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Yes! I realize that now!
/r/askTRP20/10/18 08:13 PM
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Unless she is a HB9 from a great family that will potentially give you networking options in the future that no one else can, like access to dark pool investments or something else highly sought after, you can do better. She's a 7 at best, 8 with makeup. She comes form a lower middle class family, and has considerable student loans that will take 5 years to repay. Yet she slpurges on dresses, is an impulsive buyer and is not fiscally conservative. I'll not benefit from her networking options in …
/r/askTRP20/10/18 03:33 PM
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We've talked. She wanted to spend the night with me coz her parents are away. I said no, that I wasn't available. Somehow she sounded desperate. I sensed alarm bells ringing and that she might try to do something funny, hence cancelled.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:38 PM
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She doesn't have the financial discipline to save her own money. She'll probably splurge on dresses and stuff. Her money is hers alone, my money is our money.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:32 PM
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To that she accuses me of seeing money in everything, and not seeing other aspects such as her feelings and shit....I mean, for someone who buys dresses impulsively, not caring about her student loans.... It's hard not to think about money, because she clearly doesn't.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:19 PM
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TBH, sex with her is disappointing at best. I want to try out new things, she's all set and conventional. Semen in her mouth disgusts her. I shudder to think what'll happen if I marry this one.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:41 PM
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I so relate to you. The fact that your girlfriend refused to go on a trip with you because she couldn't afford it is what I find admirable. If you don't have the means to pay for your half, it shouldn't be the case that you guilt me or strong-arm me into paying for it. That is what I'm pissed about.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:13 PM
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Yeah, exactly my point. When basic financial sense is mistaken as being overly money minded, then bankruptcy and homelessness is all there is left to be experienced.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 03:10 PM
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I feel I should ask her what percentage is she willing to contribute, and decide accordingly.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 02:53 PM
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Thanks man! I have much to learn.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:11 PM
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Thanks man! I have much to learn.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:11 PM
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Funny that you bring up the prostitute thing. When we were going back and forth over her contributing for her own half, she said that I was so money minded and calculative that I should look for prostitutes instead.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 12:10 PM
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Exactly my point. Our relationship isn't 1 year yet, but she pretends like we're husband-wife, and that it's expected of me to foot her share too. Imagine the hell I'll be in, once I get married. Plus she's a reckless spender, our finances would be in jeopardy coz of her shopping habits.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:50 AM
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That's what I meant anyway
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:47 AM
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That's what I meant anyway
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:47 AM
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Ah okay. The birthday thing makes sense. Thanks for clearing that up.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:46 AM
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Ah okay. The birthday thing makes sense. Thanks for clearing that up.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:45 AM
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Ahh, yes. I fell for the obvious trap.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:44 AM
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I'll go, just not with her.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:43 AM
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Yep, so it seems.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:43 AM
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Yes, it seems I made a mistake.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:43 AM
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Yep, it does. It was eye-opening.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:42 AM
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This shocked me since early on, she gave the impression that she wanted to pursue her career and implored me to not pressurize her to quit her job for kids. (In India, it is common for wives to quit careers for nurturing their kids) I was totally fine with it. And now she drops this shit on me, that since she has a job and can pay, that's the reason I'm with her. And that if she were to quit, I'd not want to be in a relationship with her.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:42 AM
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Yep, I've become a beta! Time to read the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:38 AM
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Yep, I've become a beta! Time to read the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:38 AM
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Could you give me the background about those times when you paid for her share? I mean, how did it end up happening?
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:11 AM
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Yes, I will. I messed up big with this one.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:10 AM
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Aye, sir! I will!!!! Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:00 AM
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Yes, I know! I've read the sidebar, but slip up at times. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:38 AM
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I used to work (for a year), at a Fortune 100 engineering company, making triple of what she currently makes. So, I have savings. I quit, to go to grad school to double my salary. Certain graduate students in India get scholarships, which is at par with what she currently makes. I do.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:37 AM
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Funny that you mentioned her job. Initially, she was all for 'I want to continue my job, I want to carve my own identity' and I was totally fine with that. Now, however, after the money sharing with regards to the trip, she accuses me of being in a relationship with her just because she is financially independent (She isn't. She is a reckless spender). She accuses me that I would leave her if she were to quit her job, because according to her, I always had a money motive and calculated my money …
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:34 AM
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Exactly! If I substitute her for a male friend, the situation sounds preposterous.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:30 AM
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Yes! I know! I have loads of self-imporovement to do! Thanks
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:29 AM
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Yes, I know! Thanks
/r/askTRP19/10/18 10:29 AM
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Nice body, now all you need is a friend with a camera, a nice background and a confident posture. These things are relatively easy as compared to getting in shape. All the best bro!
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:25 PM
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I like to watch old TV series, notably Married with Children. Surefire redpill.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:13 PM
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Her concern is with her safety, not any kind of ego-craving or attempt to superimpose her choices over yours. She even says she'll accompany you to any other location. And moreover, she realised Turkey was unsafe for Greeks after giving it due consideration, given that she was excited to go at the first mention. If you still want to go to a solo trip which was meant for the both of y'all, that's fine. She might not think that way though.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 01:00 PM
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Yes, and I've had that exact same behaviour from her for the past 6 months which is why I'm so surprised at this.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:08 PM
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You're right, I never asked for her FB passwords or anything like that. But she perceives me as way above her league, which is why she's anxious to verify time and again that I'm not getting it somewhere else.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:06 PM
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She's all for giving her password, although I never explicitly asked or was ever interested in FB snooping. She wants the same level of openness which I'm uncomfortable with. I'm a sucker for personal privacy.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:02 PM
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Thanks! I will read up on the book you suggested. I will also be mindful of my own boundaries, enforce them and failing which I'll get around to the nuclear option, But for starters, I'll try my best to address it as her problem and make her understand.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:22 PM
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Thanks for the pointer. I should be revisiting the side-bar, not resting.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:33 PM
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I did use that exact line, to which she broke into tears, saying that why couldn't I give just a password to her for the sake of the relationship? To which I said that I didn't have a problem sharing with her my password, but that would indicate we didn't trust each other and hence I'd be breaking things off with her.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:25 PM
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I would like to start a family someday, so yes, I would like to marry. Just that marrying is not my priority right now, since I lack experience in relationships and stuff, not to mention weeding out the wrong sort of people and not giving into emotions, because love isn't enough.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 10:55 AM
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Affirmative action!! The liberals would support that.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 10:52 AM
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The hooker would be so ugly that I wouldn't get a hard-on.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:31 AM
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I'm 5'10" (179 cm), 68 kgs, a bit on the leaner side. I work out twice a week, run long distance 10+ kms weekly. Not ugly, almost cute by my friends' standards, but I look like a nerd, specs and all.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:27 AM
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I'm assuming you come from a relatively high socio-economic background. Not true. We were lower middle class, slowly transitioned into upper middle class over the years. Its a work in progress. Compared to everyone else from where we live, we are pretty average. You are not telling us that you refuse to approach women from the lower castes. I could care less about your caste if you were hot. Trust me on this, me and most of my friends are immune to the caste divide. The truth is that no lower ca…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:14 AM
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Secret society? Wow! How does one get in?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:35 PM
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If a man acts like a man, the law of the land takes care of him. The wife and her family ensures that. Plus SJWs and that shit cry women oppression.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:34 PM
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Just that I won't be cockblocked by society and the law of the land is enough. I am comfortable with things that I can control, not being subjected to things that are outside of mine.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:32 PM
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Not like I'll be settling in EE. I'll settle somewhere in Germany and go the EE to bang chicks, or so I think. TBH, I haven't given it much thought.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:34 PM
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I don't know when you visited India, or which part, but I am pretty sure this is NOT the case in the urban areas. Most women are feminists, while not outright whores, they play power games and do the attention whoring to scale up the social ladder. And you have a ton of beta orbiters who will give her the attention and friendly love, so basically conventional shit tests fail to yeild any result. Because you are just another dot in the sea of men desiring her attention. And the thing about Indian…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:32 PM
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Hey ... Look on the bright side! At least your parents are letting you look for a wife. I should have phrased it carefully. Arranged marriages are the norm still. Probably for me as well. Will either leave the country and forego all contact with my family if it ever comes to that, or probably kill myself. About the generational change, well, most Indian urban chicks are feminists already, so shit's real fucked up. Add to that a traditionally beta society and you get the whole picture. I was amaz…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 04:04 PM
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A desi girl who is 7 in India is at best a 3 in Croatia. So, I got that working out for me as well. Plus, I am working on my looks, appearance and attitude.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 03:46 PM
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A very good reply. That the world out there isn't that fucked and that there's still hope. I've been eating healthy and working out for the past year (no street food junk, all fresh veggies and meat), and concentrating on my studies. However, a pussy to bang whenever I get lonely would have been better. The absence of pussy got me hooked to porn, and now I can't spend a day without masturbating. I'll try meditating, which I have been suggested on earlier occasions.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 03:43 PM
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I am all for accepting personal responsibility, but cannot yeild myself to bear collective responsibility. I will not marry an Indian woman, call me racist but I have seen first hand what beta orbiting attention throughout late teens and early twenties does to people who are ugly or at best average. In a free market scenario, these ugly Indian chicks wouldn't even stand a chance against fit European brunettes. Sorry, but I cannot sell my self-worth that cheaply. Since AWALT, I will settle if at …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 02:55 PM
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Didn't get you. Are you trying to say it is too late for me ?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:58 PM
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All the same, I'd like some remedial solutions, if any.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:53 PM
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I know TRP isn't about fucking chicks, but when you are a 22 year old virgin who isn't getting any, mostly because of society's cockblocking, I have to take my sexual life into account when making life decisions, right?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:48 PM
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Duly noted, sir! I am already working on it. Wish I had found TRP earlier.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:46 PM
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So, could you provide remedial solutions for those who are willing to put in the extra effort rather than reiterating stereotypes?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:45 PM
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I've seen Indian girls literally get wet with anything to do with white guys. Might be the exotic thing or that the British messed with our heads properly. You must have had it easier. Enjoy the pussy! Cheers! The thing is, I have never come across any player-type in my friend circle, and neither is it the norm here. You simply cannot develop that smoothness and attitude associated with it, because girls are too socially awkward to reciprocate to 'wanna have coffee?' queries. And when that happe…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:43 PM
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I'm trying for Europe, not USA. USA is still fucked up, and you will have that 'Indian' racial tag wherever you go. European girls are much more liberal and don't give a fuck to what your race is. Eastern European countries are a paradise though. Just saying. Where are you from though?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:25 PM
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Probably one of the EE countries?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 09:19 AM
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And YouTube is already being censored.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 07:33 PM
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