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Bro so happy for you! Im still struggling with this at 31 , i thought spending my 20s working on myself, my wealth and physique would make me naturally get over my aa but it hasnt :(
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:07 PM
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I'll put the blame more on society we have created that have allowed women to do this. Theres a reason why guys like andrew tate are rising into popularity now , back in the day nobody would have gave a shit about him but now hes essentially the voice for what most guys really wanna say
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 10:02 PM
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Look whose talking if that is you in the pic. You need to do yourself a favor and put down the fork and move around more. Your make up doesn't hide the fact that you look like a swine
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 09:52 PM
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I had to go through highschool, college and my 20s without dating or sex and i will never get those years back..so fuck them for excluding me like that even though i did nothing wrong and did all the self improvement were suppose yo do which was all in vain When i tried grindr out of curiosity it was eye opening how easy it was but unfortunately i am not gay.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 09:48 PM
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No i see them more as cruel narcissists who have immense power in western society and that makes me wish i was gay
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 09:02 PM
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Depreciating assets
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 03:04 PM
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Holy black pill
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 06:33 AM
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Yeah i have and they sometimes do i just dont like being the first to start the conversation so nothing happens. I am working on this with a therapist who is also in to pua so hopefully by the summer i can reach my goal of building a 3-6 rotation of women to bang.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 06:30 AM
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Bro im 30 and still invisible
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 03:22 AM
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I have worked on myself to achieve a muscular and athletic body, high paying career and good friends and hobbies . Yet i have 0 sexual experiences so im tired of trying to figure why i dont get women like other guys are even despite not doing as much as me
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 01:47 AM
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0 gf/sexual experiences during high school , college and 20s despite following all the advice to get fit & healthy, have a good career, have social circles and hobbies and be a friendly and fun person to be around . Thats what made me realize women dont reward good behavior and that society is made for the bullies and narcissist to thrive. I know some people that i grew up with that have no ambition, no stable job, smoke or drink all the time and still do much better with women then me which mad…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 01:29 AM
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So what if you do work on yourself, extensively yet your still being excluded ?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 02:26 AM
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First off thank you for your thorough response . It was very insightful and helpful. The whole idea behind twilight or hot dogs is different because i prefer watching and eating other things. Im hardwired to want to have sex with women but cannot and did not in my formative years when most others did (highschool and university) i feel left out I invested my 20s in education ,career, building my network and net worth and fitness/athletics. I thought these things would bring women in my life. It h…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 06:21 AM
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Yeah but what if you grow up seeing all your peers get hot dogs and you dont and now your wondering why you have tried to be the best version possible of yourself yet your almost 30 and never had a hot dog and feel left out.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 04:25 AM
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I think you are right, But I don't know what else to do. My body automatically starts walking the opposite way of an attractive stranger. I can psyche myself that today is the today I face my fears but then as soon as the time comes I start making excuses.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 07:07 PM
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Thailand and Philippines
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 02:47 PM
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I dont want to anymore, but what choice do i have until my game gets really good or somehow women start approaching/escalating.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 02:46 PM
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I guess you are right, does this mean men also get a pass to be unfaithful in relationships because we have higher desire and testosterone ?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 02:37 PM
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Sorry didnt mean to get defensive.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 05:28 AM
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Yeah i have had some rp dudes tell me to find a pua in my area to help with this regard.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 04:40 AM
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I think you are setting a dangerous precedent here saying that my fears arent valid simply because im a male. Do many women require psychologist because they fear approaching as well? Do you think it would be appropriate to tell my relatives or friends who are women to see a psychologist next time they ask me to come somewhere when its dark because statistically nothing ever happens?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 04:35 AM
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For me the biggest threat is the ability for her to : 1) hurt my self esteem 2) cause violence (assaulting me knowing i cant fight back without getting charged or ability to summon surrounding white knights in the vicinity to attack me) 3) ruin my life with a false accusation
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:50 AM
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You would think but im south asian which is not ideal for Online dating
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:40 AM
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I am sociable and have tons of different social circles i just have anxiety being the first to say hi. And i dont wanna to rely on mdma everytime i see an attractive girl because that shit needs an hour to kick in and she might be gone by then. Also you roll every 3 months just to keep it safe.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:38 AM
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Appreciate your words of encouragement. Im just scared because of all the ways women can hurt me and im also shy (just for approach once we talk for 5 seconds im totally social and out going) . I try to be social and show unconditional love to everyone but it mainly nets me more dudes lol
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:31 AM
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So its up to me to come across as desperate? 30 and 22+ but to be fair i dont pursue i usually just play eye tag in hopes they come say hi
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:22 AM
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I like my friends who are women tho. But i have enough now, and just want to keep it strictly romantic (gf or fwb)
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:14 AM
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This is exactly what one of the dudes in the RP discord told me as well using economic models though.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:12 AM
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Its unfair from the context that we are supposed to be a society of equals. In this case it just seems like equality is only the answer unless its a tradition you like and want to keep because it benefits you
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:07 AM
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Theres nothing wrong with being "friends". But when its all you ever amount to it hurts your self esteem as to why your not viewed like other guys despite doing so much to try and make yourself more appealing.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 03:03 AM
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I think we are more complex then simple biology.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 02:55 AM
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Ive tried this there comes a point where you have to eventually escalate or you just end up being friends and nothing happens. It sucks. I spend 10k a year on escorts to make sure i am in a sexually satisfied state constantly so i dont come across as too strong but if you dont escalate nothing happens which sucks when your shy
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 02:53 AM
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Wanting to learn how to get laid
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 01:13 PM
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"I wonder what shes like" then fucking do it. dont think just do it. thinking will only stir up some bullshit illogical anxiety.
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:06 AM
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Sent you a PM
/r/seduction14/04/21 06:34 AM
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Normally I thought the whole idea was someone who was not employed, not educated and simply would be on the computer all day and would expect to get a girlfriend. ​ The problem is I am none of those things as i am extremely fit, educated, have a career and hobbies to go along with a decent social life. However I have never been able to get laid so im not sure if its because i am an incel due to my race or something.
/r/seduction19/06/20 03:10 PM
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How did you make your friends? Did you choose them based on any one who started talking to you? Did you base it on factors like your ability to get along with said person and whether or not your liked their personality? did you try to find common ground among them before realizing these were people you wanted to spend more time with? Apply this to women as they are just people and make them qualify for your time as oppose to the other way around. Say to yourselfs yeah she's cute but so what ? Wh…
/r/seduction13/06/20 01:06 AM
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can't wait for the next one, great work.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 04:54 AM
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Face my fear of rejection, ask people out, escalate. I'm tired of sitting on the sidelines and this quarantine really lit a fire under my ass.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 11:22 PM
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Appreciate you taking the time to write that out. But the one thing confuses me is some say you should go out and have fun but your saying that I should go with the intention of of getting laid but then people say you reek of desperation. Also is it worth it to try this with women I already know and am friends with?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:59 PM
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How would someone show interest early on and how does it look different from being friendly when first talking to someone ?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:29 PM
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I was going out to clubs alot at the end of last year and was really confused and didn't have the slightest clue what to do. I try to be polarizing as soon as I get comfortable with anyone. I never have gone for the kiss which is why I went through hs and college as a kissless virgin lol. Not sure how to bounce back with confidence after that
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:26 PM
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Usually both ways
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:17 PM
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Yes I read a good chunk of it. Is there something specific i should revisit and read again?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:56 PM
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because I have no idea how to do that.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:47 PM
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Yes I have, in fact I do have friends that are women.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 08:40 PM
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Thanks for posting this. I have really gotten my life together over the years but have always struggled with dating. I was just starting to get out more and push my comfort zone then this happens.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:40 PM
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I hope I can get to that point one day where I'm so bored of hooking up that I start to crave an ltr. Still at 0 here, consider yourself lucky to be where your at.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:00 AM
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Its just the truth. A harsh inconvenient one.
/r/seduction04/02/20 03:03 PM
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Honestly it would be easier to tell with a picture, but I would slow bulk until you are able to to get to 135 ohp, 225 squat, & 185 bench for reps before you start cutting.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:05 PM
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Almond butter, olive oil , pumpkin seeds
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 09:44 PM
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Hey i am in the same situation, use to be a fat fuck now I'm very athletic and ripped after years of consistent lifting and sports. I am fairly new to this too so i apologize if my advice seems a bit crap lol. I think the next step would be to keep on pushing your comfort zone. If you can't talk to women you find attractive try to just make eye contact and smile and start saying hi to people in general who walk by you. Sometimes just being attractive thats all you need and women will do all the …
/r/seduction19/11/18 05:07 PM
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