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| 4 | Met a girl on a plane. Instant intense chemistry and i got ghosted.OP, you were a distraction on a boring airplane flight and less interesting to her than working wifi. Don't make more out of than what it was | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 12:27 PM |
| 3 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?Seems to me that almost all the responses so far are missing the obvious answer... The other guy most likely had a place to take her that he didn't share with other people. OP doesn't. If he had, he almost certainly would have gotten laid on his second date. I'm curious as to why OP didn't suggest a hotel immediately after the woman declined car sex - strike while the iron is hot and all that. OP, do another date and suggest hotel sex after building enthusiasm | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl agree to a threesome?Bi women exist | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 05:25 PM |
| 6 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Be the change you want to see - start a subreddit and moderate it. See how it goes. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 07:15 PM |
| 71 | First time trying to socialize in Miami (volleyball meetup to nightlife) and I accidentally burned $2400 at a strip club. Lessons learned.OP's money got seduced away from him | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 03:37 PM |
| 9 | How do I subtly flirt with my senior at work again without crossing lines?>Any tips for handling this kind of power dynamic carefully? There is no way to handle this carefully. This is the sort of thing that, no matter how careful you think you are being, has the potential to explode messily. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How To Get An Ex To Talk To Me In Private?She already suggested having lunch together - just do it then. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Why do women ignore me after a one-night standSo she can ignore you later | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 10:42 AM |
| 3 | New Flame Canceled Our Birthday Dinner for a Spontaneous Friend Get-Together. How to Respond?Then don't mess with a good pattern - she associates getting freaky with you as something that happens after you hang out with her and her friends. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 02:52 AM |
| 9 | New Flame Canceled Our Birthday Dinner for a Spontaneous Friend Get-Together. How to Respond?She's known you two weeks - of course you aren't a priority over her friends who she's known much longer than you. Roll with it and be social like before - that worked well enough then that you got physical afterwards, right? | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | What's with girls telling me they're busy?Maybe you were bad in bed with then | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?You're in a friend group with her now, right? So if you don't do anything, that's not likely to change | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 12:26 AM |
| 0 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Then ask them if they wanted to do that. you think they are going to read you mind or something? Use your words. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 10:05 PM |
| -18 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Tell them you are interested in the romantically and ask them if they'd like to go on a date | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 09:47 PM |
| 38 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Here's how NOT to do it... https://xkcd.com/513/ Just talk to them and see if they are up for it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 09:40 PM |
| 194 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Alcohol is often involved | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Worst Cities for GameMytilene | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 11:48 AM |
| 29 | The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative StatusRelative status? You in Alabama or something? | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Don’t know where else to ask this question, but why is pussy not even that good tbh?It's okay to be gay, OP. | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I Thought I Finally Had a Chance… Turns Out I Was Just a JokeOP...bro...your reddit avatar appears to be wearing a pink dress and has a pink flower in its hair. And you're surprised that woman thought you were gay? check archive.org for the pdf "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover...please... | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 08:37 PM |
| 8 | I finally had a one night stand and now i feel miserableYes, when it's my cock... | /r/seduction | 22/04/25 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Social proof backfired!fishing for background on which to base my speculations of why some of the women in your friend group are acting as you described. Check the basics though - you are assuming that bringing this woman to meet your friend group constituted some sort of 'social proof'. You might be mistaken. As far as those women know, you brought this woman around 'that one time', maybe more than once, but they don't see you with her currently. I'm not hip on this whole 'social proof' concept, but I think you get a… | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Social proof backfired!Are you still dating the gal, and if so, does the friend group know that? | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Social proof backfired!Question: are you still bringing the foreign woman to group events? | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Do this if she leaves you on read!There might be someone in her social circle who would be open to sex with you that you wouldn't have met otherwise | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 01:02 PM |
| 0 | Is a Vasectomy worth it?Yes, yes it is | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Weird but interesting encounter with a wealthy older couple…what do you think?I think she wants you to go to her place and fuck her | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 12:37 PM |
| 4 | Advice for a 25 M going to a bar at night for the first time?If everyone starts Kung-Fu Fighting, get out quick | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it a disadvantage that I prefer women who are into open relationships?Absolutely, and he should be upfront about that. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 10:11 PM |
| 23 | Is it a disadvantage that I prefer women who are into open relationships?Any filters will reduce your available pool size | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl says I HAVE TO bring her a gift on our first dateWhen you meet her, tell her that you've got her gift in your pants and she can unwrap it later. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a conflict between dating two women.If you aren't smart enough to come up with a reasonable sounding justification, then you likely aren't smart enough to handle dating two women at the same time | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | The father of my Cold Approach followed meAlso, ask him how the car is doing | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downSo... treat her as your partner and not someone you have to trick into wanting to stay with you | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Teasing women in 30s: what matters more words or attitude?You should wear a satin shirt - chicks dig satin shirts... | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:37 PM |
| -3 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downI know, crazy talk, right? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 07:37 PM |
| 108 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downOr, and hear me out on this... you could just find an emotionally healthy woman who likes you and wants to spend her life with you | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 06:17 PM |
| 3 | How should I ask her to be my girlfriend ?Via singing telegram | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 04:53 PM |
| 16 | My own toxic masculinityThis sounds less like toxic masculinity and more like being an entitled asshole. Things aren't always going to go your way. In fact, they often won't. Learn to deal with that gracefully | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 09:29 PM |
| 2 | How to flirt / approach while working as a security guard guardHe watches the watchmen | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Girl replies with nothing more than a "hello"Ah, well maybe she was waiting for you to make conversation... | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Girl replies with nothing more than a "hello"Okay, seriously - need a bit more info... was this the entirety of the second conversation: You: hi Her: Hello and then nothing else? If so, maybe she is thinking to herself 'Thought that totally awesome guy was going to tell me what he had planned for the date we talked about...' | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Girl replies with nothing more than a "hello"Naw, she's just so overwhelmed by your awesomeness that she's trying to come up with the perfect words to impress you | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Girl calls me bro after the night we had sexTell her that you want to talk about the feelings you had when she called you bro and that you want clarification on where the two of your are at | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 12:18 PM |
| 22 | 3 flirting principles that consistently get me laid on datesMaybe the real tricks were the friends we made along the way | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 12:05 PM |
| 77 | 3 flirting principles that consistently get me laid on datesI'm 57 - old school for me refers to the time when a guy would treat a gal as an actual human | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:32 PM |
| 260 | 3 flirting principles that consistently get me laid on datesRefreshingly old-school advice here! | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 03:29 PM |
| -3 | How do I reply to this girl who did not validate herself?You suck at texting and you should feel bad | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Walked around for 3 hours, no approaches.Good job on putting yourself out there! | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Not attracted to women anymoreYou've spent the last two years training yourself to de-value relationships with women, and now you complain that you don't want to be with them anymore. What did you think would happen? | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 11:37 PM |
| 48 | I feel like this "always stay persistent, it’s your fault if she’s not interested" mentality is messing up my head>However, this coach once said that, as long as she doesn't have a boyfriend, it’s always possible to sleep with any woman, no matter her current life situation. That coach is wrong | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she says "I don't want to ruin our friendship"Too many guys here don't seem to get the idea of being platonic friends with a woman. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 11:36 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when she says "I don't want to ruin our friendship"It means she doesn't want to risk the business relationship. Which is a very sensible move on her part. Find other people to date | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 11:18 AM |
| 2 | If a woman brings up sexual topics by herself, could that be a signal that she is down to have sex?Do you want an engraved invitation on a silver platter? | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 09:35 PM |
| 15 | She invited me to her house, how do I escalate ?From Monty Python's 'Meaning of Life': "Why not start her off with a nice kiss? You don't have to go leaping straight for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy." | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Which game works best for someone you see regularly?Jumping Jehoshaphat on a pogo stick, you are making this way too hard... Step one: Ask her if she'd like to go have coffee or something after whatever you two do Step two: If she accepts and shows interest during coffee, tell her you enjoyed her company and ask her if she'd like to go on a date with you | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:53 PM |
| 2 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...IKR! I'm pretty sure some posters here don't actually like women | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Have like-minded bi guy friends, I guess | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Number 4 works for bisexuals, though | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 02:42 PM |
| 86 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...So many things wrong with this post: Many women are cool and interesting people who are just as interesting and fun to hang out with as friends as one's male friends Women who like you as a friend will often want to set you up with their female friends because they like seeing their friends happy It is a Good Thing to have a female friend already in your circle of friends when you introduce a woman who you've started dating to your friends because she can vouch for you as being a guy of good cha… | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Best advice I can give (less than 20 words)We aren't? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Best advice I can give (less than 20 words)Target-rich environment | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Girl who I slept with and have been dating seeing other guy in tripDid you two agree to be exclusive? ... No? .... Then why the fuck are you getting bent out of shape because she's having fun? "...I didn't think she was this type of girl..." What type is that? the type that enjoys going on dates and having sex? Did you not figure that out when she did that with you? Did you think that she was going to stop doing that when you left the country and wait for you to maybe come back one day? If you don't agree to be exclusive, then you don't get to whine when she is… | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)Until you get on the radar of campus security... | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)You really have no idea how seriously campus police takes their job of keeping creeps away from the female students there, do you? Well...be sure to update us on how this works out for you. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:15 PM |
| 9 | Is it okay to do day game at a college campus if I don't go there? (I'm 20)Until someone complains and campus security bans you from campus... | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How would you pick up a girl that works in a grocery store?Lift from the knees, not the back. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 01:34 PM |
| 1 | What should I say to an older woman when she said she worried that I am too young?That's why its important to read the job description carefully! | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 01:26 PM |
| 2 | What should I say to an older woman when she said she worried that I am too young?Acktually... you will be eligible when you turn 35... | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Trying to make this women obsessedYou gonna pay for raising it? If so, then make it happen | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Trying to make this women obsessedEnjoy being a daddy with that no condom thing | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 38 | Girl shaking at first kiss, rainchecks second dateThere might be a good reason he isn't himself on a date... | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 11:15 AM |
| -4 | advice for approaching jazz bar girl talking to another performer?Then you tell him to piss off, and that you do what you want | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 12:27 PM |
| -7 | advice for approaching jazz bar girl talking to another performer?Assert dominance by asking her why she's taking to that loser when she could be talking to you. Then tell the other guy that he better get lost if he knows what's good for him. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 12:22 PM |
| 4 | 25m. Got laid but feels weird.You did a nice thing with/for someone who wanted to have sex with you. Don't be such a mope. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 04:24 PM |
| -1 | My bestfriend is mad at me for having a threesome. How do I fix it?Your friend sounds like a no-fun control freak who needs to get laid. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 08:28 PM |
| 4 | How should one act when a women send you choosing signals than says “I have a boyfriend”"Cool, threesome?" | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Almost fumbling the easiest bag"Would you like to grab a bite to eat with me after work?" Don't overthink it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 01:33 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herThis is the update I want and need! | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 12:58 PM |
| 5 | "You don't have instagram?" What's a good answer for this?Damn right! | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 11:31 AM |
| 9 | "You don't have instagram?" What's a good answer for this?"I'm 56 years old. Why would I have an Instagram?" | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Christian - Casual Congruence?You're going to make Baby Jesus cry if you do that | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 04:16 PM |
| 0 | How to get one night standsPay for two women at once | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Walking dogIndeed! A story for the ages. Shakespearian, even... | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Can you pecock with a hoodie and sweatpants if you style it right?I can imagine that there might be some scenarios in which that would be effective. I can't picture them, offhand - but I acknowledge that the possibility exists. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 09:19 PM |
| 4 | I made out with a girl at the disco, but discovered she’s 21You should do what you want to do and not give a crap about what anyone else thinks. | /r/seduction | 14/09/23 05:12 PM |
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