Solopist112 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	CMV: It's good advice to never settle How tall is he?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 06:47 PM
2	When will we have female-only cities? Chads would be allowed to reside in these new cities?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/24 06:10 PM
1	What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era? You are right. And participating in activities where the genders mix is also key. BTW, my son is in the high school orchestra - he does quite well with the girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 07:15 PM
1	What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era? There was a study that showed that playing a musical instrument made a person more attractive to to the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/24 04:29 PM
–	Why do men insist women are too picky? Men will usually want a younger woman. Women prefer same age or slightly older, same height or taller. For LTR both men and women have some flexibility. However, almost all the couples that I know - the man and woman are of the same social class. Income is also about the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 07:24 PM
2	Why do men insist women are too picky? For long term relationships, most people - men and women - choose someone who is within their own social class, income range, and attractiveness level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 04:31 PM
3	Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic man Question is why autistic females are not seen as being equally unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/24 03:38 PM
–	There is nothing gay about kissing a feminine looking guy What about a woman attracted to butch females? Lesbian or not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 03:18 AM
13	Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here. think dick pics are gross etc. << Do you send these to women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 06:05 PM
4	Relationships are not 50/50 complementary, not complimentary	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 03:45 PM
6	Relationships are not 50/50 You missed the point: Overall, it is more less equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 03:43 PM
0	Do most women really prefer to use online dating and social media as the means to select potential men over being approached in real life? There are other ways to meet than by using a dating app or confronting a stranger in public. For instance, getting introduced by a mutual friend, meeting at work, doing activities together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 07:04 PM
2	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? Agree... and men also tend to enjoy women who are fun to be around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 05:59 PM
-1	Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nice Actually, it is good advice and most men are able to discern a friendly smile to grandpa and a flirtatious one. The problem is that many men who frequent Reddit, and particularly this sub, cannot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 04:58 PM
–	Why should men enter relationships when any woman has to power to legally easily ruin you life forever? ... don't have the stats but I think also most divorces are mutual and not contested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/23 06:14 PM
1	What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag? 40	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 06:19 PM
2	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? Birds of a feather flock together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 04:24 PM
1	Women date ugly men Even in Hollywood when you look at couples the woman is nearly always more attractive then the man.<< Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman in Casablanca.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 09:33 PM
1	Women do want to be apprached. Height helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:26 PM
3	The negative reactions to this man having the mildest, basic standards is proof that women is proof that men are not supposed to have standards at all and should just be happy to have any woman interested in them. Is that Mr. Beast?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 03:24 PM
7	The recent trend of women using "therapeutic language" to insult and stigmatize men Because many of the men who feel that way have no idea how to interact with women and when they attempt to do so tend to make women feel uncomfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 05:19 PM
2	All of men's dating issues are caused by men It's called having a loving relationship - both support each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 03:40 AM
3	There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriate Usually a woman will signal that's she's interested. Look for signals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 02:56 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear She feels unhappy because hubby has become a fat, lazy slob who doesn't do his share of household chores and is as romantic as a stone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:14 PM
7	CMV : why can’t it be true that far less men are objectively attractive than women? In the animal kingdom usually one sex is more attractive (e.g., male lion is much more 'beautiful' than the female). In humans, the female is more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 04:57 PM
15	Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward men Some women label being shy as unattractive... some like or even prefer it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 03:54 PM
–	People are so naive when it comes to marriage Some the most happily married are 70+.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 05:04 PM
1	I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hard Men are sluts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 01:27 AM
1	Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them? Agree with most of this..especially about being desired... but please allow for the notion that as you age the age range of what you consider attractive changes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:09 PM
0	Who has it harder in dating? Men or Women and Why? 100x more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 08:32 PM
1	Why do people choose their spouses based on physical attraction rather than love? Pretty much sums it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 01:49 AM
1	What's wrong with average men? he’s romantic, kind, intelligent, we have a similar sense of humour Much better for a lasting LTR than Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 07:59 PM
2	What's wrong with average men? It's enlightened thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 07:54 PM
2	What's wrong with average men? Turn-offs - big belly, too short, poor facial features, creepy Turn-ons - in shape, tall, good facial features, confident	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 07:50 PM
1	Men's complaints about the state of dating all come down to this one inconvenient truth... Men's complaints usually have to do with low self esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 08:00 PM
3	It is hard for wealthy and successful men to find good women for love and marriage You wouldn't consider dating a single mom?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 07:13 PM
6	Women not being attracted to their partners - Is it really true? As someone who is in their 60's, I can tell you that the most beautiful women are in their 40's and even 50's. Also, outward beauty always fades but love only gets stronger if you pick the right lifetime partner. Most of the guys in this toxic sub are immature and simply cannot comprehend attractiveness beyond the superficial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 07:46 PM
1	Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners? Most men are unattractive - but then again most men can greatly improve their attractiveness. .	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 08:31 PM
6	How do red pillers explain the average guy being in a relationship? Most men are not comfortable, confident, or competent. Therein lies the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 09:06 PM
2	How do red pillers explain the average guy being in a relationship? You are correct. It can be confirmed by casual observation in a public place like a park or the DMV. Look around. You see couples of all shapes, sizes, and attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 08:55 PM
1	Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating? Bare minimum but should do ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 05:47 PM
18	Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages? Suppose you had a friend who you paid for meals but who never paid for your meals - that's what is called a mooch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 02:45 AM
0	Q4M: what steps do you take to make women less afraid of you? Good answer... but your comment will be ignored.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 06:58 PM
28	85% of Chinese are not marrying and 60% are not procreating Also, in China, there are many more males than females in the population, so females can be more demanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 05:54 PM
5	Do women care about men's looks? We care about looks but most men don't seem to care about how they look. There are some things you can't do anything about - short, balding, bad facial features -- but many things guys can change - get rid of that pot belly, take regular baths, skinny guys, hit the gym, creepy guys - show some confidence, lose the threatening vibes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 12:52 AM
–	Do people really think this is reasonable? Maybe she didn't want to get beaten up or found dead?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 09:14 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? You find a group of people who share a common interest. You socialize with people in the group, both male and female. You enjoy yourself. Then, lo and behold, maybe you see that a person of the opposite sex is giving you signs that they are attracted to you. So, you say something like, are you busy Friday night? What's so difficult about that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 06:50 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? Here's the thing: let's say you are a "5" don't be going up to women who are 7-10. Try going up to a "4-6" and realize that there is much more to a relationship than looks. Find someone around your own level of attractiveness and who has similar interests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 06:43 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? Think of it from a female p.o.v. First of all, many women already are taken. They have a bf or are married or otherwise are not interested in dating anyone. Or they could be lesbian. Second, most men are not attractive. Some of it has to do with things that cannot be changed, such as being short, balding, or having bad facial features. But much of it has to do with things that men can change but won't, like very bad hygiene, poor fashion sense, bad posture, no muscles, having a huge belly, etc.,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 06:35 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? Many women have bf's or are married... so turn down even good-looking guys. Depending on age, it could be as high as 80% will turn down for this reason. Then most (85%) of guys are simply unattractive (lots of reasons, but some are: short, balding, poor hygiene, very bad fashion sense, huge belly, skinny, weak, bad facial features, loser job, live at home, etc.) or extremely creepy (low confidence, come off as threatening, etc.). Think of it from a female pov - very few eligible men exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 06:19 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? Most men are unattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 06:13 PM
–	The problem isn't high standards for men, its high entry standards. Most men are not very attractive. That's the main problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 03:53 AM