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| -1 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimThen why put yourself in a situation where you know that's a danger when you get drunk? Just don't do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claim"Protect me from my own stupidity which I know is inevitably a potential consequence of me putting myself in this situation and getting drunk" I've stopped friends from drunk driving many times, and eventually trained them out of being in those situations to begin with, but I myself don't put myself in a situation (when sober) where I know myself drunk driving is a possibility. I get all the supplies I need and then I stay home or somewhere I know I have a place to crash and then I get pissed, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:36 PM |
| -3 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimIt's happened to me, a girl who was into me and making out with me (I made no effort to get with her, she started making out with me) ended up having her friends pull her away from me scornfuly (as if I had done something wrong?) because they didn't know me and didn't trust me. There is an element of safety and looking out for one another that can't be denied, but if you approach a woman in a group setting it will almost always be the least attractive of the group that will try to intervene, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 02:54 PM |
| – | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimSo she was essentially saying she desired that attention and interaction from a man but her superego told you don't let her do it? Sounds like someone who is abdicating themselves of personal responsibility in spite of what it is that their id wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | what is a high value man?The biggest player in my high-school was fuck ugly and totally unathletic, just had insane charisma. | /r/seduction | 01/06/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Advice on girlfriendDon't paint by numbers, just hold your form. There is nothing wrong with being deeply in love with a woman and displaying tenderness, in fact you should fully feel your feelings, just make sure that your purpose is always your priority and not her, and every day make a conscious effort to stay connected to the masculine presence inside you, everything else with flow organically from that. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Use spirituality to make girls attracted to you!But... You didn't make a move? The girl was attracted to you because you were being authentic and talking about something you were interested in, you didn't capitalize on the situation and now you want to turn it into some kind of gimmick so you can do it again? Smh. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Alright I need some advice.If a woman offers to suck your dick and then doesn't suck you dick because you said yes, that isn't your fucking problem dude and clearly you are overthinking things way too much. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Any of you guys do TRT? Has it changed your game, confidence?I would ask about this is one of the testosterone related subs, frankly I don't think most guys here will understand what you are talking about. From what I have heard from other men it can greatly increase your libido and make you more sexually aggressive, as well as which in general if you have low T and go on replacement therapy you will become more confident and relaxed. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Alright I need some advice..... Bro I mean I wouldn't worry about it too much, but you really should strike while the iron is hot whenever you have the opportunity. That aside don't worry about what she says, I've had women say stuff like that to me before and still hooked up with them, people don't really know what they want and it's really nobody's business but yours whether or not you've had sex before. Also PS if you cum quickly then ffs do not apologize for it, at the very most just laugh it off and tell her to give … | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Is Android a turn off?This seems like an incredibly stupid thing to fixate on. If it comes up then just make a joke out of it, she is probably just teasing you anyway and if she's serious then she's probably an idiot. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:41 AM |
| 2 | If A Girl Constantly Stares, Does She Want You To Make The First Move?Could be any reason she is staring at you but the most likely one is that she is interested in you, learn to trust your instincts. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:34 AM |
| 0 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.I specifically said that the OP cited ONE anecdotal example, I didn't say I had one tinder date and therefore it works, my experience is demonstration of a repeatable process, and it's frankly preposterous to say that I "got lucky" that many times, luck is always a part of meeting girls but if there is no output or learning by you involved then you will almost never get any luck, and if the opposite is true then obviously you will get lucky more often. I do sympathize with the experience of men … | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentI don't think you don't really understand the concept of an "inner child". Your inner child is confident and carefree, like all children are until they are stifled by the world, their parents, teacher and peers at school. They are taught to be ashamed of themselves and not to express themselves freely, which is where most of these insecurities stem from and those insecurities tend to motivate the behaviours which compound the issues and create a negative cycle (poor lifestyle, lack of self-care … | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Girls dance with me then ignore meGirls do not want to be slut-shamed, and girls slut-shame each other more than anyone else. I wouldn't generally advise it because you have to be confident enough to pull it off and do it in a somewhat playful way, but you should just pick the girl up over your shoulder or wrap your arms around her and swing her away from the other girl and yell at the would-be cock blocker "She's mine! Stay back!". The reason the girl ignores you after is because she has been reminded that her friends are obser… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:59 AM |
| 2 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeYou are right, but this isn't really advice, it's more like stating a fact and it offers nothing to men who are socially inept and insecure. This 'advice' is tantamount to the old "just be yourself" line, most people who are looking for help will hear that and think "what the fuck are you talking about?" | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeI agree, shit like this belongs on the rest of reddit where the groupthink is. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | PSA: Just saw a barely 6 swiping left on dudes who are like 8’s. Guys don’t put stock into dating apps.This is nonsense, I have met 30-40 women off of tinder and bumble and the date has almost always gone well and I'm not super good-looking, I swipe left on '9s and 10s' all the time because they're just not my type or I know we wouldn't get along. Tinder is a game and just because you don't know how to play it well doesn't mean it's broken, not to mention which you literally just picked one anecdotal example and concocted a defeatist mindset about the app as a whole. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Feeling lost and defeatedScored plenty of chicks without so much as buying them a drink, money may represent value but it is not value itself, the mindset that you can only get women with money will only afford you a certain type of woman. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:08 PM |
| 7 | How to play itThere are plenty of girls out there who are single, stop wasting your time and potentially causing yourself a shitload of unnecessary stress. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Not interested in average women. Hot women out of my leagueHonestly, you don't even know what you like, and you'd be surprised how much more attracted you are to someone when you actually get to know them a bit and establish a connection. To be more cynical, if you aren't willing to aim low at first then you'll never be capable of shooting high. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Does oral sex(or more specifically face-f***ing count)?Why do you even care? | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | I often get dates from Tinder but these dates never lead anywhere. Desperate to know what I'm doing wrong.I've slept with almost every single tinder date I've had on the first night, I don't put my hand between their legs when we're out in public, we go home first. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Hot ig model lives on a different continent, is it worth?Just don't spend money on her. Or on women in general, ever. Obviously changes things a little bit if you're in a relationship, but I never even buy a girl drinks when we go on a date. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of my friend hugging me the whole time during a partyYour friend did the right thing, stay away from this chick man. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Started reading the book “The Game” my Neil StraussAlmost all of the guys who were around then that are still active now will tell you that 95% of that shit is retarded, but you should read the book the whole way through as it is worthwhile, just do not take it as a guide. Most guys these days encourage you to be natural, avoid routines and instead get a feel for the rhythm of things and learn how to express yourself charismatically in a way that is dynamic and doesn't require gimmicks. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Hi. How do I let girl know that it just won’t work?You are overthinking it. Just tell her you think she's lovely but you didn't feel the right kind of connection, simple. I know you don't want to hurt her feelings or have her flip out on you but if she gets upset that is in no way your responsibility. Honestly I was worried about how rejecting girls would make them feel until I had one react badly and start saying weird shitty things then I didn't feel bad for her at all, kind of annoyed actually. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | why am i so nervous and lack confidence around girls ive already approached?I think it's easier for you not to care very much about the first interaction because there's no guarantee it'll lead anywhere and it's easy to fuck up first impressions. If things didn't work out the second time around it'd feel more personal and a lot more like a ruined opportunity. I'd be wary about your mindset inbetween the first and second interaction, without realizing it you may be fantasizing about the girls and projecting on them because things went well the first time. Don't focus on … | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Multiple women have told me that they no longer want to see me anymore because they're worried things are getting too serious. What am I doing wrong?This is actually very difficult to speculate on, it could be that you are too romantic or intimate with them, or maybe it's just the kind of women you are pursuing or attracting. Would you want to seriously date any of these women? | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Enforcing my boundaries made her like me more! How do I do it more often? Men, we need to not be afraid of our masculinity!You have touched the power of the nimbus. It is absolutely incredible how differently people will behave towards you when are in total control of your own emotions and you don't bend to their expectations. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Got ignored multiple times cold approachingNever approach a woman from behind, square up in front of her. Also if you're "pretty sure" she heard you, you weren't projecting your voice enough, there should be no question. Lastly, congratulate yourself for having the balls to do this, and don't stop. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on male simps and gameStop saying "females", it makes it sound like you've only read about women in books and have never actually talked to one. Also "If I was this dude I would’ve played her like how most women will play guys"; why do you think this is what 'most' women do? And why the fuck would you want to do that if you were him? | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | are mexican women attracted to asian men?Yes obviously it did, besides the fact that as I said they literally already saw you in person and gave you their number, it's unnecessarily doubling down and it comes across as you seeking their validation, because frankly that is exactly what it is. And by the way I totally respect you wanted to bag a mexican girl, I do understand it, but seriously stop focusing on the *difference* in race, get that shit out of your head or it is going to fuck up your game. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | are mexican women attracted to asian men?Do not focus on looks, only focus on appearance. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | are mexican women attracted to asian men?THEY LITERALLY ALREADY SAW YOU IN PERSON, why do you think you need to send them a picture dumbass? You also said in another comment that the pictures are to 'give a more accurate outlook on what your situation is', it sounds to me like you are trying to show off and it is obviously being received as douchey and you feeling like you need to show off. Obviously it is not working, stop doing it. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | are mexican women attracted to asian men?Stop thinking about your race you moron. You got three numbers, how would that be possible if they weren't considering it? Your txt game is what sucks, why would you send them a photo of yourself? That's some real leveling shit, it's not hard to explain who you are and remind them where you met, feeling like you need to send a picture to be absolutely certain displays desperation. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl says “she has to think about it” when i asked for her numberIt means something is missing which is probably you showing intent. Tell her outright that you think she's attractive and you want to have a drink together and if she decides you're an ogre she doesn't have to talk to you again. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:18 PM |
| 7 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?I don't think that's what he meant hahaha | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:10 PM |
| 3 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?Feelsgoodman | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:10 PM |
| 16 | you cant get laid staying home ,unless your order hookersMeh, I've had a few girls come over to mine from tinder that I never met before. Two times I'm ngl they weren't attractive and I frankly regretted it, but one time this pretty hot woman came over and we banged, she was pretty and we had established good rapport and trust so I didn't feel dirty afterward, was pretty awesome in fact. That being said I do agree in general. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | 12 dates, one ended with a kiss?I can absolutely assure you that that is not true. Women that find you attractive will be immensely attracted to you when you are unapologetically yourself, and you won't waste your time with the women who just aren't that interested in you anyway. That doesn't mean you have be some kind of edgelord douche, just don't guard yourself or omit sincerity. Be who you are, say what you think and do what you feel, some will hate it, others will love it, that will serve you so much more than most people… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Is this meant to be that way?Everything will get better with experience. Nothing wrong with working your way up slowly either, start by talking to dudes, couples, women you don't find attractive etc just to get a feel for things. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 8 | I think a cashier might like me. What should I do?Ain't no certainty in life brother, all too easy to let fear hold you back though | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | How to keep confidence when your health is deteriorating?I mean with your health, you are being pretty vague. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How a video game changed my life quite literallyThings like the purge are what made reddit the way it is now, not that there was definitely some awful shit on the site that everyone would be better off without but it's was also an excuse for the execs to sell out their principles for big bucks and shit all over Aaron's legacy. This place isn't free anymore, but some people still are. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | You'll never be loved as a Man as you want to be.Only leaving me with more questions there pal | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How to keep confidence when your health is deteriorating?What exactly is wrong with you? | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Is this meant to be that way?Clubs are not your only option, but you also won't feel any different until you do things for a while even though you feel awkward and out of place, that includes actually talking to the women instead of just waiting for them to 'check you out'. The point is not to succeed, you will get rejected, the point is to just do it. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 32 | I think a cashier might like me. What should I do?There were a handful of girls at my old workplace that I were sure had eyes for me but I wasn't certain and I had a position of superiority and didn't want to become branded as the office creep. Turns out I was totally right and have since hooked up with a few of them, point being if you think a girl is checking you out then she probably is. Just write down your number and give it her and say "hey I just want you to know I think you're pretty cute, here's my number, txt me on your break so I hav… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | You'll never be loved as a Man as you want to be.What the fuck are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 03:47 PM |
| 7 | Me and a couple friends were having a conversation, honest question( I’m not trolling) but is being a manwhore/ player really what’s it’s to be hyped to be or I’m not missing outIt's whatever you make of it, a lot of guys can get deep into it and become totally numb from basically indulging in sex addiction and having less and less of a genuine connection over time. If you really love women and you can continue to do so in spite of rejection and heart break you will have no regrets, but if you end up sleeping with a bunch of people you don't like or care about you will lose your self-respect. Whether it's a one night stand or a long term romantic relationship you should… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Unpopular opinion: don’t expect compassion from womenI do agree with sentiment of not expecting compassion but the overall tone of this is a little misanthropic. People have goodness in them and there's absolutely no reason you shouldn't be carefree with a girl, that's something they are attracted to and it doesn't have to confound your masculinity, and any decent person will be as compassionate towards you as the level of trust and comfort you have established with them. Betrayal is always a possibility but that's just life, and being "focused on… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Camgirl wants to meet upYou do kinda sound like a moron but I disagree with the others here, there's no need for her to invite you unless she actually wanted to see you, but that being said I would still be cautious as she may be unstable. Fyi paying for pornography in general is something to be pitied. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Stop lowering yourself to get womenIn my experience it's actually more like a few hours or even one hour but that aside, as I said it could just be you missing out a lot of opportunities especially with women who are more attractive. I matched with this really cute girl on bumble and I shit you not she was giving responses that were a few words each and I still got her number. She was a little more responsive in txt but she cancelled our first date, arranged for another one and she just ghosted then I txt her again and set up ano… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Advance text conversationYou have been told this type of relationship is useless? What are you talking about? | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Why so hard to get WOMAN??I understand your frustration but you're actually doing really well and better than guys to be honest. In terms of setting up the dates I would always just say let's get a drink, it's simple and there's no need to complicate things, she pays for her drinks and you pay for yours. It really sounds like you have a hard time 'being yourself' and it sound like you suffer from what some in the community used to call "dancing monkey syndrome". It's not as hard to be natural as you think and that's real… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:16 AM |
| 4 | Stop lowering yourself to get womenI agree with the second point but not so much the first. Yes you definitely shouldn't be 'bargaining' to go in a date but in general I don't think you should expect shit from women, you don't know her or what's going on in her life and if you always expect her to reciprocate equally then you could actually be more likely to encounter the problem in the second point you made. Don't get me wrong I don't think you should end up chasing the girl, but some are a little harder to crack than others and… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | How do i even GET women, its so frustratingIf you think you "don't need to improve your game" you're just wrong either you're getting results or you aren't and if they aren't txting you back you either aren't compelling enough or you suck at txting or a combination of both. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find that they are attached after finally getting some casual sex?Sounds solid, don't overwater the garden and all that, generally if you made a connection like that the chemistry will be there the next time too. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Don’t know if she likes me or notHonestly just don't advertise that shit on tinder, it's best not to let a girl know about your status/wealth until you get to know them better. I'm broke as fuck and I haven't got shit going on but when I talk to girls on tinder they almost never ask me what I do or things like that because I just focus on having a fun conversation, that's what you need to learn to do. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Don’t know if she likes me or notYou never know what's going on with someone so jumping to conclusions is very dangerous, you also probably check your phone a lot because you're growing a little obsessive and that's not good, the more you behave like this the less she will want to talk to you. She obviously has some interest so just try to relax and find other things to spend your time on that you find engaging. Try to meet up with her in person but if this doesn't work out then please for the love of god don't worry about it, … | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I seduce and attract him back?I would go ahead with the meeting but wouldn't get my hopes up. When you see him just be honest and tell him that you like him and you know the long distance thing is difficult but that you're also concerned that he's not in the right place at the moment. People can let potentially good things go too easily but it's honestly better that you just leave it if he's not sure about what he wants. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Don’t know if she likes me or notYeah man that's really not cool and it's honestly kinda crazy jealous. You always have to assume that she's just busy and creating some kind of narrative in your head that she's doing some dirty shit is really gonna hurt you and it's gonna push her away. Obviously there's more to this but it sounds like you are depressed and have low self-esteem, you need to take better care of yourself | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Don’t know if she likes me or notBruh, why did you not bring this up before? That's a good signal but the way you wrote your post sounded like ain't shit was going on. I think you're probably really overthinking her responding slowly, it doesn't sound like you have a lot of experience but you gotta stop obsessing over the small things, just tell her that you like her, it doesn't matter if it works out or not | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find that they are attached after finally getting some casual sex?Don't overthink it, definitely don't be too needy but try to arrange to meet her again. If it doesn't work out just be grateful you had the experience but you gotta give it a shot. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I am naturally coldDon't be cold, 'smoulder'. There's nothing wrong with not talking much or being very expressive, but you gotta feel something and put that energy out there, and don't force yourself to be energetic, that's weird, just learn slowly to do it naturally | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:12 PM |
| 10 | Is my anxiety around women seriously the only thing causing them to lose interest?Confidence is key, but it's something that can only built with time and exposure, but the other thing here is just your overall mentality, it sounds pretty whack. You say you "try as hard as possible to be a selfish asshole"... Why? Women don't want to date guys who "don't give a fuck about them" they want to date a guy who just doesn't give a fuck in general, someone who doesn't care what they think but cares how they feel on a moment to moment basis. Yeah you were awkward and the date went bad… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:09 PM |
| 3 | I literally hate womenYou are heading down a dark path brother and it will only lead to bad things, please get some help. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 02:54 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask to be friends with benefits?Haha oh really? Then why are they always happy to meet up with me again? I'm not a predator, I just love women and sex and that's totally okay, I saw you made a post stating you're pretty sure you're asexual so I don't expect you to understand how arousal works. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask to be friends with benefits?Look man a lot of women I've been close to have been raped and sexually assaulted, I think what you're saying is frankly disgusting and it minimises the trauma of people who are victims of sexual abuse, I do everything in my power to make women feel safe and comfortable so if they're not interested they can turn me down and I've not had any complaints, and I don't think that my friend needs to 'get her shit together' she's a nice person and she knows what she likes, she just wants a guy to be fo… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Friend says she questions her celibacy?Just ask her about it. If you like her just make a move, if she's not really comfortable with it then don't force it but you have to make it clear you're interested if anything is gonna happen. If you ask her about it then you can get her perspective and understand her motivations better and it will make navigating the situation a lot easier. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 02:01 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask to be friends with benefits?Man I'm out here living in the real world. If you're having a good time with a girl and you're flirting and you both start feeling hot and are slowly getting closer and start kissing, that's not 'rape culture' that's just nice, can you seriously say that there is something morally wrong about that scenario? I love women and I don't do anything with them if they're not comfortable with it, but as an extreme example if you had a girlfriend would you ask her permission every time you wanted to hug … | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Woman ignored me. Need to rescue this situation (if possible)How long has it been? You never know what's going on in her life and I always just assume they're busy. If it comes down to it just be honest say you weren't a good boyfriend to the other girl, she will appreciate that you are honest and self aware. And yeah, clean your fucking place. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how much girl is into me.You're insecure, that's normal. She into, that's not weird, just go for it man, you will sure as shit regret it if you don't. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I did what you guys told me, yet still nothingIf you want to get laid, then stop trying to get laid. Just talk to them and try to have a good time, focus on the girl and not yourself, be open and honest as possible. It will take time and you will probably get rejected a bunch but that's the only way it's gonna work. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | should I just forget about her ?I agree, it does sound like she's just nervous but just go for it, nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Don’t know if she likes me or notWhy are you calling this a relationship? It's not a relationship and there doesn't seem to be a lot to be confused about here, if you don't know if a girl is interested she's probably not interested, and it certainly sounds like she's not interested. You can make her interested, she at least responds to you but if she doesn't have experience with guys then she could just feel guilty. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | How to text a girl I met at a partyJust go for it man, doesn't matter if it doesn't work out, you'll feel a lot better in the long-run if you just try. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | How to text a girl I met at a partyLittle too black and white, it could work out if he plays his cards right. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask to be friends with benefits?No the reason you didn't is because you lack confidence, it doesn't matter how long it's been if you are there in person it only takes 1-3 hours for things to escalate to that point. You weren't forward enough and she lost interest. Move on. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:24 PM |
| 0 | How do I ask to be friends with benefits?I've never asked to kiss a girl, just look at her lips and her eyes back and forth slowly a few times, move in slowly and either she will reciprocate or back away. Constantly asking permission makes the interaction halted and jerky and is very unsexy, if she's into it it's obvious and just because you didn't literally ask "can I kiss you" doesn't make it sexual assault. I was actually having a conversation with a friend a while back and she literally brought up the fact that she doesn't like it … | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask to be friends with benefits?Bruh you don't ask that shit is skeezy. Just clarify when you match with a girl that you're both interested in something casual and go out for a drink. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Need adviceTbh this is not really the place to ask advice for this, I would go to a bdsm subreddit like the one he suggested. You don't have to do the extreme things there, just make a post asking for advice, say you are a beginner and want to do some light bondage, they will help you out. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Should i go to new york night club. And try to get laid or just go to providence massage parlor yo get laid for sure instead?I have used prostitutes a few times, honestly it's a waste of money and you will feel worse interacting with women. If it stops you from becoming a wizard then go ahead, but I really would not recommend it, it's far better to pull on your own steam. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about this?Godspeed sir | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Is "who are you?" and "do i know you?" basically a FMs way of saying F%$ O%$ to a male?Honestly why are you sliding into girls' DMs? Do cold approach or use apps. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | If a girl your talking to never wants to link, is she then just using you for attention/validation?Months is way too long and you probably weren't interesting enough to begin with or didn't build trust and comfort. I always try to spend as little time talking to someone online as possible, when on tinder it's best to get the number within the first 6-10 messages, then txting is mainly just sorting logistics. You need to be straight up with her and cut her off if it goes nowhere, "hey I like talking to you and all and I understand if you're anxious but I want to meet people in person, if we're… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I(21m) even respond to her(19f)?I mean it's not necessary to respond but idk why you didn't just respond to her when she texted you then and there like a normal person. It can be a punch in the gut sure, but I'd just say "I'm happy for you, wish you all the best" because why not? I've even had girls tell me that they want to stop seeing me because they're involved in something serious now and I've said that and added "forgive me if it sounds rude, but if things don't work out feel free to hmu" and things didn't work out and th… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about this?You don't need to hint or say anything, if the vibes are right just makeout and say let's go back to my place. I would even go as far as saying, I wanna listen to some music/watch some videos, she's not stupid and she knows what's up. If you can't take her back to yours (also why can't you?) then I would just get a hotel room. Txt and say you wanna see her again, when she agrees just be forward but not blunt, say you wish you could have had more privacy and say you'd like to rent a hotel for you… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Snapchat or Number?I always go for the number, getting socials just seems like an unnecessary hurdle and if she doesn't give you that and then suggest Snapchat or Instagram she's probably not interested in you. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 3 | I'm (21 male) looking for tinder/bumble hookups, i get decent matches but cant get any actionSo pretty much all my success with women has come from tinder and I used to have a terrible time with it, if you want to succeed it takes work but it is worth it. The first thing is a hard pill to swallow and a lot of people might shit on me for saying this but it's just true, unless you are exceptionally good looking you are almost certainly going to have to spend money on it, my financial circumstances are poor but I still have tinder platinum and if I was really down to the bone it is the las… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm giving up guys. Something is seriously wrong with me.Honestly if you feel like giving up that is the point you need to push it just a little further and you will suddenly stop giving a shit and that is the best way to be. But seriously man if you are having suicidal thoughts and engaging in self harm you need help, please try to get some therapy and if it's not available then at least open up to someone you trust, you need to put yourself first before trying to get with some girl, maybe rather than 'giving up' you just need to take a break and foc… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | asking her to the moviesI literally always just suggest a day or two that I'm free and she'll either tell me she's free one of the days or she's too busy and we reschedule. Taking the lead is important but if you are too focused on the minutiae then you're just spinning your wheels man. Also I don't know how old you are but a movie is a terrible first date, you should have decided to get a drink with her. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | 12 dates, one ended with a kiss?Be more polarizing. Better that half of them storm off and the other half are really interested in you then most of them being 'just okay' and not leading anywhere. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | How do you cold approach respectfully?Wtf does this even mean? Do you respect the girl? Okay, then go approach her. Yes you will probably get rejected a bunch of times, but if you don't wanna seem creepy just don't be creepy, if she gets grossed out or isn't interested in you then that's par for the course, you just gotta start. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Inviting a girl overSounds like you are trying to make it too easy for yourself and eliminate the possibility of rejection, which is never going to work. Just be direct and tell her you two should go have a drink. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 2 | How a video game changed my life quite literallyWhen you see the way broadly you see it in all things. Don't let people shit on you for this bro, if this is how you came to realize what is required to improve your circumstances then more power to you, I wish for your success my man. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Am I weird to go to the bar to try to practice talking to girls?Not everyone will agree with me here but honestly just do what works for you and fits your style. I fucking hate clubs and I never go to them, and to be totally honest I've pretty much never cold approached a girl, I've hooked up with a handful of women I met through work or at a house party, but I met the overwhelming majority of women I've been with I met on tinder or bumble, I can see the obvious value in cold approach and I think it would benefit me, but this is just what works for me, it el… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the most obvious signals girls give off, to a guy to approach and he won't get rejected? or there are none actually?There are none, it doesn't matter how well things are going you can always fuck it up, or maybe she just won't end up being as interested in you as she thought she would, and most of the time they will have no interest in you before you open your mouth. If you fixate on the idea of avoiding rejection you will never succeed, you need to get rejected in order to succeed. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Why people match with you, even write to you just to send you only one message a day? I usually text a lot, ask questions, bring up serious and silly topics. Yet I feel I do all the talking. People just answer usually. I even give them space. Not a single question about me. Why is this happening?Honestly it sounds like your conversations are probably a lot more boring than you think they are and you're not making it clear that it's a man-to-woman interaction. If you are having this problem then you needs to implement some push/pull and create sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:17 AM |
| 4 | How do I seduce and attract him back?Honestly it sounds like he's not in a good place right now. He's probably not moved on from his previous relationship, and I know women can be really bad in relationships just like men but he fucking cheated on her, clearly he has some shit to work out. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Advice for seducing an older woman?Just be straight up and tell her to have a drink with you to see if she actually hates your guts or if you end up having a good time. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:00 AM |
| 5 | Tinder experiments are some of the most eye opening things you could run..I've never done this because I don't need to to know that conventionally attractive people with normative social views have mass appeal, that's fucking retarded. I'd frankly rather have a niche of chicks that are super into me and have the rest find me revolting than have every basic chick in my city wanting a ride, call this a cope but that honestly sounds like it's own kind of hell. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find that they are attached after finally getting some casual sex?Why no divorce? Tried couple's therapy? | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else find that they are attached after finally getting some casual sex?I mean dude it sounds like she actually really likes you, chicks are pretty hardcore these days and they don't feel the need to do all that nice cutesy shit if they don't want something more, especially her saying "I'm really glad I met you" I mean holy shit is that ever a fucking golden signal that she's really into you, it's no wonder you feel this way. Honestly of I was you I'd try to make this work if it's possible, but my general advice is that the more dates you go on and the more women yo… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:51 AM |
| 4 | I honestly dont know what Im doing wrong...about to give upHey so I just wanted to say firstly I don't think you should be paying for anything for the woman, I never do unless she is totally broke and it's necessary for us to be able to meet up. When you pay for things it either creates a weird sense of pressure for the girl or makes them feel too entitled because they will get something out of the date whether or not it goes well and tbh it can be a small way of you putting them on a pedestal. The most important thing however is to NOT HAVE AN AGENDA. … | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about Youtube guys showing succesful tinder conversations?It's impossible to say but he is giving decent advice and speaking from experience all the right principles are present in the conversation, especially the part about building trust and comfort. You can be having a very sexually charged conversation and it can be going really well but if it's just that then your chances of actually meeting them are very small, you need to humanize yourself or the interaction will never leave the realm of fantasy. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | I finally got a crush, but idk what to do next. Let me elaborate below..Obviously you are worried about being rejected otherwise this wouldn't bother you at all, and it's okay to feel that way. Unfortunately you need to risk being rejected if you want to succeed, there is no way around it, just think of it as practice and if it works out or it doesn't then it's still a positive. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:14 AM |
| 0 | Constantly asking girl out for dinner but no further result.I never go out to do dinner with a girl for a first date, only to a bar and we each pay for our own drinks. Sounds to me like you are not being forward enough and too much of a friendship/casual get to know you vibe is going on. If you don't make it clear either directly or indirectly that you are interested in the girl sexually/romantically then you are very unlikely to get anywhere. It's nice to have a 'nice time' with someone but no girl is going to let you put your dick in her if you aren't … | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:08 AM |
| 3 | What standard "pua" advice have you found to be wrong ?I haven't had a job for over 6 months and I'm still having success, and in fact the last two girls I saw both earn very good money, but they didn't care about my lack of employment because I didn't care, I owned it rather than letting it be a point of insecurity. That's not to say I'm proud of the fact that I don't have a job, but I'm not going to let it make me seem weak and make me feel like I don't deserve a woman's company or attention. My general response to your post is that the only real … | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Insecurities about vitiligo approaching womenKeep working out, bud. And really, it's nothing. You should know by now that looks mean nothing. They do certainly help, but you don't need them. Also important is that you own the cards that you were dealt, and make the most of them. Your condition makes you unique, it's an ice-breaker and a good conversation piece. Don't shy away from the subject, be forward about it and own it, because it is a part of you and you can't change that, so just learn to put the right spin on it. The most important… | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 11:37 AM |
| 1 | What does this mean and has this ever happened to you?Yes. | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What does this mean and has this ever happened to you?Clarity of intent. If she asks you why, you tell her. Be direct and to the point. | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Game for Younger Demographic?High school is like prison. You shouldn't really worry about getting some until you're free, and if you do then it's probably not going to be what you expected. | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Falling apartFuck that noise. Be the big dog. Don't let that chump stand in your way, and don't be scared off by people talking shit (a teacher of all people). And if it turns out you're playing with fire, then get fucking burned. Better to have it all and lose it than always wonder. Trust me you'll be a lot happier. | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 05:27 PM |
| 3 | She slaps him. It's OK. He slaps her back. He gets assaulted and beaten up by a fuckton of "white knights" for "hitting a woman"This is horrible and all, but it's so fucking hilarious. | /r/PussyPass | 18/06/14 06:43 AM |
| 3 | How do you get motivated to keep going when you've failed so much in the past?There's a reason they call it the game, it's a game. You have to actually enjoy being rejected, laugh at it, it's funny, often times you might even just act like a total retard when approaching a girl for the fun of it, and often times that works out even better than a serious approach. | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Don't fuck a chick who has a drop of alcohol in her system. Cautionary taleHuh? | /r/MensRights | 06/01/13 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Don't fuck a chick who has a drop of alcohol in her system. Cautionary taleThen I guess it's your own fault. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/13 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Please help, my daughter is being threatened and neglected.That's fucked, man. Sorry about this whole mess, I hope you will be able to put it to rest soon. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/13 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Boy, 6, suspended from Silver Spring school for pointing finger like a gun - The Washington PostThis has nothing to do with men's rights, it's just fucked up. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Please help, my daughter is being threatened and neglected.Can't you take legal action? Especially considering all the documentation you have. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Don't fuck a chick who has a drop of alcohol in her system. Cautionary taleYou are a fucking idiot, why would you fuck her again? You should have said no in the first place, she couldn't have done shit. Edit: Not that I don't sympathise with you, I hope she actually does get raped, and the guy gets away with it. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 10:01 PM |
| 10 | High risk; high reward [Wingman FR]You are fucking cunt, and a wingman I would be glad to have. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 11:00 AM |
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