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Soso3213/r/askFDS21/07/21 12:18 PM
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But this is at +57??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:35 PM
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Genuine question to FDS - why is this at -50?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:34 PM
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I’ve been banned from commenting, but I want to ask a qu on AskFds. What do I even do at this point? I can’t get a flair, I was initially banned for being male (I’m not) and I’m not sure what I’m banned for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:11 PM
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The culture of some men seeing women as nothing more than as a means to gain sex and oppress due to their fragile egos transcends borders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:14 AM
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Thanks for your response. I’ve been muted and permanently banned so I don’t think I can post anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:40 PM
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I once called out a guy for being hot and cold when messaging (during the pandemic). I wasn’t making a big deal; I was only pointing out that he’s annoyed now that I’m busy. He chose that moment to tell me all about how, his dad passed away several years ago and his life was hard. I thought about if I’d be a horrible person for pushing back on that but decided it needed to be said. So I let him go on and then asked what that had to do with his inability to communicate properly at this age 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 03:59 PM
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Is r/askfds affiliated with this page? I have been banned for trying to post a question and they keep branding me as male even though I’m female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 03:21 PM
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Most of the labour is on women. Encouraging men to be better because their parents couldn’t, forcing a good relationship with his parents, ensuring grand parental relationships are healthy, thinking about what others would think or feel for every little action 🙄🙄🙄🙄 Desi women are taught from a young age that they’ll go to their “own homes” one day. Except when they get their they’re told that’s not really their home. Ok fine, this happened centuries and decades ago when women didn’t work outside…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:06 AM
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Can I introduce you to a book called Power by Naomi Alderman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:03 AM
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Please can you have a chat with my parents too? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:53 AM
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It would be great to have an FDS specifically for the desi culture or arranged marriages. Seeing enabling mothers would be a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:01 PM
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Of course it’s insecurity. Both men and women who choose to marry, choose to commit to each other (and should not have sex outside that marriage). Both. Therefore they trust each other not to screw each other over (or rather others outside that marriage). If you don’t have trust, why marry? Ps don’t assume I’m feminist, I’ve not made any assumptions about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:31 AM
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It’s not logical unless you’re insecure or have a reason to suspect cheating. In which case, it would be logical to not get yourself into such a situation :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:46 AM
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Yes but that doesn’t mean it’s limited to that hence I said multifaceted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:06 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:05 PM
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Which app do you use please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:02 PM
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Going off this, I wish I could tell my younger self that there’s no “mystery” to solve. If someone is being confusing, it doesn’t matter is “they have a lot on right now” “they’re going through stuff” “it’s just a bad day” “his [insert sister/mother/female friend] put something in his head” NO. If you feel confused, and you’ve tried to address something ONCE (aka known as “did you try to communicate?”) then you’ve done your bit. No going around the same subject over and over again. You can often…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:52 PM
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Why do you think that? Men are also restricted to having sex with others in marriage. Should we administer lie detector tests every few days for them too? Not only that, but how does a child prove cheating? A woman could be pregnant with the husband’s child and still cheat. Marriage is based on trust. Again, how does it make sense that you’d marry, share finances, living space, family and friends and not trust the child to be yours? If you need a test, that marriage isn’t for you, there’s no tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:14 AM
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I spotted the edit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:24 AM
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Just because you have a non trusting perspective on all women because of something that may have happened to you in the past doesn’t mean you project that on others. Go back to the other point. It makes no sense to enter a marriage (requires trust to share your living space, finances etc) and not trust the baby out of your partner’s vag to be yours. Your arguments and premises have been all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:23 AM
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Marriage is multi faceted. You’re just looking to argue and prove whatever it is you believe, despite your earlier comment about logic 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:38 AM
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Wow I wonder how all those men before DNA testing lived with that. Oh wait, they just carried on reproducing and then along came you with your doubts 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:03 AM
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Exactly, I agree with this. You trust someone enough to create and parent a child with but not enough to say the child is yours. It really makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:01 AM
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No. Marriage is separate from child support payments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 07:18 PM
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There’s plenty of women in the UK without fathers in the picture who don’t care about getting married. There’s plenty of married couples who don’t have children. Marriage is not for parental investment. It’s about restricting intimate relations between two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:53 PM
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Why do you think a marriage contract is a commitment to parental investment? No such children to parents exist, people who haven’t slept together don’t know if their baby making will work and a lot of marriages don’t even get far enough for baby making. That premise is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:34 PM
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Yes, a Redditor claimed it therefore it must be true. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:29 PM
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By that logic you’re suggesting married couples who have a great relationship also can’t ensure parental investment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:26 PM
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So marriage has nothing to do with male ego and wanting to claim a woman and prevent her from having relations with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 06:14 PM
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Investment is when you put something in and get something out. If anything it’s male mate guarding and parental investment; sperm turns to baby. /s Men aren’t stupid. Don’t reduce marriage to mate guarding when men benefit more from marriage than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:41 PM
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Marriage is feminist? Are we living on the same planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:08 PM
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What logic is this? Going running is not a need but if I were to go running and trip up and scrape my knee, using disinfectant and a plaster is also not a need. Yeah, but it prevents infection and helps recovery. Similarly, condoms and contraceptives prevent bigger problems like another human life (if you’re not equipped to handle it, it is a problem!).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 02:30 PM
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LVM and red pills basically align in that they really think their shitty personalities can alter a woman, LOL, as if. Sending you positivity and good vibes sis x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:55 PM
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Lovely to see a comment by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 02:31 AM
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That would’ve been ok for you to say in any other year...currently in lockdown and it’s raining and dark, can’t really go for a walk either 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:30 PM
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Agree everyone should raise their standards min an Instagram world where we all have crippling self esteem. Except this is directed solely at men. FDS preaches the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:12 PM
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Yeah and then she says “he’s never acted so callous”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:42 PM
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Prime example of someone showing who they are and the other person refusing to believe it. “He’s never acted so callously” but he fucked her up the ass which caused her pain. What’s more callous than that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:41 PM
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This is the reason why I joined this sub. Research shows women have more to lose in marriage and men have more to gain yet they will behave trapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:51 PM
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Yup. I once spoke to a guy who described marriage to him like imprisonment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:21 AM
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This made me cringe so bad. I feel so bad for her. It was bad enough but then he allows his sister and her friends to trash talk her too. I hope she's meets a better guy at the gym. He deserves someone as superficial as him, like a plastic doll and his sister and her friends are an embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:56 PM
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Do the women who partake in such videos and similar prank videos realise they embarrass the rest of us when they do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:27 PM
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So I was unmatched on an app today because I describe myself as a feminist in my bio. The guy who unmatched said: "I don't really get on with feminists. I'm too laid-back and easy going to deal with that kind of stuff. We live in too much of a PC society as it is." Too easy going and laid back for equal rights and fair treatment? LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:33 PM
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Something that helped me was trying to separate the logic from the emotions. I knew he wasn't good for me or any of my goals of a career or family. But nothing was stopping me from loving him. I could still wish him well/pray for him but love myself too by not contacting/speaking to him anymore. And dear LORD did it uplift my energy when I came to that realisation. I hope you're staying strong <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:04 PM
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Even when women say they want someone they can "connect" with, or have "chemistry" with, it just translates as all they are interested in, is how a man makes them feel. But men say they want someone they can be attracted to and that translates to how they make a man feel. They actually have no interest in the man. Part of people is their looks/attraction/vibe/resources/employment/intellect. What makes you you if you take away all of those little factors? This is all that matters to them, there o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:53 PM
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You did him a favour. He'll either learn to correct his ways or reveal himself to be someone who thinks women aren't worthy of showing up on time for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:08 PM
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Is it a good idea to compare men who make good choices to women who make bad choices? The examples in the comments are of people leaving/rejecting "good" men (who likely make good choices but aren't attractive in their personality or looks) to be with "bad men" (who probably have attraction but make bad choices).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:40 AM
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I want children and I'm a muslim so I kind of have to. Even though I live in the West, there's an expectation I will marry someone after getting to know them for a years tops. But in an ideal world, I don't think marriage works in this day and age anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:06 PM
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Right?! I thought some FDS principles were harsh at first too. But no, what's harsh is women wasting weeks/months/years of their lives by settling for less and getting nothing in return. Men who are irked by FDS and such subs are usually the ones who go for pick mesishas. If women raise their standards, who will settle for them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:42 AM
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It is SO clear that NVM only want to take from a relationship and nothing to give back. After three kids I doubt his own body didn't age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:22 PM
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Yes and he said, "I went back to her PROBABLY too late." What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:48 PM
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