SoundVU Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30s Large, highly metropolitan cities/areas with a dense population. In my opinion, a place with a high percentage of rentals is a possible indicator of women in your target age group. Given where you are, I agree with the advice to go back to NYC.	/r/seduction	30/11/21 01:30 AM
1	Does she like me? You have two options: Never ask her out and forever wonder what could have been. Ask her out, but have a plan to graciously accept rejection if it ends that way. “Hey, I misread the vibe. Let’s continue to keep it casual between us.” TBH, I don’t think she’s as into you as you’re interpreting. This is a work setting, and it’s a whole lot less boring if you’re able to have fun with your coworkers. Don’t mistake friendly for flirty.	/r/seduction	25/08/21 11:13 PM
8	Youtube advice gurus ruined my life PUA material leaves the reader completely unable to process the reality that one can do everything right and still be rejected by a girl. No guy has a 100% success rate picking up girls.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 07:04 AM
11	[deleted by user] Pretty girls with a distorted perception of what’s fair and what’s not fair are a real trip.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 07:01 AM
2	Best approach for the first date? I think 10 days on a dating app is too long. You’re giving her too much attention and emotional availability. She has no impetus to meet up in person. Also, if you fall for her this hard before even meeting in person, you’re not going to do well in the long run.	/r/seduction	09/06/21 07:39 AM
1	How do you approach a guy when you want to bang him Ask him to come over to help you move something. He’ll feel useful, and you’ll already have him at your place.	/r/seduction	09/06/21 07:28 AM
1	Is it still possible for me (27M) to become a high value male? Let me put this simply. No matter how much preparation you put in, there is no 100% guarantee that you'll get it right on the first attempt. This is contrary to your experience in life so far, but that's how it is. You'll approach girls, you'll get rejected, and that's all inherently part of it. Build up your confidence so that, 1) you'll de-pressurize the mentality of getting it right on the first attempt, 2) have the resolve to try again after encountering your first rejection.	/r/seduction	11/04/21 09:39 PM
1	How to be more flirty during group project zoom meetings. Get their contact. Message them about the group project. Find a lead-in where you can mention something about yourself or your day. If they respond in kind, go off topic and see where that leads.	/r/seduction	15/03/21 11:20 PM
2	Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating. Aye, there with you man.	/r/seduction	15/03/21 08:57 AM
1	Approached a bar waitress, shes being dry, yet interested? What do I do now? NEED ADVICE! She wants to do relationship things with you, sex included, without being exclusive. Some people might not do well over text. Have you determined if this is the case with her?	/r/seduction	02/03/21 08:21 AM
2	Approaching a girl at work “Hi, you must be new here. Which group do you work in?” Ask anyway, even if you know the answer, and let her tell you.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 08:06 AM
6	The reason that HUMOR is super attractive People like to laugh. People find it attractive when you can own your personal flaws. Combine the two, and be able to not take yourself seriously.	/r/seduction	30/01/21 09:46 PM
1	Men and women of reddit, how do you know when a girl likes you (over text) Ask her out. Do not draw out online interaction. Some girls can be on social media a lot, and will reply to almost all messages that are not creepy.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 07:20 AM
2	How to deal with girl with hot and cold days ? She likes attention and you’re giving it to her. Don’t fall for the trap of thinking she’s sub-posting about you. You were also told that she’s not interested. Don’t continue to pursue unless you just like talking with her.	/r/seduction	14/09/20 02:45 PM
30	How I succeeded in dating Be physically fit Invest in personal aesthetics Dress well Most men would be attracted to women based on these factors. It's crazy to think women wouldn't expect the same from men. Thank you for sharing your experience that it's true.	/r/seduction	10/05/20 12:32 AM
3	Reddit's system might be one of the reasons you still struggle with seduction. This actually has some utility if you think there might be confirmation bias.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 05:25 PM