Sotemal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
216	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation?		Sotemal	/r/seduction	04/01/19 02:20 PM
0	What it feels like		Sotemal	/r/MensRights	03/02/18 01:53 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to deal with rejection You don't deal with rejection, you walk away from it. Dealing with it means you are still letting it affect you and you wont let it go.	/r/seduction	01/10/22 01:55 AM
34	Thoughts on Jordan Peterson ? This, he calls out toxicity on a fundamental level and helps men hold their truth more confidently. (Extreme) Feminists don't want equality, so holding women accountable is right out. Peterson speaks in equal terms on men and women and their responsibilities to each other in relationships. Fems only want to hear things biased against men and supporting women.	/r/MensRights	09/04/22 06:23 AM
-4	Dear Society, you made it clear you don't care about men. So I'm going to stop caring about you. The Decline	/r/MensRights	24/03/22 10:00 PM
0	That fact that a wife can abort their child without the father's knowledge or consent is deeply and disgustingly evil. My bestie named his newly conceived baby after me, she aborted him after a long argument. As sad as I am that it went that way, i support the decision because she is a tiny woman with health complications. It would be a risky endevor to go through with it for her. I'm just glad that they are both alive, together, and healthy. Anyone who thinks that birthing a child is no big deal needs to stfu. Women risk their health/lives to bring new humans into this world. Just because your seed managed to s…	/r/MensRights	20/03/22 11:32 PM
1	Men really do get blamed for everything, even a women's sex addiction. Apparently having CONSENSUAL sex is "taking advantage" of a women now. Imo it isn't bad to sleep with every guy who buys you a drink. Just so long as you haven't promised any commitment to any of them and just letting them believe shit while you play around. Doing what you want while setting boundaries is totally fine.	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 09:07 PM
3	"Men don't take the COVID vaccine because they don't take good care of themselves." No, i don't take it because i don't trust or agree with the msm narrative. No amount of propaganda will sway me, and i worry more for the people losing their livelihoods for not complying than I do about the virus in general. I've had covid and feel that it is a rough flu at worst. It makes sense that people with comorbidities are at risk, but the general population shouldn't have to cater to that, especially since the human intervention is prooving to be just as harmful as the virus itself. We …	/r/MensRights	18/01/22 01:35 AM
3	Woman on twitter claims feminists only want equality, not payback. The lack of self-awareness is annoying. No no, it feels like a lot of them want payback. At least the loud extreme minority of them	/r/MensRights	24/10/21 04:51 PM
1	So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc. How quickly they fall into love is a decent reflection of how quickly they'll fall out of love. Especially when you don't become the spitting image of their imaginary version of you.	/r/seduction	09/09/21 11:59 PM
2	Based on some posts and comments I've seen here, as well as my own experiences, I feel like this is tangentially relatable and relevant for people. I needed this	/r/seduction	28/08/20 02:08 PM
3	When women bully other women it’s ‘misogyny’ to blame. When women attack or rape someone it’s cause of the ‘patriarchy’. When will there be any self-accountability for women doing messed up stuff? Princess complexes make it impossible for girls to see the wrong in their actions.	/r/MensRights	10/07/20 01:03 AM
3	Media has no issues shaming men publically Literally what happens to every wet suit or cloth in general for that matter. Shit clings to you like latex to a bdsm sub.	/r/MensRights	01/05/20 04:07 PM
3	The insecurity shown when trying to hide a fault often comes off as being way less attractive than the actual fault itself. When you hide things it makes the other person wonder what else you are hiding and it breaks trust. I would rather know you like some weird shit and be cool with it than walk in on some weird shit with no idea in the first place. Just be up front, if it is a deal breaker at least you would know then instead of after gettin all emotionally invested. It just isn't playin fair	/r/seduction	28/04/20 05:32 PM
2	Adele just got Brendan Frasered. Yay, someone can marry you to legally steal your shit. Fuck this system god damn.	/r/MensRights	07/04/20 04:33 PM
8	Imagine a weekly feature of “Men roasting women” competition on Twitter. smh And facebooking about private drama between you and your partner is highly disrespectful and should not be tolerated in a relationship. You either talk it out or get out.	/r/MensRights	04/03/20 07:59 PM
1	Why do people think it’s weird that I’m a young guy who has no interest or desire for sex? It is possible to identify as Asexual.	/r/seduction	22/10/19 01:01 AM
1	What are your thoughts on titles like these? I think they are nothing but negative. The root of toxic masculinity isn't men, it's just feminism.	/r/MensRights	08/08/19 03:13 PM
1	Does she even know what toxic masculinity is? I can see what she means	/r/MensRights	16/07/19 02:04 AM
4	4 Reasons Why Girls Friendzone Guys You're gettin friendzoned because you put them in the fuckzone.	/r/seduction	01/02/19 06:39 PM
1	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? Nope, but i bet Bruce is a good man	/r/seduction	15/01/19 12:35 AM
2	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? Yeah, at least figuratively	/r/seduction	15/01/19 12:33 AM
1	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? That reqched right into some of the in depth meditations i've had about this scenario, she did remind me of my mom a bit. The way she was with animals, her kind and gentle way with people. She felt like home to me, she did become my safety blanket. I was seeing her around the time I moved away from home. Maybe i depended on her for support like I would a family member, but she wasn't in that world with me. I also had a near death experience not long into the relationship. After being mugged at g…	/r/seduction	15/01/19 12:29 AM
6	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? Its been at least 2 years since we broke up probably more. I feel like we started drifting apart after I had a panic attack one morning with her. She knows how I feel, sometimes i have reached out in emotional moments. I know we won't be hooking up again any time soon, but closure would be nice.	/r/seduction	04/01/19 04:44 PM
5	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? As much as I would love doing that i wouldn't want to be the one to ruin their relationship. It would just mean more weight on my chest in the long run. Good thought though xD	/r/seduction	04/01/19 04:40 PM
2	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? I'll see if she would be down to meet me for a walk in the park or something. It would be good to confront this at the source, no matter how awkward it may feel.	/r/seduction	04/01/19 04:12 PM
3	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? Okay now that is something that makes sense to me. I'll put some thought into it and see if i can figure out what i want to know. I never really did have closure with her. I had a panic attack one morning with her that triggered back to another relaitionship that i had years before that. And after that episode we just kind of split.	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:55 PM
54	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? Ah, but you see, my whole life is set up in things that i'm passionate about. I work with CBD, I spelunk for the city to learn more about our aquifer and how to protect it, i have a band that i jam with every week, and i have a weekly fire jam that I hit every week. I'm in my prime, there hasn't been a point in my life that I felt so satisfied with everything that i'm involved in. But still, some quiet morning I wake with her face behind my eyelids and I crumble. Picking up the pieces as i get m…	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:43 PM
25	What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation? Its like she resembles a whole other path of life that I could have taken. If i was still with her we would probably be professional fire performers traveling to different wonderful magical places. Its what i thought then and its what i've watched her and her man become over the last couple years. Which just hammers the nail home. Seeing their success has just made me envious and hopeless at the same time. While my intrusive attachment to her continues to get in the way of new connection. I'm li…	/r/seduction	04/01/19 03:36 PM
-1	"A mum who had sex with her 15-year-old son because he seduced her has avoided jail." "HE seduced HER"- so now a CHILD is to blame for his FIFTY year old mother raping HIM?? Because he is male? Can you BELIEVE the double standards boys & males now face??!! Oedipus complex is a thing. If anyone studied Freud they would know that. For it to go this far is a rare thing. But hey, its even in the fucking Odyssey. I'm just saying it isn't really surprising that no charges were filed when we have scientific evidence and report, as well as text from 750 B.C. that tells of it. Think of the term MILF and who generally uses it. It is a natural impulse for a boy coming of age. Whether he was taught that it was wrong or if he just followed through anyway is un…	/r/MensRights	13/12/18 05:12 AM
2	Crazy lady tries to frame boyfriend Stayed for the face bonk, sadly disappointed	/r/MensRights	01/12/18 04:00 PM
57	Female sex offenders are more common than you think, reveals study There was a lady down the street from where i lived as a kid who would always ask me very personal questions and want to hug me and always complimenting me in a thirsty way. She was close to 50, still gives me the creeps just thinking about it.	/r/MensRights	24/10/18 12:10 AM
2	"If for every few [innocent] accused that are imprisoned, a rapist gets behind too, than that's a sacrifice I'm willing to make." I wanna throw up. Sickening	/r/MensRights	24/09/18 06:31 PM
1	Well, pack it up boys, now it's our fault if we're cheated on Used to think like this, now i believe in not taking it personal and moving on.	/r/MensRights	30/08/18 07:14 AM
1	I’m 20 and have almost no experience with girls. Now i’m getting better and i have no patience anymore. I’m thinking about the lost time when i was 16/17/18 years and didn’t take action. I dated a girl last month and it felt so good but we broke contact because i fucked it up. Feeling so bad now. Closure is important, but sometimes life doesn't give you closure. You have to resolve it within yourself young Padawan.	/r/seduction	25/06/18 11:49 PM
3	I’m 20 and have almost no experience with girls. Now i’m getting better and i have no patience anymore. I’m thinking about the lost time when i was 16/17/18 years and didn’t take action. I dated a girl last month and it felt so good but we broke contact because i fucked it up. Feeling so bad now. Take responsibility that you got game. Don't be too upset and attached to the idea that she was the one. Each relationship is a learning experience to teach you what you need so you can be the person you need to be for the person you end up with.	/r/seduction	21/06/18 07:58 PM
3	I’m 20 and have almost no experience with girls. Now i’m getting better and i have no patience anymore. I’m thinking about the lost time when i was 16/17/18 years and didn’t take action. I dated a girl last month and it felt so good but we broke contact because i fucked it up. Feeling so bad now. Don't get caught up on anybody being "the one". It causes desperation because it makes it feel like the world will end if things don't work out. It took many mistakes in this mindset for me to realize how much you give your power away when you would "do anything for her". Take the fact that it ended from you kissing someone else as proof that you can form that connection with girls in the heat of the night. Realize that you have the playing field at your fingertips, all the time, even if you are…	/r/seduction	21/06/18 07:52 PM
7	Woman have more sexual freedom than men have ever had Females are the gate to the womb, males are wired to constantly attempt to breach the womb. Females hold more sexual power because of this and it is also the reason behind males being praised for sleeping with multiple women. Because that means they got past multiple gatekeepers, which is a feat most men can't complete on a normal day.	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/18 05:47 PM
40	This is what happens as a female when you make respectful posts on your facebook about men's rights. Facebook hates men. It is part of the idea that facebook is programming us. It feels like the dividing point they are driving is seperation between men and women. Facebook is now a corrupted power. What people see on the screen makes them feel and harmonize with it. So if all we see is feminist man hate, all we see from "face heads" (people who indulge in facebook for all their social needs) is feminist manhate. Same with russian propaganda or any other example of viral manipulation. Its an infectious mindset sprea…	/r/MensRights	01/05/18 11:10 PM
3	Campaign to remove Clementine Ford as the speaker of a Lifeline event for tweeting 'Kill all men' Whats with all the threats of genocide from feminists these days	/r/MensRights	01/05/18 07:28 PM
11	Hilarious picture I found online flipping the feminism narrative. What do you think? The patriarchy has nothing to do with boobs being sexy. Its instinctual to assess your possible mate by how well they can bear children. The breasts, the hips, facial structures, hell even how someone smells is an indicator. Stop blaming and just take responsibility for your attraction to women and their bodies.	/r/MensRights	28/04/18 04:48 PM
3	My friend “had a kid” with a woman awhile back, but she refuses to allow him to take a paternity test, but he still has to pay child support. Is there anything he can do? Dudes getting cucked for sure	/r/MensRights	26/04/18 11:19 PM
1	Katy Perry is a bit of a bad person [X-Post from /r/TumblrInAction] Its not like she knew that	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 03:08 AM
1	Katy Perry is a bit of a bad person [X-Post from /r/TumblrInAction] The gesture was benign, its not like she kept at it to the point of harassment. All this hubub is just programing people to stop reaching out to each other, blocking any level of intimacy that exists. If you see somebody scrutinized so blatently about a simple gesture that used to be cute and relatively innocent, then you are less likely to make actions that correspond with said gesture. Sure, he may not have wanted it, but its not like she continued to pursue him past the point of no. So no, sh…	/r/MensRights	20/03/18 02:47 AM
11	EU Parliament Member: It’s Time for Evidence-Based Gender Policy How about evidence based government? Like a dream in a far off land	/r/MensRights	21/02/18 06:59 PM
1	Just two days ago, I was told I was being alarmist for posting "Straight Men Will Soon Be Called Homophobic For Not Sleeping With Gays And Trannies." You can't make this shit up. Sounds like feminist rage in a different form. Why can't people just mind their own business. If you aren't invited into someones pants you have no business being there or talking about it. I guess if everyone was willing to follow that rule of thumb we wouldn't be having all these arguments in the first place.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/18 07:32 AM
3	Just two days ago, I was told I was being alarmist for posting "Straight Men Will Soon Be Called Homophobic For Not Sleeping With Gays And Trannies." You can't make this shit up. Just wait, next they'll say you're racist for not sleeping with a different race	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/18 02:34 PM
2	Low confidence guy with ''above average'' looks seeking help Thats all you can say! -DD	/r/seduction	26/11/17 05:01 PM
1	She shows no interest; does she likes me? If she keeps the line open then there is potential. Use texting to set up dates. Dont get too caught up in trying to build comfort over text. Try to go out with her again when she gets back. A good exercise you can do is to close your eyes and imagine something that brings you that aroused comfort that you feel when you have those light intimate moments with someone. Try to manifest that feeling and allow it to flow into your being. Allow it to influence your expressions, vocal and body alike. T…	/r/seduction	09/04/17 02:11 AM
16	I asked a girl to pay for herself on a first date. I didn't feel good about it, but felt I had to stand my ground. By the way OP puts it, it sounds like she was taking advantage of him. her agenda was to see a movie, not to hook up with a guy. she may have been late on purpose for him to buy the tickets. the fact that she paid him no mind or interest gives more proof of that. she even asked if he had bought the tickets!	/r/seduction	04/06/14 05:40 PM