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Anyone telling you to go to a meetup doesn’t know what they’re talking about. I've been organizing and attending meetups for the last twenty years. YOU don't know what YOU'RE talking about. Look harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:34 PM
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Ah, ok. Checking the dates n' such I think Genosamuel hasn't gotten to her yet. Sounds like a fairly recent occurrance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:54 PM
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Even Chris Chan had a fangirl wanting to fuck him and he choose his mom over her. Really? Who? You're not talking about Jacob Sockness, the mentally ill autistic man who bought into Chris' delusions heart and soul? I've watched all seventy-some-odd episodes of Genosamuel's documentary (I am not proud of this) and I don't remember a single vagina-haver ever wanting anything to do with Chris Chan. He lost his virginity to an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:16 PM
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Depends. How many of them are morbidly obese and/or mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:08 PM
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Just like how women were put down for decades and they solved it by shooting up schools to get respect. No, they just organize bombing and arson campaigns.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:41 PM
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I run in the local music scene. Mostly metal, but I have been found at shows for just about everything but hip hop. One of my friends is a jazz singer, fer chrissake. I do photography at these shows, and because of the social circles I run in (my best friend is a singer and we used to be in a band together, now I know all of her friends), I run into an above-average number of scene women. The bands have female members, and female members draw a female crowd, because apparently a pretty girl play…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:10 PM
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I can't speak for any of the women on amiugly, but the women here who say no one pays attention to them? I believe it. Listen to any one of them talk for long enough and you'll eventually see condescension, veiled barbs directed at men, smugness, or some kind of admitted mental illness. Contrary to popular belief, men aren't stupid and can - usually - spot these red flags a mile off. They may choose to ignore them, they may not. If they don't, congratulations - you regularly come into contact wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:06 PM
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I find it weird as hell to minimize actual sexual assault by a jock just to win the argument of villifying nerds as a worse group but do you. Zoe Quinn bullied a guy to suicide, but yeah, everyone hated her just because she dared to make a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:20 AM
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Is it really hard to see why? Look what happened when women dared to criticize games/gamers (or, in the case of Zoe Quinn, dared to make a game). Hi. As someone in the gaming industry who also followed Gamergate very closely when it happened, it still kind of gobsmacks me that you people insist on twisting the narrative so hard to make Quinn some poor innocent victim. Then again, the whole point of Gamergate was that the gaming media and a handful of psychotic social activists were inventing shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:16 AM
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But it seems like none of you understood the quiet part. I can go on Facebook right now, post "I'm too unattractive to get a date" and get a dozen replies from my female friends about how "it's personality that really matters". I know this because I did it in the past. I understood the quiet part. What frustrates me is when people swear up and down that it isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:52 PM
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Yes. Yes she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:46 PM
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Female fictional characters in video games and action movies are created by men. Hi! I've been a game developer for over a decade. You're full of shit. In most of the companies I've worked in - especially the Japanese companies that seem to catch the bulk of this flak - the character designers and art team was usually a good mix of women and men, and the art directors were often women (who are the people who decide what the characters look like in the first place). Lotta people criticizing an in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:44 PM
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The word is overused, at least on the internet. If they can't simply dismiss your argument they'd have to actually address it, and they can't, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:33 PM
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Umm I would still expect someone to defend someone from really gross statements, even if they were true. We'll see how long this lasts when it comes to "men need to call out other men for rapey behavior".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:32 PM
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It's not bad but it's kinda a backhanded compliment. "because of the implication". I've been on shoots where models have said to me out of the blue, "I feel so comfortable with you!". You'd think this would be a good thing - and it is, actually, because you don't want to be "that guy" creeping the girls out from behind the camera, but let's be real, here; the only reason they'd volunteer that information to a guy who doesn't bang models on the regular is because he's not trying to pick them up o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:28 PM
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How is this my logic? Lol. I never once said men should be denied human rights and kept on 24 surveillance. Don't move the goalposts. He didn't say you said that. He rightfully pointed out that you were implying men are "worse" because more of them cause violence, and don't act like that wasn't what you were going for. That argument only ever seems to be acceptable whenever we're discussing whether or not the outgroup has a penis but never where they're from or the color or their skin because "r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:24 PM
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Women don't shoot up schools, they just drown their children and psychologically abuse anyone within arms' reach. In other words, men may make you dead, but women torture you until you do the job yourself. Also no woman is completely incapable of getting a man to pay for their dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:22 PM
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But go ahead and act like this is some unheard of rare thing, beause who ever heard of women losing control of their emotions during a a domestic fight right? ...remember kids, when stats for rape are low, it's because women are afraid to report. But when stats for domestic assault against men are low, it's because it never happens. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:21 PM
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If a man shows any ill will toward a women after he was rejected, that’s “entitlement.” Especially if the reason he's treating her with ill will is because she insulted, disrespected, or otherwise treated him like shit. "Women don't owe you anything" but you're supposed to smile and suck it up like a good little soldier because you thought she would have a shred of civility and grace. Your bad I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:18 PM
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Women also seem really entitled to reciprocation in potential relationships. I can't count how many times I've seen men shamed for not taking a woman up on her offer. He must be gay, he must be intimidated, he must be shallow, but he's not allowed to simply not be interested. Women sometimes genuinely seem to believe that if they bless a man with their attention that he's obligated to become her boyfriend. "but-but-but I asked you out! Why aren't you jumping at the chance to be with me?" It's...…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:16 PM
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I'm baffled how hard men try to work their way around the fact that women don't like mean, creepy men Probably because they've seen normally, innocuous behavior painted as "creepy" purely to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:11 PM
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Creeps and aholes keep doing it because they dont know what works. It's a mix of both. Some people are bullies or otherwise really pushy and entitled but let's not pretend we don't gaslight the fuck out of people with shitty advice that is going to make them more prone to negative labels, not less...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:09 PM
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holy dodge Batman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:05 PM
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So the assumption is a "respectful" man would never "hit on a woman". I knew a gal once. Had a hot friend who I was interested in. Didn't have much interaction with said friend, so I didn't want to be "that guy". So I asked the gal if she could invite her friend to our next social event, because I wanted to see her again. When pressed further, I said "I want to get to know her better." She flipped out. Accused me of being a superficial creep that only wanted to "get to know her better" because s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:05 PM
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One of the best selling books of al time is " the game " Have you read it? I have. The Game was not a pickup manual. It was a fucked-up story about fucked-up people that ran in a scene that, until then, nobody had ever heard of. Not only was it a cracking read, it was different. I'd wager a lot of people read it out of curiosity. Or maybe even hate-read it, given that everyone still thinks it was a pickup manual...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 08:00 PM
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Most of the women like her are here to "dunk on incels" and wave her relationship in their faces, if past experience is anything to go by.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:55 PM
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You have no idea what you are talking about like most people with your mentality you are just looking for an excuse to be an asshole How do you know that? You did a study? Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:54 PM
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so... #notallwomen then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:53 PM
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What's so hard to understand about a woman dressing up nice for someone else? Probably has something to do with how often women assert that they don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:50 PM
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Han Solo or Luke Skywalker? Not to to go all nerd-HAM on you, but - and a bigger nerd than I can correct me on this - AFA I remember my Star Wars lore, Han Solo only ever really got with Princess Leia and married her (...and left her, if you acknowledge the sequels). Luke Skywalker eventually married Mara Jade. Neither of them were ever really painted as womanizers. That analogy doesn't mean what you think it means. Both of them ended up married in the end, and Solo left his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:49 PM
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quality Funny how that word means whatever it needs to mean in order to reject someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:45 PM
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and yet for some reason we still perpetuate the belief that women are infallible judges of character who can see right through you and always "know" when you're actually rotten on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:43 PM
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It’s unlikely for a girls to have a negative experience of a guy fucking her and leaving if she picks a guy who isn’t a fuck boi while it's true I didn't ghost her, the last woman I effed, I left - because it became clear after the effing was done that she was a jealous, insecure nut and that didn't come up beforehand. Sometimes you don't actually see what people are truly like until the clothes come off, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:40 PM
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This isn't any better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:38 PM
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A guy who approaches you respectfully and backs off when told (or if he simply doesn't get a green light to proceed) will be viewed as boring. Hell, they'll decide you're boring without ever having even interacted with you purely by virtue of needing to look better than you. I have tons of friends and play rock guitar, but somehow I'm still "boring" according to a non-zero number of people on this sub because I can't get a date, so clearly all of the people I interact with in real life who say o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:37 PM
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he sleeps bare naked and farts in his sleep Remember kids, women don't fart. Ever. Except my wife. And it was hilarious as hell. But only her. NOBODY ELSE
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:10 PM
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Because it has a negative effect on everyone else when you don’t. How is my not thinking I'm a pile of shit having a "negative effect" on people?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:09 PM
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Women wouldn’t make as many complaints as they do if most men’s confidence was earned. Funny how the woman gets to decide whether or not the man "earned" his confidence, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:07 PM
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Confidence is never bad You've never had a woman decide a guy was "delusional" for having more confidence than she felt he should given her perception of what he offered the world? Hi, welcome to Earth. Hope you enjoy your stay, it's a pretty fun place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:07 PM
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Will Smith is too nice, needs to be more like Tupac. ...dead? Sorry, kinda proves the point in more ways than one, IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:04 PM
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You guys need to stop parroting this viewpoint, because its false. Yes, remember guys, only men are stupid enough to let things like pop culture and porn warp their brains! hardwired in our biology Oh wow, funny how that's all of a sudden a valid excuse when it's not being used to justify men wanting sex. Most men are gross Nope, no internalized misandry here. Men are just inherently worse, you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:02 PM
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Yes, because those are clearly the only two choices. GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:59 PM
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agriculture barley lel Sorry, funny typo. Carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:56 PM
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What, two sources not enough for 'em? PlentyOfFish used to have a flippin' banner on their messaging page stating that women only initiated first contact around 26% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:55 PM
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like not grooming Apart from all those guys who don't wipe their asses after sex, you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:53 PM
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And the reply was "it's impossible because the majority of women are chasing a small minority of men and you'll never be in that minority because women's standards are too high." Yep. from women. "ThE BaR Is In HeLl"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:52 PM
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Men know they stand an equal chance of getting rejected no matter who they message, so they may as well shoot for the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:50 PM
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...either because they're so insecure they know they can't get Chad or because Chad doesn't exist on dating apps so they were settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:49 PM
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Natalie is well above average Without the industry-professional makeup, hair, and wardrobe? Maybe I'm spoiled living on the west coast, but I interact with women who are just as pretty as her, if not more, on an almost daily basis. She became a Hollywood "it" girl when she was like, twelve, so it's not like she's coasting on her looks. Homegirl can act.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:47 PM
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Because the first thing to note is that women did not rate 80% of guys as below average, but 80% of guys' pictures as below average And since women don't read your bio if they don't find your pictures attractive - and often accuse guys of taking poor photos - you're not making the point you think you are. Nice try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:46 PM
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I’ve told him this. Then bounce. He's not obligated to fall at your feet just because you dropped your handkerchief. Seriously, the number of women who think men don't have free will in this situation is kinda annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:43 PM
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All it takes is one, though, and your life is ruined. I've seen how easily people can lie about the most heinous shit like it ain't no thing. That said, when we tell feminists to take a similar thought about "all men are potentially rapists", somehow we're misogynists and denying reality. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:41 PM
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Women tell me they feel comfortable with me all the time while barely knowing me. Meh. Women tell me that all the time. It's never followed up with "let's fuck". It's usually a subtle indication to not try anything and mess up that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:39 PM
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There's a woman I like right now. I'm not sure if she's into me, but if she is, the way she's going about it is definitely working. It's just little things, like complimenting stuff I do out of the blue, or repeatedly making reference to "accidentally" playing footsie under the table. Being touchy-feely when she doesn't need to be. Shit like that. Whether she's into me or not, I enjoy the dynamic. Unfortunately, practically speaking, how she feels isn't clear and I've been burned often enough th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:35 PM
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Reality: a woman will signal that she is interested by looking at him, smilingly hovering around him, etc. ...and then she'll turn him down and angrily rant about how "men misread signals" and she was "just being friendly". Men, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:32 PM
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Seriously, that's some sublime gaslighting and narrative twisting. I'd chef's kiss it if I was prone to such things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:31 PM
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Without addresses and using only public info you aren’t really doxxing them. This has been the argument to deflect accountability since before Gamergate, but come off it - the only reason to "dox" someone is to put a target on their back and then throw your hands up in the air and deny you did anything wrong when someone hunts them down and puts a bullet in them. "Oopsie, I totally didn't think that would happen! They could have gotten the information themselves if they looked hard enough! Won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:27 PM
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hood lawyer So, what... a lawyer in baggy pants and a wifebeater? Sorry, I know it was a typo but the mental image was just too funny not to comment on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:25 PM
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Ten bucks says it gets labeled as misogynistic and taken down within a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:24 PM
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unless she is a lesbian, but even then that’s not as applicable as listening to men. Most women don't see other women as a threat like they do men, even lesbians who clearly want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:19 PM
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Most men? A majority of men? How can I phrase "you're full of shit" without getting modded? Someone help a brother out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:17 PM
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I literally don’t know any women who do that. Might want to watch some Hanna Gadsby or anyone else considered a "feminist" comic. I tried to sit through one of her Netflix specials and once I hit the third "white men" punchline (that was it; the punchline was literally "white men" with no further context) I turned it off. Tried Ali Wong, too. Twenty minutes in, the "joke" was "I date white men for the white privilege". Yep. Nope. That said, I have occasionally seen bad male comics and it's even …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:12 PM
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For those of you in the cheap seats, notice how she never actually answered the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:06 PM
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Those very communities that have sidebars that state "don't contact any of the members here expressing an interest in dating them".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:04 PM
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Have you been to incel forums? I have checked several seflie threads: those guys are absolutely normal looking but they trash each other for being so ugly their prospects of ever finding love are zero. Men are not born thinking this way. We just aren't ready, as a society, to have the conversation about what leads them there. The fact that once they're there, they swirl around in a pit of self-reinforcing negativity is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:02 PM
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I was told from the time I was a teenager to "make female friends" for precisely this reason. I'm old now. I have lots of female friends. I enjoy their company, and generally gravitate towards women more. And no, I don't want to fuck them all. My absolute bestie is an obese cancer survivor with a fiance. We're friends because she's a lovely human being and a lot of fun to play board games with. As a result of this, women share with me their unfiltered opinions on all sorts of shit, and if anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:49 PM
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I don’t know what love bombing is Love bombing is the term psychiatrists use for people with personality disorders who find an insecure person, bombard them with tons of gifts and affection in order to get them attached (because nobody else treats them this way, so why wouldn't they?), and then abuses the fuck out of them once they're hooked. The problem is that everybody on the Internet thinks they're either as educated as professional psychiatrists, or that men are inherently narcissistic pred…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:40 PM
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they wanted grand gestures and flowers on the first date before you've even actually met Ten bucks says they'd dump any guy who actually did any of that because he was desperate and creepy and they "barely even know him!".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:37 PM
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I live in the Bay Area, where you'll run into the stereotypical blue-haired feminist and her soyboy toy on the streets on a daily basis. I've even been friends with a few of them. In general, these men have been bullied or otherwise manipulated into compliance and genuinely believe that their "enlightened" views make them a better person. If they're in a relationship, the women clearly wear the pants in the family. The dudes are often bottoms as well or otherwise overcompensating for something. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:28 PM
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a) that very same OKC graph shows that 80% of messages sent by women are to men rated as average or lower They're not ignoring it, they just know that those women aren't actually interested in those men. b) that the article that graph comes from says 2/3 of men are chasing the top 1/3 of women If you're gonna get rejected anyway, may as well shoot for the moon c) the article explicitly says that men care more about looks than women Press X to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:23 PM
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Have you ever looked at a bunch of guys' profiles vs. a bunch of girls'? I don't have to. Based on the girls alone, I can tell you they have absolutely no room to bitch. Fat chicks with close-cropped photos. Bios full of emojis and nothing else, or bitching about how they will not fuck you. Blurry distance shots of them in snowsuits and goggles or that tired cliche of holding up the leaning tower of Piza or tweaking the tip of the Great Pyramid. "My child is my world". "You must love my dog." "L…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:19 PM
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The situation has shifted drastically since then. Has it really, though? I'm curious as to your reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:16 PM
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they sound boring This one gets it. Why bother interacting with them to find out the truth? Just make a prediction based on stereotypes, they're never wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:13 PM
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shitty dating bio At this point I'm convinced a "good" dating bio doesn't exist. No one can seem to give an example of one that nobody has a problem with and works consistently, but they all seem like experts who can show you a "bad" one with 100% consistency. Maybe we're just trained to pick apart the "worst" in people so extensively that Shakespeare himself would be pegged as a "tryhard" for writing about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:08 PM
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It's just so hard to picture a man in his late 20s being obsessed with spongebob to the point of wearing that shit, unless they're like some extreme nerd/weirdo whose social/mental development is stunted. I used to know a guy who wore all green. And I mean literally. Even his underwear was green. And he had one of those hipster curly mustaches. He was an overweight neckbeard and he looked like a giant leprechaun. Dude had a really cute girlfriend tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:00 PM
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"JuSt Be YoUrSeLf!" But he really likes SpongeBob, and wears SpongeBob merch. "...nOt LiKe ThAt!" I just noticed I used the Spongebob meme for this post. That's funny as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:58 PM
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I have seen the wheels in women's heads start turning whenever they find out what kind of car I drive. And, I know this because of how they start acting towards me. The irony is that if you drove a Gremlin you wouldn't even be on their radar. It's like they look for reasons to dismiss people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:57 PM
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can't tell a joke to save his life for fear of "offending people". To be fair, depending on where he lives, "offending people" could at the bare minimum get people to stop interacting with him at best and get him fired from jobs or otherwise unable to function in society at worst. I was hanging out with a bunch of women not too long ago at a bar and out of the blue this chick asks me who I voted for in the last election. Now, what do you do, here? Lie for the chance at some young poontang, or "n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:52 PM
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This man Bay Areas. JFC is it insane out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:47 PM
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Try the Bay Area to see a real hellscape. South San Jose, here. Can confirm. That said, men a man who is fit, dresses well and can talk Note the subtle shift of the goalposts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:41 PM
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probably Who wants to talk about how we need to invent negative qualities in our heads for these people so that we can feel better about dismissing them rather than address the argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:39 PM
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That guy is the winner Are you serious? That guy isn't the winner. He's her "last choice". If she actually wanted him, she wouldn't have waited until all of her better choices were gone. Would you seriously consider spending the rest of your life with someone whose attitude toward you was "You're all that's left, so you'll have to do."?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:56 AM
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Thus, like any cornered animal, they lash out in defense Furthermore, if I recall my reading on the topic correctly, the only way to treat the condition is to definitively - with care, empathy, and sensitivity - show the victim irrefutable proof that there is a way out of their situation. When they did the studies with electrocuting rats, they had to physically pick the rats up and move them through the exit, showing them that there was an actual way out of the trap. The problem is... that's, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:52 AM
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A woman will say that she wants to see more male sexual predators face consequences This presumes that everyone who's been accused is actually a predator. We have a thing in this country, you may have heard of it, it's called "innocent until proven guilty". The fact that you can't just point your finger and send a dude to jail does not mean that predators don't face consequences, what it means is that rape is a difficult crime to prove and if y'all want to have any hope of getting LE to take you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:43 AM
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making misogynystic rap music oh, now rap music is misogynist? Are we finally over the "criticizing anything black people do is racist" kick?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:38 AM
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I'm all for equality. However, all my life (...and I'm old), I've been told to step aside or to make concessions for women, because reasons. Or subjected to abuse by women, and told it's different, because reasons. So, in my experience, there's a huge imbalance in how grievances get addressed, and as a result, I really don't have any sympathy for women's issues and I won't go out of my way to be charitable to anyone I don't personally know and care about. I mean, nobody cares about me in spite o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:30 AM
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I sometimes think back to my junior/senior years, when I started being more social and occasionally got offers from the "cool kids" to go to parties and such. Unfortunately, these were the same "cool kids" who'd bullied me years before. Who knows if they'd finally grown up and seen I was an okay dude, or it was just another prank? I was so anti-social in high school as a result of this kind of shit. Really does a number on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:14 AM
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Happened to me a few times in highschool as well. Back in my day, it was the of the "passed note" variety. Said note was usually forged. Said note was also occasionally given to her instead, to goad her into coming over and ranting at you about how she'd never touch you with a ten foot pole, in spite of you having no clue what was going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:13 AM
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I don't know if it's still considered funny or cool to do it now, for the younger generation. Oh, they do. 'cept they thirst-trap online (or stream live for Tik Tok) and shame anyone who dares to think themselves good enough to talk to her majesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:10 AM
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I've told this story before. Apologies for the copy-and-paste. I decided once that I liked a friend-of-a-friend. We met at a party, spent the evening chatting. I couldn't tell if she liked me or not, but I figured at the time that as long as I wasn't pushy, I could keep pursuing her until I got some kind of hard no. At said party, she kept mock-arguing with a female friend of hers. The two of them kept saying, jokingly, "We're not a lesbian couple. Honest!" in reference to the fact that they kep…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:00 AM
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Doesn't have to be about hotness. I get turned down every time I ask a woman out, so I don't ask them anymore. Ergo, if I liked you, I'd think I didn't have a chance with you because I haven't had a chance with the last forty five, so why would you be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:47 AM
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clear signals lel It's cute that you think these "signals" are often "clear". I get it, though. Easier to blame the guy for the miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:45 AM
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I haven't seen the ad but the way you describe it, he waits until she's not looking and then follows her? Nah. He's facing her as she walks past, then he turns around and his buddy grabs his arm. Honestly, there's no real context either way. We don't know if she saw him and their eyes met or anything like that, but he definitely wasn't lurking in an alleyway, waiting to strike the moment her back was turned. All you can really say is that she was walking quickly enough that by the time he regist…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:44 AM
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demand ...seriously? Love the reframing of wanting to have a social interaction and attempting to see if the other person was down with the idea as a petulant demand for attention, as if we somehow know that the dude was basically going to grab her arm and proclaim YOU MUST ACKNOWLEDGE ME, I HAVE A PENIS GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:40 AM
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We don’t know if he’s offering them money, paying them money, etc. No, but I'm willing to bet that you're going to assume they are and demonize them for it. I’m mildly skeeved. called it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:16 AM
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Am man. Can't remember the last time I even saw two dudes being physically rough with one another, let alone actual fights. 'cept maybe the mosh pit. And I go to metal/punk shows all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:57 AM
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Reminds me of that commercial The one I remember was of this young, schlubby guy talking to a hot chick at the pool. He offered her a sip of his juice (or tea, or whatever, I think it was Snapple), and she literally turned around and walked off with the bottle, and it was portrayed as "ha ha, he got what was coming to him". For what, daring to talk to her highness? Seriously!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:41 AM
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It's not an exact science. "Stay in your lane." can't actually define said lane Color me so shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:38 AM
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female dating advice drives me insane, especially when it comes from these tiktok "divine feminine" or "dark femme" gurus What bugs me about it is that they're all conventionally attractive, so you can't help but wonder how much of what they're telling you is spawned from their inherent "pretty privilege" and the fact that men are nice and tolerant to them just for existing. What I wanna see is the fat chick with a line of suitors a mile long sharing her secrets, because you know they're gonna b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:30 AM
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For example I'd do nice things for my crush, compliment him, or talk about his problems, or ask about his day. I do it because I care about him and want him to like me back, not because I think being nice automatically means I get to be his girlfriend. "YoU oNlY CaRe bEcAuSe yOu'Re TrYiNg tO GeT In HiS PaNtS" ...is what guys get told when they say this. We're supposed to be super-selfless and love everybody equally when - by its very definition - the fact that you're attracted to somebody means …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:53 PM
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Sex is not a prize you win "I really like this guy, so I'm going to make him wait."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:52 PM
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It's a weird loop; I've had female friends swear up and down that I'm attractive but they still wouldn't date me, but also swear up and down that I'm a great guy. So eventually you either start to think your friends are lying to you or that being a great, attractive guy still isn't enough and wonder how people's standards got so fucked. Not sure which is worse, TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:50 PM
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Bullying or social rejection, caused the Columbine High School massacre. I dunno. I really need to get around to reading that book I have on the topic, but the most frustrating thing about Columbine was all of the misinformation swirling around about it, especially directly after the incident. I've heard equally-credible sources saying that the killers weren't bullied, that they were bullied, whatever. What's frustrating is that even though at least one investigation revealed that there may have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:27 PM
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I think that it's not entirely the same thing. Being rejected from getting a house means you're sleeping on the street, or at the very least couch-surfing. There's a pressure there - and an effect on your life - that simply doesn't exist when it comes to dating. That said? I do think we downplay how much of a strain mental abuse can put on people. I've met way too many people who insist that people belittling you, insulting you, etc. "shouldn't matter". "Just hold frame bro", from the male side …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:21 PM
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Yep. I literally work with fashion/fetish models on a daily basis and get along with them just great. So great that I've befriended a lot of them off-set and many of them have said that they'll only work with me... and if you know anything about the modeling industry you know these women can smell a creep a mile away. If that's not being comfortable around women, I don't know what is. I also have a huge social circle, so clearly I'm not an awkward idiot. Been single for a loooooong time tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:15 PM
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It must be, it's what we tell men all the time. Why would women magically be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:03 PM
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You finding it "hard to believe" actually fits their narrative of men ignoring their entire existence. When guys say the same thing, they also either get disbelieved or told they brought it on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:02 PM
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People think all women have men blowing up their apps but if they have acne and are overweight (even if they've lost 75lbs in the last year) often don't get or barely get swipe rights, I don't mean from men who are 'hot' I mean from anyone. A friend of mine is a literal 400-pound cancer victim with no hair left. She found a dude within less than six months on OKCupid. Sorry, I call shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:00 PM
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the worst looking guys are often the most rude and insulting for some reason. ...says the woman who compared the "average man" to literal poison a few posts up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:58 PM
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Lonely women forums are mostly like this: “I am so sad and depressed no man ever wanted me. Today a guy said hi to me and I fantasized about our future family. I feel so alone”. Lonely women - whether on their own forums or no - are also like this: "Today a man said hello to me. It made me scared. Why do we live in a patriarchy where men feel entitled to talk to women? We need a curfew for men so that they don't go out at night and police need to arrest men who talk to me when I don't want them …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:56 PM
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Just one? OK, Valerie Solanas. Y'know, the chick who shot Andy Warhol and wrote an entire book about how much she hated men... and got it published in this so-called patriarchy, but I digress. You may now move the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:54 PM
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Even before #metoo, a lot of the spaces I used to frequent both online and off had a bunch of massive, sweeping campaigns designed to discourage men from hitting on women in them. Gaming conventions, tech spaces, online forums, whatever. You name it. The prevailing narrative for the last decade or so has been "stay away from her, you filthy neckbeard!". So the men listened, and now I get to listen to women complain that they go to these spaces to meet guys and nobody even looks at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:51 PM
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But she’s just extremely mousy The few times I've approached women like this, they were so non-communicative that it gave me the impression they were totally disinterested. I remember dating my ex's roommate back in college and having her tell me "no really, she really likes you, she just doesn't talk much". Problem with people who don't talk much is that you never find out when they're cheating on you, either...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:40 PM
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basically zero attention from men, any men. They are more or less invisible to men entirely. I know some men here refuse to believe this, but it’s true. I find it interesting that you had to quantify zero with "basically". To me, when I see that, it says "not quite zero". Whereas dudes in the same position will have been at zero for years. Personally? I run in various fetish communities. I have seen the most ugly, body-and-face-like-a-melted-candle-looking women have literal lines of men lining …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:37 PM
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The only women I have ever known who couldn't get a dude were so mentally damaged that you could literally smell the crazy coming off them. And even then, they'd manage to snare a dude who didn't know what he was getting into once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:31 PM
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Literally everywhere. All of the above. Really? Have I hallucinated all of those times the women here have said "don't talk to us in public?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:29 PM
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I had a woman be far more rude than that in front of a group of forty people that we both knew. Do I win a prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:26 PM
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We both know it’s much more realistic Do we? I'd give it a 50/50 odds that either party was to blame, but somehow, somehow "everybody knows" it's alway's the dude's fault. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:25 PM
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I think they neither know nor care. Or if they do, they think "he just hasn't met the right girl yet" and that's where the thought-terminating cliche kicks in. Me, my mom was an abusive bipolar and everything was my fault, so I'm sure she would have gladly told you why I hadn't found a partner in exacting detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:23 PM
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Social media? feck, I ran across an opinion piece on the Washington Post from a woman who matched with a guy who was rude to her on Bumble. Men get ignored on dating apps? "Work on yourself, loser." Woman gets told by the guy she matched with she wasn't good enough for him? Gets an op-ed in a national publication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:27 AM
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Definitely not just an American thing. Source: guy who's dated first-gen Asians
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:51 PM
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So, why on earth do men simp? They're raised to. I can point to any number of experiences I've had while growing up where it was very much impressed upon me that "man bad, woman good" and the only way I'd have any hope of being loved was to basically prostrate myself before any woman who'd bless me with her presence and work myself to death for her favor. Needless to say, it didn't stick... but it took me a long time to shake off that brainwashing. I'm not the least bit surprised that a lot of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:31 PM
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wake up at 530am with 4 hours sleep to go to the gym and eat that pain. Is that really the point we're at, now? "Just never sleep bro". Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:21 PM
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Why do men refuse to do the work? The dirty secret is that there's always more work you can do. There's no set bar over which you can go that will cause people to say "you're good enough". Furthermore, all that other shit that people say is important, like an active social life, and hobbies, and a well-paying job, all of that shit takes energy and time as well. Back when I worked at the google I had a two hour commute. One way. You expect me to come home exhausted, then spend time on my hobbies,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:15 PM
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Seriously. You try not eating or bathing for a few days and see how pleasant you are to be around. dafuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:49 PM
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Her name was Norah Vincent, and she wrote an excellent book called "self Made Man" about her experience. I honestly don't know if her "end" had anything to do with the depression she felt from her experiment, but she did clearly have some pre-existing issues and did institutionalize herself after the experiment was over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:28 AM
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Conventionally less attractive people are usually the sweeter ones due to their lower egos oh, you sweet summer child...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:40 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RCsiNSA7sgs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:32 PM
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are overweight women really more open to date non-athletic men? Not really, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:16 PM
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any of you know the few times women usually ask guys out, it’s usually terrible Hell, watch that Aba & Preach video that dropped recently titled "women have no game" where one of those stupid internet dating "shows" dropped a male model in front of a bunch of women and told them to pick him up. The meanness, the entitlement, the cattiness, the "I don't know what I'm doing"-ness of it all... dude resorted to straight-up trolling the two women he picked because of how nasty they were being.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:12 PM
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You are taking a very tiny % of severely mentally ill liars ...all it takes is one. Google "Mattress girl", then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:58 PM
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Hey, whenever a guy on this sub says he's pretty decent and still can't pull he immediately gets told he's not as decent as he thinks he is, so what's good for the goose...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:49 PM
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My mom taught me that unless a guy is being blatantly sexist or disrespectful That's how they deflect blame; they call the guy "disrespectful" when he clearly wasn't. Saying hello - and nothing else - to a woman when she "clearly" doesn't want to be talked to is disrespectful to these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:47 PM
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They all claim women do it, but can’t give any details. Off the top of my head... The woman who yelled to an entire party that her standards were "higher than that" when I cracked the exact same joke she'd made weeks before. The young lady who thought I wanted to murder her because I wrote a short story for English class at Halloween time because one of the throwaway victims in the tale had her name, in spite of it being the most popular name in both of our grades at the time. The friend of mine…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:45 PM
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The day some geeky guy commits suicide after his attempt to get a date and his rejection get posted online - is the day women will basically start saying #NotAllWomen when men start complaining how this has been put up with. Nah. They'll just do what they do now - blame the geeky guy for thinking he was "entitled" to her body and pontificate on how "no one owes you anything".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:42 PM
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And prior to TikTok, there were - at least, in the circles I hung out in - concentrated efforts to paint nerdy men as creepy and socially un-skilled. Stories of "harassment" at conventions - both tech and entertainment - was rampant. "Cosplay is not consent" was the mantra of the day. Hey you, you nerd, that cute girl over there dressed as your favorite manga character with her tits hanging out doesn't want to talk to you, OMIGOD DON'T LOOK AT HER TITS YOU CREEP THIS IS WHY WOMEN DON'T GO TO CON…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:36 PM
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Women are now graduating with degrees at much higher rates than men are. Pretty easy to do when you're given preference in admissions and catered to for the entire four years you're there as well as given scholarships just for existing. I love how women literally passed laws to reduce the amount of men in college and now somehow less men in college is "proof" that we can't compete with women's inherent superiority. WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:30 PM
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My social circles are overflowing with women. Hell, I work with models on a regular basis. Can't date 'em if they ain't single, and the vast majority of 'em ain't single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:24 PM
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Yet women message “average” men more often than the most attractive ones. Having done this myself, the reasoning goes, if I'm going to be rejected 99% of the time anyway, I may as well shoot for the moon. Even a stopped clock is right twice a day. Yet women message “average” men more often than the most attractive ones. And yet, that doesn't mean they find them attractive. Also women only message at all roughly 25% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:17 PM
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However, they have high standards for the appearances of the women they date. Really? Tell that to the handful of female posters around here who swear on a stack of bibles that men will fuck "chicken sandwiches". I'd also like to point out that when men 'round here imply that ugly men would treat a woman better they get roundly torn apart for being self-serving, so how is this assertion any different. TBF that was one sexy McChicken tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:16 PM
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The thing is that many women are right about many things concerning men or dating. The corollary is that many men are also right about many things concerning women or dating. The difference is we label the man an incel, cancel him, and deny the problem exists the moment he opens his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:38 PM
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If she explained to you how "men" are in fact problematic, would you agree? It's not the "facts", it's the extrapolation to the solutions. Like, I will one-hundred-percent admit that men are, on aggregate, more violent than women. I will not, however, then skip along to the conclusion that because this is true, we need to establish a curfew and practice gender segregation because "all men are basically rapists anyway". Would you admit it if a white person was right? If they explained to you how …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:36 PM
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Is it really that they think those men are "beneath them", or just that they're incompatible in personality or values? They often literally say the men are beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:28 PM
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Even asking for basic hygiene men tell women that men with poor hygiene don't exist, yet most women seem to have a story about a man that they've dated leaving skid marks all over her house. Nobody says poor hygiene doesn't exist. They do wonder why all of the men you date leave skidmarks when the vast majority of men have the sense to wipe their asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:24 PM
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he doesn't seem to have problems to attract girls. He's also literally Superman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:21 PM
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It's kind of ironic that this whole post is about not listening to "hit the gym" but you should hit the gym. I used to have this conversation all the time. If I said I needed to improve my appearance to date, people would tell me I looked fine and it's what's on the inside that counts. So I would say, does that mean I have a shitty personality? I am single, after all, and they'd say no, you're a great guy, so then I'd say well, what should I improve? And they'd go quiet for a second and then sug…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:20 PM
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he'd have an easier time with an autistic woman with a similar special interest to him. There aren't that many of them and the only ones who aren't already attached are flippin' psycho. Source: Am nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:17 PM
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and when men say they were force-fed bluepill truisms as kids they get told they should have been smart enough at nine years old to see through the lies that adults who presumably knew better and had their best interests at heart told them. Oh, also women who get eating disorders because of the influence of social media for some reason are exempt from this "you should have known better" refrain. Funny, that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:05 PM
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At the end of the day, what ever reality women need to face; it not going to bring incels any closer to getting pussy. No, but I think on some level there are some realities women need to accept so that they can move the fuck on. Like the wage gap. It's been debunked. Pick another cause, you're not changing the color of the sky. It's like trying to argue against someone who thinks you have wings and wants to pass a law so that the government can cut them off, and when the government won't pass s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:03 PM
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They're not, so it's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:59 PM
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Conversely, if I see you cutting yourself and you won't stop no matter how much I tell you to, eventually I'm going to stop listening to you cry about how hard it is to get blood out of your carpet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:04 PM
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It's widely agreed that women want relationships more. I must've hallucinated all of those female PPD posters who say "all men want is sex" and point to the posts of those very men to "prove" it. We literally just had a thread on it not even a week ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:02 PM
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That experience is why I kind of call BS on the idea that who we're attracted to is totally out of our control. ...you're conveniently ignoring the fact that (I'm assuming) you didn't choose to be queer/only date women in the first place. At a very base level, yes; who you are attracted to is totally out of your control. Although I may just be splitting hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:54 PM
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But I see a lot of people in a relationship with people I don't find attractive at all. The world does not revolve around you and your preferences. You are not the final arbiter of what's attractive. Am I only attracted to 0,5% of men because there's something wrong with me? I, personally, would say yes, for varying degrees of "wrong". But if you can still manage to date and find people you like for relationships, then it's clearly working for you and no one can/should say otherwise. Do ugly peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:47 PM
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I love how they all assume that until feminism was invented in the '70s every woman was literally chained to a stove popping out babies in between beatings by their alcoholic coal-miner husbands that they had no choice in marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:41 PM
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Those who don't are invisible to them, so they don't "count".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:37 PM
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That's a pretty ironic little analogy considering men have more wealth and political power than women. Thanks for providing yet another example of the apex fallacy, it's been a while since I've seen one. Just because our president is a man doesn't mean I'm getting personal phone calls from him asking what he can do to make my life better because of the virtue inherent in my penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:36 PM
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Honestly, this is why I'm purple. I've been exposed to enough real-life experiences on both sides of the fence to ever truly get behind any mass-generalizations for either gender, and my own experiences reinforce a lot of that; specifically, that I know "all men are X" is garbage, because I know plenty of men who aren't X, for example. The thing that stymies me is how to bridge that gap so that the people having these issues can see that there are other options. Unfortunately, people get so wrap…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:31 PM
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You must be new here. Or you probably just don't care when women refer to men as "dirty hot dogs on the ground". I'm willing to guess the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:26 PM
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Bro was asking out women in the 7-8 range when he himself was a 5. I'm sure there's absolutely zero bias on those totally objective numerical ratings. Honestly, anyone who comes here and says "No one wants me, what am I doing wrong?" has poisoned the well. You're going into the interaction primed to find something "wrong" with the guy because if there wasn't, then he'd be pulling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:08 PM
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Rating a large proportion of men as below average attractiveness, yet it had no bearing on who they actually messaged. Women don't actually message much, and "meh, you're ugly but I'll talk to you anyway" isn't any more of a compliment to us than it is to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:06 PM
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Everyone with an argument like yours needs to explain to me why women didn't give AF about my life when I was skinny-fat and basically won't leave me alone now Oh, that's easy. "YoU HaVe CoNfIdEnCe NoW!". /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:06 PM
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Nah, I think it's more the assumption that most men are "below" most women. You'll notice if the guy's a Chad nobody ever accuses him of shooting out of his "league", but for some reason everyone else is simply too stupid to stay in their lane even though nobody can define what their lane is. It's just a way to drag men for having that "confidence" everyone's always saying they're supposed to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:04 PM
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Exhibit A: they're working off of a different definition of "nice guy" than the rest of us. I want a pickle. No, not that vinegary green cucumber, the furry one with the stripes. What do you mean, I don't actually like pickles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:00 PM
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The big problem is the assumption that the bucktoothed girl who would totally date you actually exists. I knew for a fact no one in my social circle wanted to date me but idiots online were always "hurr durr you just don't notice her". They always seem to shut up when I ask them to tell me who this person is, if they're such experts on my own life. How can a guy even know, much less stick to his league these days? A guy's league is never who he's shooting for, to these people. I've dated/hooked …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:50 PM
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I can pretty much predict with 100% certainty which female posters have been - or will claim to have been - assaulted in the past and therefore carry around a fear and/or hatred of men as a result. So yeah, a lot of people here really could benefit from a talking couch and some meds. In my own experience, yeah. I've used therapists a couple of times and did benefit greatly from it. Once when I was trying to process my mom's suicide attempt (and all the other shit going on), and shortly after my …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:38 AM
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They don’t specify the physical characteristics of the men approaching them. Guess those comments I saw about "creepy foreign men" or "hood men" were just my imagination. Good to know. I'm also relieved to know that that collage of thousands of woman dunking on short men I saw on Imgur didn't exist, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:36 AM
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ALL THEY DID WAS ASK Yeah, except at this point they've been asking for years and everyone's sick of the double standard. These "angry men" didn't all just spring into existence overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:34 AM
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I don't attack my own sex because the other sex does a pretty damn good job of doing it for me, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:59 PM
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Just because your brain thinks something is a need does not mean it is. Drug addicts have brains that tell them they need those drugs. Drug addictions are classified into two types; physical and psychological. In the case of physical addictions, then yes; the addict will in fact die without the drug. Withdrawals have killed detoxing addicts. Furthermore, I would argue that your brain wouldn't think you needed the drug unless on some level you actually needed the drug. I love how people talk out …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:57 PM
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Greetings, fellow kinkster. Like yourself, I also participate in a community of like-minded people and am regularly agog at the horror stories I hear from women as well as experience the shitfuckery myself. G'wan, ask me about the clowns who responded to my personals ad who admitted that they didn't even read it, or who tried to trick me into talking about my kink by posing as a "couple". Even so, I still don't like to make generalizations or mass-shame the people who aren't doing these things, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:19 AM
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It is so bizarre, to know that if I was a 16 year old boy, it very likely nothing at all would have been said, even if the guy was queer as a $3 bill. Unfortunately, I've met wayyyyyy too many gay men who would disprove this notion of yours in a heartbeat. So yeah, might want to reel that one back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:02 AM
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Go on, show me twelve 3D artists from DeviantArt who made an animation of her kissing a man. I googled "cortana kissing a man" and got a flood of hits, so I don't really know what you're on about. Rule 34 exists for a reason, and if something doesn't exist then there's no reason why you can't commission an artist to produce it exactly to your specifications. That's always been a thing. AI can/will make it easier but if your argument is "availability equals ruin" then that's simply false. If one'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:49 PM
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Women who had a tendency to tell men the untempered truth, have, historically, found themselves on the business end of a fist. If the vast majority of people you tell the truth to are punching you in the face I might suggest that you need to work on your presentation. That is, assuming I don't call shenanigans to this ridiculous assertion, which I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:38 PM
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Dude here. The lady side is right in that men are capable of absolutely disgusting behavior. I experience it (albeit only fractionally) as a producer of adult content. Some of my "fans" need psychiatric help. I'd hate to have to screen for that more than I already do when dating. My side is wrong about how women are "only" attracted to Chad. I've seen women with some absolute what-the-hell's when I know they could do better, and when I think "well, he must have a great personality" he disproves …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:39 PM
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Are we sure we understand "market saturation" the same way here? Market would have been saturated if every simp had his own personal mistress. Call it whatever you want. The fact is that there are so many people out there producing content that 99.99% of them are never going to see any money because everyone but the most hardcore paypig is already subbing to every content producer he can afford. Take any particular author of 3D animation that you especially like and look up how often they produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:35 PM
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When guys say that they struggle to get women to have conversations on dating apps, they get told they must be too boring to get her engaged. When gals say that they struggle to get guys to have conversations on dating app, it must be because the guys are too boring to get her engaged. Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:09 PM
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When all we actually want is a person who plays ball and y’all couldn’t be bothered. Sorry, but I call shenanigans on this. All that shit you mentioned is in my various OLD profiles and - nobody - gives a damn. But whenever a guy says that suddenly the goalposts move and it's because he's not dressed like a GS model or his "vibe" is off or he made a typo in his profile or whatever and next thing you know he's proving the hypothesis right that women are picky. Sorry, but y'all are too fussy. I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:05 PM
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most people in general are pretty boring through text messaging. Most personalities cannot shine in that medium. This is actually true. One of the most charming and vivacious models I know comes across like a complete dunce over text. Five minutes with her in person, though, and you're ready to put a ring on it just from her sense of humor alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:47 PM
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I did the dating app thing but eventually met my husband and have been off the dating market for a few years, but I remember when I was on the apps Went on a dating app, found a dude she liked well enough to marry, married dude, still considers the experience "hard" when she got a greater success out of it than 99.99% of the men there. Can't make this stuff up. My friend is a knock-out, but a guy couldn't hold a conversation to save his life. She's not matching with the guys who can. are boring …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:42 PM
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It's a few people telling others to have common sense of when it's okay to approach. Common sense isn't so common. I've had people absolutely insist my own perception of a situation wasn't correct when I had irrefutable evidence that it bloody well was. Couple that with the fact that a dude got arrested for simply walking too close to a woman in the Underground and I honestly don't blame men for shying away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:28 PM
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Oh boy, finally something I can speak with authority about! As my flair alludes, I have a side hustle selling foot fetish content on the Internet. I work with models and I'm very immersed in the community. The industry is in fact saturated. Everybody thinks they can just wave their foot in front of a camera and put themselves through college now, so they do. And as is usually the case, only the people at the top of the pyramid make big bucks. Everyone else scrabbles for the rest, but the people …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:23 PM
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Treating women like s**t, Being abusive IME, they counter this one with "it only seems abusive to you because you're jealous." Like no Jan, one of my besties was in a relationship with a wifebeater. I know how this shit works better than you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:14 PM
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I once heard someone quip that all women were about four beers away from being bicurious. At the time I laughed it off. Now I just wonder if there aren't a lot of closeted lesbians/bisexuals out there who just don't know their own minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:11 PM
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You put in the friggin' effort and accept that you're probably going to waste a lot of your time on people you aren't compatible with... just like men have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:08 PM
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All of the men on dating apps are looking for a hookup immediately or on the first date I'm on dating apps and I'm looking for neither. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:06 PM
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I have literally never heard a woman complain about that. I have. Who wins?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:03 PM
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Then why don't more put more effort into appearance etc? There's always "more" you can do. That's the problem. When is it enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:02 PM
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Is that an option for you? As I've alluded to in the past, the last woman I fell in love with was living out of her car.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 08:00 PM
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...what's funny is that a lot of times they say the same thing about men. That the only reason we're single is because we overlook the quiet nerdy chick who would totally go out with us if we only noticed she was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:58 PM
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Where are my hundreds of options ? ? The only women I've ever met who don't get lots of (un)wanted attention from men are women who either never interact with men, or are so thoroughly unpleasant to be around that people actively avoid them. Which one are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:56 PM
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Women do not have men in their DMs, some of you are so brainwashed by porn on ig, that you think all women live the lives of young attractive instagram models. My social circle - the bulk of which are women - says hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:56 PM
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This is like being Google and struggling to hire a "tech guy" when most "tech guys" want to work there. I used to work at Google and know a bit about their hiring process. For a while they only hired people with advanced degrees. The joke used to be that even the janitors had doctorates. For full-time employees, they have an entire hiring board (aka "her friends") who you have to pass muster with. I was a contractor (aka "casual sex", so all they did was ask me what I liked about Java and then w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:29 PM
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That's the default assumption for men on OLD, why wouldn't it work the other way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:27 PM
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Why would you delete a number? If she doesn't give you the time of day, why would you keep it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:24 PM
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I feel you are overselling the 'Good option's lameness and underselling the 'bad option's risk and consequences. Seriously. It's all fun and games until you're posting his bail money. But hey, you can change him, right? Enjoy visiting him in prison. Oh wait, you'll just dump him and move on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:31 PM
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Makes sense to me. I sit here listening to women talk about the absolute troglodytes that they have to deal with on a daily basis and I just can't relate. I mean, I shower, I wipe my ass, I'm considerate, I don't just consider women a hole to fill, I have hobbies, I have friends and social skills... and all of my friends are the same way. Where the hell are all these cavemen coming from, why the hell are they all these women seem to meet, and why am I being blamed for their behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:23 PM
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Men don’t like fat women. I've worked with fat fetish models. The number of simps they have lining up to drink their bathwater for a scrap of attention would cause you to lose even more faith in humanity than you already clearly have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:12 PM
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Hey, when fat ugly men think they're not worthless they get told they're delusional and to stay in their lane, what's good for the goose and all that? Or maybe we can just acknowledge that it's a double standard and stop bodyshaming people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:23 PM
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Do they state this in their profile? A lot of them do. I have "I have curves so if you want a stick figure swipe left!" as one of the bullet points in my OLD drinking game. Funny how often fat women resort to body shaming women who don't break the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:20 PM
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Denigrating ugly men for thinking they "deserve" someone who is clearly better than them purely on the basis of looks, also getting mad at ugly women being denigrated for their looks The irony is making my head spin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:19 PM
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That’s never happened. Oo, I love this logic. Do you give it a pass when men say it to women about stuff like sexual assault, too? How many men have to come forth and say "that happened" before you walk it back?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:17 PM
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And how could they do this, some methods would be better than others, but obviously practice. The difference is, learning to make a pizza is a solo activity that you won't get canceled or arrested for screwing up. The only way this analogy truly works is if there's someone else in the kitchen who screams at you and uploads a video of you sneezing in the sauce to TikTok every time you get distracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:13 PM
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You can learn to make pizza even if the hut won't hire you. Except you're required to convince someone to hold the pan, and they might instigate a citywide shaming campaign against you if you accidentally knock over the parmesan cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:11 PM
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It's also a shitty analogy because pizza places will train you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:07 PM
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expect us to bend ourselves to make life comfortable for them. Sounds almost like feminism. "Cross the street so women don't fear you! Sit with your legs jammed together no matter how much it cramps!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:06 PM
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“oh cool, it great my female friends feels safe and comfortable with me, even when they know I’m looking!” I've had personal experience with being told things like "I feel safe with you" to the point where women do actually do things like change in front of me. They also are often married or have otherwise made it clear they're not on the market, so either they're playing some twisted mind game or there is actually precedence for the guy coming to such a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:03 PM
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This literally happened to me last week. I went bar-hopping with a married ladyfriend of mine. She's new to the area so she belongs to a women's social meetup and thus has lots of single female friends. Whenever she asks me to hang out with her, I always say yes because odds are pretty good two or three single women will be tagging along. Anyway, two single women came tagging along. One of them, I'd met before. Oddly enough she remembered pretty much everything about me from that meeting, which …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:00 PM
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Look at the hordes of men who need help ...when you're the gender that gets to decide what's acceptable, color me shocked that somehow 99% of men do it "wrong".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:46 PM
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Guys on Reddit seem to think women are sad that so many guys are missing their hints. ...probably has something to do with all the women we hear online complaining how men are so stupid and socially uncalibrated because they don't get hints.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:39 PM
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There is definitely some merit to the fact that we treat little girls like they can do no wrong, at least in my experience. I have very, very vivid memories of girls in school antagonizing me, then running off to the teachers in tears with some story of how mean I was to them, which would result in my getting punished and my protests of "she started it" fell on deaf ears. There's definitely something to be said about why men eventually just stop arguing with people and become stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:37 PM
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Britney Spears dancing in the middle of the street in a ballerina outfit is going to be looked at very differently from Terry Crews dancing in the middle of the street in a ballerina outfit Real-life anecdote: I have a friend who knows a guy. This guy decided to walk through a suburban neighborhood in a unicorn costume. Got out of the psych ward two days before I heard the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:34 PM
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Last woman I spoke to on this topic very specifically said that if a guy asked her out, he was going to "treat her like a lady", and that meant paying her way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:07 PM
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...why are you going on dates with guys you don't want to not think of as non-friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:04 PM
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Furthermore, I've seen and experienced enough nuclear rejections to know that "no" is not the worst thing they can say. They can have their friends film them utterly humiliating you in front of dozens of people for Tik Tok points. They can yell in the middle of a party of dozens of people that you know that they wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole because their standards are "much higher than that" (true story). They can tell anyone who'll listen that "this creepy guy is bothering me" and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:00 PM
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In my experience, the men only tend to get "mad" when the woman is trying to justify treating all men like complete shit and then throwing out "fear" as an excuse when, let's be honest, if you were truly afraid of these guys you wouldn't be antagonizing them. You also have the women who very seriously support things like curfew for men and forceable population culling for anything with a penis because "society would be better without all those nasty violent men" and anyone with a lick of sense, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:54 PM
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Women just need to be not fat and not poor. Last woman I fell in love with was living out of her car at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:45 PM
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Instead of doing some introspection on why so many men have quit dating it’s much easier to instead blame those men for not wanting to put in the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:43 PM
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the fact is that men outnumber women almost everywhere - the only exceptions are warzones and certain cities that attract a lot of pretty young women. Someone who's better at math than I can explain to me how this is possible when 56% of the planet's population is women. Are they all hiding in closets?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:42 PM
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Yes, that's why the last time the BBC had open intern positions they literally posted "no white men" in the ad copy. Quotas may be "illegal", but companies can still "strongly encourage" (wink wink nudge nudge) certain groups of people to stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:38 PM
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Obviously, I'm not a woman, but I think - at least, in this day and age - men have more pressure. If a woman isn't a fashion model she can still post a no-makeup selfie on Instagram (hashtag roughingit) with some girlboss caption and get thousands of likes and you-go-girls. If any man dares look crooked at her on the street she can whip out her phone, film him, declare it was because of her less than perfect appearance, and get him cancelled, media frenzy, and thousands of obese, blue-haired fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:34 PM
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I literally had this conversation this past week. Last Saturday I went to a gaming convention. I was going to a Halloween party later that night, so I was dressed in my Ravenclaw finest, sans robe. (In other words, dress pants, crisp white shirt, grey and blue sweater, blue striped tie.) NGL, I looked pretty good. When I checked in at the front desk, a cute gothic punk girl who couldn't have been older than 25 chirped, "I really like your sweater!". I'm pushing 50. I thanked her and went off to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:41 AM
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If we lived in a world where the average men gets the same amount of compliments as the average woman, men would stop mistaking compliments for flirting. Men who don't take compliments as flirting get called stupid for "not getting hints". Men who take compliments as flirting get called egomaniacs who need a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:30 AM
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I think refusing to acknowledge male emotion is what leads to men exploding. That, and endless abuse. A few days ago I watched a TEDx talk called "I was almost a school shooter". It's on YouTube. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:23 AM
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"Just invent a new branch of mathematics, bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:18 AM
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Men get told to "stay in their lane" constantly. So, yeah. If we have to, you have to. Fair's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:04 PM
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...and yet women have no problem saying that there's nothing wrong with them and men, collectively, have a problem. Anyone see the irony?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:02 PM
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I disagree. Many autistic people have wonderful lives like that yet only 5% of autistic men are married, to give you example. Not only is it not just autistic people, it's a self-sealing argument. If someone comes along and says "I do all those things and still can't get laid", the argument just switches to "no you don't, you're in denial." You can't prove a negative, so they win. And if you, say, post a picture to prove you're fit and wear clothes that fit, they're already primed to nitpick you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:45 PM
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The dirty secret that they don't tell you is that there's no end to "the work". However much work you put in, you can always do more, at least until you're perfect. And it's not possible to be perfect. Human beings have flaws. Furthermore, a lot of times it's simply not possible to progress past a certain point based on a number of factors. Basically, no matter how much work a guy puts in, we can always nitpick at one of his flaws and declare that he simply didn't work hard enough, and that's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:38 PM
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er... Are you using "guys" as a gender neutral term, here? Because in all my time on this sub it's always been women gleefully pointing out that women don't orgasm from penetrative sex and that it's all men's fault because men are garbage and can't be bothered to learn how to please them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:32 PM
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Men are obsessed with sex to prove there masculinity and for an ego trip. Yeah, couldn't possibly have anything to do with testosterone and the fundamental drive of the human species being to reproduce, or anything. Gotta be all ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:16 AM
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...and every one of my female friends who doesn't shave her armpits still has a boyfriend and is rarely hurting for male attention when they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:55 AM
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many of those women on onlyfans only make like 10% of what you pay them The OnlyFans percentage isn't even remotely that low. Unless it's changed recently, it's around 60-70%, and considering all of the overhead involved in running such a website, I consider that fair. Source: former OF content maker
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:52 PM
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The goal for women isn't to "get dates" but to get a fulfilling relationship... ...and how do you get a fulfilling relationship without going on dates? It's like wanting to win the Indy 500 without having to get into a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:51 PM
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...not to mention the other one who said she wanted to, quote, "add him to her arsenal". Rules for thee...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:49 PM
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Are people really so motivated to get a free burger? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-apes/201909/the-psychology-the-foodie-call
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:57 AM
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...note how she's blaming him for something that's impossible for him to disprove. Kinda makes you think, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:45 AM
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Nobody said "most people are getting raped". She said "too many people don't consent to what's happening". I work in a niche of fetish porn that doesn't even involve intercourse and it's rife with issues of producers skirting consent. So yes, "too many" people are being subjected to stuff they didn't consent to. And that goes beyond my own personal belief that even one is too many. Also stop downvoting me, it's against the rules of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:37 AM
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How is it "boneheaded" if it's true? The second sentence - the one you literally quoted - is absolutely, one hundred percent fact. I know this because I work in the industry. The rest of her post can be argued, sure, but that's not what you quoted, and I assumed the line you were quoting was what you considered "boneheaded". Except, y'know, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:24 AM
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Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey, and Bill Cosby say hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:10 AM
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This is such a stupid point It absolutely is not. The modeling and entertainment industries do in fact have the exact same seedy shit going on as the porn industry, it's just that for some reason the entertainment industry isn't under a microscope the way porn is. Source: photographer who works with models, like, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:09 AM
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Women: If men learn all they know about sex from it, it’s going to be terrible. Also women: "Virgins suck, it's not my job to teach you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:07 AM
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Remember reading this gentleman a lot of the women that that are going to say that it " sets unrealistic expectations " and "death grip" probably have a vibrator with 40 different speed settings lol ...and reads "romance" novels where the heroine gets raped by werewolves I like how porn does all of these horrible things to those poor stupid men but somehow women are just above it all. Almost as if... it's about man-hate and not about the porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:04 AM
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pornhub verification doesn’t do anything Yes and no. Pornhub didn't actually have any verification procedures until the expose that was done on them late last year. At that point they went into total lockdown and overhauled the process. Now, you need multiple forms of ID, including a photo of the model holding the ID in front of her face, signed consent forms, and they also outsource to a third-party verification outfit. Other websites are, in fact, implementing similar regulations. Clips4Sale d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:58 AM
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Where are you guys getting this bonehead information from? Hi, I work in the fetish industry as a side gig and this is absolutely not "bonehead information". One of the reasons my models keep coming back to work with me again and again is because I treat them ethically and keep their comfort in mind at all times on set. You'd be surprised (...apparently) at how often this is not the case. Out of all of the hilarious horseshit people are dribbling about the industry in this thread, this is the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:53 AM
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Make it make sense. You can start by not assuming that the man is "stunted" or that the relationship will be shitty. The only reason you believe that is because you have an axe to grind and are projecting this bitterness onto these hypothetical men. I don't date younger women, but I'll tell you what, I meet a lot of them doing what I do and I get along a lot better with them than I do the women my age because they actually have hobbies and do stuff other than drink wine and "travel". Women my ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:37 AM
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Older women will talk about how an older man going after a young women shows immaturity, but at the same time will gladly welcome his attention when she’s getting it (based on observation). It's definitely a weird self-own. "Old men who go after young women are gross! Why would a young woman want his saggy wrinkled ass!?" "You're right, he should stay in his lane and hit on women his own age who are as ugly as he is. Like... you?" At what age do women suddenly start finding "saggy, wrinkled asse…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:32 AM
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guys with fragile egos who can't handle a woman with money We live in a patriarchy, right? The same patriarchy that has such omnipotent power over women's feelings that a magazine ad with a pretty girl in it gives every woman in a ten block radius an eating disorder, right? Because all women everywhere were told from the day they were born that being pretty is all that matters and no one will like you if you're not, right? And it takes a huge amount of effort to pull yourself out from under that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:23 AM
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Nah. Most of the women I either know or have spoken to who say "the majority of men are ugly" are stuck-up misandrists who think their shit don't stink. If that's the first thing out of their mouths, start asking them other questions and note their responses. I guarantee you that "the majority of men are ugly" will be the most polite part of the conversation if you dig deeply enough, because fundamentally, on a deep level, they hate men. hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:18 AM
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You must be new here. PPD women say it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:15 AM
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I’ve also heard “being a good person won’t get you laid” A LOT on here - to those who believe this, why? ...because I'm a good person, and I don't get laid. Whenever I point out here that I'm a good person, I get told either that I'm delusional or "tHaT's tHe BaRe MiNiMuM". and why does the act of sex matter far more to you than doing what’s right? It doesn't. One of the reasons I'm purple is because I simply can't divorce myself from my conscience enough to be red. But that doesn't mean I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:52 PM
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Seriously. "I don't understand why that dog bit me! All I did was go out of my way to kick it as hard as I could every time I saw it! Some breeds just need to be euthanized like the rabid animals they are."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:48 PM
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I'm sure I'm missing something Yeah, you're drowning in a Just World fallacy and refusing to see that there's another side to the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:46 PM
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Not everybody can be the life of the party. Then it just turns into a bunch of idiots jockeying for attention. I too am sociable enough and outgoing enough to have lots of friends and do stuff and go out and stuff and things. Hell, I even side-hustle in an industry that is nothing but dealing with hot women. Nobody finds it attractive, but everybody is totally sure that I'd be a great catch for somebody. Just not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:44 PM
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Although I agree, the flipside isn't much better. I have a lot of friends and people I've worked with who tell me all the time how great I am, how valued I am, how much fun it is to work with me, all that shit. And yet... I've been single for the last decade and a half. After a while you stop listening when your best friend tells you she loves you because you're like "ok, and when you had the chance to date me you picked the cokehead who lives with his mom, so..."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:31 PM
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Their attitudes are though. If you didn't approach them how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:22 PM
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One of the biggest complains I’ve seen coming from incels ...do you seriously think that it's only incels complaining about these double standards, or are you just labeling anyone who dares speak up as one? I'm about as far from an incel as you can get, and I find the dance that I'm expected to do and the double standards emotionally exhausting to the point where I simply don't want to do it anymore no matter how much I like someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:19 PM
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a guy who's done/doing nothing Respectfully, you don't know jack shit about what men are or aren't doing with their lives, you're only judging them by results. Oh wait, I forgot, you're in your early twenties, you know everything. My bad, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:12 PM
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Give me a break, Helen of Troy. Yeah, never mind the fact that here in California gas is making a brisk jog towards ten dollars a gallon because of our fucking government trying to screw with the Saudis, must be my fault that I can't afford to subsist on my "meager" six-figure tech salary or that I can't afford a home because I'm not alpha enough and totally not because of our completely screwed real estate market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:08 PM
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I ran in those circles at one point, and I have some bad news; The women aren't any better than the men. A female poly friend of mine once quipped, "what's the difference between poly and swinging? About fifty pounds." It's apparently a common sentiment. Me, in my experience the attractive ones just don't tell anyone because they'd get hounded even more than they already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:55 PM
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Both of those magazines are made by men. Horseshit. Womens' magazines are made by women. I literally just googled the CEOs of five of them and the only time a man came up is when Google didn't realize I meant "Cosmo the magazine".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:54 PM
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I'm Asian Dude, Asian people are savage when it comes to fat. My ex-wife was Chinese and I put on a lot of weight while we were married, for various reasons. Even my own in-laws were so cruel about it I legit developed an eating disorder. Going to China as a fat white dude? Hoo boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:05 PM
0

Garbage deserves to be thrown away. You'd change your tune pretty quick if someone with more sway than you decided you were the garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:58 PM
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Also I don't understand why men send dick pics and ask for nudes when obviously it reduces their odds of hooking up to a guaranteed 0%. It actually doesn't. There are two groups of men who send dick pics; exhibitionists/shame-fetishists and guys who are so attractive that the women won't care. The first group doesn't care if it "hurts their chances", because all they wanted to do was get off on the notion that you saw their penis. If they're into being humiliated and you freak out on him, that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:48 PM
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Beauty standards are, for the most part, cultural. So it's impossible to say "X is more attractive than Y" when what's considered attractive varies so much from region to region and different points in history. Furthermore, these "average men" are often being told to stay in their league by women, so I don't know where you're getting the notion that the only reason men think it's absurd is their own bruised egos. Finally, the only people I ever hear say that women are inherently more attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:39 PM
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There's a reason why the mantra "I have the confidence of a mediocre white man" exists. Yeah, racist fucksticks who point to the apex fallacy and shout down anyone who points out that no, white men aren't magical immortal creatures that get the world handed to them. We act like we don't need support because we have people like you denying it to us when we ask for it on the justification that we don't need it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:46 PM
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Women aren’t making and following accounts like this. No, they just make subreddits like JustNeckbeardThings, NiceGuys, CreepyPMs, and blogs like WhenWomenRefuse. Nobody needs to collect "men posting L's" on the TikToks because everyone already posts it everywhere anyone will look.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:37 PM
0

IME most of the conservative men I've known don't actually give a shit about trans people either way. Seriously, it ain't men complaining that men in dresses are allowed into women's bathrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:07 PM
1

Here's a thought a experiment... Here's a thought experiment: Replace "men" with the minority of your choice and see how long before this post is flagged for racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:32 AM
1

And both groups do virtually nothing to police those bad actors in both groups. ...do you seriously think these bad actors give a fuck what anyone else thinks? How exactly do you expect people to "police" them? If anything, that shit only works on women due to their in-group bias and insane devotion to social pressure. Men? Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:27 AM
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In real life - I don’t know if I’ve met a single man who would openly slut shame any woman in the last 5+ years. Five years? Dude I've been out and about in mixed gender social groups for like the last thirty years or so and I've never seen this behavior in the wild. I really wonder what rock these women are turning over to find these kinds of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:56 AM
5

I learned looks matter in 8th grade. It's usually anti Red Pillers coming on here saying the extent looks matter is inflated by Red Pillers. I learned that looks mattered pretty early on, as well. I knew that I didn't look like the guys on Dawson's Creek so I wasn't gettin' any. But whenever I would say that out loud, people would rush to tell me I was wrong and that high school girls were just immature and I'd come into my own in college when people would finally start to appreciate my intellig…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:46 AM
2

What about creating a video game? Game developer here. Got bad news for ya...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:39 AM
2

or women you rape dude what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:39 AM
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Poor Zoe Quinn. His name was Alex Holowka. But blaming just women for it is childish and quite frankly, plain incorrect. Nobody blamed women for gaming media's issues at the time. There were plenty of men who were just as toxic that people took issue with, including the original Five Guys, one of whom was Nathan Grayson. Like Joe, I saw it all happen in real time. Gamergate started because Zoe's boyfriend penned a blog post (the infamous "Zoe Post") detailing his relationship with her, which he …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:25 AM
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Video games are written by men for men. It there were more women programmers there would be more women oriented games and more women gamers. Hi, I'm a video game developer. I've been in the industry for over a decade. This is complete horseshit and has been as such for as long as I can remember. There have been female game devs at every company I've worked at. Also, it's not the devs - IE, programmers - who decide what games to make at larger companies. When I worked at Namco I had absolutely ze…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:23 AM
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What's the reasoning behind this? Probably the need to push an agenda rather than make a good movie. Studio X wants to make a movie about a black trans lesbian in a wheelchair because Diversity is all the rage these days and they certainly can't have a dirty cis white male write the script so they have to go find a black trans lesbian and there simply aren't that many who are successful writers, and hell, they don't even have to be because any criticism of their work can simply be dismissed as b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:18 PM
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And you cant just assert that He can't, but I can. I've been a part of video gaming since it was born. I currently work in the field myself. I also lived through the Satanic Panic of the '80s that saw MADD (Mothers Against Dungeons and Dragons) attempt to get the games banned, and the wave of bannings of Magic the Gathering and Pokemon in schools. Magic literally censored a shit-ton of their artwork because the Black Magic cards were accused of being Satanic. Video game marketing didn't actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:58 PM
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A lot of multilayer online games are incredibly toxic to women. FTFY. I've been online gaming since I was a teenager. (I'm pushing 50 now.) What all these "oNlInE GaMiNg Is ToXiC tO WoMeN" people fail to acknowledge is that online gaming is toxic to men as well. League of Legends is known as one of the most toxic playerbases on the planet. You really think they got that reputation purely by forcing women out? No, it's because anyone who plays League is inevitably going to get cursed out by some …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:41 PM
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Can you think of any other 'male spaces" other than boy scouts that have been infiltrated by women? I'm just curious because when I hear this argument I hear men say things like video games, comic books and sci fi movie fanbases. As someone who has worked in at least one of these fields and been involved in the others long enough to see the shift, I don't know if I'd say that they've been "infiltrated by women" so much as they've been taken over by a particular type of person - a lot of whom are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:30 PM
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all women are out of their league to these people. It's a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:12 PM
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The fact that you’re even upset about them receiving acceptance shows the bias against ‘unattractive’ women again Yes, there's such a huge bias against overweight women that Tess Holiday has been on the cover of magazines and is held up as some kind of role model. But hey, all of that is canceled out by a couple of guys on the Internet who say "I don't like that". That's totally how that works. Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:07 PM
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how are women supposed to attempt more suicide if across any culture or country statistics, above 80% of suicides or working place accidents are actually affecting to men Women attempt, men succeed. Your 80% of suicides figure are those who've actually offed themselves. Women use less-instantly-lethal forms of suicide like pills, which pretty much guarantees someone'll find her and get her help before she finally snuffs it. Guys just eat a bullet and call it a day. My own mother is alive today b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:46 PM
1

Toys are for everyone. I think the main reason sex dolls get more stigmatized is because it's now hitting the "uncanny valley" and it's not necessarily just a guy wanting to get off, but also feel like he's doing it with a "real" person which is a different territory than disembodied dildos and vaginas. Nah. The implication is that if a guy uses a fleshlight, it's because he has to, because no woman will touch him. Women are cheered for using toys because clearly if a man was capable of satisfyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:42 PM
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Hell some women think not being attracted to body hair on women is rooted in misogyny. I've heard women outright call them pedophiles. For being attracted to adult women. daFUQ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:41 PM
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Let's be real, here; the average woman does not get rejected even remotely as often as the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:00 AM
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Maybe if you stopped thinking of yourself as ugly, that would be the first step toward healing your self esteem. You must be new here. Dudes who don't think they're ugly but struggle with dating are told they're delusional. "GuYs OvErEsTiMaTe ThEiR aPpEaRaNcE AlL tHe TiMe"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:58 PM
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"I think that girl is flirting with me." "LOL as if, loser! Stay in your lane!" "Wah, guys don't get hints! THeY'rE nOt eMoTiOnalLy iNtElLiGeNt!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:56 PM
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It's whatever they need it to be in order to make you look bad. The most uncharitable reading of every word and action in order to make you the bad guy. They're all master psychiatrists and can judge you perfectly based on a mere few words typed over the internet, especially after they've annoyed you to the point that you may have gotten a little sarcastic. That's just "proof" that you're whatever ism, ist, or ment they need you to be. Fuck 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:45 PM
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For example, I don't think men understand just how Judged, endlessly endlessly Judged, women are. lol If you think men don't get judged by double-standards, I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:05 AM
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Finally, Norah Vincent experienced life as a man for 18 months and she became a misogynist after trying to date women! She eventually declared that being a woman was more of a privilege. She also eventually killed herself. Pour one out for my girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:00 AM
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I think a lot of men romanticize the female experience to an insanely unhealthy degree, and think most women are experiencing what the top .5% of gorgeous, skinny, beautiful, popular, wealthy women are experiencing because that's what they see on social media. Some of us actually have female friends and deal with women on a regular basis and hold the same opinions because we see it in real life. Whoops On the other hand you are correct. I work with literal models all of the time, and they sit do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:55 PM
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However, what I've noticed more now is a rise in the number of people going for jobs that almost may be above their pay grade. I'll go on linked and see a hundreds of applications for a senior contractor position....and yet somehow those same roles constantly end up being reposted as it seems the hiring teams struggle to actually fill the roles. What they'll tell you is whilst there's a bunch of people with the ambition, there is a severe lack of people with the requisite skillset. I've waltzed …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:03 PM
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It's easy; they don't. Whichever one they need to trot out to win the argument they're in is the one that's currently true. If you call them out on the other one they just deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:57 PM
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like clockwork
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:14 PM
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What it actually is is learned behavior. Very much so. Show me a man who won't tell you what's on his mind, and I'll show you a man who has had it made very clear to him from day one that nobody actually gives a shit what he thinks unless they want to to use it as ammunition against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:12 PM
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What is there to talk about? ...as someone with a friend who's into roller coasters, I can assure you there's a lot more about them to talk about than you're giving it credit for. Of course, since you've already made up your mind that the topic is "boring" you're not going to care enough to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:26 PM
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This isn't how women would phrase this question and you know it. Au contraire. It's usually the first damn thing out of the mouth of any OLD match I get, after "hi, how are you"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:00 PM
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Shit tests actually preselect for psychos. I used to tell my female friends, "you put up enough walls and the only guys you're gonna get are the assholes who disregard your boundaries entirely, because the good guys are respecting them and staying away."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:51 PM
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I’m a freaking roller coaster enthusiast yet that’s too boring for most women apparently. In the "there's a lid for every pot" department, one of my female friends is obsessed with roller coasters. She used to travel the country and ride/take photographs of all the coasters and she gets actively depressed when a famous one closes. She's engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:46 PM
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all men behave like assholes towards other people? No, we don't. JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:43 PM
1

My best friend married a dude who physically abused her for years. Now granted, I didn't find that out until after the divorce and she spilled all of the tea, but the simple fact is I didn't like the guy from the day I met him and I kept my mouth shut. What were my objections? Nothing major. He seemed incredibly insecure. He always had to be the center of every conversation, was always the loudest person in the room, the most animated, never stopped talking. Unfortunately, he also love-bombed th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:37 PM
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Hm. Okay this has big notlikeotherboys energy. When I say "here", I mean here on PPD. Y'know, the sub where people say "why would I want a relationship, I have my own XYZ". In Real Life, I'm probably not hugely different from most other people around here. I'm sure someone'll jump in and point a finger any minute now and say that's my problem. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:08 PM
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Something's always gotta give. I prioritize my work and hobbies over going to the gym, so I'm not in the best shape. I can guarantee you anyone here would point the finger and go ah ha! over that being my problem. Gotta have it all all for people who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:02 PM
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your negative qualities Furthermore, what a lot of people gloss over is that we all have negative qualities. Nobody's perfect, but any flaw you display is the reason you ain't gettin' any? Let he who is without sin, and all that...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:56 PM
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I think it's telling that they rarely can describe what being "fun" actually means. Anything you describe to them that these guys might do doesn't actually count, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:53 PM
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The self-sealing response to that one is that all of their so-called "friends" are just humoring them for some reason, because we all like to keep inviting that one guy everyone hates to the party because reasons. Or their friends are all losers, too. Even though you've never met them, they must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:51 PM
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I've seen him rejecting women because they were drunk and he was like "dude she's drunk, that's not right"... I just want to point out that people are somehow labeling the fact that the dude won't date-rape drunk girls is somehow being too nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:42 PM
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It's funny, I briefly dated a woman who was really into Animal Crossing. She insisting on coming over to my place and showing me all of her tips and tricks and shit. I took her up on it and she really did know her shit. It was crazy. She was pretty hot, too. But yeah, I'm not going to assume most women are like her. She was definitely an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:33 PM
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What makes the women your own age not relationship material? Hoo boy, where do I start. I don't have many physical dealbreakers beyond morbid obesity, but you'd be surprised at how many people that rules out. Even so, the big one is often attitude. You can tell these women are showing up to dates with a figurative clipboard and laundry list and they don't actually care about you so much as how many of the boxes you tick off. Heck, a friend of mine tried the ol' "invite me and a single friend of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:13 PM
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Yes you misunderstood, because you assumed that when people say “get a hobby” they mean it as some sort of magic wand that just by existing will somehow get you in a relationship Er, no... you misunderstood. I said that exact thing. "Touch grass" is right up there with "Shower" in the list of Dating Advice Cliches. People wave them around like magic wands, and they're very much... not. As you said. What do you find “impressive” in a woman? Ironically... talent! I have a friend who's a burlesque …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:06 PM
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Really? You want to hear about the double backbeat drum pattern that's a staple of the genre or how it was the birth of garage punk? Drop me a PM, I'd be happy to tell you all about it. No? Must not be me, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:54 PM
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That's a gift. You should present the stuff you're interested in, specifically to filter out all of the women whose eyes glaze over when you start talking about your passions. I agree, actually. At this point I use this stuff as a filtering mechanism. Odds are pretty good I'm going to be spending my saturdays in the studio. If that bothers you, we're not a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:49 PM
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I go on coffee dates and walk dates all the time but I have more to talk about than going in-depth on one hobby though. Especially on first dates, there's so much to talk about, there's no reason to pigeon-hole yourself on one thing. That's true. You know that, and contrary to popular belief, I know that. But sometimes people wind up just focusing on one thing. Not everyone is a master conversationalist. If they get nervous, they retreat to their comfort topics. I honestly don't have a problem w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:46 PM
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Or, if you are lucky enough to have the same hobby, then you should have a lot to talk about and can plan an outing around your common hobby. I fully agree with this. I'm very active in the local music scene even though I don't gig, and the scene here is very much mixed-gender. We host an all-women's music festival every year. I did photography at it before the pandemic hit. I definitely get along better with musicians than "normal" people, but the sad fact is that most female musicians are eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:38 PM
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have you tried the average looking girls or worst case scenario even girls that are desperate to be in a relationship? Define "average-looking". I can guarantee you your idea of "average" probably won't match up with anyone else's here, including mine. I've gone after women who this place would probably rate a 4 or 5 at best, but no, I will not go after "desperate" - that just guarantees you wind up with someone toxic who doesn't love you. Actually my biggest problem right now is finding single …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:36 PM
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That's a possibility, but based on my interactions with a lot of people over the last decade or so I'm going to have to go with no, that's not it. Unless the (married) woman who spent the entire night glued to my side at the last party I went to and then proclaimed I was the most interesting person she's ever met was pulling the longest of long cons ever, that is. It was kinda funny, actually; her husband kept popping in to say something random and she kept shooing him off. He was on something s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:34 PM
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Thanks for that armchair analysis based on a few lines of text. I'll take the opinions of the close friends I've cultivated over the last few decades over yours, thanks. Feel free to tell me how I'm being "entitled" for noting that people don't want to hear about topics they don't have any interest in, though. I realize "entitled" is PPD's go-to insult, but that's a tortured definition even by this place's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:30 PM
1

I do. Cowabunga!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:29 PM
1

Question - how long could you listen to a person talk about goats? Would one line be sufficient or would you like to hear a blow by blow of the breeding lines I've purchased and specific traits I'm trying to improve in my herd? Or we could spend a while talking about equine nutrition and it's relationship to hoof health. lol, you think this is a "gotcha" but I can, would, and have spent hours listening to people talk about the most random subjects both because I feel that you should never stop l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:29 PM
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I think you misunderstood the “get a hobby” thing. No, I didn't. I'm well aware that hobbies get you out of the house and get you socializing. My social life is fine. What I've said from the very beginning is that having hobbies doesn't impress women unless they're very, very specific hobbies and even then, it's a crap shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:25 PM
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Why are you writing songs for them!? Did I say I actually wrote songs for them? Spoiler: I don't. Writing a song takes a fair amount of effort. I'm not going to do it for some random chick I met on OKCupid. It's kinda hard to have discussions with people who're inventing shit out of whole cloth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:22 PM
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I agree with this. I play a niche instrumental genre of music that doesn't lend itself well to dropping panties. That's why I say "get a hobby" is a massive over-simplification of a more complex issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:21 PM
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Alternatively, are the women you’re going for much younger than you? I'm not "going for" anyone. But if I was, that's actually an issue; most of the women in my social circles are ten to fifteen years younger than me and the rare few who are my age are absolutely not relationship material. I literally couldn't date right now if I wanted to. On the other hand, I do occasionally get some attention from the younger set, so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:18 PM
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I want to see it. No, I'm not missing the point. I'm well aware that there is a difference between engaging in a hobby, especially a performative hobby, and talking about it. When you're first meeting someone, and you are not actually engaging in that hobby, like, you're on a coffee date or whatever, you don't have the opportunity to actually demonstrate your hobby. I mean, I don't bring my Jazzmaster on a date, do you? So your goal is to impress your date enough to want to see you again so that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:44 PM
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Next time, try making a comment about playing a song for them. People like to be included. You're missing the point. That being, that if I do anything other than give a one-liner and change the subject, they lose interest. Your proposed solution doesn't change that at all. There is absolutely zero difference between "It's the kind of music you hear in beach movies. How was your day?" and "It's the kind of music you hear in beach movies. I'll play it for you sometime". You're still glossing over …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:25 PM
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I don’t know any women who do this. Where do you find these people? ...probably in the same places women find guys who don't wipe their asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:22 PM
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they don't care about any of those things nor have they asked. This is my go-to response whenever anyone pulls the "gEt a HoBbY" card. I guarantee I have more hobbies than the vast majority of you, and a good chunk of them are stuff that - in theory - would attract people. I play guitar, I do photography, I travel. Nobody cares. Every now and then a woman asks me about the genre of music I play but as soon as I say anything beyond the name of it, their eyes glaze over and they start "uh huh"-ing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:16 PM
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this is what feminists actually believe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:10 PM
2

What if you’ve tried everything but you never solved the real issue of why you’re not getting dates or in a relationship? I have. I'm basically MGTOW at this point. I don't resent anyone. I have a lot of female friends whom I love dearly and would do anything for. I'm just not dateable, and I'm ok with it. It's other people who seem to take issue with it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:02 AM
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The second scenario, sounds like jealousy. I think? It does indeed. That's what I eventually assumed it was. Said friend also made it quite clear I wasn't her type and then didn't understand why I wasn't flattered that she wrote me into one of her porn stories. Effing weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:18 AM
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What if you’ve tried everything but you never solved the real issue of why you’re not getting dates or in a relationship? I've done an extreme amount of emotional auditing over the last decade and a half, and never been able to come up with a definitive answer. Either all of my close friends are duplicitous, lying assholes who just won't tell me the truth, or I'm a wonderful human being with the worst luck in the world. Either way, it is what it is. Feel free to keep digging and assuming I'm jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:17 AM
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I decided once that I liked a friend-of-a-friend. We met at a party, spent the evening chatting. I couldn't tell if she liked me or not, but I figured at the time that as long as I wasn't pushy, I could keep pursuing her until I got some kind of hard no. At said party, she kept mock-arguing with a female friend of hers. The two of them kept saying, jokingly, "We're not a lesbian couple. Honest!" in reference to the fact that they kept at it like an old married couple. This will be important even…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:40 PM
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what does he want to get when he complains all the time? I went through a phase when I was younger where I complained a lot. Mostly because I'd previously gone through a phase where nothing worked and I was frustrated. The main two things I wanted when I complained were mainly to be heard (I was the kind of guy nobody took seriously), but also to talk to people on the off chance someone could offer a solution that I hadn't tried yet. Unfortunately, the older you get and the more times you fail, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:50 PM
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What is curious is when a guy is both desperate and doesn't put enough efforts, which I've seen a lot online and a few times in real life. What you didn't see is all the times he did put in effort, got nothing for it, and then eventually decided to stop playing a rigged game. It's easy to rag on people who've given up when you have no idea what their past is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:34 PM
1

Is it my imagination or is this entire comment section one giant strawman? Nobody is addressing what the OP actually said and is instead just projecting assumptions at IMAX level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:35 PM
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men are usually stronger so they know we’re not a real threat. Yeah, so... my mom had an argument with my dad once. That night he walked into the bedroom to find one of his pistols - loaded - lying in the middle of the bed. Another time he found a kitchen knife under her pillow. So in short, GTFO with that "women aren't a threat" nonsense. You can pull a trigger just as well as I can - or stab me in my sleep - with the added bonus that if you do, all you have to do is cry abuse after the fact an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:20 PM
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That may have been true years ago, but it's not anymore. I went Keto shortly before lockdown in 2020 and have been doing it ever since. Keto is the new hotness in fad diets these days so everyone who can lift a spoon has been working overtime to create keto-compatible versions of pretty much any food you can think of, and plenty of restaurants have keto-friendly options. I almost never make my own food and I never have an issue finding something on the menu when I do go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:03 PM
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shrug I think if I were married and some dude said half the stuff about my wife that F&F said about Preach's, I'd want to kick their asses too. Dude was furious and I don't blame him. I don't quite understand the "get in the ring" mentality either, TBH - but it's been a thing since I was a kid and I'm basically ancient now. That was always the go-to for people who had an opinion on kids getting bullied, "put 'em in the ring and let 'em sort it out". Never made sense to me, the idea was the bully…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:05 PM
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But they had a falling out, and now A&P just diss them to get views. That's a funny way of saying "F&F hard-core insulted Preach's wife, and then pussed out when Preach challenged them both to get in the ring and settle it". They also copyright strike anyone who responds to their videos. Master debaters, indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:57 AM
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The chief complaint of the majority of men on this sub are that they can't get a woman, so I don't really know who this is aimed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:57 AM
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What is your overall opinion on sex work and those who participate in it whether it’s onlyfans or prostitution? Seeing as how I have a fetish video business, I don't have a problem with sex workers. Would you date a sex worker? Too broad a question. I've vibed well enough with a few of my models that I considered them for relationships, but eventually decided against it. Never because of the sex work, mind, but because of other issues, usually emotional. Some of these girls are messed up. Would …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:44 AM
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It was better as a magazine, TBH...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:35 AM
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So, if they were all skinny/healthy and not overweight, they were above average, looks wise. It may also be completely irrelevant, depending on where and when OP went to high school. We had very few overweight girls in my HS and the vast majority of them weren't models or even close to it, facially speaking. People just weren't as fat back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:29 AM
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To the average woman, an average guy is an "ugly, fat dude". Event when he's not. You don't have to look any further than this very sub, where women claim that men they aren't attracted to are literally the equivalent of a dirty hot dog lying on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:12 AM
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I didn’t say all men. Yeah, yeah. You never do, and then you play semantic games to dodge the implication. Why are you so triggered? I'm not triggered. Stop deflecting and address the actual point or take the L and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:09 AM
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The first one is not going to matter if you can't even get her into the bedroom. ...and even if you do, how many of them fake their orgasms? Seems rather cruel to outright lie about something and then blame men for believing said lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:38 AM
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most people here have no interest in a solution I think that - at least on the male side - they'd be interested in a solution, but two things hinder that. One, nine times out of ten nobody even wants to acknowledge the problem, and two, oftentimes they've tried all of the (often cliche) solutions that people spout whenever they do acknowledge it. It's why "just shower bro" is a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:34 AM
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I definitely agree that PPD scratches the itch for some women who want to feel superior to a nameless faceless "loser" guy This place (...and a lot of women online in general) makes a lot more sense once you realize they're not yelling at you, they're yelling at their previous boyfriend or the guy that dared to say hello to them in the subway last week by proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:32 AM
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I can see the root of the problem, can’t you? Oh, come off it. What I see is someone looking to make a disgusting generalization about men by digging up a handful of accounts as "proof" that somehow the entire gender is bad. I think you know damn well that the majority of men don't fuck baked goods, and that the reason that those stories made it to the Internet in the first place is that they're unusual. I'm quite sure that if I took a straw poll on my Facebook page of all of my male friends and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:15 PM
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Are you honestly saying you don’t believe some horny teen age boy has put his dick into food? No, I'm saying "It was in a movie so it probably happened" is bullshit logic. I can also turn up a quick google search about women fucking dogs, so this really isn't a path you want to go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:01 PM
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Also, all of those guys you listed are famous multimillionaires which completely cancels out their looks either way. Not to mention that at least two of them played superheroes. Spider-Man (Tom Holland) literally has zero body fat and shirtless Kylo Ren became a fucking meme. Yeah, totally average guys. Totes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:50 PM
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The bulk of which also seem to have happened in high school, and as we all know teenagers of both genders are paragons of rationality and decorum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:30 PM
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She's also going to conveniently ignore the oft-pointed-out fact that until we somehow evolve telepathy, you can't find out anything about her brain until you go talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:10 PM
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Why did you make it so extreme. If they couldn't strawman your argument, they wouldn't be able to refute it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:30 PM
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If someone made a movie of it, I’m pretty sure someone has done it. and they say we can't tell the difference between fantasy and reality. This is gold, right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:27 PM
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Your point? Don't move the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:08 PM
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Don't forget the hobbies, housework, and still somehow having time to dote on her!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:53 AM
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I have no bad track record and could never stand accused of doing any of the terrible things you talk about. They have a ready-made comeback for that one; just accuse you of not being as good as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:44 AM
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Last I checked, "American Pie" was not a documentary, but a fictional comedy. If you're going to hold it up as proof of anything, I'll see your bet and raise you 50 Shades of Grey and Twilight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:41 AM
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I'm probably not the kind of man this post is pointed at, but I run a fairly decent (~$300/mo.) side hustle making fetish videos with local talent. I had an OnlyFans for a couple of months but my proposed MO of releasing bundles of my existing videos there for members to watch "for free" rather than having to buy individual clips tanked hard. Nobody signed up so I dumped it after a few months. One of the girls I worked with had a fairly successful OF and she said "you have to be releasing conten…
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