Some-Air9775 Archive

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4	Guy I’m talking to seems to expect me to be more sexual with him because of a past casual relationship of mine. He feels hurt because you don’t want to touch his junk? I stopped reading there. He’s a manipulator. I don’t believe he isn’t talking to other women. Frankly I think you are being naive. Also, men you’re dating don’t need to know your sexual past. Maybe after you’ve been in a relationship for a few months but right away? Absolutely not. They will use it against you like he’s doing.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/11/25 01:42 PM
2	Should I give up dating? (27F) Idk what caused you to get hung up on body count. Your body count doesn’t matter. If you carry around these insecurities it’s only going to be a mental block. If a man asked your body count he’s not your guy. In my 32 years of life I’ve never had a man ask me that lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/25 08:42 AM
5	Low effort on dating apps In general, dating apps are a low effort way to meet people so I’m not surprised.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/24 11:22 PM
11	Do people in traditional marriages feel more content, but bored, compared to feministic marriages where there's more drama? Lol. I could have just said this but I chose to write a novel 😭😭😭. I agree with this 100%.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/23 01:36 PM
2	Do people in traditional marriages feel more content, but bored, compared to feministic marriages where there's more drama? Pain and pleasure is an interesting dynamic that can become toxic easily especially when you experience them at extremes. I’d suggest mediation. Get your nervous system used to being in a place of calm and relaxation. By and large men want a woman who can give him a sense of peace. Society has taught women that we need to resist male leadership so that we can become leaders.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/23 01:35 PM
25	Do people in traditional marriages feel more content, but bored, compared to feministic marriages where there's more drama? When you grow up seeing dysfunction you think it is normal and that’s what you create for yourself as an adult. I’m not into arguing and confrontation so I’ll say my opinion but I’d rather be with someone who is open to understanding. In that situation we might not agree but we understand why the other thinks that way and if necessary we can agree to disagree. If the person I’m talking to is argumentative I will gladly acquiesce because I’d rather save myself the stress of going back and forth. …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/23 01:06 PM
6	How to be more flexible and fun when having sex? For starters if you are both sexually satisfied don’t give in to the pressure from society to be extremely sexual. Some tips I have are to focus on things other than penetration. Kissing, touching, sensory play such as using light touches and using things like feathers or something that you drag along the skin. Give massages. Sex doesn’t have to be just banging it out. Really play and explore even if it’s just a little. Another tip I have to make sex more exciting for him is to close your eyes a…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/01/23 08:57 PM
7	would you understand if your HVM partner would hook up with other people on the side? I agree. I think people call them high value because they are in short supply but high demand but I’d rather have a man who isn’t in as high demand (because he’s short or chooses not to drive the nicest car or who isn’t seen as cool (awkward) etc) who is of good quality (treats me like a princess, has his stuff together mentally emotionally and financially. Or if he doesn’t have it all the way together financially he is a hard working man). I see that as high quality.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/22 05:34 PM
3	would you understand if your HVM partner would hook up with other people on the side? Thank you for being open to understanding.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/22 04:15 PM
11	would you understand if your HVM partner would hook up with other people on the side? A man can be high value and high quality. You’re young. Don’t sell yourself short love.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/22 04:09 PM
14	would you understand if your HVM partner would hook up with other people on the side? You’re making it black and white. I never said you had to choose one or the other. You came to that conclusion.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/22 04:08 PM
44	would you understand if your HVM partner would hook up with other people on the side? There so much talk about high value (means he has lot of options) but what they don’t tell you in these high value conversations is that high value doesn’t mean high quality. Meaning a man can have lots of money be tall and good looking with lots of options and treat you like dirt under his shoe. High quality is masculine has his ish together and treats you like a princess. That’s where it’s at.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/22 04:05 PM
8	Help! Am I overreacting ? Fiance caring more about sales lady feelings than my own? I can totally understand from that point of view as far as your boyfriend… Im not suggesting you be nicer. I just see it as being solution minded. Know what you want and ask for it specifically. It’s honest direct and doesn’t leave as much room for offense.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/22 01:23 PM
41	Help! Am I overreacting ? Fiance caring more about sales lady feelings than my own? I don’t have any relationship advice but when dealing with customer service people (I worked in customer service for over 10 years) I would say it’s always better to ask for what you want rather than just criticizing what you don’t. So, instead of saying “it’s so thick” it’s better to say “do you have/ can I try on something a thinner?” However, in your defense, the sales woman should not take things so personally. It’s not like you criticized her. If you don’t like the one you tried on she shou…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/22 01:09 PM
2	mentality advice during self improvement Get new clothes. Looking good helps you feel good.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/22 05:28 AM
15	How do I upgrade myself and become a HVW? Heal from your past. This means understand what triggers you and stop being reactive to them. This will make you more rational and easy to get along with because you won’t blame or try to change a man to appease you because of your past/trauma. Learn how to speak with love and encourage people with your words (Be sweet). Learn how to express your emotions in a way that you take full accountability for them. Take accountability for your decisions good and bad. edit - reworded	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/22 11:23 AM
-3	Will a man not want to marry me for being the other woman? Do not tell a man this.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/22 01:00 AM
5	Struggling with communication This is the issue with learning things online. Knowledge is not wisdom. He sounds like he needs to mature. It is not helpful to weaponize the information to get people to behave how you want them to. It doesn’t work like that. A lot of people do this. To me, it’s simple. If you don’t like how he talks to you and he doesn’t see the issue he’s not going to change because you want him to… maybe he isn’t the one for you. edit	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/22 01:24 PM