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ConversationSoonerStreet1/r/seduction16/08/26 06:15 AM
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It just depends on what you really want, being a player was fun for its time, maybe you're outgrowing it? There's nothing good about making other people feel bad
/r/seduction19/08/26 04:27 AM
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Feelings change as time goes on, you can become someone's number 1 choice through who you are and not just from looks, from time together, through having fun and being playful, through intimacy as time goes on. When you weren't previously, its the same as the girl you fell in love with, who shattered your heart. There are other girls that you have the capacity to get that spark from, and sometimes that spark doesnt happen in the first instance of seeing them. Sometimes you can fall in love with …
/r/seduction17/08/26 11:47 PM
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I'm not exactly devastated, obviously I'm upset, but the question ive been curious about is that if I was taking this as a casual relationship, which ive tried to remain as detached as possible, due to the length of time we were dating, even though she was love bombing essentially or just really infatuated with the new prospect. Should I have been nonchalant like I was or should I have laid a boundary down? Because it did bother me and I guess she believed it was already committed, but I dont kn…
/r/seduction17/08/26 05:54 AM
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Its been official for 3 weeks. I would hope there are not many many more, I'm trying to have a family, I had my fun, even this year alone ive had 6 girls, I stopped counting after 100, but its much higher now, I just dont know how to do the relationship part, but thats what she wanted. Last night would have been the only night she could have done it, every other night we've been on video call and she falls asleep.
/r/seduction17/08/26 05:46 AM
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Well, this conversation happened and she didnt call after her shower like she said, we were offcially dating for a very short period of time, a few weeks, like 3. She said no situationships, she said if I feel like I might cheat to please tell her even if its just the feeling, and she said "just leave me, I will be absolutely devastated, but I will be even more devastated if you cheat on me" she also said she is terrified of me going to see her and leaving her. Also, in our first conversation sh…
/r/seduction17/08/26 05:34 AM
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Do you think she cheated? Based on the quick emotional switch up and not calling when she usually does? Plus this reaction?
/r/seduction17/08/26 05:11 AM
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I didn't address it or change how I acted, we didnt talk much today, she broke up with me about an hour ago saying it was because "she wanted to die" and was "too much of a fucking pussy to do it herself" and that "we just cant be together"
/r/seduction17/08/26 04:58 AM
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I didn't address it or change how I acted, we didnt talk much today, she broke up with me about an hour ago saying it was because "she wanted to die" and was "too much of a fucking pussy to do it herself" and that "we just cant be together"
/r/seduction17/08/26 04:58 AM
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You're way off base with this situation if you even got the hint of me contacting her when she doesnt want to be contacted.
/r/seduction17/08/26 02:58 AM
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I didn't address it or change how I acted, we didnt talk much today, she just called me for a short time saying she just wanted to hear my voice and she sounded really sad, she broke up with me about an hour ago saying it was because "she wanted to die" and was "too much of a fucking pussy to do it herself" and that "we just cant be together"
/r/seduction17/08/26 02:45 AM
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Yes, it was, I didn't address it or change how I acted, we didnt talk much today, she broke up with me about an hour ago saying it was because "she wanted to die" and was "too much of a fucking pussy to do it herself" and that "we just cant be together"
/r/seduction17/08/26 02:32 AM
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Idk, because she's always calling me, she does it multiple times a day
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:50 PM
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Its long distance and again, I'm supposed to be coming over and staying at her place on my trip, I cant just set up a date. I also normally dont ever call or text her first. I just go about my day until she calls
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:13 PM
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I thought about it, but didnt
/r/seduction16/08/26 09:07 PM
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Of course, I'm not oblivious, thats why I pointed out all of the signs of being unfaithful in the post, and I'm not justifying anything, by her own words she views this as a relationship, so that is what I referred to it as because that is what was established.
/r/seduction16/08/26 08:12 PM
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Yeah, shes the one who started the relationship talk and telling people I'm her boyfriend. She even was saying I love you to me, at a point, but I wouldnt say it back. I was just not sure if boundaries are meant to be set if it is being kept casual
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:29 PM
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I'm clearly paying attention, ive been doing this for awhile. My question that I want to ask people is, should I be setting a boundary if its just going to be casual or should I have just been nonchalant the way that I was?
/r/seduction16/08/26 07:27 PM
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Her or just in general? Yes, of course if we're talking about in general, but I am going there anyways to see my family. Also, staying with her, I wouldnt have to pay for a hotel room. My buddy who I usually stay with, also the one she used to work with, recently moved to Colorado.
/r/seduction16/08/26 04:39 PM
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Doesnt mean I wouldnt like 2nd opinions before making decisions, while also getting to vent, get things off my chest and giving myself space to regroup. Thats the point of subs like these, correct? Also, my post may help someone going through a similar situation somewhere down the line. Where they can see advice, make a decision, help themselves cope and know people have been through it and can relate to them. However, my question to you is, with my approach specifically, even shifting to taking…
/r/seduction16/08/26 04:02 PM
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Well, of course I'm disappointed, thinking about if I should have stayed nonchalant the way I did and take a step back from relationship talk or if I should have set a boundary in the moment and still switched the vibe to a more casual thing.
/r/seduction16/08/26 03:49 PM
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So, the way it is, is that we met one night while I was on leave, my buddy worked with her, I guess she talked about me all the time to him, but I was dating another woman, who I had been with for 9 months, so I didnt pursue. I messaged her and said "remember me?" And she said "duh, of course I remember the love of my life" so we started talking, I always wait for her to reach out, even if it takes awhile. She tells everyone that I'm her boyfriend though, we video call and talk on the phone freq…
/r/seduction16/08/26 03:47 PM
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So here is my question to you about what you would have done in that instance, with my mindset specifically, not the "cut her off" approach, would you have stayed indifferent as I did? Or would you have set a boundary to not seem like a pushover?
/r/seduction16/08/26 03:36 PM
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I refuse to date multiple women for 1, she is/was my girlfriend, and 3 its my hometown, I was coming to see my family and she wanted me to stay with her while I was there. How am I doing to much when she is always the one to contact me? I'm an insecure mess, but that happens with every girl that I'm really into, even if they arent doing anything wrong and that unfortunately is something that just wont change, no matter how much I work on it. The only thing that changes is how I act and respond i…
/r/seduction16/08/26 02:21 PM
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Lack self respect from acting completely unbothered doesn't seem right, I acted like I didn't care at all, I imagine that is also why she asked if I get jealous.
/r/seduction16/08/26 01:46 PM
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She also said he "was like 46" so hes not that old in the grand scheme of things, shes 27. She didnt know his age that was her estimate
/r/seduction16/08/26 12:05 PM
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She sounded pretty enthusiastic when she gave it to him and its unusual for her to say she's going to call me back and not do it, she normally always calls me at that time
/r/seduction16/08/26 11:57 AM
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I would like something more serious than surface level I guess.
/r/seduction16/08/26 06:57 AM
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It's funny you say that because she actually did call me the love of her life before. That is highly disappointing, I really liked her.
/r/seduction16/08/26 06:33 AM
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I cant do that if I'm not there.
/r/seduction16/08/26 06:32 AM
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He also mentioned looking for long term, I similarly have gotten laid everywhere I've been, even with some places only being there for a week, but I cant keep a relationship to save my life
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:36 AM
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You can love someone and want different things, just because their wants and needs don't align doesn't mean he was using her.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 07:08 PM
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Works for me
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:18 PM
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Get a hotel
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:14 AM
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You can also mess it up if she finds you attractive for whatever reason. I know from experience.
/r/seduction11/06/24 02:41 PM
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Those doubles are crucial
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:59 PM
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Delivery matters
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:58 PM
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Cuddling
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:57 PM
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No offense but you don't sound like the best of people, rather than ghost, you can be upfront about everything and still tell him that you would like to lose contact.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 07:46 PM
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I dont even try to close anymore, helps me find the really interested and available ones. They find me on social media after they meet me and it's easy af from there.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:16 AM
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This, the hot women act just like the less attractive women when you treat them the same.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:38 PM
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It's overrated
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:51 PM
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Doesn't work like that.
/r/seduction30/09/19 12:19 PM
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