SoggyShoe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Shy guy starting to go to bars and one thing always comes to mind...What is it with girls and douchers? Girls are attracted to status- Having a direction in life, a good job, living on your own. The problem here is that girls can't figure this stuff out just by looking at you, and even if they talk to you they can't really be sure if you're lying or not. So, the better way for a girl to evaluate your status is by your behavior. High status guys act with confidence, they're self-amused, their mood isn't affected by the reactions of those around them, they're outcome independent. These guys might ha…	/r/seduction	18/10/13 10:26 PM
0	What to do with girls you see every day? That's kinda the point. Assertiveness and aggressiveness are masculine traits that help show intent, and makes it less likely that she misinterprets your intentions. And really, if she doesn't want to go she'll say no. Your sentence structure won't force her into a date, don't worry : )	/r/seduction	16/10/13 08:02 AM
1	Hey r/seduction, Im a recently graduated Psych student Im collecting data to create a model for Stages of development in pick up. I'm working my way into psych grad school and have a bunch of research experience in clinical/social psych. I really like the fact that you want to apply scientific methods to learn more about the way people learn game, but I think there's a couple things you could improve on. Firstly, what will happen after you collect your data- How do you plan to analyze this? Inferentially or descriptively? Secondly- Is age an accurate predictor of experience with the game? Probably not. A 40 year old who ha…	/r/seduction	11/10/13 03:44 AM
3	Anyone else have the problem with their standards being too high? The fact that you're acknowledging that, at least, is a big step. Since you've recognized the problem, you can protect yourself: Let yourself be validated by your own actions, not by the attention/responses of the girls. Become validated every time you're really direct about your intent. Become validated every time you're physical from the get-go. Become validated by the fact that you approach at all. Be validated by the hilarious rejections and blow-outs. Don't let the attention be what validat…	/r/seduction	11/10/13 03:23 AM
1	[FR] College class game Normally there's nothing wrong with pushing the interaction, since even if you get rejected as long as you're confident and don't seem to let it phase you, she won't find it weird and you can remain friends with her and still be introduced to her other friends. In this case she's already told you she has a boyfriend, so if she rejects you you'll be "that guy that hit on me even though he knew I had a boyfriend". If it does escalate to sex, you'll likely be a source of guilt. If you want somethin…	/r/seduction	02/10/13 03:34 AM
3	2 years and 276 days of going out and I still have not approached a single girl. Please help. Tomorrow go ask ten girls what time it is. Seriously, that's it. Don't worry about anything else at all. Just go do that. Report back when that's done.	/r/seduction	01/10/13 09:14 AM
1	[FR] College class game Girls that want to cheat on their boyfriends don't usually talk about the fact that they have a boyfriend. She might be interested in you, but the fact that she brought up the boyfriend during your first hang-out means that she's not available right now. If she becomes single, take a shot, in the meantime, let her introduce you to her friends.	/r/seduction	30/09/13 02:30 AM
2	Whats the best last minute advice or motivational tips before going to a party? Approach everyone you see without hesitation- Hot girls, ugly girls, guys. This gets that social momentum going. Approaching attractive girls isn't a big deal when you're approaching everyone. Be physical with everybody. Everyone gets high fives, handshakes. If they tell a good joke, guys can get a pat on the shoulder or girls can get a touch on the arm. Being physical with attractive girls isn't a big deal for you when you're being physical with everybody. Qualify everybody. You're not there to…	/r/seduction	28/09/13 11:08 AM
3	Competing with a natural Don't think of it as competing. Other guys can have success with girls and that doesn't mean you can't too. Unless he's actively getting in the way when you're trying to talk to girls, you have nothing to worry about.	/r/seduction	28/09/13 10:46 AM
2	Can't get over AA when out with friend. If they're not ready to change, you can't change them. Simply stop going out with them, go out solo or with other people that like to approach.	/r/seduction	28/09/13 10:43 AM
5	[FR] College class game She started talking about her relationship with you, and said you'd be a good boyfriend if you kept looking. That means you've already been friend-zoned.	/r/seduction	28/09/13 10:38 AM