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What league? Of course you’re dateable. You’re dateable to the right woman. Don’t regress to the mean. Go for personality maximalism. Uncover your virtues and quirks, and lean INTO them, not away from them. Sure, in the short term you might be less successful with women who don’t admire your virtues or understand your quirks, but when you find one who does? You’ll be catnip. Don’t try to date ALL the women. Aim for the women who like guys like you. And never pander; women can smell that shit lik…
/r/seduction03/09/25 02:24 PM
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You tell them in advance. If they want a relationship after that, it’s on them, but you clearly communicated what you want. It’s not rocket science, guys.
/r/seduction22/03/25 05:49 PM
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Not a beginner (happily in a relationship). But when I was. . . How many did I approach daily? One. How did I handle rejection? I lived my goddamn life. I went to the gym. I read a book. I played a good video game. I phoned up a friend to chat. Rejection isn't the end of the world.
/r/seduction28/02/25 05:40 PM
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I think splitting hairs over terminology isn’t very productive here. The point is our man finds himself in sexual encounters where he’s frustrated. My simple advice is - why continue the encounter if it’s not bringing you joy?
/r/seduction28/02/25 11:41 AM
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No, you’re goated for listening to my story :)
/r/seduction28/02/25 02:02 AM
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Sure, I’d be happy to share. It’s not anything especially exciting, but it was deeply profound for me. It all began when I had an epiphany about a woman in my life. Let’s call her Liz. Liz was fucking obsessed with me. We tried dating briefly but it didn’t work. We did a sutustionship thing for a year and a half but that didn’t work either. I wasn’t attracted to her at all. We remained friends because we were so close. She was like family to me. But she was destroying my self esteem. Gaslighting…
/r/seduction27/02/25 01:05 PM
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You’d be surprised.
/r/seduction27/02/25 12:24 PM
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The most important thing is self-respect. I had shit luck with girls for a while. Then, I got over a bunch of my insecurities over the course of a deeply transformative week and suddenly I had gorgeous women flirting with me on a fairly regular basis. Not every gorgeous woman I met wanted me, obviously, but enough of them were interested that I was kind of floored. No, every date didn’t go well. I went out with this cute med student who ended up ghosting me, and another girl decided she just wan…
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:29 AM
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Have some self-respect man. You stop all the action so YOU don’t get blue balls. Either she finishes you some other way or you pack up the props. If you want to continue with oral, do oral. If you want her to stroke you off, let her stroke you off. If you want to dress up like Cookie Monster and do the Macarena, do that. But if some chick is torturing you by teasing your member and refusing to fuck when you want to, tell her to stop. Don’t just sit there on your back frustrated you can’t get any…
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:17 AM
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I have a gf, but I’ll tell you what I used to do. Once you’re in bed with the girl for the first time, just ask her what she wants, how far she wants to go, etc. And honestly, I used to weave the whole “how do you feel about sex” question into the convo BEFORE we go to bed but AFTER we’d established a rapport. Unless you’re extremely awkward, it’s really not that hard. How old are you? I haven’t had the no sex until relationships problem since like college lol.
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:04 AM
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EDIT: This was supposed to be a comment Reply. Oops.
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:03 AM
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This is great advice to get arrested or lose all your friends.
/r/seduction27/02/25 03:56 AM
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I recommend that you talk to these girls about their sexual norms before getting in bed with them. It’ll save you a lot of time.
/r/seduction27/02/25 03:24 AM
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I figured out this neat little trick where you can stimulate her butthole, clitoris, and vaginal cavity at the same time. Basically you finger her with your index and middle fingers from behind, then spread out your hand so that your pinkie is on her clit and your thumb is on the outside of her butthole. The only motion you need to worry about is thrusting into her vagina, the rest takes cares of itself. At an advanced level you can put a bit of pressure on her clit and asshole with your thumb a…
/r/seduction03/02/25 01:58 AM
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Quit porn. It'll do wonders.
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:43 PM
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Leave her on red, never look back. This woman is strange.
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:46 AM
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"I'm a woman not a girl" chick ain't worth your time. It's such a petty thing to get upset about in this cultural context. What I do when a girl says "No I'm not pretty/beautiful/etc." is say something like "you are to me". That makes it more personal, and it's worked pretty well for me.
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:11 PM
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It was totally scummy. You have the right to be upset with him.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:59 PM
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Christina Hendricks easy peasy.
/r/seduction28/11/21 12:22 AM
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Not at all. I don't think you're fat at all. You're thick/curvy, which is actually the preferred body type for lots of men, myself included. You look like you take care of yourself and you have nice hair and a nice face. Some men who like really thin girls might pass you by, but I'd pass by those really thin girls and go for girls like you. Based on looks alone, I'd go on a date with you. You're fine.
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:58 PM
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What this guy said. Source: I am a guy.
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:32 PM
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Seduction is at least 50% personality for men, probably more. If you’re ugly, you’ll need all the insight and skills you can get.
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:59 PM
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Yes. This reminds me of Slavoj Zizek's famous bit about wisdom: "Wisdom is totally useless. For every shitty piece of wisdom, there's another piece of wisdom that tells you to do the opposite thing. If you start a business and it succeeds, some old wise guy will tell you that you cannot succeed if you don't take risks. If you start one and fail, some other old wise guy will tell you 'you cannot piss against the wind.' You see? Totally useless."
/r/seduction19/06/21 07:14 PM
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This this this.
/r/seduction19/06/21 03:48 PM
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Then you’re friends with the wrong women, buddy.
/r/seduction16/06/21 01:05 AM
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There is a profound joy in talking about girls with lesbians.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:16 PM
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This isn’t a miracle cure for your dating woes, just something small that will help.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:11 PM
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You say that now, but there are women out there who share your interests. You just have to find them. I say this as a fellow introvert.
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:37 AM
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You’ve got it backwards. Don’t be friends with people whose company you don’t enjoy. Only make genuine friendships that enrich your life. Anyone who treats you as a trophy isn’t worth being friends with.
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:36 AM
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Good luck man!
/r/seduction15/06/21 03:59 AM
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Or even if you never get with that girl, maybe she introduces you to her friend who wants to get into climbing (I saw that you climb). Or maybe she wants to do a hiking trip with you, since you're into fitness, and she brings along her friend from work and suddenly you guys hit it off. Victory.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:47 AM
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Then they've got other problems. This isn't a cure-all, just a small thing that will help.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:42 AM
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Yeesh, that's a little cynical. You shouldn't make friends with girls *just* because they'll help you improve your seduction game. That's silly. Every friendship should be unique, rich, and emotionally fulfilling. I'm just saying that making friends with girls will help your romantic/sex life, which is the point of this sub. I could've made a post about the benefits of having female friends in a gajillion different subs, this is just a seduction subreddit and therefore my focus will be on seduct…
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:42 AM
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Any woman who plays those games is not worth having as a friend, let alone a romantic partner. Period. A mature, self-aware woman will handle things like this directly and forthrightly. There's a lot of chaff in this world. Don't settle for anything but wheat. I don't even care if "most women" will play those silly games with you. If that's the case, then "most women" aren't worth being friends with. And that's ok.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:38 AM
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Yeah, I hear you. It can be difficult. I think becoming a more friendly and approachable person just takes time and practice. You could start by just complimenting girls on things you notice about them that you genuinely like. For instance, I saw a cute girl with some interesting tattoos at a coffee shop today and so I complimented her on them. She smiled, said thanks, then I moved on. I didn't need to get into her pants, I was happy with the small interaction I had. Now, take this next part wit…
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:37 AM
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Happy to help my friend :)
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:26 AM
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That last part is true. You can’t be a plaything, you’ve gotta have self-respect. And practicing that act of healthy boundary-setting will teach you self-respect. It’ll also train you not to bend over backwards for girls you’re interested in.
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:32 AM
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Exactly! That’s exactly what I’m talking about!
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:09 AM
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That’s just kind of amusing. And untrue.
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:17 PM
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No, on the friends of friends they set you up with.
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:02 PM
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You’re kidding right? You really don’t think men and women can have genuine, rich friendships? That, right there, is your problem, my friend. You’re missing out on half the population’s worth of interesting, incredible people who will enrich and being meaning to your life in addition to the benefits I discussed. Make friends with a girl. Give it a try. It might just be worth it.
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:37 PM
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More exposure, more dates, more opportunities to practice. Cha ching
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:15 PM
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Alright, a few things. First, women make up half the population, and you’re telling me you can’t make ONE female friend? What a joke. How do you expect to get girls to like you if you can’t make friends with any of them? If you can’t make female friends at all, I’m sorry to say it, there’s something wrong with you in the equation. I don’t know if you’re desperate when you talk to girls, or if you have a personality that repulses women, but either way, you need to get out of your shell and figure…
/r/seduction14/06/21 06:01 PM
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Public transit is ambiguous. I agree that public transit is safe, but there’s one situation you should avoid: where you’re in the same row as her between her and the aisle. Even if it’s public, she might still feel trapped. Or she might not. You’ve gotta read the situation. One way to avoid this is to sit down on the row across from her, then ask to join her or vice versa. Personally I almost never approach on public transit for a very different reason: if the conversation is boring, it’s hard t…
/r/seduction14/06/21 04:42 PM
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Your points on 1 and 5 are well-taken, but, respectfully, I think you're mistaken about 2. I have lots of female friends and they tell me that, when talking to guys, feeling trapped is a real concern they have. Even if she might otherwise like you, she won't feel comfortable around you if she feels trapped with no way out of the conversation. According to what I've learned from my female friends, when a woman sees a man she doesn't know, she's trying to figure out if he's an "evil psycho killer"…
/r/seduction14/06/21 04:08 PM
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Take out all the self-help crap and put in more classics. Men don't need this self-help advice, they need proper edification.
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:36 PM
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Go to the very end for direct advice. Also, I'm typing this comment assuming you only want to hook up with her. If you want to date her, ask her out, easy peasy. Overall, there's no bullshit trick to "hack a woman's mind" and get her to start slavering over you. If there were really a method that straightforward and reliable it would be common knowledge by now. As a matter of principle you shouldn't believe any dating advice that sounds like that because women are not robots who can be controlle…
/r/seduction09/05/20 12:36 PM
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