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Don't even bother trying to confront her. Literally a waste of time. Instead what you should do is use that to your advantage. If she has this guy on the side, she might be more inclined to go through the divorce ASAP without causing too many problems. That's a plus for you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 04:41 PM
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How much money are we talking here? how much in 401k, how much equity in the house? How much value in other assets?
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/22 06:00 PM
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Smart idea IMO especially if you're being wiped out. Convert all your money into crypto, do the demolition, then book the next flight overseas then bounce before she gets home :) By the time she gets home, you'll be on the flight, sipping on your margarita and living your best life 😎
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/22 02:57 AM
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Better get out and quick. There is a netflix documentary coming out soon (Sept 14th) called sins of our mother....about a lady named lori Daybell...a lady who found "god" and another man who claimed to be a prophet of the sorts. As she got more evangelical with this "religion" she eventually killed her husband to which she got away with it. Then a few years later she killed her own kids and buried them on her property....all so she could engage in a relationship with this "prophet". Be especiall…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 09:39 AM
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crazy women are often nuts in bed. Best sex I've ever had was with women who were more or less bat shit crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/22 07:38 PM
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British Columbia? You better look up the family code and quick. She might be entitled to more than you think. If I recall correctly, don't they have a law in Canada that says you're basically married if you live together?
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/22 06:01 PM
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Bingo and men need to realize that women can still date around "for fun" but they will only marry men with $$$ or $$$ potential (good career). The men they're actually attracted to and love are probably losers. In their young years, they're just party girls and go with the best looking men. Once they get older suddenly they're "over that phase" and just become gold diggers, looking for men that have $$$ or career potential. For lots of men like this, they're used to struggling with women so when…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/22 04:05 PM
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Exactly which is why for men it is so important to do the following if you marry: ​ she always works. If you have kids, just bite the bullet and pay for daycare. This will keep her working instead of becoming a SAHM. Only marry women who actually have career potential that is equal to your income potential or higher. Make sure to calculate over your entire career. You might be making crap money right now but in 5-10 years you might be making 100k+. Never marry poor women with low potential. Neve…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/22 03:56 PM
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After the 3rd date if there is no action then it is just clear there is no sexual compatibility. I feel sorry for dudes who don't realize this.
/r/AntiFeminists30/08/22 11:27 PM
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Annul the marriage immediately. If you want to get back together then you can but keep it as bf/gf situation only. Also please dear god do not have kids with this woman.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 04:00 PM
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Dude. Start recording everything. Then next time she hurts you, call the police on her ass and get her arrested. Then immediately file for temporary restraining order and have your lawyer ready to serve her with divorce papers immediately. Keep saying you are domestic violence victim and throw the videos in everyone's face when they don't believe you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/22 03:51 PM
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The theme is always the same. If you are a man and have high-potential, especially for income/asset accumulation, never marry or have kids.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/22 07:37 AM
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Only thing man can do is wise up and FAST so they don't get exploited by the family court system or legal system.
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 11:53 PM
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Pure stupidity and delusions
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 08:13 PM
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You can live a happy life, as long as you don't marry or have kids. If you're lonely, just get a side GF but never marry.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 07:43 PM
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Men who get married are rarely marrying for money. They marry because they think they can lock down a woman through marriage. Big mistake. These days many men are lead astray because most of the advice they're given is from women.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 07:40 PM
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You can always get the last laugh by simply leaving the country and establishing a new life abroad. Family court isn't going to chase you overseas.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 07:32 PM
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You're still explaining something to women? I just shrug my shoulders and say "I don't know" and walk away. It is funny too because a lot of women feel that they're entitled to men helping them.
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 04:48 PM
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Exactly, men were sacrificing to protect women. Men were doing all the dangerous, high risk stuff while women were kept safe and did domestic duties. Men were out hunting mammoths n' shit while women were safely in the cave cooking and looking after the kids.
/r/AntiFeminists24/08/22 04:42 PM
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She is mentally Ill most likely. Probably cluster b disorder and her mental illness makes her seek out the emotional roller coaster. This is why the false abuse allegations happens. She is probably making up stories in her head and she thinks they're true. Get her mental health evaluated if you want a firm answer to why this marriage was destroyed. All blame is on her. But overall, this marriage cannot be saved. Cluster b mental cases are extremely destructive to their loved ones as you can see.…
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 03:21 AM
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As others have said. Do whatever possible to get an amicable divorce. Let her stay in affair fog and use that to your advantage. As others have said, fuck boys are never loyal. They simply move from one woman to the next. The person she is with now will do the same and eventually she will come crawling back because you are Mr reliable and faithful. During this time her ego will be in the absolute gutter. She will start messaging you after she gets dumped. This is when you strike. Talk about how …
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 01:57 AM
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Sorry to hear it man but you're screwed basically. You have literally every factor going against you. High income disparity, 2 kids (child support), Long-term marriage and the wife looks like she is mentally ill or at the very least a big bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 08:43 PM
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Get an at-home paternity test kit. Cost like $100 and extremely accurate.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 08:30 PM
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Don't let her go off track. Yes, it looks like she is setting you up to try to get more custody of the child. No doubt she is recording or videoing the whole conversation and will use whatever you say against you. It doesn't matter how your respond, she will spin it against you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/22 05:15 PM
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It is all a show. She wants to show you that "she doesn't need you". What you aren't seeing is the shit show behind the curtain. The meds, the debt, the depression and so on. Don't be fooled by it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 10:37 PM
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OP should do the opposite. File a TRO against the wife to force her out then file divorce. Claim abandonment then request full custody of the child. Women been playing dirty for centuries. Men need to do the same.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 04:49 PM
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Start planning your exit man. Get out! Catch her by surprise. If it were me, I would get her served with papers on the last couple days before the lease expires. Then just disappear.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 06:41 AM
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OP doesn't realize how lucky he is to not have kids with this woman.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 06:40 AM
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The cleaning house criticism is ironic because this woman is barely employed. She literally wants the husband to work, make big money and then on top of that go home and clean the house? Da fuck is she doing for the relationship lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 06:36 AM
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She is looking for a servant, not a husband. That's why every negative criticism about you is about what you don't do for her. You need to flip the script on her. what is she doing for you? Anything? You already said she is unemployed or barely can get a job. She is a loser. You are paying all the bills. She provides next to nothing. If you want sex, a girlfriend will give it to you no problem without all these criticisms.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 06:33 AM
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100% this
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 06:20 AM
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Divorce and get rid of her ASAP. Women like this are not wife material at all. Horrible mothers too.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 06:20 AM
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Meanwhile look at all the other relationship advice subs where every other comment is about how the person should get a divorce over some trivial non-sense..... Misery loves company
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 11:38 PM
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With psycho women like this you always have to catch them by surprise. You have a short-term marriage so you won't end up too bad financially speaking other than child support. You need to be the one to file for divorce and get a TRO. That will catch her off guard and when she finds out she will likely go crazy. So make sure you are recording EVERYTHING and call the police immediately if she violates the TRO. That will help in your custody battle and it will throw a wrench in her plans to claim …
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 05:21 PM
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Yes very common which is why groups like MGTOW are on the rise. Many men are just not bothering with it anymore.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 07:00 PM
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That path works too when you're dealing with someone reasonable.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/22 03:49 PM
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and killed in prison within 5 years for being a chomo
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:05 PM
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Given everything mentioned. I'd divorce her. She has no loyalty to you at all with her behavior. That makes her effectively useless as a wife. Start getting your affairs in proper order, hire a lawyer and get divorced. My guess is most likely some of her feminist friends have been whispering in her ear about how she "can do better". Cheating will ensue shortly after if it hasn't already started. EVERY WOMAN CAN BE REPLACED
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/22 08:38 PM
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Yup especially true. If she has male friends be especially weary of the ones who talk negatively of you and try to find a void in her life. SIMPs out there wait in the shadows waiting for the perfect moment to jump in.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 09:35 PM
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Start at 75/25 your favor then agree to 50/50 in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 09:14 PM
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Anything that takes the form of a "traditional" marriage will fuck the man. So anything where man works and wife stays home, you'll get fucked. At the beginning of the marriage, women demand to stay home (think about the kids!) and pitch a fit about it if you don't let them. Then when it comes to divorce, they play the victim card that you were just a big bad man that wanted a wife slave to stay home.....
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/22 11:40 PM
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communities dot win bro
/r/AntiFeminists27/07/22 06:38 PM
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My favorite discussion is when you bring up the male-only draft. They suddenly quickly point to how women are weaker than men.......meanwhile all of their previous talking points are about how women are just as good/strong as men.....When it comes to stuff that is considered the "dirty work" they suddenly default to being the damsels in distress.
/r/AntiFeminists27/07/22 06:34 PM
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Most men make this mistake because of all the "you're together as one" nonsense advice you see these days. Most women by default only marry men that are better off financially than they are so you can see why it is bad advice for men to follow.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 08:50 PM
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Bingo. Always marry up and make sure she works during entire marriage. Don't have kids. Make sure you control the finances. If you do that then most of her leverage to screw you over is gone. She can still try but it becomes harder.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 04:16 PM
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Exactly this. Men need to stop going with these poor women.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 04:59 PM
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Don't marry poor women. If you do, you will get wrecked. If you proceed anyways, don't cry when you get wrecked again.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 04:53 PM
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and with a woman 400+ lbs lol. At this point, better off just buying a VR set and having sex with a "VR" girl lol
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 05:44 AM
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Seen this happen to a woman I knew. She was late 20s and weighed 400 lbs. She could still work and do everything but she died suddenly of a massive heart attack. Yes, late 20s. Also if you look at older people.......take notice that you don't see many super fat old people. You will see overweight and obese but never morbidly obese.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/22 05:42 AM
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Don't know but just file first. Play the victim and be professional about it. Say you understand and so on. The most important thing in the entire process is to be amicable and reasonable. The single biggest expense you'll have in divorce is lawyer fees fighting over pointless stuff. Still get a lawyer so you don't get fucked of course but just try to get out as quickly as possible. Don't do anything to instigate anything.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 11:01 PM
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All the "civic duty" and "patriotic duty" is just a scam. Only fools fall for that crap.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 11:23 PM
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and most military equipment is mechanized anyways. Even for infantry. Weapons are lighter, more accurate and so on. No one is doing hand to hand combat anymore.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 11:22 PM
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Draft should be abolished entirely since it is fundamentally a fascist institution. If you can't get people to defend your country voluntarily, maybe your country isn't worth fighting to save.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 11:21 PM
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and men like that are often the worst screwed by women lol
/r/AntiFeminists12/07/22 10:38 PM
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It is just an extreme sense of entitlement.....seriously they think they're god's gift to the world so much so that another person is going to pay all their bills and carry them in life? Fucking delusional way of thinking. I feel sorry for dudes that get scammed into thinking these "traditional relationships" are really in their best interest.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/22 06:38 PM
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Get out while she is still delusional. None of those young guys sees her for anything more than a fuck buddy. No way in hell would any of them want to wife her up or support her. but the important thing is you need to beef up her attitude to give her the illusion that she is one real catch that can find a better man. You need to do this so she is more amicable during the divorce. Talk her into you getting full custody if possible. Play it off as you're just the heart broken husband but you agree…
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/22 06:35 PM
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Most are gold diggers from what I can tell. They're marrying for money not for love. They're not willing to make sacrifices for their husband when the time comes. They feel entitled to have the husband be a servant-like figure for them. When the going gets tough, they simply file for divorce and flee. Dating research all proves this to be true. Something like 95% of all alimony payments are from men to women. This shows that women have essentially "married up". If women were marrying just for lo…
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 05:26 PM
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Well at least you'll get paid when she gives you the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" line.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 05:22 PM
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Most basic thing to understand is that marriage is about money, so if you do get married, marry a rich girl. That way if shit goes downhill, she will be paying you. Also make sure the money goes into investments/savings or something that holds value. If she makes 2x what you make but spends all of the money (plus your money) on worthless trash then that's a net negative. Also understand if you have kids, you will get royally screwed if things don't work out. Courts are biased towards women when …
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 06:51 AM
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That works as well. Good idea.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/22 06:43 AM
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Yes you have to report it. If you are planning divorce in your future. Your best shot it to slowly pull the money out little by little in cash like maybe a couple hundred per week. Then if anyone asks you can say you spent it on gas, food, whatever. What you don't want to do is pull all the money out in a lump sum.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/22 09:36 PM
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Yup truly amazing how there are no safe guard. People can do outright fraud under guise of marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/22 08:19 PM
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These stories are far too common. You are a victim of financial abuse.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/22 06:55 PM
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Exactly, money laundering for women 101 basically
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/22 01:42 AM
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yeah and many guys are clueless. They just say she "spent" the money on clothing, shoes etc but never realize those items all have value depending on what she bought! She INVESTED the money in clothing, shoes etc. That's how you have to think of it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/22 10:39 PM
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Go deep to see where the actual money is going. Certain items that women buy have high resale value like designer clothes, purses and shoes. Certain purses I know can actually increase in value with time if it becomes desirable. Any item she bought that has value could be considered community asset.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/22 10:21 PM
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Exactly and notice that traditional men are the ones that get fucked the most in divorce court. This is why women insist on men being traditional. Worst ones I've seen are single moms that suddenly become "born again" Christians at like 30. They want to fuck around in their youth (when they're at their prime) then want a traditional man to save them when he is at the peak of his career or has assets built up. I feel sorry for dudes who don't see the game being played here.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/22 08:36 PM
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Dudes only do it out of extreme desperation. The guy posting is probably an incel, hasn't been touched or fucked by a woman in decades. Also you can see there are a bunch of red flags just in the post: - 5 kids - husband was the one who decided to divorce her....meaning she is probably a nut case like amber heard. - OP feels like he has an "amazing connection"....most likely a sign she is love bombing him like crazy......a classic manipulator technique. - OP indicates that this woman isn't even …
/r/AntiFeminists03/07/22 07:25 PM
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Can't hook up due to your religion? Bro, it is time to wake TF up and realize that religion is a fucking scam. No one knows WTF happens after we die, learn to live with it. The only thing religion does is try to dictate how you should live your life. The quicker you learn that religion is a scam, the faster you will find happiness in your current life. Drop the religion BS, get snipped and then start hooking up with chicks! but overall, I agree that marriage is between a man + woman and "god" - …
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/22 07:41 AM
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Men's right has zero mainstream traction in mainstream politics. Until something changes it is pointless discussing anything.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 07:47 PM
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Could also be a trust or business llc formed that she controls.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 09:50 PM
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Very common trait with cluster b personality disorders. That's why people say to not stick your dick in crazy. Crazy women are usually good in bed, but you end up getting sucked into their vortex of misery.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/22 04:10 PM
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Just be thankful you're getting out. Sorry you had a kid with this woman. Bossy women are horrible partners.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/22 03:46 PM
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Oh yeah, true in that respect. Conservative women are more likely to play the traditional female gender roles and not harp about having to clean a dish or wash a shirt.......liberal women view that as "oppression". So I get your point. Personally I don't date liberal women at all. If I do date liberal women then it is just for friend with benefits/sex and that's about it. Nothing too serious!
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 10:08 PM
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Don't ruin a good relationship by getting married. Pre-marriage women are often on their best behavior because they want to show you that they're wife material. There aren't enough good women out there so just assume they're all shit and you'll be golden. sucks, but either you live in the real world, or you get fucked. Your choice. Also, of course, never tell them that you're anti-marriage. Just play it off as if you're looking for the "right" one. That's how the game is played.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 08:13 AM
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It is tenable with cash and crypto if you're willing to do that.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 08:10 AM
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Only way I could see it working out for you is you basically have to make sure you will win in family court on whatever issue comes up. Most family court issues are related to money, so make sure she earns more than you (during the entire duration of the marriage) AND has more assets than you.....make sure she is investing/saving the money instead of spending it. More income than you doesn't mean anything if she blows all her money and your money too. Only have kids with rich/high income women s…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 08:08 AM
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Conservative/liberal is not the issue. The issue is feminist/anti-men family court. As long as that exists, you're fucked if you get married or have kids.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 08:03 AM
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Not supporting pro-choice until family court is reformed to being less biased against men. Also male-only draft needs to be reformed or eliminate the draft entirely.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:21 AM
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Refinance or sell. Period.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 06:13 AM
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Look at her other comments. Pretty sure she is from femaledatingstrategy lol and now goes around reddit trolling.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 01:52 AM
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Eat a lot of beans and do a boat load of farts around the house constantly. Maybe get a fart spray to make it extra smelly. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W4rE8O5cPjs
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 01:48 AM
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Exactly this. Now is the time to double-down, dig in and force her back to work.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 01:46 AM
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Sure seems like it
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 09:24 PM
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Well there is logic to that considering 2nd and 3rd marriages have higher divorce rate compared to 1st marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 08:21 PM
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Yup. They act like divorce rate isn't 50%+....
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 08:20 PM
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I got shit on in the personal finance sub for explaining in simple terms how community property laws work. This person had stocks and a house and was getting married. I was telling him how to structure the assets so they remain separate. Advising to not commingle premarital assets. Mods banned me for this. Other people were giving the "you're together as one now" BS line
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 05:11 PM
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Yeah the last thing they want is men being strategic when it comes to marriage. Imagine if most men just wanted to marry rich or high income women.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 04:59 PM
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Can't wait for the next dateline episode to see what she does to him. 😎
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:58 PM
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Exactly. Men should advocate for other men to not cat call, not because it is viewed as "rude" but rather because it is creating entitled women who think they're supermodel status when they're really not.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:50 PM
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She is using that man as a projection on all men. She notes that other men also give her attention for her looks and I'd imagine, she likes some of these men so she gets an ego boost overall from the attention. When she sees this man giving attention to another, better looking, woman, she knows that eventually the attention from the other men will likely end sooner or later.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:48 PM
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Sounds like the typical bimbo chick that has been riding on her looks to get her through life.....but then suddenly realizes that everyone gets more ugly with age and there is always a new model coming off the truck to replace you sooner or later. The reflection on the male roommate is a reflection on basically "all men" and basically shows that she knows men will only give attention to good looking women. Eventually all the attention that men give her for her looks will come to an end sooner or…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 07:44 PM
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Don't have kids
/r/MensRights23/06/22 06:43 PM
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Get the papers filed on her king. Get her served then film the whole thing. If she gets physical with you, let her, then go to the police with that video and get a protective order against her. Make sure you read up to see if filming is legal. She already sounds like she is going to be dirty
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 06:22 PM
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It is usually a waste of time and money honestly. After a while people will learn she is just crazy. A better strategy is to simply have a social media profile showing you as an outstanding person to counter her bs.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 06:10 PM
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Nope that's just from my observations of how most people are.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 05:31 PM
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That saying is true because men place a high value on youth and looks while women place a high value on money.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 05:07 PM
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And get divorced quickly if shit goes south. Don't be one of these guys that tries to make it work.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 04:49 PM
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Learn that marriage is all about money at the end of the day. All it adds is alimony and asset splitting, that's it. Child support comes into play regardless if married or not. With that in mind: Make sure she works during the entire marriage. No stay at home bs. Make sure she works a job where she meets or exceeds your income. If done correctly this will take alimony off the table. Also learn about her long term career potential. Make sure she is a saver/investor type rather than a spender. Nev…
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 04:39 PM
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You married the straight up gold digger apparently.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 07:48 PM
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Have you considered leaving Canada? Come to the states. Canada isn't worth saving. Totally cucked country
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 07:03 PM
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One of the comments: "Based, marriages will never ever benefit women." Until you look at the divorce statistics. Men are the ones paying 95% of all alimony. The opposite is the truth. Marriage benefits women at the expense of men. The irony of comments like this are that men actually benefit more by staying single. If they want female companionship, simply get into a long-term relationship. If it doesn't work out after a couple years, no problem, you simply go your separate ways and that's the e…
/r/MensRights16/06/22 07:23 PM
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You just gave her 50% of your inheritance by being Mr. Nice guy. I have no idea if a lawyer can reverse this mistake but it is worth asking. Her lawyer will 100% say it is community property subject to 50% asset split.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 05:48 PM
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OP is about to learn the hard way that "together as one" bullshit in regards to finances is the biggest fuck up mistake you will make in your life. If you get married, all separate property should be kept entirely separate. Don't even put marital income into those accounts anymore. So if you have a stock account, pre-marriage you should open a new stock account after you get married. That way it becomes very clear the source of the funds to buy those assets were separate property. The same appli…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 05:40 PM
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Lots of women are dumb and don't realize how many guys just sweet talk women to get laid. It is literally the most basic tactic a guy will use to get laid.......Then these women are shocked when the AP decides to bail 1-2 months into the situation......
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 05:31 PM
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I never understand men that reconcile with a cheating spouse lol. It is like they already insult your manhood by cheating on you (basically saying you're not good enough in bed or as a man in general). You're better off saving your manhood by ditching the cheating spouse and replacing her instead.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/22 05:29 PM
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Don't. I've seen this type of behavior on dateline episode. She is going to chop your D off or something crazy like that. Don't stick your D in crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 08:02 AM
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happy wife happy life is such a stupid saying. That isn't advice, it is a threat.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:45 PM
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You should tell him to divorce her and get paid that sweet alimony.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:44 PM
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Now you know why the marriage rate is plummeting.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:41 PM
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That's what I do and I highly recommend it. I went to Mexico when I was 20 and got a vasectomy. Now I'm 34 and it was easily the best decision I have ever made. You can have sex with many women with pretty much zero consequences. I've had it many times where the condom broke and nothing came of it. Also for certain women, they specifically look for men with a vasectomy because they don't want to use birth control anymore, young women especially. I have no idea why more men don't get it. I was se…
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:37 PM
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Also listen to the elvis songs. That guy was dropping warnings to men all throughout his music. Just look at the song "fools rush in". The song is literally about falling in love with a woman and he starts the song by saying "wise men say only fools rush in where angels fear to tread". Keep in mind Elvish was a super star and had endless women chasing after him.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:33 PM
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Low-income men should marry up and have the wife pay for everything.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:29 PM
1

How many women have died fighting in Ukraine? That's where the facts are.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 05:08 AM
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This is why the west isn't worth fighting for. Completely sexist from top to bottom.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 05:05 AM
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I figured this out years ago during the summer riots in 2020. I would watch live streams of these protests and then read the following day how they were reported. Amazing how many new agencies intentionally left out key details.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 10:39 PM
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It is ironic because false accusations actually hurt other women who were legitimately abused.....
/r/MensRights01/06/22 10:33 PM
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What this proves is that if you are high-profile and have money then you can spend a lot of money on lawyers to prove that a woman lied and manipulated you. For the rest of us, women's word's are taken as truth without evidence and our rights as men get boot stomped into the dirt.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/22 10:15 PM
1

No need to do any of that. THEY AREN'T MARRIED. The only thing this guy needs to do is have a getaway plan in case she goes ballistic on him. Then simply tell her (by text message) that it isn't working any and he is going his separate way. Thank her for any "good" times you had and then ghost her completely.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/22 06:24 AM
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Probably her attorney is whispering in her ear about how she can get such a good deal to keep fighting.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/22 10:11 PM
1

Really bizarre how that worked out
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/22 10:16 PM
1

Glad I will never have kids
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 01:46 AM
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Men don't have to do that. You can flee to other countries. The family court won't send interpol after you to find you. Use crypto to liquidate all assets prior to leaving and you'll be golden.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 04:23 PM
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Also it isn't just marriage but don't have kids either. Get a vasectomy and freeze sperm. If you are high income. It is actually cheaper to get a surrogate to birth your child simply because the child support payments are based on a percentage of your income more or less. So it gives women an incentive to baby trap men for money.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 04:18 PM
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Just to show how big of a problem this is. There was a case just recently in OK, where a lady obtained Child Pornography and put it on a phone. She claimed it was her husband's phone. The motive was to get sole custody of the kids. https://kfor.com/news/local/wife-accomplice-screenshot-857-child-porn-photos-to-frame-husband-before-upcoming-custody-battle/
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 04:24 AM
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100% this. You can learn how to do all the handyman stuff through youtube ironically. So many DIY vids on there. I do simple fixes and most of my clients are elderly people. So I fix toilets, drawers, change lights and other simple stuff like that. Many repeat customers.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 04:09 AM
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You definitely made the right decision. Women come and go and the best relationships you will have are short-term ones. Just ride it out in the honeymoon phase. Just like you said where women do the "I'm unhappy" then divorce. Well, as a man, you can play the same game before marriage. Once the honeymoon phase ends or she does the "what do I mean to you?" line, simply say you're unhappy and have fallen out of love with her. Then bounce. Plus since you said you have a good job, you'll be a prime …
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/22 04:04 AM
1

Have you considered leaving the country and re-establishing life abroad?
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/22 06:19 AM
1

Look at the comment history. All pictures of herself looking for validations. This woman is clearly a narc. She doesn't want the guy. She wants the house and the IMAGE of how she will look in it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 07:40 PM
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Same thing happened to me. I wasn't married or anything but I was in a 3 year relationship. Broke up because I didn't "grow up". Two years later, I got a new job and purchased a nice home. A few months later after closing, she randomly messages me out of the blue wanting to "rekindle" old memories. I didn't even respond.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 07:38 PM
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It means not getting emotionally involved with further interactions. This is used when dealing with people who are trying to manipulate you which is usually done through emotions. When you grey rock you keep interactions brief and short.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 04:50 PM
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Guys like that are fucking morons. You're going to date a woman with BPD AND has kids with another man lol?
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/22 09:49 PM
1

Just get a vasectomy. Works great. I've had sex over 1,000 times by now and often with no condom. Zero pregnancies.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:10 PM
1

Because women don't help us in regards to men's rights issues. Some do but most don't. If you are a man, you should already know if you want kids or not. If you don't want kids, get a vasectomy. If you want kids then still get a vasectomy but freeze your sperm. There is no logical reason for a man to be fathering unwanted kids.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 07:03 PM
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Don't mention it. She will go nuclear on you if you bring it up.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 03:55 PM
1

If women don't fight for men's rights, why should we fight for their rights? I see no point.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 03:36 PM
1

but men still can't get a financial abortion......
/r/MensRights03/05/22 04:24 AM
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It is all planned. voting is starting to happen in many states.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 04:22 AM
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and birth rates.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 09:48 PM
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For men in general, never have kids, regardless of your situation because the family court will always side with the other and kids will be used a pawns in court. In terms of marriage, men can get married but only if the asset/income disparity is in your favor and the wife has some good financial sense. So if you're making 30k/year and she is making 200k/year, then you'll stand to benefit a lot through marriage. If you do the opposite, like what many men do, you'll get fucked raw if divorce happ…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 07:57 AM
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Your story is not uncommon at all. Most Guys these days are absolutely foolish. For guys getting married you can't even warn them of the path they are on because they're so brainwashed. I know an old high school friend. He makes 125k and he is marrying a woman working part time probably pulling in 20k lol. I tried to warn him.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 10:34 PM
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If they married the guy they love, he probably doesn't have much money, so they gripe about that....they dream of being with the rich guy. If they married the guy with money, they complain about how he works too much and doesn't show her any affection (because he is always at work)...so they dream of being with the lover boy. The cycle just loops endless.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 04:07 AM
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Boy is that pretty girl statement spot on. There was this girl I knew from high school who was super hot. White girl, perfect skin, blonde hair, light blue eyes, and nice curves too. I've had her on my facebook for over 10 years now and this lady has traveled all over the world it seems like. Multiple trips to every country in Europe, asia, heck even africa too! How did she pay for all of this? Turns out she was just going from one "boyfriend" to the next every couple months. She would convince …
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 03:49 AM
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They had a podcast recently about going 50/50 on the first date. One of the hosts outright said that men should pay for the first date and everything after that. If the woman is working then all her money is for her own enjoyment lol. When they say they're queens, they mean it quite literally. They aren't looking for a partner, they're looking for a servant. I have no idea why a man would even agree to that. Men that have a good career/assets can easily just find a career woman that will go 50/5…
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 05:57 PM
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I can see where fds comes from. It is true there are awful men out there (abusers and the such) so I can see them having standards to avoid bad men. The problem comes when these women have so many standards that it will exclude the vast majority of men. At the same time these women also need to self evaluate to see what they're bringing to the table. The jist I get from most women is the only thing they bring to the table is their looks and body. When I was dating. I simply avoided any woman who…
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 05:40 PM
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Exactly. The men we need to target is high earning men, men with potential and men with assets. The more money a man has either in assets or income the more he should avoid marriage, cohabitation and kids. The solution is simple by getting a vasectomy. Then he can date around with minimal problems. Make sure to avoid crazy women. If women want kids they can go with chad or Tyrone who already has 10 kids with 10 different mothers.
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/21 05:26 PM
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