SoundProof4 Archive

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1	How Much Effort Did You Put To Get Her? I hurt her pretty bad, multiple missteps. The worst was she caught me texting another woman. We separated in the house and one day she came up to say she wasnt mad anymore and wanted to work om it but thay exact second I was texting that woman, but it wasnt sexual stuff or anything just like small talk but she still said that was the last chance. She filed and everything but called me 45 days later wanting to meet up, so we did and we basically started dating again for a few months but one day s…	/r/askMRP	14/06/25 03:36 PM
1	How Much Effort Did You Put To Get Her? I barely put in any effort at all into the women I married. Both 1st wife and 2nd wife. They both showed extreme interest in me without much effort on my part. No chasing at all. Its necessary if you want it to work. They need to be very drawn to you and be the ones to really put in the effort and enthusiasm. Test it. Its essential. If you're the one chasing and you succeed that way, you are the "safe option", not the one she truly desires. She must show genuine burning desire in you for a LTR t…	/r/askMRP	13/06/25 04:51 PM
1	How to get better at STFU? STFU is just acronym for time and space. If a woman is invested and she starts a heated argument, you're answer is time and space. Separate yourself until she cools down. It works every time for emotionally invested women.	/r/askMRP	13/06/25 04:46 PM
1	Is there anything after emotional cheating or is it over? What she did was testing the waters, not really cheating. Not great but not terrible. 2 weeks of texting or whatever then abruptly stopping or downloading an app out of curiosity for 1 hour isnt cheating.	/r/askMRP	13/06/25 04:42 PM
1	Is there anything after emotional cheating or is it over? I wouldn't blow this up over something so minor. Trust me there are bigger issues that could have happened. Trust and respect will vary in any relationship over time. Attraction ebbs and flows. Its never static. This black and white thinking is going to cause you to be single for life if you go down a path like that. What she did was suspect, sure, but relationship ending? Not for me. I'd ask her what she thinks drive her to do it and just listen to her talk, don't interrupt. At the end say some…	/r/askMRP	13/06/25 04:40 PM
1	Is there anything after emotional cheating or is it over? This isnt a big deal. If you care about her its fine. Sometimes women do dumb stuff like that that makes no sense. I'd drop it. Just let her know that you'll walk if it happens again and leave it be.	/r/askMRP	13/06/25 04:29 PM
3	"I'm too tired" Dread is needed here. Initiate, tell her "I'm taking what's mine" or something like that and pull her in to make out... and if she doesn't respond well, leave her immediately with a smile (absolutely do not show any other emotion like frustration...and do something around the house or just leave without warning or telling her where you're going. When you come back from home depot or the shed in the yard...or gym...or wherever you went, you act cool like nothing happened and you never got rejecte…	/r/askMRP	20/05/25 03:23 PM
1	Marriage is over, but not divorced. Need some insight on how to act at home, since we still live together. Right, the addressed problems and corrected behavior and attitude should reattract her. If she hasn't filed or moved out, she is giving it a chance no matter what she says verbally.	/r/askMRP	13/03/24 02:27 AM
2	Marriage is over, but not divorced. Need some insight on how to act at home, since we still live together. Disconnect from the outcome, have outcome independence. If you want her to come around then you need to address her concerns with empathy, listen and validate her feelings. Tell her her feelings are valid. Then take actual steps to address the issues, but dont go around bragging about it. Just do the things and mention it from time to time. Rian Stone talks a but about this. Use techniques like fogging and amused mastery. Read No More Mr Nice Guy and be completely open and honest. The gym stuff …	/r/askMRP	12/03/24 04:48 PM
1	Lessons Learned from walking through Hell I'm reading this in Rian Stones voice	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/03/23 05:23 AM