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so those men have nothing to do with the women complaining about being used for sex. I dont understand what you are trying to imply
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:56 AM
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pigs will fly before that happens. 8 billion people in the world, a man with a high body count is bound to sleep with someone again and again and again and again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:39 PM
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because if you show me one woman who cares about a mans promiscuity, I can show you 20 that don't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:32 PM
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you'd be surprised how many women do that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:11 PM
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your situation does not apply to the original question in the slightest. you aren't dating to find another boyfriend you are dating to find a sex partner, which isn't the same thing as dating to find a boyfriend while sleeping with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:50 PM
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"not the most attractive" is not the same as "not attractive" the only reason we dont end up dating the "hot sluts" is because they personalities arent that great most the time. we will sleep with any women we find even moderately attractive but it's the ones that have great personalites that we end up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:10 PM
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but have you slept with other men on the side while dating someone? this is where some women are inconsistent. they will sleep with someone that they dont see as relationship material with ease while holding off on men that they see as relationship material even if both are sexually attractive. it's not bad for them to hold off, but sleeping with other men during that time is just scummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:01 PM
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you can ask any woman on this sub if she would like to trade places with a man and get no attention good or bad and I guarantee she would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:32 PM
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my bad my bad. I just did a quick glance at the last part I agree that women do enjoy attention from good men, but if you ask them if they would trade in that attention in order to get creepy men to keep away from them, I guarantee they would. and if you ask a man that gets no attention if he would trade that in for good women and creepy women giving him attention I guarantee he also would
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:48 AM
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I said creepy, not insane
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:46 AM
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you're focusing on what the creepy guys want instead of what the women don't want they don't want the attention from creepy men. Men would be fine with getting attention from creepy women. those are the things I was comparing in my analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:23 AM

it'a "forced" because women that want to mind their business get bothered by creepy dudes. it's not about the sex it's about the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:22 AM
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you would think it was, but you can't seem to give an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:48 AM
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so you are telling me these guys lie about being good guys, and yet after multiple experiences, you still haven't been able to spot it? I'm pretty sure that's just a YOU problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:45 AM
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you use google to answer questions about yourself? I think I see the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:42 AM
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so then we are back to why you keep choosing men that lie. seems you should be able to spot it with enough experience. so why do you keep picking shitty men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:40 AM
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so then there is an incentive to choose the nice guy over the shitty guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:37 AM
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so when a majority of the men you pick are shitty what does that say about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:34 AM
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so then why choose them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:31 AM
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so then why complain about shitty guys that you go out of your way to choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:55 AM

it's an experience issue if a starving person sees a person forced to eat food and the person forced to eat the food thinks it's absolutely disgusting. the person eating the food will think, "He would absolutely hate this if he experienced it," and the person starving will think, "They'd absolutely hate this if they experienced it" in reality, they'd both like to switch situations and if they did, they'd absolutely love it but probably not forever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:11 AM
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think of it like this. there is a guy using you as a bootycall. you want to date him, but he says he wants to wait a little longer and just be fwb because he really wants to get to know you first. meanwhile, he has been taking tons of other women on dates that he has never slept with, but they are casual dates with women he doesn't want a relationship with. which one do you think he is putting on a pedestal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:02 AM
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about 65% according to statistics 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:54 PM
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"I am tired of being used for sex" "then don't have sex?" "not until men stop wanting it" this is the most hilarious self-destructive logic I have ever seen 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:44 PM
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but most modern men aren't complaining about being used for sex. just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:42 PM
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I find it funny that you have apparently been following my comment history to jump to the conclusions that I don't tell them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:13 AM
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why don't you tell it to them? what's the difference between me telling it to this person and someone in the "manosphere"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:30 AM
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I don't care about no "wall" I say whoever you are keep your standards as high as you want just don't complain about their being a lack of options and start calling all men pigs or all women sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:19 AM
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that's fine if you are not comfortable being single but some of us that have been is shitty or lackluster relationships before and realized how unrewarding they are compared to being single would prefer staying by ourselves rather than being with someone we don't want just so we arent alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:20 PM
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it's still an issue because you both view sex very differently. ask yourself, would you have sex with a virgin? if the answer is no, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:23 AM
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it depends. You people probably date complete strangers while I have only dated people I have talked to for months or even years. I don't just think someone is attractive and say to myself "I am going to date her." I have to get to know her before the thought of dating even comes to my head but I will choose to hookup with people based on their looks alone. I know who doesn't sleep around and who does because people like to gossip. I am not going to stop dating someone solely based on their body…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:39 AM
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extremely my car wasn't working once, and she wanted me to pay for an Uber to come and see her instead of working on my car, so that I had it for work once the weekend ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:48 PM
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extremely my car wasn't working once, and she wanted me to pay for an Uber to come and see her instead of working on my car, so that I had it for work once the weekend ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:48 PM
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extremely my car wasn't working once, and she wanted me to pay for an Uber to come and see her instead of working on my car, so that I had it for work once the weekend ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:47 PM
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holy shit this is true. they are annoying as hell and terrible in bed. I have learned my lesson and prefer a woman that at the very least, has had sex with one person and has had atleast 1 or 2 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:45 PM
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holy shit this is true. they are annoying as hell and terrible in bed. I have learned my lesson and prefer a woman that at the very least, has had sex with one person and has had atleast 1 or 2 relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:45 PM
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that's definitely untrue I am more willing to date a woman for atleast a year before having sex if she is a virgin or months if she has a low body count and has only had sex in relationships, while if I know a woman has had ONS and hookups and we havent had sex by the 2nd or 3rd date I am going to assume she is using me for attention, free food, or someone to just talk to, so I won't ask for a another and I will move on to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:22 PM
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I can see that, but I was more putting "low body count" and "virgin" in the same category and comparing that to dating someone with a high or above average body count. which is where I don't think someone should lower their standard because how you both view sex is fundamental to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:31 PM
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doesn't matter. if you lower your standards in order to easily find a partner, you are just gonna be unhappy with what you got or, in other words, settling creates unhappy relationships doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:22 PM
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why even say the last part, though, what does it matter if it's less likely? people shouldn't lower their standards because it's "less likely" thats how you end up in relationships that are doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:15 PM
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