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In the US, the judge threatened to find me guilty despite video evidence of me and her proving I was not only out of state, but also that she was attempting to rape a guy passed out at a party at the time. He didn't like that I said she should be punished for both her attempted rape on video and the false accusation.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/23 01:11 PM
-9

If your judgment is so shit that you'll share your incest dreams, 100%. Not to mention the absolute boatload of other dogshit piss baby takes he's been putting out, and his blatant nonparticipation in his own recommended lifestyle.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:58 PM
-1

damaged goods Just keep doing the incel shit. That'll help you.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 07:48 PM
0

I get it, you're insecure. You don't have to keep telling me.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 05:56 PM
-4

Nice incel shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 05:45 PM
-26

Your daughter is not your property, and she can do what she wants when she is of age. Imagining outcomes based on your childish values does not make them reality.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 04:04 PM
-25

insecure men If you can't deal with someone's past, it's not really complicated.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:24 PM
1

Be warned, some pretty aggressive incel shit in here.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:17 PM
-47

Yeah, no matter how much it’s glorified in our society, most insecure men simply don’t want a fucking chick that’s had 60 dudes inside of her.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 02:16 PM
5

Fourth wave is the feminism from around 2010, which focuses on pro-women and anti-men policy and mindsets instead of equality or actual rights, co-opting the previous women's rights movements.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 02:16 PM
-10

Nah. Bigotry is a real thing, and we don't need more of it.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/22 12:54 PM
5

The place where I work had sexism reported in an employee review after the person quit. They made a big thing internally about making sure things were fair, and said they were going to evaluate pay and make sure people were getting the right pay for their qualifications. Men were so underpaid they had to raise the official salary brackets to even it out, as most women were overpaid. There was one woman who didn't negotiate on a promotion and got a huge bump, as an outlier.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 01:54 PM
1

So you agree that their problems are caused by legally mandated racism, but the fact that the laws are gone, the people who suffered from them, and the children raised by those people aren't directly and personally affected by them somehow?
/r/MensRights27/06/21 10:11 PM
1

Ah, thank you for explaining why a problem that disproportionately affects one race due to the echoing effects of past racism isn't actually about race. Galaxy brain.
/r/MensRights27/06/21 01:59 PM
-1

Objectively, minorities live in higher law enforcement areas, and are disproportionately punished.
/r/MensRights27/06/21 01:09 PM
52

Men (including trans men) aren't allowed at most shelters. They open a men's shelter, and protest to have it opened as another women's shelter. It shuts down shortly after, because there isn't a need for more women's shelters. Sad story from a city near me.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 01:37 PM
17

And I believe the gap between the two is covered by the amount of men who are dead. ☹️
/r/MensRights03/04/21 12:50 PM
41

Happened in the US, too. FC Dallas under 14 boys, if I remember correctly.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/04/21 01:08 AM
2

Capacity to stand equally is not the same as equal legal protections, societal expectations and treatment. For example, if I'm born to a poor family, I do not have an equal chance to become a millionaire as someone who is born to millionaires.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/21 03:34 PM
1

There's a very good argument to be made that if there is a large power imbalance between groups, the first steps toward equality are lifting the less powerful group up. Then as equality is approached, an egalitarian group should take over to ensure the balance becomes equal. Partly because any group who successfully enacts change will inevitably strive for inequality.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/21 02:58 PM
2

You should rewatch the video then, because it doesn't fit your bullshit narrative. Your white knight is showing.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/02/21 08:20 PM
2

She was still fighting back a second before, and wasn't unable to defend herself. The moment she started losing, they jumped in. It's all good until a woman isn't winning, which is straight up white knighting.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/02/21 08:19 PM
1

Bullshit. She was fighting back still, people just love to white knight.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/02/21 08:18 PM
11

That's a no true scotsman. 😕
/r/MensRights03/01/21 04:24 PM
1

Cherry picking that part, and excluding the reasons behind it is racist, dickhead. Just like saying men commit more crimes, but excluding the immense social pressure they're under on a constant basis. You don't get it both ways. You call cherry picking the result of fucked up social situations the dogshit logic it is.
/r/MensRights27/09/20 09:47 PM
1

Ah, so you can't actually defend your bullshit with anything other than "nuh uh" and pretending a detail invalidates my pointing out of your mental incapability. Sad.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 02:13 PM
0

You can say that you win, but that doesn't make it reality, sad boy. EDIT: As far as the upvotes, why are your comments all downvoted, then? Non-sub participants are blindly upvoting it, just like everywhere else on reddit. Your own arguments betray how far up your own ass you've got your head.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 01:42 PM
2

MGTOW brigading from a few smaller discords, and brigading from two feminist groups that upvote negative content here to push their opposition (men's rights, in their eyes) into easily attackable bullshit. It's on a couple of the discords I lurk in to call out bullshit like this. It sucks.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 01:12 PM
0

Feigning ignorance while cropping a source to an unrecognizable level, then using the fallacy fallacy when you get called out for intentionally missing the point. Bravo. Pretending to be a moron is still being a moron. Don't pretend to be shocked when you get called out. At best you're wilfully misinterpreting it. At worst, you're posting bullshit, as others have called out here. Now go somewhere else to be a sad little twat. You shame men's rights.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 01:07 PM
1

Doubling down when you clearly missed the point makes you not only a dumbass, but an immature twat. Adults can recognize when they're wrong. Grow the fuck up.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 06:24 AM
1

Expensive sneakers, government phone, government housing. That's the stereotype of poor black Americans.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 05:22 AM
-5

Looks like it's a racist rant about black people & their perception of welfare and public housing.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 01:49 PM
8

Never been in a relationship where I didn't have to plan date night. Holiday cards and other things on the list sound like female motivated items, not things that need to be done, but what they want to do. It's choice. And shopping should be managed by both partners, assuming one is not a stay at home.
/r/MensRights04/08/20 08:08 PM
-1

Let's not promote stories that paint people too fucking stupid and asinine to wear a mask as anything but a bad guy.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 11:36 PM
3

That's love. Such a great dad!
/r/MensRights03/08/20 11:15 PM
3

Cordial? The fuck? He's a raging twat on a constant basis.
/r/MensRights28/07/20 10:14 AM
2

It sucks that she lost an opportunity, if a company is playing politics at this micro-level, and caving to social pressure on this topic, they're a shit company. I'm sure they're making an insane fuckload of money, but this kind of points to a true culture of moral bankruptcy and pandering. I don't see the problem with being an asshole to people when they're (at best) trying to undermine a civil rights movement.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/20 08:38 PM
-10

I really appreciate that you went out of your way to make sure to emphasize that I was right. Do you know what she said, or are you just joining the circlejerk because it supports your politics? Watch the actual video, jackass. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XKaAQU6qUDw
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/20 04:09 AM
-21

I guess you're into yoga, cause that's a fucking big stretch. Your inability to understand nuance is concerning.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/20 01:35 AM
1

You've got a few levels of nuance between the shit meme and the actual topical information. And it specifically criticizes qualities that are attributed to the "ghetto queen" stereotype. It's thinly veiled racism and sexism. There's so much valid criticism to be levied against child support (and spousal support), we don't need to have shitty alt-right bullshit memes.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 09:40 PM
1

Wasn't intended to be one. And it sure as fuck isn't men's rights.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 06:17 PM
1

Yep. This one's anti woman and anti minority. I don't get the reasoning for allowing it.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 04:56 PM
9

That place has a bad taste in my mouth too. I shared my story (in comments) of false accusation and being raped by a woman (two separate events), and was gaslit, called names, told that I should keep quiet because it's damaging to women's rights, and temp banned from posting after calling someone a misandrist in response. Felt like it just skewed in the other direction, and more consistently. This sub seems to have focused invasions that pop up and fizzle out. That one, the last time I visited, …
/r/MensRights08/07/20 03:26 PM
-4

It's what happens when reddit lets the incel and alt-right communities fester, then ban them. They leak out into other subs.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 01:58 PM
3

It's not. It's a bunch of alt-right incels pushing their anti-minority humor into an inapplicable space.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 01:57 PM
21

The fuck is this alt-right garbage?
/r/MensRights08/07/20 01:57 PM
2

LGBT and BLM, eh? Would love to hear some details on your feelings there.
/r/MensRights03/07/20 11:04 PM
1

On one hand, I'm glad these fights usually don't use higher intensity attacks most of the time. On the other, I don't understand who taught them to fight. The lesson I was always given was to pull out all the stops.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/05/20 01:42 PM
2

If we don't hold ourselves to standards, we get bullshit like OPs source contradicting him.
/r/MensRights20/04/20 06:11 PM
9

It was 50% of that. Even split of all but $40m of her net worth. That was a bad headline you read. I did the same.
/r/MensRights08/04/20 09:01 PM
9

If it doesn't have consciousness beyond that of a plant, then yes. It is ok to have an abortion.
/r/MensRights26/03/20 05:46 PM
0

Yeah, but it's US heavy. And the more heavily the US is in working hours, the more heavily incel/mgtow it is.
/r/MensRights26/01/20 02:23 PM
4

Widowed, and there's a bunch of mgtow and incels on here getting upvotes. It's frustrating. I have almost stopped posting during work hours because the incels are out in force while most people are working.
/r/MensRights26/01/20 02:28 AM
0

You're never going to change your mind, you're just going to insult people who don't agree with you because you probably have poor social skills You literally began the interaction this way you doofus.
/r/MensRights25/01/20 06:29 PM
1

So you think the underlying data from the Koch brothers is too progressively biased too? And most of the points in your link favor my point. And pretend that we'd make 0 changes to the system, when most of the damning 'this could never work because...' crap is super easy fixes.
/r/MensRights25/01/20 05:56 PM
0

https://thinkprogress.org/mercatis-medicare-for-all-study-0a8681353316/ Easiest fucking google ever. Based on a study from a group that is funded partially by the Koch brothers, and has one of them sitting on their board, it would cost less to have medicare for all. And that's using numbers from a horribly biased source.
/r/MensRights25/01/20 05:26 PM
0

What a great fucking source of information you've posted. I'm really glad you've got the GOP's cock in your mouth, but I'd really fucking love a source of "this is what I feel like would probably happen if I assume a bunch of shit and make up the rest."
/r/MensRights25/01/20 05:16 PM
-1

Ok. Prove me wrong. I've made my assertions by pointing to actual facts, and you've attacked me personally. Back your bullshit up.
/r/MensRights25/01/20 04:35 PM
-3

You're a bit too fucking stupid for the conversation, because it's not a debate. We're getting better deals with Medicare RIGHT NOW. We expand that to everyone, and your entire point is negated. Go read something, you troglodyte.
/r/MensRights25/01/20 04:23 PM
-2

They charge less for medicare. They literally fucking do that already, you dumbass. It's not a question of "can they", it's a "will ignorant assholes get out of the way and let them do it".
/r/MensRights25/01/20 03:57 PM
3

People are dying because medical companies are corrupt. At least with government we can have some influence. They'll just fuck us as hard as they can until then.
/r/MensRights25/01/20 03:41 PM
3

It's literally still there.
/r/MensRights24/01/20 07:25 PM
3

You're talking about your hurt feelings to leverage into your childish response one comment before this. You can't base an insult about having hurt feelings, then cry because you've got hurt feelings. The irony of having to explain that to you is palpable.
/r/MensRights24/01/20 05:55 PM
5

So they are hurt.
/r/MensRights24/01/20 05:19 PM
-7

They are hurt, aren't they?
/r/MensRights24/01/20 04:11 PM
-7

Aww, did you get your fee fees hurt?
/r/MensRights24/01/20 04:09 PM
-15

Calm down incel
/r/MensRights24/01/20 03:36 PM
1

Did the little bigot get their feelings hurt?
/r/MensRights17/01/20 03:35 PM
1

Seems a little reductive. Example: You're being a giant dicksmeared cunt because you capitalized the Y in Yeah. Now how do you respond to stupid without confronting it and calling it out as stupid?
/r/MensRights16/01/20 02:38 PM
0

I'm advocating for everyone having autonomy. It's not a far fetched concept
/r/MensRights16/01/20 02:19 PM
-2

That's the dumbest fucking response I've seen to this topic. You should be ashamed of this. You shouldn't have to resort to a medical procedure as the only mitigation for an accidental pregnancy, you fucking caveman. And I said that the man should be able to opt out. Fucking read before you drool everywhere.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 01:41 PM
1

Don't link the idiot portion of the movement.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 01:04 PM
-8

It's definitely a woman's choice to carry a child to term or not. A bunch of cells isn't your son. But yes, men should be able to opt out of the process, since women have the option to abort.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 12:56 PM
2

Fuck you can't read for shit.
/r/MensRights06/01/20 06:11 AM
0

You should learn to read, because I'm saying that if the factors were the same, I would. Dense ass tard.
/r/MensRights06/01/20 04:06 AM
0

That's a bad comparison, but if there's a shortage and the benefit was lessened for men.
/r/MensRights06/01/20 03:08 AM
1

Go back to mgtow, and I hope that way is to fuck yourself.
/r/MensRights06/01/20 01:03 AM
-2

Guess that does come out to 25% more affected girls than boys.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 06:39 PM
-1

Where'd you get that statistic from that page? Looks like 25% ish higher for women. Still enough to prioritize.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 05:44 PM
-10

Women are more than twice as likely to suffer the effects. Fuck off with your illiterate rampage. Pick one of the real fights you jackass.
/r/MensRights05/01/20 03:40 PM
4

Everyone has privilege. The chase for equality is recognizing, minimizing, and balancing when you can't.
/r/MensRights02/01/20 09:04 PM
2

123 people.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:17 PM
0

You should fucking read it then. Boys have a lower chance of cancer overall. They have a higher occurrence for a smaller rare subset. Get the bullshit out of here.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 11:15 PM
-2

Listened to about half of the head up ass ramble. Not sure I want more from, I'm assuming, you.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 10:12 PM
1

Regardless, it's not a good statistic. The poorer you are, the more likely divorce, separation, and children out of wedlock are. I don't disagree with the conclusion necessarily, but we don't need to use feminist tactics.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 10:06 PM
-2

Is there a scientific basis for the decision or is this guy just looking surface level and being a dumbass?
/r/MensRights31/12/19 10:05 PM
-9

Don't put this man on a pedestal, you bigot
/r/MensRights20/12/19 01:19 PM
1

It's a stretch, but I think the way the GOP has tied masculinity to their platform, and the classic muscle car definition of masculinity could be related. But the greatest factor is two party system and people not making their decisions, and towing the party line. Certainly not this.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 01:59 PM
0

While the headline is a big overreach, this is an oversimplification.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 01:43 PM
2

It's a stretch, but I think the way the GOP has tied masculinity to their platform, and the classic muscle car definition of masculinity could be related. But the greatest factor is two party system and people not making their decisions, and towing the party line. Certainly not this.
/r/MensRights19/12/19 01:42 PM
1

Whoa whoa, Terminator anime?
/r/MensRights17/11/19 12:13 AM
5

The custody part of the equation and the "kids belong with mothers" narrative are applicable here.
/r/MensRights11/11/19 05:46 AM
-8

The clip is harping on THIS IS DEMOCRATS over and over and over, and talking about cucking and shit like that. Quit cherry picking. You're ignoring the obviously sexist motivations and phrasing here.
/r/MensRights01/11/19 02:53 PM
-11

This is incel level shit.
/r/MensRights01/11/19 12:21 PM
1

You sound like a "feminist" that talks about all men being rapists.
/r/MensRights23/10/19 12:40 PM
1

If it's not worth putting the effort into doing something, then you shouldn't do it. It just seems like a mental health issue the way it's presented by most people with the sentiment you're giving here.
/r/MensRights23/10/19 12:09 PM
4

The average woman is reasonable. This is a vocal minority. The ones you see going out all the time are not the normal ones. They're the ones with issues. Same for guys.
/r/MensRights21/10/19 10:28 PM
1

The writing was bad for that for sure though.
/r/MensRights27/09/19 12:54 PM
2

I'd say a good definition is what the group does as a whole. And what it does is sexist gender supremacist crap.
/r/MensRights27/09/19 12:42 PM
3

Women's restrooms are consistently more filthy.
/r/MensRights22/09/19 02:39 PM
2

Probably more about quantity of restrooms to people.
/r/MensRights22/09/19 02:37 PM
8

I'd imagine they're saying that most of the bullying and abuse is false flagging. I believe Zoe Quinn was one of the worst, forgetting to change accounts multiple times before harassing herself.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 12:35 PM
10

I feel like the addition of certification to that sentence is to avoid it being a lie. Is that what they call PhD graduates?
/r/MensRights26/08/19 01:53 PM
9

If you take it to court, make them acknowledge that women only groups are sexist legally, that's some on the books good shit.
/r/MensRights24/08/19 07:00 PM
20

Wait, so no investigation because they stopped breaking the law? Fucking punish them. What the fuck is this shit?
/r/MensRights24/08/19 05:42 PM
8

Well, that's the whole thing right? Boys are supposed to deny their emotions and girls are supposed to be ruled by them. Men are supposed to get things done, and women are supposed to be catered to. Nobody's winning when we don't let people mature properly.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 12:02 AM
5

Diggin holes
/r/MensRights01/08/19 01:12 AM
7

Yeah, but for adults.
/r/MensRights29/07/19 12:48 PM
18

Gave the money to charity, and discrimination is discrimination. Stop being part of the problem.
/r/MensRights19/06/19 10:37 PM
37

Mal Gaze is sadly something people believe.
/r/MensRights13/06/19 12:51 PM
1

It is, and not all discrimination is wrong. That's why we made protected classes to make an easy indicator for which are not acceptable. And you compared a protected class to a non-protected one. It's a false equivalency.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 03:21 PM
1

You're right, I forgot hair color is a protected class.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 01:47 PM
1

You are correct on one thing. Undoing racist conditioning is not easy to change. But it should be done.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 12:41 PM
2

Being born into a family that teaches you that men are murderers and rapists means saying sexist things about men isn't something you control too, right?
/r/MensRights09/06/19 07:04 PM
-5

Mgtow is a toxic ass place.
/r/MensRights08/06/19 05:16 PM
3

Oh, you actually can't read.
/r/MensRights03/06/19 11:47 PM
4

You literate? Both parties should have the ability to absolve.
/r/MensRights03/06/19 11:37 PM
2

Horse shit. If someone is not willing to be a parent, and declares so during a period of time where an abortion is possible, they should be off the hook. Sex isn't something we should punish people for having. Birth control and condoms are not 100% effective. If a woman wants to raise a child without the father after he's declared his intent to not be a parent, that is her choice and the father should not be required to be involved.
/r/MensRights03/06/19 10:34 PM
1

Probably the high population of delusional and misinformed people posting there.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/19 03:16 AM
1

Probably the high population of delusional and misinformed people posting there.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/19 03:14 AM
1

And everyone is the same?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 04:02 PM
1

Decreased sensitivity and enjoyment are a definite downside.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 03:42 PM
1

Cutting pieces off of someone's genitals is literally the fucking definition.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 02:01 PM
2

Expand the hidden sections if you wanna be sad.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 01:03 PM
0

Maybe when you clean yours
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 01:02 PM
8

He's a fucking moron, he clearly wants to be dismissed as one.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 03:56 AM
10

Cite your source there kiddo.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 03:13 AM
43

Uh, unnecessarily cutting off a body part that has an actual function? Literally mutilating someone's genitals without them having a choice in the matter? What the fuck isn't wrong with that?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 03:09 AM
24

Solid body shaming! You know that's the same logic for female genital mutilation, right?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 03:08 AM
14

Yep
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 03:06 AM
246

The fact that we can't get support from feminist groups to fight against genital mutilation is pretty telling that they don't care about men's issues.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/19 08:27 PM
-2

Ethnostate...
/r/MensRights03/05/19 07:58 PM
1

Bookmark the offer, just in case you change your mind.
/r/MensRights29/04/19 02:30 AM
1

Your past definitely explains your version of reality. If you're not able to afford to talk to someone, shoot me a PM. I usually have enough in the budget to cover a copay for a session or two. Sometimes a full session if you don't have insurance.
/r/MensRights29/04/19 01:38 AM
2

Now, will it lead to the "final solution?" doubtful. Different world and men are fighting back, but it's right before you in black and white. That's literally my point. They're assholes. They want to do bad things. They do not have the influence to do things so horrible that the entire world would have to make a military intervention to stop it.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 04:57 PM
2

It's discouraging, right? Makes me sad.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 04:03 PM
-1

Try to be a little genuine at least. You can find examples that "prove" radical feminism is for equality as well. You don't take these movements' health with a microscope, you do it from a distance. Don't get me wrong, the movement is sick, and needs to be ended so an equalist movement can take it's place. But that doesn't mean we can pretend they're as bad as nazis, because these people aren't capable of accomplishing their goals.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 03:50 PM
3

the radical feminist is no different than the Neo-nazi, the Klan, or even those in 1930s Germany. They are significantly different. They may employ similar tactics for disinformation, and have successes in their goals, but they're not at the same levels at all as actual Nazis in WW2.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 03:36 PM
-3

Don't disguise your lie, own it. You thought publicly accessible meant it was mandatory free speech. Grow from where you are. Reddit is known to not be a free speech area. This isn't news anymore.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 03:15 PM
0

It's privately owned. Don't be a moron.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 02:57 PM
-1

Free speech isn't on someone else's property.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 02:38 PM
45

There's also a decent chance it's a plant as well. The other day we had some incel influx, and I found a couple people who post on some pretty hardcore feminist subs posting incel garbage. Went back to call them out and the posts were deleted. Guess they forgot to switch accounts.
/r/MensRights28/04/19 02:35 PM
19

How about comparing it to someone who has to cook at home complaining to someone who has to skip meals then?
/r/MensRights27/04/19 02:26 PM
0

Multiple accounts? This is my only one. You, on the other hand... This is the first of your comments that doesn't have an extra upvote in under a minute of posting. My last 2 posts have 1 upvote, presumably from me. I haven't upvoted or downvoted any of your replies. This feels like projection. Regardless, save my earlier post. When shit hits the fan and you want to talk to someone, if you can't afford it, I usually have enough money sitting in my bank account to cover a copay, or maybe a non-in…
/r/MensRights25/04/19 01:49 PM
-5

Please talk to someone. This negativity and hate will ruin your life. Don't let it. If you can't afford a co-pay to talk to a professional, hit me up. I can call in a payment to them for you.
/r/MensRights25/04/19 01:34 PM
-1

No, I'm advocating being able to stand up for yourself and ignoring physical differences. That would be the bedrock of a civilized society. Standing up for yourself and not being intimidated by physical stature. The acting is her being confident in an intimidating situation. Put down the tendies and get some perspective.
/r/MensRights25/04/19 01:28 PM
1

To a small girl, who will most likely never be as physically strong as a male her own age, standing up to a group of fully grown men is a thing that takes bravery. I'd be nervous standing up to a bunch of MMA fighters as a grown ass man. Stop pushing a narrative and find something that actually needs your attention to fix.
/r/MensRights25/04/19 12:02 PM
1

Don't listen. It's just the late night incels in here atm.
/r/MensRights25/04/19 11:59 AM
94

We have a fucking winner!
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/19 05:52 AM
11

Whatcha do with the rest?
/r/MensRights15/03/19 09:40 PM
6

Do you think it's any less evil to commit a crime because you ignore common sense in that area?
/r/MensRights23/02/19 10:22 AM
43

Demonizes someone trying to dictate what a man can do with his body? And where's the misogyny in the response?
/r/MensRights10/02/19 04:23 PM
1

I assume since this particular cause was important enough to you to post, that you'd want to put the best face on it. I haven't vetted the charity, so I wouldn't feel comfortable promoting it. I assume that you have, and was trying to be helpful.
/r/MensRights30/09/18 09:54 PM
1

You should repost and put in the title what the actual cause is supporting, because the name says nothing, the link may say something ( didn't scroll down too far, had to go to a different page to figure it out ).
/r/MensRights30/09/18 06:26 PM
8

Brett K has undergone 6 FBI investigations, all of which have shown him to have impeccable career I wouldn't go that far. Lied about being involved in the post 9/11 bills during his confirmation for DC district. Also shown he's voting down party lines, not what he interprets the law to be saying. Let's not put the guy on a pedestal just because the accusations have a decent chance of being bullshit.
/r/MensRights30/09/18 06:11 PM
2

The one light from the process is that it's revealed that Kavanaugh is anything but impartially interpreting the law, and another candidate should be put forth instead. Don't let the accusation portion of it blind you to his other obvious faults. Focus on the part you disagree with instead of throwing yourself behind them blindly. Support the cause you believe in, don't accept all the causes of the person who is under attack.
/r/MensRights30/09/18 07:59 AM
27

If we don't call out people who brag about something that is an assumed part of being an adult, then they're going to keep thinking they're special because of it.
/r/MensRights02/06/18 04:01 AM
4

Both are focusing issues that shouldn't be restricted to a gender as a gender specific problem. One misrepresents the problem as "it only matters if it's a woman", the other only offers assistance to women when it affects both genders. Hardly hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 01:13 PM
19

There is a decent chance they're trying to plant quotes for later usage against the subreddit/cause.
/r/MensRights24/03/18 05:18 PM
7

It's like how people think it's right for colleges to have different standards for admission by race. You don't address the problem there, you do it in the k-12 where people are not given the proper tools to succeed and earn their admission.
/r/MensRights21/03/18 03:20 PM
7

I think she probably thought the stage was the window not the monitor. Bad setup mistake, but then again they clearly have bad judgement and decision making skills.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/18 12:46 PM
8

Preferably rescheduled if it's possible for the accuser and accused.
/r/MensRights21/02/18 10:37 PM
9

Wasn't he criticized for not calling out Louis CK?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/18 11:01 PM
1

Kinda sounds like a restraining order type situation.
/r/MensRights25/12/17 07:44 PM
7

He's not gay, he just likes sex with men, okay?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/17 09:37 PM
13

So slut shaming?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/17 11:06 PM
15

Hopefully so. Our prisons system really does seem to put actual rehabilitation on the back burner.
/r/MensRights17/09/17 04:14 PM
8

I can't seem to find the raw data from the study that the first two links are citing. Do you know where I can find it? I'm having trouble finding studies that aren't very small data pools as well. Are you aware of any that present raw data and have decent sample sizes?
/r/MensRights14/08/17 11:11 PM
57

She said she was sorry it happened, not sorry she did it... Jesus...
/r/MensRights05/07/17 04:38 PM
11

That sounds like wishful thinking. I think it'll be a slow shift over 10 or so years, assuming it does. Indoctrination is hard to break. Hopefully it shifts to a positive movement, this negative feminism wears me out. Hopefully we'll see a shift in the men's rights movement where you see more people condemning the anti female sentiments when they pop up as well. Both sides need to be fighting for equality for us to make real progress.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 07:34 PM
3

A tub of ice cream does sound fun! :)
/r/MensRights26/05/17 03:26 PM
35

I wouldn't use Emma Watson as an example of equalism. Look at the recommended literature for the He for She campaign. A little one sided. Even a little antagonistic towards one side.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 06:01 AM
2

Gotcha, I had seen 15 thrown around as well, so I wasn't sure which was accurate.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/17 12:57 AM
5

Are those ages concurrent?
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/17 11:45 PM
11

And to completely dismiss a source because it had some flaws is just as ludicrous. And childish to be tone-deaf enough to use that logic.
/r/MensRights02/05/17 08:40 PM
2

Think of the children comes to mind.
/r/MensRights19/04/17 09:26 PM
1

Not innately, that's the societal gender role pushing in action. Hell, pink used to be a boys color.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 07:57 PM
1

Equity is usually used to talk about equality of outcomes, rather than equality opportunity (aka actual equality).
/r/MensRights18/04/17 07:56 PM
1

This is the right way to look at it.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/17 06:05 PM
1

I'll take a look later. Looks like a good find from a quick skim!
/r/MensRights15/03/17 02:14 AM
1

Every "study" I've seen that says that the severity of punishment is worse for black americans has absolutely no data to support it. I'd be very interested in seeing some data though.
/r/MensRights14/03/17 10:34 PM
2

Last time I checked, adjusted for poverty, there's like a. 01% difference between black and white convictions. Couldn't find any data on the conviction/arrest rate though.
/r/MensRights14/03/17 09:47 PM
1

What would you call a group using their political influence to exert pressure on a racial group then?
/r/MensRights10/03/17 09:40 PM
-1

I disagree with that definition when applied to individual. But societal racism does require power to exert, and it's a valid definition in that use case.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 08:09 PM
0

It doesn't mean that in popular use, but I imagine it was probably a concept before it was redefined. Just like the racism is power plus prejudice thing. Racism is that, but only when talking about large groups in a society. The regular definition still applies to individuals.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 06:57 PM
7

All their talking points aren't a lie at the core, but they're misrepresenting them much of the time. Take 'toxic masculinity' as an example. Yes, this is a real problem. Fulfilling a gender role in a negative way is bad. And it affects both genders negatively. As does toxic femininity. Men that won't accept help, or women that demand it are both toxic. As is the sentiment that men never need help and women always need it. Both gender based toxicities affect both genders negatively, just as the …
/r/MensRights10/03/17 03:14 PM
2

Money is the real privilege these days.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/17 05:17 PM
3

Probably came up because Milo Y. said he appreciated having underage sex with a priest. But between this, Sarah "I used to be an edge lord and abused my younger sister" whatever her last name was, and George Takei essentially saying the same thing as Milo, there's a lot of cherry picking going on.
/r/MensRights21/02/17 08:57 PM
10

Oh man, it's been rolling positive and negative for a while. National Organization for Women has done some fucked up stuff, like fighting shared parenting for divorced parents.
/r/MensRights21/02/17 06:52 PM
2

Same for the wife and I. We also would probably adopt an older child if we ever decided we wanted one, since they typically have a harder time finding new parents.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/17 09:17 PM
10

I go to child free because I don't want kids. I actually think kids are awesome, as long as I'm not responsible for them for extended periods of time.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/17 09:05 PM
1

You do realize that there are situations where the "cost" of staying home to take care of kids and household is either negative or minimal, right?
/r/MensRights14/02/17 11:18 PM
1

If they don't have a financial need, and their partner hasn't asked them to, why would they if they didn't want to?
/r/MensRights14/02/17 06:20 PM
0

This is in my defaults. And I would not consider myself a feminist. Speaking in absolutes is the best way to be wrong by the way.
/r/MensRights14/02/17 02:43 PM
1

I think people who are transgender are heavily impacted by the gender roles we have established. If it doesn't matter how you dress, act, or who you sleep with, then my hypothesis is that we would see less people who are transgender. It's an oversimplification, but I believe with less defined genders, less people would develop body dysmorphic disorder. I think the disorder may stem from the dissatisfaction with the expectations for people to fit in their defined gender roles.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/17 05:46 AM
6

The child didn't ask to be born. Got any questions you'd like to think through for more than 5 seconds?
/r/MensRights14/02/17 05:35 AM
7

If you give up something for a relationship which gives ongoing benefits to the other person, and ongoing detriments to you, then you should have an adequate amount of time to recover from that joint decision's aftereffects.
/r/MensRights14/02/17 04:20 AM
4

Priorities are relative to the situation. If you're about to go on a trek across the desert, a canteen for water is a huge priority. Sitting a home, not so much. If you're in a relationship where one person works, and the other does the housework, then you don't need to prioritize keeping up with your job skills. If that situation changes, priorities change with it.
/r/MensRights14/02/17 04:08 AM
3

Because they were not planning on working, and supporting the household instead, per an agreement in the relationship.
/r/MensRights14/02/17 03:57 AM
45

There are some cases for alimony. For example, if two people get married out of high school, and the husband works and the wife raises kids, she won't have had time to develop job skills. She'd need some help getting on her feet. Same thing if roles were reversed. Now the amount of money and duration we see regularly is absolutely stupid. It shouldn't be a pension for being married to someone, it should be a crutch to help equalize the positions of both parties when one didn't get job skills so …
/r/MensRights13/02/17 08:47 PM
5

My position is that the good part of the whole "gender" thing, which is rarely focused on by the people pushing it, is that we should be less restrictive (societally) on what makes a man a man and a woman a woman. We shouldn't worry about women being more masculine, or taking traditional male attitudes/fashion/whatever as their preference, and vice versa. We really need to adopt a "who the fuck cares" stance on what people do when it doesn't affect us personally. Same with sexual preferences. Wh…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/17 05:46 PM
7

The article has a line calling out how men are paid more from year 1 in the field. Only study I found about it also showed women working significantly less hours across all age brackets too. Fucking mysterious.
/r/MensRights12/02/17 07:36 AM
2

I hate seeing it in the men's rights stuff as much as I do feminism. It's hard to find a community that's really out for equality and doesn't resort to insults and sexism.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/17 03:00 AM
5

If they started thinking of objectification as an invalidation of other qualities instead of acknowledgement of sexual ones, they would have a better grasp on reality.
/r/MensRights09/02/17 06:17 PM
1

It can, in fact, mean both of those things. This isn't a one sided political issue.
/r/MensRights30/01/17 04:49 PM
1

Yep, just not the one my ancestors belonged to.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 02:56 AM
2

It's funny, I'm pretty damn pale, but I asked my grandmother when I was young what kind of Indian we were (we had a full set of native American clothing in her back room). She told me Blackfoot. Apparently that was inaccurate and she was making a slur against herself because that's what they call half black half Native Americans. It's always fun when people check my privilege.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 04:56 PM
6

And wouldn't promised performance also essentially be prostitution? Don't get me wrong, I think prostitution should be legal and regulated (so everyone's safe AND we can fight trafficking better), but that section makes no sense in the greater legal context. It's all nuts to me.
/r/MensRights29/12/16 05:41 PM
20

This isn't a legally backed concept right? Just people trying to turn a social issue into a legal one as a power play?
/r/MensRights29/12/16 04:24 PM
3

Records all keys entered as a text file and either stores or sends it out.
/r/MensRights29/12/16 04:22 PM
1

Ha, one of my cousins (I forget how many steps away) was the manager there for a while around... late 90s or so. Lots of friends worked there too in the early 2000s. I've since moved to DFW, are you still in East Texas? Last time I visited I was pretty impressed with Jucys Taco. Some of the best cheap/fast food Mexican I've had, much better than Taco Casa.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/16 08:44 PM
1

Indeedy!
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/16 04:57 PM
1

The other one. :)
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/16 08:50 AM
1

Representing orange and black here.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/16 03:45 AM
3

Attempting to erase gender in its current form is absolutely a gender issue.
/r/MensRights13/12/16 04:15 PM
2

Ze is just not a very good option. Doesn't roll off the tongue well.
/r/MensRights13/12/16 04:10 PM
8

It's one tweet in a long campaign of anti-male feminism, or female supremacy if you prefer. The context of his positions is what makes this a bad thing.
/r/MensRights29/11/16 07:33 AM
18

Worked at a pizza buffet place in high school. Peeling bloody period pads off the walls multiple times per day is something you can't un-see.
/r/MensRights26/11/16 10:56 PM
5

Not female only, but all of the writing staff is female now. Almost all white females too.
/r/MensRights26/11/16 08:25 PM
3

Huff post is doing well though! Hahaha. They weren't able to turn a profit on $150 something million in revenue last year.
/r/MensRights26/11/16 07:43 PM
3

Cmon, you know it was her turn. Haha.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/16 04:24 PM
36

The point is calling out isn't equal for the feminists. The whole point is emphasizing the inequalities that are ignored.
/r/MensRights26/10/16 04:51 PM
1

Regardless, just don't hit people. The situations that it's acceptable to hit people would disregard strength.
/r/MensRights22/10/16 05:00 PM
12

Is that similar to the vehicle driven by the ambiguously gay duo?
/r/PussyPassDenied17/10/16 01:43 AM
217

They paid out $150-$200M to have people professionally alienate their audience? Nice.
/r/MensRights30/09/16 01:53 PM
-1

But gender roles have negative impact on women just like men.
/r/MensRights28/09/16 04:22 AM
1

Those choices are affected by the gender stereotypes that have negative consequences for men. Not defending the stereotype, just acknowledging that it's a factor. Unfortunately it's not the popular course of debate or policy. Right now people fight to keep negative qualities and want equal outcomes.
/r/MensRights28/09/16 04:20 AM
11

The worst are the egalitarian women. They hate em. Don't think for yourself!
/r/MensRights12/09/16 01:41 PM
1

You da man!
/r/MensRights10/08/16 06:08 PM
5

Need an archive.is link in that one. Survey scam.
/r/MensRights10/08/16 05:36 PM
2

Check the new comments. It took context into account.
/r/MensRights08/07/16 10:38 PM
-1

Absolutely, she's the exception not the rule for sure. Once women can't pass as teenagers anymore, they fall off.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/16 08:44 PM
2

Women just peak earlier. It's not a constant distribution of the exact number of actors and actresses at the same pays all throughout. It's more bad statistics.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/16 08:13 PM
11

They justify it by saying that revolution is not peaceful, and spew some horse shit about how there has supposedly been peaceful logical protests for years.
/r/MensRights25/05/16 01:02 PM
9

He should reach out to the foundation, Ryan Reynolds, and the production company. Publicity for the cause and awareness can be a win win for everyone.
/r/MensRights18/05/16 02:57 PM
1

Or a gentleman.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/05/16 01:39 AM
27

She's literally selling a "woman card". https://www.hillaryclinton.com/contribute/donate/om-official-woman-card/
/r/MensRights30/04/16 05:04 AM
-1

Sounds like you're mad that someone called you out for not understanding what tranny means.
/r/MensRights17/04/16 02:20 PM
3

Incontheivable!
/r/MensRights15/04/16 07:52 PM
0

Actually transitioning is most effective treatment for the condition. Do some research, it's been the case for decades.
/r/MensRights15/04/16 12:17 AM
-6

Yeah, fuck people with psychological problems!
/r/MensRights14/04/16 11:37 PM
-4

I can't force you to not be a dick, but you do have the right to be one.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 11:14 PM
5

If someone is trans, they should be treated as the gender they have transitioned to. It's their life to do with as they please and it doesn't harm anyone. As long as they tell their doctor it's fine.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 05:47 PM
2

The left huh? Guess I'm glad someone told me what I think.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 07:35 AM
3

Oh, she could have still fought. She wasn't down and disabled, she was down and confused.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/16 03:54 AM
4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mnoed_HXStY
/r/MensRights11/03/16 07:45 PM
9

Is that an original, or are you quoting someone? Either way I'm stealing it. :D
/r/MensRights11/03/16 07:44 PM
38

You'd never know that if you didn't come here, sadly. It's insane how many people want to attack the cause because they don't understand it.
/r/MensRights11/03/16 07:39 PM
29

But they do make more money, in equal conditions.
/r/MensRights07/03/16 06:37 PM
11

They were really confused when the negative number happened, so they went with 100 because it has pizzazz.
/r/MensRights05/03/16 12:26 AM
11

Didn't realize that was supposed to be a hidden aspect...
/r/MensRights05/03/16 12:24 AM
9

You get that personal responsibility bullshit out of here son.
/r/MensRights05/03/16 12:23 AM
2

And like for like experience and availability.
/r/MensRights19/02/16 01:12 PM
2

They won't be happy until white and man are the same as black was 150 years ago. Literally the opposite of progress.
/r/MensRights19/02/16 04:35 AM
-2

Boo this man!
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/16 04:53 PM
-7

Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/MensRights09/02/16 04:26 AM
-15

She is absolutely not a feminist. She may SAY she's a feminist, but feminists aren't unapologetic rapists and misandrists.
/r/MensRights09/02/16 03:18 AM
94

But the student disagreed with the idiot's narrative that's so popular on these campuses. You can't have that.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/16 06:44 PM
5

Absolutely.
/r/MensRights20/01/16 04:26 PM
0

Report people to the gym management when they do this, or culture change won't happen.
/r/MensRights17/01/16 03:46 PM
-1

And most people who claim to be feminists are actually just sexist against men. A feminist is someone fighting for equal treatment for women. You're confusing actual feminism with people using it as a shield to protect sexism.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 06:40 PM
0

I'm arguing with MRAs because the more effective strategy isn't to try to prove all feminists are crazy, but that these people are doing wrong, and supporting wrong behavior.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 04:43 PM
0

Let me break this down, since you're not getting it. I am a potato. Me saying that doesn't mean I'm actually a potato, it just means I'm saying that I am. You're not an adherent to feminism just because you say you are. You're just a person who says they're a feminist. Agreeing that they are feminists strengthens their position, even if you're attacking them. You're giving them legitimacy. And you're also supporting their chosen shield of claiming they're feminists, when they're clearly not. It …
/r/MensRights12/01/16 03:47 PM
2

Nah, not mentally ill, just hypocritical serial liars.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 02:12 AM
-3

These aren't feminists. These are radicalized idiots hiding behind feminism.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 02:10 AM
-2

These people aren't feminists. These people are something different. Feminism is a movement for equality. These people are a circlejerking bunch of sexists with no morals. We need to make a different name for them, since they want to hide behind a group that stands for good. As we also need to differentiate between the sexist element hiding in the MRA movement.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 02:09 AM
1

But it is how shit journalism works. I'm not talking about the science. I'm talking about writing an article about an epidemic proportions problem, and writing it up to focus on 3% of the victims because you want to write about women instead of the problem.
/r/MensRights11/01/16 01:35 AM
1

97% of veteran suicides are men. I'm not pushing the number because I want men's coverage. I'm saying it because there's absolutely no reason to bring gender into the story, and if you were going to do so, the dick move would be to exclude 97% of the victims of something. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_military_veteran_suicide
/r/MensRights10/01/16 11:39 PM
0

I'd wager this is similar conditions regardless of gender. Furthermore, I'd compare this to a news outlet running a story on white people being killed by cops as an epidemic. It's insensitive to the issues being faced. That being said, I'm of the opinion that since cops are killing poor people at the same rates regardless of race we shouldn't focus on one race there, but that's what we've got now.
/r/MensRights10/01/16 06:43 AM
3

One of the leading causes of death in men is suicide, which receives an absolutely garbage level of coverage in the media. Coverage of suicide rates for veterans, since they're mostly men, is barely covered. So it's kind of an irrelevant statement to say that it's OK because there's research on the subject done, even though we aren't doing shit about it. But that means it's not a bit cringey to continue to gloss over the overall issue and focus on the women's suicide problem. Not to mention the …
/r/MensRights10/01/16 03:51 AM
8

Why single out the greater victim and exclude the lesser? Inclusivity is what we want. No exclusions based on gender. You know, equality. Because it's part of a trend of ignoring the class that the greater victim is in. You're right, this study (article) isn't causing people to ignore male suicide. That's pretty much ignored already. So essentially...who's being ignored? Well, there's a big group and a small group. Let's give a story to the small group. Cue 'what the fuck's.
/r/MensRights10/01/16 03:03 AM
-2

Regardless, why single out the lesser victim and exclude the greater?
/r/MensRights10/01/16 02:26 AM
1

Absolutely agree. Everyone is responsible for their own safety. It doesn't absolve anyone else of wrongdoing, or diminish the crime of others to acknowledge that someone was unnecessarily exposing themselves to danger. People absolutely flip shit over this logic, and call it victim blaming. You can say in a lot of places on reddit, "Oh, she probably shouldn't have gone out without any friends or acquaintances, got shitfaced drunk, took all her clothes off and passed out in a mens restroom stall,…
/r/MensRights07/01/16 10:42 PM
1

In this specific scenario, was she incapable of standing up and leaving the situation?
/r/MensRights07/01/16 10:31 PM
6

Speaking out against unfair accusations against all men? Solid analysis. It's all about attacking feminism. Super smart.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 07:00 PM
0

So the justification for telling men not to rape is trying to make two wrongs into a right? That doesn't seem to be a good idea.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 06:59 PM
3

Your sexism is disgusting. There are plenty of men who can't hold a rational thought in their head, but we're going to peg women with some biological weakness? Horseshit.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 07:31 AM
3

Not all women are irrational emotional beings. Not all men are violent sex crazed lunatics. But both sexes can be both of those negative things.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 06:06 AM
2

Link to an archived version instead so you don't give these cunts ad revenue.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 06:05 AM
8

Male is the new nigger apparently? Great. We need to promote hatred instead of acceptance to truly become a great society. /s
/r/MensRights06/01/16 06:02 AM
5

This isn't liberalism. This is feminism. I know a lot of people think that liberals support the feminist agenda, but it's a lot less common than perceived.
/r/MensRights04/12/15 04:03 PM
2

Thanks for quoting this. I try to make sure this is a well known statement of hers. It's absolutely obscene.
/r/MensRights04/12/15 04:02 PM
0

Because people are willing troll about it?
/r/MensRights02/12/15 04:48 PM
1

If you really believe that running as a third major candidate instead of trying to take the main party nomination, you're delusional.
/r/MensRights02/12/15 04:27 PM
1

My wife and I have decided to not have children. The ability to leave this type of legacy is the only thing that ever made me reconsider my position.
/r/MensRights24/11/15 07:17 AM
3

Legos huh? The company infamous for advertising that their products aren't for a specific gender, and that boys may want to play with the pink stuff, and girls may want to play with the blue stuff? Huh.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 05:22 PM
1

It's so simple, non-coerced affirmation. Alternatively a lack of refusal when both parties are physically engaged romantically.
/r/MensRights20/10/15 04:51 PM
1

Oh, I forgot men were supposed to get less protections under the law. You know, the entire point of the subreddit? She looked like she was asleep and so I laid down and closed my eyes. I opened them and she was on top of me, she slapped me across the face and grabbed me by the throat. She said "Fuck me, or I'm going to rape you." She hit me again. Now I am not a person you would pick out of a line to punch, nor am I someone who backs down, but I knew that hitting her back was what she wanted. I …
/r/MensRights20/10/15 04:44 PM
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That is an astounding amount of horse shit. You don't understand the difference between rape and sexual assault. Here you go: Second Degree Rape - a person is guilty of rape in the second degree if the person engages in vaginal intercourse with another person: By force and against the will of the other person; or Who is mentally defective, mentally incapacitated, or physically helpless, and the person performing the act knows or should reasonably know the other person is mentally, or physically …
/r/MensRights20/10/15 04:26 PM
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Self defense isn't a matter of capability, it's a matter of willingness. The fact that his only option would be to physically assault her, and he wasn't willing to doesn't mean it isn't rape. When someone forces someone to have sex after being refused under threat of CONTINUED violence, that is absolutely rape. Legal Definition: A criminal offense defined in most states as forcible sexual relations with a person against that person's will. He told her repeatedly he did not want to have sex, and …
/r/MensRights20/10/15 04:02 PM
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So he complied under threat of further violence. But that's cool, right?
/r/MensRights20/10/15 03:32 PM
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I will love you forever if you can find it!
/r/MensRights08/10/15 10:05 PM
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Yeah, that unequal pay. Just like how childless women in their 20s outearn men by 8% on average. The wage gap is totally based on gender, nothing to do with employment tenure. I'm still amazed that there's no data published for the following: Pay by Gender Within a specific occupation Sorted by number of years worked in profession Sorted by tenure at current position It's just astounding that nobody has taken the time to properly present the data. EDIT: Also, hours worked per week.
/r/MensRights08/10/15 05:30 PM
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So women are supposed to be second class citizens who can't party like men do, can't stay out late like men do, because men can't help themselves but rape them when the women are drunk? You're making the assumption that all men are potential rapists and have no agency over their sexual desires. No, women are expected to be adults, because that's what adulthood is about. You make decisions and pay the consequences for them. It doesn't mean the consequences are justified, but it is a shared respon…
/r/MensRights31/08/15 12:15 AM
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No. Fucking learn to read. Blame sharing. If you are repeatedly putting yourself in compromising positions and shit keeps happening to you, you're PART of the problem. People can get drunk, but if you can't drink responsibly, you're SHARING the blame. Not to mention she got in the front seat of a cab. That's not how cabs work. It definitely seems like /r/thathappened material anyway. She got mouth raped, and was overpowered somehow. Who doesn't bite down? The whole story reeks of bullshit, and e…
/r/MensRights30/08/15 09:49 PM
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It definitely takes maturity to have this attitude about negative events. Thank you for sharing. I still have trouble making myself share the things that happened in my life. Good for you bro. Thanks for sharing with us.
/r/MensRights27/08/15 01:38 PM
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I'm glad you're here to tell me what I'm saying. Reading comprehension must not be your strong suit. Blame/fault can absolutely be shared. Stranding yourself with no money while intoxicated late at night would indicate that you're putting yourself in danger. Does it mean she deserved it? Absolutely not! Does it absolve the aggressor? Absolutely not! But her stories have a distinct trend of making bad decisions and putting herself in bad situations, then bad things happening because of it. She's …
/r/MensRights26/08/15 11:08 PM
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Let me rephrase with more basic English: Highly upvoted link that speaks down to men. While speaking down to men, it is talking about problems they are experiencing. The subject of the second half of that sentence is still the highly upvoted link, not the men from the middle of the sentence.
/r/MensRights26/08/15 09:55 PM
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Read the next sentence. Not her fault though, right? No blame to share, just fingers to point. To reiterate No blame to share I'm not saying that it's her fault. I'm saying that the situations she put herself in means she shares in the blame. Are people not allowed to talk about things that happen to them? People are allowed to talk about what happened to them. Her conclusion is the problem, not the sharing. She makes the "moral" to her story that men are out to get her. To tie in with my last p…
/r/MensRights26/08/15 09:52 PM
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Highly upvoted link that speaks down to men when talking about their own problems. Highly upvoted comment saying that in general it shouldn't be a contest. Regardless, the point I was making is the same they did.
/r/MensRights26/08/15 05:49 PM
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Relentless obstacle course doesn't sound like a realistic description of life for most women. And I did not say it was entirely her fault, just that there is blame to share. I am fine with venting. It's just the minimalization of men's problems and accusations of being completely unaware of women's issues that is the problem.
/r/MensRights26/08/15 05:39 PM
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Well said. It really does come down to redefining the human struggle as a women's struggle. Good perspective on today's false feminism's views.
/r/MensRights26/08/15 02:39 PM
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They'd have him arrested for verbal rape.
/r/MensRights26/08/15 01:48 PM
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You can't? I can even tie mine into a knot without using my hands, then untie it the same way. /s In all seriousness though, I'm glad to hear the stories of people spreading accurate information. It's becoming more and more rare!
/r/MensRights26/08/15 01:45 PM
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They can call themselves liberal activists, but that doesn't make them liberal activists. This is alternate reality activism.
/r/MensRights24/08/15 05:35 PM
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Alternatively, it will swing back to those who are qualified. If anyone elects to step away from work for months or years for family reasons, they do not deserve the same pay as those who stay. Nothing wrong with either decision, but equal outcomes aren't realistic.
/r/MensRights17/08/15 06:21 AM
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In what world?
/r/MensRights17/08/15 06:17 AM
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No, it was the topic of a subreddit. The alleged harassment was the reason for the ban.
/r/MensRights10/07/15 03:26 AM
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It wasn't so much harassment about weight as denial of HAES.
/r/MensRights10/07/15 12:51 AM
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They sure can. Doesn't mean they're not asshats for it.
/r/MensRights09/07/15 11:46 PM
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More accurately because Imgur fatties got pissed when they were caught censoring their site, and drew a very large target on themselves. My guess is they cried to the corporate overlords.
/r/MensRights09/07/15 11:07 PM
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It depends on perspective, I suppose. The biggest issue for women is the one I stated, and the biggest one for everyone is the one you stated. I should've been more clear. My bad. :) EDIT: I'm glad we could have a civil discussion with a difference of opinion. I like you.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 07:37 PM
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Agreed. Equality of outcome is literally sexism. It's pathetic that "feminists" don't understand the simple logic. Or they subscribe to the sociology "definitions" rather than actual definitions.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 07:33 PM
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I think you misunderstood what I was saying. The issue with undermining your movement by handicap is that people will react accordingly, and then there's justified sexism. I agree with you 100%. It's a completely ineffective strategy. There are other problems with the handicap approach, as you've pointed out.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 07:31 PM
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I left that job over that issue when they refused to hire someone because I didn't take that bias into account. All the degree got them was an interview, and she was the best candidate. The lady they hired ended up robbing them. Fun times. Their point was about admission mostly I think. I got declined to a lot more schools than my wife did, and my high school GPA was .2 higher, and I missed 1 question on the SAT. She did pretty poorly on her SAT. She's a minority. Regardless, I think it should c…
/r/MensRights16/06/15 06:43 PM
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A lot of grumbling, and having food stuck in the corners of their mouths, too.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 05:57 PM
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But muh opresshun! In all seriousness, this is the real issue. I had an issue with a previous employer who insisted I didn't "count" any non-white people's bachelor's degrees because they had so much extra support that wasn't available to white people. Granted this is the exception, but holy balls, what if women start having trouble getting promoted or hired because they are perceived to have not earned their qualifications?
/r/MensRights16/06/15 05:52 PM
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So you can tell a person's true gender by their hands? The attacker is clearly a moose-kin, you cis scum. xD
/r/MensRights05/02/15 07:24 AM
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