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| 10 | How do I ask a guy friend that I wanna make out & possibly hookup with him later ?Just kiss him next time you're in person, and say "Wanna go back to my/your place?" If he's interested, he'll say yes. Men like things straightforward. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:34 PM |
| 34 | How do I get women?First off, major problem to your approach is "Get women" Try working on yourself first, go do stuff that makes you happy, become an interesting well rounded person. People will come to you. There is no fast track to dating successfully, anyone who tells you otherwise is trying to sell you something. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 04:48 AM |
| 55 | Short dude by myself at a club, Somehow I went to Airbnb with a girl maybe 5’ 9” and all her friends.For all my Short Kings out there. Height is a fuckin' illusion. Chicks who pass you up because they're too focused on superficial shit ain't worth your time or energy. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:34 AM |
| 113 | Short dude by myself at a club, Somehow I went to Airbnb with a girl maybe 5’ 9” and all her friends.I'm 5'6, the chick I'm seeing right now is 6'1. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 90 | [deleted by user]Sex still counts even if you don't get off. | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotWhat CompetitionFair said, "Also you need to fake confidence because insecurity is a turn off" Is utter bullshit. Faking confidence is arguably worse than not being confident. Girls smell that shit from a mile away, and if they don't, the second you slip up, they know. Sounds like you've got more than just girl troubles. Focus on what's going to make you happy, bring joy to yourself, work, hobbies, art, what-have-you. If you think you'll benefit from therapy, see a therapist, surprisingly they'r… | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I just turned 28, personally, I've had 7 different partners. My friend group ranges between 25-37 years old. I think a ton of what "average" constitutes depends on where you grew up, how big of a city you lived in, your cultural/religious upbringing, to the point that average is going to be largely subject to those factors, and the group you're currently in. I've been told that 7 was both high and low. I think the much healthier approach to sexual experience is to focus on why someone is havin… | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I think you're being highly unrealistic. I've only met a few people who've had less than 5 sexual partners (and most of them grew up ultra-conservative or repressed and now have a variety of issues revolving around sex/sexuality which seem to negatively impact their sex life [whether with a committed partner or not]) I'd say the median number from the people I know is between about 7-10. I know a few who's average relationship lasts close to 6 years, so their number is lower, I think 3 year rela… | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Sometimes I wish I was not autistic. I know that sounds bad but it's how I feel in these types of circumstances.So, I've never gotten an official diagnosis, but I'm almost certainly on the spectrum. And I also struggled for a long ass time. Here's a few things I'd focus on: Body language -- With everyone. There's a lot of good youtube videos about it. Generally, the more comfortable with you a person is, the closer they want to be (to a point) Just focus on how different people respond in conversation. When you hang out with friends, focus on the distance from you they prefer. Try moving 5-6 inches clos… | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 06:21 PM |
| 7 | Feeling hopeless in my dating lifeRead this: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/pexamx/from\_a\_fellow\_autist\_flirting\_tips\_that\_actually/ | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Should it be this hard?Realistically speaking we have as much perspective on OP & lady friend's interactions as a grain of sand at the beach. It's Schrodinger's Relationship right now. Currently, there is just as good a possibility that she's not at all interested in anything past FWB, as there is that she's super into OP and is having the same worries as he is, that he's not as interested in her as she is in him and thus she isn't bringing it up out of fear of losing him. So again back to what I said, not bringin… | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 07:48 PM |
| 32 | Should it be this hard?That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard. By all means let's just keep perpetuating the Stoic Man™ stereotype where men don't have feelings, emotions, wants or needs outside of sex, and certainly don't communicate. I hereby kindly invite you to fuck directly off. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 05:42 AM |
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