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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How do I heal from this I misinterpreted "I don't know how to live by myself," I see. Well congrats, all the bad parts of the divorce are already known to you. Start looking forward to the good things like not having to put up with that crazy ass bitch anymore! And classes seem like a great way to re-enter the social world as a single person. There's structure and interaction but no expectations so you can practice talking to people as the new you. (That's part of my plan, anyway.)	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 06:08 PM
1	Why is this so hard even though it's so obvious? Antidepressants can be really helpful in getting centered. I can't recommend them highly enough.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 08:50 AM
1	How do I heal from this Things will start getting better once she's gone. You're wrapped up in fear of the unknown future right now but come Tuesday you will stay to know what you're future will be like little by little and it won't be anywhere near as bad as you think. Sounds like you're new hobbies are going to be learning to adult: laundry, food prep, housecleaning, etc. None of it is actually hard which is one reason why some of those jobs are called "unskilled." Watch some YouTube lifehack videos until you learn. …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 08:27 AM
4	Why is this so hard even though it's so obvious? I'm ssurprised you're getting so much flak here. My situation is similar to yours except we definitely didn't start out without passion and also it's been 25 years of marriage now. Like you, I've finally accepted that staying together means that I'm going to be married to my friend and co-parent of young adults, not someone who I can have a passionate life with anymore. I'm sad because I stayed together for years and years without intimacy and I'll never get those years back. But each new day I …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/26 07:07 AM
6	Why is this so hard even though it's so obvious? I'm in a similar situation. It's not really sex, it being loved and desired romantically by the person you love the most. I think people who need that should not live the rest of their lives without it if they have a choice. OP is choosing to pursue a full life with the hope of love. Don't shit on his decision just because you don't understand it.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/06/26 06:58 AM
2	Wife abandoned me what to do You could accuse your in-laws of kidnapping her, if there's any chance that it could reasonably be construed that way. Then they would have to address you. But it might be worse for you overall.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/26 06:15 PM
1	High-Conflict Divorce Texas- Advice Needed. If you put off your education to supporting her degrees, then half of her salary may belong to you. That's the kind of thing a good lawyer could help you get. You're playing defense 100% and not well. You need to go on offense. So far she has you vowed and thinks she will get everything and ruin you, and you're playing along! This is the fight of your life, man! Get a better lawyer. Discuss payment options.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/26 06:09 PM

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