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| 2 | Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af nglNo, the problem begins and ends with women. Men are great. Women are confused and desperate for answers that will never come to them by listening to other women. The best advisor for women has always been—say it with me—MEN. That's right, I said it! Process it, then own it. If you're talking about #MeToo, you're obviously dealing with a certain type of woman from one political persuasion: the absolute most toxic form of a female. Run, fast... | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 01:56 AM |
| -1 | Indications of Interest (IOI's)Much of the replies here are anecdotal, at best. The first question everyone should ask, including you, is: What do you see when you look in the mirror? Grade yourself honestly on a scale from 1 to 10. Let’s say it’s a 4. Now with that number, you can clearly assess whether or not a person (male or female - whatever floats your boat) has given you an IOI. A 4 = 4% likelihood. Yes, that's right, only with 10% probability can be inferred about the true intent of their action/inaction as an IOI. Pr… | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | how should i approach older women?Older women are flattered, but you're likely referring to an older GIRL, masquerading as a woman. Likely, you're assuming that because of her age, she is, in fact, a woman. It's very rare to meet an actual WOMAN. Trust me! | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Complete fizzle after amazing first date - anyone else ever had this happen?Stop idealizing girls you meet and placing them on pedestals. Stop being a beta-male. Ask yourself this: when your mother gave birth to you, was she attached? Was she by your side all the years you've been alive? I thought so. MOVE ON! PERIOD. FULL STOP! | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Girl's interested but doesn't want to leave her friend alone.You are mistaken. It's is perhaps some men, but sadly women are emotional and see reality through feelings. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Smart or not to ask to directly meet up at your place for a first date?After reading your entire question, the other details provided, and reviewing the comments left by others, I would say much of the advice appears to say the same thing. The recommendations appear to be well-intended but, in my opinion, misguided. 9.9 out of 10 times, you're dealing with a girl and not a woman—it's rare to find the latter. The facts about girls, at least some or all of the following may apply: Flaky Irresponsible Uncertain about themselves Indecisive After a lifetime of listening… | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is happening?You do realize women can read and contribute to this forum, right? Hell, for all we know, you could be a girl posing as a bloke. My point being, she's been talking to someone or reading the "book of game." It sounds like she's clearly trying to draw you in with a DOS attack. Don't fall for it. You should be working the venue for other targets and avoiding her like the plague. Here is the subtle part: when you do cross paths with her in the venue, as she'll likely be following you like a lost pup… | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 03:44 AM |
| 4 | How to ask girls what they want from me without directly asking?Your question implies you've got it the wrong way round. You set the tone, goal, and agenda. It's a proffer, she accepts it or you bounce. Your goal of ONS, FWB, LTR, Marriage (Divorce) matters not in the beginning. They can all lead to whatever outcome you decide. BEWARE: u/chill_geek_boy may possibly be a woman posing as a man. That advice will certainly send you straight to ruin. | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 03:34 AM |
| -1 | Confidence vs. entitlement.You're mistaken. I think it's fair to say that repugnant girls/women, who are likely toxic feminazis, find it repulsive. Why is this so difficult? Non-toxic girls/women view men in the same manner as men view girls/women. Nothing but love. They accept us as-is, flaws and all the rest of it. Beware of the toxic, broken, damage girl/woman who feigns outrage, virtue signals, and other forms of wicked and depraved conduct. They'll suck the energy right out of you and seem to get, some sort of, perve… | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barAnywhere, anytime. The world is my set. The question might be easier to answer by considering where I wouldn't be social. | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | 2 ways to look at frame control?I only counted one question mark above. Everything else appears to be bold assertions, twisting upon themselves in such a manner it would even shame Gordian's knot. | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | 2 ways to look at frame control?Have a look at your own text—the text you, presumably, wrote and chose, again presumably, absent duress. You're giving a lecture about frames, but you are unaware of the frame your mindset/attitude clearly shows. I'm sure you can read your own words above and 20 times later, still be oblivious to what I'm referring to. | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 07:13 PM |
| -3 | is it my city or clubbing is nowSounds like a real sausage fest! You're observant. I can't tell you how many guys I randomly ask to guess the ratio at a venue and how so completely inaccurate they are. I've travelled to many places in and outside the US (e.g., Europe, Asia, South America, etc.) they all share this disturbing ratio. Girls are deceived into ever higher work participation by a society that encourages the misguided teaching of feminazies. Their heads are filled with this crap, girls can do and have it all, but it'… | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barApologies. I'm a huge fan of diversity. I had the opportunity to experience many LTRs, sexual relationships, including a marriage and acrimonious divorce. The experience allows me to compare and weigh each in balance. I'm much happier living my life solo and having girls, and if you can find them, women, to share a mutual sexual relationship. I call it a modern relationship because I think all roads are leading there. I'm an objective, thoughtful person, and when you consider what works for me a… | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 05:55 PM |
| 2 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barYou'll have a pretty good idea you're in the zone (if you have a shred of confidence), then go for the sex meet/close. If not, don't be discouraged with some resistance (may vary by girl). That's expected when dealing with most girls. But I want to be clear with my next words: if this interaction isn't going anything like I described above or is resistant as hell, you MUST end the interaction, at a cliffhanger if possible, and exit immediately with an FTC or real or prop set of friends you just … | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 12:57 AM |
| 2 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barI've had the opportunity to review all of the replies to this post, and I think they all leave you wanting. So let me give you something actionable to put to use while on set. Define your goal clearly and unambiguously. a. I'm out to get laid. b. I'm out to find a wife (I feel so sorry for you). c. You get the picture. Girls are just as anxious as you say you are. Trust and believe this because it's true and important. Most girls desperately adhere to old-fashioned, draconian social rituals. You… | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Girl's interested but doesn't want to leave her friend alone.See my reply above. It is responding to your post, in part. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Girl's interested but doesn't want to leave her friend alone.It may be "nice to listen," but I'd leave it at listening only. Do not accept girls' advice on this stuff; their advice is often some utopic dream world they're playing out in their heads. The only useful information you can elicit from girls are the "feelings" they have during certain interactions you're interested in. Frame your questions like the subject, but don't listen to their words. Instead, ask them to explain how this made them feel. The feelings are how they experience the world; thei… | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 10:18 PM |
| 3 | How to Start Having Fun When Talking to Women (Even As a Beginner)NOTE: Read my many posts on this subject. Attitude - is the key to living, in general. Other names include confidence, mindset, etc. I don't agree that results don't matter, however. They do! Should you be obsessed? No, but results aid you in improving your overall game. Focus on easily identifiable sticking points. Maybe that's your opener, or others it's their rapport building. If you're fizzling out during an escalation, focus on it and improve it. If you ignore your results, you may get perp… | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Step By Step On How To Do A Good ApproachSo much emotion. Are you mad, right now? If no, prove it. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Step By Step On How To Do A Good ApproachI rest my case! I need no luck from you or anyone else. Your strawman, which you so artfully created, neither represents what I've stated nor accurately describes my thesis. So you're the one who needs the good luck, as I suspect your articles are not worth reading. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Step By Step On How To Do A Good ApproachI'm sure you know exactly what it's based on. So let's hear about your noble (likely misguided) wisdom. Share your great thesis and let us weigh it in balance against mine. We'll all, as we do now, stand here, as yet, unconvinced by your bald assertions and misguided emotional outburst. We all know you've lost the argument when you feel the need to invoke people like Hitler, Mao, Putin, Biden, Obama. Notice how nothing you present is little more than bald assertion and feigned outrage—otherwise … | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Step By Step On How To Do A Good ApproachClearly you have a limited view of the term value: The word value has multiple meanings, including: The worth of something: The amount of money something is worth, or its fair price or return. For example, "The property is valued at $160,000." The desirability of something: The quality of something that makes it desirable or valuable, such as its usefulness or exchangeability. For example, "We value our partnership with the government." A numerical quantity: A number or amount that is assigned o… | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?This question is meaningless, as beauty itself is in the eye of the beholder. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Delhi / Mumbai anywhere in India ? How are the women there compared to the west (Euro) ?Indian woman can be quite boring, despite some being extremely beautiful. Their family does coddle them and they usually lack initiative in the bedroom and relationship department. Western women, as mentioned above Dutch, German, Scandinavian, UK, French are, imo, not worth the time or trouble, especially if you're interested in a relationship. I'd take an Indian woman over any "western" girl. Turkish, Greek, and Bulgarian, Arab, and Persian women are too needy and suffer from uncontrolled, irri… | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Mistakes you have made in noghtgameYou should not interact with a group set like that in between sets, especially by yourself. A few exceptions apply, namely, if you have an equal-sized posse. Girls, not women, acting girlish. They doggedly follow ritual, dogma, and orthodoxy, also called COCK-BLOCKING. The best way to approach a group set is at a venue, not in between. As it requires time, and most importantly, loads of patience. You have to befriend their entire group set before honing in on your target. Even then, it's difficu… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I Be the One Going to His Place?Best Advice You'll Ever Receive: Drop all of your girl/female training. You know - crap like this: X "If you want to be safe, don’t go to his place and also don’t let him come to yours. Meet at a public place" X "Yep, especially if you’ve never met him before. Best way to find out if he’s normal before deciding what to do next" X "First hangout? Get coffee. Your coffee date can always transition into going over to their place. NEVER plan to meet at someone's house as a first date unless you're o… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Daygame, every number flakes?Short answer, stop doing number closes; they're useless in this era. Instant dates Sex close Your failure to get an instant date is your problem and solution. So goodbye to number, social media, and other bygone era closes. Sex close is an insurance policy against flaky girlish behavior. Chicagoj1563 gave you the right advice also. You're not making strong enough connections with these girls. But absent more information, it could be anything. For example, your face (are you hideous?), your perso… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to give up; what should I doSEE MY OTHER POST: Search for my informative post on this subject of dating. The Simplified Version: Dates are for suckers! Stop dating. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Hi! Guys just wanted to ask how often do you message a woman your dating? And how to you keep the conversation going?I find myself repeating here, all questions presented must state their goals (e.g., LTR, Marriage, ONS, Fuck buddy, etc.). If you find yourself messaging as an initial salvo, you're already at a disadvantage. So now this becomes a different conversation. I never reply unless it's an invite from HER to get together. Girls are typically indirect and she may hint (don't overthink this part). If it doesn't take you out of your way (HONESTLY), then recommend my favorite: SEE, not ASK, if she would li… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | ModelsNOTE: See my informative posts on this subject. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm really attracted to this man but I don't know how to start our conversationI think it's important to state your goal. The information provided cannot be any more than general otherwise. NOTE TO GUYS: If this is a real biological female, listen to the inexperience. Sound familiar? If not, have a listen to all the stories from seemingly biological male posts. Women are not date masters and are not blessed with genetic memory on mastering the dating game. They deceive you by hiding behind old-fashioned courting rituals. Men must make the first move. Eight out of ten women… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 05:15 PM |
| 2 | convince methat women want sex tooDude, become a monk and move to Tibet. You're a lost cause. Also, it's not our job to convince you. We can only show you the way. You have to walk through the door. Remember, there is always that monk thing. Perhaps it's your right path. The path of enlightenment! | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 05:02 PM |
| -1 | Step By Step On How To Do A Good ApproachAll, follow this stuff above, but only if you want to reach amateur night at the Apollo status. There is no one-size-fits-all approach. The only certainty is your own self-respect. I'm neither an elitist nor a woman hater. To the contrary, I'm simply observing the world around me and describing it as succinctly as I know how, perhaps with added color for emphasis only. Never apologize for being a man. Know that no matter if you lack credentials (Ivy education), high net worth, and all the rest o… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How to focus on multiple targets at same time : advise needed from expertsSimple divide and conquer. Find clever excuse to separate your target from the herd. If your target rolls with, you're on the downhill bit after that. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 02:35 PM |
| 1 | I Dated Trump Lawyer, De Niro’s Masseuse, Spanish Athlete - All from Street ApproachesCongratulations! But wait, I don't care about dates and avoid them like the scamdemic (COVID-19). The real standard is sex close, period. Those dates with credentialed [nobodies] mean nothing to the average bloke. Men, my goal is to teach you that you're the prize and always have been. The guy above places the women on the pedestal. Not to sound or be arrogant, but those details about these women are meaningless to a real player. Bragging about a few hot women you've "dated" is exactly my point.… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible or useful to qualify women in basic conversation?Absolutely, the first words (Opener) can be a qualifier. I use body language as a qualifier—so devastatingly effective. It seems I have to leave an example after reviewing the comments here: Opener qualifier: "Hola, you're cute, but are you friendly?" Body language: Get/Step in front of her and open her by turning only your head, keeping your back to her, and presenting your question or opener. This conveys high value because you're not giving her your full body language and you're quite literal… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell her my real age?If asked, you should only respond if pressed. You should immediately reply back, "Do you think you're too [young | old] for me?" Then change the subject. This has a psychological effect like you wouldn't believe. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Confused whether she’s interested or notSimple, follow your friends advise, he sounds like he has wisdom beyond his years. Before you ditch her COLD, send her a cocky funny message and say. "We've been chatting it up for x [days, weeks, months] long now, most girls usually ask me out after 3 [days] tops, what's WRONG with you? By the way, I don't want a fast food date, either. I'm not some cheap date!" | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | seducing our storage boyBoys, this may not be real for this [fictional] person, but this story is very real for many girls out there. If you're of this age, you should understand girls' training. Find out what stupid stuff they talk about and how, especially sex. You must know this stuff because you're not going to believe it when I tell you these girls are hornier than you guys. See, you've already rejected the notion. All your guy training (superstition) tells you the exact opposite. Get a girl who is as hot as you c… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:54 AM |
| 1 | How can I improve communication and connection in a long-distance situation? (29M and 24F)Drop her and get yourself a piece of local tail. PERIOD! | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | She says she likes activities or dinners. What to do?If you looking for an LTR or marriage: Carry on, waste your time, money, and life sharing it with a girl. If not: Get rid of her. Break contact immediately. She's wasting your time and money. Being Muslim is just an excuse. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Approach technique for 3someBoth approaches are proper, but in your shy girlfriend's case, I recommend the Matrix "Follow the White Rabbit" approach. It's simple, effective, and you're directly with your girlfriend. Many targets will assume you're full of it, but they'll know you're the real deal when your girlfriend gives the target bedroom eyes and reaches out to touch her. The key is to speak out loud to the target with a general compliment, maybe even an invite to dance together (instant date). The rest is downhill fro… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Left on seen, then hearts my instagram storyStop wasting your time with foreign tail. Get yourself a piece of local tail, son! You don't even know if you're talking to a biological female. If you're looking to get married, go to church or another serious forum. You shouldn't be talking to girls on the phone, text, IG, and all the rest of it. Let's meet if you have found yourself with only a number or IG close. Otherwise, never do a number or IG close. Why? Because they're time wasters. It puts you in a position to have to reinitiate conta… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Specific girl sees me in a patronizing wayI like what someone said above. You're overthinking it. Also, lean into that sh*t. I often use women as props too. Turnabout is fair game, however. Your best reply, given the few details you provided, should be to mirror her level of excitement with her and her friends. Before she starts her routine, shout with a big smile and arms spread wide, "What's up, friendly neighbor?" Then, say, "Come here and give me a hug," and take her by the hand and twirl her around like a tango spin. [Several Add-O… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | What are some simple little things that I can practice to improve talking to women and approaching?Yeah talk to everyone. Be social with guys, as you're likely to have more in common, unless you're a beta. Do not talk about sport and other typical male topics, however. Ask probing questions about their estimate of the male / female ratio in the venue [you're at if applicable]. That's my favorite, no guy has EVER resisted that question, no matter how cool they're trying to be. When you observe a target, group, etc., and something positive or non-offensively funny comes to mind, say it out loud… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | looking for a male perspective! :)Learn to float like a butterfly. In other words, keep your weight off me, and keep it moving without banging my pelvic bones. If you don't keep a proper and steady pace to keep me aroused you've lost the moment and I'll take over the driver's seat. | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 02:15 AM |
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