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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege" actually they would be if women displayed it as men do. They absolutely wouldn't be. To have random women comment on your body and how horny you're making them, or come up with sexual suggestions, is something a majority of men dream about. Like I mentioned in the other thread, I've had it happen a few times and it felt great. I know that's difficult for you to understand, since male and female sexuality are so different, but many of the comments you consider gross or rude, men will find positiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 01:49 PM
2	Men want all the upside of being women without any downsides and call it "female privilege" Usually it's specific parts of the female experience, parts that women detest, that men are envious of. I made this case in an older thread - that men would enjoy being sexually harassed or even sexually assaulted by women. Men aren't disgusted by female sexual attention the way women are by male sexual attention. So we often simply disagree on what a "downside" is. Men simply bring less to the table (in general), and that's why they are ones who are more interested. Men don't demand as much as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/26 11:49 AM
3	Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it? Women like being wanted in the way that they want men, which is with all of the personality traits and feelings involved. I think you hit the nail on the head here. Similarly, men like being wanted in the way that they want women. This is why a comment that would be seen as gross or objectifying to a woman, would be a massive compliment to a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 10:57 AM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Do they? The sentiment I've gauged from men who've had vasectomies is basically: "I wanted this for myself and I'm happy/unhappy with the result."	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 03:40 PM
0	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Again, you're presenting this as an act of martyrdom. i am the one expected to endure... Who is expecting this? Your phrasing is really strange to me. Now, if a woman is pressured into having children by her husband or her family, then your argument makes a lot more sense. In my experience though, from talking to female friends and relatives of mine (so my examples might all be exceptions), it is actually the woman who brought up the idea of having children, and insisted on it to her partner. Yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 12:17 AM
1	Women here keep doubting (or feigning ignorance) about the acceptability of virulent misandry in mainstream feminism, so here's a feminist YouTuber/Substacker/Podcaster who advocates forced vasectomies for young boys Just letting men know, them having a vasectomy is easier than their wife giving birth again or having her tubes tied and hey, if you want her to be happy and still want sex, then maybe a vasectomy is a good idea. But you're acting as if childbirth is a service done to men, by women. As if women are having children against their will to please their husbands. In reality, though, the vast majority of mothers in modern society wanted to have children, so it's strange to hold that decision as levera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/26 10:05 PM
3	Where are all the straight women!? This thread is hilarious. 80-90 % of the responses are just women refusing to admit they're bisexual or bicurious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 08:12 PM
3	Men don't like to talk about their issues, but they do like to hijack conversation when women raise theirs. But it is false. The existence of MRA subs, websites and spaces contradict your claim. I'd even argue that popular male content creators like Asmongold talk about men's issues. It might not be the issues you want men to talk about (I'm sure it's not), but that doesn't change the nature of the issues. This is the problem with using imprecise language and weasel words - I can provide just as broad counterexamples and your claim is invalidated. I already addressed the "hijacking" in my example, whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:57 PM
8	Men don't like to talk about their issues, but they do like to hijack conversation when women raise theirs. This immediately strikes me as incorrect. The first part of your statement is of course false: men do like to talk about their issues. This sub, the MRA sub etc. are full of examples. The second part, about "hijacking" conversation, is quite sneaky. You say you "post about men's issues and men are simply unable to talk about them". But what you categorize as "men's issues" are not issues specific to men. They are issues that are possibly just as common among women. And I've never seen you suppor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 10:04 AM
–	Men love and respect pick mes If you find yourself thinking of your relationship as "hard work", it's probably time to leave that relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 09:38 AM
–	Men love and respect pick mes I think you're confusing what you, and women in general, find attractive in men with what men themselves want. Speaking as a man, having to work and perform to "earn" a woman's affection is neither fulfilling nor fun - it's exhausting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 09:27 AM
10	If many women say you are a total catch but won’t date you, the harsh truth is that they are lying to you. Had to scroll way too far down for this (correct) answer. It's the same thing as "the bar is in hell". These women aren't lying - they're simply skipping over the initial (high) bar. Being kind, supportive and dependable is not going to be enough for the vast majority of women to find a man attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 03:10 PM
1	“Men would love to be sexually objectified” Absolutely. Sometimes yes, sometimes no, right? No, no, I'm underestimating it at all. Sexual harassment against women is a massive issue that should be taken seriously and fought against. I'm just trying to make the case that men and women are different, and some situations that women find inappropriate, or even disgusting, men would find desirable. So I can simultaneously hold these two beliefs: Women's concerns regarding sexual harassment are valid and should not be minimized. If my former bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 01:23 PM
5	“Men would love to be sexually objectified” Because I think the change to your statement should be "sometimes yes, sometimes no". Your original belief was very broad, and I feel like we've discovered three cases where you're incorrect. I can name more if you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 11:59 AM
7	“Men would love to be sexually objectified” My point exactly. And to be clear, there's nothing wrong with you wanting that. I'm only pointing out that men and women, generally speaking, are different in this regard. Hopefully this will change your mind on the topic. You did label this thread "debate" after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 10:49 AM
9	“Men would love to be sexually objectified” Like I said, male and female sexuality are different. That doesn't mean, of course, that you should randomly grab people without their consent. No, that would be inappropriate for the work environment. You didn't respond to my example with the date by the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 10:31 AM
7	“Men would love to be sexually objectified” Even if a woman is attracted enough to go on a date with a man, she will find it gross if he gives her a blatant sexual compliment. Or maybe you would appreciate that? A man will not react the same way. I've had a woman comment on my ass (and have had my ass grabbed as well) at a club. Felt pretty good. I doubt most women would enjoy that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 10:04 AM
10	“Men would love to be sexually objectified” Let's test this: go on a date with a man and end with giving him a blatant sexually appreciative comment. I'll do same but with a woman. Which one of us do you think will be called a creep or a pervert? The answer is yes, men do enjoy being sexually objectified to a much greater extent than women do. I've been sexually objectified a few times and I felt great about it. It's difficult for women to understand because male and female sexuality are different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 08:37 AM
2	Younger women are just more attractive. I don't know about this... As someone who has gone back to university in my early 30s, the young women who come straight from high school really look like little girls to me. They're not ugly or anything, but I feel women my age have more womanly features (unsurprisingly) that I'm attracted to. And I'm talking purely sexually now. Let's not get into emotional maturity and compatibility in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 09:43 AM
1	The best relationships are when the women likes him more No, that's incredibly toxic. FDS promotes the same theory from the woman's perspective and both are equally horrible. It's fun to do debates online, but please don't bring the gender war into your real life relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 06:11 PM
–	Do you think you understand female dating perspective? I'd be riding this high wave for months XD Hahah, your first reaction should be to check where the hidden camera is. All jokes aside, I don't think it's too much at all. If a woman is that into me (and that horny) it bodes well for a future relationship. I kind of disagree about the last part. In my experience expressing attraction is not only accepted but necessary, as long as it's done in an appropriate way. What's irritating, to me, is that it is solely the man's job to do all this. It's actu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 12:54 PM
1	Instead of generalizing an entire gender, just admit you have a type and you’re annoyed with your type’s flaws. Surprisingly nuanced post. Especially for this sub. What's your evidence for these women being these men's "type" though? Because I don't think these men are specifically attracted to the women you're talking about. I think their standards are generally pretty low (you would probably call them desperate). Specifically when they talk about women loving bad boys, felons, even serial killers….. anyone who has actually gotten to know those women know theyre shallow/dysfunctional. Yes, this is accura…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 11:58 AM
2	Would you be a Single Father That’s a good point. I didn’t consider the woman feeling that kind of “moral trauma” from an abortion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 07:06 PM
2	Would you be a Single Father Regarding living in a red state. Yes, I still think adoption is the best way to go. While true, giving birth sounds just as scary and traumatic to be honest. I asked a family member the other day about her experience giving birth, and what she told me sounded absolutely awful. It’s one of the main reasons why I’m pro-abortion. Forcing women to give birth is just not what I think a decent society should do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 06:59 PM
1	Would you be a Single Father I can see two scenarios: The woman decides to go through with the pregnancy, completely disregarding my wishes or feelings, and then decides she ultimately doesn’t want the child either. In this scenario, I’m giving the baby up for adoption. The two of us wanted to have children but after giving birth the woman completely changes her mind and wants nothing to do with neither me nor the child. Here, I would of course raise the child on my own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 06:47 PM
8	Do you think you understand female dating perspective? It’s a good question. I think I understand the (general) female perspective decently well and I can sympathize with women’s concerns and troubles when it comes to dating. When it comes to empathy, though, I honestly think I can only empathize with parts of women’s experiences. For example, I can empathize with the feeling of being unsafe. A friend of mine told me about one time where a man asked her out while she was taking the bus home. She turned him down, and he proceeded to sit down on the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/26 03:05 PM
4	Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men. Yeah, it’s phrased in a schizoid kind of way. But basically, she’s trying to make the case that men who complain about women only wanting bad boys are themselves not good people. So what those men really want is not that women should go for “good men”, but that women should go for them specifically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 09:41 PM
2	Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men. Have you actually visited an engineering college? Those "undesirable" women get much more attention from men than undesirable men get from women. You're just reaffirming the false belief that unattractive men are picky (which studies already contradict).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 06:07 PM
2	Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm. Actually... I might be misunderstanding you. Would you say "settling" and "compromising" are the same thing? I don't need the last word, but I am curious now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 11:50 PM
3	Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm. It definitionally does. Someone who is picky with who they date wouldn't date below their standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 10:09 PM
5	Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm. And you're conflating "dating" with "not dating". Clearly, men are more willing to compromise on attractiveness than women are, making them less picky with who they date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 09:57 PM
3	Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm. That's by definition not picky. Being picky would mean refusing to date someone below your high standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 09:44 PM
–	Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm. I think it's the other way around. According to OP, men are just as picky as women. The study u/Gold_Sheepherder6569 posted shows us that average-looking women, which OP claims belong to the 80 % who men don't pick, still were able to find male partners. The main difference in what men and women find attractive is that men value looks and women value extraversion (traditional masculine traits like boldness and confidence). And since we also have studies showing that men who score high in extrave…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 07:04 PM
1	Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great. Right. I'm probably missing something here. You said: "There are just not many [attractive?], good men to choose from." and "Most men are perfectly normal, decent people." Is there a difference between being "good" and being "decent"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 02:24 PM
1	Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great. Well, yeah. Being a good person doesn't automatically make you an attractive person. Does anyone disagree with that? I'm curious to see the responses. Also, men and women want different things from a partner. So a man might try and apply his own standards onto other men, not realizing that women are attracted to other things than what he himself values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:36 PM
1	You’re not a good person just because you proclaim so. Guys here cant explain how the guy was in the wrong: https://youtube.com/shorts/_ke-Ep2Gu1E?si=6AwBGhA8ofF0NacJ That's pretty obvious, no? Performative cruelty is kind of the antithesis to being a good person. I think most men on this sub understand that. Though it's interesting that two women didn't pop their balloons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 12:14 PM
2	Men created the “high maintenance woman” they complain about While true, those numbers are practically carried by the category of "Women: 40+" (which includes women in their 60s and beyond). If you look at the age group 18-39, you see a much more balanced distribution: 67 % of single men are looking. 61 % of single women are looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/26 08:21 AM