SomewhereOrdinary231 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
151	Some Feminist honestly believe misandry doesn’t exist	discussion	SomewhereOrdinary231	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/07/26 03:58 AM
126	Banned from abusive relationship group	discussion	SomewhereOrdinary231	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 09:45 AM
97	And they wonder why a lot of men are afraid to talk to them in person	social media	SomewhereOrdinary231	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 01:01 AM
44	My experience as a male abuse survivor	personal	SomewhereOrdinary231	/r/EverydayMisandry	15/07/26 06:50 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	The Body Count Discourse Is An Anti-Male Distraction From Real Issues I said correlation doesn’t equal causation. And that after you filter out the women I’m referring to, it comes down to the man’s preference, but a majority of men would still be uncomfortable doing that because of the paternity issues. It’s biology and you can’t change that, it’s how we’re wired. There are some that wouldn’t care but that’s not majority. All I’m saying. And what that man would be okay with, what a high body count is, it’s subjective, I’ve been told my number is unrealistic and i…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/07/26 02:39 AM
7	The Body Count Discourse Is An Anti-Male Distraction From Real Issues No, that’s why I continued to repeat the traits that she had. Those specific traits aren’t exclusive to those disorders. There are normal women who have those same exact traits. Those women tend to have higher body counts. Do they make up all promiscuous women? No, BUT they are definitely there and worth filtering out. After that it depends on the man but like someone else mentioned to you there’s also biological and paternity reasons why most men have a problem with their woman having a promisc…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/07/26 02:24 AM
7	The Body Count Discourse Is An Anti-Male Distraction From Real Issues He’s got a point, for example my ex gf was abusive, she had BPD. I don’t know if you what that is so I’m just gonna explain it. BPD is one of the 4 cluster B personality disorders, with NPD, ASPD, and histrionic personality disorder. People in this category CRAVE attention, external validation, and to be wanted by others. My ex gf not only abused me severely, but she even cheated on me as well. She was a mix of BPD with NPD and ASPD. She actually has a history of cheating, and is a serial cheate…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/07/26 02:06 AM
13	The Body Count Discourse Is An Anti-Male Distraction From Real Issues I agree, in the grand scheme of things, when it comes to all our other problems, it’s probably at the bottom of the list of importance. BUT I will say when it comes to picking a life partner it should be considered because the traits that sometimes can correlate with a woman’s promiscuity can sometimes be what lead to our other problems. Family courts because of paternity issues, divorce, suicide, depression and mental health etc.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/07/26 07:27 PM
21	Terrible mother Most terrifying thing are the comments, a bunch of women AND men, agreeing with her. One guy said “as a man, this is fine”	/r/EverydayMisandry	23/07/26 09:25 PM
3	“Safe Spaces” = “Bigotry Encouraged Zone”. I agree, at least while she heals, I even shared the post with chat gpt and it acknowledged that she’s clearly hurting but there were some things she said that really concerned it. When the guy responded she just said it was a good example of male entitlement, and a bunch of other stuff that you could use to tell that she’s heavily into that radical feminist stuff. She told him “you didn’t message me so that I could reject it if I wanted to” which I can see why she would want that because that’s…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/07/26 11:35 AM
18	“Safe Spaces” = “Bigotry Encouraged Zone”. There was a post I saw on a feminist page the other day where the OP, who was a women who’d unfortunately been in 2 different relationships with men who abused her severely, and she wanted a “safe space” from men who say they’ve been abused by women because her two abusers claimed that had happened to them before they abused her. A man who obviously hesitated to comment but still did because he wanted to help basically told her that she was valid to feel the way she felt and he understood becaus…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/07/26 10:25 PM
6	Some Feminist honestly believe misandry doesn’t exist I saw that, they were stunned, also it’s crazy how this bleeds into AI, I remember one time I was trying to talk to chat gpt about the findings of that study and it said “this doesn’t prove anything about misandry in the USA because this study was done in the UK” I was like it’s a known fact that western anglosphere culture heavily mirror each other, like we all the same cultural issues and problems, we just all sound different when we speak English and have different accents….stop tryna act lik…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/07/26 09:17 PM
5	Some Feminist honestly believe misandry doesn’t exist It’s like people have trouble holding nuance, especially when that nuance challenges their identity. If their identity is that of a permanent victim and you see the other group as an oppressor and you truly believe this it’s IMPOSSIBLE for you to then be able to believe that maybe we oppress that other group too no matter how hateful we can sometimes be towards them. If someone corners with their own logic this inability to hold two conflicting beliefs and understand nuance makes them visibly un…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/07/26 05:04 PM
3	Man vs. Bear: an analysis Oh nah yeah I understand that size doesn’t correlate whatsoever to fighting ability. Been training long enough to see that time and time again, plus I’m an amateur Muay Thai fighter and Muay Thai specializes in Close quarters, and my boxing is probably my best attribute to my Muay Thai cause I’ve been told that several times by people I train with, BUT like you said if those big guys grab you and your not the best in the clinch?(im OKAY in it but the clinch is probably my weak point at the momen…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/07/26 04:05 PM
5	Man vs. Bear: an analysis Literally what happened, like the original post just said “guy tried talking to me and he asked me “do you always look this nice” I replied with “do you always put such little effort into your appearance?” He looked shocked and slithered away. ALL it said. Implies bro just tried a normal approach. She literally wouldn’t have elaborated had we not came at the fact that she could’ve way kinder to bro because we were assuming that’s all that happened because that’s the only info she gave in the pos…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/07/26 08:25 AM
59	What Are The Worst Cases Of Misandry You’ve Seen In The Horror Genre? Men, the movie that came out in 2022. Like every single male character is played by the same actor and they all show different elements of what feminists would have you believe is toxic masculinity. Honestly movies are great way to show misandry is a lot more casual and so lowkey exposed in the daily diet of every westerner that we don’t even know we’re getting it if we don’t know what to look for	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/07/26 05:32 AM
8	Man vs. Bear: an analysis Another good example, I saw on a feminist forum the other day some woman had a man try and cold approach her and she snapped at him and embarrassed him according to her story. This is all she said in her initial post but after people were asking her why she had to be so mean she elaborated 3 days later and said he did say some creepy things to her….she only elaborated after people questioned her because what she said in the initial post made her look like she just wanted to embarrass him. But a …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/07/26 04:47 AM
5	Man vs. Bear: an analysis A lot of women kind of just pile onto trends they see online without identifying with them. I know this because I have friends in different countries, both men amd women and I see their ig stories. Bears actually don’t exist in every country(I didn’t know this lmao, I only learned this when speaking with my foreign female friends). However this didn’t even stop some of them from piling on to the man vs bear trend. I asked them if they had ever seen a bear before and they told me no because they …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/07/26 04:38 AM
4	Why I believe AI will amplify the left's mistakes Well mine does acknowledge double standards but it’ll do it in a way that makes me feel bad for noticing it almost, like I was wrong to point it out and be annoyed by it💀	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/07/26 08:10 PM
12	And they wonder why a lot of men are afraid to talk to them in person Deadass, I thought I was the only one that peeped, the ego on her man…that man dodged a bullet…this is why they say if a woman rejects you don’t take it personal because rejection is just redirection from what was bad for you	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 05:12 PM
4	And they wonder why a lot of men are afraid to talk to them in person This is true	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 11:35 AM
17	Why I believe AI will amplify the left's mistakes I’ve noticed this too with chat gpt. Mine will actually sometimes offer pushback to me but I’ve noticed it will lie if I say something that we know to be true and it’ll try and invalidate my claims by saying it’s just my experience and we can’t generalize even if I say a fact, if it implies that women aren’t like perfect	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/07/26 11:05 AM
36	And they wonder why a lot of men are afraid to talk to them in person She edited the post overnight and was like “I’m attractive so I can tell when men actually want to get to know me right away, anyone who is derailing and centering the comment on the male experience will be blocked and reported, etc.” Like bro….the whole point of pushback was to get you to see just because a man comes to speak to you doesn’t mean you have to be rude if you don’t like him back. I literally didn’t disagree with anything else they said in the comments. Feminist are headaches I swea…	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 10:59 AM
23	And they wonder why a lot of men are afraid to talk to them in person The OP literally edited the comment and said anyone trying to derail the convo and center it to the male experience will be reported and blocked…all for basically agreeing with their right to reject men but saying that there’s no need to be rude to people just because you don’t want their attention…you can’t make this shit up bro😭and nah I didn’t get banned yet but I probably will because they apparently been reporting the comment I made about Elliot Rodger when I wasn’t tryna promote hate. They…	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 10:55 AM
13	And they wonder why a lot of men are afraid to talk to them in person They literally reported my comment lmao, yeah they aren’t good people,definitely hate men bro	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 10:46 AM
13	And they wonder why a lot of men are afraid to talk to them in person Quite literally, they want to complain about incels but then don’t seem to see that by brutally destroying a man for trying to talk to you you may be fast tracking that man into becoming an incel himself by making him depressed, giving him low self esteem, and making him go find answers about his perceived situation.like why hurt that man instead of giving him a firm but polite no, and sending him on his way with his confidence intact so he can still go approach the woman that may say yes? They …	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 06:49 AM
1	My experience as a male abuse survivor Fucking disgusting these women are that act like this, and we’re in a time where they’re extremely dangerous because they have so much places to hide since we’re the focus of every bad discussion in society at the moment. They’re lethal asf. Like if I have a son I honestly don’t want to raise him here, we don’t address female bad behavior so they run rampant unchecked and then the good women don’t correct them because women don’t speak up about things especially when it pertains to themselves an…	/r/EverydayMisandry	19/07/26 01:39 AM
19	Am I nuts or is this some eugenics bs? I’m glad she mentioned TWD because it’s been my favorite show since its inception! Let’s get into it! For context I don’t even watch tv much but I’m a BIG zombie fan, I’m currently on my third rewatch of the show and will be getting into the spinoff series as well. Her claim is men show their nature. She missed the point of the show severely, and Robert Kirkman would be highly upset. The following is a list of female villians in the main show that caused multiple deaths: Alpha, Dawn, Pamela, Lea…	/r/EverydayMisandry	17/07/26 07:06 AM
4	I think Leftists might be responsible for the rise of Manosphere You called it a shit take I’m still waiting on you to answer the question for what I should’ve done instead	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/07/26 12:42 AM
2	My experience as a male abuse survivor Thank you so much! It’s interesting you’ve noticed too that so many of the men you meet that have stories similar to mine are on the autism spectrum because it honestly is a thing. Like they look at us like prey or something I guess because our social skills aren’t the greatest and we tend to not notice things that neurotypical people would. My social skills are actually a lot better than most would think, but I still lack in some areas and I guess she definitely saw those and exploited them. Al…	/r/EverydayMisandry	16/07/26 10:43 PM
4	I think Leftists might be responsible for the rise of Manosphere The democrats literally didn’t have a candidate bro lmao what did you expect majority of the country to do?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/07/26 10:01 PM
3	I think Leftists might be responsible for the rise of Manosphere Literally contradict themselves every time they open up their mouths to speak and they don’t seem to understand it. And thanks to trumps shenanigans with Iran I won’t be voting for him again so it’s either I vote blue in 28 or I sit out and watch, a lot of people are in my same position so I’m pretty sure dems will get power again in 2028 so they’re gonna get renewed strength	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/07/26 03:21 PM
8	I think Leftists might be responsible for the rise of Manosphere As a moderate man who voted for Biden in 2020 and Trump in 2024 this is exactly what it is and I’ve tried explaining it to people on the left but they are so far up their own asses they won’t listen. All 3 of your points I see even more so on a daily bases towards myself. Women and men of the left both haven’t been very empathetic about my recent history of abuse from my last relationship when I’ve tried opening up about it. Each time I’ve had my experiences completely dismissed, I’ve had people…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/07/26 02:28 AM
53	"Misogyny of male suicide" I was actually in that thread, I encourage you to visit it because some fascinating shit happened. I literally was like “that’s just abuse , mental health issues and manipulation, my bpd ex gf used to do things like this regularly. She threatened one time during our relationship that she would kill herself if I didn’t find find her rabbit that SHE lost. In her first relationship, her ex got tired of the constant abuse from her so he cut her off and when she got in contact with him, she proceeded…	/r/EverydayMisandry	13/07/26 07:18 PM
2	Criticizing Feminism = Misogyny They say all these in reverse💀	/r/EverydayMisandry	13/07/26 03:07 PM
44	Is it just me who hates when people talk about rapists/sex offenders and automatically default to referring to them as male? As someone who’s ex gf was and still is highly abusive I REALLY hate when they do this with abusers as well, like I get the reasoning behind it but at the same time that exact reasoning is why I believe toxic women are especially dangerous nowadays because if all the attention is on screwed up men, you give women like her PERFECT cover to hide and continue to do what they do.	/r/EverydayMisandry	08/07/26 02:57 PM
9	The movie Obsession (2026) Has United Opposite Sides of the Culture War — For All the Wrong Reasons To your point about Nikki’s feelings being left vague for Bear in the movie the creator of the movie actually did an interview I believe and it’s on YouTube. I saw it a few weeks back. Nikki did like Bear. So the creator was going more for the theme of shoot your shot because you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. But feminists got a hold of the movie and are basically saying “no, THIS is what it’s REALLY about”	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/06/26 07:51 PM
1	MEN ARE THE OPPRESSED GENDER I agree with pretty much every point you made,however if you do research on feminism there’s a reason why it gets such a bad rep. Its founders were very openly anti male. They’ve been quoted to have wanted to destroy the nuclear family, wanted revenge on men, etc. Margaret Sandler was racist as hell and created planned parenthood to basically only target black communities and the babies. Its origins aren’t as bright as people like to pretend it is. I understand the goal a lot of people in modern…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/06/26 07:27 AM
1	MEN ARE THE OPPRESSED GENDER Wait what do you mean?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/26 06:19 PM
1	MEN ARE THE OPPRESSED GENDER I most definitely do understand your point, people who are actually abused deserve that understanding, I think what OP was getting at is people completely look over abuse when the male isn’t the perpetrator which is crazy because female vs male abuse is like almost exactly the same if not worse than the amount of male on female abuse because let’s not forget those are the men who actually reported	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/26 05:58 PM
1	Banned from abusive relationship group BPD and NPD are both cluster b disorders. Depending on the individual all cluster b disorders bleed into each other. My ex like I said was diagnosed bpd and she at least had narc traits if it wasn’t full on comorbidity. But when you hurt her ego and she felt like she needed to destroy you and she split on you? She started to act more like a sociopath according to chat gpt lmao. Some of the more borderline evil things my ex did to me you could argue are more sociopath like. All the cluster B diso…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/26 05:38 AM
1	Banned from abusive relationship group This seems like the best way to do it if you don’t want to go through the frustration of dating apps	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/26 06:02 PM
3	Banned from abusive relationship group Well the thing about abusive relationships is like I believe a good majority of them aren’t one sided, so we don’t know what happened. It could’ve been two sided. Also you have to consider if amber heard truly was of the cluster b those videos you saw could’ve been reactive abuse. Those aren’t the same. My ex did that to me actually. After I was discarded I did a forensic analysis on our relationship and realized we didn’t even actually have any real problems. So to get me to act crazy she had t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/26 05:50 PM
1	Banned from abusive relationship group I don’t do very well on dating apps, I get matches here and there but they mostly never lead to anything. Bunch of time wasters really, I’ve had hookups off of tinder yes but my point is the type of woman I want is hard to get on dating apps. Diamonds in the rough exist both on online and real world dating but I just have better luck in person cause I have charisma that can’t really be shown through text sadly. I’m not the most exciting texter lmao. But I’m gonna just take the approach you said …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 11:37 PM
2	Banned from abusive relationship group Thanks man, yeah I’m kinda coming to terms with the fact that it might really take a long time to find someone because the current dating market is so full of emotionally immature people both men and women and then people don’t want to take accountability for their bad behavior so if they’re traumatized they’d rather bleed on others than to take responsibility for their own shit and be alone like my ex….smh….i saw an interesting study that actually said online dating actually is a cesspool for p…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 09:10 PM
2	Banned from abusive relationship group I know, you got any tips on how to get back out there? Especially when dating is so bad now? I was gonna try finding women in my areas of interest. Like hobbies etc. That way rapport can be built naturally and it’s not forced because I enjoy doing those things already and it’s more genuine. Cold approaching doesn’t really work much because people are so hesitant to talk to strangers nowadays. I remember one time I told a girl at a park in broad daylight she had a nice shirt and she looked at me …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 08:01 PM
3	Banned from abusive relationship group I’ve actually never tried seeing what’s in that sub, thanks for the suggestion lmao I’m gonna go check them out	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 12:58 PM
8	Banned from abusive relationship group It’s cause they don’t actually care lmao they don’t have empathy because they constantly walk around with a victim mindset. When you put yourself as the victim 24/7 you can literally convince yourself that the group that’s “oppressing you” are inhumane and you deserve revenge. And you can literally shut off your empathy. Thats what we’re seeing here with men. What’s crazy is if you took the same treatment that we get in society and put it on any other group, people would immediately say treating…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 12:58 PM
8	Banned from abusive relationship group I literally didn’t though! That’s the thing lmao I mostly come in here and just read now, I’ve gotten to the point where I’m over my own experiences so I no longer really need to talk about what happened to me and no longer really need people to listen. I still have trauma and trust issues yes and I’m still fucked up from it but I know that those issues will get fixed to mostly 100% as I date more honest trust worthy women and do a better job filtering like I want to. I have nothing but love in …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 12:53 PM
6	Banned from abusive relationship group Stalking you on subs completely unrelated? That shits scary….gives off abusive energy too…like imagine wanting to control someone so much that you are willing to settle for it being online having never even met the person. You’ll just settle for stalking them everywhere and monitoring their posts and online activity. Shits creepy	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 10:56 AM
13	Banned from abusive relationship group Lmao what’s crazy is didn’t amber heard have bpd too? Pretty sure defense attorney said she had it or something….looks like my point still stands	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 10:53 AM
9	Banned from abusive relationship group You speaking nothing but facts, I got in trouble with them too for trying to point out that certain abusive personality types like my ex or anyone else in the cluster b family will often rewrite the narrative after they discard you at the end of the relationship and blame you for everything. Paint you out to be a demon, etc. So that they can secure their next supply and still look innocent and for that we shouldn’t just automatically believe people when they say they’ve been abused. Unfortunatel…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 10:37 AM
26	Banned from abusive relationship group More than likely, however nothing misogynistic was even said, that’s the thing, like they clearly want a group for both men and women to come together that were victims of abuse, I’ll give them that part but the minute you bring up the truth about abuse and how even though it happens to women more, women are pretty much just as bad when it comes to being the aggressor now all of a sudden you’re being misogynistic? Another interesting story I thought of just now, one time on that same sub I got i…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 10:26 AM
17	Dear Men and Boys: Happy Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month ❤️ As someone who was a victim of an abusive relationship a year ago and was severely depressed and suicidal this really warmed my heart🙏🏾I’m much better now but I still have depressive episodes randomly when I think about what was done to me, self esteem issues as well and I’m just trying to get back to 100% myself.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 09:49 AM
26	MEN ARE THE OPPRESSED GENDER Same, ex gf was diagnosed bpd either narcisstic traits. She abused me in every way possible, cheated, and the dessert was a discard coupled with false rape and domestic abuse allegations. Over a year ago and the trust I have towards people specifically women im not gonna lie has dropped severely in comparison to what it was before meeting my ex. I still judge by individual behavior but it’s hard to unsee in just about every woman out there traits my ex had so I’m just fucking scared to put mysel…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/05/26 01:50 AM
3	Experience as a (left-wing) male victim of domestic abuse (by a woman) Went through something very similar literally a year ago to the day. Ex gf was diagnosed BPD with narcissistic and anti social traits. Much like your situation she was a completely different person when we met and she was actually upfront and honest with me about her condition. However she wasn’t upfront with me about where our relationship would inevitably end up so I didn’t think anything of it when I was looking up BPD and saw all the toxic coping mechanisms they have. Worse experience of my …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/05/26 12:27 PM
10	Man I still can’t believe how acceptable misandry is This is actually a solid observation though cause they say that men are becoming more conservative while women becoming more progressive but really what it is is men have actually not moved at all and women are going further and further to the left. This has been shown. I’m more of a moderate now but I used to be a die hard leftie until I started peeping this stuff you seeing now. Next step is you’ll start to see that even women that are center left more so still have harmful beliefs about men t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/05/26 02:24 PM