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SoloAlbum/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 01:05 AM
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SoloAlbum/r/askTRP04/07/17 03:50 AM
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They're interested in what you think. Stop talking about yourself and pay attention to how interested people are in you. Are you able to lead in a group?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:28 AM
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Thing is, it's really that simple. Two people could exhibit the exact same sexual aggressiveness on a woman; the one who's perceived to have higher smv will open her up. The one with lower perceived smv is sexually harassing her. If you don't know how to raise your smv, you should probably read through the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:24 AM
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Step 1) Be attractive Step 2) Don't be unattractive.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:17 AM
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Stop reaching out entirely. When/if she reaches out, act normal. Although I know you won't be able to do that because of the unbelievable amount you've been lying to yourself. Hell, keep a tally and only reach out once for every 4 times she reaches out to you. If you can do it maybe you'll see just how little she thinks about you.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:15 AM
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Yes, take it as an invitation to approach.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:59 PM
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I'd love to hear from someone who found TRP through one of these "reports", resulting in their unplugging.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 07:26 PM
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&t=1m42s*
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/17 02:53 PM
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Color me interested.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:43 PM
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"When a girl rejects you, you call her a whore" That's an incredibly overt example of what the book covers. To a lesser degree that same response can be as simple as feeling bitter from being rejected. A basic tenant of TRP is outcome independence, and if the example is considered beyond literally calling a woman a whore, it's relatable to almost anyone who's felt any level of resentment towards a woman who has rejected them. Maybe it isn't applicable to you, and good for you if you've never fel…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 06:07 PM
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I'd stress TRM should be late reading. The Rational Male is what really kicked in my anger phase. I skipped a bunch of TRP sidebar material and jumped to it immediately after reading NMMNG because it sounded like where I would get the most info in one sitting. I lived, but damn. I feel like I may have received it better after getting through the other materials first. Otherwise, I recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy (to /u/lukerjack) as a starting point.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:45 AM
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I'd say you're mostly spot on. I've been personally concerned that having pussy on tap would stunt my growth, and it's safe to say that it definitely has. I'm not out there trying to pull, spin, etc. I've been concerned about it this weekend in particular, as I notice my drive for most things has been slipping from complacency. I can't help but be fascinated by her behavior and many of the things she has had to say, all of course taken as potential manipulation or lies, no matter how convincing.…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/17 05:51 AM
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Week 22 Fitness Age: 32 ／ Height: 5' 8½" ／ Weight: 154.3 lbs (+3.2) SQ: 275 lbs (+85) ／ BP: 170 lbs (+20) ／ BR: 185 lbs (+35) ／ OP: 105 lbs (+5) ／ DL: 235 lbs (+10) I felt myself plateuing again last week, so I deloaded everything a bit, specifically my deadlifts, bench, and overhead press. I get sharp tingling pain in my wrists when I row or deadlift, so I'm hoping the deload at least gives me a bit of healing on that while allowing me to ramp back up to where I was. Diet has been consistently …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 05:15 PM
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Don't invest so much in the result as much as feeling good about breaking out of your insecurities. Don't worry about closing, that will happen naturally.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:08 PM
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When you've been lazy, depressed, and insecure for so long, "somewhat normal" feels like super powers.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:58 AM
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Wow, easy buddy, you read what I said in the wrong context No, I didn't. everything else I don't care.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 01:04 AM
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The article linked explains exactly what kind of situation he is in, as well how to handle it. This is one of the best articles I've read relating to TRP. In short: He's the asshole of the group, the one that gets picked on until he decides to no longer be the asshole.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 05:16 AM
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You're the asshole.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:11 AM
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Share your knowledge without being a bitch about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 01:21 AM
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Keep your gaming sessions limited, but honestly you should focus on a hobby that creates potential value for you, gaming is not it.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:07 PM
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You can prompt her initially by making eye contact and silently offering it before walking. If you carry yourself with confidence, she'll treat it as the default.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 05:26 PM
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If you allow her to use sex as leverage to control your behavior now, she will do it again and again.
/r/askMRP22/09/17 04:09 PM
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I do the same. Since discovering TRP, holding hands feels too BP anymore. Now I walk with my destination in focus, and if she wants to accompany me, she holds on to my arm. She gets to feel 'claimed', as she puts it, and signal to others her value by association with me. I get to display confidence and indifference while 'wearing' her as an accessory to my natural state. If she's been good, I may place my hand on or around the back of her neck/shoulder. It gives her a bit of the BP intimacy that…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:06 PM
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You have to. Start Strong Lifts 5x5 and read Bigger Leaner Stronger.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 12:17 AM
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Because it's not the only thing you need.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 09:53 PM
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You need to tell him off and stand your ground.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:28 AM
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Why is that book so expensive? I've been procrastinating getting it.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 03:41 AM
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I highly recommend you read Bigger Leaner Stronger, and get your T levels tested. Maximize T with proper diet/sleep/exercise/supplements. Stop masturbating (Seriously) Compound lifts (Stronglifts 5x5 is a great place to start) Get lots of protein Lift 3 times a week with at least 1 recovery day after lifting Keep researching and optimizing for best results Do all of this for 3+ years To summarize, you get big from tearing your muscles with short/heavy sets of explosive lifts. Protein + rest will…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:02 PM
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Don't worry, you'll be his best friend again once the last 8 years blows up in his face.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:13 PM
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Week 16 Fitness Age: 32 ／ Height: 5' 8½" ／ Weight: 151.1 lbs (+0.5) SQ: 190 lbs (+10) ／ BP: 150 lbs (+5) ／ BR: 150 lbs (+5) ／ OP: 100 lbs (0) ／ DL: 225 lbs (+10) Keeping my nutrition balanced with almost no junk. I'm not proud to admit that over the weekend I took more than my prescribed dose of adderall. I'll be focusing on taking half of my dose on days that I don't exercise during the week to offset this. I also feel quite guilty about smoking weed again. Over the weekend I had 1-2 hits every…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 03:23 PM
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TRP + being cheated on by my "unicorn" put me into a borderline suicidal rage. I think being fresh out of the anger phase has me approaching women with a much more objective frame than before. Now my interactions with women are much more analytical, my pet wife included. What women say has little effect on me lately. I took a girl out for coffee recently and experimented with the interaction by making nearly every other thing I say some sort of subtle insult (surprise, she fucking loved it). So …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 02:42 PM
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Side projects that I'd rather be working on instead of reading. I've also disconnected a bit from TRP recently. I feel productive, just not focused.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 02:17 PM
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Same TRP practice applies, play it off like you don't care, then plate her when she inevitably wants to do it again.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:40 PM
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Week 13-15 Fitness Age: 32 ／ Height: 5' 8½" ／ Weight: 149.4 lbs (-1.9) SQ: 180 lbs (+45) ／ BP: 145 lbs (+20) ／ BR: 145 lbs (+20) ／ OP: 100 lbs (+20) ／ DL: 215 lbs (+50) Exercise and nutrition has been going well. My weights continue to increase while I'm still aiming for 10 reps of each. I've allowed myself to access less than 10, but no less than 5. I'm starting to get closer to actual 5x5 for my bench, as I was only able to go 10, 8, 7, 6, 6 in my last workout. Reading How to be a 3% Man ×13 N…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 06:51 PM
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When I was very young, I remember idolizing my father. He had (still has) a beard, which none of my friend's fathers had. We watched old comedy shows from the 30s and 40s. Anytime I saw a character with a beard, I immediately admired them because they were like dad. My dad was hilarious and smart. He was superman. As I grew older I started to see my dad differently. He was submissive to my mother, drank every day, was fat, and smoked weed. Between him, my brother, and myself, I was the only one …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 04:21 AM
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His advice is defensible because it's from The Rational Male, early sidebar material. Whether you agree with it or not, it's sourced from one of the more important books that should be read when first discovering TRP. Getting angry won't help anyone. Like I said, do some of your own research and put better ideas out there if you disagree with someone. Else just downvote them and move on.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:38 PM
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Don't post like an angry child when correcting someone. It also helps to support your claim with at least something other than name calling.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:16 PM
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You're making the mistake of thinking that there is no middle ground between "completely ignore her" and "babysit her constantly". You can have a healthy relationship with a family member that doesn't take up every moment of every day. OP's question and comment implies that he's aware of his limited control over the situation, he just wants to know if there's anything that he can do to help. Regardless of the result, he just wants the best for his sister. From a pure TRP self-improvement perspec…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 02:43 AM
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Those commenting along the lines of "this isn't your problem" have either become estranged and disconnected from their families, or they don't know what it's like to be an older brother. You find yourself in a situation where you see a family member in potential danger, despite the typical anger that AWALT inspires, you came here for advice to help your own blood find success in her future. That's admirable, and as long as it doesn't consume your own mission, you're a good man for taking an inte…
/r/askTRP27/08/17 08:46 PM
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They're into BDSM is my first assumption, if it's on a girl college age or older.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:16 AM
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Why did he slap you?
/r/askMRP13/08/17 06:04 AM
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Yeah, it does for sure go quick. You could probably lower that. 2200 has done me well. I also make up a lot of that in whey protein shakes if you can stand the lack of daily variety.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 04:35 AM
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I started with those exact numbers. While I'm still 5'8.5", I'm gaining weight + muscle. Start lifting immediately. Get on the 5x5 program and use myfitnesspal. Eat 2200 calories daily, and set your macros to 20% carb, 40% protein, 40% fat. Buy and read Bigger Leaner Stronger.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 04:10 AM
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Oneitis, invested cost, socially challenged, etc. It's not so much unicorn BS anymore, as much as it's enjoying the chemistry we have. Conversation, sex, meals, outings, and her personality are all still a lot of fun. She's more feminine/submissive than I have ever see her before, and it's cute af. I also don't like being alone. When I am alone, I invite friends over, find someone to talk to online, or go out. I enjoy it, but only occasionally to recharge. I like the regular companionship of som…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/17 03:55 PM
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Week 12 Fitness Age: 32 ／ Height: 5' 8½" ／ Weight: 151.3 lbs (-2.1) SQ: 135 lbs (+15) ／ BP: 125 lbs (+5) ／ BR: 125 lbs (+10) ／ OP: 80 lbs (+5) ／ DL: 165 lbs (+15) Workouts are feeling good, although sometimes I feel angry when I'm done. I walk away wanting to wreck something sometimes. I haven't been sleeping well either. I blame the ~30mg of adderall almost daily. I take trazodone at night to knock myself out, which works, but it comes with the cost of feeling paralyzed in the mornings. Reading…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/17 02:05 PM
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Please tell him. He already knows in the back of his mind, and he's going to find out eventually anyways. Save the dude some time and heartache by jump-starting the inevitable.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:12 PM
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I was trying to "win" my wife back after we separated. I started following coach Corey Wayne religiously after someone suggested I binge watch his YouTube videos on the divorce subreddit. I'd heard of TRP as some fucked up community, but someone in Corey's comments had me curious enough to check it out. I started using it to get her back and it worked amazingly well. She hooked up with someone though and now I'm here often to work hard improving myself. It's a long process that requires far more…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 05:51 AM
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If you truly accept those truths, where's the anger come from? It's a combination of her lies, TRP anger phase, and a severely bruised ego. Anger phase includes the shock of my blue-pilled image of her being shattered has me losing my shit, as well as her throwing away 12 years of history and family (hypergamy doesn't care). In a way, it feels like she murdered my wife, even though I know now that AWALT regardless. It seems like deep acceptance would either look like 1.) totally moving on from y…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 07:48 PM
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My early RP experiments with her had me ramboing. I started choking/spanking her during sex, which led to us exploring BDSM, and now she's basically fallen in love with being my live-in maid / sex slave. She cooks all meals, keeps the place clean, blowjobs whenever, sex whenever, proclaims her devotion to me on her knees every morning, etc. I second guess the decision because everything I've read on RP tells me to move on and hard next for her branch swing attempt. Also Iron rule #7. I'm torn be…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 07:34 PM
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Also, you win the prize for best MRP formatting markup on your OYS. A testament to the wonders of incremental weekly improvement.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 05:29 PM
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Week 11 Fitness Age: 32 ／ Height: 5' 8½" ／ Weight: 153.4 lbs (+4.6) SQ: 120 lbs (+30) ／ BP: 120 lbs (+10) ／ BR: 115 lbs (+10) ／ OP: 75 lbs (+5) ／ DL: 150 lbs (+20) Still increasing my weights steadily due to improved nutrition. I'm feeling great after my workouts now too, and lifting has become a bit addicting. I'm tempted to lift more than 3 times per week, but I'm going to continue to stick to the program for now. Reading How to be a 3% Man ×13 No More Mr. Nice Guy ×3 The Rational Male ×1 Bigg…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 08:32 AM
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Week 10 Fitness Age: 32 ／ Height: 5' 8½" ／ Weight: 148.6 lbs (+3.2) SQ: 90 lbs (+10) ／ BP: 110 lbs (+5) ／ BR: 105 lbs (+5) ／ OP: 70 lbs (+10) ／ DL: 130 lbs (+20) After changing my macros to 20% carb, 40% protein, 40% fat, and 2200 calories daily, I've noticed a huge difference in how I feel when I work out. Every time I add a little more weight to each, and it feel just as difficult as my last workout. It's early, but I'm feeling good again. Contrary to advice, I'm still doing 5x10 reps for each…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 03:00 PM
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Week 9 Fitness Age: 32 / Height: 5' 8½" / Weight: 145.4 lbs SQ: 80 lbs / BP: 105 lbs / BR: 100 lbs / OP: 60 lbs / DL: 110 lbs I realized that when I was adding weights to the bar, I was adding twice as much weight as I thought because I was only factoring in one side of the bar. I'm retarded. I'm still doing 5x10 reps for each set. I took some nutritional advice in an effort to overcome my plateau, which resulted in me changing my macros to 20% carb, 40% protein, 40% fat. I've gained some weight…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 03:04 PM
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I did, results were 560 and 14 free, all within normal ranges.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/17 05:21 PM
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Because of what's available in my building's gym, I'm inclined to modify the workout to increasing by 10 instead of 5. There's only one bench, but there's a bunch of these that increment by 10 per bar. The gym always has 2-3 people in there, and the bench is almost always in use. I dunno, I can't really afford any other options right now as far as actual gyms that are more stocked besides the one in my apartment complex. Thank you for the advice, it helps me a ton for getting this figured out fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/17 01:35 AM
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I am, but I'm not sure what the ideal balances are. I ordered Bigger Leaner Strong, thank you for the suggestions.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 08:41 PM
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As far as MyFitnessPal and nutrition is concerned, I really only know how to balance my diet for maintaining/losing weight with cardio. I spent all of last year (using MFP) doing 45 minutes of hard cardio 5 days a week. I went from 190lbs to 140. So now I want to build up from my currently very low body fat state. I want to put on lean muscle, but I don't want to get my gut back, so I guess I'm looking for a good balance to keep my body fat down while still being able to gain. How does that work…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 08:40 PM
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Set A 5 rounds of 10x 80lb Squat 5 rounds of 10x 60lb Overhead Press 1 round of 10x 110lb Dead lift Set B 5 rounds of 10x 80lb Squat 5 rounds of 10x 70lb Bench press 5 rounds of 10x 100lb Barbell row I alternate those two sets 3 days per week. I can barely get through these, except for the squats, which I could probably up to 90lbs. I'm sleeping 6-8 hours a night.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 08:34 PM
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Week 8: Failing To Own My Shit Fitness Age: 32 / Height: 5' 8½" / Weight: 144.6 lbs Completely plateaued on 5x5 for the past 3 weeks in a row. Still doing 10 reps of the same thing every workout. Feeling shitty about this due to just how low the plateau ended up being. Even when I did 5x5 for 5 reps, the plateau remained. I've actually lost weight. Studies How to be a 3% Man ×13 NMMNG ×3 The Rational Male ×1 Book of Pook reading The Way of Men MMSLP WISNIFG Mindful Attraction Plan 16 Commandment…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 03:49 PM
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Why is Sex God Method starting at $150 on Amazon? It's just a book, right?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 04:35 AM
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Look up Laura Doyle's books. I've heard The Empowered Wife is a good place to start. Also this.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 12:04 AM
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I'm not making them easily at all. I've just struggled to add more weight without losing reps. Would less reps with more weight be ideal, even if it results in less total weight lifted for a set?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 05:36 PM
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Fitness / Health Age: 32 / Height: 5' 8½" / Weight: 146 lbs Maintaining 5x5 with 10 reps for a total of 50 reps for each exercise. Plateaued on increasing weight though. I'm going to maintain at this plateau until I feel I can either increase the weight or increase the number of days I lift per week from 3 to 4. Still nicotine free. Got T levels tested, results show 560 and 14 free. All within normal ranges. Studies How to be a 3% Man ×13 NMMNG ×3 The Rational Male ×1 Book of Pook x1 reading aga…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 04:29 PM
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There's a lot more out there, but here's a few resources: Dom Coaching The Beginners Guide to D/s How to get started being a Male Dom? Doms, what are your favorite rules?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 02:02 PM
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You might be right, but that's exactly what she suggested, including regularly "gifting" me her paychecks after the fact.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 07:39 PM
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as long as you do not actually marry her or present her as your wife socially Too late, we've been married 3 years. Trying to decide if it's worth keeping, considering the new circumstances. Being angry with a pet is useless It comes and goes. I've become more emotionally detached as time passes.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 06:26 PM
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I aim for protein rich 1300-1500 daily surplus. I've just started lifting a few weeks ago after losing a ton of weight via cardio, so I'm still looking for that nutritional balance.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 05:58 PM
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Short version: Together 8 years, Married for 3, go from alpha to beta in her eyes, she leaves We see each other at least once a week for just under a year Got my shit together, she let's herself go and becomes a lazy stoner Seemingly out of nowhere she's "losing interest, thinking about divorce, isn't ready yet" Shortly after that, I literally grab her by the pussy, and claim it as mine She's in love again, she wants me to dominate her, tell her what to do She wants to serve me, we discover D/s,…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 05:53 PM
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Fitness / Health Age: 32 / Height: 5' 8½" / Weight: 146 lbs I've started going against the 5x5 program's usual 5 reps and upped it to 10 for each set. The additional work feels a lot better and I'm recovering fine for the next workout. Tracking calories again. 11 days nicotine free and feeling good. I can smell and taste things again. Adjusted my numbers because I was off. Studies How to be a 3% Man ×13 NMMNG ×3 The Rational Male ×1 Book of Pook x1 reading again MMSLP WISNIFG Mindful Attraction …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 01:52 PM
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Fitness / Health 32 / 5'10" / 153 lbs 5th week of 5x5. Skipped last week so I could kill it at a 10 mile obstacle course event. Sugar intake is zero most days now. 4 days nicotine free. Minor stress, but manageable. Career / Financial Payed off 1 of 4 student loans. Changed my cellular plan to reduce cost. Dedicated more of my income into one of my long term investments. Studies How to be a 3% Man ×13 NMMNG ×3 The Rational Male ×1 Book of Pook x1 MMSLP WISNIFG Mindful Attraction Plan 16 Commandm…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 03:03 PM
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I eased into choking her by taking her from behind, restraining her wrist behind her back with one hand, and pulling her head up and back with the palm of my hand on her neck. My fingers were up on her cheek and my thumb on her jawline. Every time after that was closer to actual choking.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 09:34 PM
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Practice speaking slowly and clearly with a pencil between your teeth.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 03:20 PM
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she's legal. In highschool I knew 15 y/o girls who told guys they were fucking that they were 19, complete with fake IDs. A girl at my friend's church gave 17 y/o me her number saying she was 16. She was 13. All of them passable. Tinder profiles don't hold up against statutory rape charges, last I checked.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 02:50 AM
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Fitness / Health 32 / 5'10" / 152 lbs 5x5 is going well. Still feeling sore after workouts, as it should be. My diet over the weekend was absolute trash. I traveled out of state to a convention and every meal was 1000+ calories of garbage. Stress and weakness had me smoke a pack a day on some days this week. On days my wife is over and doing her submissive thing, I rarely feel the need for a cigarette. I'm not sure if this is a bad sign or not. Sugar intake is down. I've signed up for a 10 mile …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 01:51 PM
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u/tehjimmyy has sound advice. If you plan to stick with these assholes though, this might help.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 10:18 PM
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It doesn't matter what she says, your wife sees you as weak, and has lost respect for you. It doesn't matter what you look like. You're not attractive to her. You don't turn her on. You're living in her frame. She's uncomfortable because a soft unattractive pushover is trying to touch her, in hopes of "getting lucky".
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 11:14 PM
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It's a trick my dad taught me when I was little. It helped me to overpower otherwise scary thoughts, so I could sleep.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 10:44 PM
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Help me out here. I'm failing to see how effort put into spinning plates, which requires practiced frame control, would weaken my frame. Especially when remaining emotionally detached is so important in my current situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 10:29 PM
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You haven't even begun to let this go. Once you hamster some more, post updates in this thread for a few more kicks to the teeth. Everything you do from now on is for you and you alone. Read the sidebar Lift Repeat
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 03:34 PM
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(Side question: how do you guys deal with this? I mean, when you’re wide awake at 02:30 AM and the only thing you can think about is how, when and where your wife has been having sex with someone else?) Reading The Rational Male helped me come to terms with the animal nature of infidelity. It did not excuse her conscious decision to act upon it, but it did help me understand it. Rationalizing her behavior helped me to detach emotionally from it, and also from her. If you're obsessing with mental…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 02:54 PM
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If she saw you as AF their might be something worth salvaging. I was the center of our social group when we met. I had enough confidence to attract several girls in and out of that group, as well as scare off some of the betas who knew I could have the girls they liked if I ever wanted. Granted it was generally a group of tabletop roleplaying otaku introverts, but I was the one who showed them how to party. Her and many others initial perception of me was top dog. Her perception of me aside, thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 02:01 PM
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i thought this was a trick question because i could not really find a goal in his MAP I haven't read MMSLP yet, but if my MAP is a list of current goals, here is the condensed version from my post: Continue lifting using the 5x5 program Ween myself from bupropion once I've been smoke free for a year Reducing my overall adderall intake to practice discipline of focus Focus more while at the office instead of letting my responsibilities bleed into my personal time Reduce superfluous expenses, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 08:55 PM
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your flair . . . wow I completely own that I'm green here. Part of me has taken on RP, game, and the physiological mechanics of Dom/sub as an opportunity to experiment. I have some emotional involvement still, but I'm keeping a detailed journal of data from all of my observations through this process. i hope you mean a 1200 calorie surplus Absolutely. If I work out and end up below that, I make sure to top it off with a protein heavy meal. waif territory, lifting every other day right? Yes. I sp…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 08:28 PM
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Only reason it's better is because you're detached. Much more so than I was, that's for sure. I've leveraged the pain from the experience to keep my emotions far less involved than they were before. Of course, in a dom/sub, it's really the sub that has all the power. I'm aware. I feel Dom/sub aspects like this have been good for me. The idea of keeping her as a pet has also helped me look at her better through the RP lense. I don't hate her for her natural animal urges, combined with soberly und…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 08:21 PM
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Fitness / Health 32 / 5'10" / 150 lbs I've transitioned from cardio boxing to 5x5 and completed my first week of lifting. Using the 5x5 app's suggested starting point of 45-65 lbs during the first week, I've realized just how physically weak I actually am. My body is sore, I barely made it through each workout, but post-workout feels amazing. My diet is improving slightly. I continue to maintain an average net calorie count of 1200 daily. This includes calories burned from workouts. I've been sl…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 02:44 PM
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Thanks for the advice, this seems like a good place to start. As far as divorce is concerned, we've both agreed that if it came to that (it has), it would be an uncontested clean split. I've been reading up on laws in my state, no-fault will make it easy. I just don't know where to start. Should I get a lawyer first and have them walk me through it? Do I start with preliminary paperwork and file before finding a lawyer? Money is a little tight right now, so I'd hate to fuck it up and waste a ton…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/17 04:31 PM
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Brutal and raw, the Red Pill is. It just keeps getting better. Last evening she showed up at my place unannounced. As soon as she saw me, she looked glassy eyed and said "SoloAlbum, I love you!.. Please, I want you back." My eyes just rolled into the back of my head. I made us some drinks and we sat on the couch. After a pause I said "Alright, let's hear it." She gave me her sales pitch about our life together. Talking me up with lines like "You are a good man!" (pffftt), "You exude a confidence…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/17 04:16 PM
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You're right. I've been reading a lot more of TheRationalMale.com since posting this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/17 07:15 AM
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I think I cut the hard times short. Details in this massive reply to another comment. Thank you by the way.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/17 07:12 AM
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Thanks for the comment. I've read and thought hard about every comment in this thread since I've posted it (even the top one). One is not very many. I think you should think that that's a low number. You're right, it's not. I'll touch more on this later on in the post though. Maybe. Have you learned anything? Would that be so bad? I just got home from her place, and I've learned a lot. You're the lucky commenter that is going to get my lengthly update. I'll answer your questions first. Did you r…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/17 06:59 AM
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