SorryCantHelpItEh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gap You have reading retention issues, dont you? Go back and re-read what has been italicized. I get it, women are wonderful and can do no wrong, and its far easier to just assume the man is the issue. Im telling you though, the sweeping assumptions you make are dead wrong, and are really just showing your prejudice. Have the day you deserve	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/26 12:53 AM
1	Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gap Not for any of the women I've dated or married🤷‍♂️ BJs were few and far between, and asking them to get on top was like pulling teeth. The majority of women I've slept with were more than happy to starfish their way through it all, and expect me to do everything necessary to ensure both of our orgasms like some pampered pillow princess. And no, before anyone tries to throw shade, I do not skip foreplay, nor do I focus solely on my own orgasm. I've always been a firm believer in "she gets hers fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 10:13 PM
3	any men regret their vasectomy? Reading through all this as someone who is booked in to get snipped next wednesday, it's very reassuring! I've been debating getting one for years, and I'm finally biting the proverbial bullet lol. For what it's worth, though, four of my friends have had the snip and not a single one of them has regretted it!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/11/25 04:55 PM
17	what are some things women can get away with but men can't? They are, and then a doctor comes by and slices off thousands of nerve endings for the sake of "cleanliness" and aesthetics	/r/MensRights	28/09/24 04:17 PM
7	African woman here, why do men stay silent in the west? Good for you brother, way to be the change you want to see in the world! If even 10% more people in the world were like you, we'd have the winning ticket! Keep up the great work my guy 😁	/r/MensRights	06/07/24 10:25 PM
9	"Not all men but always a man" Is a sexist statement. There's a subreddit geared towards exactly this, r/menkampf	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 03:53 PM
1	Mid-week check-in A little tight this week, as wifey started a new job last week and only got half a paycheck Friday, and my hours have been abysmal at work, but hey, we're still kickin. A little less "fun money" this pay period, but at least the rent and bills are paid and there's food in the cupboards 😁	/r/MenSupportMen	28/02/23 08:48 PM
2	Men, delete your dating profiles IMMEDIATELY While still a disgusting behaviour, that has absolutely nothing to do with what's being talked about here. You're talking about random pictures taken in public, to be posted in a group where people can judge/drool over/in general just be pigs. What's being talked about here is people's info being pulled from a dating site, and those people being doxxed and having sensitive information about their personal lives trotted out for all to see. This isn't a "oh god, look how hot he is, I wanna climb h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 02:36 AM
10	An interesting prediction for the dating market You're right, a Conservative government would care so much more about homeless/addicts, and they'd jump at the chance to fund a program to help them	/r/MensRights	03/11/22 03:28 PM
5	Is one of the playable piece a Karen? It was purchased for my daughter too, and it's never been opened. Promoting sexism of any flavour is a no-go in our house	/r/PussyPass	18/10/22 04:39 AM
1	(Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.? There's only one area I care even slightly about, and all I ask is to trim like I do. Neither of us enjoy a mouthful of pubic hair lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 08:47 PM
12	This person doesn’t acknowledge that it could be both parties at fault but each is judged differently for not wanting the child depending on if it’s a man that doesn’t want it, or a woman that doesn’t want it. No, they're just forced to pay, whether the child is even actually theirs or not.	/r/MensRights	20/01/22 10:16 AM
5	Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all). Except they didn't "get tf over it", they got those subs taken down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 08:18 AM
2	Change My View: the "Female Dating Strategy" reddit-verse posters often exhibit behavior as bad or worse than that of the men they criticize (and allow zero discussion, at all). Generally a man who does this is referred to as a "player" and it's looked down upon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/21 08:16 AM
9	Study: Misogynists Believe They Are Unattractive to Women Is that any different than a literal man having to deal with the fallout for something he never did? But other men are the problem, right? Not his literal friend who took out her frustrations with Steven on an innocent bystander? Men are demonized just as often, if not more, than women, and often for the actions of other men. When you start treating a person as if they're gonna act like the bad apples you've interacted with previously that just happen to share a demographic with that person, it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/21 03:06 PM
3	The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggerated My assumption there is that with taxes being based off of gross income, if women are paid less/make less money, then they are paying less taxes. (At least, that's my take on it)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 08:16 AM
1	Women want to be valued for more than sex, but they are unwilling to do things that make them valued for more than sex Woman hold handrails provided, woman no fall down. Not having a seat for every single passenger is not something a person can sue for. Do you seriously think a company can be sued for the actions of its passengers? ...it's a hypothetical. How am I supposed to provide proof of a hypothetical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 08:54 PM
1	Women want to be valued for more than sex, but they are unwilling to do things that make them valued for more than sex Giving up a seat on public transit is a health issue? Not sure I follow. And first responders are the only people involved in a disaster situation, right? I wasn't talking about first responders. Hypothetical situation time: an apartment building collapses due to whatever random act of god you'd like to select, and first responders are not yet in the scene. In two separate locations, a woman and her child are trapped in one room, and a pair of adult brothers are trapped in another. There is only…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 08:48 PM
1	Women want to be valued for more than sex, but they are unwilling to do things that make them valued for more than sex "Women and children first" in any disaster situation, for one. Women are to be protected, saved. Men are to protect and save. The godlike reverence extended to pregnant women. Pregnant woman on a bus or subway? Better give up your seat, or be publicly scorned. One could also bring up the "single mom" card. There are many, many things people will give/do for a "single mom" that wouldn't be done for a "single dad". Just look at the perceived difference in treatment between a single mom and a singl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 08:05 PM
7	What kinds of bias or sexism you have face as a man? Being looked at like I'm some kind of pedophile when I'm at the playground with my daughter, because of course if an adult male is around children it's because he's eyeing them up like a piece of candy.	/r/MensRights	19/07/21 12:57 AM
8	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. On what basis do you claim it "represents the thinking of many guys in here"? Your own internalized man-hate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 05:49 PM
9	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. Are you really going to sit there and tell me you can't tell that it's a troll post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 05:46 PM
10	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. Well, I'm a man here, and I shower, so yes, I do think men here shower. Why do you think they don't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 05:38 PM
5	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. Why would that matter?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 05:34 PM
–	Women do think physical attractiveness is important. It's just not impossibly high standards. Just don't be a neckbeard. "A lot"? Literally none of my male friends refuse to shower.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 04:40 PM
–	Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be? Me too, brother. Our rent is low (family home) and she makes good money, so when I was laid off we decided/agreed I'd be a SAHD. We've never been happier	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 11:01 PM
3	Too late for me, but I have a buddy who is heading in this direction. I thought he was slacking off not getting hitched starting a family, etc.., now I think he is a wise man who main-lining the secret language of the universe.. Either way, you're losing half	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/21 01:50 AM
2	If you could talk to your 18 year old self, what would you tell him to prepare him for the world? 🏆	/r/MensRights	07/06/21 12:12 AM
2	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. Where did I say anything at all about excessive or inappropriate? You sure read a lot that wasn't there out of two words.	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 06:59 AM
2	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. So naturally, save your own skin instead of standing up for what's right. Ahh, the bystander effect	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 01:15 AM
1	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. Whereas I'm basing what I'm saying off the pattern of behaviour evinced by abusive spouses. There are far more downsides to hitting back than not, especially given the gynocentric nature of society nowadays. It's a losing battle.	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 01:13 AM
3	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. You don't think so? If she feels superior enough to him to strike him for his "transgressions", then him retaliating will cause her to find something to level the playing field with. A frying pan, a knife, anything close to hand that she can use to reinstate herself as the superior individual. "Beating someone up" for slapping you makes YOU the piece of shit, and will only end one of two ways: jail, or the morgue	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 01:00 AM
17	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. And after you tell someone "I won't tolerate this" and they do it again? What then? Abusers don't stop just because you tell them to, no matter how much you may wish otherwise. As far as distancing oneself goes, I can tell you from experience that walking away from an abusive spouse does not make them suddenly stop. My ex wife would absolutely follow me through the house, continuing to slap, scream and abuse. Many's the time I thought to myself "maybe I should just start fighting back". Who know…	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 12:55 AM
2	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. In a perfect world, yes, but the world we live in is far from perfect. With as entitled and vindictive as a lot of women are nowadays, she's far more likely to fly off the handle and attack him back, likely with a weapon of some sort, or call the cops, for daring to lay a hand on her.	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 12:44 AM
4	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. Except in this situation, if he starts doing the same, and she decides to call the authorities and spin a yarn, it's HIS ass. We all know they aren't going to side with him.	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 12:35 AM
5	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. Two wrongs don't make a right, my friend.	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 12:29 AM
23	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. Standing up for oneself and informing someone that you will defend yourself in kind is the "wrong answer"?	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 12:26 AM
19	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. How can you expect him to "stand up for himself" when no-one else supports him? You said it yourself, nobody did anything. Not one.	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 12:25 AM
2	My cousin struck her husband with an open hand on the top of his head really hard, and no one said a word. Yeah, that's in reference to masking emotions, not actively advocating for something you claim to be an advocate for. Say you call out your cousin, what's the worst that happens? She gets pissy at you? Now, what's the worst that can happen in the opposite situation? She continues her abusive behaviour unchecked, believing she's in the right....and one day she gets so worked up she caves his head in with a frying pan.	/r/MensRights	04/06/21 12:22 AM
2	Hubby and I did something a wee bit unethical, but it will likely pay off. I just wanna say, thank you all for your support and kind words. We were a little on the fence after reaching out, because it kinda felt like overstepping our bounds, crossing a line. Between the gentleman in question's gratitude to us for reaching out, and the positive affirmations we've been reading here, we've definitely been breathing a lot easier about the situation, so again, thank you :)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/21 04:46 PM
0	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. Then we will just have to agree to disagree, my friend :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 01:34 AM
-1	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. Yes, I read that already, and wasn't going to bother replying to an obviously bad faith argument. But since you wanna press the issue, YES. And if I decide that's not for me, then that's fine. But it doesn't give me the right to call you a slave-driving gold digger, does it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 12:56 AM
0	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. Choosing not to participate in something is not the same as judging or condemning that thing. You're well within your right to choose not to do something, but the second you start belittling someone for desiring those things, you become the asshole. Take homosexuality as an example. It's fine for me to say "I am not attracted to men". It's NOT fine for me to judge someone who is, or to stoop to calling them degrading names like "f*ggot".	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 12:27 AM
4	If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking. Is he though? Or is that just your perception? Who's to say that making him feel loved isn't as simple as looking after him? If cooking/cleaning for your spouse isn't your shtick, that's fine, and nobody is going to force you to do it. But that doesn't mean you get to condemn someone who is looking for those things from their spouse, any more than I get to condemn a woman who feels loved when I buy flashy gifts for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/21 12:16 AM
7	Hubby and I did something a wee bit unethical, but it will likely pay off. Thank you, kind sir/madam :) He very much is thankful, and we've invited him to meet us for coffee to continue our chat later on this week. Here's hoping we can help him figure this stuff out!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/05/21 08:34 PM
11	Hubby and I did something a wee bit unethical, but it will likely pay off. It all starts somewhere, my friend. If we all do what we can, when we can, we can start changing things for the people getting the shaft through family court :)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/05/21 08:17 PM
40	Hubby and I did something a wee bit unethical, but it will likely pay off. Hubs here This is essentially what I told her. To me, it would be more unethical NOT to help where we could	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/05/21 08:15 PM
1	So when a high profile Woman is canceled it’s still Misogyny. Ellen DeGeneres Says Negative Press Cycle Was ‘Orchestrated’ From upcountry?	/r/MensRights	13/05/21 10:59 PM
7	Was she expecting to not get hit back? YOU PEOPLE?! /s	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/05/21 03:02 PM
8	Oh hey, a non-gendered government initiative against Domestic Family Violence? Hahaha. Nope. Funding for women's groups only. "So women are acting up? So they deserve it is what you’re saying?" Where was that said or implied at all? You're building up a strawman argument here, and putting words in someone's mouth.	/r/MensRights	03/05/21 06:21 PM
2	Oh hey, a non-gendered government initiative against Domestic Family Violence? Hahaha. Nope. Funding for women's groups only. That's just because lesbians are just men in female bodies, obviously /s	/r/MensRights	03/05/21 06:19 PM
25	Oh hey, a non-gendered government initiative against Domestic Family Violence? Hahaha. Nope. Funding for women's groups only. Two wrongs don't make a right. Talking about "horrible men" asking questions of "women showing emotion" and then turning around and acting the exact same way is hypocritical to the extreme, and completely undermines any credibility you may have. As to discrimination: yes, there absolutely ARE situations where men face discrimination. Just because you refuse to see things from that perspective, does not mean that those things don't happen. Nobody here is implying that mens problems are worse than…	/r/MensRights	03/05/21 06:15 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Okay princess	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 10:12 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? ... look back. My original comment in this thread WAS NOT EVEN DIRECTED AT YOU. Not everything in this world revolves around you, princess	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:51 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? So only YOU are allowed to argue, and tell someone to fuck off? Right. Ok. Glad we have cleared that up. Good ol' double standard. I'm done here, I'm not wasting any more time or effort. Have a nice day!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:47 PM
0	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? And you can fuck off with your "women are the real victims". You've done nothing this entire time but detract from the main issue in the post, while simultaneously showing that mens suffering and expendibility are non-issues to the average woman (unless, of course, it's HER man)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:36 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Again with that strawman. Where, in any of these comments, is there a "stance that women chose this for men"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 09:22 PM
0	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Just calling it like I see it, after reading all of your replies. If I'm so wrong, though, please enlighten me. What IS your stance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 08:48 PM
0	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? ....what am I projecting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 08:44 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? I 110% agree, my friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 08:42 PM
1	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? It's painfully obvious: men are garbage. Edit: I forgot to add the necessary "/s"	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 08:30 PM
0	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? It wouldn't matter if you did get an answer, because you wouldn't accept it. You've answered it yourself, TO yourself, already. You're just looking for a reason to hate on men as a whole for the actions of a few, while painting women to be the largest (or only) victims. You're not arguing in good faith, you're attempting to browbeat and force a narrative while deflecting from the original post, proving the exact point being made: women do not care about the suffering of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 08:29 PM
2	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? And women who profited from it 🤷‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 08:17 PM
15	Why are seemingly all women bi? TIL Billy Joe is bi	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/21 08:59 PM
21	Telling boys to just “not rape” people is very lazy advice that doesn’t actually address the problem Holy shit, you too?! I thought I was the only one! We should start a club!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/03/21 03:49 AM
9	Guarantee if the roles were reversed there’d be a lawsuit +1	/r/PussyPass	26/11/20 09:42 PM
4	My parents will adore a single mom of 4! What a catch! "Looking for fun times" "Not just a hookup". Which is it?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	31/05/20 08:01 PM
6	PUSSY PASS GRANTED: Special female jail sentence - go to jail every 2 weeks on the weekend LMAO Weeeeeell you knoooooow We all want to change the world	/r/PussyPass	02/05/20 05:05 PM
-1	2/14 Because I envy your normal life, it seems my sin is envy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	06/02/20 09:07 AM