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| 1 | Mutual infidelity in a 13-year marriage, trying to figure out where to go from hereNo I don’t approve women not respecting men’s spaces. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 03:44 PM |
| 0 | Mutual infidelity in a 13-year marriage, trying to figure out where to go from hereTry making a similar comment towards a woman over at r/divorce_women …I dare you 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/26 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Mutual infidelity in a 13-year marriage, trying to figure out where to go from here🙄 a woman telling a man how disgusting he is, in a men’s group of all places. I love Reddit | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/26 10:27 AM |
| 5 | 27M. Getting divorced next month, but I still miss my wife every single day.Your wife is not your best friend. She is a whore that cheated on you and does not care the slightest about your feelings. Please come back to reality and be happy you are divorcing this trash. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 02:37 PM |
| 8 | My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken.She is obviously sleeping with another dude. Women never leave without having something lined up normally. I bet 99% she is have an affair | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/26 12:41 PM |
| 0 | I am so sad....Yes you can leave. Too bad she won’t address the problem but she obviously doesn’t give a fuck about you or the family consequences. I am sure she will magically find her libido again though after she destroys the family though. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/26 10:38 AM |
| 7 | Girl reported me to HR for using F-word. What do I do?Why don’t you file a claim against her to HR? | /r/MensRights | 01/07/26 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Got served divorce papers, wife only wants one thingWhat are you doing? Take the dog, get half of her 401k, and whatever else she owes you. Don’t think for a minute she wouldn’t do the same if the roles were reversed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/26 04:07 AM |
| 82 | Democrats introduce paid menstrual leave bill with 12 days off per yearThere are no fixed number of sick days in Germany. There are no stupid limitations like in the US that you get X amount of sick days with your work contract. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/26 12:08 PM |
| 133 | Democrats introduce paid menstrual leave bill with 12 days off per yearThere shouldn’t be any sick days. If you are sick you are sick. Follow the German model…6 weeks of sick days paid by employer, then after 6 weeks, health insurance pays 70% of salary up to X amount. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/26 11:54 AM |
| 9 | Wife’s Having An Affair.There is only one thing to do about this and it’s divorce. Why? Because as much as you may think you might get over this and repair it somehow, you NEVER will. The trust has been irreparably damaged and SHE destroyed the family. She fucked up big time, not you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/26 06:20 AM |
| 5 | It happened to meShe just wants time to see if things work out with her fuckboy. Fuck that! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 10:11 AM |
| 22 | Wife of 6 years left via text…There is somebody else. I would get a divorce lawyer and file quickly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/26 12:43 PM |
| 0 | Need help to stop this urge to find women for sex.Why don’t you just get some call girls…lot cheaper than a girlfriend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/26 11:50 AM |
| 3 | The Damage and Destruction of DivorceIt’s because women are all chasing their feelings. They have zero commitment when times get hard. They all hit the eject button when the rainbow and butterfly feelings are no longer there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Social media has destroyed everything in this worldYou couldn’t have summed it up any better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Wife bought a second homeBut can’t that go both ways…he owns half the debt? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 08:44 AM |
| 2 | She's keeping the kids with no rightIt’s incredible to me women actively destroy the children’s relationship with their father. I’ll give my ex-wife credit that she never wanted to deny our children a relationship with me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 07:40 AM |
| 9 | “Are we Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook GroupsThis is hilarious this is getting downvoted in a men’s group. Reddit doing Reddit things. 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Ex wants to meet upDon’t! Tell you are busy go the next 6 months or you have to wash your hair. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/26 06:15 PM |
| 9 | Affair revealI would tell the APs wife. I’m all for burning bridges. And to be honest, if my ex had an affair 10 years ago that I didn’t know about, I still want to know. Loyalty and monogamy are two important tenants of marriage for me…otherwise it’s all a lie. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 08:42 AM |
| 10 | Women Silently Emotionally Disconnecting and Checking Out Is CowardlyI agree…they love to claim how emotionally intelligent they are when the reverse appears to be true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys tell everyone in your life (family/friends/colleague) that you left your wife for cheating on you?My kids knew. They are older teens and could see I was not doing well. If somebody asked, I told them but I did not publicize it to the world. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/25 10:41 AM |
| 3 | I've reached my breaking pointA marriage only works when 2 people want it. Your wife obviously does not want it and has already has ended the marriage with her refusal to work at it. This is on her for destroying your family, not you. Take care of you and set a positive example for your children. Nobody needs to be a second choice to anybody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Well gents, I think I’m going to be joining this club soon. Just venting.Stop worrying about this woman that you might offend her. Your marriage is over. Get your battle clothes on because she most certainly is and prepare for the worse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/25 03:26 PM |
| 9 | I (M28) miss my wife (27) so much. After 2 years of marriage and 5 in relationship, I had to go away because I couldn’t handle my promiscuity.Well I’m not going to mince words…you sound like a genuine prick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/25 06:57 PM |
| 10 | Why aren't Ukrainian women under 40 being mobilized?Ukrainians don’t have progressive feminist woke culture like the west. It’s unsurprising that women are not required to do military service. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 02:44 PM |
| 13 | Do you ever regret it?I only regret the destruction of the family and the effect it had on my kids. Divorcing her? No. Had no choice. Her true colors showed brightly of the likes I have never seen before. Never again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/25 05:19 AM |
| 1 | What’s the NUCLEAR OPTION for Ending a Divorce Fast in Texas?Why would you stay with a woman that made you, the father of her children, homeless? I honestly don’t get it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/25 09:47 AM |
| 20 | My wife wants out and I'm terrified.Stop feeling awful, she is just gaslighting you. She is just telling you that you are awful to justify the affair she is having behind your back. My ex was bringing up shit from 15 years before to justify why she said she was unhappy for all 17 years of our marriage. She just forgot to mention the part that she wanted to fuck her boss. Pay no attention to her. Get a lawyer and move on. Easier said than done I know, but listen to the men here…we have seen this screenplay 100x. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/25 03:46 AM |
| 18 | Menopause?I swear to God my divorce was caused by menopause. She had all the typical symptoms hot flashes, could not sleep etc. Her behavior because very uncharacteristic…started posting more online (she was a very private person before), new diet, wants a career change, seeking validation, didn’t give a shit what anyone thinks. I don’t even know who she is anymore I’m glad she is out of my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 08:54 AM |
| 25 | Wife’s New Perspective differs from RealityShe says all that to justify the affair she is having | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/25 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Looks like im joining the club I never wanted to be a part of…im heartbroken and not sure I’ll ever trust another woman again.It’s text book. My ex said the same…she was unhappy for the last 15 years of our marriage. Failed to mention she wanted to fuck her boss after looking through her phone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 03:05 PM |
| 8 | Tired of Women Saying Their Are No Good Guys Out ThereThat’s because they are all chasing the same Chad and Tyrone’s and generalizing the players to all men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/25 08:16 PM |
| 8 | I truly hate being divorcedDude I know where you are coming from. It’s been 18 months post separation and 3 months officially divorced. I hate that bitch for destroying the family. With that said, you have to be there for your kids and you can’t let her win if you give up. I’ve now had the time post breakup to see how bad my marriage was and how much I sacrificed myself to keep that narcissist happy. I have good and bad days…but things are slowly getting better. Keep going. The only way out of this is through it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Judge pushed my restraining order case forward by 11 days to this ThursdayIt’s amazing how the person you married and fell in love with can change to a side never seen before. When I discover my ex’s affair, I flipped and left the house for 5 days to my friends. She told my 13 year old to call the police if I came back. Thankfully my kids told her how much of an idiot she was thinking I would ever lay a hand on my kids or any woman for that matter. Absolute bat shit crazy times. Her lawyer even suggested to make shit up and make a police report so she could get me out… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/25 10:59 AM |
| 6 | Dating Age RangePersonally, and we are in the same ballpark age wise, I went 10 years younger. I would not want to date someone younger than that. Ended up with someone 7 years younger than me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Question for you men!Maybe he is not sure of his decision. If he has another woman, he can have the best of both worlds…you and his sidekick. I think he can see you don’t want this to end, so he can toy with you and keep you around until he finds something better. If you want him back, and I would not recommend it, you have to give him the impression it’s over. And then only then, when he realizes you are done, he just might fight for you. But right now, why should he, he knows you will take him back. You have to be… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 11:35 AM |
| 8 | Question for you men!I personally think he is trying to string you on…have his cake and eat it too. I would go no contact or minimal contact if kids involved. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 10:37 PM |
| 14 | What do you think of my wife? Am I over reactingDivorce her. She’s already checked out and totally disrespects you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Ex never fails to disappointLike I said…his ex is no longer his problem. If she wants to act like a sick individual in front of her kids, that’s on her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/25 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Ex never fails to disappointNo he doesn’t. She already sounds toxic. Taking the kids to Europe isn’t going to change anything. She was already bad before, and she’ll be bad afterwards too. Nothing changes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/25 05:36 PM |
| 16 | Ex never fails to disappointWhy do you give a shit what your ex thinks if you take your daughter to Europe? Who cares? She is not your problem anymore | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/25 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Need opinions of divorced menEveryone is different. Just ask him where things stand. I think men appreciate directness…i know I do. Just be open and honest | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 07:12 PM |
| 6 | 2nd wife?”This is exactly how I feel. I am also with a new partner and love her very much. However I will protect my assets at all cost and make sure that my kids will receive the majority of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 06:24 AM |
| 14 | Do I visit my dying Ex-wife?I think you can write her a message (text or whatever) that you heard about her illness and that you would like to visit her, but mention that you are not sure this would be wanted. Give her an easy out. If she wants to see you or not see you, she will tell you. The you can live without the regret that you didn’t reach out | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/25 12:13 PM |
| 4 | This morning I filled the dishwasher and nobody told me that I had done it wrong.This thread made me laugh and thankfully my ex was not so bad. Just the occasional leaving the toilet bowl seat up argument and not taking my shoes off in the house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/25 11:54 AM |
| 6 | Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex?It’s ok. We just discuss issues with the kids but I have minimal contact | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 12:07 PM |
| 12 | Caught wife cheating, she claims she’s sorry and doesn’t want a divorce.Women don’t want the man that take them back. She had her chance and she blew it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/24 02:07 PM |
| 3 | I hate that I picked up smoking againYou are not alone. I picked up vaping and never smoked my whole life. Now it’s hard to stop. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/24 05:06 PM |
| 12 | I can’t get over it.LOL! She forgives you? She can fuck off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/24 12:20 PM |
| 9 | Checked her social mediaYou don’t want her to find happiness because you are hurt. Fuck that bitch. Wish her the worst and get it out of your system. Karma is the great equalizer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/24 11:50 AM |
| 13 | Did you regret getting divorce?Regret? Well I didn’t have a choice really. She filed for separation and I asked her if she really wanted to do this. I told her nobody is putting a gun to her head to do this and she will regret this in the end. Well here I am 9 months later and we officially separated our finances in August. This last week she told me regrets her decision and is angry how I easily replaced her. I’ve been seeing someone new for last 5 months. This of course after she found out her boss was not going to leave hi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 06:23 AM |
| 11 | Wife 45/F caught sexting then locked me up 45/M then had an affaire while kids were taken awayI would also add that your wife is obviously ruthless and she is going to try to control the narrative so get out there and tell your story. Let everybody know what she did to your mutual friends and family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/24 10:59 AM |
| 4 | My wife left me and I’m struggling with understanding why.Yup. Women never leave without a backup plan. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.I think you are in the wrong group. 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 7 | My ex-wife unblocked me on social media after 8 months of no contact. What does this mean?Unfortunately, I think many of us will never will get that closure. I still don’t understand why my ex threw me and our family all away. It’s been said many times that men will sacrifice their happiness for the family, but women will sacrifice their family for their happiness. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 08:58 PM |
| 7 | My ex-wife unblocked me on social media after 8 months of no contact. What does this mean?I think she may have regrets or beginning to miss you. Dont you dare open the door for her, or I’ll personally come over to you and slap you in the head. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 08:47 PM |
| 25 | Went looking for answers..Rock bottom.Mate it’s never their fault. I just talked to my ex yesterday and she told me she never had an emotional affair when we split last year. I literally have a recording of her crying because her boss would not leave his wife for her. They create their own reality and their toxic friends will validate their reality. Be happy you are away and reclaimed your freedom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Where should I sleep tonightJesus Christ, if there is hell on earth then this is it. I don’t even know what to tell you man. I guess I would call every apartment complex I find and see if anything is available. Until then, if you can afford it, stay at a motel. Like others said, try to get a weekly/ monthly rate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 09:20 AM |
| 17 | ResentmentYup, Esther Perez who is an infidelity expert, said the number one predictor of divorce is resentment and contempt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 06:55 AM |
| 8 | SuicidalThis WILL pass!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Wife doesn’t know what she wantsI could have written this. The self-entitlement she had was mind blowing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 08:48 AM |
| 12 | I miss her. I f*cked everything up and just want my family back 2 years post divorceWhat are you waiting for man? Tell her how you feel you damn fool. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/24 01:45 PM |
| 11 | When do I stop wearing my ringWhen I found out she was having an affair. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 01:46 PM |
| 2 | How is your online dating experience after separation?Haven’t had to deal with that yet, although she can get jealous. I think she would beat the living daylights out of any woman that looked at me. She certainly has character. 😁 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Best Country to get Married/Divorced?Haiti…you can get divorced without informing or getting the other person’s consent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 06:35 AM |
| 2 | How is your online dating experience after separation?During Soviet times, that’s how I learned it…the Ukraine. Old habits hard to break. No way in hell I’m going to start calling Turkey as Türkiye now, too old for that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a replacement father for my son bas I am a toxic father.If you want to be a good father, then seek some help and learn how to be a good father. Your post is ridiculous. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 01:49 PM |
| 2 | How is your online dating experience after separation?Oh god, you must be younger than me then. lol! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 06:13 AM |
| 8 | How is your online dating experience after separation?I read a statistic that a man has to swipe right on average 200x to get 1 coffee date. I started dating 5 months after separation. I wasn’t looking for anything serious, just a distraction and just to get out there. First date was a disaster, 2nd date I hit the lottery. She is divorced and she was from the Ukraine. Eastern European women have totally different values and views toward men. They value and respect them. We have been dating 4 months now and yes, we are still in the early stages, but… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Worst mistake of my lifeIn my case, she destroyed the family because of her „happiness“ issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Worst mistake of my lifeWestern European women are getting just as bad…probably not as bad as American woman. However I am always shocked when I go back to the US to see how full of themselves American women are….they all think they are all 10s while they bring zero to the table. I’ll agree with you that the divorce system in the US is absolutely atrocious against men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/24 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Is your new girlfriend way better than your ex wife?When I was younger, I thought men from the US who got these women from Russia or whatever eastern country were nuts. Since I live in Europe now, I actually met my girlfriend through the an online dating app…so no mail order bride. However, I think western women with the feminist movement (“I don’t need a man” movement) have destroyed would good women should be. Eastern woman still have the old school values. I’m not saying all western women are bad, but their sense of entitlement and maintenance… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/24 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Is your new girlfriend way better than your ex wife?Hell yes. Went with an Eastern European woman. Totally different values, embrace their femininity and role as a woman in the family, and respect good men. She treats me like a king, I treat her like a queen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/24 03:02 PM |
| 29 | Worst mistake of my lifeThe problem is that men are taught how to treat a woman. But women are never taught how to treat a man….they have no idea how to meet a man‘s needs. And it‘s so easy. It’s always about them…their issues or looking for an upgrade. So many good men thrown away. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/24 07:51 AM |
| 5 | She has HIVDid you ever have any suspicions before this diagnosis that she was cheating? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/24 08:24 PM |
| 2 | What is a reason that will stop you from remarrying?Boy did you some it up perfectly. I’m basically the same age as you and could have written this myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 08:58 AM |
| 4 | I want to be a dad. I can see my dream crashing.Dude my grandfather started at 53 and had 3 kids 😄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 07:33 AM |
| 6 | What is the worst thing your ex ever did to you?We’re in the process at the moment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 06:17 PM |
| 12 | What is the worst thing your ex ever did to you?Told the kids to call the police if I came home after discovering she was having an emotional affair. Ask anybody who has met me in my life, they know I would never harm a fly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 02:16 PM |
| 7 | What is the worst thing your ex ever did to you?Wow | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 02:11 PM |
| 5 | When do I stop giving a shit?This right here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/24 09:29 PM |
| 6 | Very curious on thoughts on this, my ex took off with my daughter at end of OctoberCan you file a kidnapping charge? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/24 02:27 PM |
| 8 | Walked away from my wife and her daughterI agree, but this is a lot to fuckin process. His whole marriage is a lie and that child will be a constant reminder of it. He needs time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Walked away from my wife and her daughterCrazy your parents allowed this. The betrayal is too great here to come back from something like this. Basically the entire marriage is a lie. I would be devastated. I can’t imagine what you are going through. Do what’s best for you, whether you decide to stay or go, but it has to be what YOU want, nobody else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 08:36 AM |
| 7 | Walked away from my wife and her daughterOut of curiosity, what made you get a paternity test? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/23 08:23 AM |
| 1 | I'm a virgin, and a bit afraid of finally having sex. Is there a way to learn how to be good besides, y'know, doing it?Losing your virginity,is a little like riding a bike the first time. You don’t know what you are doing, your nervous,and trying to find your balance how to do it right. Don’t sweat it. It does not have to be this mind blowing experience the 1st time....sex gets better the more experience and comfortable you are. The first time is always a bit awkward....so don’t t place any expectations on yourself or the situation. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 10:16 AM |
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