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SojuBelly/r/seduction30/05/16 05:02 AM
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Retirement homes and Toys R Us.
/r/seduction31/08/14 10:09 AM
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Having your own place is much more important. Hit up malls/bars/clubs within walking distance. You can buy a running car for less than a grand.
/r/seduction31/08/14 10:09 AM
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You just have to make the effort and tackle your fears head on. There's no real shortcut around it. Start small by asking for directions. Then ask for random opinions about various things. After that, you can start some small talk. Eventually you will be able to talk to anybody and start attracting women. And as for not knowing what to say, you can transition the convo pretty much into anything. As long as you believe in what you're saying and are passionate, chances are, the other person will f…
/r/seduction01/08/14 09:43 PM
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I've actually gotten a date from OKCupid using that silly line.
/r/seduction01/08/14 06:52 AM
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If you're at a club, it's not much different from anywhere else. But East Asian girls in general can really lay on the LMR.
/r/seduction31/07/14 12:42 AM
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Honestly, you just have to sack up and just do it. Get out of your head. You won't die. Anyone who's watching won't care. Approach anxiety never really goes away. But if you constantly approach, the way you deal with AA will change.
/r/seduction13/06/14 09:24 AM
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Snail mail.
/r/seduction11/06/14 04:55 AM
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Call her and find out.
/r/seduction11/06/14 02:08 AM
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Escalate/kino properly and plant the idea of her going to your apartment during the date and when the date is done, shuffle her back to your place. Tell her that you make the best pasta in the world, can play the guitar well, have cool artwork or you have a funny ass youtube video to show her. Anything to give her an excuse to come up with you,really. And of course never say "let's go to my place and fuck". Though that could work with some girls. Most of the time it won't. And when you do get he…
/r/seduction11/06/14 01:56 AM
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You STFU and listen to her. Girls love talking about themselves.
/r/seduction06/06/14 03:19 PM
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Mini-golf or driving range. Showing her how to swing a club is easy kino. Aquariums too. Bitches love sea life. The more dimly lit parts of aquariums can offer some romantic atmosphere.
/r/seduction02/06/14 03:37 PM
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Continue to work out, be clean, buy better clothes and meet other girls.
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:47 PM
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That girls has problems. Good on you for handling it like a man!
/r/seduction02/06/14 06:35 AM
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I go to sleep and go out again the following day.
/r/seduction01/06/14 09:12 AM
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"Cringey" OP probably has bigger balls than you will ever have.
/r/seduction01/06/14 09:06 AM
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"Talk to them."
/r/seduction29/05/14 09:05 AM
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Yep. Just do it. You're distinguishing yourself from your peers in a huge way if you do.
/r/seduction26/05/14 08:57 AM
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For the first few times you try this, just getting out there is a mini-success in itself. So good on you for actually trying! Keep it light and fun and you'll begin to number-close no problem.
/r/seduction26/05/14 08:37 AM
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Then try speaking their native language to them bit as well. Use English to fill in the gaps. Most foreign girls can appreciate the effort.
/r/seduction26/04/14 07:07 PM
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"If you hesitate, you're going to masturbate."
/r/seduction26/04/14 04:08 AM
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It shouldn't be much different from approaching any other girls. But with anyone who doesn't speak English as a primary language, you'll want to speak more clearly, more slowly, use more hand gestures and dumb down your vocabulary a tad.
/r/seduction26/04/14 04:05 AM
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Very, very awkward. I literally wandered around for an hour, trying to approach. But as expected, I was stopped by some major AA during that whole time. After some sacking up, I finally approached a girl. I wasn't even attracted to her but still I stammered and was sweaty. Needless to say, I didn't close. I now literally look back and laugh. It gets pretty hilarious in hindsight.
/r/seduction26/04/14 04:03 AM
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Nice dude! Keep on meeting girls. There's no guarantee every girl will call/text back.
/r/seduction26/04/14 03:50 AM
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Thanks a lot Tony! That was an excellent read. I found parts of your novel extremely relatable to my own life.
/r/seduction02/03/14 06:37 AM
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Watching stand-up is pretty helpful. Louis CK, George Carlin, Dave Chappelle, Chris Rock, etc. Pay attention to their timing and their tonality as well.
/r/seduction02/03/14 06:12 AM
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Lay off the porn and fapping for a while.
/r/seduction27/02/14 09:42 PM
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Be attractive (good body language, tonality). Hold your frame. Escalate!
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:52 AM
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A great way to approach pretty much anywhere is complimenting them on their outfit or hairstyle.
/r/seduction10/02/14 02:28 AM
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+2 The guide on approach anxiety will help loads.
/r/seduction06/02/14 10:17 AM
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Man, I remember being EXACTLY in your shoes. I also wandered around for hours and approaching 1-2 or 0 girls. It really is tough at first and it takes some getting used to but when you get into the groove, you'll look back and laugh. Keep it up! Stay positive and you'll see results sooner than you think!
/r/seduction06/02/14 10:11 AM
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Give this a read: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fgq0a/approach_anxiety_is_a_symptom_of_extreme/ If you haven't read all the articles on the side bar, do so!
/r/seduction26/01/14 03:19 AM
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If you're truly happy, carry on.
/r/seduction25/01/14 01:47 AM
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Statements are certainly more assertive. If you've built yourself up to specifically ask that person first then you are in fact invested in her. You said this in a previous post: "I think of prefer to approach this girl than a cold approach!" That just reeks of investment to me. You are placing her on a pedestal. She is not special. You hardly even know her. You said you never done an approach before, let alone a cold approach. I strongly suggest cold approaching to see how you feel and act in t…
/r/seduction25/01/14 01:02 AM
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Be direct with her and don't place her on a pedestal (too late for that I suppose). I'm pretty sure most of the guys orbiting around her are supplicating chodes who can't make a move. So do what they can't do and step it up. If you are in a situation where she is with her orbiters in a social environment, engage the guys. Give them value. You'll come off as cool guy in front her and the group will like you. If they are being douchey, just ignore them as they will only make themselves look stupid…
/r/seduction24/01/14 04:08 AM
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I think your desperation is shining through. Girls can smell it from a mile away. When you were living with your parents, you probably cared a lot less and came off more natural that way. So do not give a fuck and be outcome independent. You've clearly worked on your outer game but your inner game needs some work.
/r/seduction24/01/14 04:03 AM
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That could work fine. You can say pretty much anything really. It's all about HOW you say it, rather than WHAT you say. Talk slowly and clearly with confident tonality. It's how you should talk to anyone really. I personally like to ask girls out with a statement, rather than a question. Something like "You're a pretty cool chick. We should go out sometime and get to know each other better. Put your number in my phone and I'll give you a call later in the week." You seem rather invested in this …
/r/seduction24/01/14 01:00 AM
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Cute girls get hit on all the time, especially waitresses/clerks/baritas. It's only awkward if you think it's awkward.
/r/seduction23/01/14 11:52 PM
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You gotta start somewhere! I suggest some cold approaching first to get into a social mood. As for approaching that girl, just talk to her as you normally would and ask her out when you collect your check. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
/r/seduction23/01/14 10:55 PM
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Approach her at work, while she's visibly not busy. Don't worry about her co-workers so much. If she is with them, it wouldn't hurt to acknowledge them (like how you do in a 2+ set) and you could even try asking them for their permission to talk to her for a little while. If they're cool, they'll understand.
/r/seduction23/01/14 10:10 PM
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Continue being the attractive man you were when you first met her. In layman's terms, do not become a boring and needy little bitch.
/r/seduction23/01/14 11:17 AM
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This happened to me once before as well, albeit on different days. Both times were rejections (she had a boyfriend) and it was pretty hilarious in hindsight.
/r/seduction23/01/14 08:25 AM
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Logistics, my friend! My bedroom only really has a bed and a computer chair. Before going out, I usually pile my jackets, my bag and a few books on my computer chair. Thus making the bed the only comfortable place to sit.
/r/seduction22/01/14 04:30 AM
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"Once you put [girls] on a pedestal, then they have no choice but to look down upon you."
/r/seduction09/01/14 09:21 PM
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I'm going through the same ordeal as you presently. You really do just have to get out of your head and get back out there.
/r/seduction27/10/13 10:10 AM
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