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Freaky girls are fun. In a literal sense, you were saying "It's okay that you are bad at kissing." This revealed that you were willing to settle because you don't have other options. It would be better to not respond to this comment, set up to meet again (the only thing you should EVER do over text), and then kiss her next time. If she opens up then, say something like "That's more like it." Reward her for good behavior, don't settle for bad behavior. You also told her that you were the type of …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:48 PM
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If she doesn't finish packing in time, or "accidentally" leaves some of her stuff behind, offer to ship it to her. It will be worth paying for shipping to get her out of your life, but you could also bill her if it is excessive. In that situation, trash it if she is unwilling to pay for shipping herself.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 07:17 PM
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It sounds to me like OP is doing what you outline here (sending her away as soon as possible while cutting her off emotionally in the meantime.) I agree that this is the best approach.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 07:14 PM
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You can't guarantee that she cheated whatsoever. I have seen men give girls flowers on first dates, or worse, to friends that they were getting absolutely nothing from. Orbiters give gifts all the time. I am not this girl's sponsor and I am not your buddy. The girl should be kicked out, but considering she has no money and is far from home, some time to get her shit arranged is appropriate. OP displays masculinity by doing the rational thing instead of giving into his emotions like you recommend…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:13 PM
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There's no need for that; in fact, your response is overly emotional. OP said she has a ticket out at the end of the week, what's wrong with that? OP is not so weak that his wittle broken heart can't even handle her mere presence...that's beta talk. With no conclusive evidence of cheating, a few weeks for her to get her affairs in order before leaving is very reasonable. Plus OP gets to enjoy seeing her go crazy when he's gaming other girls right in front of her.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:00 PM
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You mentioned that you've never been in a relationship. It may be time to give this a try. How can a girl become attracted to who you really are if you do not give her a chance to meet that person?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 05:33 AM
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i think its boils down to the fact she has moved away, long distance almost never works and OP has said himself that he wasnt the best and could treat her like shit. Was it long distance? OP indicated they were living together since seven or eight months ago. I didn't see anything about the relationship being long distance. holding frame and all is good but i personally think RP needs to adapt when it comes to long term relationships, you hoestly think a woman woudld stick around with a guy that…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:55 AM
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By sixteen, a girl has all the life experience she needs to be a good wife and mother. Many are ready even earlier. The success of a marriage really comes down to the man. It is up to him to find the right kind of woman, then to keep her that way. What happened here was 100% OP's fault. The girl sensed he had become weak and shit-tested accordingly. Her doubts were confirmed, and so she's off to find a more suitable partner. It is both wise and responsible of her to do this before settling down …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 12:00 AM
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You are right, I was using the term "unicorn" incorrectly. Thanks for pointing that out!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:51 PM
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I am sorry for your loss. When she said she couldn't take it anymore two nights ago, you really blew that shit test by begging her to stay. Remember, this girl fell in love with you when you were emotionally unavailable. Starting to open up over the past few weeks was you changing into someone she could not love. That is the real reason she is leaving. Begging for her to stay was you confirming her suspicions by revealing how emotionally dependent you are on her. If you have not already, now is …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 10:20 PM
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