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Yes. Most people want excitement in their life. Say hi to the girl at the bus stop. If you have good energy you'll probably make her day
/r/seduction27/01/26 03:28 PM
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Bro I'm not going to sit here and argue with you. Your worldview needs some work, You've defeated yourself before you left the starting line. At the very least, you need to understand that genetic LOOKs are not that important in a man. Youre thinking like a guy who likes hot women. Women dont think that way. The value of appearance in men is on GROOMING. the rest is personality / value. I hope you can get out of your current mindset
/r/seduction06/10/25 07:49 AM
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He's got the right attitude!
/r/seduction06/10/25 01:21 AM
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I don't know what you look like, but "looks" aren't nearly as important for men. It's super common for conventionally "ugly" men to have hot wives. As long as you're well-groomed and not obese it's most likely not an issue. A good haircut, clean facial hair, trimmed eyebrows, healthy skin (hygiene), white teeth (hygiene, whitening strips) and clothes that complement your physique are all you need. You can attain all that in less then a month to look "good enough". Autism isn't an automatic deal …
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:30 PM
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Sorry you've had that experience. I would say based on the info you've provided that 100 in 10 years is *not a lot*. You're approaching a women less than once a month. That doesnt give you enough consistency to be fully comfortable and calibrated in that situation. For example: When i first started approaching 16 years ago, I was doing 100 approaches a month, at the very least. I'm a good looking dude but I was sorta awkward around women. My strike out rate was pretty bad, but eventually I some …
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:11 PM
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Are you asking if i have any secret pickup lines? Or 5 tips that make any woman want you? Unfortunately i don't. I'm not a guru and i have nothing to sell. Attraction isn't a choice. All you can do is be your best self, develop a life that you love (without needing external validation) and maximize the chances of bringing a woman into your world by opening often. You don't need movie star good looks. Just be well groomed. You didn't need to be rich, just have ambition. You didn't need pickup lin…
/r/seduction05/10/25 01:50 PM
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Being good looking puts things on easy mode, but still you have to master your inner game. When I was single I had a lot of self esteem issues, despite being "good looking" enough for women to approach me regularly. If you dont believe in yourself deep inside, women pick up on that insecure energy and move away. You have to do everything you can to love yourself and believe that the best thing that can happen to the women you're approaching is for you to be part of her life. If she rejects, then…
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:31 AM
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How often are you approaching? And how do you react (internally and externally) when rejected?
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:27 AM
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Good that you aren't being emotionally affected by rejection. That's a huge hurdle! Part of getting accepted is a numbers game: if youre only approaching a woman (IN PERSON. Fuck apps) once a week then thats only 50 women a year. If 1/10 of them give you their number thats 5 women you were texting / calling. Maybe 1 date per year if 20% of them want to meet up I'm talking about serious numbers. Every day approach 5 women. Thats 1800 a year. Use the same success rate from before and you've got 36…
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:24 AM
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It is absolutely a skill! The same skill that makes people good at sales and job interviews
/r/seduction04/10/25 06:50 PM
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I blame a lot of this on Hollywood's portrayal of courtship. Movies really lean into the fantasy that the awkward asocial guy needs to do some grand gesture to get the popular girl who's dating the asshole jock. A lot of men get their first glimpse into dating from those movies, but real life doesn't work like that
/r/seduction04/10/25 06:28 PM
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A few things: You should absolutely go on more dates. Go on lots of them with lots of different people A big thing that guys do: a lot of men naturally go into a first date with a mindset like "this woman could be my future gf / wife etc". You should go into a date in a fun, playful mindset and instead of thinking of her as a possible GF, you should think of it like a tryout; she has to earn the title of GF this is just a tryout to see if you have chemistry. (Its easy to have a casual tryout men…
/r/seduction04/10/25 06:12 PM
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One "gets good" by doing something a lot. When you do something a lot, you strike out a lot. (You also start to succeed a lot). It all takes practice. At the core of seduction is Social Intelligence and Confidence. How does one gain those traits? By putting yourself in these situations as much as possible. No man who isn't famous gets 100% yesses. Even the most good looking, confident man you know gets rejected. Whats different is how the reaction afterwards is. A man who feels self validated do…
/r/seduction04/10/25 05:54 PM
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It's a combination of a few things. At the very least, the first thing a man needs to do is take care of himself and strive to be his best. Eat right, set goals, build your career, be active, be a good friend, and always be learning. When you become someone you are truly proud of, you stop needing as much external validation from the world. (This is 'inner game'). Seriously make it a point to love yourself. Do what it takes to love yourself without external validation. When it comes to rejection…
/r/seduction04/10/25 05:49 PM
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Being single these days must be hard. The pua community used to be about social intelligence and self improvement. Creating a world of abundance by being excellent and improving the lives of men and women around you. Now it's... whatever this is. These posts all feel so pushy and needy. Have people forgotten how to do this stuff?
/r/seduction04/10/25 01:19 PM
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We could summarize the answer to 95% of the posts on this sub. "she's obviously not into you. Leave her alone and move on". No amount of finesse and trickery and bells and whistles will win over a woman who already made up her mind. move on. there's millions of single women out there
/r/seduction04/10/25 06:45 AM
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If a woman is interested you would know. She's saying she has a bf. Whether it's true or not doesn't matter; she's saying that she's not interested in YOU. Leave her alone
/r/seduction03/10/25 04:26 PM
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Ah, the Boomhauer method https://youtu.be/N7FVmeJXwCY?si=eJZuYTOW4Fm7Totf
/r/seduction02/10/25 05:52 AM
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Half the posts on this sub are dudes trying to chase that "one girl" : whoever they're infatuated with. If she ain't into it, leave her alone and move on
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:14 PM
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No one can afford to go out anymore
/r/seduction25/09/25 03:04 AM
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Doesn't matter. If you get a hostile response it's an absolute red flag and you just saved a bunch of time.
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:45 PM
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Then just move on with your day, no big deal. No approach actually matters. Gotta get out of your own head and just have fun
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:39 PM
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Works! As long as you can continue the conversation as the fun, confident version of yourself, and if you're generally well groomed you can at the very least number close. Could turn to instant date or invite her to your plans
/r/seduction17/09/25 12:33 PM
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One of my favorites: Go up to a girl you're interested in. You:: "hey I have a question and need a woman's advice" Her: "sure what's up?" You: "let's say I see a really cute girl, do I go up and talk to her or is that too direct?" Her: 99.9999% of them say: "you should totally go talk to her." You: introduce yourself.
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:27 AM
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Weekdays always felt better. Wednesday night is a totally different vibe than Friday night
/r/seduction11/09/25 03:55 PM
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Variations of Tim Ferris' opener work well if you say it with confidence and a smile: "Excuse me, I know this is going to sound strange, but if I don't ask you now, I'll be kicking myself for the rest of the day. I'm running to meet a friend, but I think you're really gorgeous. Could I have your phone number? I'm not a psycho I promise. You can give me a fake one if youre not interested."
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:07 PM
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Be your best self, and talk to everyone. Girls, guys, bring everyone into your world
/r/seduction04/02/25 08:30 AM
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Be brave be playful and let go of outcomes
/r/seduction14/01/25 07:10 PM
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Don't invite her to dinner. Do something light hearted and cheap (coffee etc) followed by a more fun activity as a follow up
/r/seduction08/01/25 05:19 PM
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Yes but i worked in restaurants it happens all the time
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:30 PM
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Be in a state of Having fun (independent of outside factors) bring her into your world, keep it playful and don't seem desperate. Escalate organically and calibrate with push pull dynamics. Never buy her attention with a drink. She gets first round, you can get the second
/r/seduction14/12/24 12:55 PM
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This reads like an incel wrote it. Girls like "bad boys"? Come on dude. Girls like guys that are confident and true to themselves. You don't have to act like a "fuckboy" to succeed out there.
/r/seduction15/11/24 08:08 PM
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You can 100% go out on a date with this girl without needing her number. IG is fine
/r/seduction07/11/24 01:43 AM
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Funnily enough, it didn't lol. I met my ltr on tinder and didnt mention my band for several weeks
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:47 AM
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I'm off the market now, but i used to meet a lot of girls at my shows (i sing in a band)
/r/seduction17/10/24 05:24 PM
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Dude you're making so many assumptions about girls you haven't even spoken to. And assuming people won't like you is a self fulfilling prophecy. Get out there with a good mindset and you'll start to prove yourself wrong.
/r/seduction17/07/24 10:13 PM
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Thank you. Great ideas
/r/seduction09/05/23 04:12 PM
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Im glad I didn't respond via text. That would let the shit storm loose. Talked to her on the phone, she apologized and we're golden
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:27 AM
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Yeah this is the most applicable advice. I'll keep it in mind!
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:26 AM
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Ouch sorry to hear that man
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:26 AM
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Yeah im dumb af.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:25 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:25 AM
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Yeah I get it now. Luckily she's cool about it now
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:25 AM
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I am. All good now though. Thanks for the input!
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:25 AM
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This post came at the perfect time. Thank you. This weekend i abused alcohol, got lost on the wrong lightrail stop, and was rude to my girlfriend, who was worried sick that i wasnt going to come home. No more pussyfooting around. No more alcohol abuse. I'm done.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:28 PM
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Okay I think I get it now. I was forgetting that he's running against a woman, and TRP is pretty heavily based on not being led by women. I was just focusing on Trump in a vacuum and missing the circumstance
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 06:01 PM
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What about minorities / LGBT? How does his ostracizing them garner support from TRP?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 05:00 PM
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Why is TRP so pro-Trump? Obviously his behaviour is very TRP, but do his desired policies and political actions come into play too?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 03:09 PM
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Good call thanks!
/r/askTRP14/08/16 07:46 PM
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Im going to read up in sex god method thanks for the input!
/r/askTRP14/08/16 07:46 PM
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hahaha no harm in being suspicious, totally! Checked out her twitter and her most recent birthday was her 18th. In the clear!
/r/seduction07/01/16 07:26 AM
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Definitely a situation I'm not looking forward to. For now I'll meet her out for the date rather than pick her up. Can't imagine her pops being too happy about it
/r/seduction06/01/16 03:24 PM
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Haha that made me laugh; but I hope her music taste isn't that awful :P
/r/seduction06/01/16 03:22 PM
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I like these! Totally the kind of dates I used to take girls on before I turned 21. Lighthearted, fun, and age appropriate. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/01/16 03:21 PM
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Thanks for the post! This has recently become a sticking point for me. meeting women and hanging out in person have been easy situations for building attraction, however it feels like text game has changed a lot from 5 years ago when I first started doing it
/r/seduction27/11/15 03:59 PM
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Literally always. Very rarely does a girl come around that I feel 100% satisfied with committing to. Usually there's like 2-4 girls i casually date at a time. Keeping your options open is good! Quantity will lead to quantity. Just make sure not to hurt anyone
/r/seduction25/10/15 07:08 PM
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Very nice post. Thanks for sharing her feedback! It's always a good (and incredibly confident) move to ask a girl what made her fall for you / when she fell for you.
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:54 AM
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