Women didn't start advocating for their right to work without good reason. To women, a job that pays decently is security- especially if you want to become a mother. Think about it through our eyes: we saw a generation of women without financial power getting screwed over by the very men who were meant to look after them and care for them. Why would we voluntarily put ourselves in such a situation? Feminism says work is liberation because money is such a fundamental need if you want to get out o…
Are we even looking at the same sub? Again, FDS says things are relative. A guy could be the hottest guy in town but he's low value of he doesn't treat you with respect. Or, he's low value if his life goals don't align to yours. They don't say they want to date the top 1%, that's something I see in redpill circles. What I see a lot of is women complaining about men who expect them to be their mothers, men who don't show personal responsibility (basic hygiene is a common complaint), men who expec…
I've been lurking on there for a bit, yeah. There are low value women just as there are low value men. They even say it's all relative. For a guy that's into health, a girl who sits around and watches TV all day is low value. It's not okay to treat anyone like shit. Do I think that kind of rhetoric is something they should stew in too long? No, but I say the same for mgtow. Get your feelings out, but don't demonize.
Yeah I agree. You're right. I was just annoyed that a lot of commenters were falling into the nice guy/mgtow mindset, which I don't think helps them at all
I'm not denying that society affects you. I'm saying society is unlikely to change as quickly as you hope, so change your perspective on how you respond to it. Based on what you wrote, I think this is on you because you're you, not because you're a man. But if that's the mindset you want to keep, feel free to do so.
Then stop focusing on those women! Dude, you can be right to be pissed off. A lot of modern feminism pisses me off. But what do you achieve by wallowing in your own self pity on Reddit? You just get more resentful and further from your own goals. Love yourself and move on.
Look, this thread seems to be wallowing in self-pity, and I'm noticing some people's anger is getting the best of them. I want to be a bit more proactive. To do that, I want you to take a second and re-read how you've been describing yourself in this post. " I've never had a job, I look nerdy and skinny" "I'm socially awkward, have several mental disorders like aspergers, depression, pure ocd, and a physical one." "I'm shy, insecure, scared of everything, passive, more emotional than many. I don…
Absolutely! I've seen guys here and on YouTube complain about this subreddit too many times, and yet after lurking for about ~2hrs, I've yet to see anything legitimately bad about this place. If anything, this sub promotes reasonable expectations and encourages women to stand up for what they really want in relationships. It's blunt, it avoids the trappings of libfem without falling back on religion, and it's for women, by women. There are soooo few places like this on the internet for women. It…
