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Thanks for the clarification!
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:06 AM
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I get where you're coming from and that you're feeling hopeless. It's been over 2 years since I hooked up. But over the last year, I worked on NMMNG, building brotherhood, and getting out. Yesterday, I worked up the courage to kiss a girl in 2 years. I'm an average looking dude and yet, sometimes when I out myself I see that some women seem interested in me. The thing is, they were interested before, I just hadn't noticed them and given them a chance. Maybe it'll take another while before I have…
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:06 AM
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I guess it would probably pay to take baby steps and learn how to calibrate. Escalate off the dance floor?
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:01 AM
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Thanks, I'm drawn to swing because of how easy it is to adapt to pop-songs. ​ edit: I found a video that seems to help with picking dances: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6kKgBPGNUE edit2: I think WCS would be more versatile for large cities in non-Latin demographics. Bachata for slow, sensual, sexy dancing followed by Salsa for spicy/high energy seduction in Latin music scenes. edit3: Here's a video to highlight Bachata: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AN4CvMGMfyU & https://www.youtube.com/wa…
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:41 PM
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What dance recommendations do you have?
/r/seduction30/12/21 03:54 AM
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Hey bro, you seem to be getting downvotes for doing your job. Here's an upvote from me. I support what you did and was thinking along the same lines for ranting and rule 6, but didn't think it'd be constructive for me to add fuel to the flame.
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:43 AM
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Yeah, not everyone values integrity. It's sad, but the only person we can control is our self.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:37 PM
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This. I've asked a few times and that turned the girls off unless we were already fucking. By contrast, just intentionally escalating and vibing is what worked.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:21 PM
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If I could upvote more than once, I'd give you many for your respectful and constructive response.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:38 PM
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If you don't have a college degree and have the finances, consider going to uni. There will be plenty of guys for you to meet and date that are intellectual, nice, into history, like old music, etc.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:35 PM
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Is this a satirical post? If not, it's a lot of telling and not showing that you're a cool gal. You might have more success with meet up, going to in person events, etc.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:26 PM
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Agreed. It'd be slimey if u/SnooPets1514 didn't tell the girls he's only interested in something casual. ​ In this situation though, u/SnooPets1514, I think the problem is that she's just not that receptive to your advances. When you try to play/flirt with her, she pushes you away. She complains about things wherever you go, which is just not attractive. The juice is not worth the squeeze. ​ Based on your experience with her... even if you do fuck her, she'll probably complain about your skills,…
/r/seduction09/10/21 02:46 PM
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200% dude! Loving the attitude and I agree with you, I can be kinky AF!
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:16 AM
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Yeah bro! You hit on another value of mine, Authenticity, which ties into courage. When I was way more depressed (mostly managed now), I felt nobody would like me as I am. For instance, I'd hide that I liked ecchi, or that I'm interested in sex from girls, or that I like to roleplay in convos (could come off as childish). There were many other things I hid too, but approaching peeps (gals and guys) allowed me to share those darker bits piece by piece. It turns out not everyone will reject you fo…
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:42 PM
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Oh yeah this! For me I'm practicing that talk to everyone idea and it's certainly deliberate! When I do that, I do tend to find myself more likely to have an okay or good Convo with a cutey!
/r/seduction26/09/21 09:02 AM
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On a separate note, your cold approach exp is like mine: Its definitely scary. I'd get so scared that I'd freeze up, that I'd just shut my mouth and look away. What helped me the most is recognizing that I've got a lot of fear and then asking myself, "Where can I start?". Turns out that even just saying Hi to strangers, let alone whether they were male or female was intimidating to me! No wonder I couldn't talk to girls, just the prospect of potentially bothering a stranger and then getting blow…
/r/seduction26/09/21 08:55 AM
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I'm not a pro, probably not even intermediate. I consider myself a newbie still! While I've tried PUA things for years, I was mostly focused on the lay and my confidence was not really there. I'm getting back into dating after a 2 year hiatus. Recently, I have noticed my confidence increase. The crucial part is the mindset I practice: Instead of aiming directly for the lay, the date, etc. I choose to see each attempt as a win in courage. Every time I got rejected, I was able to see that I'm stil…
/r/seduction26/09/21 08:39 AM
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Ayyy! You asked her out! I don't know about you, but I used to and still get scared prior to asking girls out. If she says she'd love to go out, then you can give her the benefit of the doubt. Come up with 2-3 date ideas in the evening after work (assuming you both have day jobs), preferably on a weekday (as you have a life on the weekends that you're busy with).
/r/seduction25/09/21 08:24 PM
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Dude, just ask her out. ​ You clearly are interested in her because you wrote an essay about it. You even said she's attractive. You had a good conversation, so you've enjoyed her company too. ​ You're in seddit, so I expect you'll eventually want to stop being platonic. Just go into it with the mindset of, "Who knows? Maybe she might be interesting enough for me to make an exception?"
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:38 AM
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I don't know about that like of thinking, but if she only had sex in LTRs then they didn't get it for free.
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