SoftSofiHeaven Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Parenting conflict it’s still very early after the divorce. Idk why but i think kids often test boundaries a lot during that adjustment period, especially when the two homes feel very different. I think it's not always about discipline failing.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/03/26 08:55 PM
2	Looking for advice - Photographs/memories it sounds like you’re trying to take back some control after everything that happened. that makes sense. sometimes people delete everything and feel relief, but sometimes they regret doing it when the anger settles. putting them somewhere you won’t see them for a while can give you distance without making a permanent decision.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/26 07:47 PM
6	I ruined my marriage and now getting a divorce. it sounds like you’re taking real steps to change — going to AA and signing up for anger management isn’t easy, but it shows you’re trying to take responsibility. right now the best thing you can do is keep focusing on that work and staying consistent, especially for your son.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/26 07:21 PM
2	Looking for advice - Photographs/memories after 18 years that’s a lot of memories to deal with, so it makes sense that you’d want distance from them right now. some people don’t delete everything immediately.they just move the photos to a folder or external drive so they’re not seeing them daily. do you feel like deleting them would give you closure or are you just trying to stop the reminders?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/26 07:19 PM
3	When you fail the test when they try to act like they want to come back you didn’t fail a test. you just wanted to believe it was real. what made you think this time would be different?when someone test you like that the real lesson isn’t about you being stupid but about them showing you who they are i think	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/26 08:34 PM
2	Desperately need advice. that sounds incredibly exhausting. you’re carrying so much on your own just trying to keep everything together for your kids. ven in the middle of all this, are you able to get even a small moment just for yourself, quiet time for reset?sometimes tiny breaks can help a bit when everything feels overwhelming.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 09:29 PM
3	The regret is unbearable building walls to protect yourself and then realizing they cost you something real… yeah that’s a really painful thing to sit with.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 08:49 PM
5	The regret is unbearable Tgat sounds incredibly heavy to sit with, especially after so many years together. Realizing all of this at once can be brutal. Whats the hardest for you?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/26 08:33 PM