SouthWestLondonLad Archive

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2	What forms of sports do you recommend besides lifting and bodyweight fitness to get fit? Maybe get into triathlons? Start with a Sprint? Combines a couple of interest and something to aim for. Worked wonders with me. Also can spend hours researching all the kit.	/r/askTRP	22/01/21 07:51 PM
1	Snatching my masculinity from the jaws of self-destruction? Turning 30 soon and man oh man could I use some advice. I am a punk at heart, even though I have a corporate city job in London so I feel you. Just get teeth whitening strips online, do it for like 7 days. Also, David Goggins has a great audio book to kick start things. The fact you are aware and already acknowledging this, consciously, is incredible. You’d be a bloke I’d want to be friends with that’s for sure. Keep striving.	/r/askTRP	22/01/21 11:49 AM
3	Snatching my masculinity from the jaws of self-destruction? Turning 30 soon and man oh man could I use some advice. This is a quality response, and something I’m doing at the moment at 29. I’ve been weak, insecure, messed people around, not treated my body with respect. I’ve whitened my teeth, worked out to the point of obsession, tanned, dyed my hair. Do whatever it takes to do the opposite of what you’ve done. Literally become hardcore. Lock yourself away for three months and forge yourself in the fire. It’s a temporary thing, not forever. You’ve indulged far too much, and now it’s time to look in the mirro…	/r/askTRP	22/01/21 07:55 AM
1	Do you usually directly or indirectly approach? I would tend to go direct, which frames the approach. Doesn’t mean you then can’t bring in observational and talk about boring shit like what type of dog they have or work. Time is precious, make sure she knows what your intentions are and if you get rejected, it’s better than regret right. Also, indirect can come off as a bit weird.	/r/seduction	22/01/21 07:40 AM
1	Is UK cold approach vastly different? I fancy those chances in the US with my British accent haha. It’s a numbers game mate. Keep plugging away. I’m not sure how familiar you are with London but I can give you some specific areas you’re more likely to pick up tail.	/r/seduction	20/01/21 09:31 PM
3	Is UK cold approach vastly different? Are you approaching in bars with a group or on your own? Perhaps try approach but involve whoever you’re with, so approach her and her friends and involve the lads you’re out with. That would be far more casual and breaks the ice. Classic is ‘Hi, friend over there thinks you’re from X, I said I totally disagree, I had to just come over and get to the bottom of this’ - schoolboy stuff but could work!	/r/seduction	20/01/21 09:24 PM
2	Is UK cold approach vastly different? Absolutely! Been here 10 years. Game in general in London is tough with London girls. They’re pretty switched on, majority are career focused. Streetwise. Lots of girls in London do go out to socialise with girls, and catch up. So quite a few in the ‘night out’ approach are going to be zoned in to this. It’s tough. I would think it might come across a bit artificial on a night out. I’d advise your best bet is to day game, a specific area, say SW or West, and give it a shot.	/r/seduction	20/01/21 09:17 PM
15	Is UK cold approach vastly different? I think they’re not so much as aware here, but they’re confused and not used to it. British guys are usually very poor at game, and rely on booze to meet girls... who expect that. They operate heavily in social circles, especially in London. Much like a referral programme. So breaking in to that is tough.	/r/seduction	20/01/21 09:06 PM