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It's all bullshit, but actually learning about entrepreneurship wouldn't hurt you. Find a reputable source… maybe the MIT's courses are decent? I can't vouch for them. The two main domains that study entrepreneurship are economics and sociology. You could have a look at academic books in those domains. Most of my references are in French, I can't recommend introductory books in English. I did find this article though, for the economic perspective, it should give you an idea about the main themes…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 09:26 PM
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There's definitely trends. It's especially noticeable if you're not straight and look into what straight people are like in relationships. They tend to conform to social expectations. Not that they're always happy doing it, but they sure do try. This results in them overlooking actually compatible partners, hating the gender they're attracted to, and accepting myths about relationship (eg. "love conquers all"). Also, there's clearly how for straight women you'd have to be performing some form of…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:44 PM
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Yep, people constantly classify and judge each others on the basis of narrow social clues. It's not just women.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 11:37 PM
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Unredpilled and yet based.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 09:49 PM
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I assume you'll take the time to critically evaluate what you read in those, as well as look up when they were written, and by whom, so that you can contextualize them properly: Ellis's "REBT Diminishes Much of the Human Ego" Watzlawick's The Situation is Hopeless, But Not Serious: The Pursuit of Unhappiness Watzlawick's Ultra-solutions: How to Fail Most Successfully Russell's The Conquest of Happiness hooks's The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love Seed for Change's Working with Conflict…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 01:58 PM
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ooh so that's where they come from btw i just report and block, no need to interact unless you want to mess with them
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 06:49 AM
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You're not a real feminist if you don't read Solanas's SCUM Manifesto every night before bed. /s
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:29 PM
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They're all secretly gay /j
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 01:08 PM
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I'd like to at least have the chance to play the game I'm aromantic and asexual and I feel that too, if we're roughly talking about the same thing. I am or used (not sure) to be sex and romance favorable, and yet what people expect is inscrutable, or at least very had to discover. There's a lot of unspoken things in dating, and apparently you can't just ask. I'm sure not being attractive plays a role for you, but maybe there are other unspoken things you're not aware of. Whatever the cause, the …
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:02 AM
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That's the social roles assigned to people even quite early in life. Women are supposed to be pretty, passive, and waiting for a man. Men are supposed to be strong, active, and always seeking a woman until not single anymore. Deviants are punished in various ways, like with mockery, lack of role models, added difficulties in dating, etc.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 12:27 AM
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https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/02/neckbeard-cartoon/
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 01:02 PM
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Al right then, we agree on the key points! Usually "don't care about what people think" and variants come with that background of "ignore real disadvantages/discrimination and pretend everything is fine".
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 09:33 PM
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While eventually you do come with sound advice, your reasons aren't too great. Being aware of disadvantages and discrimination can be very useful not to be discouraged and to filter out arses as early as possible. For example I tried to make friends on /r/asexualdating two months ago, since I saw a lot of posts seeking that, friendship. I told in my opening messages I was aromantic, and I got violently ignored, while even those complaining about being so mentioned at least a few answers. My conc…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 09:19 PM
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How can I during times of unemployment that's often due to a promising new business needing more time to work on, needing to learn a new trade, found a new job that I'm prepping for, or outright being dismissed from the company for no fault of my own. How do I keep or maintain a relationship in such cases? That's a valid question other commenters aren't answering. My guess, they are steeped in the same ideology I want to denounce. Not everyone is like that thankfully, and if that's a value of yo…
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 01:21 AM
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She loves having guy friends. She had many before me and has gained more since being in a relationship with me. She even meets with these guys some times 1:1. Red pill guys always state a girl only has guy friends for attention so if she’s still having guy friends while dating me, then “I’m not enough” It's actually a green flag! That means she's more likely to 1) understand you can keep friends while being in a relationship, and with people of the gender she's attracted to, which is a solid fou…
/r/ExRedPill26/11/22 09:44 AM
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First please make a review of the literature, build a model, make hypotheses, and deduce operational hypotheses from them.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 11:04 AM
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live with the awareness you are a being progressing towards death act on the basis of what you know to be true take part in projects that go towards a better society, be they collective or at your individual level
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 06:33 AM
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You've discovered the dilemma of conservative women: you submit to those values that put you above "other women", but those values are pushed by people who do not actually follow them and are actually used to make you more subservient. Then you cling onto those values and divert your anger at people you think are beneath you, and you may even consider everything is their fault, not that of conservative men.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 01:21 PM
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Generalizations from science are like "based on this sample, we think there's a correlation between this well-defined variable and this other well-defined variable, and in our sample it explains X% of the variance observed between the two groups we compared". Folk generalization are more like "I heard that all romani steal copper, and yesterday copper was stolen at my work, a few weeks after some romani settled in the town 30km away, so that confirms it".
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 05:31 PM
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/r/bropill and /r/MensLib aren't only about relationships but they're relevant imo.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 02:11 PM
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Ah yes neoliberal feminism: https://theconversation.com/how-neoliberalism-colonised-feminism-and-what-you-can-do-about-it-94856 And the book you cited is precisely the one Rottenberg takes as the prototype of neoliberal feminism!
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 11:29 AM
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I did not have a say in it, because I did not understand the situation (or if I vaguely did, could not admit to it), so I never made said first step, and eventually they'd ignore me. Due to how this kept repeating for most of my life along with other misunderstandings around gender, and I did not get the why until much later, this has been a big contributor to a complex PTSD related to gender and friendships.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 10:13 AM
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in tarnation
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:17 AM
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women are people source? jfc man
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:02 AM
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I've always been fat, I'm not rich, and women have regularly put me against my will in the romancezone. My trick? Cis straight men who ask questions like yours almost always reject it, but here I go again anyway: establish an authentic connection with women as persons, practice active listening, care about them, work towards establishing a healthy bond, learn to manage conflicts, encourage them and yourself to grow. They've been ready to destroy our friendships to try to get me to make the first…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 03:00 AM
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Feminism is very diverse and some of its strands have been criticized for racism. You might to look into womanism, and latina feminists. Personally, I especially like bell hooks, and I recommend Feminism is for Everybody which is 150 pages long and can be found on libgen.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 03:12 PM
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Maybe your styles of interacting and her expectations aren't compatible.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 01:42 PM
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imo in the case of feminists, when it's not a badly phrased thing about mental load and lack of reciprocation, it's a mix of heteropessimism and actually subscribing to parts of toxic masculinity as a model without realizing it (because it's been erected as a model of how you can be efficient at work and in life in general).
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 10:20 PM
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Even before birth, individuals are sorted into two social groups, men and women, and this is a very fertile ground for well-known psycho-social phenomena such as perceiving the out-group as homogeneous. This applies to women who think all men are or should be stoic, and to men who think no woman can care. Of course, you'll also find men who think men should be stoic because of their own sexism, and women who think women shouldn't care because of a misplaced sense of rebellion. There are women wh…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 01:52 PM
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Well, reading what people post here they mention many things that make them suffer, and dating woes are just a symptom of that, because dating is painted as the solution to many things by society. To process that, I offer what I know is useful. You label this as "politics", and argue that politics and dating are unrelated, and should stay unrelated… but this can only work if you do this labeling, and deny the causal links I'm referring to, such as between amatonormativity and suffering from the …
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:29 PM
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Anything can end up being considered political. Something ends up being political after going through a lengthy, complex process of agenda setting. Conversely, that means you can de-politize anything being making it fall out of the political agenda. That indicates that nothing is intrinsically political. Here, I bring feminist concepts to understand reality better, and I suggest how to act upon it on an individual level. It's barely political yet. Though, if you consider it as political, even if…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 01:10 PM
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Oh it's worse than liberal, and I have quite the experience in causing stirs in feminist and leftist spaces I go to, I know how much they can suck. It's why I advocate making this stuff yours, rather than following yet another guru. But even if it's clear we have differing life experiences, beliefs, etc., you have a point about seeking self-actualization, and how it's too easy to stay stuck in a victim mentality even with what I posted. Maybe some bell hooks is also in order in what I usually re…
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 11:46 PM
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That's understandable, and as I mentioned, online feminist communities aren't… optimal. Even after excluding the explicitly transphobic ones. At any rate, people shouldn't fall for gurus, they should build their own understanding of things, look for sources, and check the validity of arguments.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:26 PM
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Have a look at some links if you're unconvinced, like the one about amatonormativity, and think about things in your life that correspond to it. A typical example is when a friend gets into a romantic relationship and doesn't hang out anymore with his friends. A practical consequence to fix that would be to make a deal-breaker the expectation to give 100% of your time to a romantic prospect. Or to tell to friends who mock a friend who's single to cut it out.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:11 PM
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The point is to be more relaxed about those, and to focus on what you actually want, not what you think you should want, or what you think you need to feel like a Real Man. If you look at TRP content through a feminist lens, it's quite obvious it's barely about sexual and romantic partnerships, but about, well, what I listed. A lot of people who come here mention being humiliated by women for not being manly enough, either in dating or outside of it. They also show a lot of suffering due to thei…
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 10:03 PM
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oh you don't have to join a group, you can just take those ideas and use them for yourself; they're way more powerful and liberatory than those of TRP
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:20 PM
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Ideally there should be feminism, but as I've been talking about with a friend recently, the first online spaces you're going to find are going to be very unfriendly, since they tend to classify any masc person who fails at being masculine as a potential threat (not very feminist, I know). Have a look at my post history to see an example. Nonetheless, until there's a masc-friendly consciousness-raising feminist group, you can very well make parts of feminism yours. And there's a lot of very usef…
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 09:08 PM
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It sounds like post hoc ergo propter hoc, that is, you observe an event, then another, and so think the first caused the second. The problem is that you've selected one event among many others that also happened. Because TRP made "talking about your feelings" the salient thing, it's what comes to mind first. Maybe it has already happened that whenever you're alone with her, there's sex, and she doesn't want it at this moment for whatever reason unrelated to you? Maybe lower libido, some medical …
/r/ExRedPill24/09/22 06:27 PM
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The first aid kit linked by automod is decent, it should be useful. But besides that, it could be interesting to get behind the points he makes—because he's just going to parrot them and hide behind the authority of their sources—and look at 1° his methods to receive and accept new information and ideas 2° what need is he trying to fulfill. That is, assuming you still have enough energy and motivation to try to steer him away from this content. I'm not saying you should, the rest of this message…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 03:29 PM
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Let's simply accept your observations about straight women and the dynamics of heterosexual relationships, but as trends. There is a lot of nuance and fact-checking to do, and I especially like /u/xvszero's quote, but let's assume your observations are true trends. Well… now what? What do you make of that? The red pill and incel stuff take those trends, overgeneralize them, and pretend it's women's nature. Then they justify treating each others even more horribly, like by furthering the view of …
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 03:21 AM
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testing to see if I can post without getting automoded because not enough karma or whatever, ignore this pls
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 03:01 AM
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