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FundamentalsSome-Sandwich8887/r/seduction26/04/21 01:30 PM
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Only you can decide whether it is worth it or no. You can be a monk or a PUA, this is your life.
/r/seduction01/05/21 10:46 PM
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I wouldn’t kiss anyone at your workplace. Even if the woman will not complain, your boss might fear that some other will. And nobody wants a lawsuit. Outside workplace I still wouldn’t kiss or even touch anyone without at least implicit consent (body language, atmosphere, place you are in).
/r/seduction01/05/21 10:35 PM
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Glad that you discovered human ethology. But this is not how it works. Hominidae females do not need to depend on a certain male to survive as they have great amount of other males of the tribe/flock who would take care of her in hope to have sex with her at one day (but of course she knows this day will never come). What you need to demonstrate instead is your rank potential. ​ What is ranked potential? It is clear that it is closely related to physical strength, but it is precisely connected, …
/r/seduction01/05/21 07:52 PM
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To watch movie. That’s like universal thing.
/r/seduction01/05/21 02:34 AM
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This post will most likely be removed by mods by I will text you
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:41 PM
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This is called “hidden agreement” and this is concept is covered in the book. I assume OP acts nice because he expects something in return (if towards women - then obviously sex as this is the highest level of recognition deemed possible by nice guys). Though he states he doesn’t expect anything I still suspect that secretly he does.
/r/seduction27/04/21 08:34 PM
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I would make it public
/r/seduction27/04/21 08:11 PM
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Mostly why people are afraid to approach is fear of rejection. Why are we afraid? Because evolutionary we are not adapted to living in huge societies with hundreds of millions of people. For the most part of our evolutionary history we were living in small groups (see Dunbar number). In those groups everyone knew each other from the first to the last day of their lives. And there was a strict intragroup hierarchy. The worst what could be imagined by lower level of our cognition (see dual-process…
/r/seduction27/04/21 08:02 PM
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Read “no more mr nice guy” by Glover. It explains your problem and offers good strategy.
/r/seduction27/04/21 07:46 PM
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It doesn’t mean that your first message should be asking her out. Chat a little bit, see how it goes.
/r/seduction27/04/21 07:09 PM
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Could you rephrase it?
/r/seduction27/04/21 06:55 PM
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I wouldn’t do it. Many will find it creepy.
/r/seduction27/04/21 06:25 PM
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You would be surprised but many women don't want to share their nudes with some random guy they met over night even if you had sex. By the way, why do you even need her nudes? If she is your girlfriend and you kinda tease each other by sending nudes and sexting this is one story. But when you ask some woman you barely know to send it to you, then it is totally different. Are you 15?
/r/seduction27/04/21 01:08 AM
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A good therapist is worth any money. The key is to find a good one.
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:27 AM
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Everything you wrote in the post.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:32 PM
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Then go to another place. You have serious life issues and random guys from Reddit will not help you. Seek professional help.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:24 PM
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To a good psychological therapist.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:12 PM
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I am on your side here. The best dating advises always come from women, not from those pick up gurus.
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:59 PM
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Depends on how open NJ in terms of covid restrictions. I suggest starting with easier locations - where people go to have fun and are very open. Music festivals, raves, beaches. Skip night clubs though. These are good places to begin with. When you start your journey the key is to develop some confidence so start at the easiest level possible.
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:53 PM
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Close means realationship, not physical distance. How long you been dating etc.
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:36 PM
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It all comes down to how close you are and very culture specific.
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:05 PM
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You need to work on your self confidence, assertiveness, and self esteem. It seems that you try to hide your internal insecurities behind strong and tall body. The best advice would be to seek good therapist, it is a common problem, they know how to fix it.
/r/seduction26/04/21 09:47 PM
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Move on to the next one.
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:59 PM
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You don’t. Drop that “pick up master” BS.
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:27 PM
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If only it was that way...
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:07 PM
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I think you do everything fine, just keep going
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:05 PM
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This. /thread
/r/seduction26/04/21 04:40 PM
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No. That is what I see all the time in places like this sub. It is not true. And I sincerely have no idea where this bs is coming from.
/r/seduction26/04/21 04:39 PM
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Just keep going. You expect results too fast or you assume that most of your approaches/attempts should be successful. It doesn’t work that way for most people. So just keep going. Persistency and patience are virtues.
/r/seduction26/04/21 04:28 PM
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😌
/r/seduction26/04/21 04:17 PM
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We feel excited! Do it.
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:30 PM
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Nobody can tell what some particular person has in their head.
/r/seduction26/04/21 02:27 PM
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Seek good therapist. Childhood problems should remain in childhood.
/r/seduction26/04/21 01:47 PM
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Not many of us had great childhood but you are an adult now. Work with therapist if needed. It can be fixed.
/r/seduction26/04/21 01:44 PM
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Short answer: Depends where you are from and where you live in the US. -get ready to encounter racism even if you are technically white. -feminism is a big deal in the west. -never let yourself think that you are a second class person because you speak with accent and some people look down on you. -eventually you are just looking for fun time and there is plenty fish in the sea. Long answer: As a foreign student myself (from non western country) I can share my experience a little bit. In my home…
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:51 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:17 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:12 AM
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Read the book I mentioned - the concept is widely discussed there. In short: It means that when you do something, no matter what, it is only you to judge yourself for that. Not public moral, bible, your grandma's opinion, or what some guy in the internet told you. You do whatever you want and don’t give a fuck what some or most people think of it. When someone trying to tell you that good people don’t act that way you say go fuck yourself. When you think it is inappropriate to say “go fuck yours…
/r/seduction25/04/21 10:14 PM
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Drink a little bit. Get a prescription for Xanax.
/r/seduction25/04/21 10:06 PM
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You already answered it in first part of your question...
/r/seduction25/04/21 09:41 PM
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No. You don’t get the concept. You need to show that you don’t have to do anything but rather You enjoy every aspect of your life. Women don’t care what are your plans. They want to see a man. Man who always gets what he wants. That is the idea behind this.
/r/seduction25/04/21 09:19 PM
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If a girl allows you to be that close to her (face in chest) then yes, it would make sense to kiss her. Now you know, shaped your negative feedback loop, and won’t make that mistake again. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:26 PM
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It depends on the outcomes. I worked in software QA industry and we had very good definition of quality - customer satisfaction. So if it nets you the results you want and satisfied with, then you strategy works. I personally don’t really enjoy online dating and hiding behind the screen, so just use it as logistics.
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:07 PM
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You always do what you deem best. You nor anyone else has any idea what she thinks and what will be the outcome.
/r/seduction25/04/21 08:02 PM
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The rule of thumb: if all your contact is mostly about initiated by you - she is not into you. Move on to the next one.
/r/seduction25/04/21 07:59 PM
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Every single issue with self confidence goes down to one key concept that vast majority of people don’t have - “being your own judge”. There is a good old book (from 1960s I believe) that helped me a lot back in the days by Emmanuel Smith about training self confidence. But eventually the book is about that key concept. Oftentimes when you do something and people start asking you like “why are you doing this?” “It shouldn’t be done that way” and people ask themselves “am I ethical?” “Am I a good…
/r/seduction25/04/21 05:37 PM
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Brute force and law of big numbers are your keys to success. Just make as many attempts as possible. If 90% have bf- then 10% are single. Imagine you will also get rejected by 9 out of remaining 10. Then you get 1 willing to at least going with you on a date. If it takes let say 5 dates (with different girls) to get laid. Then you just need 500 approaches. It can be easily done in one month. Yes this is longest and most tedious approach. But it yields a guaranteed result.
/r/seduction25/04/21 04:31 PM
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Are we taking about mr DeVito?
/r/seduction25/04/21 04:19 PM
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Kudos for trying (not sarcasm)
/r/seduction25/04/21 04:18 PM
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Delete her name and picture please from sreenshots as well.
/r/seduction25/04/21 04:17 PM
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“Got some extras for me?” - please never say this again in such situations. It is super awkward and dumb. If you were on some festival or rave and there were couple girls with lots of drinks - that would be an appropriate open, but not in this case. So let me guess - as soon as you notice a nice girl you have shallow breathing, tachycardia, wet and shaky hands? You just go and start talking to her. In worst case scenario she would say get lost. So? Will sky fall? Will you die? What are you afrai…
/r/seduction25/04/21 04:15 PM
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Not secretly but open and loud - “It doesn’t matter how you look like”. Unfortunately this sub contains way too many folks from now banned incel sub. It doesn’t matter if you are short, not athletic and don’t look like Beckham. Yes, muscles and height add you points but it is not necessary at all. I am just tired reading when guys say that they don’t look like models and this is the reason why their success is low.
/r/seduction25/04/21 04:05 PM
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First of all drop that “pick up master attitude”. You focus on women and most likely assess your self worth by women’ approval. And sex is the best approval you deem possible. That is wrong. You focus on yourself - YOU want to have sex. Then you just need to satisfy that need. You don’t care at all wether it will take you 1 approach or 50. No one is this world has 100% success rate. It seems that you desperately want to increase this as much as possible to prove your self worth. Stop this. You n…
/r/seduction25/04/21 03:46 PM
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It is not true. You don’t have to do anything. If a lady makes you work your ass off to satisfy her just dump her. She needs you way more that you need her. Because you can be happy with almost every woman, and she needs some tough dude otherwise she would be bored and not getting pleasure from sex.
/r/seduction25/04/21 03:24 PM
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If she let you stay in HER apartment alone with her than yes, you just look into her eyes for a couple seconds and kiss her. And then everything will go automatically. The one thing that you might come across if you don’t know each other for longer then couple days is after she is topless kissing you and you are trying to pull down her pants, she might stumble like - I am not sure/I have a period (oftentimes it is actually true) or something else. Then you just wait for couple of days and try ag…
/r/seduction25/04/21 03:19 PM
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Because you focus on them, not on yourself. Instead you just need to say “I am here for myself - that girl is just part of the environment and goddamn I like that part.” She is one of bazillion cute girls out there, and every single day whole bunch of new ones turn 18. There is an almost unlimited supply of them. She is not special.
/r/seduction25/04/21 03:10 PM
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If you don’t love yourself, how you expect others to love you? You project your happiness very simply - you should like everything in your life, and showing that it goes exactly as you planned (even if your life sucks). You work at McDonald’s - “I am a second reincarnation of Spongebob and enjoy flipping burgers, at one day I will open my own restaurant”. You drive an old car - “that same car was driven by [famous person] in [famous movie], I enjoy every bit of it”. You don’t have many friends -…
/r/seduction25/04/21 02:59 PM
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You don’t approach girls who are obviously busy or at their workplace. And especially if she is alone in the night going to her car. Yes, you have best intentions but I hope you understand how creepy it looks like. Go to bars, clubs, beaches, big college campuses.
/r/seduction25/04/21 02:41 PM
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Don’t do it unless you feel that girl is what you been waiting for you entire life and under no circumstances you will miss this opportunity. So in 99.99999% of the time you don’t.
/r/seduction25/04/21 02:33 PM
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When I started my cold approach journey I had issues as most of us did. The key in this life is your lenses through which you see the world. You act desperate, you want to get sex/relationship, your ego hurts every time a girl says no to you. The approach you need is having the right attitude. Oftentimes people just say pretend you are there not for seduction and you instantly ask “wtf?” and this method doesn’t work for you. Here is what you need (at least what helped me): treat this as a brute …
/r/seduction25/04/21 02:16 PM
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1) it is impossible to say what a particular person has in their head. 2) if she initiates contact 80% of the time - she is 100% into you
/r/seduction25/04/21 01:56 PM
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