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Question For MenSome-Web-1213/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:40 PM
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Well, women don't want to entertain these expectations, and you guys just keep talking about it as if we are supposed to be something that we are apparently not. Most importantly, every promiscuous woman will still find a guy who is allegedly not you. It truly would be better if you just quit talking about this stuff as if anybody cared. "I want a virgin!" - sucks to be you, Justin. Next post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:22 PM
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Those are your problems. Stop trying to make us rationalize our standards. They are what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:16 PM
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Then don't ask me what I would do as a parent to help them solve a particular problem. Why the flip are you guys asking us questions that aren't actually questions, just trying to run your mouth again? Or like what's the purpose of this post and what's the purpose of you being here and arguing with me? Mothers can either help their sons, or continue letting them do things that clearly don't work out for them and let him brine in their own defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:13 PM
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If he absolutely hated the idea, I'd probably book a private class every week to ease him into it, and explain to the coach that he is dealing with a sensitive kid who needs a lot of encouragement. We can afford whatever resources he needs to succeed. Yeah, no, my son is absolutely doing MMA and the only excuse mom will take is if he later on decides that likes some other sport instead: running, swimming, gymnastics, or fucking ballet if he is gay - chances are people will understand quickly not…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:46 PM
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You are missing the point. The reason why he is famous is because he has qualities that MMA helped him cultivate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:29 PM
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I don't care, karate, jiujitsu, something like that always gives a guy a community of like-minded men, and some good reasons to take himself seriously. Men with self-respect carry themselves in a way that communicates status, they have confidence and act like they're in control, they stop being anxious and volatile, and most importantly, they quit talking shit that isn't worth bruises. The TRP community? Fatherless behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:27 PM
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I'd probably do something when he is still young, I'd book some martial arts classes and teach him that he has a right to tell people to shut the fuck up and stand up for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:50 PM
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TRP fantasy world magnifies the degree to which things like that happen. It's almost uninteresting for me to argue about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:46 PM
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And most people agree that men are gatekeeping relationships after there is sex, correct? Another one of those fantasies that everybody just goes along with without questioning. In reality, men aren't these stoic warriors, they are slaves of their libido and feelings of jealousy - every single one of you, and these guys in the TRP community are the first on the list. If I put out frequently, I'm pretty, and I'm fun, I can set conditions around sex for the next time to happen and withdraw the oxy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:38 PM
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OP, if you have a chip on your shoulder with regards to women working on their self-presentation you are welcome to go to Kentucky, walk into the nearest house in some white middle class area, and take out the first woman you see - she will definitely be natural and her looks will not be altered. It was always an option. On to the next post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:11 PM
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50% of women are projected to be single because they don't want to couple up, at least not with the men they are getting. You are seriously undervaluing the degree to which women refuse to mate with the men they refuse to mate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:06 PM
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Blaming all the opposite sexes however many there are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:19 AM
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Blaming the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:07 AM
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This is not how value works, and most importantly it's what everybody tried to explain to feminists. Unless other people value someone's commitment, their commitment is of no value irrespective of how many castles in the air that they've built themselves with the help of certain communities. A guy can determine to be alone, but this has nothing to do with the value of his commitment that is solely decided upon by his target market, independent of what his personal feelings and opinions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:54 AM
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I'll just keep playing women until I get what I'm looking for. OP, I am not your parental figure. You don't need to challenge the ghost of your mom that you see in me with your edginess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:31 AM
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Statistically, chances are there is at least a few thousand women like that in the US. Not very many to begin with, if we decide that she also needs to be 7-10. You basically said it yourself: 98%-99% of women aren't exactly feminine, submissive, very low n-count, and whatever else, and honestly? It's because barely anybody wants to be these things, as the opportunity cost is too high, and the ask itself is kind of cringe in their opinion. So, of course it's rare that a beautiful woman will just…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:24 AM
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I'm simply explaining what is: nobody will keep themselves in a certain state of desirability for you (however easy you deem it to be), and of the people who will, nobody will place themselves in the subservient/submissive position (whatever you call it). And if they will, they will usually do so for material goods. This is just some healthy criticism, no need to argue with me on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:46 AM
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I don't see how it proves anything about your intelligence. Can you explain what makes you say that you are a profoundly gifted genius?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:42 AM
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I... Can't tell whether you are being sarcastic or not about being a gifted genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:15 AM
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Probably not, what's there to like about them. Even if they were ridiculously good-looking, I mean how many times do people actually have sex and how many times they interact with one another. I don't think anybody wants to be with an uninteresting person, but tons of men are probably willing to keep them as a side chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:14 AM
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Sure, or that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:10 AM
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RP world revenge fantasy. The good guys who prefer porn and video games are not good guys, nor are they the target audience of old women, ran through women, sugar baby women, or any women for that matter - that's why they resort to porn and video games, not because they are some sigma male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:02 AM
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Fuck, sounds like you are in a rough spot. I know there is a population of men like that, and I think it's legitimately more difficult in this situation to satisfy the requirement of finding a connection while dealing with a selective gender and not having 15 different female privileges. I'm sorry and I'll promptly quit whining I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:56 AM
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Sure, then I can say "aren't even worth a sexless engagement". You can say that, but realistically the overwhelming majority of men can't afford these terms, so I'm not sure why we are talking about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:41 AM
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Evidently most men today aren't even worth that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:26 AM
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Yeah, nobody is going to make themselves ready for you is the first thing I have to say on the subject. Very few women like the ones you are looking at - low n-count, attractive, intelligent - are going to submit to you. Based on what? Why? Chances are you would need to go below your value if you want to play social BDSM. Sorry about that. The other part of it is, welcome to the female world. If you are burdened with high market value - or any sort of value - the flip side of it is a responsibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:21 AM
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In many men's world, sure, but we don't even need to reach as far as reputation. In a very tolerant environment she still would waste her reproductive time and would not extract any pleasure from the experience in exchange, - even if it was not for social costs and costs associated with getting with other men long term, which of course exist, sex is almost always a gain to a man but can easily be a significant loss to a woman unless other factors are present. And I'm not even bringing up horribl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:58 PM
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Because to them every sexual contact with a woman is a +1, and they can't wrap their heads around the fact that to women commitment-free sexual contact with useless men is -1 - it's a loss of finite resource. The abundance of men who are willing to nut in us is the same thing as the abundance of random people who are wiling to log into their bank accounts and wipe it clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:54 PM
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There is no reason why an attractive dude should be able to just hook up with a girl on his level of attractiveness because a woman carries primary responsibility for sexual contact. So it makes perfect sense that he will have to go down the attractiveness pyramid to get an easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:45 PM
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Oh yeah, you tell me how I don't in fact need to exercise and these 23 years that I lived in an average female body - I've just been an idiot and didn't notice that i can simply quit donuts and soda T_T "Simply" cutting down calorie intake is already not that simple, but also it will not solve average woman's problem. I can feel how much my body resists going below what it determined to be my baseline weight. There is a reason why men die like flies during famine and starvation and women survive…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:48 PM
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Nobody cares enough to shame anybody into anything, the only people who chronically give a fuck are Pearl Davis and Matt Walsh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:27 PM
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Hold up, what do you mean by "shaming"? What I imagine when people say "shaming" is you offering your unsolicited opinion, and when people tell you to shut the fuck up and mind your own you are crying that everyone around you is a snoflake under Pearl's videos about landwhales. You don't have enough of your own problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:52 PM
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...For easy commitment-free sex. That is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:45 PM
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Ngl I see occasionally unfit women with athletic men, BUT Tbf most guys who complain don't work out - they are just skinny. And because they are skinny, they think they deserve better than a fat girl while in reality both of them are equally unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:44 PM
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Because so many men have a naturally fast metabolism and aren't fat, they think that their skinny ass is somehow better than a 200 lb woman next to them, while in reality they both are defaulting to their natural tendency and don't look good. It's pointless to compare the % of fat women and fat men, we gotta compare the % of fit people in each gender and it will probably be roughly the same. I've been arguing with the "men have to resist gravity" bros on this sub trying to explain that the amoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:38 PM
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I don’t think it’s a variable of this particular system. Other countries do the same shit to their population, if anything, the US managed treatment of its male taxpayers much better than some. I also think that Democrats are a worse of two evils
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:44 PM
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I’m not American. In a lot of places which OP mentioned the standard of life is much lower, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:15 PM
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Women should clue the fuck in and not obediently send their husbands and sons to some middle eastern clusterfuck, but we can’t do much until you stop buying into this salad of patriotic garbage that pours into your heads from Fox News. For as long as men want to go - and many want to go - the only thing I can do is not voting for Hilary, tranquillizing men in my life and tying them with ropes in my basement. If men demand that they stop being treated like stupid obedient meat by corrupt politici…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:13 PM
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Controversial opinion: men need to stand up for themselves, but all of these concerns are framed in a way as if it was women’s fault that their husbands are being thrown into the fire. You are addressing this to wrong people, the right ones - are sitting in the parliaments and eating our taxes. For as long as we continue to spout out “patriotism”, “manhood”, “dignity” and other propaganda, you guys will continue to be sent to wars and die like dogs, which is an outrageous violation of freedom of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:49 PM
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What happened to “people take on different occupations based on personal choice”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:16 PM
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Those are your personal experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:49 AM
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They should
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:40 AM
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😮‍💨 you are so… Sexily mean and abrupt 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:39 AM
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You immigrated to a communist state, where big brother can throw your ass to jail tomorrow if they wanted to and the only reason why they didn’t is not because you have legal protections, but because they don’t give a shit about you. If you were a problem you’d be sucking someone’s cock already. Meanwhile every Vietnamese pussy tries aggressively to get with an American and immigrate the fuck outta there. What is wrong with you I’m not western btw, I’m also not bitter, I’m just rude, but I love …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:39 AM
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“You threw a red herring down the poisoned well while strawmaning the steelman therefore these lengthy paragraphs that detailed your disdain are discarded, and also I took Spanish II and dated a Brazilian girl in college 🤓” Damn, okay. Also, like, bigot? Oh no, not accusing me of bigotry 😮‍💨 what else am I? A nazi? Or… Mean to people? 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:20 AM
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So, just because you progressed to Spanish II and passed your 5th grade civics course does not mean you are allowed to have opinions on anything :\ I just work here dude. I am simply explaining what is and you can take it or no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:47 AM
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So, one thing about me, is that I’m not your personal therapist. If you want to talk about legal systems or rape accusations, we can, but I’m deeply uninterested in how you are punching down some lonely men, who probably aren’t as rich as you, aren’t as happy as you, don’t have many skills and IQ points.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:26 AM
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You are so cute 🫠🥹 You brought up jail time. each time one of you argues with me, you just keep making yourselves sound even more insulated in your cute little communities. In many parts of the world you’ll just get jailed for some other bullshit, such as writing a blog post, or taking a video of some government official, or breaking some other obscure law that not even locals know exists, or because they don’t like your face. Or because your kid drew a anti-war poster in the art class in her sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:15 AM
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I don’t know, why do you struggle so hard to understand that nobody cares about your personal problems on Tinder on this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:46 PM
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What about dicks that go inside of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:43 PM
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I never said it was illegal. Nor do I want it to be illegal. You aren’t using your brain again, you spoilt lil 🐱. I’m very emotional on the topic, but it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:30 PM
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It’s all game until Romanian officials lock people up with no charges, then people like you make a surprise pikachu face and Pokémon evolve into giant vulvas “Bhut mah human rhighths 😠” I can’t stop you, but I absolutely can make you look and sound ridiculous - which is essentially what I did - so that the twat next to you uses his head not just for putting food in it and sucking dick, but for thinking too, since you are apparently too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:21 PM
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Your complaint that many women are just making obscure demands is probably warranted, your solution - “move overseas” and all the icing on top in the form of shitting on the western society - is a stream of cum in the faces of two groups of people: 1. People who built and maintain the structures where you can become a millionaire, because it’s a meritocracy. 2. People who try to move to this society, because it’s a meritocracy. Your proposed solution is disproportionate to the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:11 PM
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Lol, first world problems. If you were born in places where American women aren’t a problem you would piss in your pumpkin spiced lululemons, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:59 PM
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I don’t like the anger in your post, as if somebody in America owed you making themselves ready for you, but I thought there was nothing technically wrong with it - after all, American women do sex tourism too. But then I came across “move overseas”. Right, let’s support the ever living fuck out of authoritarian shitholes by moving there and dumping money into the local economy. Did you lose your mind? It’s like burning the house to cook some eggs. The profound lack of gratitude and self-awarene…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:36 PM
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Because of course it's so easy to never turn 35 and always stay young. OP, you are something else. Just like you groom yourself irrespective of the other gender's expectations, women get education and jobs, irrespective of the other gender's expectations. Everything you are so proudly doing? Most women have to do too. And this does not even count towards our value, this just makes pragmatic sense. ALMOST like you upkeeping your self-presentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:50 PM
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I know 🫠 Btw, I think people can pull outside of their leagues given that they have something else going for them, my argument was solely about cold approaching strangers. If you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:27 PM
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Because women are entitled and self-unaware too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:22 PM
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Dude my post opens with “men who think [blank]”, all this junk about my post attacking all men - this is just you. I never said all men are like that, moreover, this is the second time that I’m emphasizing that people are different. If I didn’t make it clear in my post, I am making a disclaimer just for you. I’m also allowed to not make arguments about all men and make them about some fraction of annoying men, without necessarily making it about you, and without you marching in and noting that “…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:13 PM
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No offense, but of the two of us I sound happier and much more mentally stable, because I approach you with civility and kindness, and you are being difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:01 PM
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I think you just proved my point I was making in my post about men who were convinced they are hot shit by TRP and shoot way above what they can get in life without looking in the mirror and their IDs first. You might be the guy I talked about if you happen to think that your attraction means anything, really. We will start with just because men find 20-25 women most attractive doesn’t mean everyone will ever realistically snatch one from under the noses of guys in the same age range. These wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:52 PM
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I’m glad you don’t know anybody who does this. Unfortunately, this doesn’t carry information, besides the fact that you don’t know anybody who does this. They wouldn’t cluster around you, they’d cluster around hot chicks by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:43 PM
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Wow, let’s pump the breaks. Just because you personally would never spike someone’s drink it doesn’t make a post about guys spiking girls drinks a strawman. Do I make any sense? You are assuming that all men are like you - perhaps, reasonable, fair, logical when it comes to dealing with pretty women not wanting them. I assume every single woman is like me and sometimes go “there is no way women do it!”, but then I have to remind myself that people are so crazy they burned Jews and supported slav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:34 PM
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Unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:37 PM
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So… Forgive me if I have his down wrong. Only you are allowed to initiate interactions? Or by your logic, it would be a proportionate response for me to say “fuck off”, because you are the one who started talking to me first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:43 AM
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Not the dick, this has nothing to do with the dick. You don’t owe politeness to clerks in a grocery store either. Or to construction workers. Or to neighbors. Or to me. Yet you are choosing to give me some baseline level of human decency that I’m not entitled to, so that we can have a better day than we otherwise could. Can you explain why you don’t feel that it’s too much of an ask to give me some politeness? After all, my questioning is probably as uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:36 AM
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Let’s pump the breaks, because I, like, disagree. If I’m selected based on how round my tits are, I will of course objectify men back, and chances are I will win this game. Well what did you guys think will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:31 AM
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They don’t care what I feel, of course. They are trying to slide their dick. Like let’s not pretend it’s not mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:24 AM
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I’ll give you your first paragraph again. Second paragraph: we are talking about cold approaching. It absolutely happens that in a socially complex situation two people have chemistry even if there is a look mismatch, but when it comes to approaching strangers, I’m afraid they’ll be less lenient on somebody’s looks and will be forced to swipe left or swipe right rather quickly. Considering that I only have his looks to make a decision on, I’ll make a decision based on looks. And it’s fine becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:22 AM
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Nobody is asking you to do the emotional labor, people who are reasonable are just asking us not to punch down and Fortnite dance all over men when you clearly don’t need to. When you say “hello” and “thank you” and “goodbye” and remove your elbows from the table you aren’t doing emotional labor, nor are you taking care of people’s fee-fees, you are just maintaining a level of civility that makes everyone’s day okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:17 AM
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Well at the point when somebody doesn’t piss off I think we can collectively agree women are justified in being rude, he is just saying there is no reason to nuke some mf when he is already soaking in self-defeat. Like you can but this would be punching down big time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:03 AM
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Yeah, discrimination doesn’t exist. So, short and skinny or 18? Perhaps very few men can have the body of Ariana grande and be hot, I’d be concerned if a guy had tits. For average woman to keep herself in shape requires working out and eating healthy, because girls put on weight easily. For a guy, the standard is different… because you have a male body. And if you look at black men, they have it far easier than black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:08 PM
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No, bulllshit. Depends on a girl, depends on a guy. There is some cute twinks, there is some fat pimply bitches. If anything 35 yo men should not hit on college girlies because “Whomhen whant to secure reffources 🤓” and be like “whomhen are so selective mhan, this is some bulshit mhan”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:50 PM
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Even if they don’t represent your ideal, or many men’s ideal, how many dudes, even dudes with options, would realistically split hairs and play build-a-bear and reject a vs model in favor of some curvy girl next door? They are good enough for millionaires 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:31 PM
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But Victoria secret always has women who are recognized as hot by everybody parading in their lingerie. At least it used to, back when it was genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:12 PM
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This is the best answer so far: I almost agreed with you when you were talking about destroying a guys reputation by casually throwing labels around. On the second part of your response: if people approached within their leagues it would spare people so much awkwardness and heartache. If a guy can’t consistently pull girls of a certain level, there is no reason (in my mind) why this Barbie doll on the bus stop should say “yes” to him, a total stranger. He puts it on a woman to give him a soft ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:11 PM
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I’m trying to say, some obviously unattractive men could realize that obviously pretty women don’t desire them without having to approach the woman. They could just look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:05 PM
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Well, get to know people who are as attractive/unattractive as yourself. No shit Sherlock, people want to get to know some bombshell - this isn’t news. rejecting a guy JUST because his sense of style is poor is ridiculous in my opinion, if a woman doesn’t have many options to begin with. though a woman who gets cold approached probably has her style in check. Chances are she is dressed feminine, wears makeup and perfume, and I can absolutely see why somebody like that will judge the fuck out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:02 PM
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I mean, there is some differing perspectives. Some just want women to stop being absolute bitches and crybabies over men approaching them, while for others “be polite!” Is just smoke and mirrors to hide the actual reason why they are upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:58 PM
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Yeah, I agree, many women lack self awareness too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:56 PM
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The same people who determined that landwhale isn’t a desirable wifey material. I think “subjectivity” is a sweet lie and we all know where we stand more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:56 PM
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You are not making a good point right now. And sweatpants is what everybody wears to game nights with the boys, and pajamas is what we wear to bed, but if I put on my lululemons to a job interview, I’ll get a side eye. If I wear my Radiohead t shirt, it screams 0 effort. I would not be the one to expect every stranger on the bus to be charmed with my femininity when I don’t put any effort into self-presentation. I’m sure some people can rock low effort outfits. The problem with my description is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:51 PM
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That’s a fair perspective an criticism of the female gender
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:37 PM
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It’s not about listening to metal, I like Rammstein and System of a Down. You hyperfocus on the Metallica thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:42 PM
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Men do the exact same thing. You guys approach women based on shallow characteristics. Unless a guy is just a weirdo, he isn’t going to ask every single woman in the room for her number, so there will be some opportunity cost associated with cold approaching women. Therefore every woman that he discriminated against can say the exact same thing: he doesn’t know who he is rejecting. I might be an amazing chef. I am great in bed. I’ll be a good wife and mother. But he chose to ask Stacy’s number. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:20 PM
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No, I meant to reply to you. Perhaps I wasn’t clear? Sorry. I meant to say, you can’t exactly be upset if men who cold approach women select these women on the exact same criteria. They pick the cute girl, not some fat landwhale.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:15 PM
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Hang on, men do the same thing when they cold approach some women but not others? Shallow metrics, a lot of sexual discrimination, hurt feelings, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:12 PM
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I can see this as something women should probably adopt if we want to continue enjoying a position that protects us from being so openly discriminated against.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:10 PM
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Delusional fantasies. Go get therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:49 PM
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I know! Each time a girl is not being totally rude, she runs into the problem of a guy being delusional. It’s probably fine, but this is why these discussions should not be blanket prescriptions, because we all are different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:47 PM
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As you said, Im sorry but I don’t see it play out on the reality 😖 prove to me that it really happens! Hope you see why I got a little bit annoyed in the other convo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:44 PM
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Why are we talking about this? Why did I let people drag me into this body fat discussion again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:43 PM
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🤡🐸 Of course you don’t see it! You are a dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:42 PM
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That’s what “I see you as a friend” means. It’s a universally accepted nice way to deliver the info that someone’s not attracted to a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:29 PM
2

whomen are [blank]. I’ve rejected many. I’ve fucked many. But much more I rejected. I. Rejected. Whomhen. 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:20 PM
3

Absolutely doesn’t. And men are lazy for not being muscular. I’m explaining that body standards are different for different genders, because… we are different genders 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:19 PM
9

Well apparently “I see you as a friend” is not sweet enough to many people, we hear many times how guys hate being ghosted, or friendzoned in real life. I think they just don’t like getting rejected, and “don’t be rude” is just smoke and mirrors around the actual issue that bugs them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:17 PM
3

Politeness and respect don’t get any man sex. This was never a rule. That’s not why people should be polite. If I’m being polite to someone, I don’t expect them to give me anything, let alone commitment, marriage, sex or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:15 PM
3

I don’t think I changed the topic? I’m sorry. A lot of what I wanted to slide into the discussion is the implicit assumptions that I made. I made the following assumption: a girl who gets cold approached is almost always cute, but most guys who cold approach her are below the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:58 PM
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I know, but it doesn’t mean that an individual woman is supposed to be open to their particular advances. If he cold approaches people it’s his job to take this risk into account
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:56 PM
3

You can, but then don’t be complaining that women are annoyed and aren’t receptive to this - there is a huge chunk of people who are reserved and introverted, and when you start talking to strangers, you take on the burden of dealing with people who flat out ignore you. I don’t like it when strangers try to chat me up. It’s not my job to entertain anybody whatsoever even if he just wants to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:55 PM
2

Wow, wow, let’s pump the breaks on this one, because I’m not going to give tough love to short guys just because they are short. Vertically challenged men can be cute twinks, and they for sure don’t look stupid when they approach their cute looksmatches their height and don’t go for some tall Scandinavian blondes. It’s when they are short, and fat/too skinny, and their face is meh, and she has a nice body, nice face, nice teeth, a sense of style, etc, when I have a problem, like at this point he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:48 PM
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That’s fine, you are allowed to refer to them this way. She wouldn’t know if a man possesses any of those qualities, but you being an amazing dad material will not buy you a cute chick. For the same reason why being an amazing mom material will not buy anybody an attractive boyfriend. Seems fair to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:43 PM
3

I think it’s just lack of attraction. It’s not that there is a reason behind rejecting a cold approach, it’s that there is no reason to accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:39 PM
2

“attraction is subjective” is something heavy girls say, I think its subjectivity is overrated. I’m not saying that men shouldn’t shoot their shot when a woman might not like their hair color of some other stupid thing, but when she is hot and he is, well, a 4 - at this point we can all say that not every guy should approach every girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:38 PM
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We also need to factor in what counts as “advance”. There is men who try to take you out, then there is men who try to fuck you, like, tomorrow. If it’s the former, the woman is going to be much more polite than if it’s the second scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:35 PM
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Yes, I’ve considered this, but it seems like there is two camps: people who prefer women to be sweet about it, and people who prefer women to be brutally honest about it. Hard to walk this line and hard to make everyone happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:34 PM
4

If cold approaching got you action, you weren’t ugly, or at least you are probably charismatic and social. I don’t think this convo applies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:08 PM
5

“Don’t be rude to men” can be a perspective that I probably need to adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:59 PM
3

I am, like, the OP. I drive the discussion here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:59 PM
2

No problem. The thing about cold approaching is that most women who get cold approached are like solid 8s, it’s not some average Becky. And most men who do this are, let’s just say, not 8s. Yeah I know, women do it too. I’m granting you permission to reject them and call them creepy, if that’s what you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:58 PM
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No, dear random dude on the internet, I am the one who explains what people are saying, and YOU are wrong. I asked you to explain the perspective that I outlined, not lecture me on how “pff nobody thinks that”. You are just wasting everybody’s time. Block.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:51 PM
7

Pure delusion. Why would anybody be open to anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:50 PM
3

“You don’t sound slim” I can’t believe people like you are allowed to vote. And you don’t sound like you get 🐈. Where do we go from here, you punk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:48 PM
3

Abusing law enforcement is where I draw the line, otherwise it’s fair to say that he exposes himself to a variety of reactions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:48 PM
3

Try with other ugly people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:51 PM
2

Oh, then it cuts it, I guess. I lost the train of thought and I don’t remember what we are arguing about 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:51 PM
3

Of course you haven’t seen it you are a man for fucks sake!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:50 PM
3

I’m European, you don’t need to lecture me on women’s sizes worldwide. Each time I go over to the US I put on 3-4 lbs, and I maintain my routine, in Europe I shed them easily. it’s something that they put in y’all’s food, it’s not “amherichan whe-mhen 🤓”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:48 PM
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We are splitting hairs. I think we can all agree if both a guy is presentable and cute it’s one story. if a guy chooses a target, and he himself is like 20 years older, with bitch tits in a Metallica t shirt, at this point we can safely say it’s fair and reasonable to not care how great of a person he is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:46 PM
1

I agree, but when a guy approaches somebody who is attractive while he isn’t, then it just screams lack of self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:43 PM
3

Yes, I hold it for women as well. People should go within their leagues + or -, if there is an obvious mismatch I’d think twice before approaching a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:36 PM
4

Yes, don’t approach attractive women as an ugly guy and if you do don’t complaint about the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:29 PM
3

They argue that women should be open to their advances. I understand the complaint, you don’t need to lil bro me. Why would you think standards are supposed to be equal? This is some delusional utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:28 PM
2

Well if he didn’t build a good body and/or good income why would he think he deserves anything better? Yes, pretty women tend to have standards, imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:26 PM
2

Go to communist China then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:20 PM
5

If we switched genders we would get the same thing, I agree. I don’t expect cute men to like unattractive women just because they are an amazing person or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:20 PM
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Well, his appearance is a factor that is, in fact, considered. Of course a hot chick will blanketly refuse to deal with an ugly guy. This ugly guy refused to deal with women in his range when he approached the hottest one in the room
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:08 PM
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Controversial opinion: unattractive men shouldn’t cold approach attractive women, because this is what happens when you leave it up to strangers to socialize you into self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:04 PM
3

It doesn’t matter, you are right. But going back to our cold approaching scenario, it’s the guy who is trying to get her, so of course the burden is on him. That’s why I don’t expect anything of her. “Oh no she is fat!”. Well you are still the one annoying this stranger so like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:02 PM
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Yes, because lack of self awareness is, in fact, creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:59 PM
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I’m sorry, we can all agree this chick was being ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:58 PM
5

No, dude, this is your delusional fantasies. The idea that strangers are supposed to entertain your boredom or horniness is a utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:45 PM
3

Same thing: men who are obviously unattractive, whether they are fat, ugly, etc. I am not going to dig through this sub to provide you with “examples 🤓”, if you think it doesn’t happen, then you continue to think that. What do you expect me to do, witch hunt people? Just pay attention dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:42 PM
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Yeah, they read politeness as availability. I can see how it’s frustrating for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:39 PM
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This is the impression I get
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:38 PM
2

I’m slim. I’m explaining to you why a guy just being skinny doesn’t cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:37 PM
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Let me make this clear: they aren’t just trying to have a chat 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:36 PM
2

This is deep 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:35 PM
6

Okay, I can see this being a perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:29 PM
5

I see why this gets lost in communication
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:24 PM
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One more time, because you don’t seem to understand. For women to be slim is harder than it is to be slim for men. Women in Asia and Africa are skinny for the same reason why men in Asia and Africa are skinnier than men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:21 PM
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Controversial opinion: then maybe unattractive men shouldn’t hit on attractive women? No offense, but chances are this unattractive dude, he is like a 100th random weirdo trying to slide his dick into her. At some point she can’t bribe people with apologies and politeness because it just gets annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:16 PM
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That’s something that you just came up with 🫠 pretty and ugly person are the same when it comes to legal system, but they aren’t the same when it comes to cold approaching. Tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:14 PM
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Yeah, I don’t know how. That’s what my question was, and many people on here come up with all sorts of justifications
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:13 PM
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Average looking women don’t get cold approached, it’s the 8-10 who get chatted up by men most of the time. If we take a girl who strangers try talking to, she will be, as I said, fit, nice hair, good skin, put together - that’s not average. Slim for a guy isn’t the same as slim for a girl. For a guy, slim is the default state. A woman has to workout and eat healthy because our metabolism is so slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:11 PM
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It happens implicitly with men when they are unhappy that pretty women discriminate against ugly men. It happens with women explicitly when they are fat and they openly hit on some fit good-looking dude and then get surprised that they didn’t get a call back after they had, like, one conversation. The first one happens online, the second one happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:07 PM
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I don’t believe in equality between ugly people and pretty people when it comes to cold approaching, no. Because I’m sane and grounded in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:05 PM
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What does it have to do with equality? Unattractive men approach attractive women. His target is already higher than him in the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:58 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:57 PM
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Noooo I don’t believe that, men are allowed to like women who look good, it’s just that some men expect us to “look deeper into his soul and character” past bitch tits and beer belly. I know ugly people of both genders do this thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:57 PM
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I know, I meant to ask men. Why is it mistagged?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:53 PM
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Well he is treating me exactly the same, so what exactly is your point. If he goes around and objectifies women, he will receive the same treatment, and chances are he will not win this game. Don’t play games that you suck at. 🐸
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:18 PM
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Even if creepiness is correlated with looks… Well what the fuck did you think? I keep saying it on this sub: a lack of self-awareness in a unattractive dude is disturbing. The first possibility is that his apartment doesn’t have mirrors. The second possibility is that he is a socially clueless mentally ill fuck and that’s why he cold approaches girls. As you said, the style of the approach adds a whole another layer, if a guy doesn’t understand “I’m a lesbian” or “no” or “I’m uninterested” and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 04:33 AM
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Anybody who claims to hate the opposite sex just feels inadequate about themselves. Most of these men who say it can't even get a woman in order to dislike her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:59 AM
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There is probably as many households where a husband is unable to adequately pay the bills. A woman is almost always expected to put 40 hrs a week so that they can afford, you know, food. So until she doesn’t have to come home all exhausted and provide like a man I’d consider shutting the fuck up about not getting 🐱and about her not acting like a woman.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 11:51 PM
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a lot of questions, or things that you frame like questions. don't expect you to read it all. i know you are discussing this in good faith, wasn't necessarily addressed to you ​ So if attractiveness is relative, what makes most men so unattractive? Flip the question on its head. It's: what makes some men attractive? ​ Are attractive men so much more appealing that regular men can't compare? Regular man is attractive enough to get with a woman, because most men are with women. You mean attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:20 AM
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I don’t know what exactly you mean when you say dating. Going out on dates (conservative model)? Or with sex, exclusivity, cohabitation? If first, it depends on a girl, some are more selective with who they go out with, some are what TRP says all women are. If second, it’s an exchange in action. It’s way past the application and the background checks into the realm of a bank giving you the loan I think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:29 AM
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Dating is only an act of running a background check if a girl and a guy don’t have sex, don’t live together, aren’t exclusive, he takes girls out on his dime and sees which one he likes most by pitching in and seeing how much they are capable of expressing gratitude, and girls are looking at his provisioning, generosity, and nobody attaches expectations to going out. When they decide they like one another, they form a couple and do everything modern couples do. This is a conservative model of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:05 PM
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“Let’s assume it’s true” There is cases of sexual assault happening all the time. You say you not like that, OP? Fine, dawg. Let’s assume it’s true 🤓 To answer your question, your tik tok feed is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:53 PM
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Value isn’t attached to you like a post it note, it’s assigned to you by people who you are trying to market yourself to. If you are perceived as unattractive, then you are unattractive in absolute terms. In fact, there isn’t such thing as “being attractive in absolute terms”, because without a beholder you can’t tell your “absolute” attractiveness. Point, blank, period, the end. OP, you are splitting hairs. Now, is there some merit to whatever women are perceiving? Of course, otherwise they wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:36 PM
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This is just pure narcissism. When my friend told me my guy isn’t good looking enough for me and I could have found better I cut out communication with the friend, and I recommend that everybody does the same thing. Girl, who the fuck asked you? People are not taking a public vote on who fits some bar that they decide to set.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:22 PM
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I think it’s your personal problem. You might as well ask a bunch of degenerates that you call “the bois” where you are supposed to work and what car to drive, or maybe we should all take a public vote on your major life decisions. OP, you just admitted you aren’t man enough to go into the light with the woman that makes you feel good because you so desperately want to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:14 PM
1

No. Women are not equal, they are superior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:48 PM
1

And men are… ? Whining on Reddit all day, like you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:55 AM
1

What was your sentiment growing up? If a girl is taught to bend over backwards for men I don’t see how she can ever truly respect men, because she plays down constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:33 PM
1

Wall at 25 is more like a meme. But are they 30+ tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:46 PM
1

Then… Why are we arguing? It’s exactly the point I’m making. Dudes consider young girls better prospects for relationships and overlook women their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:43 PM
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There is people telling us that young girls are attracted to men in their 30s and 40s. I have no choice but believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:35 PM
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It’s not unpopular, nor is it a breakthrough discovery, OP: male threshold is harder to meet, but men have other thresholds that can make up for being unattractive. On top of it, on this sub we get reminded on a daily basis that we stop being attractive at 25/30/35 no matter what we do, so what’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:18 PM
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40 yo and 20 yo is precisely what we are talking about - people in two different stages of life. We aren’t talking about a 30 year old and a 35 year old. Well what do you think these men are going to be like? Of course if you offer women Ryan Goslings of the world, we’ll take them, but most people are born ugly and get even uglier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:03 PM
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When people claim their age gap love is sincere they are coping big time. They would never go for this guys broke equivalent. And they didn’t. Why did these women have to wait for a 30 something yo with bitcoin to come along? Leo’s girlfriend would not have to go as far as Hollywood to find a dude with a beer belly and bitch tits if it was all she was after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:34 PM
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I can’t believe the rest of the society is supposed to respect your human rights, you are so retarded. None of that are strawmen. You don’t know what the word means. If you guys were successful with college aged women, we wouldn’t have TRP. It happens, sure, but most 40 year old men have average IQ, average looks and average income. Chances are it’s not your story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:28 PM
1

What happened to all the women with degrees that this community shits on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:22 PM
4

You desperately want rich young women to fall in love with old dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:21 PM
3

Best argument against democracy. This is an average person who managed to get rich by winning a lotto. He votes at elections, and he has human rights, that the rest of us are supposed to respect. In China he supports CCP, in Russia he votes for Putin, in America he fucks college girls and claims that without his bitcoin he’d still be able to pull them. It’s so hard to be burdened with intelligence. I’m almost forced to search satisfaction in complex things, because most experiences that are clai…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:10 PM
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Implicitly. We get told on this sub on the daily basis how men gain leverage as they age if they have their shit together 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:04 PM
2

OP said this. Refuse to believe there is not a woman in your age range who is also fit and childless for a fit and childless guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:49 PM
2

Well it’s a pointless convo cuz I don’t have his pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:12 PM
1

No women are just better than other women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:12 PM
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At this point, who cares? How many girls will realistically say no to a guy with a six pack and 7 fig net worth? His problem at this point is not convincing that his weirdness is not a big deal, his problem is vetting them for somebody who isn’t predatory and malicious. The lifestyle he can provide - it’s crazy dude, there is much more beautiful feminine women that there is fit single millionaires. Even if he happens to be neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:51 AM
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If they are 6 foot tall, fit, rich and have sociopathic traits - the problem is that none of this is a roadblock on the way to sexy and dumb women. In fact, sociopathy will help them appeal to many girls with attachment issues or/female sociopathy. Even that shouldn’t be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:23 AM
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So do you not need one or getting a good one is a lottery? If you don’t need one why is any of that a problem in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:18 AM
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And men in the west are exactly the same. And women in the East? Are insufferable and selfish. And men in the East? You guessed it 💀 your sentence Carries 0 useful information
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:09 AM
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Because men unfortunately don’t leave for better legal options, it’s disproportionately paedophiles and coach Red Pills of the world. A normal dude doesn’t need to go as far as Brazil to get a normal woman. A normal woman doesn’t need to go to Brazil either to get with a good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:58 AM
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Can you explain to us why you think a man with your post history deserves anything besides some fat blue haired feminist? You are literally her male equivalent. Also, masculine cooperative fit men are entitled to enjoying their experiences with feminine fit women. Nobody is supposed to filter their happiness because some Jeremiah is unhappy with his options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:51 AM
1

we can have an abortion debate, but like, you'll get too emotional to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:25 AM
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As I said, you’ll probably have to bite the bullet on abortions, because you don’t understand the full implications of what you are saying. I’m fine with DNA tests by individuals, you should be able to DNA test your kids. I’m not okay with the state imposing this and taxpayers subsidizing it, and collecting genetic material and all. Sounds like some black mirror episode. How about everybody is responsible for who gets pregnant with whose kids in their households and doesn’t push it onto the rest…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:56 AM
1

Sex once or twice a week, everything on top I do for the guy. But I want some variety because I get bored fast of doing the same thing. I’d try anal, it just sounds like too much hustle and poop. He is more demanding when it comes to quantity, I am the one who whines “can we try blah”. Standard gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:34 AM
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Your complaint is fine, but your examples are bad. Paper abortions and abortions are not events of the same magnitude. I’m sorry but men will have to bite this bullet. Your choice ends when you put your penis in another human. Nothing about reproduction is going to be about equality. Why are taxpayers supposed to pay for that? It’s not in anybody’s interest besides yours. The society doesn’t care that you are raising kids that are not yours. Nothing about reproduction is about equality. I’ll giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:27 AM
8

No, but anime is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:22 AM
1

Even if you fucked up what is belting supposed to teach anybody? It’s not too far from dicking down your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:05 AM
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I would say it’s: half of the boys get treated worse than girls, half of them get treated better than girls, and girls are sandwiched in the middle. With a boy it seems like you’ll be either a scapegoat or a king, and a woman will not be beaten up but will be neglected. I don’t like conservative communities, and I think manosphere doesn’t exactly have an accurate perception of what patriarchy will mean. Tbf upper class white feminists don’t exactly understand what patriarchy truly means either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:00 AM
1

Sorry 🙁 this is horrible. your experience is orders of magnitude worse than mine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:24 PM
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It’s not the product of men’s creating either. Individuals respond to incentives and we have what we have. People want “equality” but if produces asymmetries of all kinds. Women will be believed and listened to when they claim victim hood, but they will also be treated more harshly and examined more closely when they exhibit leadership behavior or competence. This is what upsets me about this sub: people will focus on wherever their bias lands
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:52 PM
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I’m a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:48 PM
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Gotta be quicc 🤓 How is it random? You do realize your geographic area and the general orientation of your enterprise, and also frankly who exactly you pay attention to, are filters?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:47 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:40 PM
1

I hear ya. I don’t like it how you are turning it into a men vs. women. Things can suck for an average guy without it being anybody’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:37 PM
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Neither does your weird ass workplace, because in mine women present themselves like adults and are treated like adults 🤯 We are still at square 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:31 PM
2

Perhaps in todays America female misbehavior is just more common then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:28 PM
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Since when is YouTube or Twitter not a part of the real life? What do you mean by “real life”? Why are you putting boundaries around where we are going to count expression of destructive emotions per individual? Why did you arbitrarily draw a square around face to face interactions? Remember, we are not talking about outcomes of experiences, we are talking about experiences. I’ve seen men ragequit and be vaginas over not getting laid in real life, in fact, every woman enjoyed being a catalyst of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:26 PM
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You are so scientifically illiterate that I don’t even know where to start 🫢 Listen, if you have a claim to logic or rationality you should read how human mind works and crawl out of 16th century from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:17 PM
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I saw men being complete vaginas over Tates sex trafficking drama on YouTube and Twitter. I saw them ragequit conversations on this sub. I saw them having bursts of violence over a woman refusing to fuck them. I saw them yelling because a woman made a joke about them and giggled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:13 PM
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Until they get rejected by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:09 PM
-1

It means that many men have tunnel vision and many women have so much neurosis that they are unable to string a coherent sentence together. Every single one of you sucks. Except for me of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:07 PM
0

Look, I like you, but you are trying to have it every which way possible. First you said women are just there for validation, then you said women are just there for Chads. Can we not be all over the place? What do you think happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:03 PM
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I agree that it’s annoying that women get every excuse in the book and in the end of a day after the sexual revolution every woman should be expect to present herself like an adult human being and be treated like an adult human being. I dislike the infantilization of women that goes on, but instead of saying “you have a responsibility to manage your emotions and your dating life” men want to become women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:01 PM
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You seem to judge everything by white upper middle class America, where women do get to enjoy a lot of leeway. In conservative communities, men will have the upper hand and women are explained their role in life and household very quickly and abruptly. Shut the fuck up. Don’t interrupt men. Respect men. Men want you to be pretty and easy to get along with. You are hysterical. Don’t laugh at men. Don’t run around. Don’t let boys touch you. You are being a bitch. From the perspective of men 🤓 -
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:58 PM
3

What are you looking for from tinder, if you don’t mind me asking? Like, the ideal result?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:46 PM
1

I suggest that TRP tries its own medicine, called taking accountability. You have to look at this from the perspective of a mentally stable and fit woman that you guys allegedly want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:42 PM
2

Oh, so you are for real. Well nobody forced you to get on the dating apps, did they? If you feel like your time is being wasted by women - put it to other uses. What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:37 PM
1

I can’t tell whether it’s clever sarcasm or you are for real. If you are for real: I wouldn’t use dating apps, where non committal dildos who outnumber women, try to fucc these women with least amount of resistance possible. What did you think was going to happen when you get on an app and select women based on how quickly they are willing to put out and how high their arses are?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:36 PM
-1

I don’t know why I said that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:21 PM
-2

I can absolutely see how a woman from your country would want to get a blue passport even though she has all the rights in the world. Just a side note.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:12 PM
1

Then can we cut out all the bullshit reasons and get to the actual reason for why you’d want a foreigner, because if most passport bros met a woman who is fit and has her head screwed on straight they wouldn’t go to Brazil or China
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:10 PM
-2

Well, I can say “go for the ones who aren’t fat, broke or entitled”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:06 PM
1

Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:03 PM
-1

Btw, tinder is never a good example for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:58 PM
-4

Yeah, I know, I’m just providing an example of how charged and skewed his line of thinking sounds. We can say “bitches are entitled” or we can say “men are predatory and search for somebody with less leverage who can manipulate”, both standpoints are for people who have a chip on their shoulder. I’m not attacking anybody for marrying foreigners btw. I just don’t like it when it’s framed as somebody’s (feminism/bitches/the congress/single moms/birth control/alien reptiles) fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:55 PM
-1

Dude, and men are: neurotic, broke and go to hustlers university. Everybody is fucking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:38 PM
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There isn’t such thing as entitlement if you are happy to be alone, right? If you say “I need X to get into commitment or else I’m happy to do other things” it does not exactly reek of entitlement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:37 PM
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Well if I see a guy and decide that I like him I would not assume he is chronically single, right? Id assume he is attractive to every woman because I project my taste in men on every girl. If I was interested and he started telling me he is chronically single, I’d be cautious because I’d think there is something fishy about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:23 PM
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Objectively speaking - 🤓 You are trying to have a sophisticated point of view with a ✨twist ✨ on the subject that we as a society are collectively over with. Men are willing to pay for sex, all women know it. It doesn’t take a sophisticated mastermind to scam men out of resources that they are willing to share in the first place. I’m glad that golddiggers are attaining their goal, but you didn’t factor in that their goal is firstly modest and secondly dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:27 AM
1

Because you are being a male pick me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:42 PM
2

Also correct My sentence started with “if you want casual sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:10 PM
2

Yes, but I’m very much fluent. I thought it made sense. As soon as you started debating with me I realized how right you are and joined you on your side of the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:04 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:00 PM
1

As soon as you started arguing your opinion I walked around you and joined you on your side
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:56 PM
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Right, you because are so slick 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:40 PM
2

It also makes sense to be a McDonald’s worker - it doesn’t mean it should be a goal. I said it makes sense to be a golddigger because there is logic in it, a weak one, but there is one. No, you retard, just because it makes sense, for example, to be a college student, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t make sense not to enroll in college and get a job instead. It doesn’t logically follow dude. There is lots of avenues that make sense, and goldigging is far from best. A poor choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:41 PM
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That’s what’s even more concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:52 PM
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I mean, you posted your opinion on a public forum. 💀 You need to come up with something better than you are saying, because I demonstrated exactly where your logic can go. Any town bimbo can be a golddigger. The burden is on you to prove how golddiggers are intelligent, not on me to prove their lack of intelligence, and I’m afraid just describing why it technically makes sense to be a golddigger doesn’t cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:51 PM
2

Alright, you are right, there is at least 1 woman in the world who likes older men for older men and not older men’s wallets. I wouldn’t bank on “maybe there is 19 yo a hottie who likes grandpa dick for me when I’m 48”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:50 AM
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Me: humans like to have sex with conventionally attractive humans. You: women aren’t a monolith 😖 And I know men who duck other men in the ass. Why are we talking about this? Why is any of that a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:38 AM
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It’s like explaining the taste of strawberry or what color yellow looks like. I am not unattractive, but I dealt with the experience of men looking at me instrumentally. A man stringing along an unattractive woman for quick fucc is treating her instrumentally too. People with reasonable intelligence levels who don’t wear pink glasses just think everyone treats them like a means to some selfish goal, unless there is a serious reason to think otherwise. How women can tell that you are playing a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:07 AM
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I thought you’d give away all your life earnings for a marriage with no prenup, because you are that against the idea. I think your 1950s marriage format might lead to the very outcome of dependency and being locked in the commitment that you say you fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:42 AM
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I don’t know, he sounds pretty self aware to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:20 AM
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Well, they are depressed too. They see lack of commitments and good finances as a landscape for opportunity and freedom even though it sounds crazy and messed up, because they’ll never get another shot in life. And as a 30 year old man with solid income and (I assume) a marketable skill, you will. I don’t want to downplay it, sounds like your brain is creating a literal hell. But nothing is wrong with you, just your brain being glitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:20 AM
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Would you want to go to America before sexual revolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:05 AM
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I think OP is smart enough to recognize something got twisted up in his mind. None what you are saying is news.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:02 AM
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Well. You could want a divorce because something is wrong with you. Is it a possibility? Life is crazy, and there is a plenty of wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:43 AM
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Sociopaths will always do well. True for women too: dudes like somebody who puts out and is fun and adventurous in spite of what they tell us. Sociopathy isn’t the point, and impressing every guy/girl isn’t the goal. It’s the Macdonald’s of dating. On the other hand, being a traditional man who provides, or a traditional woman who doesn’t give out sex easily, is hard and creates roadblocks, maybe it’s supposed to be hard. Maybe it’s a test of how truly traditional you are? Like, will you continu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:34 AM
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How is this a personal attack? We all collectively decided that after writing the shit OP wrote she can, for example, get over somebody making a remark about her username.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:17 AM
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Excuse me my circlejerking, but I couldn’t agree more. people who advertise a lack of reciprocity or accountability, are saying something like: being blind is cool. You will not see, but seeing is burdensome. It creates the innate responsibility to surround yourself with beauty, and you have to function in the world en par with everyone else. In fact, let’s just all cut our eyes out and get rides everywhere 👻 instead of fixing a mess in my apartment, I’ll just pour some bleach into my eyes. I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:13 AM
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Just cut your feet off. Men will happily push the wheelchair around for sex. Men will do anything for sex. It’s so convenient to be pushed around in a wheelchair. Legs create the burden of having to walk everywhere. Why would you want to walk? It’s tiring and difficult. It makes you masculine. Traditional women form China and Korea would deform their feet, so that they can’t walk. Being carried around is smart. Watch tele novellas and get early onset dementia. Being dumb is delightful. It remove…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:02 AM
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💀 we all hang out in the same online spaces, TRP isn’t some insulated room where people get IDied. It’s the same as parents being convinced that their teenager knows nothing about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:52 AM
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When a dude offers you to take you the courthouse, chances are he doesn’t think of you as a piece of vagina he gets to use just now. Prenup also doesn’t have to be unfair to you: it can ensure that both parties are stepping out of marriage with something to rely on and probably removes the necessity to feed courts and hungry blight on the society that is divorce lawyers. These discussions aren’t necessary when things go well, when something goes south it’s better that everybody is protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:51 AM
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If only a few people can get it but everyone wants it, it’s a Lamborghini. The market dynamics creates value. Value isn’t attached to things like a post it note.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:39 AM
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Well a bad woman is more comparable to a meth addiction than an “okay” job, if we take into account the state of the divorce court, and the amount of destruction a neurotic chick can do, right. There is some men on this sub, they share experiences that are objectively horrible, I think they’d be better off paying a prostitute and jerking off than subjecting themselves to female narcissism. So I’m not convinced how: some male experiences with women are awful and need to be talked about, and “a pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:13 AM
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Believe it or not, the smart ones see through this shit. We hang out on the same forums, like trust me when I say: they know. This is part of the reason why women keep telling you guys that average woman’s dating experience is far from wonderful, on top of it there is women of color who tend to be treated, let’s just say, not well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:07 AM
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Wait, I thought the problem was getting “a woman”, not the Stacy. Yeah, attractive women are in a short supply. Snow is cold and sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:04 AM
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Good jobs are scarce. You have to be intelligent, competent, punctual and hard-working. You have to present yourself well. A nice job offer isn’t just going to end up in your mailbox. Therefore let’s get addicted to meth for short term hedonistic pleasure and manage the consequences. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:57 AM
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You better be rich
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:54 AM
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My recommendation would be: get over it. You get hard when you see hot rock and roll sociopathic chicks even if you have a god fearing church going sweet lady that men on here sweat up and down they want. Ç’est la vie. Here is why I’m better than every single one of you. Even if I get wet, I’ll have enough sense not to invite mess in my life and betray my commitments. Unlike men, women have a greater capacity for self-restraint, and I’m a master of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:51 AM
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I don’t know who Andrew Anglin is. Can somebody explain the logic in his tweet? How does marrying a guy and granting him an exclusive pass into your holes while you are young and tight in all places guarantee or help you and your grandkids obtain his love when you are old? Sounds like a scam to me, considering that the same people justify dicking around with young bimbos when they used up their main woman for childrearing. A rather humiliating experience for their main one, even if he swears up …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:40 AM
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Looks fade as you age, that’s precisely why women get degrees and jobs. But they don’t like it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:32 AM
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I don’t know dude. I am married to a man with a handsome salary, and I can’t imagine ejecting next 20 years of my life for a 1950s utopia. There is something crippling about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:22 AM
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Well, considering that TRP cries all the time about men being lonely and depressed, and I don’t want to make assumptions about you and your life, and I’m being generic in my statements, but judging by some of your rhetoric it’s probably going to be on you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:13 AM
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Good women are not lining up for anybody. It’s not supposed to be consistent. Good men aren’t just waltzing into some random Hannah’s life and taking responsibility associated with marrying her. Good women aren’t committing to some random Justin and carrying his children. We have a culture where both men and women grew up listening to so many fairy tales about how great they are. It’s like, “if buying a private jet was so easy I would not be a communist 😭😭😭”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:12 AM
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They aren’t good girls. They are neurotic, sheltered and naive idiots who waste their sexual resource brainlessly. Or perhaps they can’t find anything better? Or perhaps they prioritize fun BDSM sex? Or they lack self-respect? What does any of that have to do with being a good woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:07 AM
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The women who fuck them are exactly the women you punks try to avoid and say are toxic parasites and infantile bimbos incapable of self-restraint. There is a reason why God gave Adam brain - you guys need to learn how to use it when you say shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:03 AM
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The problem is TRP aren’t sociopathic, nor are they thugs. If it took TRP for you to become all rock and roll and Myron Gains told you to workout, you are just a neurotic weirdo - the school shooter type. Women don’t like neurotic weirdos. Women definitely don’t like neurotic weirdos with psychotic attitudes. Most TRP men better tone it the fuck down because this whole circlejerk doesn’t help anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:01 AM
1

Can I ask, what’s your plan when the woman you are with decides she wants to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:43 AM
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Sorry 💀 I didn’t mean to ruin your time on here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:32 AM
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I don’t like it when TRP people make their delusional agenda all about somebody other than their delusion. “Welfare of the child!1!1!!” Long story short, dudes want to pound young chicks. We got it. Unfortunately, the uterus is inside a woman, and a pussy is attached to her, so you can’t just make young women have babies when you see them as most fertile. I mean, you can, but I guarantee you the society that doesn’t care about women’s rights has no reason to care about your human rights. There i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:31 AM
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Oh, I see
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:28 AM
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Oh… 😂 that’s not interesting. I hoped you’d fight me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:26 AM
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Excuse me, but casual sex to dating life is what Lamborghini is to lifestyle. Just because some people fly around in a private jet doesn’t mean everybody is suddenly entitled to the experience. My recommendation would be to manage expectations. “Oh but I want to have casual sex with many beautiful women!” And I want live in a penthouse. And believe me, I suffer too. Let’s go cry a river. PS. If you want casual sex, money will easily pay for the experience, so even your assumption is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:23 AM
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Yesterdays news, napkin science, mainstream npc cookie-cutter shit. leftist feminist theory to academia is what TRP is to men. Toxically masculine rich Andrew Tates of the world will still get tons of women, and 35 year old beautiful financially successful women will still get tons of men. Every single person in this TRP and TBP space is coping hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:56 PM
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If you line up a pretty guy her age and a Leo, a nineteen year old beauty is only willing to fuck Leo on the condition that he is rich and connected. When we see pretty women with fifty year old broke truck drivers with extra pounds, ill join your side of the argument, but last time I checked the TRP community, a lot of these not model looking dudes are lonely and depressed. For now we will settle on the fact that some women are willing to trade exclusivity and sexual services for some form of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:41 PM
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But it would be the same as saying kind and caring men aren’t the most masculine men. I mean, very technically, correct, but being the most masculine is not the point, and impressing every (immature) woman in a ten mile radius isn’t the goal. Why would not women bring up Joe Rogans guests as an example? I feel like it’s a prime example, you don’t just get there by being a bimbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:31 PM
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🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:01 PM
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If you are into stand up, look at female comedians who are not Amy Schumer. I really like Christina, Tom Segura’s wife - she definitely knows how to put on a show and she presents herself as feminine. Also, any female guest on Joe Rogan will be intelligent, competent and charismatic - because this is how you get there. I think the most hilarious guest was mrs. Pat, though she is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:00 PM
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Your mom 🙃 amazing lady. Just kidding. Dumb question, dumb answer. What sort of response are you looking for? This chick Jessikate from my job and her friend Mariah, also lemme tell you about my roommate Gertrude. Like bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:50 PM
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Thanx 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:43 PM
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Wow, I’m sorry it happened to you. Im sure it’s not an experience anyone would want to add to their collection. I don’t know her, but if In her mind you are a poor choice, why would she continue spending her time on you, if she is such a kween and you aren’t desirable? I see pure repressed anger and neurosis behind every cHaRiSMaTiC asshole. Secure and strong people are the types to bring you cookies for Christmas, not diminish your self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:41 PM
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Plenty of people genuinely want to fuck old people, but very few genuinely want to fuck Leo’s of the world, right. Leo is disgusting, but he is rich, but remove money and clout - and we have a typical RP couch king. With no woman. Again, milf and dilf are a thing, but what the fuck does it have to do with Leo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:30 PM
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What does it have to do with being 35? If your complaint about 35 yo women is that they come in with a baggage, you shouldn’t commit yourself to any women. This 25 year old sweetheart, in 10 years she will be 35, and in 20 years she will be 45. If you are a RP king, you might be one of the source of trauma that she will accumulate and will dump on you. So, you are just offsetting the penalty. And forgive me about this assumption, and I don’t know anything about your convictions, but people who b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:27 PM
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Male delusion. Tell us how we all are socially conditioned to date boys our own age while in fact we crave all men’s dicks. Social conditioning didn’t stop us from exercising our selectivity through committing paternity fraud on masculine alphas with creative sociopaths, right? Women are absolutely attracted to twinks, are you kidding me. Have you seen how many bitches lose their shit at the sight of k pop? Pussy has hysterical seizures when they see pretty softboi musicians, while thin-lipped R…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:20 PM
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For the same reason why a woman with little self-worth tries to infantilize her spouse by reminding him that he ain’t shit, has a small dick, is stupid and incapable, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:11 PM
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RP men adore smart and funny women when smart and funny women use their smarts and their sense of humor to validate them. When smart and funny women do their own thing RP kings call them masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:09 PM
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It’s not that attractive women don’t feel like developing other attributes, it’s that all three qualities in one person are relatively rare, right. A few people feel like developing any attributes to begin with. How many people are actually intelligent? How many people are pretty? What if a woman who is intelligent and pretty also can fulfill her financial needs? If a beautiful woman hypothetically shows these men a tiny fraction of god forbid intelligence, competence or - horror! - sense of hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:06 PM
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No, I think they recognize the fact that women are smart or funny, or have a purpose that has nothing to do with them, and desperately want it to change. Otherwise they wouldn’t be talking about it so much, right. To me a lot of their rhetoric sounds like they are trying to convince themselves that women are beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:56 PM
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I can’t believe you have human rights
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:29 AM
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I’m too emotional to handle stupid with school teacher patience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:26 AM
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🥹👌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:30 PM
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I don’t have a chip on my shoulder with regards to any gender, so I don’t require one. You obviously do. So you do require one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:59 PM
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Dude what, I’m not your therapist wth. Take your neurosis elsewhere please
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:53 PM
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The kind of crazy that you, dear sarcastic commenter, associate with social awkwardness, is the best kind of crazy you’ll ever encounter. Nor is it the sort of crazy you need to worry about. The worst kind of crazy will be a very likable and respectable member of the community, but will molest his own kids or poke holes in condoms to give people HIV. Or, like the Indiana fertility doctor, he will use his own sperm on his patients instead of their husbands. The dude who raped the ever living fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:11 PM
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Employer John wants you to be socially smart and people oriented, wants you to be an excellent problem solver. Employer Steve puts emphasis on your hard work, technical skills and punctuality. What are you gonna do, go to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:40 PM
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Good analogy. Yeah, that makes total sense: if you lack brain wires to process the world of smells, it’s just chaotic pool of random information. We pretend we are these giant intellects but there is so much we can’t be receptive to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:04 PM
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So accurate 😂👌🏻 never knew this show existed, now I have to watch it The reason why ppl need to present evidence and quantify what they are talking about is because the way human mind recalls events and processes experiences is unbelievably unreliable. It’s also very skewed what people view as crazy, abusive, manipulative, evil, etc. Just so that people stop throwing hissy pissy fits - because guys on here are the definition of thick skin - I’ll make an example about women. Many women see string…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:54 PM
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I never said any of that but at least the chemical equation is balanced, so sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:06 PM
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😠 how dare are you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:43 AM
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Yeah, that’s exactly what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:41 AM
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It just is. I don’t know why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:39 AM
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Oh the sarcastic comment that does not carry any information but two clown emojis! 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:08 AM
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And as somebody who dates men, men do more toxic shit behind closed doors, when they think they have a girl in their back pocket and are in a position to get away with it. Pointless conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:56 AM
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I fucking know that they could be killers too, but it does not provide any evidence for the hypothesis “women are more maladjusted than men, because I’m friends with men”, you punk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:52 AM
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Honestly? I think It’s always stupidity before malice. They seem to not fully understand the degree to which women are vulnerable. Like they get the theory, but are bad at practical applications. Even our Jeremiah character, he is fully sure he isn’t some rapist, but he is oblivious towards the fact that having someone stronger than you ask you 500 times whether you want to have sex is horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:11 AM
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They all collectively say that both men and women suck as far as I heard, and they are right. But OP sucks the most, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:01 AM
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“Men are biologically wired to [blank] 🤓” Honestly men who say this shit need to only get harassed by a gay dude once to seriously reconsider their positions. And what’s more interesting is that the OP does not understand the nature of male psychosis even though he is a man - he is up for some form of PTSD when he discovers what’s out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:58 AM
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That’s hot. I’m straight but I don’t like anyone either, I don’t like men, and honestly I don’t like women that much either. But most importantly, I don’t like OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:47 AM
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“Who forced you? 😰 Jeremiah… He would never. He goes to church every Sunday. He isn’t some rapist. “
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:39 AM
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As long as he has hobbies and activities he enjoys, I think most women would not care what those are. A dude who is boring and ambivalent and walks around uninterested in everything will be a turn off. But again, I think it’s the same as for men, except men will entertain a boring bitch just long enough to put their dick in her, but everything that men find understimulating after you guys orgasm is what we find understimulating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:35 AM
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You are such a dudebro. By the way, just a side note, your perfectly adjusted and functional male friends could be literal pedophiles jerking off to kiddie porn and you are over here telling us they are sane people who’d never fuck over a fly let alone a woman. If you saw how much psychosis male brain houses you’d piss in your lululemons. You assume that crazy is always seen on the surface but the kind of crazy you can see is not the kind you need to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:23 AM
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“As a man who dates women, I only had negative experiences with women, therefore women are the maladjusted ones” 🤡 And as a woman who dates men, I insist that men are the socially weird ones. Where do we go from here, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:17 AM
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Sure, the men you are talking about still can’t just go and get a white collar job. These things are in a relatively short supply, and a ton of smart ambitious college kids who don’t jerk off to porn are desperate for one. The idea that a guy can just flip a switch in his brain and undue years of conditioning and bad habits and dicking around and rise like a phoenix from the ashes, and have a family at 50 is the biggest lie TRP ever sold. If they haven’t accumulated anything - realistically, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:55 PM
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Leftover men are leftover often because they can’t find a better job than uber, or they have to slave away at a construction site because it pays their bills It’s not that they are kings of the mountain in all areas of life besides tinder. They are above 45 years old, they have below average IQ, and they come from a background where they didn’t get an opportunity to get education. And this is unfortunate, but it has nothing to do with “leftover” men being able to get a white collar job. Like, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:44 PM
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If older men accumulate money and do well in life why are they “leftover” in your scenario? Those are two completely different things. Financially successful men are MGTOW, maybe, which is probably not true either. Why are CEOs mentioned in the post about leftover men? You realize many individual leftover men don’t just elect to work in construction when they could have taken an office job? What a word vomit. OP, sort out your thoughts and come back with something more coherent than this. We bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:37 PM
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Looks: fit Career: have an occupation and a skill Lifestyle: I don’t know what it means. Make as much as me or more I guess? Personality: This one ticks me off the most. Low intelligence and lack of self-awareness, usually goes together. People say social skills don’t matter but I’d say it’s irritating as fuck to have to deal with someone who doesn’t understand social cues, overstays their welcome, gets their feelings hurt, acts like a neurotic 13 year old bitch. I dislike men who add complexity…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:18 PM
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Good shape. Haircut that suits him. Nice facial features. Taller than me. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:14 PM
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Appearance, confidence (backed up by something), intelligence, generosity, self-respect. I’m attracted to men who know what they will not tolerate even for 🥹✨sex. Why? What do you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:36 AM
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That’s just, like, stupid. I’d probably shrug it off. If I listened to every opinion of my parents my head would explode. Somebody already said it and I’ll piggy back off of his words: it’s kind of sort of your responsibility for bringing somebody into your life and implicitly telling your parents that this is the person they’ll have to establish a family relationship with - they didn’t get to choose your partner for you, they worked with the material that you supplied. So the aftermath is the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:54 PM
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Competence and action. Everything else is junk around it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:49 PM
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True, but we shouldn’t do this with healthcare. Your body -> your choice -> your bank account
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:26 PM
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I see. I didn’t think about it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:25 PM
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Why? Wouldn’t you have to say that if a girl gets to choose in the unfortunate scenario of pregnancy, so should the guy? Sorry for being pesky just trying to see the perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:32 PM
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You are a good man, I hope everything goes well for you, OP. You are overestimating not exactly men, but people. We have hordes of welfare kweens and noncontributors who d rather smoke meth than work, meanwhile I have a seizure when I see how much is deducted from my paycheck. Not everybody puts emphasis on knowledge, discipline, hard work, or competence. Everybody who you d really want to stick around does, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:59 PM
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What do you think about financial abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:54 PM
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Wait what? I don’t see how you can hold these two opinions simultaneously. Can you guide me through it? If you see sex as consent aren’t we just bailing people out of their shut choices at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:26 PM
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I mean, what’s unfair about that? It’s nobody’s fault that a dude wasn’t blessed with looks but is trying to slide that d into strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:22 PM
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Side note: the same people who complain about women baby trapping dudes are also the people who hate the ever living fuck out of abortions and say things like “well sex is consent to having a kid”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:19 PM
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Well if a woman has 8s wanting to move in with her and get a puppy together, not just bang, she is an 8. Disregard everything I said about a 5 and 8 as obviously it doesn’t apply to your situation. Let’s assume an 8 gets willingly casually fucked by you. With regards to her own fault/responsibility: I agree, but guess what, it’s a separate branch of the conversation. I assume you, or your clone, is on a date with me telling me your sexual history, so I’m focused on you and not backlog of women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:19 AM
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Probably a woman that has good options other than you. You know it when you see it. Of course, I understand what you mean exactly. The problem is you are the calculating one, and you are feeding her idiocy. You are reaffirming this delusion by stringing her along far enough so that she agrees to sleep with you. Like, you both are selfish, but you are also holding the gun and are beating her full force. I’m merely explaining what somebody who i take seriously would and wouldn’t do. If your first …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:55 PM
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Not with selfish impulsive intentions, but it’s always going to be selfish and impulsive in this scenario not to be cynical or anything. If you see that you are Prince Charming, and the girl is eager to impress you because she doesn’t have a shot to keep you around - why are you doing this, just don’t do that. Just find somebody who has enough chips to negotiate with you full force. Let her go. There is enough misery in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:26 PM
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Of course, anybody can decide anything for whatever reason, but that’s why women care about body count. It’s not the body count per se, it’s the fact that you are knowingly taking advantage of other people’s weaknesses. Especially if you as a guy are an 8 and you fucked 5s, added to their sexually history and walked into the sunset - this isn’t even an even playing field, man you are punching so far down just because you are incapable of self-restraint, I don’t know how I can ever rely on this m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:19 PM
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The same problem as OF chicks. In your world you are using your leverage to scam women out of something valuable. You are exploiting people - perhaps not the brightest, not the best women, and perhaps they don’t see it as exploitation - but if you think women are valuable at their purest, you necessarily have to know that your actions are harmful and exploitative to them and still continue to do it. You are wasting women’s time. You are wasting your own time. I don’t have a guarantee you will no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:09 PM
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Quit being emotional it’s not that deep dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:36 PM
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OUCH 😣 dry spell or what? Chill the fuck out, we all are friends here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:35 PM
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All I heard is that what ifs are stupid - but this is the logic of non contributors who like to dick around and then complain when what if becomes is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:32 PM
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Do you have actually something of substance to say, or?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:36 PM
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Mm, no. It’s like: if you don’t like litter laying around… quit littering yourself. This will be a start of your pokemon evolution. “I will quit littering when I get a piece of land worthy of preserving” Even if hypothetically a person like that gets a clean apartment he will soon be sitting on top of pile of garbage in the puddle of his own urine, in a dumpster that he is so used to. He will recreate his natural habitat. Because he is a swine, and his nature is that of a swine. And if you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:45 PM
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The kind of women that you say you despise certainly do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:41 PM
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Of course, yes, that would be perfect, and I am capable of self restraint too in many ways. I understand it’s hard to find and appeal to someone sexually selective, and I’m sympathetic to people who improve themselves to get with this person. If they fucked around with barn animals they better not talk about these experiences as if they are better than and deserve a princess because they put their dick in swines and breathe air. I’m skeptical of men with a history of casual sex, but how they tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:28 PM
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NPCs. As someone who falls under their standard of ideal female behavior I wouldn’t look twice at a swine that sits around in the puddle of its own piss and complains there isn’t a willing ✨princess✨on the horizon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:32 PM
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Spoke about it with someone on here. The same as upper middle class socialists with a Starbucks cup in the left hand and a communist manifesto in the right hand. “If nobody is forced to operate by my standard, why should I?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:29 PM
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Oh that’s just, like, stupid. There is nothing you can do to shield yourself from stupid, I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:05 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:22 PM
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Lack of self-awareness. People who are in touch with reality look in the mirror and at their ID, and navigate dating landscape accordingly, because different standards apply depending on how much you offer. Weirdos don’t look in the mirror, but look at the hot twinks and say: “well if he can do it I should be able to as well”. Well, before modeling your dating strategy after his maybe you should compare all other aspects of you to aspects of him? It’s cringe as fuck when a middle aged idiot acts…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:24 AM
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Haha thanks for the award
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:02 PM
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Lol, thank you. *You will not get a chance with an attractive female who you didn’t bother to get to know as a person. And it’s normal and self-inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:39 PM
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On the bright side I am the loyalest female because it would be hard for me to even potentially find anybody I could fuck without puking my guts out. People are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:48 AM
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No, no joke, I’ll bully you mfs into rounds of therapy. Everybody wants to be approached by people they find appealing. It’s tautological. It’s like, of course I want to fuck people that I want to fuck, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:24 AM
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If you can only get with a 4 there is no eye opening knowledge that will help you hack your way through the dating game and get with an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:13 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:13 AM
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But I answered: I will not approach. Should a guy approach? it depends on whomst is approaching and whomst is being approached. Can a beautiful guy approach fit women in gyms? Absolutely. Can a middle aged weirdo with bitch tits approach fit women in gyms? I mean, free country, but he better not complain that people post him on tik tok and say he is a creep. Because he is a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:09 AM
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So everybody cries about guys being shit on by fit attractive women for trying to slide their dick, but excuse me, not every man should cold approach, and specifically not every man should cold approach beautiful chicks in fucking gyms. I understand that a tiny bra is a sexual signaling. Who said that this sexual signaling is for a 45 year old with bitch tits and a dad bod? I don’t want to approach. Not that I’m against it. It’s just like, why would I. I also don’t want to deal with unattractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:03 AM
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Honestly if men looked in the mirror it would provide the answer for all their questions. If you are cold approaching someone and you are not good looking, how is a woman supposed to evaluate you and based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:09 PM
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Provisioning is more of a male checkbox than it is imposed by women. Women will go for a homeless artist and a drug addicted sociopath, and will consider a guy who pays for their every meal and buys them jewelry a beta. Remember, AF BB
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:51 PM
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I would not even notice because I simply don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:45 PM
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You essentially told us you didn’t look good and didn’t do anything to appeal to women, sitting on your ass and hoping a princess comes along. At the same time, you had some delusional fantasies about women. Why would you be bitter? TRP taught you that women are people too and want to date someone good-looking too. Why is this a revelation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:43 PM
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I’m a liberal and believe in the freedom of individual. But it goes on both sides. That’s a fine perspective, but how are you complaining that beautiful women in the US don’t notice your… What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:18 AM
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If they whine that there isn’t a traditional god fearing men for them. OF girlies seem to be doing fine without traditional men tho. Literally everyone is happy except for men who buy nudes, so of course the burden of performance is on them here. Cuz they are complaining. The burden on whoever is whining. You are speaking on behalf of these men, trying to fish compassion out of me, so of course my next question is: what the fuck did they do to be so worthy of something better than what they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:07 AM
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No, it's true about both the man and the woman - you can always say that if either one of them dicked around, they are likely to continue to do so, but this commenter decided to insert himself with the word "slut", so here I am explaining that promiscuity only exists when both men and women provide positive reinforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:23 PM
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I understand why they are doing that, but it doesn’t change that fact that it’s an individuals responsibility to fix themselves before telling the world that it happens to be imperfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:11 PM
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You are allowed to call anybody anything, she calls the client a paypig and takes his cock, he calls her a piece of community cunt and hands her a bill, they both are sitting in the same dumpster and point fingers at each other. About help: and that’s a fine perspective if you want to help men, but if people who sit around in a pile of garbage cast judgments on their female roommates they are don’t want to be helped. They just want to have a narrative which justifies why it’s okay to pay for eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:09 PM
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You care enough to stay in this conversation, so please don’t go into a back and forth with me and then act all cool and independent, it’s cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:51 PM
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You were not 12 when you stopped tho, so some of your conscious adult life you spent reinforcing what feminists (apparently) told you to reinforce. You’ve done the damage and you don’t get to be a born again traditional man. It’s not your fault, but you and “sluts” are sitting around in the same dumpster. You look down upon porn actors, I look down upon you and porn actors. My condolences, IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:45 PM
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NPCs, slaves, obedient OF supporting simps don’t deserve anything better than this. If they went to church, hit the gym and restrained themselves we would have a conversation, for now I can recommend this cool thing, called making peace with circumstances and getting over themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:27 PM
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littered his entire life claims he will shame people who litter You are an NPC, your mentality is so slave like from start to finish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:24 PM
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How come conservative people accuse everybody on the left of telling a sob story, yet they turn around and become such fucking vaginas when they talk about systemic struggles people of their kind experience? The provider of a $6.99 might have decided to prostitute herself because all the boys in college are looking for the exact same thing only, but for free, and leave her when she puts out. Chicken and egg. Her client is broken, she is broken, but her client for some reason feels morally superi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:11 PM
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Probably I’d give it a shot, but if I ever hear any complaining about the state of the modern women/dating market, or anything TRP related, or any religious virtue signaling, I’ll lose my respect for him. Sex work has nothing to do with it. I am pretty forgiving, we all have sinned. But one thing I hate in people is the kind of person who ✨litters ✨ and then complains there is litter laying around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:39 PM
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The same men who say they feel this way spent their twenties handing 6.99 over to a OF content creator to see her tits, thus reinforcing the phenomena they will later complain about when they search for somebody to settle down with. I’m not against a guy watching porn. I’m not against a guy paying a stripper. Fuck it, I don’t care if he hired an escort. I’m against a guy who has done all these things and complains there is not an array of available tradwives to pick from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:36 PM
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Yes, it does. I'm confused why they act this way. To me, a guy who is above in every metric taking me out is a red flag, and dragging him into my life would be the last thing on the table. My first thought would be that he is Ted Bundy, or a tinder swindler, or that something else is seriously wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:21 AM
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unless the man suffers from some sort of split-personality disorder, there is no way that they could harbor both contradictions at the same time. Have you seen humans? They can harbor twenty different contradiction at the same time, and they won't even notice it until they face a situation where A comes in conflict with B and they are forced to untie the knot, until then opinions will exist in the form of this quantum duality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:10 AM
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If you are the kind of outlier who absolutely needs women to "TELL THE TRUTH!1!" you are absolutely not the kind of guy who I will be providing a free self-reflecting session for. Meditate or look in the mirror, I heard shrooms will grant an eye-opening knowledge about yourself, IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:51 AM
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How is this a contradiction? People have different levels of sensitivity when they screen for different things. Women are far better at detecting insecurity than they are at detecting dangerously predatory behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:36 AM
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I'm actually with TRP on this one. I would say it's a particular kind of woman that gets with an abusive guy. Not everybody will fall for him, not everybody will tolerate him, not everybody will swallow insults and get married just because he asked her to. Most importantly, the guy you described - the one who is great at hiding his bullshit - will never target somebody who he sees as inconvenient and difficult to manipulate. A predator sees his victim. And funny enough TRP often instructs women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:30 AM
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This. Ugly guy in my DMs is the same stuck up motherfucker as the pretty guy in my DMs, but without the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:17 AM
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OP, why are you going out with somebody you see as below you? Are you a charity? Guide me through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:16 AM
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Objection: coping. Attractiveness can be maintained for a long time because we don't live in stone age and everything a person needs for sustaining their looks is available at fingertips or by avoiding bad choices, that's why I simply don't believe that men on here will turn down a beautiful woman because she is 32. But nobody peaks at 40, if we are talking about sex as oppose to playing house.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:10 AM
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