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Did someone say FBI crime statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:25 PM
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You can be vulnerable when someone you love dies or when you're facing a big personal problem/issue that you already have a plan to deal with and you're actively working on it already. Anything else you're not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 02:01 AM
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I did say "probably" the odds of him not lying are higher though since I'd assume the primary/only reason to lie in that context is sex. Sleeping with someone on every first date is just a complete crapshoot, because you don't know if that's his primary motivation and I think for a lot of relationship minded men they're turned off by it anyway because they can assume that if she's doing it with him she's doing it with the other guys she's going on dates with. It wouldn't make dating fool proof b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 06:19 PM
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For women I always assumed it would be pretty easy, just take 1 of 2 approaches depending on what you want. If you want to get laid just pick the hottest of the 50 guys who message you on tinder and go at it. If you want a relationship pick one of the guys who is pretty decent and has his shit together(be honest and don't try to punch above your weight class), don't put out for 3 dates and if he sticks around and still seems into you then you have a relationship. The reason women think they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:05 PM
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A baby can't survive on its own until it's like 6 years old minimum. Unless you think abortions should be legal up until like 5 years old that point doesn't really make sense.
/r/PussyPass17/04/19 02:10 PM
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Some women can be very overweight and still be hot. True, but they would almost universally be more hot if they weren't overweight. The same applies to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:12 AM
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The normal/healthy range for men and women is different though. A 24% bf male is "fatter" than a 25% bf female. Like the other poster I also want to know what you mean by "harder".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:49 AM
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According to another post of his he paid off her 350k of student loan debt and at one point found a hospital job that paid 210k a year for only 7 shifts a month that she was qualified for and she not only refused to apply but she "got so pissed off and wouldn’t speak to me last night" Honestly it sounds like she's just lazy, and now has him completely trapped.
/r/PussyPass10/01/19 05:10 AM
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POC male excited about female CEO. Evil white male oppressor makes fun of female CEO. Makers of this video pushing some typical bigoted stereotypes here. I'm doing my part by calling it out rather than remaining silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:50 AM
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IMO consistent sex with someone you're attracted to and have a good sexual rapport with is better than hooking up with randos. I also don't like the idea of having sex with a woman who just fucked another guy the day before. I also don't like using condoms but am afraid of STDs. So in my opinion if you're not looking for a full on relationship a good exclusive FWB situation is the best way to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 06:39 AM
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I play young and dumb, then kick ass after their guard is down. I'm having difficulty imagining a work scenario like this. Do you mean you deliberately keep expectations low and then suddenly exceed them at the right time or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 09:16 AM
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His account of everything is infuriating to read On top of the police brutality, corruption, and callousness just the fact the she seems completely indifferent and is still constantly just going out, getting hammered and having a grand old time is all so shitty.
/r/PussyPass22/12/18 09:51 PM
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Women aren't intimidating. They're either approachable or not. And once you start dating they're either nice to you or they're not. A woman being approachable is mostly just her demeanor along with a few extraneous physical factors, like I wouldn't approach an 18 year old 6'3 super model. Just too much unusual stuff going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 08:09 PM
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I take issue to the idea that bad aspects of men are due to masculinity and bad aspects of women are also due to masculinity. If it wasn't for masculinity and masculinity-caused internalized misogyny women would all be perfect angels and every societal norm there is wouldn't exist. It seems like the femaleosphere is making quite the accusation while absolving themselves of all responsibility. Maybe i misunderstood what I've seen on here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 01:04 AM
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I'm just adding to the conversation since your comment states they aren't progressing in the workforce, kind of implying they just hit dead ends and their careers stagnate, leaving out how a big factor is taking care of families.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:50 PM
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A big part of that is probably children considering it reverses around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 12:29 PM
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1) yes you were since you're posting about your personal life that is causing problems in your relationship(or a potential one) and you want to know if men agree with your boyfriend 2) Why are you bothering to do either if you're just going to flip shit on people who don't validate your decisions? What you're doing is utterly ridiculous, utterly the wrong way to approach fitness and utterly not conducive to a relationship so if all you want is validation for this don't ask anyone about it becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 12:00 AM
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Lol, you're the one asking for advice. If you're going to take this attitude just fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 01:38 AM
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So she fucked a dude quicker than she fucked you. Boo hoo. It's not about that; she's trying to trick you into thinking she's something she's not. You want some boring prudish girl whose only getting boned twice a year, starfish style? Not constantly putting out to everyone who'll fuck you does not mean being bad at sex. Do you ever get jealous because your friends had friends before they met you? You're allowed to have more than one friend
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:55 PM
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Would you also prefer a girl that you'd see a future together not sleeping with you from the first date? Yeah, that'd probably be a dealbreaker for me. Partly because if she does it with you you can be sure she's doing it with her other dates, and with the unlimited number of different people to go on dates with available to a woman like that I would probably assume that she's been fucking other guys earlier in the week and will fuck other guys later in the week. That's an extremely distasteful …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:10 PM
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I do a class, either cardio or weights, for an hour then I do weights for 30-45 minutes and/ or run on the treadmill for 20-30 minutes. Don't do classes. If you're working out every single day 30 minutes is enough to weight train. An additional 30 minutes is more than enough to be in good cardiovascular shape. You only need more if you're quite serious about running and you can optionally do more if you just really enjoy it. Moral of the story: you should exercise efficiency with your workouts. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:57 AM
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The other poster meant solid case for it not being attempted murder(considering if she had chosen to take the pill instead of it being slipped to her it would not be murder), maybe he could still be convicted on something to do with drugging the girl.
/r/PussyPass15/10/18 10:56 PM
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not wanting to have sex with a man who has had sex with a dude isn’t homophobia. Is it not? Could you explain why, because it seems like it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:25 AM
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So it's not that big a deal because you can make an attempt to live outside the law by dodging the payments and wage garnishment and all that? That doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 07:57 AM
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Do you have any stats or anything? I'd be curious to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:43 PM
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What would you deem a dangerous job, then? In the U.S. at least, this stuff Carrying a pack of bricks on your hear doesn’t meet your definition? ...No? You could get attacked by predators or people That can happen as you walk to your car out of the super walmart. You're conflating difficult work with dangerous work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 12:54 PM
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Yeah I agree, the point was about the danger in the jobs, not the difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 12:32 PM
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Well, like I said, nitpicking one specific job is missing the point. The point is that all the most dangerous jobs are done by men and always have been and that's the expectation. And yes the women's half of the division of labor was difficult too, but typically not deadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:02 PM
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Yeah? What would you say the ratio was historically?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:49 AM
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Jobs like construction and mining pay well to compensate for the fact that they're dangerous. Now. In the first half of the 1900s, and before, you were working 14 hours a day for 25 cents until you dropped dead of black lung at 30. At any point you're trying to nitpick one specific example when that isn't the point. The point is that all the most dangerous jobs are done by men and that's the expectation. Now these jobs are getting safer and paying more, in the west at least, but it doesn't chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:52 AM
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If he's that jacked he's gonna look roided AF. 5'9 200 isn't roids mode, it's just very muscular mode
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 06:09 PM
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I want butterflies in my tummy Butterflies must be the name of that new taco joint down the road
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/18 03:03 PM
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Yeah and in this conversation we're talking about "white christians" and then in reality white westerners treat women and local minorities better than anyone else in the world and people like you are allowed to talk about how shitty white western men are because white western men are the only ones on Earth who put up with that shit in the first place. And the obvious counterpoint is Islam/Islamic culture and if femnists are advocating for women, not just women in their own country, then there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:27 AM
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Reality isn't slander, but yeah, try to get his comments shut down for wrong think so you don't have to argue against them. The reality is that it's fucking weird that feminism has jumped into bed with Islam because islam, up to and including modern day Islam, is the antithesis of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:46 AM
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Well yeah, I agree that porn is a big problem but there's a difference between being unfulfilled/unable to get an erection and wanting to actually emulate what you see. Porn is fantasy and projection, I think it's like how many women have rape fantasies but obviously don't want to actually experience rape. Many men watch porn, doesn't mean they want to watch other men fuck their woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:13 PM
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Idk about that, seems pretty similar to the whole video games cause real life violence argument. I mean women like romance movies and novels it doesn't mean that they want their husbands to go off and successfully romance nice young girls and then tell them about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:53 PM
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I'm a different person. Why don't you explain the difference then? You've only stated that idea with no explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 02:44 AM
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It's not marketing, they're entirely different concepts. Wage gap is people with equal experience and equal productivity getting paid different amounts for the same work. Earnings gap is a difference in total earnings aka there is an earnings gap between the CEO of Google and your local barista. The wage gap 77 cents thing was arrived at by taking the total yearly income for all men in all jobs compared to the total yearly income for all women in all jobs without controlling for any variables at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 02:16 AM
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Can you post some of the studies? I've never seen this claim made before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 07:29 PM
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Not even being snarky but I assumed we were discussing adults in the thread and not teens and pre teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:59 AM
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No I don't think any of those girls find him super physically attractive. They find him attractive in general due to his wealth and status in spite of his stature/build.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 12:12 AM
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You would consider Justin beiber irresistiblely physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 10:22 PM
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A super rich celebrity can get away with it. Take some normal guy working a normal job who is exactly physically equivalent to Bieber and he would have to work hard to get attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 08:28 PM
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Well anecdotally most women I know express interest in taller guys, the taller my friends get the more general success they have with women. I've seen the OkCupid statistics that messages from women to men increase with male height, maxing out around 6'6" (99th percentile) before starting to slope down. But a 6'10" guy will still get more messages than a 5'5" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 08:16 PM
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A good bet is to expand your friend circle, especially female friends. Never hit on them or make any moves in your immediate friend circle but instead try to date all of their friends. Also social hobbies and activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 05:17 PM
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and men dont have periods. simple medical facts arent privilege. So a perfectly healthy individual has no privilege over an autistic quadriplegic? It's just simple medical differences? If the quadriplegic is male and the healthy person female he has more privilege? its not women's fault that men are raised to think that getting laid is the most important thing in the world There's not a fault here, it's just reality, you're right; women control something that men desperately want, that is power.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:34 PM
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Remove the can and you've got a wrong statement that's just racist. That was the point I was trying to make. Everyone can be shitty to everyone. The only point in bringing up [race] being shitty to [race] is to, at the very least, imply that it's disproportional in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:45 PM
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Personally, I don’t see how pointing out that white men can be shitty to brown women is racist. I agree, black men are shitty to white women, and I think it's ok to point that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:06 PM
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It’s much easier for fathers to remarry than mothers of young kids I'd much rather have custody of my children than better odds of remarrying. Plus is it even better odds when the bulk of your money is going to your ex? women’s income always declines because of motherhood and remains that way after divorce. Not always. women who both have children and choose to be stay at home moms don't see a rise in income. And a good portion of divorces are caused by cheating or abusive men. What portion? Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 04:53 PM
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Yeah I agree with everything you're saying. I just thought that lack of height didn't really fit with the rest of what OP listed because I think women would consider the majority of men as "lacking in height" as opposed to a small percentage as "extremely deformed". Maybe she meant like an entire 2-3 standard deviations below average or shorter though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 06:50 PM
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Sure, but 1) it's a big difference from preteen girl to actual woman and 2) were you going nuts over cute emo boy band members or just guys at your school who were wearing eyeliner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:31 PM
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I think it's trivial. I'm sure you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:04 PM
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Yes, I'm sure these huge percentage differences are due to men's sick gainz in the gym... I didn't say huge percentage and I didn't say sick gainz. I said there was a non-trivial percentage of men who throw off BMI measurements due to weight lifting, which is why it's better to look at obesity vs obesity as opposed to obesity & overweight vs obesity & overweight. But sure, go ahead and sarcastically exaggerate the comment so you can argue against a strawman instead of the actual point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 03:57 PM
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That's all lumping overweight and obese together which ignores a critical factor. Men who weight train regularly are all going to be "overweight" by BMI despite having a low body fat %. The same isn't true for women. So there's a percentage of "overweight" men who are actually in good shape. If it's going by pure BMI it's better to just compare the obesity rates because the percentage of full-on male body builders is negligible as compared to just normal guys who lift weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 03:46 PM
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We also have the babies, experience menopause, and naturally require more body fat so we’re always going to be “fatter”. The overweight and obesity ranges are higher for women than men, so the categories are all proportional to that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 03:43 PM
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Even tho men are allowed to. Technically. I think women find it unattractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 03:41 PM
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or lack in height In reality that's like 60% of men. Men want a woman shorter than he is and women want a man taller than average. Being in shape will always massively improve things, but for men who are average or below average in height it's like a woman being permanently overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 03:39 PM
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Um, no. You missed the point. how?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:18 AM
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Bisexuals and gays also have a ton of partners That doesn't really need a source. It's just a given that gay/bi men average more partners than straight men and women, and that gay women average fewer partners than straight men/women. STD prevalence follows the same trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:37 PM
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So if a guy lied to you about something that's a relationship dealbreaker(say views on children, or he'd contracted chlamydia 15 times or something) and then after 5 years you found out he lied about it and the relationship ended you think that would be just as bad to you as having a one night stand and then finding out the guy wasn't actually rich? It may just be me but the time commitment one seems objectively worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:26 PM
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That seems shitty too but honestly would you rather find out someone you had a one night stand with lied to you or find out that your fiance you've been dating for 5 years lied to you about one of your deal breakers? Lying to get sex is bad but doesn't seem as bad as lying to someone in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 08:06 PM
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but I never considered the possibility that he would break up with me over it. Er, so were you dating and the topic came up and you lied about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 08:03 PM
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Yeah, I agree with that part specifically; However the fact that women automatically get custody in most cases would probably be considered "divorce rape" by a lot of people. Plus the articles you referenced say the same thing about childless marriages. He found that, when a man leaves a childless marriage, his income immediately rises by 25%. Women, however, suffer a sharp fall in income. Their financial position rarely reaches pre-split levels. So a man can get fleeced in a divorce and still t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:39 PM
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I may be missing something but it looks like both those articles are stating that men continue to advance their careers after a divorce and women do not leading to men eventually earning more money as they age. Plus the articles kindof imply that aside from men continuing to advance their careers women still come out of divorces getting more from the man than the man gets from the women. 1/3 of women receive payments from their ex On top of that, divorce proceedings alone can pose a serious fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:59 PM
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Every study I’ve seen on the topic suggests women are far worse off financially than men after divorce. Can you post the studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 03:11 PM
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Nice, that will make everything easier for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:32 AM
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So what did this girl think was going to happen when she went home with Aziz? She trusted him and she was trusting him to do exactly what she wanted, which was contrary to what every adult on earth would expect, and she trusted him to know that without her even telling him? That's why she went home with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:14 AM
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Yeah, that's not what I said and you know it. Why bother to respond to me if you're just arguing against a point I didn't make? I'm saying date the man(date as in go on dates in public places and not home alone) until you reasonably think you trust him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:54 AM
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Anyone who doesn't think that women are worried about rejecting men directly at least in part because they have no real way ahead of time to tell if this particular guy will get violent needs to talk to more women. Why are they always getting into these situations in the first place? Don't go home alone with a guy you don't trust and don't bring home a guy you don't trust. In Aziz's case it was absolutely and utterly clear that sex was likely to be attempted. If she wasn't into it she shouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:53 PM
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Yeah yeah, get rekt.
/r/PussyPass15/01/18 07:04 PM
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1) You are trying way too hard and 2) your counter argument to what I said was something about hurt fee fees, which isn't even an argument, so once again, what the fuck are you talking about retard?
/r/PussyPass15/01/18 06:53 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about retard?
/r/PussyPass15/01/18 06:41 PM
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That's not what I said and you know it. Can you imagine being so up your own ass that you have to deliberately misinterpret what people say so you can keep jacking yourself off with your righteous indignation? I don't give a shit about movies not having white male leads, I care about them deliberately choosing to make all the bad guys white males and deliberately make none of the good guys white males. that's shoehorning in personal racial politics in to a movie it has absolutely no place in. Ho…
/r/PussyPass15/01/18 06:01 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 04:06 PM
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I think if we're talking about deliberately implementing a system like Sharia law for the sake of having a higher birthrate then it's all irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 06:07 AM
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My point was that, with the intention of reliable birth control, this is no longer a guarantee for creating more kids. Yeahhhhhhhhh, and what makes you think anyone intending to force women into the home intends to give them free access to reliable birth control? I must me missing something here because this back and forth isn't making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:26 AM
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Oh In that case do you really think women living under Sharia law can get birth control if their husband doesn't approve?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 01:30 AM
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He's Mexican/Latino and I agree that he looks like he could be Mediterranean but it doesn't change the fact that it was a deliberate choice to make white guys the enemy and everyone else the good guys who oppose them. Before release one Rogue One writer tweeted "The Empire is (now) a “white supremacist (human) organization"" And another Rogue One writer replied with "Opposed by a multi-cultural group led by brave women" It's fucked and it's not stopping. Like, considering that they've establishe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 08:07 PM
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won't fix the issue. What issue are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:11 PM
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but that won't solve anything unless you magically get rid of birth control. It wouldn't have to be magic. In Saudi Arabia unmarried women aren't allowed to buy it. I might be wrong but I think it's similar in most Muslim countries (as long as they're not actively trying to deal with overpopulation)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:04 PM
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Most people thought the rogue one characters were good. Really? You mean the 10 unstoppable killing machines whose names you can't remember? Which one was your favorite? Space Rambo #1? Space Rambo #2? Space Rambo with a stick? If I wanted to watch movies with no character development and no good dialogue that just consists of barely likable protagonists effortlessly mowing down hordes of bad guys with no overarching sense of tension or threat I'd... idk, rent some crappy 80s B movies.
/r/PussyPass12/01/18 12:56 AM
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If the characters are good it doesn't matter. Too bad the characters aren't good.
/r/PussyPass11/01/18 11:00 PM
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What you wrote makes a lot of sense. Aside from this explanation though the term/concept has always seemed like just another way to tear down men in general. It was created by feminists and mostly talked about by them. It's called "toxic masculinity" not "toxic cultural expectations of men". No one ever discusses the equivalent "toxic femininity". It's kindof hard to trust that it's actually about empathy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 09:07 PM
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lol wut. women get wet as fuck when you act emotional as long as you are attractive/strong otherwise. Even then it's only if you're acting emotional in superficial or extremely legitimate ways. If you're tearing up because you just can't stand all the injustice against [social group] or because your father died then yeah sure, wet as fuck. If you act emotional because of personal issues and insecurities and shit that is technically within your control like you're afraid of losing your job or bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 08:55 PM
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That sort of one sided characterization really pulled me out of the story and spoke of agenda. It's not just male/female either. Every antagonist is white except for 2 who both betray the empire for the good guys(aka, they're actually protagonists). In rogue one they even made the deliberate casting choice to have zero white male protagonists. They're hamfisting in a weird kind of racial politics into it as well.
/r/PussyPass11/01/18 04:12 PM
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He wasn’t trying to kill her. I don’t know how people missed that. She didn’t “defeat” him, she just got away from his attempt to take her alive. Vader was trying to take Luke alive and he cut off Luke's fucking hand. That would have been Kylo's best option too. Disarm her (lol) and just give her a new robot hand later. And I just rewatched that scene on youtube, she absolutely defeated him 100%. She flips it around while standing against the cliff, puts him on the defensive, cuts off part of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 02:27 PM
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Star Wars has been a big thing for multiple decades with a gigantic expanded universe. Hating parts of these new movies isn't hating "most of it". I mean you can be a huge fan of pizza your whole life but if a restaurant serves you a pizza with a giant pile of shit on it that doesn't mean you're no longer a fan of pizza it just means you're not willing to eat shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:49 PM
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I just love that the dark side hierarchy is all male and the light side is all female Not to mention that whole thing with Rogue one where they deliberately made none of the main protagonists white males. And they deliberately made the only non-white characters in the Empire betray the empire and join the good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:26 PM
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What movies were you watching? ... He had, maybe, weeks of training at best Some time with Kenobi, a few weeks to a few months with Yoda and then a multi-year gap between Empire Strikes Back and Return of the Jedi.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:21 PM
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Maybe this is more of a thing in the singles crowd. I have a long term girlfriend and many of our friends are in long term relationships as well. It just depends on how you socialize and what you think makes for fun socializing. You can't imagine hot tubbing with friends because it's weird to you. I can't imagine that being weird to anyone. So to each his own, but the general point is I think that your particular preferences and experiences are outside the norm and most people get in situations …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 09:57 PM
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I mean this in the most respectful way possible, but it sounds like you got these ideas from teen movies and romcoms. No those were all personal examples from my own life. Dead serious. I'm never the one to instigate but 3 times i can think of offhand in the last 3 years people have suggested it, once on a camping trip with a bunch of people, once hot tubbing up in the mountains on a ski trip and once with actual co-workers at after work drinks. And that's just that I can think of offhand. Shoot…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 09:19 PM
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Lots of people, I'm sure it gets more rare the older you get, but you can't fathom a bunch of 20-somethings playing with their friends around a campfire or in a hot tub on a ski trip or even just drunk at a bar? It's not like people instantly clam up and go sober at 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 09:09 PM
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Have you ever played "Never have I ever" around a campfire? A few drinks and an hour of playing that will give anyone a pretty complete understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:38 PM
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That, in itself, is a negative trait in my eye. Why is that exactly? Is it always a bad thing or is it acceptable in countries like the Netherlands where it's legal/regulated/safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:34 PM
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Could someone explain to me where this idea that people are entitled to know the entire sexual history of their partners came from? Not casual flings or one night stands but people in a long term relationship are absolutely entitled to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:31 PM
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Yeah actually, he could pay the women he dates 10 million a year for the rest of his life without even breaking a sweat. He claims to want a real long term relationship based on love though so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 04:28 PM
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1) No 2) No, 1. that sounds awesome and 2. everyone on earth knows that that situation more than likely means sexual intent. 3) Yes for the ass pinching. I've had women touch my chest before as part of flirting and it didn't make me uncomfortable, i've gotten the ass pinching/slapping a couple times as well and that crosses the line from flirting to making me uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 04:20 PM
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He has the sad, desperate, needy approach to dating of a beta. He's a massively successful person though and clearly arrogant enough to never do any self examination in any aspect of his life so he's not not going to change his ways. The result is that he's going to continue marrying young 10/10 women after 2 weeks of dating and they're going to keep divorcing him after 2 years for a few dozen mil. This will happen for the rest of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 04:06 PM
1

Literally every woman I've had sex with wanted to be dominated, pseudo-forced, held down, maybe choked a little. "I love it when you're rough with me." Definitely the majority for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 09:45 PM
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Yeah, fair enough for sure.
/r/PussyPass10/11/17 02:47 PM
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I'm really interested to see you explanation how by unplugging his Kayak she was killing him. So if I make us both hot chocolate, put poison in yours and then watch you as you die without calling an ambulance it's not actually me killing you, it's just the poison killing you? You're being kindof deliberately dense here if you're pretending to not see how sinking someone's boat can be a method of murdering them. Another so? I didn't really give a fuck when an uncle I was close with died Were you …
/r/PussyPass09/11/17 08:27 PM
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So? So she put him in a position where he was going to die, watched him from 2 feet away and didn't help as he was dying, showed no remorse or grief after he was dead and was supposed to collect 250,000 dollars afterwards. Why do you think it's more likely not murder than murder?
/r/PussyPass09/11/17 08:06 PM
1

Probably because that never happened Do you mean she probably never intended to murder him? She admitted to taking the plug out of his kayak and according to the article "she had watched [him] drown, even moving a paddle out of his reach as he flailed in the water "
/r/PussyPass09/11/17 07:46 PM
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She premiditated a murder Seriously, she admitted to premeditated murder and was supposed to be the recipient of his quarter million dollar life insurance policy. How did the prosecution only get 4 years for this?
/r/PussyPass09/11/17 06:18 PM
1

Like actual posts about murdering raping and assaulting real people? The suicide thing seems fine as long as it's like a support thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 03:55 PM
3

So did they actually do anything against the rules or was it just something distasteful getting swept under the rug?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 03:20 PM
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Yeah I mostly agree, I think the other poster calling it arbitrary and acting like it's some completely baseless thing that some group of guys made up on the spot while drunk in the wine cellar 2000 years ago is asinine. The roles evolved over time and make perfect sense in that context. I'd go further and say it's partly ingrained in our biology as well, people aren't just a completely randomized collection of genes/hormones/experiences, instinct and biological imperatives and whatnot are real.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 07:35 PM
3

I can't tell if you're fucking with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 04:22 PM
2

I already explained to you what gendered norms were based on. The construct of a patriarchal society? That's incredibly vague. And you didn't respond at all to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 04:08 PM
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You just said it was arbitrary and then you very strongly said it's not arbitrary. I'm getting the impression you just very much don't like gender norms. It's not completely arbitrary though, it's asinine to think otherwise. Biological females are always going to be worse soldiers AND less expendable than men, it's not arbitrary for men to be warriors. Biological men are always going to be less empathetic AND incapable of producing milk, it's not arbitrary for women to be child rearers. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 04:01 PM
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are all corrupt and apparently just under report on crimes perpetrated by women. I actually agree with you but I think it's funny that this is exactly what many BP/leftist/progressives say about the racial disparity in crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 03:32 PM
2

arbitrary Seems like too strong of a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 03:25 PM
2

Oh thanks for clearing that up
/r/PussyPass02/11/17 01:00 PM
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Robitille had previously been found guilty of manslaughter in the 2014 alcohol poisoning death of her 13-year-old son, Isaac. She killed both her sons via alcohol poisoning.. I can't read.
/r/PussyPass01/11/17 08:56 PM
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This is one of the crazier ones. She straight up murdered him AND has prior convictions for violence and she's only going to serve 3.5/5 years behind bars.
/r/PussyPass31/10/17 06:40 PM
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She's been in relationships since she was 15 and almost all of them ended with her cheating on her boyfriend and jumping straight into the next relationship. She's getting constantly liquored and coked up an fucking random guys. She sounds like a trainwreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 08:07 PM
1

You can say this exact same thing about any ideology ever. Feminsts have jumped into bed with Islam. I've already shown you the Pew Research stats showing that Muslims are overwhelming at odds with feminism. Islam in general is "fundamentalist Islam", that's the point. If you want to say that I must go out and find examples of feminists explicitly supporting Isis or else you win then that's obviously fucking stupid. It's just nitpicking and being pedantic instead of actually/honestly talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:32 PM
1

The majority of Muslims in the west aren't that extreme, though. Yeah they are, Western culture/majority non muslim population keeps it in check, that's it. Please provide evidence that the majority of feminists stand behind fundamentalist groups or countries I have no idea where you pulled this from? The bulk of muslims, including in the west, are decidedly anti-feminist, which is why it seems so utterly bizzare to me that feminists have jumped into bed with Islam at all, that's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 03:55 PM
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Feminists don't defend Islamic fundamentalists 90% of muslims are fundamentalists in the way you're using that word. Islam and feminism are fundamentally incompatible. If the west magically became majority Muslim tomorrow feminism would cease to exist because it just wouldn't be allowed any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 01:16 PM
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Feminists want Muslim men to invade because they deeply crave male dominance and being oppressed because it's their natural state. I don't think that's really the case, but I do think that it's fucking bizarre that feminism has jumped into bed with Islam of all things, the absolute antithesis of what I thought feminism was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 11:26 PM
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Something along the lines of "A woman wants to be the cherry on top of your otherwise perfect life" So basically just making yourself complete and leading a full life will make dating easy, dating in order to make your life complete isn't going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 06:30 PM
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I think adultery should be punishable by death again. Well the good news is you can convert to Islam and move to Saudi Arabia.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:42 PM
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It won't change anything unless we get to a full on Blade Runner or WestWorld scenario where it's completely indistinguishable from a real person. That certainly won't happen in our lifetimes. I don't think sexbots, for the foreseeable future, will be any better than current sex toys/pornography to the point where it will cause an additional percentage of men to drop out of society. Multiple generations down the road this might be a problem but who knows what the world will even be like at that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:38 PM
2

Statistics say men are actually more likely to be overweight. This comes from straight BMI, aka height and weight. Lots of males who work out are technically overweight, aka, outside the normal BMI range, due to muscle mass. That scenario is negligible for the female population. Men are more likely to be "overweight", women are more likely to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 10:01 PM
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Based on this and her other articles she's just an aging, selfish, uninteresting person who is completely unwilling to do any introspection but feels entitled to have real dating in her 30s be as effortless for her as it was to ride the CC in her 20s. Some things she hates about men are: "They way overshare... I’m not a therapist, I don’t want to be and I never will be. " "They're emotionally stunted...It’s a sad truth—it’s difficult to find a man who’s mature enough to be vulnerable and emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 06:59 PM
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is your source? Like I said, I'm not who you were talking to. I was mostly just telling you what the term is for what you're talking about so you can actually google it. Stop being so needlessly confrontational and go look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 01:38 PM
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Not who you were talking to but I just googled it. It might be referred to as the tax gap and this is one of the first results With this being the relevant bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 01:27 PM
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The thing is: if a woman is still a virgin around 30, my default assumption is that she either has sky-high standards, is weirdly religious, is asexual, is terribly antisocial, something else or a mix of any of the above. This is a woman I probably wouldn't want to date in the first place, marrying her no questions asked? Sorry, but dude... Yeah agreed. I could see a great woman staying a virgin until 25 for religious reasons, but then if she's not married by 30 something is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 02:56 PM
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Granted this is the first I've looked into it but the first page of google says milk production burns about 200-500 calories a day. And the other poster definitely did not say the only way to lose weight is to eat less, he/she said the only way to lose weight is to eat less than your tdee, or essentially the only way to lose weight is to consume fewer calories than you burn daily, which is true. People(especially those who are new to fitness) notoriously over estimate the calories they burn and …
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 10:15 PM
1

Places like Chicago where guns are Impossible to get legally have higher crime rates then places where a law abiding citizen can buy one legally. Yeah, but all that violence is committed by black people, we're only allowed to talk about violence when the perpetrator is a white male.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 03:33 PM
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Well where does that personal apprehension come from? We don't live in a bubble. If someone I know develops some problems and steals money from me I'm going to have personal apprehension about reporting them, that doesn't mean there's a stigma against reporting burglary. issues with people believing you Part of this is the push to massively expand the definition of rape to include basically anything. No one is going to disbelieve someone who is assaulted, held down and raped. Then when you get i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 04:28 PM
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So there's no stigma against reporting rape. There is a stigma against reporting stuff that wasn't rape as rape. And we're talking about a big giant grey area of muddled definitions and conflicting ideologies. Two drunk people having drunk sex may or may not be considered rape depending on who you ask. Unwanted touching or kissing might be considered rape depending. Not really wanting to but still giving consent also depending. All this stuff that is super vague and varies wildly from person to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 06:04 PM
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That sounds like a stigma against falsely reporting crimes or people with a personal/financial interest in the man trying to influence a particular case to get the accused off the hook. There is no stigma against a woman reporting an actual rape. You think if a woman gets grabbed at night walking home and forcibly raped in the park everyone's going to tell her she's a lying slut trying to ruin the guy's life and she'll lose all her friends and the rapist will be paraded around as a poor victim l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 05:44 PM
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There is a large stigma against it if it's done by a refugee, Well that's certainly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:57 PM
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That's not really a stigma against it, it's more like personal apprehension. Stigma: "a strong lack of respect for a person or a group of people or a bad opinion of them because they have done something society does not approve of:" I don't think that society disapproves of reporting rape. Don't mean to be pedantic about it but stigma doesn't really apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:03 PM
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but there doesn't seem to be the stigma against reporting rape attached to Sweden like it is in many other "western nations", Canada included. There's a stigma against reporting rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 03:48 PM
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Maybe but what I'm really interested in his wife's mindset. What do you think of that? I've read a couple threads on r/relationships or r/deadbedrooms or something where a high libido guy's wife completely lost interest in sex after they were married and after years of strain she gave her husband permission to get sex elsewhere because she had zero interest in doing it herself but also just didn't care about sex in general so didn't mind him getting it from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 08:28 PM
1

I prefer sex in relationships or FWB situations to just casual sex. Yeah, sleeping with multiple women simultaneously in some sort of ideal situation would be great but considering I wouldn't be ok with the women sleeping around that situation is pretty much impossible. Some anime style Harem is never happening in real life. A woman being completely ok with being monogamous while her partner is not has got to be so rare that it's effectively impossible. I wouldn't want to go the lying/cheating r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 03:24 PM
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Isn't there going to be a correlation between any quantifiable trait? Guys will get more messages as they get taller(up to a point), women will get more messages as they get closer to an ideal weight, I'd imagine everyone will get more messages with better jobs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 04:41 PM
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No I use MFP and I burn maybe 250 calories Total including daily strength training? That should be 100 on its own. Rule of thumb for running is around 100 Kcals/mile. I've never really checked into walking but according to google I'd guess it should be like 35Kcal/1000 steps so 700-1050 from steps +100 from the gym. So for a 5'3 woman weighing 150 lbs it would be 2200 - 2550 Kcals daily to maintain that weight and exercise level. I'm not trying to be an asshole picking apart all your numbers or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 12:35 PM
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I don't think so. FWB is someone you sleep with regularly but you're not in a relationship with. I guess I thought we were talking about just sexual exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 11:24 PM
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Guys don't go exclusive for sex. If a relationship is absolutely not the goal it's still a really good thing to have an exclusive FWB imo. It slashes the risk of STDs and the worry that comes with it. It means much more frequent sex with much less effort than trying to just hook up with Randos. It can still be nice to have a little bit of that emotional connection involved. That being said I would never try to enter a FWB situation with someone I didn't enjoy spending time with and I imagine tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 05:03 PM
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Oh I exercise a lot. I walk 8-10 miles per day and strength train daily Depending on body weight that's like 800+ calories burned every day. So if you're 5'3(short?) that's 2400+ calories consumed daily to maintain a 26-27 BMI. No offense here, but if these numbers are accurate there's something very wrong that you should get checked out by a doctor or your overall diet is way off. That being said waking up starving and/or not eating on occasional days definitely is the wrong way to approach a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 04:49 PM
2

Why? It seems like an apt comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 03:36 PM
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The question is why we act like it's not really rape to have sex with someone who's too drunk to consent. What is "too drunk to consent"? I feel like most people are still capable of forming words and/or actively participating in sex right up until they actually pass out. So if two people are absolutely shit-faced off their asses but drunkenly have consensual sex with explicit affirmative consent(while drunk) is that too drunk to actually consent? Or is just when someone is actually passed out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 09:36 PM
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and pick up on social cues. And I was just providing a counterpoint that by the time the clues are actually apparent it is possible/likely to be too late. So I think social cues are irrelevant to this specific issue. I don't have a problem encouraging people to specifically ask for consent, but you didn't mention that in the comment I was replying to, only social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:57 PM
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I thought we were supposed to be having a discussion about the validity of the OP's view and points?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:44 PM
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Does it matter? By the time you realize that she's not into it presumably things have already progressed to some sort of actual sex. It's not that hard to image a scenario going something like things getting hot and heavy with someone you think wants to be there doing this with you, things progress to sex, she starfishes and is silent, you stop because it seems weird and ask if something is wrong. At that point you've realized she isn't into it but the deed is already done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:41 PM
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Only the most severe autists can't "read minds". Most normal men can read and understand body language and nonverbal cues. Only the most severe autists can't use their words. Every person is going to be better at understanding words than body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 04:31 PM
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I don't understand why a man putting in a tremendous amount of effort to get laid by lots of women is somehow an attractive personality trait? It's like comparing two fat people. One person has been stranded on an uninhabited island and the other one won a sweepstakes contest that gives them free food for a decade from a bunch of restaurants and fast food places. That person also lives in one of those trendy mall type places with apartments on the top floor so it's just a matter of taking the el…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 06:18 PM
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For example this article about sexist air conditioning I like how the only picture in that article is of a woman using a coat as a blanket in the office but her sockless open-sandaled feet are poking out the bottom. I would have thought socks and shoes would have been a first step there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 06:02 PM
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The royal you. And at any rate it's not about claiming victimhood which is some weird form of social currency on the left nowdays. The point is that it's shitty to undeservedly treat people like shit based on skin color and sex, but for some reason it's perfectly socially acceptable to do that, and even cool and encouraged, to do that to white men, but completely socially unacceptable to do it to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 01:28 AM
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How can individuals be used to "their group" having it better? Some 20 year old white guy who is getting constantly shit on for being a white male isn't actually mad about getting constantly shit on for being a white male, he's actually just mad because he's somehow used to some lifestyle he's never had?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 08:59 PM
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You know who is most likely to be at the top and least likely to be at the bottom? Jews and Asians. Why aren't you ragging on those groups first?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 08:55 PM
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If someone had done the same thing with equal tone and length but with the opposite opinions his superiors would have done nothing. It wasn't just touching on topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:23 AM
1

What if you're putting together a pro football team?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 08:10 PM
4

Yeah diamond rings bug me too. They aren't actually rare, just the entire supply is controlled by like 3 people who dole out a certain amount each year for stupid prices. I personally think something like a vacation and a quality but cheap ring would be better or at least something like emeralds, rubies, and sapphires which are actually rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 02:37 PM
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I do and I look normal. 1) anecdotal. 2) untrue 3) you weren't disagreeing you completely changed the claim into something easier to argue against. I'm genuinely curious though, how long have you been lifting and what do you rep for squats, deads, bench and OHP and what is your 1RM for those?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:53 PM
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Just the other day, on this sub, there was a guy saying he would rather have a dead bedroom with a woman guaranteed not to cheat on him than to have a wife who likes sleeping with him but he cannot be sure that she won't cheat on him. Well like a week ago I said that "there might be one in a million women who are able to naturally pack on muscle mass like a man." Which is empirically true. You went around saying "there are people here arguing that women do not come in different shapes and sizes …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:48 PM
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And they we're OK with never getting a bj in their lives until they found out she had given bjs before? That just seems crazy to me Do you not understand how something like that becomes massively worse if the guy finds out she used to do it for other men? I agree with never getting BJs being a dealbreaker but that's not really the point here. It doesn't seem crazy at all that if some guy got married thinking they wouldn't get oral based on a lie that she just isn't into that and has never done i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:33 PM
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The vast majority of men can afford $50 for a fuck or $30 for a blowjob. I don't think that's true man. Maybe in Western countries and a few wealthy countries around the world like Saudi Arabia. But even then most men in those countries don't have the disposable capital to take a regular trips to a country where it's legal. The percentage of men worldwide who actually have the ability to regularly visit prostitutes has got to be extremely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 03:06 PM
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Lol, Christ. We must just have vastly different standards for physical fitness. Because saying that your dad who has never been to the gym and isn't that active is muscular and that all men do not have to work to be muscular and just somehow all naturally have muscles are insane statements to make. I'm not even joking, those are insane statements to make, so you're either full on delusional or you're trying to rationalize something stupid. If you are trying to rationalize something I honestly do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:51 PM
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Where exactly did that happen? Oh and as long as you're looking back feel free to respond to those questions and points you're unable to respond to because of the whole delusional thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:40 PM
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Interesting, thanks for sharing. I think that info was important for the anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 09:34 PM
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It's not true of all girls. There may 1 in a million who can naturally pack on muscle like a man. The others are on some kind of roids/testosterone. It's worthless to have discussions if we're going to talk about the far ends of the bell curve instead of the 95% of people in the middle. All the hot guys I've known were guys who didn't go to the gym. They just had the natural musculature of a healthy young normal man. They may have had visible abs from a very low bf% and they may have played spor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 09:32 PM
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you refuse to admit that two women can be of different sizes for the same body fat percentage. They can it's just super rare. Why don't you explain how woman A can be 150 lbs at 20% body fat and woman B can be 100 lbs at 20% body fat. I'm so sick of hearing "women don't put on muscles" It's a much slower process with women. It's just reality. . It's also true that most men naturally have a decent amount of muscles, yet the manosphere complains they need to hit the gym to avoid being too skinny. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 08:02 PM
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What I was saying is that fat is not the only factor in size. It's basically the only size factor that matters for female attractiveness though. Women get a pass on height and muscle mass. A 20% body fat Lucy can be 1.5 times the size of 20% body fat Stacy. That's not going to happen with women unless there's like a foot height differential. Women pack on muscle mass muchhhhhhhhhhh slower than men and have a muchhhhhhhh harder time keeping it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:49 PM
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she's still never going to be as attractive as a girl who never goes to the gym but has a delicate jawline, cute face, big boobs, desirable waist-to-hip ratio, delicate shoulders, small rib cage. That girl you're describing is also not fat though. Brienne is going to be more attractive than that girl if that girl gets fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 07:46 PM
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But really I've been blasting and crusing and it's a massive life changer. You do your research on PCT? I've honestly considered roids just because they're so easy to obtain and they're basically magic, but the thought of permanent hormone damage really puts me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 02:45 PM
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it's not. The women she's describing are probably fat cat ladies. Yeah that was my first thought too. It's a good number of women preferring to stay in in the evenings because we can. We make our own money now. We can watch Netflix and play video games with our cats, instead of facing the anxiety, danger, and even sheer terror going out on a date with a stranger brings. A growing number of us have zero interest in having kids, or even getting married. After reading that I'd bet dollars to donuts…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 02:37 PM
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Yes. Do you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:58 PM
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The women left alone could use sperm banks. Assuming Humanity ever even achieved the ability to have sperm banks and in-vitro fertilization after removing the biggest human motivator there is outside of food and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:46 PM
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I've yet to date anyone who cared So honest question, how serious were these relationships and how long did they last?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:33 PM
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People who are uncomfortable with their partner having past sex It's not ever about "having had past sex". Having had piles and piles and piles of past sex is fine as long as it wasn't with too many different people. Framing it as 'having had past sex' is strawmaning the actual issue. All else being equal who would be more desired for a LTR? A woman who has had sex 100 times with 100 different men or a woman who has had sex 1000 times with 3 different men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:24 PM
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It's a bigger indicator of poor decision making ability and lack of discipline in women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:17 PM
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It was up to five votes, then down to two when I commented. Reddit has an algorithm where posts and comments show plus or minus a semi random number of upvotes in order to obfuscate the real total. Pretty sure it's something to do with fighting bot accounts, but that's why posts can "go down" like that even though it's 100% upvoted.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 02:43 PM
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Men have a larger bell curve than women, so an average woman is going to have a higher IQ than the average man. That's not how it works. It's a wider distribution but as more people get to one side of the bell curve more people also get to the other side and they cancel out. There are more women of average intelligence than men but the averages are more or less the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:13 PM
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in German it's "Arisch" Gotcha and English only being my 3rd language kinda burned that into my mind That's pretty impressive. Your English is spot on too. I wish America was better at secondary languages in primary education. But I guess when it's the defacto world language regardless it's easier to let it fall by the wayside. I'm actually doing German on Duolingo right now, it's interesting learning another Germanic language as opposed to Spanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:10 PM
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Oh no, I just meant it's "Aryan" not "Arian".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 03:02 PM
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keeping the Arian race going
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:56 PM
1

Child support is tricky. I think women should be required to inform the father before the 2nd trimester. At which point the father can choose to legally opt out of financial obligations while she still has the option to get an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:15 PM
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Believe me, I'm not surprised. Then why did you flip your shit at someone challenging you? If there's one thing Americans hate, it's pointing out things they lack in comparison to other countries. You're trying wayyyyyyyy too hard to push that. You said some smug inflammatory stuff, got pushback and then immediately your posts devolved into some sensitive tirade of masturbatory insults. I guess now you're just trying to goad me into some sort of reaction that can then justify it. Whatever man, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:46 PM
1

I don't respect the law, I abide by it. Are you an anarchist? Any attack warrants any attack back if so desired. So if you insult someone on the street and they shoot you... warranted?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:34 PM
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Criticize away. I will never stop being smug about not living in the good ole US of A. Fine. Then don't be surprised when that attitude engenders animosity and leads to people challenging you. This is a debate sub designed to discuss RP theory and relationships. And sometimes there are tangents. This is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:32 PM
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You guys are so fucking sensitive. f you guys don't want to hear someone from another country talk about the obvious flaws in your system, don't bring them up. I think my country is a better place to live than yours is. You're the one sounding sensitive you filthy Canuck. I did not bring up American healthcare or border policy or liberal politics. He doesn't have any benefits or insurance? I'm not sure how it works, I live in a civilized country. Nothing implied there obviously. If we didn't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:27 PM
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Someone's a shithead to someone else, they have every right to be a shithead back. It's like self defense in my book. Attacking someone physically for verbally insulting you is self defense? You are joking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:22 PM
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I'm from Canada and voted for a party whose platform was to increase immigration and bring in more refugees. We are currently experiencing an influx of illegal immigrants, and at this point I mostly just feel sympathy for them. They're in a terrible position. And when the population of impoverished poor people who deserve sympathy and are in a terrible position grows by 30 million next year in the countries those people came from, despite the half million you took in what do you do next year? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 05:15 PM
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You're aware that I'm saying that porn is male focused, right? Yes the primary audience is male so that makes sense. The porn industry is gigantic and there is more porn than you could ever watch that is not male focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:10 PM
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Open relationships work if you are good looking I think it is nearly always just men being pressured into cuckolding under the pretense of an open relationship that goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:06 PM
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I'm not an "endlessly good person" for living in a country that supports/protects it's citizens, but I am definitely better off for it. I'm curious, what if you were being forced to support other countries' citizens? Getting millions of illegal immigrants, who are illiterate in your country's language, and overwhelmingly on welfare?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 04:02 PM
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The men that these women reproduce with are also betraying their tribe according to this logic. Women can have one child a year, men can have a million. Women sleeping with foreigners destroys their own tribe, men sleeping with foreigners destroys the other tribe. A man can travel somewhere, impregnate 100 women, travel back home and still impregnate 100 women in his own tribe. Meanwhile the 100 foreign women he impregnated are spending the next 2 decades pregnant and raising the foreigner's kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 09:28 PM
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Are men biologically better at pointing a gun? Yes. In the same way men are better at swinging a bat, or kicking a ball, or throwing a dart, or hitting a cue ball. Look at the Olympic records for shooting events, men are far ahead of women. Yeah it's something physical that women are closer to competing at than something involving more strength and endurance, but there are still factors like reflexes, spatial reasoning skills or even the increased muscle mass and bone density allowing men to bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 08:49 PM
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I'm blocking you so I never have to see any of your ignorant toxic masculinity again, you whiny, pathetic little beta manbaby bitchcuck shitlord. :) Lol. What an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 08:33 PM
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Everyone thinks smoking is gross including smokers of both genders I don't think I've personally ever seen more of an expectation on women to not smoke. Women are supposed to sleep around less, but even then it's not that they're expected to have less sex they're supposed to have as much sex as they want but just not with too many different people. Off the top of my head some possible reasons could be: 1) Women are always 100% sure they are the mother, men are never 100% sure they are the father…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 05:33 PM
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ok forget the hundreds thing. There's no way you could have not found good videos addressing her points unless you're deliberately avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:10 PM
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despite stealing other youtubers' content rather than actually play and record her own footage for. It was super cringey how much stuff she got flat out wrong about a lot of the games she talked about. Couldn't have been clearer she didn't bother to play some of the ones she critiqued (if not all of them)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 09:57 PM
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out of the hundreds of videos I've seen about her I've yet to even see one that actually argues against her position and not against the fact that she looks Jewish, that Dworkin is a feminist as well or that she wears pink and earrings. You've watched 100s of response videos to Anita and every single one was just about how she looks like a jew and wears pink? That's either completely untrue or you are deliberately only watching the worst videos you can find. (Even then I really doubt there are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 09:54 PM
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I honestly thought it was an ok thing to say. Not everything has to be taken completely literally and anecdotal or "fallacious" statements can be used to make broader points. Was just pointing out the term the other poster seemed to be looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 05:02 PM
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Not to be That Bitch, but couldn't the same argument be used for feminism? (Or Christianity, or white supremacy, or any number of belief systems...) I think that's Argumentum ad populum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 02:30 PM
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Or people who don't understand why people complain about sexism have been lucky enough not to experience any strong forms of it... No one in the West has experienced a strong form of sexism with the possible exception of the 80+ crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 01:58 PM
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Why is this not just called Female privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 08:58 PM
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Yeah I noticed the same thing in the other thread. It was mostly just "I was shitty in this relationship but here are the reasons why it was justified." Kindof understandable though, fully owning up to something where you were in the wrong and screwed someone over is hard for anyone to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:46 PM
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Not everyone follows the male code... Besides, the code is more what you'd call guidelines than actual rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 03:07 PM
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But we also can still discuss things and have self awareness of our most basic instincts. Yeah agreed. And no, you haven't been on construction sites, you haven't seen women work, I'm sorry. These women are your average women, from this 19 year old who looks like an instagram model, to a 50 year old mother, and all points in between. I didn't say that the average woman will be incapable of doing the job I said that the average woman will always be worse at it than the average man. Do you disagre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 03:13 PM
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I think you're really really discounting the fact that we are still animals. We still have instincts and biological imperatives. Just because we're capable of abstract thought and self awareness doesn't make us perfect logical calculating machines. Otherwise no one would get fat or have an unwanted pregnancy. I know what you're talking with Peterson, the Chimp thing was just to show that what he was talking about occurs in other species as well and yes we aren't chimps but we evolved from the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 02:54 PM
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Did you have"the talk", let's split, I don't like the expectation/lack of gratitude? Honestly a few things led to me getting very fed up very quickly and abruptly calling it quits on the relationship. I did outline the bit about the expectation/lack of gratitude but it was part of an explanation on why we were breaking up rather than something to work on, and I definitely regret how harsh I was about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 02:53 AM
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So are you happy? Yes actually, it honestly irks me when people just insult positions in a debate sub instead of refuting them(regardless of the position). What's the point of it being a debate sub otherwise? It's the idea that we are going out of our way psychologically because of our evolution to prioritize women I think the idea was that we do it subconsciously or at least not completely deliberately. We don't live in that world anymore. It's more of a criticism as a whole of trying to use ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 04:17 PM
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The only time I resented spending more money on an ex than she did on me was the one relationship where she expected it out of me. It was doubly weird because she was a typical feminist/progressive/liberal/whatever but when it came to doing things together that involved paying for something she just expected that I would pick up the check for everything. I've been in other relationships where I was earning good money but the gf wasn't; I was still paying for the bulk of things but she would go o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 03:55 PM
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Your argument consisted of: "I'm super awesome and you're a dummy." Why are you calling anyone else stupid? If the ideas he laid out are that asinine you should be able to explain why much more eloquently and effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:31 PM
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I mean in 2017 it's about time they made an effort to be rational People are slaves to their genetics. A lot of this stuff is so subtle and ingrained we don't even realize what instincts are causing us to act certain ways. I understand what you're saying but you can acknowledge the reason for something while also saying we should try to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:29 PM
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Yes. If we didn't, we would just leave our elderly and the people who can't take care of themselves to die. Evolutionary change does not happen over a few generations. At most there might be some epigenetic impact on which alleles are expressed in your offspring. we would just leave our elderly and the people who can't take care of themselves to die. Then the same thing would happen to us and we don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:24 PM
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Neither does Islam Is this some no true scotsman thing?
/r/PussyPass24/05/17 08:12 PM
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Vegetarianism isn't an expansionist ideology that give express permission and the promise of an eternal reward for killing and forcibly converting non-vegetarians.
/r/PussyPass24/05/17 07:28 PM
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Exactly the point. ISIS is related to Islam in the same way Nazism is related to being vegan. Are you joking? It's honestly hard to tell these days.
/r/PussyPass24/05/17 04:20 PM
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Same here. I'm sure if you ask them and if the mods bother to respond it'll just be some condescending remark about how you're participating in hate subreddits and are a literal Hitler bigot woman hating blah blah blah blah blah and they're better than you, then they'll mute you and pat themselves on the back for defeating another member of the patriarchy. So fuck it, let them feel sanctimonious for preemptively banning people who may possibly think differently. It's not like that sub is worth p…
/r/PussyPass21/05/17 04:24 AM
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Manspreading, manterrupting, mansplaining, manlogic, manbaby... what does PPD think of those kinds of terms? They're words and problems invented by a lot of people desperate for a cause who know they missed the boat on the truly important civil rights and social justice struggles but still want to feel like they're doing something important. Plus there's fact that victimization has been fetishized and being oppressed has become some sort of social currency and way to garner ideological legitimac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 02:02 PM
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yet open to fisting and other abusive sex practices? How can any consensual sex act be abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:54 PM
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I think I get what you were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:49 PM
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But yet they still bring out the tropes of short guys being weaker, not being able to protect your S/O, having a small dick, etc. Honestly I think a lot of it is a status thing. Women are social creatures and having a tall boyfriend is like being able to drive around in a nice car or wear prettier clothes than everyone around them. They get to tell everyone and show everyone that their boyfriend is 6'0 or 6'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:46 PM
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Height alone isn't doing you in or making the other guy look better. No one has it all. Sounds like compared to you he was noticeably more attractive on aggregate, with height just being one part (arguable mediocre part) of the puzzle. Why would you conclude that? All else being equal the taller man would look better. And besides he was talking about in general, not a specific occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:29 PM
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Not even that. He just made a joke about women. "It's strange that such a chauvinist monster like me has been asked to speak to women scientists. Let me tell you about my trouble with girls. Three things happen when they are in the lab: you fall in love with them, they fall in love with you, and when you criticise them they cry. Perhaps we should make separate labs for boys and girls? Now, seriously, I'm impressed by the economic development of Korea. And women scientists played, without doubt a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 02:47 PM
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Men in general have a higher chance of being repeat offenders, the crimes they commit are more severe in nature etc. The punishment is supposed to come after the crime not based on likelihood of committing it in the future. Or if you want to go with your way maybe we should be even more proactive about it and more efficiently separate it out into sub groups. Black men will receive the harshest sentences, followed by Hispanic men, followed by white men, followed by Asian men and so on down the li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 02:14 PM
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It's more likely for Islamic countries to slowly become more secular and feminized in the future than for Islam to take over the West in my opinion. The West is importing patriarchal young Muslim males far faster than Islamic countries are becoming feminized. France is going on 15% muslim, the most popular baby name in England is Muhammad, Germany is threatening economic sanctions on any country refusing to take migrants, Sweden is long gone already. Meanwhile Saudi Arabia is chugging on the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:45 AM
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However, the sentence of Galloway was suspended (adjourned) after he was also caught with over 12,000 indecent images of children as well as 191 extreme images of Bowditch having sex with dogs. The article is kindof unclear but if I understand it right they found a lot of not-quite child pornography on his computer while they were still working out sentences for the two of them, which is why he got a harsher sentence. I could be wrong though, the article seems really awkwardly written to me.
/r/PussyPass15/05/17 08:21 PM
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Why are you such a Dbag all the time? Seems like you participate a LOT on this sub but your participation consists of 1) Make inflammatory comment about how shitty men are or how shitty white people are, or how shitty non-liberals are. 2) Insult people who respond to you. Normally I'd write you off as a troll but it's pretty unlikely a troll would garner a 50k karma account and stay consistent for 3 years. You can't get anything worthwhile out of this, you're not learning anything or having wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:30 PM
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anti-feminists Talk about poisoning the well. Jeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:50 PM
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Oh hell yes, the weddings. Bad food, horrible music, uncomfortable shoes, horrible dresses and even worse makeup and most of the time I don't believe they will be together forever, so I can't help but thinking I could be using the time to do something for myself. Then don't go?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 05:03 AM
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I think it's normal to keep that sort of stuff for sentimental value. Discarding/Destroying every single momento of every relationship after they ended would be a bigger red flag to me than not. That being said, going through that stuff on the eve of your wedding is strange, but it's also a television show and tv shows need drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:51 AM
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You're really bad at this aren't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 10:59 PM
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What you just described is not how it works. Unless you actually are a sixth grader, then I'll give your ultra simplistic explanation some leeway. You could have just written "nuh-uh" instead of wasting two sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 09:00 PM
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It's violence inducing speech based on irrational prejudices. Lol, and who gets to decide that? You? Your speech is violence inducing and based on irrational prejudices. There, now you don't get to speak and if you do I get to violently prevent you from speaking in a manifestation of my totally not hypocritical and insane logic. You see how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:43 PM
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There's a legal definition for hate speech. Yeah, and it's still free speech. Ironically these calls to use violence to shut down "hate speech" is what is actually not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 07:51 PM
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Lack of concern for the other's feelings is masculine. Feelings are more weighted when it comes to female communication. I don't think it's a lack of concern for other's feelings that is masculine. It's masculine to put more weight on finding a solution than on concern for the other's feelings. That does not however mean there is no concern for the other's feelings, it's just secondary to fixing shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 06:21 PM
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Basically in this dystopian future, women have no property rights, no right to earn their own money and no rights about whether they have babies or not. They have no choice about who they have sex with - they are assigned to a man who attempts to regularly impregnate them. Sex for a woman's pleasure (not sure if the men have sex outside of this arrangement either for their own pleasure) doesn't seem to be acceptable. Women having their own mind is impossible because they can't be trusted. The va…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 09:09 PM
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In other words, straight men who’d had up to ten drinks were roughly as interested in men as they were in women." I find that extremely hard to believe. I would have to see how the study was actually conducted and the specific questions asked (They are apparently behind a paywall?)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:52 PM
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You should probably get get a move on with obtaining a copy of the security footage. Most places automatically overwrite the footage after a certain time period, so you don't want to let it go too long.
/r/PussyPass03/05/17 10:11 PM
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I'm not arguing. Apparently you're just virtue signalling. If you think he's wrong explain why. Calling him a big meanie is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:42 PM
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Genetically there is none. Yes there is. Otherwise 23 and me wouldn't be able to tell you that you have German ancestry as opposed to French ancestry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:36 PM
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even failed attempts to travel to Syria and join ISIS have earned defendants much stiffer prison sentences. Americans convicted in dozens of recent ISIS prosecutions received an average sentence of 13 1/2 years in prison, according to an analysis in April by the Center on National Security at Fordham University.
/r/PussyPass02/05/17 03:19 PM
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So, when feminists refer to the pay gap, we are not referring to studies controlling for job type, company pay, promotions, and other variables, we are referring to the average of all men and women. What is the point of referring to that at all then? And idk, most of the time I hear about the "pay gap" it's people who legitimately think that if a man and woman do exactly the same work the woman just makes 77 cents and the man makes a dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:51 PM
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I personally think it should be around 14 with a romeo and juliet clause where the age difference can only be 2-3 years or something up to 18 years old at which point it's just like it is now. I also think that everything involving 2 people both under the age of consent should not be criminal. From time to time you'll see stories of two kids the same age messing around and then the boy getting charged with rape, that makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 04:43 PM
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Yeah, I was genuinely asking, didn't mean for it to come off quite so brashly. Good luck figuring things out man. Also, some of the things you said make it seem like you don't quite have all your ducks in a row mentally. Might be worth considering for the sake of finding some solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 03:36 PM
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How'd you manage to fuck up your life if you're full on genius-IQ level?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 02:28 PM
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pedophilia is defined by sexual feelings directed towards a child. No, it's sexual feelings directed at pre-pubescent children. the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child defines child as "a human being below the age of 18 years unless under the law applicable to the child, majority is attained earlier". Yeah, and half of the countries in the United Nations have an age of consent of 14 years old. So, by the legal definition, atleast in america, this is pedophilia. No, you are full …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:45 PM
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And then there's what people personally get attracted to. For me this is almost purely personality and chemistry, even if I considered someone ugly, this will literally change if chemistry turns out to be present. That's you being attracted to them in spite of finding them physically unattractive. There are definite physical characteristics that are almost universally attractive or unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 02:40 PM
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They hear stories of Mexican criminals, but no stories of normal Mexicans and because they don't understand how biases work they think that most Mexicans are criminals simply because they go by their feels instead of realz. Good lord. No one actually thinks that all Mexicans are criminals. That's a "typical lefty" projecting motivations and opinions onto their opponents that are easy to argue against and that allow them to pat themselves on the back for being so intellectually superior. People c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 04:07 PM
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A Bottle?!
/r/PussyPass18/04/17 01:30 PM
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when the reality in most developed countries tries is that slightly more men than women are overweight and obese. I'm pretty sure that's super misleading in that 1) It goes by BMI and so muscular lean people are counted as "overweight". Lots of men can be in the "overweight" category due to musculature, not so much with women. 2) There are more obese women than obese men. I may be wrong but that's what I remember taking away when I looked into it a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:32 PM
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Even though I know a man may burn 3000 calories just breathing If he's 6'5 and 240 pounds and exercises a few times a week. An average guy would burn around 2000 just breathing, maybe a little more. You're right in general a man requires more calories day to day than a woman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:13 PM
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Every single one of your replies is just semantics or moving the goal post. The point is a woman knows she is the mother (ridiculous switched at birth thing aside). The father does not know. If the mother suspects someone is the father she can use the state to forcibly find out for the sake of child support. A man does not need a woman's DNA for a paternity test. For the life of me I don't even know what you're disagreeing with at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:04 PM
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I was responding to the 1% thing. Technically everyone has genetic health risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 03:49 AM
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In the scenario you just presented she's concerned it's not actually her kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:57 AM
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You know getting into physical fitness can help, I know running was great for me. Because no matter what else is going on in your life if you go for a run, no matter the length, you get to go to bed that night knowing you did one thing to make your life better. That's huge.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 01:56 AM
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Then she can get a DNA test...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:40 AM
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The mother is always 100% sure she is the mother. The father being 100% sure he is the father IS equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:36 AM
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No. But a woman's dna isn't necessary for a paternity test. Her dna is not needed period, so I'm not sure what point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 12:59 AM
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I'm not who you were replying to, but even so why would that question even be relevant in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:25 PM
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Actually, the test is much more precise when the lab has both parents' DNA. What do you mean by "much more precise"? I'm looking it up now and it looks like any inaccuracies are essentially negligible. I mean everything I'm seeing says that including the mother increases accuracy from 99.99% to 99.999%. That's not really "much more precise".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 04:27 PM
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Definitely full on depressed. I went through the same thing in college. I eventually went to see one of the free school counselors and she put me on anti depressants. They didn't make me happy but they returned me to an even keel where I was functional again. Once functional I was able to start working on some of the root causes of depression in my life. Once I started working on things I started feeling better which allowed me to work better and harder and I kindof spiraled back up into normalc…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 02:19 PM
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Everyone has hereditary stuff that's good to know. A grandfather who died of a heart attack at 40, a couple cousins with liver disease, whatever. Yeah the possibility of this affecting someone with Huntington's disease is super slim but normal day to day hereditary imperfections are very useful to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:34 PM
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It's your DNA, no-one has the right to collect it/use it without your consent. Well the man would need his own DNA and a DNA sample of the child, of whom, he is the legal guardian by default. It wouldn't require consent of the other adult in the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:29 PM
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Tips Fedora
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:28 PM
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This shit is common sense. Apparently not, because all you did was outline very very specific situations in which a version of what I specifically listed out is allowed and even then it's not considered ok. You're free to have a messy yard or be an addict or neglect your kids (to a point). Yeah, to a point when it becomes illegal, and even up until that point it's still stigmatized. Because all this shit we're talking about is bad for society as a whole and thus is stigmatized at least. You're s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:05 PM
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Sorry the word bigot triggers you. It definitely doesn't, but you implying that I'm a bigot is just more of your "Call everything bigoted so I'm automatically right" strat. Honestly how did you not notice what you were doing when you typed that? I find homophobia to be bigoted. Yeah ok, why are you focusing on the one example you could call bigoted and ignoring the larger implication? How about individual freedom to not vaccinate your kids or not obey traffic laws or throw garbage and refuse in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:21 PM
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lol, jeeze. Just call everything bigoted. Absolutely flawless argument as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:59 PM
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I know plenty of others with similar standards too. Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 11:20 PM
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unattractive + out of shape. I meant them the same way, mostly just out of shape. the high cost of disagreement with the soupnazi Am I wrong? I'm seriously not trying to be personal here. That attitude and those statements just seem extremely strange to me and the scenario I outlined is the only explanation I have that can square them with a little bit of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:59 PM
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it is surety that you will be wrong. You're right, welcome to normal usage of the English language though. It's pretty normal to use it that way colloquially. How does me liking a soft non bony women make me unattractive. That alone wouldn't, your statements like Do other man really want a woman who looks like a smaller muscular man but with a Vagina? (eww not my thing ) And your statements about an attractive slender woman Not to be a dick ... But she could use a sammich. she is just a little t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:52 PM
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They only men who talk like this are the ones who are physically unattractive themselves. It's the same with fat girls who talk about how they don't like muscular men. You never hear slender attractive women claim that. Someone who is limited to the bottom of the barrel can either convince themselves that's where they want to be or improve their station to the point that they can get the top stuff. This sort of attitude/talk is a defense mechanism that doesn't really fool anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:20 PM
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Cut bodies don't trigger the same kind of response. What do you mean by "cut" for a woman? I would massively prefer a typical fit woman but it's hard to say without a context.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:07 PM
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I'm wondering how much of this has to do with the fact that women are told not to lift, otherwise they'll get too "bulky". I don't think anyone actually tells women that. Anyone with a little fitness knowledge knows that regularly lifting weights will do nothing but make a woman look better and be healthier. If she's the 1 in a million that puts on muscle like a man she could just reduce weight lifting if she starts looking to big. The "bulky" thing is just used as an excuse by women who don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:59 PM
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knowing they would judge me harshly. They would not judge you harshly. Fitness people are normally very supportive of others trying to get fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:53 PM
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Individual freedom > societal "stability" How about people's individual freedom to opt out of socialized medicine or not have car insurance or choose not to pay taxes or deny a wedding cake to a gay couple or whatever whatever. Societies work because everyone agrees on rules/sacrifices/guidelines that benefit the collective society. If this whole hypergamy thing is actually as damaging as some people claim then it should be stigmatized. If it's not actually a big deal then it can be ignored. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:52 PM
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when it was so unstable people mobilized in order to change it. People will always mobilize to change everything. It's human nature. The problem is that when things were pretty good already sometimes that passion and energy end up changing it for the worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 02:38 PM
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I go to bed hungry most nights. That's the wrong way to do it. Trust me. I have a wealth of experience with this. Losing weight properly also means never being hungry; it means eating the right foods with the proper portion sizes This is what got me started with good information on my fitness journey all those years ago, you should definitely read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:00 PM
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same religion as me or is ok with me being religious and will convert I'm not religious personally but I have religious friends who have found success meeting people at church related social events. It makes sense to me that would be a good place to find a decent community minded person and if you're both at a church social thing you already have that one box checked off. Do you take an active role in that at all? At any rate you say below you're working on your weight and you're secretly fat bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:32 PM
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When people are only seen for their (lack of) attractiveness. Well with fatness it's not just a lack of attractiveness. It's also a lack of discipline and self control which are attractive qualities. But when Elena Kagan became a member of the Supreme Court people felt the need to disparage her looks. Same goes for Hilary Clinton And people constantly calling Trump Orange Cheeto Tiger and all that stuff was what? People disparage the looks of people they dislike. Every public figure is going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:44 PM
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Unless you're committing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 11:28 PM
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Unless you're committing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 11:28 PM
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fwiw I would give up the extra sexual attention in a heartbeat of it meant no more periods! Would you give up the longer lifespan, lower risk of being a victim of crime, lighter criminal sentences for committing crime, general preferential treatment, lowered risk of depression, larger support network and all the other perks too? The question implies that more sexual attention is the only perk that comes with being a woman and it isn't. Obviously no one would take several overall shitty things(pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 10:13 PM
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Lol, if you don't want to talk about it you don't have to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:57 PM
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Er, I guess I don't get it then. Why are "internalized misogyny" and "toxic masculinity" terms but not "internalized misandry" or "toxic femininity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:53 PM
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Yeah. I'm genuinely asking because I haven't discussed these terms at all. It seems like you're saying that being a man is fundamentally wrong if when there's something wrong with a man the root cause is maleness and when there's something wrong with a woman the root cause is maleness. Dunno, doesn't seem very equitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:46 PM
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I see. Are internalized misandry or toxic femininity terms you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:33 PM
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that internalized misogyny Why is it "internalized misogyny" and not just "toxic femininity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:21 PM
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men feel "retroactively cheated on" if their SO has had sex before meeting him. For men to be happy, their partner has had sex with only him. Come on, if you want to make a point or have a discussion at least start with an honest premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 01:59 AM
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Hey I'm a slut and I think sluttiness is fine and there's nothing wrong with having a high n count and that men who think it's unattractive are just incredibly insecure. Also, remember I'm an unashamed slut, that sluttiness is on the table, and I will like one of your answers, if you give the other answer I'll respond negatively and consider you either insecure or cripplingly anxious. Now tell me what you really think about n-count. I don't think men you personally know are going to be honest wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 07:34 PM
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Sounds like an interesting read. I did look it up though, and in addition to praise it apparently received a fair amount of criticism for stuff like biased reporting of data, theoretical and evidentiary shortcomings and assumptions. It was even rejected for publication at first when it failed peer-review. So it doesn't sound like the book is the end-all be-all authority on the subject, just an alternative hypothesis meant to challenge the established theories. But yeah from what little I know ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:58 PM
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Part of it is possibly biological instinct. A woman is always 100% sure she is the mother, historically men were never 100% sure and relatively often weren't actually the father of "their" kids. At some base level we're all just collections of genes attempting to propagate. Sex and death are humanity's biggest motivators and practically everyone is driven to successfully reproduce. Slutty promiscuous women with high n counts are bigger risks in that sense. So I think at some level men are instin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 04:27 PM
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What you point out, whilst valid, has a fallacy: the woman used the man's name during the experiment, and as a result processed every client twice as quickly and her word was taken seriously. Obviously if her technique was the problem, the same issues would have cropped up even under a male name, right? In addition to what the other poster said with the users unconsciously acting differently it's possible she was a shitty employee who had had previous interactions with these customers and he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:54 PM
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If only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 10:23 PM
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Yeah, I'd agree overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 09:14 PM
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And again, just because they got away with it doesn't change the reality of what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 08:19 PM
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Autism does not have a 'look'. Sure it does, just like down syndrome and FASD and lots of other disorders. Here's a copy and paste from the first google result when I searchd for it. The study found children with autism had wider eyes, and a "broader upper face," compared with typically developing children. According to the study, children with autism also had a shorter middle region of the face - including the nose and cheeks - as well as a wider mouth and philtrum, the divot above the lip and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 08:08 PM
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TIL autism and mental defects can be diagnosed through facial photos. This is a revolutionary medical breakthrough! A lot of them can. Stuff like Down Syndrome and Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder have clear recognizable effects on facial features.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 08:04 PM
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Because there's no legal distinction for a crime that "suppresses free speech." Terrorism? "the unlawful use of violence and intimidation, especially against civilians, in the pursuit of political aims." That was the end goal of the rioters and they accomplished it. They weren't rioting and assaulting people for fun. They were doing it in order to shut down speech they disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 07:54 PM
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and I'm not a liberal... Good to know. that's a law enforcement issue. I don't understand this distinction you're making. People can break the law to supress speech and force organizations to rescind invitations via violence and threats of violence, and if they get away with it, without "law enforcement" stopping them it's not actually a suppression of speech? That doesn't really make any sense. If you murder someone and get away it it doesn't change the fact that you murdered someone. but whate…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 07:22 PM
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I'm curious. Would you be saying the same thing if some liberal speaker went to give a presentation somewhere and a bunch of conservatives showed up with guns and forcibly prevented anyone from entering the building? I mean, that's not a supression of free speech right? They're just denying her a platform, she's just suffering consequences and blowback for her liberal agenda. ...Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 07:12 PM
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it was a choice. It was a choice to allow rioters to use violence to force their opposition to capitulate yes. It was suppression of free speech and it was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 07:01 PM
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freedom of speech, yes. The only reason the event was cancelled was because they used rioting and violence to forcibly put an end to it. Freedom of speech would cover them having a peaceful protest while allowing the event to continue. Rioting and violence for political purposes is bordering on terrorism and it's certainly not covered by freedom of speech in any way shape or form. I honestly don't understand why you seem to be pretending that it was some peaceful gathering with flowers and songs…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:45 PM
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So rioting, assault and general violence/intimidation in order to forcibly prevent a speaker from giving a presentation was "exercising their freedom of speech and peaceful assembly"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:32 PM
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nobody is stopping him from saying anything ...the rioters did, by rioting. the students exercised their freedoms of speech and assembly to express their discontent and the college I'm sorry, do you actually know what happened at Berkeley? Because you seem be completely misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:26 PM
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rescinding an invitation to speak != forcibly preventing that person from speaking their views. The original poster was talking about the students rioting and assaulting people and forcibly causing the event to be canceled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:20 PM
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nobody is obligated to entertain anyone else's views. try again. Yeah that absolutely doesn't mean they can forcibly prevent them from expressing those views, if that's what you're implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 06:09 PM
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that females are always oppressed by males, particularly white heterosexual males. I can't wrap my head around this part. Societies build by white men (The West) are the most feminist, multicultural, racially accepting and generally progressive on earth. Even in those societies looking at the statistics women are proportionately more likely to be victimized by non-white men. So I just don't understand where their whole "White Men are the devil" thing comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:37 PM
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Why did you make this post if you were going to get defensive and refuse to discuss it? At any rate it sounds like you have a stalker more than anything. He's contacting you all the time when you've made it clear you don't like him. You seem to imply he's followed you to your car before and knows where you live at least if not come by before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 04:22 PM
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Yeah, in my reply I said that in my opinion this is just a lie, not a white lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 03:48 PM
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but in practice people tell white lies all of the time. I don't know if this is necessarily white lie territory. If it's important to someone I don't think their partner gets to decide for them that it isn't. People think that they want the truth, but in reality they can't handle the truth. Well yeah. They want the truth about the person they're marrying. Calling it a white lie just seems like justification for lying about something to avoid the consequences of telling the truth. In reality whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 12:21 AM
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Being so readily willing to lie to the person you're marrying isn't a good thing. That sort of attitude is bound to cause problems down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/17 10:00 PM
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Yeah and as a pure percentage of their race white people are far more likely to be poor than Asian or Jewish people. So why don't we start at the top and attack Asians and Jews for their racial privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:35 PM
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Ah I see, I misunderstood your intention, thought you were looking for women to date. If you're just looking for women to have casual sex with get Tinder put up a shirtless pic and swipe right on everyone you consider fuckable. When you match don't try to have a full on conversation with them, just get to the point where you are exchanging numbers and/or setting up a time/place to meet. Have a couple drinks and if she doesn't bring it up you suggest going to one of your places to watch a movie o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:23 PM
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So are you saying that it's not as one sided as it appears or that the stats are actually entirely backwards and black people are proportionately the victim of violent white crime more than white people are the victim of violent black crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 05:08 PM
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The only Christian government I know of is Vatican City That's kindof my point, there are no governments as massively intertwined/influenced by christianity as most of the muslim countries are intertwined/influenced by Islam. That's the point in and of itself. However I was strictly speaking on the Bible and its second class status for women such as Ephesians 5:23 1 Corinthians 11:3 and 1 Timothy 2 etc Yeah, and like I said, where in the world is that sort of Christianity even common much less e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 04:15 PM
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I disagree entirely with sharia law but Christianity also has similar policies on women Come on. It's a matter of proportion. How many world governments are influenced and intertwined with Christianity on the same level as the as so many Muslim Country governments? And similar policies? I can't think of any christian countries offhand that make it illegal for a woman to leave her house without an escort, or get a driver's license or have a bank account. Maybe you could have compared Christianity…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 03:58 PM
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Q4M specifically: What are the top 5 things you would tell a man who is in his mid20's if you found out he had no dating experience whatsoever (Aside from be physically appealing since that is no issue, I'd assume)? Without evidence I wouldn't believe that a man in his mid 20s who has never dated is physically appealing. So I would still list that at number one. OP is looking pretty good. 1)Be physically healthy. Maintain a low body fat percentage by diet or cardio or both. Lift weights consiste…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 03:41 PM
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Face and athletic/shapely ass 28 white midwest red leaning middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/17 06:08 AM
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Or again, would the results be the same had they not been as repressed as they were? I doubt it has anything to do with repression. Men have always been evolution's sex for experimenting due to the whole being mostly expendable thing. Populations can recover if half the men die, if half the women die it's going to have a much much harder time. So more mutations and more variation in the men is more acceptable than the women. (I may be pulling that out of my ass but i'm pretty sure something alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 04:59 AM
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Well sure, you're getting into eugenics territory there which is a can of worms. And sure, like I said I don't know, someone more versed in the science would have to way in on the motivation differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 03:30 AM
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then I'd have to say that nothing impedes them from being just as advanced as we are except for physical strength. There's the question of motivation too. Eros and Thanatos, sex and death and all that. A lot of what men accomplish is for the sake of attracting a mate at some level. Women don't have that same primal motivation. I'm not sure how much that would ultimately matter but it's a question. Mentally, intelligence wise, and the overall abilities are only very different when strength is tos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 02:39 AM
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Also less population so more goods for everyone. It would probably be better, not because of the absence of men but because half the population would be dead. That also means fewer people producing goods, unless you're talking about being able to around and scavenge all the stuff that used to belong to men. I think it would more or less be a wash very very soon after the half-extinction event.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 02:23 AM
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Yep, this is spot on. Internet pornography is something completely new(relatively) to humanity and it's having some serious consequences. I'd liken it to having this relatively recent abundance of cheap, calorie dense, easily accessible food leading to an obesity epidemic. Sedentary lifestyles and super easy access to shitty food is ruining our physical health. Beautiful naked women doing anything and everything, along with brand new stimulation every 5 seconds at the click of a mouse is ruining…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 07:30 PM
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She's an 8.5 One offered to take her to Maui. One offered to pay off her student loans. Yet another offered to pay her rent. These weren't lame dudes either. The only way I could see that making sense is if they're so wealthy money is practically meaningless to them. At which point it still seems more economical and efficient to just pay out the ass for super high class escorts.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:14 PM
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Yes, she literally meant that she thought Donald wanted her body What on earth makes you think I thought it was literal? total boner killer, isn't it? Everyone knows the sluts totally wanted it. Especially the ones who deny it. Good lord, what was your thought process for extrapolating what I said into that? But thanks for demonstrating why "Realz before feelz" really means "My feelings are the only ones that matter to me." Well, apparently you feel that I said some things I didn't and you're ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:04 PM
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Nothing, just think it's mildly interesting to encounter it from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 02:28 AM
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I remember a while ago someone did a word analysis of a ton of different subs with righty subs, lefty subs and control subs and found that lefties use the word "yall" disproportionately more than anyone else, like outside the standard deviation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:02 AM
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None of those women care or even know what they're protesting. They did it for the Snapchat story and Instagram I walked through the protest in chicago and for the life of me couldn't discern any cohesive demands or complaints. Many of the women were all dolled up. Nice clothes, make up, hair done up, giant trendy sunglasses, carrying around starbucks coffee and sitting and idly chatting in Chick-fil-A(ironic), constantly stopping to take selfies and pictures. The thing felt like it was a big so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 08:33 PM
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does not, by any stretch of the imagination, mean that woman wants to be brutally raped. The OP was certainly not implying that. I'm pretty sure everyone knows that there is a separation between fantasy and real life desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 03:41 PM
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every time I tried to have a conversation about our relationship/that I was being gaslit and that he wouldn't listen to me even when I tried to initiate break-up conversations. gaslit He was psychologically abusing you to the point where you were questioning your own sanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:14 PM
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Dude's rubbishing his pregnant girlfriend for "only"being able to lift a 40kg bag of chook feed. That's the claim I'm contradicting. I asked about the men being stronger than women because I couldn't figure out what you were actually objecting to. There's no way to read this comment chain and see it as "rubbishing his pregnant girlfriend" unless you're super cynical and jaded and/or deliberately looking to interpret everything that way. He was singing her praises for being pregnant but still bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:26 PM
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I'm sure he has the capacity to clarify if he wants, so I'm not sure why you're white knighting for him, either. I'm not, I'm contradicting you. Not sure why you're SJWing so hard and taking offense at something not offensive. You're all over this thread not really making points or contributing to the discussion. Your entire goal seems to be just to disparage men, even if it means obviously misinterpreting statements, like the one we're discussing, or nitpicking meaningless semantics. What on ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:06 AM
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You took exception to a poster saying his girlfriend was doing some hard physical labour but not being able to lift the same heavy shit he could. I don't see the point of disagreeing with reality. It's not a bias to say that men are more capable of physical labor any more than it is to say women are more capable of childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 02:35 AM
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Why? That's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 01:56 AM
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I suppose so. Just not the first thing that jumps to mind when I think "manual labor".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:43 PM
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How many men can throw around 40kg bags? Many more than women. Are you implying there aren't physical differences between the sexes? Because I don't understand how you can argue against men being physically stronger than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:39 PM
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Manual labour (in British English, manual labor in American English) or manual work is physical work done by people, most especially in contrast to that done by machines Colloquially though the phrase wouldn't include stocking shelves at a super market. I mean writing code is manually hitting the keys, it's not automated, but no one would consider it manual labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 07:35 PM
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I don't see how. You really can't imagine that you could pick up on the scope of your partner's sexual history throughout a relationship? If it's not explicitly stated you would never be able to figure out if they're in the sub 10 range or way higher? Throughout the entirety of a long term relationship you would never pick up on it? That seems like a fantasy situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 10:42 PM
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Me personally, I'd tell the truth as I have nothing to hide Great. I think the hypothetical though was if you were a slut with a history of general sluttiness and a ton of partners. Do you tell the truth and have your relationship value that much lowered(possibly/probably below the threshold) or lie or hope that topic never comes up for the rest of your relationship. but if I were to lie, no one but me would know. Not necessarily. I mean, even assuming guilt wouldn't be an issue if the relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 06:49 PM
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There have always been qualities that are attractive and unattractive in men and women. There have been unspoken and spoken contracts between genders for forever. There are reasons sluttiness is shamed by women(lowering the smv of all women around them), by men(Never being 100% sure of being the father and wanting the best odds from a partner) I'd compare it to men starting a "Stop-Coward-Shaming" movement. Saying that in this day and age the whole protector contract is antiquated and sexist and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 05:51 PM
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If there was any legitimacy to it then they wouldn't use the word 'slut', they would say something like 'promiscuous woman'. They use an abusive term because it is abuse. The reasons for abuse are well known. Wouldn't "promiscuous woman" just become an abusive term then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 05:42 PM
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Such as? Recently I played never have I ever with a girl I'm dating and her friends in a hot tub. Naturally the more alcohol was involved the more raunchy the questions became and I learned 2 new things about her sexual past. Shit comes up. People talk about things. At any rate, there's always the direct question. What do you do if you want to be in a LTR with someone and he wants to be in one with you and he asks about your sexual history? Do you answer truthfully? Do you lie and base your rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 05:35 PM
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It's one of those things that's "bad becuase society says so" I think there's an instinctive factor there as well. Every time a woman is pregnant she's 100% sure she's the mother and is passing on her genes. A man can never be certain and so a chaste/non-slutty woman is a better bet for reproduction and a long term relationship than a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 05:14 AM
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Every virgin I've dated was a train wreck. How many virgins have you dated? I feel like it's a hard thing to do past high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 03:08 PM
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If you really believed this you wouldn't have felt it necessary to clarify that you're personally well above average and that women tell you you have a giant penis. You even throw it in again right at the end there that you have "quite a large penis". If you believed any of this you wouldn't have devoted half the text to talking about how big your dick is. It comes off as humble bragging or trolling the way it's presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 02:11 PM
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I think tallness is more of a situation where if you lack it, it works against you but there is no benefit of having it. Of course there is a benefit. All other things being exactly equal a 6'3 guy will have more dating success than a 5'11 guy because height is an attractive quality to women. I think for most women it's an automatic no up to a certain height and then each inch after that adds to attraction up a certain point where a person is too tall. I'm also fat though, I'm built like an offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 07:11 PM
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I think if you were short you'd be far more likely to notice a detriment. At any rate you've never had a girl comment on your tallness, or had a conversation with women about how much they love tall guys or would never date a short guy, or seen statistics about how women prefer tall men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 07:05 PM
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I'd agree that height is the most important unless a person is truly outstanding in one or more of the other categories. Comparing an average joe to a celebrity or a billionaire I don't think really works here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 06:46 PM
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When did it say that in the OP? Well, the OP was removed so I can't go back and check. So maybe you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:41 PM
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Just because some people have a fetish for something doesn't make it ok. You can always find someone who is sexually attracted to anything. The majority of the western world was a healthy weight up until a few decades ago, the fact that we aren't anymore IS shameful. It is a result of over consumption and a lack of discipline, two shameful, unattractive qualities. It's not the worst thing in the world to be fat but trying to normalize it and make it perfectly acceptable is just trying to shirk p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 01:47 AM
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The idea that fat = shameful is dependent on the person Hmmm, why is that? Barring people with legitimate illnesses: depression, thyroid disorders and the whatnot, why would it depend on the person? I happen to think that being overweight is shameful, and it's shameful for a reason, just like never brushing your teeth, or not showering, or being lazy or any number of things. I don't see any reason why it should not be shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 12:44 AM
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Well you said No... The aim is for men and society to have realistic standards. What exactly did you mean by having realistic standards, because I'm pretty sure most men's standards are just have the same basic level of cleanliness they do and don't be overweight. If you're fat and you want someone who's skinny or muscular, that's an unrealistic standar I disagree. That is a hypocritical standard. Wanting someone who is fit or just not overweight is 100% realistic. if someone's fat, it is their …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 11:57 PM
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The aim is for men and society to have realistic standards. Is not consuming more calories than you need an unrealistic standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 11:32 PM
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Question. Does stop body shaming mean people should stop actively shaming others, but can still consider them shameful, or does it mean those people should actually stop considering those bodies/habits/whatever shameful?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 11:27 PM
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There is a difference between acknowledging that a person is attractive and saying that being attractive is that person's most valuable and important quality; and there is an even bigger difference between that situation and saying that an entire genders (remember 50% of the world's population, approximately 3.5 billion people) most valuable asset is how pleasing they look. That's not what is being said here. I don't know if you're deliberately twisting words or you really don't get it. The clai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 11:21 PM
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This is not a case of TBP applying liberal terms willy nilly. Yeah, I agree, but I was responding to someone who seemed to be asking about TBP in general as opposed to this particular user.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 03:30 PM
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Oh, I assumed you were the person I responded to. Replace "you two" with "this particular comment chain" then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 03:27 PM
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Yeah I agree. You two seemed to be talking about BP in general though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 03:19 PM
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I don't see how being upset at classism and homophobia is hypocritical Well I don't actually know much about the actual BP, but in this context if they're anything like progressives(which I used to be until they abandoned me with their insanity) I'd say they're extremely liberal with how and to whom they apply terms like class ism/homophobia/sexism/racism/every other ism. I'd also wager that while they automatically assign themselves the moral highground on all these issues they simultaneously a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 02:09 PM
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Not all guys do. Pretty much all men do. The extent to which it matters changes from guy to guy, and the threshold for what's not acceptable changes from guy to guy but that's it. Even if the threshold is 100 for a some guy he would still be happier/more attracted if the girl was at 19 as opposed to 99.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 09:53 PM
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inferior Inferior is probably the wrong choice of words. But they are physically weaker, have more aversion to taking risks, more handicapped by their reproductive functions and more motivated by stability/comfort than power or achievement. It's not hard to see why men are almost always the leaders, even if people do find it distasteful(for whatever reasons)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 09:43 PM
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Try being someone who doesn't fit their gender and is better at things for the opposite gender I don't think I've ever seen anyone criticized for having legitimate skills. Every female friend I have who has "masculine" skills just gets praised for having skills period. Same with the reverse. Cooking, sewing, car maintenance, general handiness. It's good to be good at things. What things are you good at that you actually get shit for?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 09:38 PM
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I literally ran away once. After a party in college, she didn't want to walk home alone and asked me to come, being still young and naive I took it at face value. We got to her house and she asked me to come in; I tried to let her down easy (drunkenly) but she kept pleading with me to come inside and I eventually just turned around and sprinted away. I also caught my foot on a part of the sidewalk and faceplanted like 20 ft from her. Never looked back though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 09:31 PM
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Oh I was just joking around. I know those are common ingredients for bread. You can make some quality bread with just water, yeast, salt, sugar, flour and oil, so it was a bad joke about eggs and milk being extravagant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 06:40 PM
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but you still need milk and eggs too. What kind of rich person bread are you making?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/16 03:57 PM
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Idk what made him do it Maybe it was something non-physical, like your personality is repulsive or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 09:28 PM
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I believe the current stats in the US say more men are overweight than women. Women still have higher body fat percentages than men in the United States (according to google). That's completely normal, but it might indicate that more men being overweight is partly due to BMI counting anyone that lifts weights and has some muscle mass as overweight regardless of their body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/16 03:41 PM
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I don't think women are attracted to stupidity; I can see the arguments for the other ones depending on context but there is no context where stupidity could be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 11:09 PM
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Well, if it isn't who gets to decide if it becomes one or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 05:55 PM
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That's a good point. I think you've convinced me. We've established that killing the kid fucks it and isn't fair and we've established not supporting it fucks the kid and isn't fair and because both sexes can opt out by not having sex it just makes logical sense for abortion to be illegal and for it to be legally required to pay child support. That's a good solution!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 03:14 PM
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Do you really think that the case is that clear cut? Of course I don't. You seem to think so though. That setting yourself up for a 9 month extreme physical ordeal 9 months vs 18 years? with real risk of complications and death can't be considered separately from having some of your wages garnished? Yeah, no one is forcing a woman to take that risk, that's the point, she can opt out entirely. Wash her hands of the entire thing if she feels like it. She has that option, the man has no option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 06:12 AM
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Yes, but it is done by exercising the fundamental ethical right of bodily autonomy. There is no "fundamental ethical right of bodily autonomy". You can't ingest or inject certain things, you can't kill yourself, with some exceptions you can't maim yourself. There is not a right to literally be able to do whatever you want with your body. And that being said it sounds like you're saying when it's fuck the kid or fuck the mother the mother's wants supersede, when it's fuck the kid or fuck the fath…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 03:20 AM
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Is killing it not "fucking the kid"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 02:41 AM
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Both people chose to have sex. Yeah you're right and after that happens it is entirely up to the woman. If the woman does not want to be financially responsible for the kid she has an option to not be. If the man wants to not be financially responsible for the kid fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 01:32 AM
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Using a condom is a choice. That same divisiveness can be applied to abortion as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 01:25 AM
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She has a post replying to this that says she's shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 10:15 PM
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people aren't shaming you to stay beta, it's just, truth be told, creepy as hell to a lot of people. people aren't shaming you here, let me shame you. Man, same sentence and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 02:48 PM
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The different sexes have always had different roles and responsibilities in society. I would liken slut shaming for women to coward shaming for men. The current campaign against stopping slut shaming would be similar to men trying to absolve themselves of the millennia old responsibility of being protectors. Giving themselves the right to sprint away and leave the girl behind when a mugger jumps out at night or refuse the call to join a justified war without receiving negative social consequence…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:41 PM
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Just joshin' you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:26 PM
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You realize you can't boast about a group achieving things if the group also systematically held back everyone else and prevented them from achieving things. Now that's silly. Idk, sounds like holding back literally everyone else in the world while being outnumbered 7-1 is a pretty big achievement in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:21 PM
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The Sexodus articles gives a good persepective why so many young men are failing and even opting out. It's an intriguing article and the ideas make sense to me/fit with what I've observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:09 PM
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I don't see how you can discount a ONS. Do you really not see how someone can lie to themselves? We were drunk and he couldn't stay hard for more than a few minutes It was just oral sex I didn't orgasm and he came after 1 pump Doesn't realllly count so I'm not going to include it. People tell little lies to themselves all the time. Unless you think that all the guys self reporting in those penis size studies just happen to all be accidentally measuring a larger size than they are you have to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:07 PM
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This is ridiculous. This kind of research surveys does not require you to disclose your identity. Why would a woman be lying? Same reason self-reporting penis size studies show a larger average then the other ones. People round up a little to make themselves feel good. A woman might round down a little or discount a few experiences that didn't "really" count.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 04:00 PM
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Are you joking? Yeah, that makes any opinion sound more credible! Do you think if Trump had normal looking hair he would get criticism from it? Do you think if Hillary actually had a fashion sense she'd get criticized for her attire? This is pointless. They're both presidential candidates, they've both received criticism for their appearance. Saying Trump's criticism is valid but Hillary's criticism is invalid because she's a woman is ridiculous. It's manufacturing outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 09:31 PM
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You asked a question and I answered. He's criticized based on his hair because it's weird looking, NOT because he's a man. So when Trump is criticized based on appearance it's because he deserves it, when Hillary is criticized it's because she's a woman? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 09:01 PM
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Perky > big.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:26 PM
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How many articles have been posted about what he is wearing I've seen multiple articles about the fit of his suit as well as the typical ones about his hair and tan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:15 PM
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And men aren't bothered. Hence the central premise that men are judged less by, and are less concerned by their appearance. No, it means that men take more personal responsibility for themselves and their own choices. If a man doesn't look like the advertisement it's his own fault and it could be his choice to look that way. If a woman doesn't look like the advertisement the advertisement is wrong and whatever she currently looks like is the limits of what's possible and anything else is unreali…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:11 PM
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I think every spring a few dozen websites/fashion magazines will write an article on how men need to stop wearing cargo shorts. I can't imagine a hoard of cargo shorts wearing guys organizing to protest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 08:16 PM
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That sass! :3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 07:50 PM
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If Plain Jane with a muffin top thinks she's all that, let her be. I don't think this "everyone gets a trophy for participation" culture is a good thing. Some things are shameful for a reason; I mean what's next? Laziness acceptance? Lack of hygiene acceptance? Society is constantly telling her she's ugly. No, society is constantly telling her she's beautiful just the way she is and to never improve because she deserves acceptance. Also, stop with the 'only thirsty guys/fetishists will want a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 05:09 PM
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Yes. Many women were not raped. But they reported anyway to further our cause. I'm willing to bet you have exactly the opposite opinion about the recent allegations against Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 04:46 PM
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I don't have any rape fantasies and honestly just get bored while domming someone. In contrast I'd say like 50% of the women I've been with have wanted to explore rape play/bdsm and whatnot, and it's possible that percentage would be higher if some of the vanilla sexual relationships had lasted longer. I've occasionally gotten twinges of enjoyment if a girl says it's too much or hurts a little, but that's gratification from the idea of having a big dick, not the actual inflicting of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 04:19 PM
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I have to work out 3x as much for a quarter of reward. I have to watch what I eat much more carefully Are you being hyperbolic? Because calories are calories and macros are macros. And maybe your bro has better insertions and higher testosterone, but as far as lifting goes if you think you have to work 3x harder you're almost certainly just not doing it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 04:09 PM
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So I've alwas been curious. This hyphenated last name thing is relatively new. What happens when the kids themselves decide to get married? Are we going to start having people with 4 last names? Then 8? Then 16?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 11:39 PM
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I think it 100% factors in. It just depends on how much and how high the threshold for caring is. If a woman has had 1,000 partners I think 98% of men would view that as a dealbreaker and 99% would view it as a negative. As that number gets smaller so do the percentages of men who would view it as an automatic no and/or just a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 05:10 PM
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Heh, it's all good, there's a direct correlation between my B.A.C. and internet snarkyness levels. Where's your question? I edited the comment to replace the incorrect period with a question mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:46 PM
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Damn dude, tone it down. I'm not the person you were responding to and this is a debate sub. And if you know what a controlling variable is why did you respond with "what?" Do you know what answering a question is? Well, I asked one and you didn't answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 01:58 PM
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What? I think its just the typical scientific experiment approach, control for all variables except the one you're studying. All other things being equal when a woman wants to commit to a high quality man is that high quality man more or less likely to want to commit to her if she's a slut/has a promiscuous past/high n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 03:41 AM
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No. It just makes them want to eat. Some things are shameful for a reason. Being fat, having poor hygiene, no ambition, any number of things. Yeah it sucks to feel shame but the answer should be to better yourself, not delude yourself and attempt to convince everyone else to change just so you don't have to face the consequences of your own choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 02:09 AM
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because putting on makeup is not pleasurable. Neither is cooking more and washing more dishes. You're reaching for any justification for this premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:23 PM
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Well, presentable also means being a healthy body weight. Men require 33% more calories than women on a day to day basis. So, paying that much more for food every year probably equates to the amount spent on makeup every year. Seems like it's even stevens!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 03:16 PM
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Yeah, I was just being salty. It's like you tried to explain what I already said, and it came across as condescending I just took it as a different perspective on what you were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 02:17 PM
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he vast majority of women I've spoken to want a man around a similar height as them. I've rarely heard a 5'2 woman say she wants a 6'+ man. Interesting. I've never heard women say anything else. It seems to be a universal opinion that the taller the man the better. I also see women dating men below average height all the time so obviously it's not a complete deal breaker. Unless you're a man 5'3 or shorter, you're not out of luck, and 50% of men are not under 5'3 Yeah i'd agree, but man, that se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:39 PM
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If what you're saying is true, liposuction, cellulite removal and breast implant services wouldn't be booming industries. Everyone wants to be more attractive than they are. And the point of liposuction is fat removal, but I get your point about cosmetic surgery. The thing is yes cosmetic surgery can make a 9 out of a 6, but all it takes for any relatively normal woman to be at least a 6 is to not be fat. Men have some things worse than women. Being judged on appearance and physical standards ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 08:17 PM
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have to be toned Not really. It's seriously just don't be overweight, toned or fit just makes it better. not have stretch marks or cellulite.... at least medium breasts Not really. That stuff is fiddling around the edges, it doesn't account for a the bulk of physical attractiveness. Yes nice skin and large breasts are nice but when it comes down to brass tacks any normal woman (as in barring the edges of the bell curve) just has to not be overweight to be attractive. Not supermodel-tier or anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:18 PM
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Well, the women were still rated on a symmetric curve. A woman was as likely to be considered extremely ugly as extremely beautiful, and the majority of women were rated about “medium.” So, it seems a full range of women are present on the site, are you implying that generally only lower-tier men use okcupid and that's a possibility for why the male ratings came out the way they did?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 06:00 PM
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If you men don't like it, that's your problem. The option is there. ...So.... If a man doesn't find a fat woman attractive that's on him and if she loses weight he doesn't deserve her. BUT, if a woman doesn't find a short man attractive he should suck it up and get surgery, at which he point that same woman can now date him? It sounds like you're saying it's ok for women to have physical standards but not men? I said they don't deserve the former fat woman that they ignored or treated like shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:27 PM
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I think part of the point is that vegetables are practically free calorie-wise. For all intents and purposes you can eat as many vegetables as you want and not have it significantly affect your daily calories. For instance there is the same amount of calories in one mcdonalds double cheeseburger as 13.2 medium zucchinis 142 cherry tomatoes 64 cups of spinach 28 cups of chopped mushrooms 140 spears of asparagus etc. etc. Anyone who bases their diet primarily off of vegetbales would have a very ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:11 PM
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1) Where does that stat come from? 2) A diet implies something temporary that ends after a certain goal is achieved. If someone wants to lose weight and stay that way they need to fix their diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:04 PM
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Source: Former fattie. Still depressed, still anxious, but now I'm depressed and anxious at 180lbs rather than 230. Nice work!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:01 PM
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I think it's a proportionately lesser problem. Women want a man who is above average height for men, their own height doesn't factor in. Men tend to just want to be taller than the woman they're with. The result is women rejecting or at least being much less receptive to 50-60% of men, while the average man is taller than 99% of women so only rejecting/being less receptive to 1%. No idea about actual stats, just throwing it out to illustrate what I'm trying to convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:56 PM
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Men can become taller with surgery. It's expensive, but ya'll still have that option. Are you talking about the massively expensive surgery where they saw your leg bones in half followed by months of being confined to a bed for very painful healing? Even if an extra two inches of height was worth all the pain/suffering/awkwardness of adjusting to a new leg length, as well as the inherent risk of any surgery, not 1 in 1000 men could both afford the surgery and afford to not work for months while …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 03:49 PM
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