South_atlantic_ocean Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	Just got destroyed as a man	Field Report	South_atlantic_ocean	/r/seduction	31/08/20 12:10 PM

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5	To whom it may concern: PLEASE stop bitching about your height Struggled with this for years at just about 5'6"... Worked on my confidence, build, and self-dev. I've had some good dates and fun with girls who are taller than me and to my absolute surprise, I've never had a girl turn me down or be rude about my height on a date. It's kinda nice having a girl who's a bit taller than me (not like a foot taller, but an inch or two) it makes you feel like royalty on the low lmaoo. If I could tell one thing to my younger self it would be to not let height matter.…	/r/seduction	10/09/21 11:02 PM
1	Rejection depression that regard. Big facts	/r/seduction	28/06/21 01:52 AM
1	Guys - how did you go in for the kiss on your date? Went for the kiss on the third date, felt a bit late but better late than never. I learned my lesson a long time ago when it comes to inaction	/r/seduction	04/06/21 04:50 AM
3	Guys - how did you go in for the kiss on your date? I did this twice in the past couple of weeks and it worked. After some flirting/eye contact I’ll say something like “can I kiss ya” or “what are you thinking?” “Abalahagaga what about you?” “I think I wanna kiss ya” Maybe a bit weak but hey you’re asking for consent in a confident manner and respecting their boundaries if they don’t feel comfortable. Simple.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 02:27 AM
2	Exquisite dates: your most creative dates (or date ideas) Soup on a mountain. If you hike and have mountains, woods, or anything with wood, build a fire cook some chicken noodle soup and lay next to each other. Inexperienced but it just worked for me to hook up with a girl today.	/r/seduction	15/05/21 03:25 AM
1	Blew it. It’s not your fault but your responsibility. Good job on blowing off steam here since that’s the first step towards progress... reflection. Who knows why this girl dubbed. I’ve had a similar situation happen to me before, and I’ll be honest I’ve even done it to a couple of girls. Not out of malice really but just because I was too busy and didn’t want to be too invested in that person. It happens. Life sucks sometimes but you did a great job getting your thoughts on (digital) paper. Keep your he…	/r/seduction	03/03/21 12:03 PM
1	What do you bring to the table? Ode adventure. I’d be down to hop on freight trains, live in the wilderness for a few days, travel to a new country, all on the first date. I know how to cook to some degree, I have my own car, I run a few businesses so I have a few bucks to my name. That and I have really nice hair 😎	/r/seduction	02/03/21 09:00 PM
3	Covid daygame full approach footage - shy girl Mans is on some high IQ shit	/r/seduction	26/02/21 11:02 AM
1	I am 17 and have never even kissed a girl. Lol dude you’re probably better off with the “ugly” or “less attractive” girls than the “hot” ones. I haven’t always been the best with girls, had some luck and good times in high school, but now that I live on my own and focus on my own shit... most girls aren’t attractive anymore. Usually the ones that excite me are the “lesser” attractive bunch with real personalities and real lives. That’s just me tho, my point is don’t sweat it man. The hot girls are usually the ones who are only hot and ha…	/r/seduction	11/02/21 01:06 PM
7	How I got the most out January Shabbat? Haha. I only say this because in Judaism there’s a really overlooked concept of Shabbat. Where we take an entire day to do nothing. Which is a bit extreme in many cases but the idea is simple... take a break. This is overlooked by so many people in self development and it’s super important.	/r/seduction	04/02/21 04:48 PM
1	How I got the most out January Hey man that’s so fucking dope. I love it sooo much! I absolutely adore and smile at people who do this stuff for themselves. I started when I was finishing up hs (self development) and ever since I moved out at 18 to my own apartment I cannot tell you how meaningful every moment of life has become. Please please please don’t let this fire die. You’ve got the spark, you’ve got the kindling now keep fueling it. But be super duper careful because you will soon face challenges: winds, storms, hail,…	/r/seduction	04/02/21 04:46 PM
3	20 Years old guys needs help with confidence Do something very uncomfortable everyday until you die. Take a freezing shower, run in the heat, and build discipline. I started making it a habit to find a cute or pretty woman at Walmart to ask for help. This helps completely destroy approach anxiety, and then you can progress to leaving the conversation with something like “thanks, and I really like your hair” or something along those lines. You’ll kill your flirt/compliment anxiety and all that’s left is the close anxiety which you’ll get be…	/r/seduction	10/09/20 04:35 PM
9	Turned 30 as a virgin. Now 1 year later after a few lays and my first relationship Ask for directions, ask female employees for where items are, smile at 1 lad, and do this once a week, then twice then thrice and eventually ask for the number. I can cold approach alright but I can’t close that’s my struggle, but that’s what I’ve been doing lately it helps get rid of the initial nerves.	/r/seduction	05/09/20 12:31 AM
2	How Do You Guys Deal With No Responders, and How To Get Out Of Oneitis? I run an online marketing agency(SEO) and primarily work with home service contractors. And I hear ya on the preparing the night before, believe me I’ve done that too only to get dubbed. The beauty is now you know based on experience that over preparing isn’t always the best thing to do. You should keep your car clean for you only, not because of some chick. Maybe have a pillow and stuff in your trunk for when you want to get cozy yourself not for some chick to fuck. I believe in you bud go crus…	/r/seduction	04/09/20 10:33 AM
2	How Do You Guys Deal With No Responders, and How To Get Out Of Oneitis? You’re ahead of me for even having the balls to ask for her number. I can approach other women and strike casual conversation (strong eye contact too) but have a hard time raising sexual tension. However for the oneitis situation I’m guessing you started to day dream and fantasize about this girl in some way. You have to realize that the person you pieced together in your mind DOES NOT exist. It was simply a thought and never real. I had this happen to me the other day. It sucks but by training …	/r/seduction	04/09/20 12:40 AM
10	Work On Yourself Until They Regret Why They Rejected You Adding on, I was 16 and sort of had my heart broken and that initial anger helped me start my business and encouraged me to scale and work my ass off. I also became more physically and mentally fit. It’s a great tinder and kindling but the longer fuel should come from a higher sense of self love and worth. I still have issues fixating over her and sometimes feel that “teenage revenge fantasy” a couple years later so definitely be careful with this mentality. But use it to spark off the initial d…	/r/seduction	01/09/20 12:37 PM
1	Just got destroyed as a man That’s a really good point. I knew I wasn’t really gonna get anything in return or at least I didn’t have my hopes up. I was planning on moving shortly and did it more or less to at least “get my thoughts out” and didn’t expect it to go so badly lmao. But I really appreciate the advice and wisdom. I’ll definitely lead more with my actions next time.	/r/seduction	01/09/20 10:56 AM
1	Just got destroyed as a man Thank you brother. I needed this typa energy. I’ve definitely been getting over it within the past few hours and I feel myself healing. Thanks all as well!	/r/seduction	31/08/20 11:17 PM
1	Just got destroyed as a man Yeah I think I was already friend zoned anyway but I am glad that I at least spoke my mind. Thank you for the encouragement I highkey needed that.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 04:54 PM
2	Just got destroyed as a man Jesus Christ I’m sorry about that. I’ve come to internalize and really get what Sylvester Stallone meant when he said “life is about how hard you can get hit and keep moving”	/r/seduction	31/08/20 04:54 PM
4	Just got destroyed as a man Thank you brotha, I needed to hear that	/r/seduction	31/08/20 01:05 PM
3	Just got destroyed as a man We've been friends for a while (friendzoned I guess). To be honest I wasn't expecting much I just wanted to do it more for my sake of building confidence and communication but I was not expecting to be bodied and hit so hard like that lol	/r/seduction	31/08/20 01:04 PM
2	Just got destroyed as a man That's a good way to look at it. I actually needed to hear that and I hope I'll never have to go through that again but I guess if I do I've done it before and it won't hurt as much.	/r/seduction	31/08/20 12:58 PM
1	Get this Hey you shot your shot congrats! On to the next one it’s like sales, don’t waste your time on one bad egg. Learn and move on.	/r/seduction	29/08/20 01:12 AM
1	Don’t miss your shot Bro I feel that ode. I went out with this girl who was 21 and a bit taller than me, I’m 19 which also made me a bit antsy tbh, and she told me point blank she thought I was cute and all and I completely blew it. Like it was so bad and I never heard from her again. You’re completely right about shooting your shot before it’s too late. That gave me anxiety and mood swings for a minute, but at least you learn from failure. I’m going out with another girl Sunday (a hike as well) and I’m going to sho…	/r/seduction	28/08/20 11:19 PM
1	Daygame > Nightgame: My insight and analysis Cold selling is how you start selling when you're new. I started my company with $0 and no connections. Same applies in the day gaming world. If you're young and have few connections you gotta do it yourself, it's called a grind.	/r/seduction	28/10/19 09:33 PM
34	Thinking of going out Every Saturday to game and here’s my plan to get rid of Anxiety. What do you think? I’m not allowed to return home until i complete them. OP should def go with that, but I think he is first overcoming the initial anxiety, since you can't really feel personal rejection from someone not willing to give directions.	/r/seduction	19/10/19 01:13 PM
13	Game with low dopamine state? Masturbation fucks your reward system. So it could explain OPs original problem. There's numerous research that shows the benefits of sperm retention	/r/seduction	14/04/19 09:33 PM
9	Tried a cold approach yesterday thanks to this sub and it was exhilarating!! Excellent story brother! Keep up the good work, you'll eventually be fucking a million chicks every day.	/r/seduction	26/01/19 08:24 PM
1	I finally did something. People are rewarded in public for what they practice for years in private. (Heard it somewhere forgot who said it). Anyway, keep it up!	/r/seduction	17/11/18 02:41 PM
361	Tonight I went from kissless virgin to nearly losing my virginity Aghhhh my son was boutta smash. Good luck next time homie	/r/seduction	01/11/18 01:52 PM
2	27 year old never been in a relationship Don't bring up that you're a virgin unless asked, even then play it off as if it doesn't bother you. Exercise daily, meditate daily, eat right, take cold showers, and you'll feel more confident about yourself which will translate into game confidence	/r/seduction	19/09/18 01:46 PM
9	You can do it! An island? What are you one of them pirates down south?	/r/seduction	19/09/18 01:29 PM
2	How do I deal with getting teased with women I have been talking to? If it's during the early stage's of meeting someone they're usually shit testing you to see how you'll handle their insults. Either ignore them all together as if you don't even acknowledge her presence, or flip it on her. If It's with people you know maybe do the latter as it'll show them you can play the same game, usually people don't like a taste of their own medicine. It all depends on your personality but all comes down to how masculine are you. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-sh…	/r/seduction	25/08/18 03:58 AM