m attracted to dominant men that are confident and take initiative. If they can’t even come up to me and have a conversation then that makes me doubt he can bring the leading, maturity, and assertiveness I want from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:47 PM
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I’m 21f, raised in Mexico and moved to America, I grew up around women that taught me how to cook,clean, be “coquetta”, dress in an attractive bit modest way, take care of kids and how to always have high standards and know what you want. I was taught men should pursue and chase me, open doors, take me on dates, be providers and protectors, always offer to pay, keep me safe. And if they weren’t respectful or too touchy too soon it’s not worth my time to move in to the next one. Also that there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:00 PM
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I do anal with my current partner but I don’t think I would want to in the future with anther partner. It’s a lot for my body, I’m young right now so it’s ok but def wouldn’t want to down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:32 PM
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I can see why you don’t have a partner. Your negative mindset and hatred is seriously unattractive, especially your views towards women. I would suggest working on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:32 PM
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It’s interesting that men think that women have some sort of advantage because they can get get fucked by any random dude. The perspective men vs women have towards sex can be so different. Most women don’t care about all these “options” since most of these dudes that are easy would provide cheap, fast, orgasm-less sex for them. It’s honestly a waste of time and just allowing a man to use you to jerk himself off. Eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:35 AM
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I think getting every single dollar back payed in child care plus cost for damages (emotional, mental, physical etc) then having no legal right over the child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 06:15 PM
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I agree this is the mindset I have
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:56 PM
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I would say that it’s pretty equal 50/50 from the people I’ve met, there are people with all sorts of beliefs and values out there. The only difference is that men (even tradicional men) benefit from seeking non-tradicional women to have fun with and explore before they are ready to commit. When it comes to marriage, tradicional- minded men will usually try to find a tradicional woman who fits their values, this might make it seem like there are less tradicional-minded men that there are. Tradic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:01 PM
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I (20f) am traditional in some sense. I don’t plan to wait until marriage but I don’t participate in casual sex with people I’m not in a relationship with, not for religious reasons just personal. I enjoy being and looking feminine, staying fit and cooking/cleaning, I’m also very naturally submissive and enjoy pleasing my man. I am attracted to tradicional masculine men and I would love to be a tradicional wife and cook clean and take care of children and home. I’m a business owner and want to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:36 PM
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As a woman who is 20, yes grey hair is definitely a fetish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:32 AM
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