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Yeah I mean idk your body count but for me around 40 or so girls even the novelty of hookups lose their luster. Once you’ve slept with enough women you’ve sort of slept with them all.
/r/BlackPillScience03/07/25 03:03 PM
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Could be a novelty thing. In all of my relationships my interest in sex has dwindled (but not disappeared) before her and my test last time I tested was at 975 ng/dl total and 23.4 pg/ml free which are both high end of normal range (total is actually outside of the range) for my lab.
/r/BlackPillScience03/07/25 02:19 PM
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I remember one time I was hanging out with this girl I'd somewhat recently met on hinge who "didn't really like giving head" (which is code for not liking giving you head) and I was showing her something on my phone when a another girl I was seeing randomly sent me a nude. She pried a bit but I kind of just played it off. The next morning the girl I was with wakes me up with a blowjob and makes me breakfast in bed. Another time I'm at a college bar with a group of friends including a girl I'd ho…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/23 07:03 PM
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This guy has admitted to behaving inappropriately so isn't really the best example imo...a better one would be Trevor Bauer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:18 PM
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I mean this has literally already been happening in the west for awhile now and it's getting worse. Women liked men better when they were higher T.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:54 PM
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He probably means like 5'10-6'1 which would be a fair amount He also works at a resort which is selecting for wealthier and attractive people on average. Not really a good sample imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:44 PM
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Men don't leave sick wives, they leave fat wives. As they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:41 PM
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you're 29, making 75K which is a good salary outside of SF/NYC Ehh even in cities like Seattle, Boston, DC, San Diego, etc.. 75k at 29 isn't a good salary
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 10:00 PM
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I mean this just sounds like Miami or LA.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/23 06:35 PM
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Like I said I've literally never met a woman in my entire life that actually uses reddit. At most I've heard comments like "Oh I think my brother uses that", but this form of social media is not nearly as popular with women as it is with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:07 PM
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Most guys with physical labor jobs don't get those kinds of physiques because they don't progressively overload.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:05 PM
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I think what's happening is that we're failing as a society at instilling the values and traits necessary in people to form, appreciate, and maintain lasting and fulfilling relationships, and that's really the lense that the more traditionally conservative vocally anti-divorce crowd is viewing the issue through. The problem is if two people have gotten themselves into a bad relationship, they're still probably better off splitting up anyways, regardless of whether or not society failed to mold t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:37 AM
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First off I'm convinced that a sizable amount of the "women" on here are men larping. Second, of the women on here many are likely either on the autism spectrum or disproportionately masculine in their demeanor compared to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:19 AM
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You're also on reddit. You're an outlier. I've literally never met a single woman IRL that uses reddit but about half of the men I know at least casually browse reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:10 AM
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As a man who used to be pudgy, you definitely don't need to be Arnold Schwarzenneger but a 12-15% body fat physique with no love handles, lightly visible abs, and some arm and shoulder definition is 100% a must if you want to routinely sleep with attractive women. The difference in interest and attention is night and day. I feel like that's what women really mean when they say "muscles don't matter". Like yeah most don't want roided out bodybuilders, but they don't realize that what they actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:06 PM
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you are either a 6'5" Chad with a six pack or you may as well give up ever smelling a pussy Lol, saw a post on 4chan awhile back in all caps that was like "UNLESS YOU'RE AN 11/10 TERACHAD IT'S LITERALLY OVER AND YOU SHOULD ROPE", annd then was a screenshot of one tiktok of a girl who had some semi-unreasonable "icks". Granted the OP was likely just trolling but the comment section made it very clear why these terminally online chuds remain terminally online chuds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:30 AM
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I've literally never encountered a situation with a girl where she refused to be emotionally vulnerable at some point outside of one night stands. Even in casual relationships it happens at some point. I can't even fathom what that would look like. I guess it would be a deal-breaker because it would be so weird I would think something is wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:24 AM
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I mean am I looking for a 19 year old virgin? No. But do I want to marry a girl who got gangbanged at frat parties in college and has a bodycount in the 70s? Also no. I would also probably rather be with a girl with some past sexual experience who I felt I was very compatible with over a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:20 AM
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So ALL women are collectively lying about their experience with men and somehow women also do more household labour and childcare even if their husband is unemployed? Any "study" where you ask people to self-report data is only useful in drawing the conclusion that this is what people perceive about themselves. Perceptions are different from reality. Nope, women still work more. In marriages where both work full time those "studies" come to this conclusion however in the aggregate many married w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:36 PM
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The stats from "studies" that are essentially surveys of what people self-report (ie. garbage). Not to mention that most of those studies find that men work more overall if you count work done outside of the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:26 PM
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Literally all of those "studies" are based on self-reported feelings of women (essentially they belong in the trash). There isn't a single one that blindly observes the behaviors of couples and tries to have a neutral third party determine reality. And even if we were to take them at face value, many suggest that men still work more overall if we take into account time spent at their jobs as men tend to work more hours than women. Growing up my own mother complained constantly about all the shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:45 PM
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She literally strawmanned the worst imaginable scenario her entire post. Flip the genders and she'd be labeled an incel. My father and most men I know are absolutely nothing like she described in her post. She's just bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:35 PM
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It's so weird but that's why I find it entertaining at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:07 AM
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Most of the men and women on this sub clearly harbor a lot of resentment for the opposite gender. A lot of "all men are rapists or ok with rape" because men think you shouldn't immediately presume guilt when an accusation is levied against someone and a lot of "women are delusional whores" because they'd prefer to date attractive men from the men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:49 AM
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Then stop rewarding that behavior in men😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:46 AM
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Honestly I don't think you should. Save some poor man the misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:41 AM
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I think what comes off as anger towards women is really anger towards the general feeling of being gaslit and lied to about what women are truly attracted to that a lot of men experience. A lot of men are also upset over the cultural shift towards casual sex because a casual sex culture is a net negative for 90% of men. They may barely if at all get to participate and then maybe some day get to settle with a girl who comes with the baggage of having dated tons of men who didn't give a shit about…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:15 PM
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Swap the "g" in "regarded" for a t and that's what he means to say. Just can't actually spell it out otherwise the reddit gestapo will sniff it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:06 PM
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I think what's true is lets say you take a man and a woman in their 30s who have both maintained their looks as best they can via diet, exercise, etc, and both worked hard in their 20's to set themselves up with a good career and professional and social network...the man will have an easier time dating. Now if that man was a loser in his late teens and 20s and did nothing to improve himself and is still a loser in his 30s, if anything it will be harder because he's fallen so far behind and misse…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:57 PM
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The average IQ of a CEO is ~120 which makes them fairly smarter than the average person but definitely not a genius and CEO is one of those positions you will not do well in if you lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:45 PM
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Ehh some are some aren't. A lot of the stereotypes about frats are exaggerated. It also depends on what school you go to. Greek culture at an academically inclined university on the west coast or northeast is going to be a lot different than at a party school in the midwest or south. At the end of the day my experience taught me that frat culture is really just party culture in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:40 PM
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But I personally know average/blah looking guys who get girls just by being non needy, cool and social. I mean this guy still fucked A LOT of new girls, he just didn't get much repeat business if that makes sense. Looks 100% matter to get your foot in the door more than anything else imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:39 PM
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There was a guy in my frat back in the day who was 6'4, lean muscular, good looking face, etc. Honestly looked like an abercrombie model. He had no issue getting interest from women but he could never seem to keep them interested. It finally made sense after I'd hooked up with this girl who I was under the impression that he'd only hooked up with like once or twice before as that's what he was telling all of us...well turns out they'd been hooking up regularly and she was losing interest because…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:00 PM
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When I was in college I knew of 4 separate men who were falsely accused of rape with legit evidence proving their innocence. The most egregious was a snapchat video of the girl literally on top of the guy riding him hard, moaning, saying his name, etc...every clear sign she was very into it and she still accused him of rape a couple days later when her bf heard rumors that she'd hooked up with a guy. Luckily for the falsley accused dude someone had the video and sent it to her and she backed off…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:07 AM
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Men tend to marry within their socioeconomic bracket because of proximity and nothing else, the difference is men would be willing to marry below their own for the right girl and the opposite is almost never true for women. Hell Matt Damon married a cocktail waitress with a kid from a previous marriage by the time he was already an A-list actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:53 PM
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Yeah mostly. About a 3yr age gap, different nationality but similar ethnicity (she's western slavic and I'm half western slavic, half nordic), similar religious beliefs (agnostic), intelligence I'd say is fairly similar although she thinks I'm a lot smarter than her. Socioeconomic background is hard to say because I'm American and she's from central Europe. For height she's 164cm and I'm 180 (5'4 and 5'11 in freedom units).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:06 PM
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Back in the day they used more innuendo and were less overt with the messaging but the underlying message was essentially the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:07 PM
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I mean yeah you don't need to be arnold schwarzanegger from Conan the barbarian big, but a lean muscular physique goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:31 PM
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I mean there are instincts to select males with high amounts of physical strength but physical strength is pointless if you're mentally weak. Sure physical strength isn't as relevant in a technologically advanced society for day to day existence but the instincts in women to select for it aren't gone and probably never will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:58 PM
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I was in an uber once and the driver was an older Korean immigrant. One of my buddies was drunk and rambling about some girl problems and the driver was like "You need stop talking like this. Women want men not just strong body but even stronger mind". It was honestly hilarious how she just called him out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:37 PM
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I agree. Humans are animals of condition and will repeat behaviors that are rewarded. In my personal experience I never had an easier time in my life getting laid than when I was an arrogant, douchey frat boy. I wasn't outright mean or insulting to women, but back then I showed very little regard for how my actions were affecting the women I was sleeping with and only cared about myself...and in general they loved it. Looking back it was actually kind of ridiculous the shit I was able to get awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:05 PM
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People are not routinely going around calling 5'11 people "tall" in the US. I'm 5'11 and no one has ever called me tall except in Asia and Mexico. Americans generally do not consider 5'11 "tall". Being taller than most women doesn't matter because women aren't comparing you to other women, they're comparing you to other men and 5'11 isn't wildly far off from average and there are still a significant portion of men around your height or taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:10 PM
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Women 100% keep around male friends as backup options without consciously realizing it. That's why whenever these threads pop up they get flooded with women saying "bUt mUh gUy FrIenDs pLatOnIc", like yeah...for now. Hell this happened in my friend group last year. This girl was dating guy A who decides out of the blue he's gonna take an offer for some temporary job in colorado and will be gone for at least a year so they break up. A few weeks later I hear rumors that she's into me and then she …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:38 PM
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My point is that very few people actually consider 5'11 "tall". Like yes it's technically taller than average but the vast majority of people aren't going to look at a 5'11 guy and say he's tall. "Tall" doesn't usually even get used to describe someone until they're like 6'1+. 5'9-5'11 is that range where you're not short but you're not tall either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:18 PM
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5'11 is definitely in the "average" range where people don't think of you as "Tall"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:03 AM
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Yeah I'm sure. Pretty much the entire focus around women's delusional standards in the manosphere community is around women who are nothing special themselves demanding men who are. They're calling out those women as delusional. No one is going to say that a woman like Jenna Ortega wanting to date a tall rich dude would be delusional considering she's young, pretty, and famous with no known "past". They're saying a tatted up, BBL'd, lip filler to the max 6 with an onlyfans wanting a high value g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:58 PM
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They're criticizing below average girls with those standards, no redpiller or blackpiller is going to say it's ridiculous for an 8 to only want to date her looksmatch, but an overweight 4 demanding a 6'+ wealthy man is probably delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:46 PM
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Well yeah you can't just say "sex is a bodily function like pooping" because it's not. You can go your entire life without having it, and don't technically need it to survive. Sex is an act you choose to engage in that uses your body. The type of disgust someone experiences imagining someone taking a shit vs. having sex is entirely different. Trying to say that thinking about your partner having sex with someone else is the same type of internal disgust as thinking about them taking a shit is ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:23 PM
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You're comparing involuntary bodily functions to a voluntary one though. It's a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:16 AM
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I mean if one does it surely there’s a point to it (in your view) Humans use "shame" all the time. It's only efficacious when the majority of people are in on the shaming and most people on this particular issue don't care enough either way. And no I really don’t think there is a point. But I’m here so might as well play it out, easier than unaliving If there's no point to humanity and the human experience, then there's no point to arguing how human society should live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:17 AM
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So those things don’t work. Why would some random man that has merch of him in a diaper shaming me encourage me to have children any further? Has the opposite effect. I never argued the efficacy of shaming. Why is the propagation of the human race necessary? This is pointless to argue. If you don't believe the human race is necessary then why are you here arguing? What's the point of experiencing anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:09 AM
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The message of "have kids and a family" is positive, not "showcase your life on social media"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:52 AM
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like good free medical care, free childcare, extended parental leave etc, instead of trying to convince and coerce women, who by their own volition would not become pregnant? There's pretty much 0 correlation with any of that and birthrates. Plenty of countries that offer that have similar or even lower birthrates than the US. It's entirely a cultural issue. What is not selfish about having kids only because your society expects you to, and you only do it so you can continue to participate in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:51 AM
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I don't know who that is. I would say that if someone is cherry-picking the negative or stressful aspects of parenthood and showcasing them in a way designed to discourage people to have kids, then that's bad for the future. My overall point is that pretty much anyone showcasing their life on social media is likely a narcissist or coping with something, the difference being that one spreads an objectively bad message, the other spreads an objectively good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:29 PM
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Mommy bloggers are mostly also doing it for validation, it's social media after-all. The difference is encouraging people to have kids and start families isn't objectively bad for the future like encouraging people to be single and childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:24 PM
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Most responses you're going to receive is going to be some form of "Cuz single bitter men" which is partially true but there's some truth to the other side as well. A lot of these women are coping with the fact that they weren't desirable to the men that they desired in their youth and didn't end up with a husband and kids so they post about how great their life is on social media to receive external validation that it is. People who are truly content with their lives don't need to showcase it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:59 PM
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I mean yeah for you but for others it is, and as a man my experience has generally been that the more a girl is into me the more open and willing she is to be sexually adventurous, often times not even at my request.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:48 PM
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This also doesn't necessarily mean that if a girl refuses anal, threesomes, bjs, ect that she doesn't desire you, everyone has their limits I literally acknowledged it's not always the case. My point is as a man once you go from being average/moderately attractive to very attractive and start sleeping with more women you notice a pattern that women are in general more enthusiastic about being sexually adventurous with you. I myself have been with women who have given every other signal otherwise…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:39 PM
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The point is the individual's reason for a low or high body count doesn't really matter because a) we can never truly know what's going on in someone else's head and b) can never really know if someone has truthfully divulged all the information about their past. As humans one of the most fundamental heuristics we operate by is that the best predictor of someone's future behavior is their past behavior. It's why you would never hire someone convicted of child abuse to run a daycare center. Sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:05 PM
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As redpill as I am, I’m not expecting a woman to engage in a sex act she finds uncomfortable. The point isn't getting women to engage in sex acts she finds uncomfortable, its that all of the sudden those sex acts that we're commonly told are "uncomfortable" stop being uncomfortable and are instead fun, exciting, and a regular part of sex when a woman lustfully desires you. Over time you notice a pattern that the more attractive you are the more likely a woman is going to give you head every time…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:47 PM
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I think that's what bluepillers miss about the real "goal" of TRP. The guys drawn to TRP aren't there because they simply want a girlfriend, they want women who are lustfully attracted to them and respect them. Plenty of "bluepillers" are able to get a girlfriend but are in unsatisfying relationships where the sex is infrequent, she rarely if ever gives head, refuses to try anal etc and that's what they really don't want. They want the girl that's willing to do anything in bed whenever he wants.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:30 PM
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All women are good for is sex, as that is all men want from a woman. Therefore, no women are special, because all they offer is sex and every woman can offer sex That's not fundamental to TRP. TRP simply informs you about the realities of intersexual dynamics and gives you tools to navigate the dating world to achieve your dating goals. Sure there are redpillers with this mindset but it's not a fundamental "tenet" of TRP. Plenty of redpillers also want successful LTRs and it's necessary to under…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:20 PM
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lmao what? Was Jennifer Lawrence's life ruined when her nudes were leaked? Kim Kardashian literally became famous from a sex tape being leaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:59 PM
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the way in which many men don’t completely respect you and the harsh criticism that women extend to one another Most women don't respect most men either, this isn't a unique experience to women. And have you heard the way women talk about men? In my experience it's just as demeaning if not worse than the way men talk about women. Your comment just reinforces my point that while society especially over the last 30 years has highlighted struggles unique to women, it basically ignores the fact that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:51 PM
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I think the main issue boils down to female solipsism. Women in general have far less empathy for men than men have for women by design. From an evolutionary standpoint it doesn't benefit them to feel empathy for a man struggling because at the end of the day she has the survival of her offspring to worry about. The problem with feminism is they might correctly (albeit the often exaggerate) point out an issue that is specific to women but they try and frame it like only women have issues and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:37 PM
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What's hilarious is the board of Mattel is literally 5 women and 7 men yet in the movie it's portrayed as all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:11 PM
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I highly doubt it. Most women by the time they reach 30 have much less interest in prioritizing a career over family life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:55 AM
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Women aren't "oppressed" in the west, the myth persists because of the apex fallacy. Yes the average woman is doing better than the average man, but the top 20% of men are doing better than the average woman and the top 20% of women which is why people believe "oppression" is real. They see that most CEOs are men and assume it's because of "le oppression" while conveniently ignoring that fact that it's usually only men who are actually willing to grind hard enough to ever become a CEO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:33 AM
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I think your perception of people in their 20s who make over 100k is a bit wrong. Sure some of those people exist but most are just dudes who went to good colleges, majored in something high demand and useful like STEM, finance/accounting, etc. and networked well into a good job. Of course you're going to have the handful of dudes who got lucky dropshipping or in crypto, but I wouldn't say the guy who studied his ass off to get a computer science degree and got a job making 150k out of college a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:38 PM
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I mean sure that doesn't help, but it's ignoring the fact that being 5'7 is going to be a straight up disqualifier for A LOT of women. I've had friends that short who are perfectly normal dudes get brutally rejected by women in front of people just for being short. One buddy of mine who is 5'6 literally had a girl laugh in his face because of it at a bar. Yeah guys who are like 5'9-5'11 and complaining about height are probably suffering from something else but chalking up really short dudes' la…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:46 PM
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Yeah I was going to say reddit goes the extreme in the opposite direction acting like if someone is poor then it's 100% the fault of some external factor they have no control over lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:30 PM
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My point is that your height isn't a limiting factor, if you're not having success with women it's due to something else. For a man who is 5'8, it might be the only reason he's getting rejected in certain instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:23 PM
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I've always said women aren't loyal to the man, but loyal to the way he makes her feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:11 PM
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I think the point is, take two guys who are of equal facial attractiveness but maybe both unkempt and overweight and have both of them spend 6 months getting in shape, refreshing their style, getting a proper haircut, etc. the return on investment is going to be greater for a guy who is 6'3 vs say 5'8, However I'd argue that once a guy is ~5'10-5'11, other things like facial attractiveness, social skills, style, etc. start to matter more than each incremental unit of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:08 PM
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Most men who are "upset" aren't really upset at the fact they're not viewed as long-term prospects, its the other way around. They're upset that women don't view them as the type of men she's willing to have hot, fun, short-term casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:05 PM
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Yeah there's definitely more bullshit on average that comes with American girls but women are still women. I'd say the main difference in preferences I noticed are that American women place more emphasis on a man being hot and fun, whereas Slovak girls place more emphasis on him being smart and not a pussy. American girls tend to be uglier though, dunno what it is. Totally agree. It's not like every girl walking around in Slovakia is a bombshell but I was just there visiting last month and it fe…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 06:53 AM
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I grew up in the US but am half Slovak and my current LTR is actually from Slovakia so I have a decent perspective on the differences between women in the US vs that part of the world and how it affects TRP. At the end of the day, women are ultimately attracted to and motivated by the same things. TRP applies whether or not I'm dating an American girl or a Slovak girl. The main difference is Slovak women didn't grow up in a culture that actively teaches them to hate men, so they dress and behave…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 11:35 PM
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While what you're saying is true, what OP is referring to is what women really mean when they say "men need to be more in touch with their emotions" which is "men need to handle their emotions like women" which I'd agree is horrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:20 PM
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Because if you were homeless and didn't work you went to prison...It's so fucking sad to see spoiled western kids become tankies and defend the shithole that was the USSR. You have no fucking idea how now nice you have it and just how fucking awful soviet oppression was.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:36 AM
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My father grew up in a soviet satellite-state...do not trust ANYTHING published by the USSR or any of it's former sattelite states. It's basically guaranteed to be complete BS. Second, no women were not "independent" and they did not make up 50% of engineers, that's another tankie revision of what life in those countries was actually like. Women were encouraged to be "trad". There was absolutely nothing redeemable about the USSR. It was a shithole and horribly oppressive. Maybe you could argue t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:40 AM
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I think a very fair critique of today's redpill movement is they say stuff like "women want to be submissive to a high value guy" which I'd agree is generally true, but they often do a poor job of describing what that actually means/looks like. It doesn't mean you treat your women like a lap dog you bark orders at and punish every time she doesn't follow one. It doesn't mean that you never ask her for her opinions, or never consider how your actions will affect her, quite the opposite actually. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:46 AM
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They're not a different species but they are a different sex and acting like men and women on average have exactly the same sociosexual tendencies is acting in bad faith. Women on average are far less likely than men to want to engage in casual sex, and on average are going to have similar standards for casual sex partners that they would for a long term partner. This doesn't mean the opposite never happens it's just not the tendency. I swear this sub can be so dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:09 AM
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Lmao it's not a made-up concept, what he's saying isn't even a controversial take. You're the one living in 🤡 world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:04 AM
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On average though that's not the case. There are outliers, but women's standards for men they have casual sex with and men they have relationships with are a lot more similar than they are for men who have very little to no standards for casual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:00 AM
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I think there's a degree of truth to this but it sometimes gets exaggerated. It's not like she's completely dry for the guy but he's probably the type of guy she only blows occasionally, wouldn't try anal for, would need toys/a vibrator to cum with, etc. She has enough attraction that she's not repulsed by the thought of him but he probably doesn't excite her like the ripped, cocky, coked out, frat boys she used to fuck around with in college, or the handsome and mysterious foreigner she dated f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:57 AM
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Yeah my point is whenever I see the "5'9 is average" cope, if you're talking to a white guy who's probably mostly around other white people and mostly interested in white women, 5'9 is short. Especially considering that statistically white women are the least likely to date outside of their own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:04 AM
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Race also matters as people tend to date within their race. The average US height is 5'9 but among white men its 5'10.5, hispanics is like 5'6-5'7, asians are around 5'7, blacks are 5'9 I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:18 PM
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Which is funny because in western Europe where its 180cm (5'10.85) the average height is greater than in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:15 PM
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I've never understood that. I'm 5'10.5 and my ex was 5'9 but in heels was taller than me and I never gave a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:14 PM
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A lot of the late 90s and early 2000s comedies, rom-coms, etc featured the common trope of the girl dating the jerk who leaves him for the "good guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:28 PM
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My experience is that promiscuous women are generally somewhat above average but are rarely the most attractive. Girls you would probably rate a 6 or 7 out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:25 PM
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Cope harder. Never once did I say yell at a waiter. I said that that in her head she's perceiving you as the type of person who isn't respected if even a waiter ignores you and that it's not even rational because there could be any number of reasons for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:13 PM
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"experts" LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:34 PM
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Bingo. Only a man that doesn't have somewhat of a presence and doesn't command respect gets ignored by a waiter. It's not exactly rational all the time but that's the subconscious reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:29 PM
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Men need to stop giving a shit about whether or not women care about our mental health. My mental health is my fucking problem why in the hell would I care what girls think about it. It's not like I really care about their's anyways I just want to fuck. Make friends, lift weights, and be useful. That alone will cure depression in 99% of males. Getting upset that women don't care about your fee fees won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:54 AM
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Some girls actually like skinny but no girls like 4'9...sorry man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:34 PM
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I think it depends on how short. A guy who's 5'10 but with a handsome face, good social status/skills, and a fit body is probably going to have an easier time dating than a guy who is 6'2 but skinny, somewhat awkward, and an average face but if that same 5'10 guy was 5'7 then I would argue he probably wouldn't. Once you're around 5'9-5'10 each incremental inch of height starts to matter less compared to those other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:37 PM
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This guy works in hospitality and acted unprofessionally. Like sure she might be overreacting a bit but it's still incredibly unprofessional to use the word rape in this context. I don't think this is the great injustice you're making it out to be. Anyone who isn't an absolute ret**d would know that.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/23 05:07 PM
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What is female nature then according to you? It's in her nature to be hypergamous as well as pick a safe and stable option particularly for long term mating. A man who checks out is sending signals that he may not actually be that stable so when another man enters the picture she's interested but isn't ready to jump ship (monkey branch in redpill speak) until she's pretty damn certain the new branch won't snap. So in the interim she finds a way to rationalize cheating on the current male because…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:30 PM
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I view it as being prepared for the realities of nature. Of course cheating isn't a morally justifiable action but some women who otherwise seem like fine people will do it and find a way to justify it regardless of the circumstances. Sure I could go on the internet and try and convince women that their mindset is toxic but the reality is women are pretty much hardwired to justify their behavior in any scenario and the ones that do take accountability are RARE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:40 PM
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I quite literally do not. I'm simply saying that as a man that understands female nature I'm not surprised at all that some men get cheated on after they check out of a relationship. I fully agree the the morally correct action would be to end the relationship if your needs aren't being met and A LOT of women will not do that...but I also understand that because of women's nature I would expect some amount of women to not do that. I'm basically saying that I have less sympathy for someone who ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:16 PM
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I didn't say the man checking out was a justification, just that often times when women cheat it's not on a doting partner as the post suggests.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:10 PM
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Women do not cheat on assholes with good men. Women cheat on good men with assholes. I think the real redpill is that women are capable of cheating on good men with assholes and often do... but that being said, I do think they will often cheat when their emotional needs aren't being met. I've seen men completely check out of the relationship and get cheated on and then act surprised when I'm like dude you checked out a long time ago no shit. I'll also say that when I've seen women cheat on the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:53 AM
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I was pretty successful with it from 21-25, but got bored at 26 and haven't had any dating apps installed on my phone in a year. Then I took a sabbatical at work and went to Europe for awhile and met and fell in love with a girl from Slovakia which kinda sucks because she doesn't wanna live in the US and I don't wanna move to Europe because I have too good of a career here in the US. So I guess it's time to install hinge again...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:02 AM
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I didn't passport bro on purpose but I spent an extended amount of time in the Central European Visegrad countries on sabbatical and it kind of made me understand where passport bros are coming from. The women in those countries were just more feminine and generally more pleasant to date than American women. That's not to say all of them were better than every American woman I've dated but the general trend was noticeable. I now have a girlfriend who's originally from Slovakia and she's the kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:04 PM
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First time having a discussion on reddit I see lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:39 PM
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The concept that anyone's history doesn't matter is fucking dumb as rocks. Why run background checks? Submit resumes for job applications? Hell why keep records of anything? The past doesn't matter right???? Of course no sane person would argue we should do away with any of that in society because we as humans fundamentally understand that someone's past behavior is the best predictor of their future behavior. If a girl has fucked 50 dudes I don't give a shit whether or not I'm the best she's ha…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 04:31 AM
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Speaking as a guy who works out more than that and has been doing it longer than 5 year I've been working out 4-5x/week for 8 years now, I know very well what I'm talking about. If you can't achieve Momoa's physique in that picture in 5 years of lifting then i don't know what to tell you man other than you might not know what you're doing as well as you think you do. It's very attainable with good diet and a solid 45 min-1hr workout 4x/week in ~2-3 years. I know he takes gear for Aquaman, but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:05 PM
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If you lift 4x/week for 45 mins-1hr per day you can EASILY maintain the physique Momoa has in that picture. The Average American male works ~44hrs/week...they have time for that they just choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:58 PM
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Eh I dumped an actual wife material LTR at 21 because I felt I'd missed out on sleeping around from 19-20 and then from 21-26 slept around a bunch with about a year of exclusivity to one girl in there and it's really not fulfilling. I finally met another girl about 7 months ago who is the first woman I've come across since that first LTR that also has legitimate wife material potential...and she lives in fucking Slovakia lol so that probably ain't gonna happen. Point is legit long term capable w…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 11:39 PM
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Yeah I tried a foursome once with a buddy and two girls back in college and neither of us were able to get hard. It was just way too much of a turnoff having another guy in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:51 PM
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Nah nothing like that, she was just incredibly erratic and every now and again would hit me up either crying or very excited about something. Shit was weird and honestly I hope she's doing ok but I had to remove myself from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:41 AM
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Lol so anyone who does content that might ever have a positive impact on men is now a redpill content creator?🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:34 AM
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I believe it's mostly due to biological factors that women tend to sleep more but I mostly agree that my main problem with these "who does more work studies" is it's self reported so IMO it's mostly garbage. ANY study on behavior that isn't blind observation where the participants either don't know they're being observed or at least why they're being observed belongs in the trash. Growing up my mom used to always complain that my dad never did enough yet both my sister and I remember him working…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:13 AM
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I went from making 87k to 120k about a year ago and my life didn't change much, granted I live in a HCOL city but your lifestyle is not radically different at those income levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:02 AM
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I make ~120k/yr right now and casually dated a sugar baby for awhile who made ~160-200k/yr essentially just going on dates with rich men. Sex was fire and she would take me out to nice steakhouses every now and again and pay but my god she was unstable and I eventually cut her off after she got mad that I denied an offer for money to have a threesome with one of her daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:01 AM
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My experience has been that pre-selection is definitely real. My last ex even admitted in front of our friends that she gained interest in me after seeing me on one occasion at a bar flirting with another attractive woman, and on a separate occasion at a different bar where a different attractive girl was crying over me (we were "breaking up" that night). She even admitted that all of her friends told her the second occasion was a massive red flag but that she didn't care because she was so curi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:42 PM
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I can tell OP has little to no experience dating. Redpill in some ways is taking the game that women play on men and flipping it on them. I have never dated a single woman that didn't try to manipulate and/or play games in some way at some point in the relationship. Now the degree and frequency to which they do will vary a lot by person but the way in which they do is generally very similar across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:10 PM
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"this is how you trick women into sex!" Dude that's not redpill at all. If you fundamentally change who you are in order to be more attractive you aren't "tricking" anyone, you simply became more attractive. There's nothing about "hit the gym, expand your social circle, have a good career, and become better at flirting" that's a "trick".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:08 PM
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The reality of nature is that most women will go through life having much more sex than they actually want and most men will go through life having far less. The duality exists to optimize birth rates. Accept it and get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:23 PM
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AskTRP had gone to shit before it left reddit IMO. Every other post was basically "Dumped my ex 3 days ago have already added 100lbs to my lifts, started 9 businesses, and added 7 girls to my rotation but like how do I plate my ex?" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:03 PM
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To be fair, they have brought some intelligent women on before but it's still 95% not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:01 PM
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That's my main gripe with FnF. Like ok yeah if I believed only miami club thots existed then I'd hate all women too but those girls are nowhere close the being representative of the average woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:00 PM
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If FnF are not redpill, what are they? They're grifters who latched onto a trend in order to grift. but in my opinion that is quite BB leaning and certainly not classic RP Lol no it's not, it was one of the core concepts of the sidebar of the redpill sub back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:56 AM
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Lol no its not. Redpill and PUA are not the same thing. I've been following the redpill sub since it started ~2012. Not being able to negotiate attraction doesn't mean you do nothing in your life to level up your attractiveness. It means that if a woman clearly indicates she's not attracted to you, you shouldn't waste your time trying to convince her that she should be. Instead you move onto other women and use the experience as an opportunity to reflect. It's why podcasts like FnF are fucking s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:31 PM
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One of the most important lessons taught by OG redpill IMO was that you can't negotiate attraction. If a woman is not attracted to you she simply isn't and it's a waste of your time and hers to try and convince her she should be. Doesn't matter if "on paper" you should be her type or whatever. While there is a degree of objectivity to attractiveness on a macro scale, on a micro scale its pretty subjective and there's no way you're gonna logic your way into the pussy so just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:38 PM
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I've never met a woman that didn't create 95% of the problems her "eMoTiOnAl lAboR" needed to address lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:20 PM
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It's why I just don't ask. It's come up before twice in my past only after she asked mine first and both times after volunteering hers, she either later trickle truthed or I found out she just lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:02 PM
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Eh that's not as true for women and the data would back it up. They tend to have similar standards for short and long term relationships. It's men who have very little standard for short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:59 PM
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think that their issues apply to most men. Lol bro most men do not live in frats or are any of those types you listed. Like you I also spent 4 years of my college life in a frat and they are not representative whatsoever of the experience of average men. There was never an easier time in my life to get laid than in a frat. Instant social status boost, access to lots of slutty women, and booze is a recipe for an easy lay. Maintaining or finding circles like that outside of college or after colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:03 PM
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Every single successful major society throughout recorded history has placed an emphasis on female fidelity for a reason. When males aren't certain that an offspring of a woman is theirs, they often lose interest in raising it and there is no one male to hold accountable as paternity is uncertain. This historically has led to societal instability as more and more children are raised without fathers and women have less resources available to them to support the offspring. In the modern era where …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/23 05:32 AM
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Men do so much better in life in a stable family with a wife and children as that is biologically and socially wanted. Men also feel needed in this type of arrangement that gives him purpose. That's only because the majority of men are not actually attractive enough to live a polygynous lifestyle. Of course you're going to be happier with a girlfriend if you're the type of guy who might go 2 years at a time without getting laid vs the type of guy who at most may only go 2 months without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:07 AM
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Have been considering fin but have heard this can happen, did it come back after you stopped?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:00 AM
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I know what you mean. My experience with modern dating is I'm far less likely to get a second date if I don't at least make a move on the first date. Doesn't mean sex actually has to occur, but the majority of women seem to want you to at least try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:19 PM
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Yeah the first comment is literally blaming men for having no standards which is based and taking actual accountability. I miss old TRP sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:38 AM
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While there are obviously things that are similar across all women I've found what makes it truly difficult to be great in bed as a man is you can fuck two girls almost the same way and one will love it while the other may hate it. You have to be really good at reading her body language and general energy and adjusting your performance based on what you're reading. However my personal hot take is that ~80% of what makes a guy great in bed or not is what she actually thinks/feels about you. The h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:06 AM
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Mine was the exact opposite. When I discovered redpill on reddit back in 2015 I was already having success with women and just felt like I had finally found some people who also knew what was up and were actually saying out loud what I had been noticing worked with women. To be fair, redpill today as it exists on social media is A LOT different than what it was back then. It's definitely gotten a lot more cringe. Hell the redpill circles online back then used to shit on dudes all the time who we…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:19 PM
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Men criticize our bodies, our sex life, how we dress, what we post online etc. Yet women dont judge random men on these things We're like 3 sentences into your novel and I can already tell you live under a rock. Get off reddit, go outside, and live.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:50 PM
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I think it's more like in every other facet of society we are willing to accept that dangerous people/situations exist and it's reasonable to expect everyone to take some level of precaution in their personal lives to avoid them. If not, why else would we lock our doors, wear seatbelts, avoid the sketchy part of town at night, etc... If I as a man went on a weeks long vacation with my doors unlocked and wide open and came back to find my house had been robbed I'd receive very little sympathy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:49 PM
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My family took a lot of road trips when I was a kid and the idea that my mom owned nothing isn't true, however my dad owned pretty much what OP detailed in his post. A couple of times our car actually did break down (late 90's fords lol) and in one of the instances I distinctly remember my dad fixing it himself, and the other my dad called a tow truck to a shop that had it fixed a day or two later. In the latter case my dad was on top of getting us a hotel while we waited for the car to be fixed…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:46 PM
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This is because about 75% of women report love for their affair partner which is the exact opposite of what you want if you believe in the dual-mating hypothesis. Women reporting "love" doesn't negate the dual mating strategy whatsoever, in fact it's exactly what I'd expect them to report about their affair partner. The vast majority of married women do not actually "love" their husbands, he's just stable and tolerable to be around. Women are not designed by nature to love most men, but they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:21 PM
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Overpopulation is a fucking myth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:55 PM
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Birth rates are below replacement level in western nations. There hasn't been a single civilization in history that has survived birth rates at current levels the west has. If we don't reverse course very soon then there is no ability to focus on creating a better and safer world because we will have no society left.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:10 AM
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It's not even about growth we're not reproducing enough to hit replacement levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:07 AM
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Birth rates are already low as shit in the west and we're about to suffer a population collapse in 50 years. We should absolutely be shaming people for not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:35 AM
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All an insecurity is, is a reaction to a perceived threat. Another man literally inside of your girl is a threat to your paternity. Sneako reacted how most men likely would who don't actively have a cuckolding fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:29 AM
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You asked why it would still break him and I answered. Technically Sneako was behaving immoral in the first place by ever cheating on his girlfriends but instinct doesn't give a shit about right vs. wrong. Morality is a construct of man, in nature there is no right vs wrong. All Sneako's hindbrain saw was his girl getting railed and it told him to not be ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:02 AM
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It's an innate instinct in men to protect paternity. Seeing a woman you've invested in getting railed by another dude will trigger that reaction in the vast majority of men regardless of whether or not that same man is fucking other women. No matter how many men a woman sleeps with, if she gets pregnant it's hers but the reverse isn't true for men which is why modern society constantly trying to apply the same standards for men and women is stupid as fuck. Men and women are not the same and neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:09 PM
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Same most of those girls are a solid 2 points lower than where they're ranked in that photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:58 PM
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Yeah and McKenzie Bezos became the richest woman in America by divorcing Jeff. She literally had the greatest incentive to leave. They were idiots for ever getting legally married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:47 PM
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Women only really "don't care" if the man is a truly exception multi-millionaire who is elevating her quality of life 100x beyond what she could on her own. Even then they still don't like being cheated on, they're just way more willing to tolerate it. Redpillers who think women like being cheated on are really delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:22 PM
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Divorce rape While I agree the internet exaggerates the prevalence of this occurring, it's not as uncommon as you're making it sound. My dad's best friend is a divorce attorney and while it's not the most typical outcome it does happen fairly often. Age gaps Agree the internet over-blows it. Drunk hookups Again while some circles on the internet act like it happens every other drunk hookup, I knew 4 guys personally who were verifiably falsely accused of rape after drunk hookups in college. It ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:42 PM
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Men and women both I'd say. But men seem to want relationships more than women anecdotally while women seem to be more likely to not be actively looks for a relationship while also not having sex. I think what it boils down to is men are more willing to settle for less than ideal relationships if it means they get frequent access to sex. The average man will take a girl he's not really compatible with, with a past that bothers him, etc if it means he gets laid because the average man often has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:19 PM
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Again I'll speak from personal experience, but I think generally men don't view other women as a threat. At the end of the day, another woman doesn't have a penis and can't satisfy a woman the way a man can. In my conversations with bi women on the topic they've basically expressed the same sentiment. Most of them have basically said something along the lines that while men are more likely to be bad at sex, the ones that are the best are generally more satisfying in bed then the women that are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:32 PM
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I've dated (casually and seriously) quite a few "bi" women and almost all of them have told me they think bi-sexual men are gross and I think it's because they do not like the idea of their man being dominated by another man. I remember one girl was telling me a story about how her mom was dating a guy who was a closeted bi-sexual and found out after 4 years that he was secretly meeting up with other men for casual sex. The part that really stuck out to me though when she was describing the stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:10 PM
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Lol this was my mom to a tee. Would constantly complain about how hard and how much work being a STAHM was even though my dad worked 50hrs/week to support a family of four on his income alone, and still did most of the yardwork on weekends, built two sheds, re-built our deck, porch, etc. He would also take me to all my sporting events and practices growing up. Yet that was never enough for my mom she would still complain he didn't do enough even though both my sister and I noticed him taking on …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:30 PM
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While roughly 50% of marriages end in divorce only ~30% of people who have ever been married will get divorced because the 50% stat is skewed by people who get multiple divorces. So ultimately 70% of individual women who get married will stay married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:55 AM
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There was a misleading study that came out a few years ago that the internet ran with where some academic misinterpreted a set of data and incorrectly concluded that women were happier single than married. While I think it's true that single women are probably on average happier being single than men, the research has shown that both married women and men are happier overall than single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:51 AM
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I notice the opposite. This sub seems way more blue than redpilled to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:47 AM
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The red-pill and other manosphere adjacent movements exist in response to a lot of extreme non-sense from normies not admitting the realities of intersexual dynamics or just ignoring them. Men and women are not the same and have different goals, desires, and needs from a relationship with the opposite sex. Mainstream dating advice is also mostly geared for women and it doesn't teach women how to be good partners but rather how they can maximize what they receive from men. Movements like the redp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:52 PM
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Not everyone who is red-pill resents women (although I won't deny that a lot if not most do). When I was more red-pilled (black pilled now) women would've never known because a) I was never ret***ed enough to bring it up and b) I never actually hated or resented women. I also discovered TRP after I was already having success with women and most of the information I read on the subreddit was mostly just re-affirming what I had already been experiencing. I think the the red-pill movement actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:55 AM
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I work in finance consulting and am around a lot of these high status bankers, partners, lawyers etc and you're right that they generally only marry women in their social/economic class. I think the point redpillers try to make is that if you picked one girl from that man's class and one below it but the one from a lower class was hotter, way sweeter, much more feminine, etc...most men would prefer the woman from the lower class. The reason this doesn't actually happen that much is because those…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:13 PM
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The current mainstream redpill is essentially just "hustle culture" that's been re-packaged as redpill and has been co-opted by grifters. Podcasts like fresh and fit are a good example of this imo. All they do is bring bimbo miami only-fans girls and club thots on their podcast which OG redpill would have told you to avoid anyways. The fact that they're trying to make a "point" by pointing out the obvious is silly as hell. Not only that but most of these grifters "solution" is to just chase clou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:54 PM
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The current mainstream redpill is very different from redpill on this site even just 3-5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:36 PM
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You personally didn't and I don't think it's fair that the OP attacked you for it but I think he's pointing out the generally socially accepted attitude in the west which is that its very ok for women to disparage a man for being a neckbeard loser living in mommy's basement, but it's not ok at all for a man to disparage a woman for having a slutty past. I don't think it's generally good to do either and OP is angry and got triggered by your comment but he's not exactly wrong in the sense that we…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:59 PM
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Not sure what pic you're referring to but in the video linked in the post I wouldn't say a single girl on that panel is above a 7 and most look 5-6.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:18 PM
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Well yeah I never said that men expecting a tradwife virgin aren't delusional as well. The delusion is simply thinking that's actually gonna happen for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:34 PM
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I'd agree and would also say it's delusional to set your standards geared at people who are 8s when you yourself are a 5 which I think is the point redpillers are making with the female delusion calculator. A lot of women who are themselves average or not much above it are demanding commitment from men who are significantly above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:02 PM
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I mean the female delusion calculator doesn't have a looks filter either, I just think their percentages tend to be lower because women have an income requirement as well as a much more restrictive height requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:55 PM
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Lol I know that. My point was having standards that narrow the pool down to 12.96% of women isn't delusional lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:44 PM
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Not married No children Any race Between 5'2 to 5'10 Not overweight or obese Any income 12.96%. Do I think I'm deluded? Well I'm a mid 20s male, ~6', income of 120k/yr, am fit and workout 5 days per week so no. Honestly the big difference maker between the men's and women's is most men won't have an income requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:47 PM
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As a man when I say 6 I mean kind of cute but not hot. So yeah technically "attractive" but on the very low end of the attractiveness spectrum. 8+ is "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:36 PM
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I'm sorry but if you think the girls on fresh and fit are attractive you have low standards bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:43 PM
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Lol redpillers act as if every woman in America was writing letters to Ted Bundy. Like ok some women are insane but who the fuck cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:39 PM
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Idk about you but most of the women they bring on that show are not very attractive IMO. Mostly 5's and 6's littered with tattoos that have had tons of work done and it's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:57 AM
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I'd agree that women don't like most men but the ones they do like they really fucking like. This reads as someone who's never actually been lusted over or desired by a woman. I don't say that to denigrate OP, just pointing out that women can be very in love with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:23 AM
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That's my point though I make $120k/yr USD so a 20EUR ticket for a 3hr+ train ride is nothing to me but to a girl from Eastern Slovakia where people make 600EUR/month that's a lot for a train ticket lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:00 PM
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I spent the most time in Czechia and Slovakia but my experience dating was quite the opposite. The women seemed to be put off by flashy displays of wealth and seemed to care much more about intelligence and how much I was willing to invest in them. Although at nightclubs and such I did notice that the men seemed to be much more "flashy" than at clubs in America. Also, I wouldn't say that American women are necessarily more "materialistic" but seem to be much more arbitrary in their pickiness if …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:31 AM
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Life experience really. I think a lot of what redpill says about intersexual dynamics is fundamentally correct but the idea that you can overcome shitty natural looks with game is pretty misguided. Game only matters once you're already at a base level of physical attractiveness, a large part of which is just your face. I've never been a socially awkward person, but nothing made more of a difference in my dating life than leaning out and my face masculinizing as I matured through the later stages…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:03 PM
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I was literally getting groped by women on the streets and half the time they weren't even prostitutes. Being white and from America is an advantage enough but even more so if you're good looking as well. It's just a completely different animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:37 AM
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I've posted some stories about my experiences rotating women on here and other subs in the past and I've gotten DMs from guys asking me to coach them on how to do it but never hate mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:22 AM
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Idk man, I went recently with a group of guys and the guys in our group who get virtually no action in the US were hooking up with pretty attractive girls in Thailand. Just being white and from the US is a major advantage there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:15 AM
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I'm a 26M and one of the women I'm currently casually seeing is a 30F. She is fit and attractive but I wouldn't date her seriously. Partially because of her age but mostly because I don't think she'd make a great girlfriend. One of the other girls I'm seeing is a 24F and to be honest her age does make her a more attractive long term prospect but the main reason I consider her more of a long term prospect is because she has a much sweeter personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:33 AM
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Possible yes but requires significantly more attention and planning to your diet because plant proteins generally aren't complete. It's much easier to just eat a pound of chicken breast and have a scoop of whey a day and not even have to think about it.
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/23 01:53 AM
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There's no point in trying to understand them. One of my problems with the whole redpill movement is dudes try way too hard to logic their way into pussy and it's just dumb because things like attraction, lust, and desire aren't really based in pure logic for either sex but especially women. As long as you know that you need to be very fit, not socially inept, and not a doormat you'll mostly be fine with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:30 AM
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All that said, even if you have absolutely unwavering boundaries, women on average don’t. This has generally been my experience as someone who went from being not hot to hot between ages 17-21. When you're a legitimately hot (8/10+) guy the vast majority of women drop any and all boundaries for you. I can't even count how many girls have told me my tinder profile looked like I was a fuckboy, or they heard I was a fuckboy etc in a way to try and denigrate me...like ok you're still here fucking me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:16 AM
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I mean ideally yes, but plenty will choose a good looking high status guy who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:01 AM
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I think the point is most women would rather take a well above average guy with regards to looks and status that isn't very loving and caring over an average guy that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:07 AM
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Considering that women have more and more freedom That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:01 AM
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Does this just continue until the utter collapse of society Yes. Every major civilization throughout history has collapsed and the west is at the beginning of it's collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:51 AM
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I agree that in the grand scheme of things, n-count by itself isn't a good enough metric to automatically disqualify a girl unless it's something really high like over 50. But a girl who is let's say 25 and has a count of 15? Idk, if she's attracted to me, treats me well, has a great personality, and no other red flags I wouldn't throw that away over body count alone. Now if she already has some other yellow flags and I found out her count is higher I might give it more consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:25 AM
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TRP as it stands now is pretty shit (talking like fresh n' fit and other social media "redpill" gurus), but he's not wrong in that OG TRP was about recognizing that the world has changed and adapting to play it to your advantage. A popular slogan back in the day was "ride the decline" which is basically a recognition that western civilization in particular is in decline but instead of getting angry or trying to "fix" it, you should just accept it for what it is and try to maximize your life's ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:21 AM
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Why not stay in the city? I don't really like my current city but if I was with someone I really loved I don't think I'd move. Also I'm not trying to be a dick just genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:18 PM
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Why aren't you with him then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:09 AM
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My point is until it's happened to you it's hard for a lot of people to understand what it actually feels like until it's happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:58 PM
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Many religious practices originated because of the conditions of the time. Circumcision to this day does lower STD rates and infections in third world countries without first world sanitation resources and access to things like condoms for example. Jews and muslims don't eat pork because back in the day pork was one of the least sanitary meats to eat and there was no good way to store it prior to refrigeration and freezing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:49 AM
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This is easily the most autistic sub on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:38 PM
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There actually is evidence. https://www.ncjrs.gov/txtfiles/dnaevid.txt - 25% of primary suspects excluded by forensic DNA testing. https://archive.org/details/sim_archives-of-sexual-behavior_1994_23_contents - 41% of allegations found to be false
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:09 PM
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Also on the false accusations, they're not nearly as "niche" as people think. People love to throw around the "only 2-10% of accusations are false" stat but that's an FBI statistic on accusations that have been proven false in a court of law. By that same logic I could claim that only 5% of rape allegations are actually true because convictions only occur in about 5% of cases. I disagree on your take about Amber Herd though. At first yes, but after the case pretty much everyone was on Depp's sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:42 AM
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I'm not arguing that I have a right to control or even want to control a woman's decisions. Simply that I will judge them. The problem is that women want to be free from judgement for their past decisions. They want to spend their 20s fucking every guy possible then expect the man they settle with to just be fine with it. You are free to do that if you want and I won't tell you that you can't, but I will judge it and simply choose to not take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:43 PM
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My point was who it is she's choosing doesn't really matter. We only care if she did more for that guy because its a solid indicator she doesn't find you as attractive and you should probably just leave the relationship or not invest much into it. The anger isn't placed at the woman (or shouldn't be), you should just leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:24 PM
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What really irritates men is the thought that she gave sexual access to another man for a lot less effort than he had to put in. I and most men I know don't really care if a girl has slept with men on the first date in the past if she also did for us. We won't really care if she's done things like anal or threesomes in the past if she also continues to do that for us. It's when she's done more for less for another guy that will really turn us off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:13 PM
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Why does who they've chosen in the past matter? ... I am interested in past relationships to the degree that I want to know any trauma or bad experiences they've had that may cause conflict between us in a current relationship You just answered your own question. Every single higher body count girl I've casually dated always reveals some bullshit she's dealing with internally because of exes. I have yet to meet a single higher body count woman (talking like over 20) that isn't a mess emotionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:09 PM
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Because women and men need each other to survive lol. Most resources in the world are produced/procured by men because like or not nature designed men to be better at it. If women completely cut themselves off from men, men would basically lose all motivation to produce for them. If a society of just women had to compete for resources against men they would lose. The male advantages in strength and aggression would be too much to overcome for a society of just women. Nature is cruel. It designed…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 07:37 AM
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I wouldn't trust 98% of research coming out of social science academia today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:20 AM
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Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:56 AM
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It was one study a few years back from Paul Dolan where he drew questionable conclusions and the internet ran with it as truth despite pretty much all other research on the topic finding married individuals with kids experiencing greater overall life satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:48 AM
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What's funny is that in more gender egalitarian countries less women tend to be in stem professions because news flash...they generally don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:44 AM
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Tate is an extreme reaction to extreme non-sense. Most of the mainstream advice or dialogue on dating, relationships, and masculinity is straight up horrible and often just anti-male so it's no surprise we're seeing a rise in pissed off dejected young males, and grifters like Tate coming in to capitalize on it. Maybe if the left would tone it down with the anti-male rhetoric the Tates of the world wouldn't be that popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:41 AM
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My take is that on average both men and women are horrible at understanding the other side's preferences, concerns, etc. when it comes to dating and relationships. You hear redpillers all the time talk about how many options women have without realizing that from their perspective 95% of those options are garbage. It'd be like going to a Mcdonald's with 100 options on the menu and 95 of them are some slight variation of the filet o' fish. No thanks. On the flipside, women often think all men wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:58 PM
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Yeah a capitalist is going to decide market to based on who is going to buy it. Boys don't like trucks because capitalists told them to. Capitalists market trucks to boys because that's who's interested in them. Ironically it's also capitalism that has allowed for feminism and the deconstruction of gender roles. Imagine convincing half the population that the other half is evil and wants to oppress them and that they'll be more fulfilled and "liberated" working for a corporation from 9-5 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:43 AM
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Except it literally is. Billy (on average) will like tonka trucks because his brain is designed by nature to be more interested in things, whereas sally's brain (on average) is far more interested in people. It's why’d young boys tend to prefer playing with things like trucks and legos, and young girls tend to prefer playing with dolls and stuffed animals. Gender roles weren't determined arbitrarily. They evolved over time because of our inherent physiological differences between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:23 AM
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Gender roles aren't silly. They make a fuck ton of sense in a species as sexually dimorphic as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:54 AM
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Arguing gender roles are silly in a species as sexually dimorphic as humans is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:29 AM
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They were both cringe as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:44 PM
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Apparently in interview with a vampire he had them dig small trenches in scenes where he was walking alongside Brad Pitt because he didn't want to appear that much shorter and Pitt is all of 5'11.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:20 PM
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I still generally believe that when you're trying to make conclusions related to human behavior the only actual way to do it is observe it without the subjects knowing they're being observed.
/r/BlackPillScience11/10/22 10:58 PM
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Any "study" that is just a survey belongs in the trash.
/r/BlackPillScience11/10/22 05:59 PM
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I think what women actually don't like about Tate spreading these ideas, is that their easy-to-manipulate averageish boyfriend will think he deserves to start acting like Tate when he doesn't. I also think Tate trolls a decent amount and is playing a bit of a caricature of himself but all he's really pointing out is that the game is different for high status men which is true. And let's be real...15 year olds going around calling themselves Alpha males is a) not Alpha in the slightest, and b) cr…
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