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| – | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?Its hard to find a man with strong moral character, family values, and kindness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do majority of women say they want their man to be a confident leader, yet most women today are reluctant to be obedient/submissive?I think woman might want to submit to a man who is more capable and intelligent than them, protective, a good communicator, aware of how he affects other people, and provides for their needs, but many never find that in reality. So we have to do it all ourselves or get blown around in the wind. Have you seen the study where you leave either boy or girl children in a house by themself and see what happens? Many men need women to guide them towards stability and structure. Find me a man of high in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 03:05 AM |
| 0 | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?You asked though. Makes no sense to ask me to express the things that hurt me and affect me then to be dismissive. What is the point of that? Its like you wanted to hear my opinion so you could dismiss me for power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?We are expected to be small, quiet- not opinionated, submissive, successful and self supporting despite a male-dominated power structure heavily stacked against us and despite our need to be submissive, complacent with being rated for our looks, hungry all the time so we can be good looking, not get old, spend money on our appearance despite our lower incomes, good mothers despite needing to be successful and self supporting. If we actually followed all that men wanted from us, we would pretty m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 09:35 PM |
| -1 | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?Not really. We do expect men to care about our feelings and treat us with respect. But men often objectify us and expect us to cater to them for absolutely no return value they are bringing to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 09:17 PM |
| 5 | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?Men here have expectations for women that I, as a woman, would never be ok with. They feel entitled to a level of power over and service from women that women have no reason to want to permit them. And they are angry if women dont bow to their expectations. They feel the need to denigrate single mothers who have often been involuntarily left by similarily misogynistic men and rate women with numbers as though they are farm animals at a fair. Ive found it to be enlightening as to why I need to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 09:44 PM |
| 14 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdI dont get why anyone cares whether you date a single mom. I am a single divorced mom and I would never want to date anyone who isnt more than thrilled to date me. Why would I lower my standards to date a man who is only barely wanting to date me when I could easily just stay single and relax more often not having to cater to the needs of a man that barely even wants to date me? The thought of bending over backwards to date a man who is lowering his standards to date me makes zero logical sense.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Because men do not allow themselves to be vulnerable. So if they feel vulnerable, they might kill themself. They cant cope in a healthy way with unfortunate circumstances. Men feel they are "not enough." Women just get upset about it for a while then move on. They dont typically internalize it to affect their self worth. We are taught self love and to forgive our mistakes. I think either gender can have it harder or easier depending on the person and what kind of standards they put on themselves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 09:01 PM |
| – | Why is Taylor Swift seen as a role model for young women when she has so many traits representing what’s wrong with the modern woman?I dont see her as being a train wreck. She is successful at her career and the fact that she dates different people is pretty normal for a single woman. What's the problem? Train wreck is like drug and alcohol problems and cant function. I dont get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingI've no idea what you're talking about. My female friends are all good people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:28 PM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingI guess Ive had my share of successful and hot assholes and never was able to experience dating a good person. So thats where I am at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:33 AM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingHonestly, men need to stop thinking women really care that much about their bodies, cars, and friends. Its hard to find a man who you can trust. Like a decent human being. Its easy to find a hot, shady, successful man. Women deal with immeasurable cruelty from men and most just want to date someone with a kind heart. Its almost impossible to find that. Most men just want to use you for whatever they need you for. And couldnt care less about your feelings. The men on here can't find enough dates … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Women are just as redpilled as men.The only women who 'dont have to do anything in life' are wives of incredibly rich men and they spend a lot of time building social networks, working out, and buying the right clothes. Theres almost no women sitting around doing nothing in life. You arent thinking that concept through and your mind is hitting a wall of ignorance. Not knowing what women do is not the same as them not doing anything. Thats where your logic is falling off. Plenty of rich men are also 'not doing anything with their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Sexist people make the best partners.I dont think so. Seems like he would be just keeping me around to use for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityIts not lazy to raise a child. Breastfeeding a child is something you do every 2- 3 hours on a 24 hour schedule. Small children need to eat about 7 times a day plus. They need to be constantly entertained, kept stimulated, playdates, etc. Besides that, a mother is well equipped to give the child personalized attention and affection to make sure the child turns out to be a normal human being. She can teach the child proper social skills. A daycare worker has many children to attend to and does no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?Women or men can dominate relationships depending on the dynamic of the couple. Some women are dominating. In my life, I have known men to be more dominating and controlling than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredI really dont think so. Maybe certain women are this way. Nice women like nice men. By nice I mean men who want long term relationships and who treat you as an equal and with respect. Women are turned off by inauthenticity though. A nice man doesnt need to try very hard to be nice. It comes from a place of deeply respecting you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: What profession, if any, do you find most attractive in a man?Yea, that is hot to have a man that specially prepares you food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 01:45 AM |
| 9 | Why is it that Men „enjoy“ being seen as Sex objects, while Women don‘t?As a woman, I don't feel validated by being hot or a good homemaker. Both of these things feel cheapening to my value. I would like a man to think I am like a best friend who he'd fight for and always be by my side through illness, highs, and lows in my life. I want him to want to have my back and be my biggest supporter, someone to talk to who always says nice things about me and never has an unkind word to gossip about me. I dont want him to be there for me because I am hot or cook/clean well.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | For those who believe it’s impossible to find women who aren’t promiscuous - do you believe promiscuity is natural in women then?No, men are more aggressive and self centered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 08:33 PM |
| 0 | For those who believe it’s impossible to find women who aren’t promiscuous - do you believe promiscuity is natural in women then?Hmm, well I know thats the way it seems to me. No, most women I know are pretty nice and get treated badly. Maybe though there is a difference between our expectations of how men and women "should" act where you give men more leeway and expect something much more from women than I would. Also, I am in my late 30s and men in their thirties - fourties become more cold and heartless after their twenties perhaps once they have good jobs and feel more entitled to things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 08:17 PM |
| 0 | For those who believe it’s impossible to find women who aren’t promiscuous - do you believe promiscuity is natural in women then?Promiscuity in women is the result of technological innovation such as dating apps which make a man readily available for a woman and a woman readily available to a man, leading him to be less likely to put effort into a relationship. The availability of porn and dating apps makes men poorer partners due to more supply of sex or women. Thus, women are forced to move from man to man until they find a decent partner of which there are few in supply due to oversupply of sexual gratification. Also, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:16 PM |
| 0 | It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something.Using is deceiving someone for the purposes of sex as in making false statements about the intention of a relationship, commitment, intimate bond | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Reasons for women to still be on a dating app a year later?They are picky. Best to wait for a man who is a good person, fairly competent and works at least moderately hard, is somewhat attractive, and treats you with decency. Not always easy to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 08:11 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedWell yes, they see you're a dick, so if they dont want an emotional connection and just want sex, you might be easy to detach from. I think men do the same towards bitchy women. If you like being used for the night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 06:46 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedThe sexual attraction to an abusive person can in some cases stem from anger at men oddly enough. Its like a facing your demons thing where you are emotionally unavailable and you detach from caring that they are an asshole because youre emotionally detached from them. I wonder if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 06:42 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedMost men I've known aren't very nice and men mistreating women is common where I live. So it might seem that way, but men aren't typically nice here. I like nice guys, but I've never been able to find one. At times in my life when I was emotionally unavailable, nice men repelled me. Because I wasn't wanting an emotional connection. So in my experience, emotionally available women like nice men. I would kill for a man who was loving, gentle, patient, and kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think manipulation can be a good thing?No, but I don't think the examples you are giving are manipulation. Manipulation to me is when you use faulty logic or induce guilt or a vulnerable emotional state in another person to try to influence someone's behavior. Here, I would say you are using faulty logic to win this argument. You are creating examples that aren't really manipulation to prove manipulation is ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members?Men dont accept women how they are either. Women also have to compete to get men for love relationships. They have to diet, go to the gym, and nowadays have successful careers as men on dating apps want women with good careers now. Its easy for a woman to get sex, but good relationships are harder and thats what we really want more than a passing fling that leaves us feeling emotionally empty. The way we state our requirements is a form of self love to protect ourselves from sex poachers who lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on "Don't Ask a fish how to fish?"Well I think fish are caught by being lured into a hook and Ive had men lie to me in many ways to get me to sleep with them such as pretending to be single and that we are dating when they are married, so I think the whole mentality of hunting women is unethical and leads men to think its ok to be dishonest and manipulative which is unethical. I think people should be honest and forthright with others and women should be treated as people- not tricked and then have men think they have outsmarted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members?Its true, but females grow up watching programming teaching them to be nice and loving. We definetly go on diets, try to improve ourselves, etc, but society hardly ever praises us for these things. We can never be good enough bodywise until we are perfect which is nearly impossible. So we have to learn to love and accept ourselves and empower ourselves because society doesn't teach us that in childhood. Society also tears us apart and blames us for everything. Like a dad on his cell phone taking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:45 PM |
| 4 | There aren't enough attractive women to go aroundI guess you have standards that don't match what you bring to the table. Have you considered anyone's heart in your search for "love"? The average woman doesnt want to be with someone who just wants an attractive doll to have sex with and they see right through it. We are pretty much evolved to sniff out the heartless ones. I am kinda starting to understand the red pill philosophies as a group of aholes who want to blame women and society for the fact that they can't find suitable mates instead … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?Good relationships are hard to find, but worth it. Personally I want someone loving, caring, good hearted, honest, loyal and kind. And that is very hard to find. So its like you could give up hope and stay inside or you could keep dating. We have to be ok with being single and willing to accept no one if it plays out that way so we can wait for the right person. What these women are saying is that settling for a bad person isn't better than being single. A good man is worth the wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on "Don't Ask a fish how to fish?"I have no idea what youre implying. That seems like common sense to me, not a fishing strategy. Do you feel that you need instructions like this? Or is it obvious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 02:53 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on "Don't Ask a fish how to fish?"Im not a "social justice warrior" Im just an ordinary woman who respects herself. We have brains in our heads just like you. We like to be treated as people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 02:51 AM |
| 0 | What is your opinion on "Don't Ask a fish how to fish?"I think its unethical to be a predator preying upon women which is what this analogy suggests. People should not be hunted, trapped, or lured. People who do this are creepy and manipulative. Like a decent man in my opinion would be honest, try to form a friendship with the woman, and just act kind. If shes naturally attracted to you, she will make a move after this. Also, I see plenty of married fat women, so I am not sure why you think fat women can't get men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?A man leading me, never happening. I lead myself and me alone towards what is best for my well being. A man leading you could lead to abusive relationship. You have to have your own sense of direction and your own boundaries of self. Not getting married either. No one is putting legal paperwork in place to make my choices to seek out a healthy environment limited. I follow my own path. If someone wants to be with me, they have to be going the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What does a modern woman bring to a relationship?Ok well dont date, no one cares. The world won't stop because you step out of the dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bedNo theyre not turned off by male virgins. They like men who are warm, loving, and empathetic regardless of numbers. They want men who are very considerate and thoughtful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 02:11 AM |
| 6 | What does a modern woman bring to a relationship?Thats because you are a psychopath. A suitable mate would want someone to hug, cuddle, talk to, intimate conversation. You just want to get things out of people. Gross. Like trophy wife and sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Would you encourage men to ''date down''?Yuck, dont date anyone if you think this way. Women arent just vaginas you are purchasing. You are kinda a psycho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Would you encourage men to ''date down''?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 01:38 AM |
| 9 | Would you encourage men to ''date down''?Exactly, how does everyone not see the logical error here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 01:20 AM |
| 4 | Would you encourage men to ''date down''?How can anyone date up or down as a pattern? If milk is $3 and is always $3 regularly, its not overpriced because its always being sold for $3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Would you encourage men to ''date down''?No, dont do someone you arent attracted to a "favor". Thats really a horrible thing to do to that peron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | im gonna prove right with a very simple argument that the dating market is not fairIntelligent women kinda don't mind being single vs being with a crappy person. If you aren't giving us emotional security, you arent giving us much to miss. We really don't value sex that much. Men give it away for free and many aren't even good at it. Men think 15 orgasms in a night keeps a woman around, but one would be fine and way better if with someone who is genuinely a good person. If you are the type of guy who uses prostitutes, women don't want you. Thats gross. Women want a sweet guy w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Women, why do you want to work?Sometimes men cheat or abuse you when you don't work because they know you can't leave. If they do, you are screwed with a likely small alimony payment and no employment history and half your time just holding down house for the kids. I was lucky to be married to a good earner and able to collect more alimony after caring for my kids for years. Most women would be so screwed I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Men who leave women who make him wait but not other men previously, is not entitlement, and is more than reasonable for the man's own goals and desires.You have to wonder who funds this stupid research that does little to help humanity. And the egos of these researchers thinking they are doing something of worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why?Hmm, its not been my experience but I live in urban area of the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:26 PM |
| 6 | What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why?And you guys probably have a great sex life and no desire to cheat as you have been there and done that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 03:05 AM |
| 4 | What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why?I only cheated once and it was only kissing with someone I had an emotional connection and past with when I was 20. I never cheated in 11 years of marriage or in a 1.5 year long relationship after that. Most women have options. Its fairly easy for an average looking or even heavier women to have sex with most men. Most men like more partners and aren't very picky. Women want emotional connections more than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 02:57 AM |
| 16 | What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why?You are creepy. Lay off the porn. Your imagination is bizarre. I don't think most women with greater than 10 partners are doing all this porn star stuff. They are regular human beings who enjoy sex same as men. Are men doing all this crazy porn stuff? You are stuck in self made delusions and spouting nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 02:43 AM |
| 13 | What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why?Thank you for being a normal person and not a weird creep who only dates nearly virginal women because they are threatened by female sexuality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 02:38 AM |
| 12 | What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why?But men also have sex with women who have sex with lots of people. Why does any of it matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 02:31 AM |
| 12 | What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why?Yes, my in the past promiscuous friends have long term relationships. Im not sure men really know how many people a woman has slept with and I dont know why some men act like we are religious nuts who only can date nearly virginal women. Its weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals?Yea I think youre right. I think the same is true of women who are jaded by the dating scene. Maybe they are idealists who went nihilist. Its funny. I was watching irrational man today, a woody allen film whose character has this dilemna. Maybe the solution to all these jaded people is to stop expecting perfection. This is kind of something I was mulling over earlier actually. Funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do?Feelings of powerlessness I think in men lead to bad things. And in women to an extent as well. I am not sure expressing their emotions gives them a feeling of powerfulness which is what I think gives them balance. Women are more balanced by having a secure supportive social network and men more by having enough power and resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 07:07 PM |
| 10 | CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do?Men score higher on tests for dark triad personality traits indicating lower emotional attachments and empathy. Women's neuroticism is probably higher as a result of that. Higher empathy means you care more leading to more neuroticism. So I don't think it necessarily better to be less neurotic. Being more emotional and empathetic is good if you are caring for children who cannot speak for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeWomen are self concious about their femininity when they are taller than a man. This is more about the womans issues than a mans height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeCorrelation is not causation. There may be reasons why women seek out ambitious men such as they are nice people due to not having issues with needing to hurt others to prop up their egos. Also, they are mentally healthier explaining why they have success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeWell there are a variety of people in the real world at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeThe people discussing what women want on these forums are always men. Its really silly how men think they are the best people to understand women and not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeI guess if thats your point of view is that women are only good for being hot... its very superficial. As a woman, I dont see myself as having any need of someone who only wants me for my body as I am capable of earning money myself and that person would not give me anything of value. I value loyalty and friendship. Does not seem like a relationship that would serve any purpose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeLooked it up. Yuck so superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeIt was for me. Looking for protector, even at 19. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeThey do that because they want an ego boost, fucking around. Temporary satisfaction. They are really looking for protector. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeFind the best protector- emotional, financial, not abusive, dependable, sleeps in your bed every night, makes you feel safe. Thats what women want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeWhere are these young women wanting to date men 10-20 years older? Why? I mean unless you are especially superficial and hes super rich. Women like men their own age. None of my girlfriends try to date men that much older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeWomen are not men. They are looking for a feeling of safety and protection, not a good looking man. They have different instincts. This is men projecting their instincts onto women. Our instinct is to find a protector- smart, capable, emotionally stable, strong is good.. but its the total sum of these things. A good man is intelligent, sensitive to our feelings, stable, and dependable. He guards our bed at night consistently. Testosterone fueled macho men are not attractive to a woman who wants … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 02:03 AM |
| 0 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeNo idea what your talking about back up plan. This is the kind of man women idealize. We are passionate about sweet, considerate men as our first choice. Any woman who has a sweet husband is the envy of all her friends. Rarest kind of man and most valuable. Go watch any romantic movie that isnt a comedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | We as men need to step our game up, it’s not fair, but it’s lifeYes, you're right. Being an emotional support and making a woman feel safe is way more than most men have to offer, even the handsome/rich men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | why aren't open relationships more popular?Because women instinctually want protection from a man in exchange for sex and if he splits his time resources across several women, she does not get it. She wants him to sleep in her bed and guard her. "Hormones" matter. Also, as a woman, speaking for myself, I dont at all want to sleep around. I want one partner for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 01:41 AM |
| 0 | Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behaviorWhat a woman is sexually attracted to is beyond her control. Women don't distribute sex like giving an even number of gumballs to a group of children. They usually choose based on their animalistic instincts. I feel it has to do with the man that makes them feel safest and most protected. For a woman with fear of abuse, thats a gentle man. With a woman with fear of being destitute, its money. For a woman with fear of being attacked, it could be a strong man. The primary instinctual motivator for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Women are just as shallow as men when it comes to what they find attractiveWell not me. I look at a person's heart first and their level of caringness and reciprocity. Also, whether they treat others well. Inner beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as shallow as men when it comes to what they find attractiveMaybe the girls you make friends with are looks oriented people. If you were friends with girls who are studious or spend time developing their personalities instead of their looks, maybe you'd see that women are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as shallow as men when it comes to what they find attractiveIm not shallow. I genuinely care about a person's heart most. Doesn't it depend on the person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:01 PM |
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