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I love this stuff. The going rate for an escort here is 220-300 per hour, and this guy wants a live-in hooker for what might be 700 a month. Also, Brampton. Iykyk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:25 PM
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If that grossed me out then I wouldn't be on a date with her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:05 PM
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I travel a lot, and I've noticed my OLD options go way up in smaller cities compared to major metropolitan ones. You'd think with more people, there would be more options, but that doesn't seem to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:31 PM
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I wonder if there's a correlation between this pill stuff and a gendered parent-sibling preference in families.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:18 PM
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Must be a family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:02 PM
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Have you actually seen this? I'd imagine there's a lot of relationship fires that can be sparked by your girlfriend suddenly getting way hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:58 PM
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I believe it's called set point theory. There's a whole range of chemical signaling that goes on whose intent is to get the body right back to that winter ready condition. It can be mostly overcome, but it takes years of good habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:56 PM
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This narrative will truly do wonders for relations between India and the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:23 PM
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Nothing, but people get weird about interracial relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:45 AM
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R u ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:17 PM
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If you're short you're just closer to her pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:07 PM
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I slept with a woman a few days ago and she just texted me that's she's deep cleaning her apartment. Would it be sexy/funny if I sent "I want to deep clean your asshole" or is that too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:29 PM
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Then why are you here? If you can't accept the idea of a contextual alpha then why are you on a RP BP debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:05 PM
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You're not making the argument that you think you are. You're actually not making any argument at all. You're just saying "that doesn't exist and you're wrong" in so many words. Can you agree that in any social environment, there are some men that basically all women immediately find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:59 PM
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What he's talking about is a man who has broad appeal to the majority of women in a certain social context. It's not about being able to attract some, it's being appealing to most. Women don't have that requirement because their appeal is less contextual and more based on raw genetic quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:47 PM
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Phenibut gave me gnarly withdrawal, and I was only on it for a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:12 PM
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Didn't someone once write "options = instability"? I haven't seen that particular blogger mentioned in a long fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:10 PM
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Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:41 PM
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I'd prefer something more magical, like words that erase all her doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:16 PM
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Say you've met someone online and you're arranging a hook up. Everything is going good, you've arranged the time and date, but right before she sends you her address she says "I'm nervous 🙈". What do you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:09 PM
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Technically they were in his league at that time, but that was because of him not knowing how to be more attractive. By upgrading his confidence/skill set he could then do better. What was holding him back weren't immutable traits but confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:55 PM
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Escorts can't provide the kind of emotional experience you get from an actual relationship. I think you're saying that because escorts get paid and practice girlfriends get used, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:38 AM
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20 dollars is close to the going price for a McDonalds combo and some nuggets. You're saying love and eating a McDonalds combo with nuggets are roughly the same in terms of the experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:24 AM
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With a problem like "I can never find women attractive" and a rationalization that "I can't find my type", well maybe his type isn't a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:18 PM
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That's not necessarily verbally shitting on them, that's getting agitated. It can't come from a place of sensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:55 AM
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There's no reason you can't walk around shirtless constantly in the summer. If you look good, you'll get noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:47 AM
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He's not creating a grand narrative. It's reasonable that someone who works in a bar would have some insight on the kinds of men who get noticed in bars. He's just pointing out what men get noticed. Beyond that there's no other claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:45 AM
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You're latching on to technicalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:14 AM
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I mean, there's a difference between discussing the subject of sex and making graphic non-sequiturs towards women you don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:58 AM
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I remember that, but wasn't that related to LLMs? An LLM isn't an actual AI in the sense that it can reason, it's just a very complex statistical prediction of the best next word/token to use in a text.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:02 AM
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It's funny the women nitpicking his bio for ways he'd be incompatible with all of them apparently. Lifestyle is too common, "travels too much", "Hungarians are sexist".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:22 AM
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I saw this with my university too. I was in the physics program which was more demanding but watching my ex do her grad classes in the humanities was surprising. It devalues what it means to have a masters degree, I used to be impressed when I saw someone had a post-doc but now not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:05 AM
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That's grim. I mean, my dick isn't tiny so I don't see the need bow out of the game lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:16 AM
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What's the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:32 AM
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There's the psychological element but there's also the inescapable physical element. With all other things being equal.. I'm honestly not sure what the point here is. To not make anyone feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:15 AM
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Why would it be irrelevant? I understand that you're gay, but are you a bottom? Surely you can understand the significance of a big dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:14 AM
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That's fair, I respect that. I just think dick size matters to most women so why not talk about it? Were all thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:47 AM
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Can I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:11 AM
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I don't mean something like polite conversation with your neighbor. Or your grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:02 AM
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What about if it's done with humour and good world play instead of just a claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:27 AM
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Is it immoral to exaggerate in conversation how big your dick is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:14 AM
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You respect her boundaries in a performative way but not a definite way. She needs to feel like she's being heard while you work on her to subtly dissolve those boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:33 PM
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I'd like to hear the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:33 AM
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Wait, during? What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:19 PM
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There's nothing worse than getting an injury and watching your dreams get sidelined. I did the same thing doing sumo deadlifts 2 weeks ago and I think it's fucking serious this time. Usually when I get injured like that I heal in a few days but I'm still hurting, and today my leg almost buckled when I had to bend down, it was like something almost gave out. I'm never deadlifting again. 90% of gym injuries I've had have been from squats or deadlifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:57 AM
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I don't want to be too sweet and kill the vibe, but if she needs some assurance that I'm not just looking at her as a hole I don't want to not give her that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:44 PM
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What do you do if you're sexting with someone new and she suddenly switches gears to more girlfriendy type stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:48 PM
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This is mean, but when I see couples like that I feel like I often see a lack of conventional masculinity/possibly heterosexually in the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:42 PM
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I did the same thing but I ignored the warnings and got placed into a group home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:27 PM
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Disagree. If you're big and you're going to use that, and only that, to try to get ahead, then you need to be in a position to, or ready to, throw down immediately. Otherwise you'll get talked in a circle and end up looking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:50 PM
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I agree. It would be better if violence could be more an acceptable interpersonal or communal activity, but I think a higher authority is still needed so that things don't regress into tribal warfare or something. So you're saying that if men we're able to be more violent then they'd be more valued for that utility and women's own more unique abilities would look comparatively less valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:12 PM
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I've never heard this before. Are you saying the existence of police is the reason why women are considered wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:58 PM
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Acting like you enjoy compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:45 AM
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I see that on Reddit all the time but in real life acting like that makes you look like a bottom to everyone. It rarely improves your status as a man, let's say. Why is this never addressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:15 AM
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Dog breath
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:00 AM
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Why is this a threat? Is it because your hostile to the idea of children or did he genuinely say something too aggressive? It sounds like he just said "I want a child with her".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:00 AM
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Sounds like someone has a crush ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:45 AM
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Women love murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:34 PM
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You kind of have to have the right face for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:33 PM
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Penis goes in the vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:10 AM
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Yes, because that's far less sophisticated than what he did to put such a spell on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:21 AM
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I remember reading that the current generation of men have 40% less testosterone than their parents, and their parents have 40% less testosterone than their parents. Two generations isn't long enough for sexual selection to have any impact. It's also possible that violence has more impact on ones desirability now, given the circumstance, than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:15 AM
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I'm sad now because I thought I was going to have a real discussion and I'm getting whatever the fuck this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:36 AM
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Stop using psychology here. We were both happily married, never flirty with each other. Methinks the lady doth protest too much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:26 AM
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What's not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:10 AM
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I'm not seeing what that has to do with what I said. You said there are women you can be vulnerable with, I'm saying that's true but the behaviour of "toxic masculinity" is still what they'll want to see in public life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:08 AM
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You're talking about private vs public life. What's desirable in one isn't what's desirable in the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:36 AM
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Omelette du fromage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:34 PM
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Are they gay though? This is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:05 AM
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It's absolutely possible to trigger a submissive reaction in someone "against their will". It happens all the time, a lot of people are living in a way they wouldn't choose necessarily because of one-sided power dynamics not in their favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:51 PM
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You can't learn enough C in a week as a beginner to call yourself proficient. It's every bit as time consuming to get good as the guitar would be, you're not going to get to a professional caliber that fast. You might be able to pick up enough to fake it through the interview and then learn as you go, though,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:43 PM
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The duality of woman ![img](91deg3sq38pf1) For the first one, am I correct in interpreting that as a strong desire to dive head first into something? If so, do I claim to understand while moving things in a head first direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:33 AM
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The duality of woman <image> For the first one, am I correct in interpreting that as a strong desire to dive head first into something? If so, do I claim to understand while moving things in a head first direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:33 AM
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That assumes her husband can be that guy. He might not have the inclination or the ability in which case she'd be fucking with his chill by telling him she's (somewhat) unsatisfied and demanding he start performing for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:08 PM
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I had a BJJ instructor today queue me through part of a drill by saying "like fucking his elbow". He repeated this twice, advising me to fuck his elbow. Is that weird or am I being sensitive? I didn't really feel comfortable fucking a mans elbow in that moment, and the association it created just felt weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:14 AM
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Is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:21 PM
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I don't know what to say...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:43 PM
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Maybe they can somehow sense that it bothers you, and that makes them happy. Like there's a thrill in doing it because they're not supposed to, and that makes it more intimate/personal in a sense compared to porn that you're expected to goon to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:12 PM
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Some of the lives slaves lived through history are terrifying. Every now and then I think about Nero taking as a wife a boy who looked like his dead wife (who he killed), castrating him, and basically passing him around the upper class. I can't imagine the horror of that, and that shit happened all the time back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:53 PM
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I think The Rock decided he'd rather be skinny than dead. Can't abuse steroids forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:08 AM
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It sounds like he's talking about online dating. You're not getting to know anyone on it at first, not really. You're just making your sales pitch, with minimal expectation of success, to then hopefully get to them in person where "relating" starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:22 AM
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Uh, about 3.3 grams.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:32 AM
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12 eggs, 340g corned beef, 4 liters of milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:25 AM
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That's just her fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:38 PM
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Maybe he just thought you weren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:07 AM
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Graceley. 5 years younger, skinnier, and sounds like she'd do anything I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:06 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/yLg94NU What do I say next?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:45 AM
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Are there any tried/tested/true hail-marys for a tinder hoe who started strong but looks like she's flaking/fading?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:30 AM
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I can't believe you're letting that charmer get away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:16 AM
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I've noticed something similar but framed around the idea that "people adapt to our expectations". I've always thought that was good. If we expect people to behave a certain way, whatever that expectation is, they'll often oblige in a totally subconscious way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:17 PM
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Working class men are getting priced out of that though. A good chunk of the work force only makes about 5-6 hoe hours per month, and most of that needs to go to food and rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:09 AM
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He knows what you really meant was "I wouldn't be mad if you got fat, so don't be upset when I do".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:42 AM
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Yes, this is a famously gross physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:41 AM
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I think a lot of it started just pre-covid maybe beginning around 2017 when Youtube and other social media platforms started pushing red pill and incel content to just about everyone. If you watched one video on dating you'd be recommended all kinds of "extremist" media and it started bringing these ideas into the mainstream and normalizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 05:16 AM
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Women can learn how to repeat or reformulate the thinking of others down to a very intricate level, and they can even do this well. They still cannot develop an independent perspective or original insight because their abilities come from mimicking and not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:59 AM
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I don't understand why that would be true. Why would it be impossible to recognize those people and prevent them from doing harm in a self-governed community?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:13 PM
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Is demanding pussy a solid move? It's aggressive, which makes you look like an animal (in a good way), implies she'll be fucked hard, shows that you want her enough to act crazy, has a masculine arrogance. I'm not seeing any downsides honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:53 AM
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She has a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:54 PM
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Pretty women have easier lives. They can afford to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:06 PM
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It's plausible she really is busy. I don't want to corner her into making a decision right away. It's also for sex and not a date so there might be other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:03 PM
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Sounds like he means he doesn't want to cum that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:45 PM
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What is the deal with a woman who says she wants to meet, but gives vague responses to when she's free? I know someone will say that she's not serious, but let's assume that's not the case and there's a different reason, like she's hesitant or actually busy. What's the best way to handle it? I'm thinking of just continuing to talk and I guess let her choose a time when she's comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:35 PM
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When was the last time you took a class? The difference between how you perform as a teenager and as an adult can be night and day. There are lots of people who got terrible grades in high school who went back to school in their 20's or 30's and did very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:18 AM
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I'm skeptical of all sweeping statements about a particular demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:54 AM
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I'm skeptical that men who can't get laid are secretly evil and they suck. Sounds like some female shit to justify shitting on them for being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:59 PM
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We don't know what these woman are like in real life. We know their personal "brand", the series of labels and stereotypes they've chosen to define themselves with in public, but these things aren't going to reflect exactly how a person acts in private. How we do know that Sanchez, even as a "career woman" in her public life, isn't male centered in her personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:35 PM
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I think you're completely glossing over the significance of "getting attention online". She has a brand, she's been on Piers Morgan, H3 Podcast, these are big names in influencer culture. She's making what I assume is good money and even here she has people talking about her. Is it rewarded sexually? Maybe, maybe not, but it's clearly rewarded financially. We don't even know that she really believes what she's saying. I just read her Wikipedia page and her views are basically rehashes of long st…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:13 PM
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You can sniff them out but first you have to be aware. I didn't even realize until someone else mentioned it, but I swear I can predict now with like 70%+ accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:15 PM
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I've noticed a lot of the "red pill" content on PPD that's rooted, arguably, in regressive ideas around purity is written by men from places like India or the Middle-East. It's a more disturbing trend on this subreddit that so much of the discourse is being shaped by guys from cultures that are repressive and oppressive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:19 AM
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I don't know that OP is a typical male. I also don't believe they're from a Western country.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:07 PM
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Yes. When the pregnant woman leaves her house, she has a 50% probability of going in any direction, axially (either left or right, forward or backward, etc). She will move like this continuously, her direction, and therefor her destination, based purely on statistical chance. Eventually through this "random walk" she will meet a man willing to date her, although this may take millions of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:22 PM
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It's from a Doug Stanhope bit, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:14 PM
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There's a theory that because they ate high carb diets before a fight they were trying to gain weight, but that's probably because they were stabbing each other and needed a buffer between their organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:03 PM
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That is an excellent point, it is a tiny minority. Which always made me question the out sized importance the issue had in the larger cultural and political space. I've seen bathrooms that are "Trans Welcome" or whatever but I wonder how many trans people every entered them, if any. I never could find a satisfying explanation for this. Maybe it was a form of "extreme" LGBTQ advocacy designed to promote tolerance, maybe it played on a common enough social sentiment to be profitable, maybe it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:51 AM
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Why would someone who's MtF watch MM porn? I'm genuinely curious. Why two men and not a man (other) and woman (them).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:47 AM
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That's not very charitable. On the doll, where did the RP man touch you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:20 AM
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Yes and no. Your forced to follow the track the bar is on so it can lock you into some less than ideal positions. It also removes most of the stabilization involved so while it lets you use more weight, it doesn't give the same results. It's good for more advanced training using focused work to hit certain muscles, and it's better than nothing, but you'd be way better off learning how to use a barbell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:19 PM
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I'm not hoping that, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:56 PM
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I'm not a red pill strawman so I don't know about that, but I think he picked her based on personality because your right, there are better looking women. Your point comes more from regular guys trying to meet women on tinder than how the economic elite of the world operate. Also I would be damned surprised if Bezos isn't hooking up with other women, even inside his marriage. He's not committing himself to a single woman forever so the variables change.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:06 PM
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Jeff Bezos is one of, if not the richest man, in the world. Things are going to be different for him. Like her being a single mother is of no consequence because he can offload all parenting duties onto a hired nanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:41 PM
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You'll make 80% of all the progress you'll ever make in the first two years if you do it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:25 AM
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Then if probably won't happen, honestly. Especially since the bar for a good physique is basically set by guys who are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:23 AM
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No, women care a lot about a mans body if it's good. Just can't be an awkward goober. Take steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:19 AM
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That is what I said. And men are, thus "gatekeeping".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:09 AM
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Sexually, I think they are. Not on an individual, case by case basis but in the aggregate. Just look at the different dynamics on Tinder and Grindr. Most people are on those apps for casual sex, but the dynamics are very different. Guys on Tinder are making an effort and would absolutely sleep with the women they're talking to if those women would let them. On Grindr it's the same thing, but without women's "gatekeeping" it's basically constant free-flowing hook ups. That's what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:17 PM
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I don't think he cares that some women have casual sex, he just cares about not dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:14 PM
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I don't think this, but if I imagine myself as a chauvinist I'd likely find it hilarious. I would have a contempt for these woman and enjoy "ruining" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:13 PM
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