SombraBlanca Archive

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1	Should you be open with your intentions? Everyone here should watch the black mirror episode, hang the dj. However much time you spend with them, a year or just tonight, the goal is to write your own rules together and this will make more sense once you watch it.	/r/seduction	13/05/25 11:05 PM
1	See Her? Read This. Now. It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a w…	/r/seduction	08/04/25 04:52 AM
6	I’m thinking about spending $150 on a photo shoot to improve my dating profile pictures. Is this a good idea ? What I would do is post the second to best looking pics and save the money shots for irl.. seriously though I did this and every person I went out with said I was the first who looked better in person than my pics. So maybe use some different angles/lighting and like someone else said, communicate this to the photographer. They will find ways to flatter what you got while leaving a lot left to interpret.	/r/seduction	15/03/25 02:49 PM
3	You want to know a cheat code? Use sun screen every day. Skin care routine, spf 15.. get it	/r/seduction	27/02/25 05:34 PM
2	Should I approach women at my gym? I treat it like a workplace and honestly think more people should.	/r/seduction	14/11/24 03:14 PM
1	How to stop giving a F? Just starting is enough.. go to what feels like the source and leave everything else	/r/seduction	04/10/24 09:28 PM
2	How To Respond To Old “Friend” Still See Me As Below Them Haha I went through a similar thing.. I would be with someone at my place and then get terrified someone would start pounding the door down because I was doing something wrong/messing with the wrong person or whatever. Then after imagining myself trying to pound my own door down I'm just like fucking why and things chilled out like 90% It's crazy too because all that shit happened in the past, like there's no way that time can come back around, so when we're replaying that event with those peopl…	/r/seduction	10/03/22 10:57 PM
2	How To Respond To Old “Friend” Still See Me As Below Them Tl;Dr - love yourself like crazy, the rest will get the volume turned down a lot Saying nothing and going back to your workout would've been better in your situation but the next best thing is to just love who you are, especially the guy you were before. I went through a very similar transformation right after college, with similar friends too, and the thing that really did it was me loving me. It took a while, and it's still a practice, but after months of saying 'I love you buddy' to myself ev…	/r/seduction	10/03/22 10:20 PM
6	[deleted by user] Maybe someone can explain it better but what helped me understand is to think about frame as the degree to which the person you're presenting yourself to be is consistent with who you actually are. For example, someone struggling with anxiety trying to come off as calm and cool obviously doesn't add up therefore that person couldn't hold that frame. Now if that same person is managing their anxiety well, coming off calm and cool is much more inline with who they actually are, and the frame is st…	/r/seduction	28/10/21 01:50 PM
3	Cougar at the gym The low and slow approach would be best. What I've done with a gym crush is just walk up after you catch them noticing and be direct. Like hey, looks like we're both here at the same time a lot so I wanted to say hi. Smile, shake hands, introduce yourself and maybe some small talk before getting back to your workout. Now you can say hey whenever the mood strikes and see where it leads if anywhere. Before ending the convo with the woman I met, I said to let me know if she ever needed a spot or a …	/r/seduction	06/02/17 09:31 PM
2	I asked out my coworker and got rejected!! Storytelling would be dangerous here. Tell her a story about a woman friend of yours who's crushing on her manager and asked you what to do. Leave it open ended and say you're not really sure what to tell her.. she'll likely jump in with advice and you'll be in a perfect position to get an idea of how she feels about coworkers dating in general.	/r/seduction	09/01/17 04:14 AM