| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 156 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i start | Fundamentals | Some_Cat3514 | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 02:13 AM |
| 17 | 29M. Never dated. | Fundamentals | Some_Cat3514 | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Meet women in NYC | Logistics | Some_Cat3514 | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 09:07 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Building a small group of motivated nyc wingsCan i join? | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 03:41 PM |
| 1 | 29M. Never dated.I'm not exact sure why that happens though. I mainly post stock stuffs | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 03:12 AM |
| 1 | 29M. Never dated.Thank you. Do you have any recommendations? | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Seeking Wings in NYC - Great LogisticsHey I live in Queens. And I'm beginner. Can I join you? | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Anyone in nyc looking for someone to take action withI'm down | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Guys who find hookups easyIt's the same. It basically tells you to look sexy and being playful. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Guys who find hookups easyYou might want to read atomic attraction. It tells all the actionable items | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 11:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm devastated and hopelessI can see why your relationship failed and why you are not getting the results. All your values and validation seems to come from your ex. I'm only attractive men if I have her or some hot chicks. | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Concept of bringing value instead of taking value.I don't understand this thing. Have you asked yourself. Do you enjoy the conversation? If not why would you want to do that? Is because she has a pussy? Would you talk to her if she's ugly? Come on. | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Dating coaches - David MeessenNo. Bro. Try Atomic Attraction. Implement this shit. And the model. You need to take action to upgrade yourself. Face the insecurity. | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 03:03 AM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of advice about conversation but I'm confused which one is rightJust like how you make a friend. And how you talk to a friend. That's all. Something you both enjoying | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 02:58 AM |
| 2 | struggling as 25 yo guyWhy do you want to keep the conversation going? Just hold a conversation like you would normally with dudes. You are trying to make connection with a person. Right? What you want is to find someone that likes you and you like. Let me ask you a question. Is your happiness and self respect less than a pussy? With all the effort you invested in yourself? Put your happiness first but don't be a dick. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Getting An Ex Back?Bro. I think you should give yourself some respect. All she wants is an emotional tampon. Are you ok being her backup. Come on. Be honest with yourself. And what does she still love you matters? She likes you because you are amazing. So what about her? If it didn't work out first time and it wouldn't work out second time so why wasting the time? Can't you get a better women? I would choose my dignity and sanity over some loving me. If you don't fucking love yourself, nobody will. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | The theory on "Non-neediness" in practiceWhat about just fall back a bit. Like you just having good time and enjoying your life. And she's a good accompany? If you guys are enjoying each other then we good. If not, that's fine too. She is good to have so do you. Remember you also have the right to choose. Does it matters if she's a 100 and don't give you fuck? What else can she offer | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 12:15 AM |
| 4 | Losing relationship because I can’t communicate, I need helpYou did what you could. If someone doesn't value the way you are. That's just means you guys are not compatible. That's all. It's a good thing that you guys are not wasting each others time | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | So many scam coaches out there- ThesingleguyThe only dating advice you would needed is reading atomic attraction and models. You insecurity is the root cause of everything. Starting eating healthy and workout. And just talk to random people. Sooner or later, I will realize that you are fearful for nothing but the fear itself. Self love is what you really needed. You don't really need any pickup lines or whatever. All you needed is just being yourself. Stop selling you own happiness for pussies. Make yourself happy. | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 04:35 AM |
| 1 | I find dating extremely exhausting and confusingYou need to enjoy and have fun yourself. Remember, you are doing it for yourself. If she's not adding value into your life. If she's fun to be with then you guys are not compatible. | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startThanks | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI'm tired of being mr. Mice guy. I'm looking for recommendation on activities not your comment. I'm just being who I am. If haters want to hate it. I'm fine with it. And I don't really want to waste my time on it. I'm more intellectual capable than you to know what works best for me as I have always know. If you think so just don't be around with me tbh. I'm looking for mutual respect and helpful comments. All of yours, has not value to me. It appears to me that you are the one with no value to … | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 04:16 AM |
| 1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startQueens | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI think this is by far the best advice given. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 03:55 AM |
| 2 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startWell. I didn't have time before. Now that I'm very good at what I'm doing. Now I work from home doing 4 hour of work. So I got lots of time for myself. And that make me thinking what I'm lacking of. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startUgly girls that don't take care of themselves. 'm trying to expand my pool. So collecting different ways that would help. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 09:13 PM |
| 3 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startCold approach? | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI'm trying to go out more but I'm not sure where do I start. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:56 AM |
| 2 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startWhat did you do? | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:54 AM |
| 2 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startTaking vacation and geographic arbitrage to upgrade myself. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:49 AM |
| 1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI have done it in many places. It was great first, but I want something more than just that. So I started my journey. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:46 AM |
| 2 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI went. And did get a few matches | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 10:45 AM |
| 4 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI can't. There are ugly girls wants to date me. But I don't want to waste time with them. My pool of selection is too small. And I'm trying to increase it. At the end of the day, it's a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 05:24 AM |
| 15 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startThanks. You are right. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 05:19 AM |
| 1 | How much of a difference does money actually make?I think it's not really about money per se. But with moneyx you have can take better care of yourself. You have the time to workout. To do cosmetics procedures and whatnot to improve your looks. You can have more interesting experiences of your life. You have more time and you can go places. Building attraction requires time and money. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 04:46 AM |
| 6 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startIt's called having standard. Managing life, right. I'm very proud of what I have done with my life and the achievement that I accomplished. I need friends but I don't want to be around with dumb ass losers. I want to be able retire at 35. Enjoy my life travelling around the world instead of struggling with money. I have spent lots of effort, time to get into where I am. That's something I'm very proud of. If you don't know how to respect others, just better keep your mouth shut. I can be making … | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 04:34 AM |
| 0 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startThank you. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 04:23 AM |
| -2 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startYes. So I just registered tinder. I switched my location to Saigon and Bangkok for my trip in September. I have been collecting and talking to multiple of them. But while I'm in nyc, I would like to know if there are so good way for me to break the ice? To meet more. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI don't have issue in that front. I go to soi 6 in Thailand. After all I have done to improve myself, I went on a few speed dating events, and few girls did ask me out. But they are just too ugly and some of them are weird as hell. I really don't want to waste my time on them. I would rather spend it on improving my life. I have came so far. And I deserves someone that deserves me. The only issue with me is that I don't know how to be social. I don't know where to meet them while I enjoy myself. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 04:11 AM |
| 8 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startWell. I do agree that social life that where I am lacking. But having a life, a successful career and financially stable is way more important. I think it's more about mutual interest. I don't please people, and I can do that because I made it in my life. I don't want to be with someone ugly and fat girls so I worked on myself to be fit and handsome. I do have girls likes me and going all the way for me. But I have standards. I need someone that deserves me. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 04:02 AM |
| 34 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI'm pretty comfortable with talking to women. I just don't know how to meet them. I'm not that outgoing. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 03:51 AM |
| -6 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startWell. I did. I fuck different hookers from different countries. I have no problem talking to women. But I just don't know how to meet them. I'm pretty lonely. I pretty much just home and gym. I just have to meet them. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 03:49 AM |
| 5 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startBar really isn't my thing though. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 02:29 AM |
| 8 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startIt's very frustrating that I have achieved so much. I have poured to 10k in medical spa. Fucking losing 90lbs. I'm going to Thailand to do it gain. It drove me nuts. I know I'm good enough but I'm lacking exposure to women. I feel like a loser. And I have missed out too much. Maybe it's too late for me. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 02:27 AM |
| 20 | 28 never dated. No social life. Where do i startI don't go out. And I don't know where to go. I have spent most of my life on my financial and self improvement stuffs. Staying home all dayz it's dessert itself. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Using money to upgrade my dating lifeHere is the thing. If I were you, I would fly to south Korea to do the styling, clothes, dentist, skin care and professional photoshooting. Or maybe Vietnam. The best way and fastest way to improve your skin is through medical produedures like lasier and micro neddling. I have done procedures in sk for 1000 dollar which would cost me almost 10k in the state. The labor cost is a lot cheaper in Asia. Speaking of confidence issue, I had a lots of confidence issue because I was overweighted and ugly… | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 07:37 PM |
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