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Activism/SupportSoundSecret/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:01 PM
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Why did you write this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:42 AM
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What he said^
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:02 AM
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Kinda? On the political compass I’m libertarian left. I myself am fascinated with Anarcho communism, my boyfriend isn’t as much, but he’s still very left and in the same quadrant, just not as extreme. Same with all of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:38 AM
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I don’t think they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:06 AM
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To answer the title question, yes. I could never date someone who isn’t radically left. It shows completely different values, ones that I can’t resonate with. Even with friends too. I’m just not trying to take in energy from people I’m fundamentally ‘against’ (not as people- but right vs left energies are super different and I can only feel comfortable with leftists.) I’m still tolerant and treat everyone with respect, but my personal choices are to distance myself, especially from paleo conserv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:58 AM
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fake
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/21 10:57 PM
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Thank you for this.
/r/MGTOW215/06/21 06:13 PM
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That's fucking stupid. Relationships are a 2 way fuckin street, gross
/r/MensRights14/05/21 11:32 PM
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Yes I agree! What I’m saying is that, especially over the internet where anonymity is convenient, people mislabel themselves. Sometimes it’s just shitty people trying to feel less shitty about being a shitty person. I’m sure that you know what I’m talking about. Anyway, because it’s on the internet it is difficult to judge off the ‘walk’ rather than the ‘talk’. So you must decide whether or not you want to trust their self labeling. Many of us have grown to distrust each other’s self representat…
/r/MensRights11/05/21 06:00 AM
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That’s true, but isn’t it true that many other groups are doing the same thing? Everyone wants to be in the right it seems.
/r/MensRights11/05/21 05:45 AM
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Isn't there that whole "no true scotsman" logical fallacy? If a feminist labels themselves as such, but supports and spreads misandrist messages, then, by definition, she does not follow the political ideology. However, as I'm sure you know, that doesn't stop them from self-labeling as feminists. So, fuck. I think feminists use that term similar to the BLM movement. They put an emphasis and focus women, because they think they are the only oppressed gender. And BLM advocates put an emphasis on c…
/r/MensRights11/05/21 01:59 AM
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No, I’m also not sure of what that really means. My personal philosophy is that hatred on any sides is counterproductive, and we need to work together. Because if it’s only true equality that we seek, the only way to achieve that goal will be collectively working together. In that way, we are a team, we want to feel valued and heard, and to be satisfied with our treatment. I don’t associate with any political party or group because of this. The polarization of our society has grown so extreme th…
/r/MensRights10/05/21 11:16 PM
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Ew
/r/MensRights10/05/21 08:48 PM
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Hey this is really cool! Good on you
/r/MensRights10/05/21 08:44 PM
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One theory is that autistic women are actually over exposed to testosterone in utero. But I do see your point there.
/r/MensRights10/05/21 08:42 PM
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Well, it is true that girls are very undiagnosed. But that doesn’t make you misogynistic, most people don’t know that. I didn’t until I got my diagnosis 🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights10/05/21 08:36 PM
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I see a lot of women’s tinder profiles that “require” a guy to be over a specified height. My boyfriend is 5’9 but really, who gives a fuck? those people have always baffled me :/
/r/MensRights10/05/21 08:32 PM
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Many sides to everything imo! Everyone regardless of gender can be a shitty person lol
/r/MensRights10/05/21 08:31 PM
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Yes, that is true. I think it could be classified as somewhat of a more serious misdemeanor, that would seem to fit. That can come w fines, and usually up to a year in a county jail, but not quite a penitentiary. Thoughts?
/r/MensRights10/05/21 01:21 AM
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Yes I 100% agree. I suppose I’m not quite familiar in the legal system in the US- but could a penalty be one similar to libel or slander?
/r/MensRights10/05/21 12:39 AM
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Triggering, to me, relates to pretty severe PTSD. In psychological terms it means that it brings back very unwanted memories that are highly painful, resulting in flashbacks or panic attacks. Yes, most court cases are stressful, this is just a different kind of stressful, and I’m aware that all are valid. I think it’s just hard to understand if you don’t have the disorder. It’s similar to what veterans tend to get after combat, but my PTSD relates more to sexual violence, if that makes any sense…
/r/MensRights10/05/21 12:37 AM
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I don’t think you understand- I am saying that it should be punishable under the law. I do not want any advantages, and I am sorry if it came off that way. Reporting my perpetrator was the scariest thing I’ve ever done. By no means would I do it again if it wasn’t something that needed to be done. It’s a complicated, overwhelming and triggering process. Most importantly though, my moral compass does not lead me to ruin someone’s life any form of retaliation.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 08:58 PM
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I don’t subscribe to any political/social group or party. it’s just a personal experience that has has changed the way i view things on this issue. to each their own ✌️
/r/MensRights09/05/21 08:48 PM
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I can agree on this. i had to make a statement to the police about my repeated sexual assault. if i was scared that somehow it could give me a punishment, i would never have done it, and the perpetrator would have been left in society to abuse other women. false accusations, when actually proven beyond reasonable doubt, should have some kind of penalty. i think that’d be a case by case basis.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 04:05 PM
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I would love to talk with you!! I’m as left as it gets in most cases but I’d love to talk to someone with a differing viewpoint! this also applies to whoever sees this! I love actual discussions about politics.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 11:24 PM
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I think all of those people are pretty radical and that’s some fucked up shit to spew. I think there’s radical ends to every belief or viewpoint, those all aren’t accepted as well because most times they’re hateful and, like you said, toxic. I think most women don’t feel this way, but now I’m aware they’re out there. You shouldn’t have to handle that. I’m glad you guys are talking to each other about it then. Hating an entire group of people, no matter what group or minority they fall under, is …
/r/MensRights07/05/21 02:05 PM
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not as much as I’d like to, I think the last phone call we had was about a month ago. he lives in AK (where I’m from), so since freshman year I’ve only flown up to see him once. I would love it if we talked more, he won’t even come down to see me graduate. So he’s kinda a flake, but still my dad, better than my manipulative / emotionally abusive mother I’m stuck with.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 01:52 PM
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Ah I see, thanks. That does make a lot of sense.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 01:48 PM
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That’s super interesting. something related- as of 2013, the life expectancy for males in Russia was 65.1 years. The female life expectancy was 76.5 years at the time. The most common causes of death were working men, from alcohol poisoning, stress, smoking, traffic accidents, violent crimes etc. My question is if you think that is at least partially due to men coping with mental illness in unhealthy ways (NOT their fault- keep reading). Like drinking and smoking, as there isn’t enough mental su…
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:58 AM
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I agree, there needs to be way more of a middle ground, shades of grey. One group doesn’t take precedent over the other. We both have our issues, and I only see this happening if people (all parties involved) start following egalitarianism, if that makes sense. I just wish we could all work together, there’s a lot of tension between so many people on this earth, and it’s quite saddening. I am glad you stand up for this issue.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:41 AM
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I thought these were common, especially religious ones? But it does seem that girls ones are spoken more about.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:37 AM
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That’s my dad. He’s pretty depressed and has decided to put off dating ever again. When I was younger and my parents got a divorce, my mom took me, despite me preferring to stay with my dad. It’s heartbreaking for both of us. Now he lives a thousand miles away and I feel so bad about it. I really agree with this, this needs more attention.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:35 AM
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I’m curious about this comment and want to learn more. What do you see toxic femininity as?
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:32 AM
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I think toxic masculinity is a term that is very multifaceted. Where I live, men do tend to be more ‘manly’, because our society expects them to be. For example, men are often expected to not show emotions or pain, or just to ‘tough it out’. So, as they try to achieve these societal pressures & expectations, they are shunned. They are criticized because they don’t want to show vulnerability, but in reality it’s caused by the social issues regarding men’s gender normalities. I think, at an extrem…
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:31 AM
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Yay!
/r/MensRights07/05/21 12:23 AM
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I’m interested in finding my way in the world. I want to ask questions to many groups that I may have previously “disagreed” with, because I now realize that everyone’s opinion is valid & important. I’ve asked questions to conservative subreddits, feminist ones (got deleted) and now this subreddit. I hope to expand my understanding of all groups. ✌️
/r/MensRights30/03/21 03:02 PM
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I see. I have gotten some hostile messages which sucks, I suppose I’ll look more into the page itself to answer some of my questions.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 02:54 PM
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How is it patronizing? What can I do to make it less so.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 02:53 PM
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I did read the last post. I just took it too literally and asked that, I think you were being sarcastic at second glance. I’m autistic, sorry.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 02:53 PM
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Right. I think that’s more of a liberal ideal but I think most feminists would agree that abortion is a right. What are the biggest things you disagree with? In regards to feminism.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 02:52 PM
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No I cannot?
/r/MensRights30/03/21 02:50 PM
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Ah I’ll check that out. I’m really super to ideas if they’re either backed by some sort of data or an otherwise a logically backed up claim. I too tend to avoid labels. My idea is that women do lack some rights, as do men. So can one be a true member of both MRA and FRA? Both parties have different defecits, and nobody really has the complete upperhand. With the government thing, that must be true to some degree. I’ve been learning about more and more unbiased studies & reports, esp about assaul…
/r/MensRights28/03/21 04:16 PM
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Yo I’m gonna watch that rn thanks! C:
/r/MensRights28/03/21 02:33 PM
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Ok, why should you or any man on this planet demonize feminism and everyone who chooses to call themselves feminist? I suppose i’m not asking what MRA exists, obviously they have some rights, I just wanted to know what the biggest issues this subreddit thought were the ones they lack and need help with. As with every movement, the first step to change is for others to actively learn more about your cause & mission. If you can’t do that, it’s gonna be tough. So I am sorry that I phrased the wrong…
/r/MensRights28/03/21 02:32 PM
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Yes actually lmao
/r/MensRights28/03/21 02:29 PM
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that’s not productive lol I learned more abt this yesterday, ik that it’s wrong. editing the comment would take away from it’s integrity but i’m very glad to be aware of it now!
/r/MensRights28/03/21 02:29 PM
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✌️
/r/MensRights28/03/21 05:27 AM
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Why would you say that? I stated so many times that I want to hear... look at the comments dude, I’m sincere. I just don’t want to have a useless internet argument, nobody has time for that shit, it’s so counterproductive. I simply want to hear ... in a civil way. If you want to move forward with this movement, demonizing the “other side” is not going to help. If I say something feminist, I would be under attack. But if I ask to be educated about this movement, why does that bother you as well? …
/r/MensRights28/03/21 05:26 AM
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Whoah. Thank you so much! This is seriously ‘enlightening’... how can a whole population convince themselves of something so wrong? Why do they want to create a world they hate? Again, not a generalization, some feminists are great. I’m just talking abt the ones that aren’t... Something like, the narcissistic love of the tragic self. That’s how I’d put it.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 12:34 AM
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Because I’m ignorant lol. That’s why I wanted to be educated, that’s why I made this post :) I want to learn and be aware of these things! Truly, though. I think most people don’t know about this, because the ~feminist movement~ has caused MRA to be silenced in some way. At least that’s what I’ve gathered from users on this subreddit.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 11:49 PM
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whoah. that’s a really interesting article ! Do you agree with points that feminists often agree on? As a young woman, I have often really feared being alone in public, especially at night. Many of my male friends do not share this feeling. So would you say that’s misandry at work? If I understand correctly, some points made by feminists have some kind of basis, but have been generalized and turned into male hatred. Is that how you feel?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 11:47 PM
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sometimes, yes. this can be true.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 11:43 PM
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Wow that’s pretty fucked. I’ve not heard about the trans example, that’s not equality that’s just ... more hatred spread. So what do you want to see from feminists? Like, what would your ideals be...?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 11:16 PM
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Unfortunately I find this to be true. I had some hope though.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 11:12 PM
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I’m actively trying to dismantle the us vs them mindset. It is intentionally a open ended subject. I just want to hear about the male experience; what are the hardest parts? In this case, I don’t feel like I have the “right” to pick and choose what I want to hear about. I suppose I would like to hear about several things. For example, do you feel safe sharing your opinions, especially to women? Why is there a stigma around feminists in this subreddit? What experiences have you personally had tha…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 11:05 PM
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DUDE. Thank you SO much. This is exactly what I need! Really appreciate it c:
/r/MensRights27/03/21 10:19 PM
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I can definitely see this. Most of my friends are guys and it’s a lot more challenging for them to open up. My boyfriend took quite a while, when he cries I hold him tight like an actually supportive SO. So I suppose many women see it from your GFs perspective, because he was suprised. It still really sucks that you have to bottle it up. And her response was pretty fucked IMO. It also really makes it a lot harder to actually seek help if there’s something going on. Actually, a couple hours I tal…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 10:16 PM
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Cancel culture is so toxic :/ It’s good you’re not ashamed, and I have no intention of shaming you. Just so we’re clear. The internet is really confusing. Have you found any women that agree with these ideas? I imagine that many would not, is that true?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:58 PM
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I stated that I wanted to hear differing points. Just in a way that isn’t hostile or defensive. I am actively attempting to understand. In reality, nobody is truly “right”, and that’s a valuable thing I’m very grateful to now understand. Before, I thought I was right. An us vs. them type of viewpoint, which was super counterproductive and just perpetuated the polarization of a collective society (humankind). I value all opinions. (Unless they’re actively hurting someone.) What did I say that gav…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:44 PM
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Wow! That’s super interesting. The media really polarizes things. Thanks for showing me that!
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:43 PM
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Are there statistical studies that prove this? Not asking out of hostility. I’ve just never heard of that before. But now I have! Thanks.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:38 PM
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YES! I’m so glad you agree on this!! That is unbelievably refreshing. I’m not sure what exactly I wanted to discuss- I think that it’s mostly about the male experience, as it is obviously foreign to me. Or something about specific topics, such as the forced suppression of emotions etc. due to society’s standards of what “makes a man a man”. It’s mostly out of curiosity. I’m ignorant about the topic and I just want to learn & grow.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:36 PM
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Not really. I believe what I believe and don’t totally subscribe to either men’s right movement or feminist ideas. They both have valid points. I pick and choose what feels right to me, from most viewpoints. Do you? Do you agree with any feminist ideas?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:32 PM
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What do you mean by this? Am I missing something? Please educate me.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:28 PM
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Why generalize? I just don’t want to have an argument over the internet, it’s exhausting. Nobody learns from them, it’s just further polarizing & alienating, is it not? To me, debate has somewhat of a connotation to it. I imagine facebook comment sections just tearing into each other, only making counterarguments. But If it’s a respectful debate, sure! I’d love to hear your points. But if it’s an argument back and forth, nobody is growing. I’m a fan of seeing others simply as humans with a diffe…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:27 PM
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What do you think the biggest issue is with feminism is? And what do you define a feminazi as?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:39 PM
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Interesting. That must be a very frustrating role to be in. I totally agree with the virgin shaming especially. Often women say the whole “men only want one thing and it’s disgusting”, but then virgin shame at the same time. I don’t understand that but I call it out when I see it. Does this make you ashamed to be in the MRA movement? As if you cannot speak about it, or share your ideas?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:38 PM
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Oh sorry. I have aspergers and don’t understand sarcasm as well, especially over the internet.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:34 PM
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Why would you say that? I am trying to reach out and help my understanding. Is that not what this community wants?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:33 PM
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Interesting. I suppose that the scientific study is just a true statement of correlational statistics. But if the roles were reversed, you'd get shat all over, so yeah, its fucked up. Utilizing a common insecurity to entice men to be climate change activists is icky, no questions asked.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:19 PM
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This is definetely a problem in our society, it does need to be addressed. In my mind, everyone should feel comfortable with their emotions, in public, and in general. I try to spread the idea but it does get a lot of pushback, its unhealthy and just detrimental in general.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:15 PM
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If you look lower in the thread, I said that it's not my place to, I understand that. Thank you for bringing this to my attention!
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:09 PM
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I am confused. I wanted to support your ideas. Like I said, I am not interested in feminism because it can be a harmful thing and I instead focus on the concept of egalitarianism. Am I missing something?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:05 PM
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Ah. I'm autistic so I'm pretty bad at understanding figures o speech lol. But, fair point. It's not my place to define an entire movement or community. What would be a non- no true scotsman approach to the definition?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 05:03 PM
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I understand your point. Self acceptance is truly a key aspect to self-actualization, and its quite important for peoples overall wellbeing. I think that it IS ok to be chubby, especially if youre living healthily. i.e, if you overeat on healthy foods, but are active, etc. I think we should put a more healthy lifestyle perspective towards it. If health is what your goal is, then thats a very positive thing to reinforce. The problem is that shaming people can be quite psychologically damaging. It…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 04:49 PM
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Probably true lol, I dont think it discredits my point though
/r/MensRights27/03/21 04:42 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 04:41 PM
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Haha yeah. Growth is what's its all about.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 04:40 PM
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Men do tend to have the upper hand but its loosening more now, thats really important to see. There's historically always been a power dynamic. Women are statistically & objectively more often assaulted or abused than men, but here's the thing: men are too. Every gender is subject to that shit. Media often overplays the idea of women only being abused. But I've had male friends that have been raped, abused, and assaulted. Its not black and white, it never is. Its overplayed, I agree. Not all men…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 04:14 PM
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I dont. Feminism = GENDER EQUALITY. In my book men are NOT excluded from equal rights. Real feminism is not about the hatred of men. A lot of women who drag men down are probably insecure, have prejudices through negative life experiences. Or they just want to victimize themselves. I've been there, but since then I've grown to have a more balanced view on things. Black and white thinking doesn't fit in any rights movement. I've moved away from the feminist movements. After experiencing vastly de…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 04:01 PM
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I'm a feminist and I see both sides. I think being obese is a health hazard, objectively. I think the idea is to remove some shame related to the matter. Women historically have had quite a few beauty standards that are honestly mentally damaging. Many of overweight people struggle with binge eating disorder, which is a mental illness that must be addressed. Binge eating is often caused by a cycle of shame and guilt, so in a way it is being addressed, medically. I think the body positive movemen…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 03:49 PM
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